Adding a Date of Death to a Headstone, How Inscription of Headstones is Done in a Cemetery

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  • @ddewittfulton
    @ddewittfulton 11 місяців тому +31

    99 years old! That a good run! Also, great work! Patience, skill, and focus at their finest!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      Thanks a ton and I hope you have an amazing end to the year and epic new one.

  • @jpe1
    @jpe1 11 місяців тому +16

    Not sure why UA-cam suggested this, but it was quite interesting, thank you for making it. This is timely for me, because back when my dad died in 1991 my mom had a stone made with his and her names on it, his dates of birth and death, and of course just her date of birth. I didn’t know I could have someone come to the cemetery to sandblast the date in, I assumed I would have to take the stone somewhere to get it updated… nice to know there is an easier option. This video is a timely reminder that I need to get that done for mom’s stone.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +4

      Well I am glad this video showed up for your and helped you to understand how it is done. I hope you have a great end to the year and an amazing next year as well.

  • @rebapuck5061
    @rebapuck5061 11 місяців тому +14

    The few times it crossed my mind to wonder, I guess I thought the stone was returned to the shop. Thanks for the video. It's amazing the number of interesting subjects on UA-cam.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +6

      In some places where they do not have someone to do it on location they do take it back to a shop. I hope you have an amazing coming year.

  • @mikemurdockii5189
    @mikemurdockii5189 Рік тому +16

    You are very talented sir. Thank you so much for taking time outta your day to show us this. You did a great job!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +6

      Thank you a ton and I hope you are having an amazing year. Stay epic.

  • @tomsmith3045
    @tomsmith3045 Рік тому +17

    Really nice work! I didn't know Lithachrome still existed. I worked doing this about 40 years ago, and except for the double sided tape the process is the same. We'd use old stencil pieces instead of duct tape for the edges. One suggestion? Wear gloves! If you've never had a hose break at the nozzle you're lucky. Leather gloves will give you a second or so protection, without it that blast stream can cut your flesh to the bone just about instantly. Never seen it happen to a hand, but we had a guy almost lose his foot at the ankle when a shop hose broke. Cool to see this process is still so much the same...although I'm sure you're cutting stencil by computer now, not plastic letters on a pneumatic press, or by hand with a knife. Thanks for bringing back the memory!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +13

      Thank you for taking the time to let me know about the leather gloves. Also yes the stencils are all now cut by computer, we have the stuff laying around from before we switched, but we have used computers now for a while, a machine cuts everything out and for the most part it does a great job. I hope you are doing amazing by the way.

    • @ColonelSandersLite
      @ColonelSandersLite 11 місяців тому +3

      If you did this 40 years ago, maybe you have an answer to a question that comes to mind -
      When did using this sort of sandblasting technique become the norm? I'm guessing that before that tech came around, the stones were just being carved by hand or was there a forgotten intermediate technology?

    • @tomsmith3045
      @tomsmith3045 11 місяців тому +6

      @@ColonelSandersLite I think sandblasting went back to the 60s or earlier. When I first saw it done, though, the letters were all hand cut into the stencil. Sometimes we'd still have to duplicate those, you can see old stones with numerals that are hand-made. And we'd have patterns on file that were rolled up reverse carbon images. There were no copy machines, so you'd trace letters on vellum, with carbon paper face up underneath. That put a carbon line on the vellum. Then, you'd run the rubber stencil with gasoline or lacquer thinner, put the vellum on top, and rub with a cloth or bit of leather. That would transfer the image to the stencil, then you'd cut it.

    • @tomsmith3045
      @tomsmith3045 11 місяців тому +7

      @@ColonelSandersLite Before sandblasting, and still used for some things when I watched my grandfather do it, was a pneumatic chisel. We still had those, but I never learned that skill. Granite is so hard, it was never hammer and chisel, but the little pneumatic chisels, with carbide tips even, would cut away at it. I never saw it done for lettering, except for round raised lettering. That was always the pinnacle...very rare. Even with sandblasting you'd have to shape each letter by hand. One mistake, you blow the letter and the stone. Now I'm curious - do people still shape the flowers by hand, with a sandblaster? We used to do that, to make the leaves and petals three dimensional, but a lot of places were just cutting them flat.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +7

      Yes, but shockingly not that often and it takes a lot of practice before anyone should shape carve a flower. I have only done a couple dozen flowers over multiple years and always practice a little before touching a stone to do one.

  • @MikeDial
    @MikeDial 11 місяців тому +5

    I always assumed it was chiseled. Sandblasting makes more sense, I guess. Thanks for clearing this up.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +3

      I have messed around with a chisel and hammer before on a junk stone, honestly I am super glad we sand blast, it was a lost of work. Nothing but respect for the people that once did it that way. Have an amazing rest of your year.

  • @lizchase1375
    @lizchase1375 2 роки тому +15

    Thank you for educating us on the procedure. I always thought the cost was already put into a pre-paid funeral service, but found out it is not. I suppose costs to add a date of death varies.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +11

      Honestly the entire funeral service industry varies, including cemetery rules. Lot of it has to do with location, local tradition, and the sexton who sets the rules in smaller communities.

    • @pamacons
      @pamacons 2 місяці тому

      It definitely varies on if the final dates are prepaid or not. I'd always recommend prepaying as costs are continuing to rise just make sure someone knows you have that paid for especially if you did so directly through a monument company

  • @makeminetexas3494
    @makeminetexas3494 11 місяців тому +4

    I do a lot of genealogy, so I spend a lot of time in cemeteries and I have always wondered about this.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Glad this video helped. Hope you are having a great rest of the year.

