STOP looking for love, DO *THIS* Instead | Sadhguru
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- Sadhguru says stop looking for love. But if we do that, where do we find love then? In this motivational speech that he had with Juhi Chawla, he talks about relationships, loving everyone, and yourself.
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"Love is not something that you do, it is something that you can become. If you’re willing, you can become love." 🙏🙏🙏🙏
How?
@@chriswilliam6751that's the most difficult thing
@@chriswilliam6751: Love is Life. All, everything that I understand, I understand only because I love !
Everything is, everything exists, only because I love ... (Leo Tolstoy)
Haha... What do you even mean by that word salad? Love is an action, not a being. Prove me wrong 😂
omg
Sadhguru explained and give many examples amazingly, love is becoming, not taking an action. I think by becoming love, we get to feel everything beautiful around us, the people, the world. By becoming love we stay away from every anxiety and stressful ideas and notions.
The truth is we should look for love in ourselves because to look for the perfect person is being dependent on other people for happiness and love YOU SHOULD 100% LOOK FOR LOVE but remember it should be independent
self growth is first.....rest comes by itself💕
In our school education system... Sadhguru should be a mentor... ❤❤❤
You know I’ve done it all. I desperately wanted love from my father that abandoned me my mother who ignored me, only to point out my flaws, to outside to the “friends” and the women who led me on,used me and abused me. I’ve tried within and I tried to ignore it and give up just to be lonely and now 40!!!! Their is not love their never was all. Love is a painful emotion and sadly the only thing I feel is emptiness. I am hallow…My life has been honestly miserable,lonely cold and bitter.
People say that I need to lighten up and be HAPPY…HOW? The only things that have kept this person(I’m losing myself) alive is anger and hate?!?!
Hey man if you feel like talking then I m here. Just drop any social of yours
I understand your frustration and it is normal for you to feel that way after all you have been through. Emotionally abusive childhood leaves us vulnerable to people who feed on our need to be loved. Nice people exist but they are rare to find. That is why you have to find joy in being yourself first because others can and will hurt you in some way. It is sad but until someone good comes into your life you only have yourself.
Even I understand ur feelings because I am on same sutation😢
@@sanskarjain5809__deep_shah
I feel and understand what your feeling
In other words...love is already inside us
Love is sweetness of emotion, love is something you become ❤
Just listening to Sadhguruji's voice makes me calm and keeps my mind at peace ☮️
because he talks with pure logic and reason
without logic/reason we can't be really peaceful/loving
STOP listening to Sadhguru. He is no more Guru since he was in WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM 🤮🤮👎
He is a lier now.
Just try to understand logic who be calm by tune he is blind logic guy
There are many people who talk shit about him, I wonder what are they listening to.are they listening what they want to listen or the words spoken by sadhguru. Thanks for ur words Guruji . Glad he’s there in my generation
Its so hard to find someone that love you back with the same passion you love them
Love is Life ♥️ thanks Sadhguru
Love happens within you. Comment 🙏down below if you agree!
... absolutely, but it is triggered by Sadhguru-san🦋🌟🙏🏻
🙏🙏🙏🙏
There is love in my heart for others, but not enough for myself, I've just got to accept my fate I'll die alone
Same situation here, if u are female we can try ❤ love
Im just waiting upon God cause he promised but ive been single for a really long time
Love is addressed but when love spill over, it turns to compassion, which is unconditional radiation of your inner being lands you in a state of bliss and ecstasy.
So true no one can make u happy only u can make it lively never run orBEG for it that's love TRUTH!
how can anyone can make me happy if i don't want to be happy
1. Becoming is also doing something.
2. No matter how loving you become there wil be people who backstab you and put injustice on your way. Will you stil be loving?
It’s not that you trust someone won’t back stab you - hurting each other to some capacity is guaranteed. But the trust is in knowing you will be there for you, you will be okay either way
After a lifetime of surviving unloving relationships, the tipping point came with betrayal and exploitation from my own son. It was like the phenomenon of Critical Mass. inherently, I knew that it I did not choose to survive, that pain would kill me. So I moved thru the cumulative grief of my life into a clearing where I was welcomed by the loving embrace of ME. I became the love that saved my life. And with that love has come the knowingness that I can create Everything else I will ever want or need. So I am blissfully and gratefully creating My New World, from the inside out, and within!
So accept the Pain. It is there to reach you how to become Love.
Sadhguru never fails to inspire me every time I listen to him.
STOP listening to Sadhguru. He is no more Guru since he was in WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM 🤮🤮👎
He is a lier now.
This is very powerful. Thank you Guru
That lady sitting with Sadhguru is so beautiful
She's one of the best 90s actresses of Bollywood, Juhi Chawla
Miss India actress
I had so many girls wants me but my communication and confidence made girls upset I don’t know how to improve trying everyday. One girl I wanted but don’t know if it will come back I felt like we ment to be.
