I’ve watched this only only one time in my life, it’s been buzzing and repeating in my mind ever since. Just like an unshakeable truth that I don’t know where it comes from
People who feel the need to explain themselves have this deep desire to be understood by those around them, to seek their approval. If you're truly confident in your mission, don't seek the approval of those who don't matter. If you're more concerned about being understood through explaining yourself, good luck in life because you're focused on the wrong things. Stay obsessed on the goals that matter.
So True! People who hate and are negative will always point out the bad no matter how positive you make the situation. People who are positive will always see the good in you no matter how negative the situation is.
"If You Have to explain it them they aren't behind you" YES G ! This makes so much sense . I was always so confused why my OWN mother questioned my goals and ambitions ! I now know why , she isn't behind me in my vision ! Great message :)
Speedy exactly !! Sometimes the journey requires you getting rid of a few people in your life , even if that means some family memebers , keep grinding !!!
Speedy hey man do what you gotta to get to where you want to be !! But that's awesome !! Let me know when your channel is up and running and I'll be your first sub 😌🙏🏽
Don't hope- do. Plan to get your channel up by the 20th- that way if things out side of your control pop up (and they do) you still have a week of contingency to make it happen. Make it happen and god speed.
Found you through your topic, since it was just what I had just posted a video and blog about. (Never Complain, Never Explain). I so admire those who have the confidence to say "no, thank you" without feeling any need to explain themselves. I've been an "explainer" ever since I can remember and am determined at the age of 58 to finally, finally, stop doing it anymore. I don't have to say "no" in an unkind or mean way, but I also don't have to spend five minutes explaining why. Cheers and thank you ~ Janis from Florida
I first saw this video 6 years ago. I still watch this as a reminder once a while. This speaks 100% truth. Know when to explain yourself and when not to. Most times it's not necessary and could only bring more trouble because of incompetent people.
You delivered this video for me at the right time! It really surprised me to see how ones you loved and believed would support you through thick and thin have completely different mindset and weak minds and not believe in you or believe and are jealous that you're getting it done. Their constant negativity can make you doubt yourself. I'm reading 10X for my 3rd time right now. Your work has helped redefine me. And just when I think I can't take one more critical comment about my plans or myself you hold my hand and lift me up! From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU!
I just started mlm in may for the first time and none of my friends nor family supported me.i stayed focus and determined to succeed.in 11 days i sponsored 3 new members and won a 450$ bonus Rising star.
Grant wow this video for me, im only 2years in as a business owner and I find myself having to explain myself for every move I make, especially to employees. Changes need to be made.
Now that you mentioned it, I thought about all the times that I had to explain myself to various people in my life; Those same people Never believed in me, jealous of me, didn't respect me, or just plain hated me. All of which makes them haters and my enemies.
Thanks for this video. I always believed as long as I am not bringing a bad attitude, doing wrong, selling/doing drugs, hurting or murdering anybody then there's no reason for me to change myself to meet another person's standards who wont even do much to satisfy me.
Yeah exactly what i've need to hear all my life i been explaining to people about everything thought that i was doing a great thing just had this feeling about it and found you thank you for this!
Exactly I always thought that constantly explaining yourself is a waste of time , with personal experience every I explained things perfectly my critic would still find an excuse to insult me and verbally attack me in front of everyone to make themselves feel good ! You're right it's no use
I agree with you Sir, I felt this many times and it made me feel like a looser but I finally made a decision to never explain myself to people because I want to be accepted, I prefer to work more to prove what I can do.
Thank you Uncle Grant for this video. And thank you for your training in Nashville last year with a company I'm Associate with. I have plenty of those 🤩
Grants videos etc are the number one place for me to go when lost etc. Growing up without my dad and a role model just makes me more gratefull for uncle GC
Thank you! i have receiving so much hate and negativity from people that are just incompetent, i really want to help everyone. I am a honest, hard working guy. Thank you for that advice my mentor! Love to get in touch with your team!
Bought your e-book version of be obsessed or be average today, and omg it is sooooo amazing . thank you so much grant. I will remember you for a huge part of my success when i grow up, am just 16 now but i can assure you this book will be a bible for my life. Tyssmmm
So True. I also know the people I tried to involved had no clue of how I was to prosper in my business, when they had no prospects of their own. And I'm on what I call a low level of business.... I can forget about it when the money really starts coming in.
This is very true and have noticed it more subtly recently, as I've gotten better at this. You put it much more starkly and clearer though, makes a lot of sense. Thank you.
My life crazy. But yet i go threw this shit everyday people claim they love me and don't. Help me G show me how to get this money real shit. Let that be the test ''me''?? Show me. I respect yo grind G!!!
im very fortunate to have good people around me that believe in me. my biggest enemy seems to be myself... its so confusing... it feels like im always losing even if im winning...