  • @jimbo1959
    @jimbo1959 6 місяців тому +1

    An Amazing trade that is very much taken for granted! Great job Don!!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks a ton, I hope you are having an amazing year.

    • @jimbo1959
      @jimbo1959 5 місяців тому

      @@DonaldWilson You too!!

  • @aintquitewright1480
    @aintquitewright1480 11 місяців тому +2

    I knew a guy from West Virginia who did this back in the late 1960's. I was fascinated then and glad I got to see it for myself. Thanks!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      Thanks a ton and I hope you have an epic year to come.

  • @nancyzehr3679
    @nancyzehr3679 2 роки тому +3

    What a cool job! Addin my dad's dates here shortly. It's nice to learn the process.
    Thanks!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +2

      It is an interesting job for sure and it really helps to put things in perspective. I hope you have an amazing day.

  • @oldoldpilgrim7898
    @oldoldpilgrim7898 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you. I've been curious about that for decades.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      Glad the video helped and hope you are having a great year.

  • @davehue9517
    @davehue9517 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for the demonstration.... I have the very same issue on a gravestone and you gave great information

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      I am glad it helped and I hope you are doing amazing, and getting ready for an epic next year.

  • @justadbeer
    @justadbeer 11 місяців тому +5

    Very interesting. I also couldn't help but notice that the deceased passed on my birthday : (

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +3

      That is one reason that doing headstones gives you a lot of introspective, every once in a while you get one with a date you take personal, like your birthday and way more than often you place dates of people younger than you. I hope you have many more years and fill them with joy.

  • @remi1239
    @remi1239 3 місяці тому +1

    Nice job! I am carving my stones by hand. Of course this is not as perfect as it is by sandblasting but it gives me great satisfaction.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  3 місяці тому +1

      That is super cool, hand doing anything gives great satisfaction, but working stone by hand is next level. Hope you have a great experience.

  • @w7jhb
    @w7jhb 11 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for sharing this information

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      My pleasure and thanks for the comment. I hope you have a great rest of the year.

  • @mitchd949
    @mitchd949 11 місяців тому +4

    Interesting! I had wondered if some sort of carbide tipped, router-like tool was used. Nice demonstration.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      Thank you it is a interesting job, glad you enjoyed the video.

  • @pattimessenger6214
    @pattimessenger6214 2 роки тому +4

    Fantastic! I never knew how that was done. It looks great.

  • @sherryjohnson2152
    @sherryjohnson2152 11 місяців тому +1

    That was excellent work, it came out perfect.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      thanks a ton, hope you have an amazing end to this year and even better next year.

    • @sherryjohnson2152
      @sherryjohnson2152 11 місяців тому

      @@DonaldWilson thank you, i hope you have a wonderful Christmas and a great new year ☺

  • @londonkyguy
    @londonkyguy 9 місяців тому +1

    That is a lot of careful work .

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks, I hope you are doing amazing.

  • @Kevin04102
    @Kevin04102 11 місяців тому +1

    Cedar Crest Cemetery looks to be a beautiful place, as is your work.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      It is a super tranquil place with really good views, so not a bad place to spend a day for sure.

  • @johnjacquard5095
    @johnjacquard5095 11 місяців тому +1

    I do this. Very enjoyable work

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      It is a super nice job and it does give you a lot of time to reflect. I hope you have an amazing rest of your year.

  • @ChaiLatte13
    @ChaiLatte13 11 місяців тому +1

    I have wondered about this. thank you!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for being amazing, hope you have a great coming year.

  • @karenburns9952
    @karenburns9952 6 місяців тому +1

    Very interesting, thankyou!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  5 місяців тому +2

      You're welcome. I hope you are having a great year.

    • @karenburns9952
      @karenburns9952 5 місяців тому

      @@DonaldWilson Thankyou. I’m having a great year. Enjoying my garden and family! Staying for away from any “news”, and my friends who watch the news. How’s your year going. This video made me realize that my cousins husband makes tombstones in upstate NY. I’m going to ask him about his technique.

  • @rickbrown4039
    @rickbrown4039 Рік тому +2

    Great job man . Did that job for over 40 years .

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +3

      It is an interesting job for sure, you get a lot of perspective and time to think. I hope you are doing amazing.

    • @rickbrown4039
      @rickbrown4039 11 місяців тому +2

      @@DonaldWilson
      I have retired now and enjoying watching others do these jobs . Keep up the good work 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @teresamadrid6701
    @teresamadrid6701 3 роки тому +4

    That's really cool!

  • @monteirolobato6830
    @monteirolobato6830 11 місяців тому +1

    Lovely job.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you, I hope you have a great rest of your year.

  • @g-bgcg
    @g-bgcg 11 місяців тому +2

    Not a big fan of the abbreviated month vs a smaller font with the entire word spelled out but I guess that is a preference of the purchaser or person laid to rest. The design of the entire gravestone is gorgeous. Thanks for the video.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      All of that is done by the design team, with the family or from pre approval from the purchaser, but I agree. I like the full word more, thank you for the compliment and I hope you are having a great end to your year.

  • @aaronsaunders6974
    @aaronsaunders6974 5 місяців тому +1

    that final touch was handsome

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks a ton and hope you are having a great start to the year.

