Uncle Intervention
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- Опубліковано 5 січ 2023
- The plaintiff says she is suing her crack-addicted uncle for breach of contract. The plaintiff alleges her uncle was supposed to help pay for her late grandmother’s outstanding mortgage, but he reportedly failed to do so. The defendant admits he is addicted to crack and is finally ready to change his ways.
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I met Blane recently through my journey to become sober. He is a wonderful and spiritual man. He is a big fan of Dr. Charles Stanley! I hope his story inspires others to become sober. It was great meeting you Blane.
Sir once there is life, there is hope. Praying and wishing you the best. Be strong.
My bio dad and aunt still on that crack….since the 80s. It’s so sad for them and the families
JM thinks he knows everything, I know ppl still actively selling crack which means it’s a market for it
I got aunts still on it since the 80s too
My cousin was on drugs and in and of jail. He had different girl friends. Well, he turned himself around. But he eventually got cancer and passed away. My dad's brother was not on good side of the law. He served our country. Unfortunately, when he got of military, that's when he got in trouble. One day, he was at wrong place at wrong time. He got shot. My uncle was paralyzed from waist down. He had been married, not sure how many times. But, he lost one son. He drowned as a kid is my understanding. His other son is happy with his partner. My uncle got married to is last wife. But, unfortunately my uncle passed away to cancer. He also, smoked cigarettes. Not sure if he stopped the cigarettes before he passed away.
@@ayana188 I agree,u can make crack so he shld know it's still around
@@ayana188 He was just trying to break him down and make him feel ashamed. Not everybody can be taught that way but that’s his way. He knows it’s somewhere out there but to make the guy feel like he’s weird for continuing it helps push him.
Lord please heal him in Jesus name my kid’s father raggedy ass started me on primos years ago & I had to get on my knees and cry out to God to be delivered from that horrible drug!!!
Won’t he do it!!! Bless you in your recovery ❤
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 God is Able!
Amen!!!
He's able,I know a woman who did the same thing to get off crack,He delivered her,I'm a witness to that
🙏🏽 you will be released in the name of Jesus and I believe this because you simply admitted it. You have my love and prayers.
That hug at the end. Look at his face 20:27. His need to tear. I wanted to tear. Anything is possible through G-d. Phenomenal loving family!
He has to want to kick his addiction. I don't wish addiction on anyone. When I quit smoking, I didn't realize I was addicted to nicotine until I quit cold turkey & it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I don't even want to know how hard kicking a drug addiction can be.
Glad to hear you kicked the habit! If you don’t mind me asking, did you get withdrawals? Did you use anything to help quit?
@Hayley Zarco I quit cold turkey almost 10 years ago. Did I get cravings? Yes! Did I fail and have a cigarette (or 2 or 3 or 4) sometimes? Yes! But I just kept at it. Eventually the cravings lessen. It still comes up, but i remind myself I quit for myself and my health. When a craving hits, try and wait. It will pass. Find what works for you. Chewing gum, the patch, exercise. Quitting smoking was hard, but it's worth it. It's so, so bad for us. Much luck to anyone quitting, you can do it! 🥰
@@stephanieowens5577
Congratulations! You did great.
@@hayleyzarco1781 Thank you, I forgot to say I did have a couple of relapses once I quit. But know when I smell cigarette smoke, I can't stand it. I did experience some withdraws, headaches, irritability some anxiety. The first week was tough, when I quit I had been smoking for 10 yrs. & there was no Chantix or patches etc available when I quit, glad I quit when I did. To God be the glory.🙏🏾
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Impressive lady. You can tell she's smart and cares for her family also.
Accountability is the key 🔑
So it may have come off rough from JM, but maybe this is what he needed, some tough love! Praying for his sobriety! 🙏🏽
I'm with the judge stop pacifing these grown me. You are of age be accountable. 65 years old and want sympathy as a drug addict. and it's not a disease. It's a strong want.
She definitely needs a plan because Judge Mathis is absolutely correct...she's going to be back in court with trifling family members..
Exactly somebody is not going to want to leave !
Good evening Mr Judge Mathis, THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO FOR THE CITY OF CHICAGO/ GREENWOOD MISSISSIPPI AND ACROSS THE WORLD. This Is What The WORLD NEEDS. PLEASE KEEP UP THE GREAT AND AWESOME WORK YOU DO. THANK YOU
I love when JM drops civil rights history.