This is the wisdom of the sages, I am greatly shocked by this wonderful teaching. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
He got all this wisdom by taking marijuana regularly. Search his past in internet
Thank you Sadhguru! I'm getting older, my friends are getting married and I'm afraid that I can't find love. I hope to apply this new mindset 🙏
Glad that this video helped!
STOP listening to Sadhguru. He is no more Guru since he was in WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM 🤮🤮👎
He is a lier now.
Same 😔
❤
Same
What a timing man!! Seriously!!! I just got humiliated by my best friends for being excited .. just like every other time... And now I'm just sick of wishing for the best for everyone... When I know everyone out there is only either to dominate me or to just mock at me for my dressing for my excitement for my jokes and everything else... I just wanted to stay single until i cleared my goal... But there are times when I feel like everything is in vain!! And this moment is one of those.... I just want to tell them that I'd never want to see their faces.. but i don't want to regret it all later! So basically... Here I am just cringing and crying alone bcz i don't even tryst my family my mom anymore... She spills my secrets out in open and listens to my complaints against dad like she's doing me a favour while she herself ends up crying about him all the time... But when I say it. It doesn't really make sense to her! That's after I told her that I wanted to die and in that moment she had lost it... She was ready to do anything for me. And see what she did Today! On the dinner table..
So I was like scrolling through UA-cam shorts and Taylor Swift's song flashback when you met me came up!! Even in my worst times you could see the best of me!! So u was like how do I just run away from everything so that I could find someone like that who could love me and see the best of me at my worst... That seems to be rn! And then this came!! Probably to prevent me from doing stupid stuff and getting back into my goal!
I know nothing .. also i was watching queen when I realised that when life breaks you at kne point you do need someone to fall back upon .. like family friends... But what if someday someone left you or you left them for someone and then you had no one to fall back on!!
Yeah
A pathetic feeling that is
I wish no one else has to ever go through that!
Glad this video helped you! Sadhguru said that when you find love inside you, you don't have to rely to other people for it. Your best friend, your mother - you can never change them nor control their actions. What you can only control is your actions and what you are feeling. Hope you find love within you today :D
how r you rn?
When human experiences pass through the company of sages and saints, they shatter all past myths. This is exactly what Sadhguru is doing now.
You still have a lifetime ahead of you, to find love in your heart.
Absolutely beautiful!!! Thank you so very much ❤
The power of not being powerful is love
One doesn't become love... one is already LOVE ❤
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✌🏽☝🏽 = III
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☝🏽 = I
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
Count fingers to determine my no., or check roman digits downward ⬇️
Thankyou sadgharu great words of wisdom ❤️😊🙏
Thank you Sadhguru! I needed to know this. Love is sweetness of emotion, it makes the air vibrant, it makes everything beautiful. I can be loving towards everyone and everything. And conjugal love isn't necessary for survival, is it? I am conflicted about it right now.
✨ Wts ap me at,
Count fingers to decode my no.,also wrote in Roman digits ⬇️
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
☝🏽 = I
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
0 = 0
🖐🏽✌🏽✌🏽 = IX
✌🏽☝🏽 = III
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
☝🏽 = I
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
Count fingers to determine my no., or check roman digits downward ⬇️
There is nothing such as Love in the world anymore in whatever sense its all materialistic selfish world in every relation..the purifying the word love does not exist anymore🥺😔
We hope that you do not lose hope. Sadhguru says that Love is something that can be found within you. Hope you find love today!
@@BetterinFiveMinutes right
meditate for a year 6 hours to 8 hours a day. then you find love in you. haha no other way . just be aware and watchful
First explore your body and mind before exploring others... Naturally one will have greater understanding in any relationship formed😉
@@BetterinFiveMinutes ty so much but I really can't luv anymore except for the words of our gr8 guru he has become everything to me now🙏true devotion..his spiritual words hv changed me totally from suicidal to spiritual 😊 bliss ty
I'm so happy to find sadhguru and watching his videos make me happy. Thank you
STOP listening to Sadhguru. He is no more Guru since he was in WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM 🤮🤮👎
He is a lier now.
✨ Wts ap me at,
Count fingers to decode my no.,also wrote in Roman digits ⬇️
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
☝🏽 = I
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
0 = 0
🖐🏽✌🏽✌🏽 = IX
✌🏽☝🏽 = III
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
☝🏽 = I
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
Count fingers to determine my no., or check roman digits downward ⬇️
Love is all around
There's nothing like this man!
Love ... in tamil ... will u give the same explanation Mr Satguru!!!!!
Love ❤️ is wow ... Love ❤️ God ❤ 👌 👏 🙌 ❤️
It's something that u are . Just flow because you are love..