  • @cuckooclockebay6828
    @cuckooclockebay6828 9 місяців тому +1

    Fantastic video could you please tell me what type of hammer is used to hammer in lead lettering on a headstone and what weight would you suggest thanks

  • @janisi9262
    @janisi9262 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you; I've always wondered about this and had just assumed that the stone was taken to the manufacturer and a drilling process was utilized. I was very wrong.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Well I glad this video helped, I hope you have an amazing coming year.

  • @Foxybiker72
    @Foxybiker72 Рік тому +1

    Very neat job indeed

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +1

      Thank you, it is really nice to get out and see places, and I get a lot of perspective from it for sure.

  • @avalon1rae
    @avalon1rae Місяць тому +1

    Thank you

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Місяць тому +1

      Not problem, hope you have a great year.

  • @robertwadeexpertkidsdentist
    @robertwadeexpertkidsdentist 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  6 місяців тому +1

      Not a problem, hope you are having an amazing year.

  • @rcnelson
    @rcnelson 11 місяців тому +3

    Obviously the taping won't work in winter weather like we have around here. Does the blaster wait until spring?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      Yah once it gets to cold we can not do any sand blasting outside of in shop, there is way to much of a chance for something to go wrong. One of the biggest things is like you said, once it is to cold the tape or adhesive will not stick.

  • @drockjr
    @drockjr Рік тому +1

    Hey, thank you for this. Super neat

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +2

      Thanks a ton, hope you are having an amazing year.

    • @drockjr
      @drockjr Рік тому

      Would you recommend polishing or washing or scrubbing or any clean-up if needed? Or is it straight-up good to go?

  • @truthsayers8725
    @truthsayers8725 11 місяців тому +1

    we will be adding my dad's dates to his and my mom's stone in a very short time, as he is dealing with hospice right now. thanks for showing this

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +3

      Sorry your family is going through that. I really hope you all the best.

  • @dr_pepsi_4831
    @dr_pepsi_4831 15 днів тому

    What size air compressor do you use for your sandblasting out in the field like that?

  • @ned_mograph5957
    @ned_mograph5957 2 роки тому +4

    Great video! Thanks for sharing! I'm doing my first sandblasting engraving project and was wondering
    1. what brand of stencil filler you use when your in your shop?
    2. What brand/grit sand do you load into your sandblaster?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +4

      3 M for the stencil filler, we use multiple blasting mediums, but mostly Stone Blast 1500 36/60 Grit. I often though also use the sand from the recycling system from our shop booths. Hope this helps.

    • @irmajasso-mendez4333
      @irmajasso-mendez4333 2 роки тому +1

      How do you correct wrong yr of death w/o redoing whole stone? They put 2013 but should be 2019. Got a quote for $250 for one number! Any idea fir a home job? Its on black granite w painted white numbers. We thought maybe convert the 3 to a 9 w a dremel tool. You think or not? What type of white paint would we use to be consistent.

    • @REVNUMANEWBERN
      @REVNUMANEWBERN 11 місяців тому

      IF it's the engravers fault let them redo it at THEIR cost, but if someone gave them the wrong year well then............@@irmajasso-mendez4333

    • @jimthesoundman8641
      @jimthesoundman8641 11 місяців тому

      @@irmajasso-mendez4333 I think the only correct way is to sandblast out a square, glue in a square that fills in that space to make it flush and level again, then re-sandblast the correct number. The original company should be willing to correct their own mistake if they made it, if not, take them to small claims court.
      You could probably rig up a homemade stencil and homemade sandblast kit, or try to do it with a dremel, but I'm certain it will look like a hot mess when you are finished, and your botch job will be there for all eternity. Is that really how you want your loved one to be remembered?

    • @irmajasso-mendez4333
      @irmajasso-mendez4333 11 місяців тому

      @@jimthesoundman8641 just saw your advise. Thk you. No of course not, wouldn't want a hot mess. The sm claims court idea...can you elaborate if fault of error is unverifiable.

  • @StonesAndSand
    @StonesAndSand 2 роки тому +2

    For no larger nozzle than you're using, it would be a lot easier with a 3/8" blast hose (from Marco). I can't stand trying to fight a 1/2" hose in that position because it always feels like it wants to slip out of my hand.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +2

      I do agree a larger hose would probably feel better under control. Thanks for the info.

    • @MondoMiami
      @MondoMiami Рік тому +1

      You need to work out more.

  • @dennisk5818
    @dennisk5818 11 місяців тому +1

    Nice to know video. And here I thought you used small chisels and hammers, like the ancients did. 😁

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      I am going to be honest I have tried it on a random junk stone with a hammer and chisel and I have nothing but respect for the fact people once did that. I hope you have a great rest of your year.

    • @dennisk5818
      @dennisk5818 11 місяців тому

      I was pulling your leg. Does your industry still use manual lettering? @@DonaldWilson

  • @Alex-Mouse
    @Alex-Mouse Рік тому +3

    I also worked in a granite workshop, making tombstones. We made portraits and drawings by hand. And letters too.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +3

      Very cool. I hope you enjoy what you do, it can be a really fun and fulfilling job, especially when you get to make something really nice.

  • @carldaniels4827
    @carldaniels4827 11 місяців тому +2

    I have a question related to engraving headstones. When the person's name is added WHY is the name in ALL CAPITAL LETTERS? This thought travels the same idea that is on birth certificate, drivers license, home title, insurance, marriage license, social security card, taxes, vehicle title,, excetera?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      I honestly am not sure why it is done that way, it seems to just be the norm. Interesting question though. I will try asking around and see if someone has a good answer to that.