I'm totally reeled in! I just haven't leaned on registering for any conferences. Come back to the Bay player! You're a BigBoss. I listen to you every day at work and these vids give me a lot of good advice. Keep it coming, luv ya! Muaah!
Explaining yourself is a waste of time, agree.
The truth shall set you free but a majority can handle the truth.
H.A.T.E.R.S- Having Anger Towards Everyone Reaching Success
THIS IS AWESOME
Interesting Very Very
I support someone who is real and who speaks the truth regardless of what people say or think;or how they react to it.
So true... as I've grown older, I've lost my desire for having to explain myself. It's actually been liberating! Love it my man!
Same
Short and simple. Had this problem for 20 years now, making changes NOW. Thank you.
I’ve watched this only only one time in my life, it’s been buzzing and repeating in my mind ever since. Just like an unshakeable truth that I don’t know where it comes from
People who feel the need to explain themselves have this deep desire to be understood by those around them, to seek their approval. If you're truly confident in your mission, don't seek the approval of those who don't matter. If you're more concerned about being understood through explaining yourself, good luck in life because you're focused on the wrong things. Stay obsessed on the goals that matter.
Most people dont believe in their selves anyway grant. Having them believe in another persons goals or dreams is next to impossible.
So True! People who hate and are negative will always point out the bad no matter how positive you make the situation. People who are positive will always see the good in you no matter how negative the situation is.
"If You Have to explain it them they aren't behind you" YES G ! This makes so much sense . I was always so confused why my OWN mother questioned my goals and ambitions ! I now know why , she isn't behind me in my vision ! Great message :)
Speedy exactly !! Sometimes the journey requires you getting rid of a few people in your life , even if that means some family memebers , keep grinding !!!
Speedy hey man do what you gotta to get to where you want to be !! But that's awesome !! Let me know when your channel is up and running and I'll be your first sub 😌🙏🏽
Don't hope- do. Plan to get your channel up by the 20th- that way if things out side of your control pop up (and they do) you still have a week of contingency to make it happen. Make it happen and god speed.
Found you through your topic, since it was just what I had just posted a video and blog about. (Never Complain, Never Explain). I so admire those who have the confidence to say "no, thank you" without feeling any need to explain themselves. I've been an "explainer" ever since I can remember and am determined at the age of 58 to finally, finally, stop doing it anymore. I don't have to say "no" in an unkind or mean way, but I also don't have to spend five minutes explaining why. Cheers and thank you ~ Janis from Florida
I first saw this video 6 years ago. I still watch this as a reminder once a while. This speaks 100% truth. Know when to explain yourself and when not to. Most times it's not necessary and could only bring more trouble because of incompetent people.
Thank you Uncle G ♥️
You delivered this video for me at the right time! It really surprised me to see how ones you loved and believed would support you through thick and thin have completely different mindset and weak minds and not believe in you or believe and are jealous that you're getting it done. Their constant negativity can make you doubt yourself. I'm reading 10X for my 3rd time right now. Your work has helped redefine me. And just when I think I can't take one more critical comment about my plans or myself you hold my hand and lift me up! From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU!
I just started mlm in may for the first time and none of my friends nor family supported me.i stayed focus and determined to succeed.in 11 days i sponsored 3 new members and won a 450$ bonus Rising star.
Exactly Sir, never explain yourself! Trust your gut and just go for it. Winners focus on winning, losers focus on winners.
Grant wow this video for me, im only 2years in as a business owner and I find myself having to explain myself for every move I make, especially to employees. Changes need to be made.
Thanks GC! I needed to hear that today. No one likes watching 10X from the outside.
True leader, you're the real deal for sure. thank you
Spot on Grant. So true. People love criticizing the risktaker. Keep on course. Be excellent.
Gray Bailey man i agree.
Ur vids comfort and energize this gran. I watch them as often as I can. Blesses to ya.
Had to listen to it twice, was checking the background driving from Miami Beach to Miami on 195 ;)
110% accurate on many levels. SPREAD THE WORD GRANT. THANK YOU!
Now that you mentioned it, I thought about all the times that I had to explain myself to various people in my life; Those same people Never believed in me, jealous of me, didn't respect me, or just plain hated me. All of which makes them haters and my enemies.
Thanks for this video. I always believed as long as I am not bringing a bad attitude, doing wrong, selling/doing drugs, hurting or murdering anybody then there's no reason for me to change myself to meet another person's standards who wont even do much to satisfy me.
Thats honestly like the best advice I've ever heard.
Never heard of this guy but love his voice and his smile.
Uncle G, 100% on this. Gotta stick to the course that leads to the results and let the rest drop aside.
Yeah exactly what i've need to hear all my life i been explaining to people about everything thought that i was doing a great thing just had this feeling about it and found you thank you for this!
Exactly I always thought that constantly explaining yourself is a waste of time , with personal experience every I explained things perfectly my critic would still find an excuse to insult me and verbally attack me in front of everyone to make themselves feel good ! You're right it's no use
that's right. Those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind.