Love this video ❤ Thank you 🙏
Thank you Sadhguru ji ❤ 🙏
You Telling Very True Guruji 👏👍🏼🙏
i need to hear this daily
And how do you become love?
I don't know either.. only after losing the relationship I start to look at everything and everything is filled with sadness. a beautiful lake. beautiful trees. joyful laughing people. all I see is sadness. I'm trying to become love too so I can see the love and beauty in everything again without the one that gave it to me..
Needed this ❤❤❤❤❤
And why then we want to be with one person only, we choose that person and want to become vulnerable and emotional connected?
This tendency to connect ONLY with opposite gender is lust and not love. Nothing wrong in it, but it is not what Sadhguru is talking about in this video.
Love is vital like air,food and water 🙏
how to be loving while heart broken?
Needed this
Incredible 😊❤️
Yu are the best man and yu speek so much wisewords thank yu dear man ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
STOP listening to Sadhguru. He is no more Guru since he was in WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM 🤮🤮👎
He is a lier now.
Romantic love though?that is something i can never achieve.Never even held a girl's hand till date forget about all that other lovey dovey stuff.Should i just accept my fate?what should i do?its all abput the looks and im really losing myself since im a 0/10 in that department
Put some effort ....
Try to put yourself in places where you can have opportunities to engage more with people just be a little more social irrespective of their gender just interact lovingly perhaps you'll do better
Let this be your honour : Always to love more than ye are loved , and never be the second ! ( Nietzsche, Zarathoustra Part 1, Ch. 18) We are asleep until we fall in love. (Leo Tolstoy) The way is not in the sky, the way is in your heart. (Buddha) Love is when you sit beside someone doing nothing, yet you feel perfectly happy ! (Suidas Lexicon - Greece : Suidas Lexicon is 1100 years old !) The way you make love is the way God will be with you ! (Rumi) Love will find a way through paths where wolves fear to prey (Byron) Love one another, but make not a bond of love : Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls ! (Kahlil Gibran) Love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as grave ... (Song of Solomon 8.) Where they love, they do not desire and where they desire they do not love (S. Freud) And Love became the world's origine and the world's ruler, yet littered its path is with flowers and blood, flowers and blood...! (Knut Hamsun) Ultimately, Love is everything ! (AMOR OMNIA) (M. Scott Peck)
Wonderfull message 🙏
Namaskaram Sadhguru Ji.
💜🖤💜🖤💜
To me love is God. We need to get back to building strong families and morals and skip the social media and learn to interact with others in person. As a 50yo single not by choice man i have seen the collapse of society first hand. I still remember when I was younger simply dating someone because it was someone I had seen often in my daily life. It was not love at first sight but we could often fall in love by simply giving one another a chance. Im not saying its totally gone today but its become very very difficult to connect with others with all this tech vs simpler times when all we had was the people we saw in our daily life. The web has literally drove a wedge between this type of connection. More and more people are single and dont want kids today but then wonder why they end up all alone later in life. God help us! 🙏
Pranam jv 🙏
If those who have discovered the secret of the human cage are able to understand what they feel, it is a blessing.🔑
Amashanthi 🔑🙏
Love is me
Then after accepting everything they do why do take advantage of us .. makes us feel not good enough for them
So love doesn't matter to anyone these days? What is wrong with this world?
So like someone told me once. I'd learn to love him. All I did was resent him. Felt trapped and did everything to not be present. What the heck people believe. But love to me is most important. If it isn't there it never will be.
u will love him with enough distance physical or otherwise ❤❤
Love is..... life
- Stundent (good will hunting)
Eventually i died in my love relationship and it ended with a bad breakup. Sadhguru ji pls also tell how to pull oneself up after being dead and depressed from this. 🙏
Hello! We also have a video of Sadhguru about depression: How to Overcome Depression - ua-cam.com/video/PHY6m9GA8zI/v-deo.html, hope this helps! 🙏
Namashkhar ji
Namaste ji
Makes sense hopefully found someone sadhguru ji and u are right sir love and respect ji 🙏
Exactly
I'm supposed to find it a long time ago. 😁😂 Namaste! 🙂🙏
Sg eyes close krke ecstasy toh nhi aaye kabhi but stability aaye hai
That's what they don't know it can't be done. Maybe they should know so they adjust :)
Respect your valuable message ♥️
STOP listening to Sadhguru. He is no more Guru since he was in WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM 🤮🤮👎
He is a lier now.
I did this and im single for two years and i hate and deep inside im looking for live just act like i don't need it
I hate it
Basically you are saying this advice is not practical correct ? He himslef is Sorrounded by lot of people and money.
not bad
You don't need anything or somebody before you feel loved.. when you become aware of who you are You realise you actually need nothing haha
I'm gonna die alone 😭😭
Nobody dies with company lol
You’re beautiful by the way.