  • @maryreed5463
    @maryreed5463 2 роки тому +4

    For years I've wondered how this process works.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +1

      Yah it has changed from the days of the chisel, glad this helped you see how it is done. Stay epic

  • @Shootingstarcomics
    @Shootingstarcomics 11 місяців тому +1

    Yesterday I went to the graveyard with my mom and she asked me how they were going to add the date of death, we talked about it a minute and then BOOM! this video pops up.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      It is strange how life works out that way. I hope you are having a great finish to the year.

  • @ninefingermining8694
    @ninefingermining8694 6 місяців тому +1

    What do you use for your blasting What material ?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  5 місяців тому +1

      Sand or Blasting aluminum oxide. Most of the times I use the recycled stuff from one of the blasting booths.

  • @pmccoy8924
    @pmccoy8924 11 місяців тому +2

    Always wondered how this was performed in the field.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Glad this video helped and I hope you have a great rest of your year.

  • @David-hh7nc
    @David-hh7nc Місяць тому +1

    I have a question a relative of mine passed away almost a year and a half in my family paid a company to put just the death date and it’s been over a year and a half. Is that normal just to put the year on a stone that’s already been in the cemetery.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Місяць тому +1

      The whole industry is currently backed up, for our my area, around a year wait time is not shocking, but some areas are fast, some are more behind. I would contact them though and find out what is going on, just to remind them you are waiting.

  • @chrisgalang4381
    @chrisgalang4381 2 роки тому +1

    Hi! Great work. Question, can you share the details of compressor you use? Thanks!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +1

      Yes, when I go in this week I will get the info on all the stuff I use. I am just waiting till it thaws here in Colorado to do more inscriptions also.

  • @evanosburn718
    @evanosburn718 11 місяців тому +1

    I wiped my camera lens 10 times while Watchung this video

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Sand blasting is dusty, but I also had to put a shield piece over my lens to protect it from damage, which might have also contributed to it being not as clear. I hope you have an amazing year though.

  • @barrymarshall110
    @barrymarshall110 11 місяців тому +1

    How would you change what is already there, like if a child’s name on the back of a headstone was misspelled?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      That is a serious mistake, a proof is usually sent out for approval before a headstone is blasted because what ever is done is in stone. For the company I do them for, they would likely pull the stone and resurface it, or if needed replace the whole stone. Some companies will try to use a filler and redo a area, but a filler will never last as long as a stone and anyone right up on it might be able to tell.

  • @SGDeGalvez
    @SGDeGalvez Рік тому +2

    i see granite tombstones in the graveyard from 1890 that look perfectly modern. Do you know how they would have done this prior to sandblasting?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +3

      It may sound funny, but we still have some of the old hammer and chisels laying around, there are also some older dyes for lettering and numbers, but they also would be hammered. We still use hammer and chisels, not for full lettering though. I would also like to say the level of skill of old work varies greatly, but some of the most amazing work I have seen is old stone work. I love to look at the way they cut designs, often it is better than you could expect from a modern mason with a sandblaster.

    • @SGDeGalvez
      @SGDeGalvez Рік тому +1

      @@DonaldWilson thank you

  • @crowznest438
    @crowznest438 11 місяців тому +1

    I did wonder that exact thing.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Glad that this video helped. Hope you have an amazing rest of your year.

  • @REVNUMANEWBERN
    @REVNUMANEWBERN 11 місяців тому +1

    Curious sir, my dads needs to be done, he is in a 2nd slot from floor/ground of a crypt, would the face aka door of the crypt be pulled out & down to ground level to do this or would it be done at the level it is?? What would be the typical cost for just this?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Hi, if it is a stone plate, it would be likely done just like this. I have done inscriptions on columbarium and other crypt surfaces before and never needed them taken down, so unless there is something strange about the placement they should be able to do it in place. I am honestly not really sure what companies charge for me when I get sent out, I receive a work order and upon completion I get paid from $250-350 depending somewhat on where I have to travel, they also cover my fuel and expenses. I think for people doing it in town it is less because they are not driving all over the state to do services.

    • @REVNUMANEWBERN
      @REVNUMANEWBERN 11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much for your response@@DonaldWilson

  • @Chrissy-py6ir
    @Chrissy-py6ir 6 місяців тому +1

    My grandmother had her d.o.b. at 1898, the d.o.d. was prefilled at 19(blank) when her husband passed away, but she died in 2000. How would the 19 be filled in to be 20?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  6 місяців тому +1

      Hi sadly this does happen, so the method I have seen happen is where a mix of granite dusk or marble is selected to match the stone as closely as possible then, mixed with super glue to do a fill in and build up then surface it down. Do not do this yourself. Contact the company that did the stone and ask them to do a fill in. They may even now have a special product for this specific thing. After it is fixed you should be able to have them place her date. If they can not fix it, they should consider replacement.

    • @Chrissy-py6ir
      @Chrissy-py6ir 6 місяців тому

      @@DonaldWilsonthanx…you do commendable work.

  • @razorbackfan2011
    @razorbackfan2011 Рік тому +2

    How would someone get into this? Would this be good for someone who is disabled to do for some side money?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +2

      Normally you contact a headstone company and see if they have an opening. Almost all areas have a headstone company, monument company, or other mason type company and they basically have to train you on junk stones before you can do anything. This is often about developing a relationship with a company ahead of time. You can also just buy a sandblaster. safety gear, and some cheap materials to practice, then just work for your self. Sometime I get paid for a job on an hourly and sometimes a company just needs it done, then I get a portion of the contracts I do. This is often for remote areas, but I like those the most. You can contact an area and see if they need death date inscriptions, often these contracts are way behind, especially for small rural areas. I hope this helps you out.