I agree with you Sir, I felt this many times and it made me feel like a looser but I finally made a decision to never explain myself to people because I want to be accepted, I prefer to work more to prove what I can do.
Damn straight!!! Keeping it real, Uncle G.
Thank you Uncle Grant for this video. And thank you for your training in Nashville last year with a company I'm Associate with. I have plenty of those 🤩
You should be a motivational speaker as well. Real Talk!
This is one of the best Grant Rant ever, if not the best. So true.
I needed this!!!
Grants videos etc are the number one place for me to go when lost etc. Growing up without my dad and a role model just makes me more gratefull for uncle GC
You're truly an inspiration!
Know why you are doing what you are doing... and DO IT!
The incompetent can't make sense of the truth. Truth = isolation for great thinkers. Definitely wrote that down.
Truth!
simple...powerful brother
I would love to make a video with you with questions of current graduates and millennials! Keep it real, Grant.
Well said! Wisdom I need to take to heart. Ive bern trying to prove myself to others who are vested in my failure far too long. Thank you!
Thank you for the daily words of wisdom! Love you!!
the best revenge is success. be very very successful and let them find out about you on their own. imagine how they feel.
Thank you! i have receiving so much hate and negativity from people that are just incompetent, i really want to help everyone. I am a honest, hard working guy. Thank you for that advice my mentor! Love to get in touch with your team!
Man I needed to hear this today
Thanks Grants sir, for the advice,
I see myself explaining most of the time.
Bought your e-book version of be obsessed or be average today, and omg it is sooooo amazing . thank you so much grant. I will remember you for a huge part of my success when i grow up, am just 16 now but i can assure you this book will be a bible for my life. Tyssmmm
Love it and love your stuff Grant! Thanks for sharing.
I'm a subscriber player. Thank you for so much game man..
I appreciate you Mr. Cardone.
Love it man
THELIFEOFPRICE real shit
Love it!!! Just what I needed to hear...
Pure Truth as per usual
Thank You ,GC.
So True. I also know the people I tried to involved had no clue of how I was to prosper in my business, when they had no prospects of their own. And I'm on what I call a low level of business.... I can forget about it when the money really starts coming in.
I love your knowledge! I’m ready to listen on all your advice
This is very true and have noticed it more subtly recently, as I've gotten better at this. You put it much more starkly and clearer though, makes a lot of sense. Thank you.
Good video Grant, can you please make more videos of your life experience like this? We young people need to learn.
Best mentor ever
Thanks for posting this video! I like how you ended it off with the word... #player. Super cool!
I am the luckiest person that i found u at this time of my life. THANK U
AWESOME MAN UNCLE GRANT CARDONE IS THE BOSS GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS AMEN
"A boss says go, a leader says let's go!" I hear you #GrantCardone #10X #BeGreat
I needed to here this thanks
I definitely agree. Good video, Mr. Grant.
My life crazy. But yet i go threw this shit everyday people claim they love me and don't. Help me G show me how to get this money real shit. Let that be the test ''me''?? Show me. I respect yo grind G!!!
you've got a lot of good advice sir. thanks for being a good person.
Love this! Thank you, Grant!!
Watching and applying like it's crack
Great Man + Great Advice = "Grant Cardone"
(Peace -n- Love, Who's Got My Money)
Thank you Mr. Cardone!!!
love your messages Grant
Thank you.I love
Love this! Great advice!
Awesome!
Great advice.
Thank you, uncle G'Cardone.
Totally true i tell people my goals and dreams and they just say yea but don't believe i can do it though i know i can
So true!!!! Thank you for this video upload!!!
🔥🔥🔥🔥 bars!!!!
im very fortunate to have good people around me that believe in me. my biggest enemy seems to be myself... its so confusing... it feels like im always losing even if im winning...
Good to remember...thanks for sharing!
Preach Grant Preach! Nice reminder for me today! Thanks :)
Oh my gosh! I needed to hear this!
I LOVE YOU MAN GRANT!!! YOU KEEP IT 💯 THAT'S IT
it's only a very few people you explain yourself to.
I'm totally reeled in! I just haven't leaned on registering for any conferences. Come back to the Bay player! You're a BigBoss. I listen to you every day at work and these vids give me a lot of good advice. Keep it coming, luv ya! Muaah!
You are right ! Best advice love you man
That's what I say: "Do not complain, do not explain."
With you 100 %
I completely agree Uncle G!!!!
Grant, thank you. I mean really, thank you. I just fired a person over this advice. I feel great now! God bless you and your family Uncle G!
truth uncle G
Your enemies always have you on trial so why explain sh*t to them?
They're not judge, jury & executioner...
I agree uncle G thank you from Baltimore
This Guy is just incredible
Thank you, uncle!
Great advice... tnx Grant...
Really feel this