I can accept you 😂
We all die alone eventually love 😂😊😅
Everyone dies alone
That's called a grading and it isn't kihon :)
did you understand anything?
Beyond Words
STOP listening to Sadhguru. He is no more Guru since he was in WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM 🤮🤮👎
He is a lier now.
Please ye mujhe koi batao mai 1yrs se pareshaan hu 😭
Merko love feeling se dur hona hai,
Merko Bhagat Singh jaise puri jindgi Bharat desh me jhokni hai
Aur me distrect ho jata hu....
Please koi help krdo mai social media pr iska answer dhund raha pr mil nhi rha😶
Amazing ❤️
The only person's words I believe is true
STOP listening to Sadhguru. He is no more Guru since he was in WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM 🤮🤮👎
He is a lier now.
Thanks I got the answer of my life which I have been struggling since years or may be ages
I too got answers for all my questions 🙏
Too true.
STOP listening to Sadhguru. He is no more Guru since he was in WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM 🤮🤮👎
He is a lier now.
I mostly become miserable because other people are negative to me, even my son. Sometimes you can t walk away from it.
So i gess i am loving, i just have to stop caring that others are not loving. It s not my problem.
Sorry about your son :( why is he negative towards you ?
@@martaolivia5213 that is resolved, it was just a normal discussion, he is 9 years and that is now the beginning of puberty. But i found someone who have me advice.
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STOP listening to Sadhguru. He is no more Guru since he was in WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM 🤮🤮👎
He is a lier now.
Yes it's not in my destiny
✨ Wts ap me at,
Count fingers to decode my no.,also wrote in Roman digits ⬇️
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
☝🏽 = I
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
0 = 0
🖐🏽✌🏽✌🏽 = IX
✌🏽☝🏽 = III
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
☝🏽 = I
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
Count fingers to determine my no., or check roman digits downward ⬇️
A=B , B=C, C=A I DIDN'T UNDESTAND....love is sweet emotion towards anything this is what he said hogaya...
SINGLE FOREVER ❤
You posted this 2 years ago I’m here to remind you that you lied to yourself
Damn 😮 @@Gamingcod251
Yes just follow me best way of life no need man
💖
it's about sweetness of emotions ........😄that is only thing matter to us
even we are persuing excellence/power or persuing entertainment/servival
Love is not loving somebody but 🤯 Love is something you become 🤯
Its not about anybody
if somebody come's we can share it
if nobody comes we can sit here
with eyes closed and still be loving
whats the problem?
Nihilistic laga thora thora 👉👈
Thank You for access. A Human being is longing. So then all my life, I lived guided by my familys, belief. A sweetness of my emotion. It is my sweet emotion. I created some form of love out of let's say nothing. It has become a bliss ful experience. By the way. I call Him, God, good God. Who came by my side seeing that By no fault of mine, I was in a hard place. He intervined, to pull me mentally from deep depression. Believe it There was an assassination attempt, on our life, my partners and mine.
Forget the justice system. It is broke.
Like the Song says, I want to know where love is. It is good, to Teach The Human family.
The art of love or loving.
Perhaps if a door of opportunity in front of me was in sight, I could trade emotions for , pursuit of a position.
Who needs emotions, who needs love. Supporting buildings, bigger better. Maybe building people is no longer important.
I should have the right to expose Ice hearts.
✨ Wts ap me at,
Count fingers to decode my no.,also wrote in Roman digits ⬇️
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
☝🏽 = I
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
0 = 0
🖐🏽✌🏽✌🏽 = IX
✌🏽☝🏽 = III
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
☝🏽 = I
🖐🏽✌🏽☝🏽 = VIII
Count fingers to determine my no., or check roman digits downward ⬇️
If you don't want people to look for love, why do you Sadhguru makes videos and gatherings where people start looking for your love? lol
In hindi
Without God u cannot experience love and the rest is small talk
this is why all (so called) successful people lack love... their love life is a management and they are love managers .... that reminds me of one man famous around our place as 'love charger' .... he is nowadays in jail. Also, the way juhi reacted to the alien language, she is so innocent and a reason why so many people love these miss inida's, miss universe's.....😂
🕯️🙏🕯️
Well,I'm single
Of course only videos of heterosexual relationships, disappointing. Besides that, beautiful message
This is someone reposting Sadhguru's video that has been edited, if that makes you feel any better.
Yes yur right wish I wasent like this needie I am waiting on what ever but it’s not happying I’m a fool
Well , i guess sadhguru didnt love his late wife then, someone tell me what was that , love or kindess or pleasure . And this video actually didnt age well . Jai bhole nath
Love is a poison