  • @chrisorr8378
    @chrisorr8378 3 роки тому +2

    What size portable sandblaster do you have?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  3 роки тому +3

      Hi, sorry it took so long to get back to you. In cemeteries I use a small 20 gallon portable, and thank goodness it has wheels. One of the biggest issues I face is hose length, because the compressor is in the back of a pickup. I also lay down a blanket on a lot of jobs to capture the sand to pure back into a bucket and filter it later for reuse. I the shop a large hopper tank is used and the whole thing is done differently.

  • @mynamesjudge
    @mynamesjudge 11 місяців тому +1

    How does one get into this line of work?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      You can contact a headstone company and see if they have an opening. Most of the time you start as a set crew and learn how to blast stones, then after you have that down, they teach you hand sandblasting and shape carving.

    • @mynamesjudge
      @mynamesjudge 11 місяців тому

      @@DonaldWilson Cool, thanks. I might look into that.

  • @donnamariedelana2002
    @donnamariedelana2002 6 місяців тому +1

    Donald what is cost to add date of death thank you .

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  6 місяців тому +1

      The range where I live is around $350 - $600, but that involves a lot of factors, like distance and anything strange. Because prices are rising so quickly currently, I can not say how long this would be accurate.

    • @donnamariedelana2002
      @donnamariedelana2002 6 місяців тому

      Thank you !

    • @pamacons
      @pamacons 2 місяці тому

      ​@@DonaldWilsonholy shit 350 for a date? We charge like 200 and wholesale I've seen 95.

  • @israelgonzalez171
    @israelgonzalez171 2 роки тому +1

    Which air compressor you use and cfm/psi???

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +1

      I use a variety of compressors, but I blast at 40-60 PSI depending on design and lettering.

  • @JUST_ONE_ID10T
    @JUST_ONE_ID10T 10 місяців тому +1

    My gandma's date of death is missing from her headstone. My aunt never called to have it done and now my aunt has passed away.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  9 місяців тому +1

      If you know who had the contract company wise, call them and explain the situation. I would hope after hearing the situation they would do it.

    • @JUST_ONE_ID10T
      @JUST_ONE_ID10T 9 місяців тому

      @@DonaldWilson That is the issue I have no idea who had the contract.

  • @madmansprinkles
    @madmansprinkles 11 місяців тому +1

    This is the second time in my life, randomly, finding out someone has (had), the same birth date as me! (minus the year ofc)
    Wild that YT just suggested this out of the blue .-.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Interesting and I hope life is going amazing for you. Maybe it is a sign to do something big with your time while you still have it.

  • @robertwadeexpertkidsdentist
    @robertwadeexpertkidsdentist 6 місяців тому +1

    How could I learn to do that

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  6 місяців тому +1

      You can buy a sand blaster and gear and start practicing a little. To get work doing it contact a local headstone company and see if they have an opening and do custom sandblasting. Most crew start as set crew while they learn to do the sandblasting.

  • @Scott_Middlebrook
    @Scott_Middlebrook 4 місяці тому +1

    What cfm compressor did you use for this?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  4 місяці тому +2

      We use 40-60 PSI, which using a flow rate calculator it indicated it to be 20.63. I honestly do not know if the calculation is correct though. On most in cemetery stuff I keep it around 40 PSI, most because I worry about blow offs or other damage to a stone.

    • @Scott_Middlebrook
      @Scott_Middlebrook 4 місяці тому

      @@DonaldWilsonwhat horsepower is the compressor motor? Love the vids

  • @anonz975
    @anonz975 2 роки тому +1

    Question -- if someone is ordering a granite headstone what should they look for regarding the depth of the lettering so it lasts? By that I mean what do we ask for when ordering?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +3

      Hi, the depth of the lettering changes based on the size of letter and the color it will be, For black lettering or natural unpainted the lettering should be deep and comes to a V shape when done currently, on white and Gold lettering it is more shallow, and is only blasted to a U shape. In all case but ledger plates the blast should be deep enough to have a wall and should look crisp. Most of doing it correctly is based on a lot of seeing it done, and you of course practice before touching a persons stone.

    • @anonz975
      @anonz975 2 роки тому +1

      @@DonaldWilson Thank you! I won't be engraving anything but I want to eventually have a granite headstone made for placement in the woods behind my rural home (for the cremains of me and my dogs) and want it to be legible for a very long time. It would be natural lettering with a Roman style font (I am not a fan of modern designs).

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +5

      @@anonz975 If done right they can engrave it to a deep V and leave it with no paint. When done perfect it looks very sharp, and with endure time very well. Also hope you and you dog play in many field in the afterlife. Peace and have a great one.

    • @anonz975
      @anonz975 2 роки тому +1

      @@DonaldWilson Thank you! :)

  • @HelloKittyFanMan
    @HelloKittyFanMan 3 місяці тому +1

    How come you didn't need tape to cover all the other text and lines around your new text space but you had it right over the middle and then didn't peel it all off for the end of the video?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  3 місяці тому +1

      The sand blasting only has enough force to do damage in a small area. I do always have to make a area for pulling the blasting nozzle on and off the work surface though. It was my first time making a video of blasting death dates, so it was not a perfect video. Next time I do a video of sand blasting an engraving or inscription I will work to make it better.

    • @HelloKittyFanMan
      @HelloKittyFanMan 3 місяці тому

      @@DonaldWilson: I was thinking your nozzle could be closed while over the workpiece. So it can't? And again, while I'm not expecting a perfect video from a world where imperfection is the norm, how come you didn't reveal the whole stone when you were done?

  • @waynesaller
    @waynesaller Рік тому +1

    Is it harder to do if the stone is in an upright position?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +2

      Not really, you just need to make sure to tape everything well, and I like to have a tarp on the ground around it to collect the sand, it ends up all over so you also need to sweep off the headstones around it more, but in the shop we blast all the stone upright.

  • @Juddieb
    @Juddieb Рік тому +1

    What classes are recommended to get started in this career?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +3

      Most people who start have a little experience with sand blasting, and then a mason, monument mason, or headstone technician works with you on everything, till you can actually do it correctly. This mostly involves knowing someone, or just goon going into a headstone company and seeing it they are looking to train and hire someone, this often means starting as part of a set crew, which is physical labor, some measurements, and leveling of the foundations.

  • @kentuckylady2990
    @kentuckylady2990 11 місяців тому +1

    I have often wondered how it was done

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Glad this video helped you with knowing how it is done.

  • @dunebuggy1286
    @dunebuggy1286 Рік тому +1

    Nice. I might have missed it, but what type of media do you use for blasting?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +3

      We use multiple blasting mediums, but mostly Stone Blast 1500 36/60 Grit. I often though also use the sand from the recycling system from our shop booths. Hope this helps.

  • @Schwtz
    @Schwtz 2 роки тому +3

    Everyone has their own techniques, I just feel using all duct tape could be problematic considering how thin it is, It does work though, I don't recommend inexperience individuals to start out that way though. Im just throwing my 2cents, normally once the stencil is down, I glue the outside edges, take "scrape stencil that i use over and over again" line em up around the Main stencil that has date of death / whatever , patch over the lines(gaps), then i might throw some duct tape around the sides if im covering something up.... Also when im engraving on site, ill bring glue and put on the frost so itll stick, i have not tried your method yet though, What kind of double tape do you use 3m?.. Good video though.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +7

      I 100% agree if you have not don a few headstones you should be very careful using duct tape. Most of the duct tape used was used to cover information on the headstone out of respect. Under the area I am blasting is covered for the most part by the stencil material, but for sure if I stopped for even a little bit I would blast right through. I do not think someone should watch my video and decide to just blast a headstone fore sure though. I wanted to show them how head stones get do in remote areas. Before we are allowed to do anything at the place I work for we have to do it on already damaged headstones without mistake, before we can touch a real anything. It takes time and practice, and once a mistake is made, it is in stone. I understand you already do inscriptions, so this is not at you, but for anyone reading this. If you do not already know how to inscribe a head stone, do not start on a loved ones randomly. I will check which one we use currently and get back to you.

  • @Stubones999
    @Stubones999 2 роки тому +2

    I heard that 3M stopped making that etching material... and the only other place is somewhere in China (of course)...

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +2

      This is what I understand currently. I can find out who we are currently going through for you if you want. The Headstone Industry currently seems to be having some crazy stuff going on, with backlogs and difficulties getting basic supplies. Hope you are doing amazing.

  • @markkillion8980
    @markkillion8980 11 місяців тому +1

    It there ever a requirement to “capture” the spent sand?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Not really, I lay down a tarp to catch the sand most of the time anyway so I can reuse it, the sand I use for the most part is collected from our booth and has already been used.

  • @freudenberg101
    @freudenberg101 15 днів тому

    Was that concrete?

  • @blondiegirl5460
    @blondiegirl5460 2 роки тому +1

    Can a family headstone be reused?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +2

      This depends on what you mean, in some cases an additional person can be added to a marker, but to give you a correct answer I would have to know more. Also at the end of the day the Sexton of a graveyard is the one who makes all the rules and at the end of the day the are in charge of what is allowed.

  • @flyingmoose
    @flyingmoose 11 місяців тому +2

    I would recommend that you clean your camera lens, the video looks all fogged.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +3

      I probably should clean my lens, but while sand blasting it often does get dusty, I also had to film with a protective cover over my camera to protect the lens from being damaged by sand from the sand blasting, which might not have helped. I hope you are doing amazing though.

    • @flyingmoose
      @flyingmoose 11 місяців тому +1

      @@DonaldWilson thanks for your reply. I’ve seen blank spaces for dates on gravestones and always wondered how they match the font.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      A person from a design team goes out and takes a rubbing with a large piece of paper, it is kind of like carbon paper and it takes the design and font so the design team can match it, after that they send out a proof for the family to approve it before a rubber is made, during the process the font is checked multiple time, some fonts are custom and take longer to match, but all that is done before hand by a design team. Once in a great while I get asked to take a rubbing if I am in a cemetery where a headstone needs to be matched, but not very often.

  • @robertmorgan8104
    @robertmorgan8104 Рік тому +1

    99 years old!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      A long and I hope very happy life.

  • @Susan70003
    @Susan70003 Рік тому +2

    The new numbers appeared larger than the previous numbers. Is it optical illusion because it was freshly painted and the old numbers were faded? Or was there a slight size difference? Ball park in 2023 what price for having one death date sand blasted in? I won't hold you to it. I don't know what state you are in. Tia

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +2

      I am in Colorado, the lettering is the same, new lettering often looks more crisp and that makes it look different. A copy is pulled from the stone, then a computer matches the lettering. A design is made and checked against records, then it is sent to the family or commissioner of the piece to approve. After that I go to the location and check it again before blasting. I personally do not setup my jobs, but cost is based on many things. First did the company do the stone originally and do the keep that stone in stock incase of complete disaster, next location can add a good amount of money to costs. A very basic inscription like a date cost as low as $300, depending on it being close geographically and simple. Sometime people want full pieces on a boulder or other stone, that costs much more.

    • @Susan70003
      @Susan70003 Рік тому

      @@DonaldWilson Thank you for the detailed reply. So much to know.

    • @carsten4594
      @carsten4594 11 місяців тому +3

      Same number of letters and numbers but the new ones do not line up with the older ones.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +2

      If you look at the area of a 1 compared to the 0, they do not take up the same space at all, which makes things shift.

    • @Krgw2023
      @Krgw2023 10 місяців тому

      They would be equal in width with a Monospaced font @@DonaldWilson

  • @jeffvanhook2482
    @jeffvanhook2482 4 місяці тому

    How come the lettering isn't the same size as being born lettering ?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  4 місяці тому +1

      The lettering is longer because zeros are wider than ones, the design is done before I get involved and is always what the family approved. I also though it looked strange and checked it multiple times before getting started.

  • @jjluv7008
    @jjluv7008 11 місяців тому +1

    Have you ever busted a head stone with the mallet?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank god no, it could happen though, then the whole stone would need to be replaced.

    • @pamacons
      @pamacons 2 місяці тому

      The only damage I have ever had is a brick recently chipped the corner. Obviously though I would never hammer on a crypt front. Those may only be a half inch thick and would definitely crack

  • @HelloKittyFanMan
    @HelloKittyFanMan 3 місяці тому +1

    "First start starting"? As opposed to "first stop second starting stopped..."?

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  3 місяці тому +1

      Honestly not totally sure what you mean, I will watch through and try to figure out just incase though.

    • @HelloKittyFanMan
      @HelloKittyFanMan 3 місяці тому

      @@DonaldWilson: The quotation marks indicate that you said that thing. So you said "first start starting," which is really redundant, so I asked about it for future reference.

  • @Kardall
    @Kardall Рік тому +2

    My grandmother passed away in 2019 before Covid... her date of birth is still not in her headstone... I thought it was like, take the headstone out and put it into a machine to carve it etc., but this makes it look like the company that manages all this stuff is just lazy or something... :/

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +3

      I am sorry to hear you are going through that, have you contacted them directly to let them know you are expecting it to be done would be my only question. Second, most but not all companies have someone who does onsite engravings, some companies really do end up having to come pull the stone and blast it in a booth, most should have someone who can onsite engrave though. Contact them and explain your situation, because a lot of engraving is put on pause over winter, mostly because there can be issues once it gets super cold, like the design rubber not sticking to the stone and other risks. I hope the best for you and hope they take care of you.

    • @Kardall
      @Kardall Рік тому

      @@DonaldWilson Thank you. I believe the family that lives out there (she was interned across Canada) have been informing us and my father has been working with them. But it's kind of rough when we are so far away. There are the two sides of my father's family in that cemetery now, and the one side that visits quite frequently often check up on the others for us so. I believe we are being kept in the loop. I know dad went back a few months ago because his father passed and I believe he tried to talk to the cemetery company about it or whoever is required regarding it.
      It's just really frustrating that it has taken 4 years for this to happen. I mean, how often would it happen that the family never knows, and the final date is not put on? Do you have any idea of what % of headstones may be in this state? Like 1% per cemetery?

    • @rupe53
      @rupe53 Рік тому +1

      @@Kardall At the risk of pointing out the obvious side of business, travel time adds up and I would bet they cover a fair distance so grouping jobs by town or county, plus so many customers per day, is how scheduling gets done. I had inscriptions added to a family stone (prior to Covid) and even though their shop was only a few hundred yards from the cemetery, the earliest they could do was a bit over 6 weeks. Another part of me says that in some areas this may be a dying art, so a subcontractor is out there running ragged doing jobs for a shop that is now just a sales / storefront. (with a good location) Basically, the guy has more work than he can handle out in the field and jobs stack up. On their end... it's just another business day.

  • @jeffclark5268
    @jeffclark5268 11 місяців тому +1

    I like how the name is covered up for privacy…on this publicly viewable headstone.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +3

      I understand you, I just never had filmed doing one before and was not sure what was best to do. I just went with covering it, which might have been over cautious. Stay epic though.

  • @terryhodges5850
    @terryhodges5850 2 роки тому +3

    Not to be a troll but the cameraman put you between us and the work you were doing and you kind of skipped over some things by cutting them out which doesn't help when you're trying to use this video as a learning tool thank you have a nice day

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 роки тому +5

      Very good point and When spring comes here and I will get a better one. Is there anything specific you felt needed a better explanation or was it mostly just editing and not getting unblocked video of the process?

  • @CadeMuraski
    @CadeMuraski 5 місяців тому +1

    I dont get it

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  5 місяців тому +1

      Not a ton to explain, it is the engraving of a death date on a headstone. Hope you are having an amazing year.

  • @t.texastimmy1022
    @t.texastimmy1022 11 місяців тому +1

    Yeah, they botched to job on my mother's DOD

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      What company botched the date on your moms, I am surprised they did not send out a preview for approval first.

    • @t.texastimmy1022
      @t.texastimmy1022 11 місяців тому +2

      @@DonaldWilson the date was accurate, it was just etched too shallow / had to call the back out

  • @rococoblue
    @rococoblue 10 місяців тому +1

    😂 I'm making mine out of wood and the side of a headboard just to annoy the rich.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  9 місяців тому +1

      Most cemeteries have sextons to map the graves and they run almost everything in there cemetery, talk to them to get the rules before, because some place might let you, but most will have specific rules.

  • @markgearing
    @markgearing 11 місяців тому +1

    Didn’t quite make 100 years. Still, not a bad innings.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      I hope they lived a good life, we all can tell it was a long one. I hope you have an amazing rest of the year and a better one next year.

  • @pamacons
    @pamacons 2 місяці тому +1

    Ah you got bit by the stupid skinny 2. If you looks at it the dob 2 does not match the 2 he added. Idk how many i put the wrong two on before I noticed. Unfortunately one of those was my grandma's so i see that mistake quite often

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  2 місяці тому +1

      I did not notice the skinny 2, but I am not involved with the process until the inscription. The design team develops the layout, which then is shown to the family for approval, then it is sent out to me. I measure and check for matching, once I have checked that it is the right size according to the commissions I place it and get to work. What do you consider the skinny 2 to come from, is it a bad selection from the design team, or do you consider it to be from something else?

  • @writerjmd
    @writerjmd 11 місяців тому +1

    No gloves? That sand has to bounce back on your hands.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      It does and for a while it stung a little, I preferred the feel of control, but for safety reasons I now wear gloves.

    • @writerjmd
      @writerjmd 11 місяців тому

      I've done a little sandblasting and obviously if it takes away stone, it will take off skin!!! Nice video

    • @pamacons
      @pamacons 2 місяці тому

      ​@@writerjmdthere's honestly not much power once it hits the stone and comes back. The rubber actually absorbs a lot of power. If I'm hitting an open space of stone then it can start to hurt but like he says the control is more valuable and you get used to it pretty quick

  • @13donstalos
    @13donstalos 11 місяців тому +1

    I would ruin the stone. Guaranteed.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      If yuo did this for a living you would get practice first before doing a stone and I would almost bet you would do fine.

    • @pamacons
      @pamacons 2 місяці тому

      Ehh I have a pretty good success rate. I've maybe ruined 10 stones and I've worked on about 8000 stones

  • @HelloKittyFanMan
    @HelloKittyFanMan 3 місяці тому +1

    "Date of deaths"?
    * Dates of death.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  3 місяці тому +1

      I was only adding a single date, if I had been adding both dates I would have 100% needed to change the title. Thank you for looking out though and hope you have an epic year.

    • @HelloKittyFanMan
      @HelloKittyFanMan 3 місяці тому

      @@DonaldWilson: I'm not talking about the title, which is why I said "date of deaths" in quotation marks; you said that in the video. The pluralization would go on the first object in an "...of..." phrase.

  • @ryanryan3473
    @ryanryan3473 11 місяців тому +1

    Dude! Clean your lens

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      I had to put a protective cover over it, sand blasting will damage the lens. Sorry that it effected the clarity

  • @40HDR
    @40HDR 11 місяців тому +1

    I thought that headstones were made after the death of the person. What am I missing here? Did a person who was alive have there head stone made and placed before they died, then got buried, then the death date was added? Some one fill me in...................

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  11 місяців тому +1

      Some people buy headstones pre need and have them placed, in this case, it was a husband and wife headstone, where one had already passed. The other persons info was added without a death date, then when they passed, it is added. In many cases you are correct though and a head stone is made after a person has died, then the whole thing is done in the shop. Often though with married couples one person dies and the other has a headstone placed, and when they pass, only the death date for them needs added.

    • @40HDR
      @40HDR 11 місяців тому

      Thank you for this explanation. @@DonaldWilson

  • @kima.7148
    @kima.7148 Рік тому +1

    Can you help explain a matter to me regarding placing the death date on a granite slab? The funeral home in charge of doing the death date for my Dad’s granite slab have yet to do the engraving. Monday will be a year when he passed away. The slab was part of the total of funeral package purchased two years prior to his death (packages purchased for himself and my mother (she is still living). Both granite slabs were done and placed at graveside in the small central Georgia (USA) so they have their names and birthdates. We have inquired several times and have only been told they are backlogged on this. Why should it take so long to go and place a death date on my Dad’s granite slab? How long do it take to go and do this work when the funeral home people in charge of doing the work and the cemetery are less than five miles? Approximately how long a period of time did it take you to do this one? That’s all that is needed for my Dad’s grave! It truly saddens me to see no death date being placed on his grave when I visit and like I said it is a year on 10/9 - which is this coming Monday. 🥲. When you can, thanks so much for your response as maybe I’m not understanding. I appreciate it.

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +3

      There is a large back log in most of the headstone industry and often it takes more time than it should before someone is sent out. They may be having a hard time getting the rubber you see me using in this video, it is what the design or date is on and becomes the template. Sadly it is currently in short supply, and in some cases the people doing the inscriptions are 1 - 2 year behind on catching up. Make sure to stay on them and I hope they get to yours soon

  • @natalyavalasquez9121
    @natalyavalasquez9121 Рік тому +2

    That’s really cool!

    • @DonaldWilson
      @DonaldWilson  Рік тому +1

      Thanks you, hope you are doing epic.