The family genes run deep in their family...they look a lot alike!
This episode is the purest form of love I have ever seen!!🥹🥹😍
It included the holy trinity:
“Tough Love”
“Caring Love”
“Unconditional Love”
I have never smoked crack......yet this man's skin is clear as hell......wtf
😂😂😂😂
As someone who has in the past for years. Yes most crack users do have clear skin. It's because you are constantly oiling and sweating 😓
I feel bad for that man. He seems to be a good man. Unfortunately, his addiction is stronger than him. Hopefully, he can get some help and use it.
Definitely seems like a good guy 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I know a guy who has been clean for seven years and he listens to meetings and even host meetings online every day. He wakes up a meeting
She's wearing an all seeing eye necklace with a cross necklace underneath. 🤦🏽♀️
Religion comes from spirituality
@@browngoddess5340 I'm aware of that but thanks. That wasn't the point I was making.
Absolutely foolery… smh 🤦🏾♀️ 😩🙃
@@PerryGyalTyngz😂😂 that clap back was everything.. amen
Thank you Judge Mathis for always helping those drug addicted people that come to your courtroom and are serious about leave there and going straight to rehab. I pray God's blessings and strength upon this man, as he commences toward a new beginning. Looking forward to hearing his Praise Report. Kudos to his niece & family for showing him tough love. I hope she listens to the Judge's advise regarding the future plans of her late Grandmother's home. Peace & Blessings Always!!!
This episode is not about a case it’s about intervention. To the people in the comments that’s how the plaintiff started her monologue. Crack is more serious than y’all know. They will steal anything from anybody. You gotta be blunt with a dope head
Preach 💯%!!
You're not wrong but you have to show love and say hard truths to an addict too. Otherwise they'll invent reasons to distrust you.
Judge Mathis is Right. 💯
I had a friend who smoked crack till he got COPD.
Over the thirty-five years I knew him;
he was addicted to crack.
He had all he wanted, cooked it and sold it.
He changed he wasn't the same personality wise.
I tried to help him, nothing wasn't going to part him from that.
He was never violent.
Always clean, dressed nice.
Just so high lots of times he didn't know
I was talking to him.
It was so sad to see this.
He passed away at eighty years old.
May 10, 22
Sorry to hear this. Glad he had someone like you who cared so much for him.💙
@@sherrypressley4308
Thank You,🌹
I Appreciate You saying that.
I did everything I could for him.
Shopping, Dr. Appointments,
bought clothes, shoes.
He could maintain, he was an Excellent
Auto mechanic. Lots of times if I could
afford the part. He would put it on.
I would pay him the labor, when I got paid.
He was never sloppy.
Other people couldn't tell it.
He just kept that going
and Marlboro cigarettes.
I begged him to stop, go to rehab.
He was like NO!!!
I used to work at a Nursing home.
So I just have Love for older people.
I told myself I will work this shift out.
He gave all kinds of money to his family.
When he died they didn't even have any
type of service for him.
I called the funeral home.
The funeral director told me since I didn't sign any paperwork.
I couldn't pay for the cremation.
Plus they weren't supposed to discuss
anything with anyone who wasn't on the paper work.
That no service hurt me.
So I had my own Memorial Service for him.
He is Alright, I know that.
I saw him in my house he looked
about twenty.
He smiled the biggest smile and
just faded away.
I knew he was reassuring me, that
he is okay.
That's a long life for an addict
I've been a functional addict in my past, albeit with Oxys and heroin, and it's arguably worse if one thinks of their addiction so much they know to keep their jobs, keep up appearances, and keep their life from the outside looking in versus people who lose those things because of their habit. If you know to be functional, you learn to be the best liar in existence and enable your habit way longer than the next person. I've never used crack myself but I've seen plenty of people give away everything for it. I'm sorry to hear about your friend and how he gave his years to crack than to himself and the people who loved him.
@@regina805 You brought me to tears with this one. My mom has been addicted to crack since she was pregnant with me and I’m 38 years old. Our relationship is horrible and I have grown so cold towards her because I grew tired of excusing her terrible behavior because she is a drug attack. I unfortunately learned what everyone else have known for years. I was always told by multiple people (grandmother included) that they came to terms with discovering that it wasn’t the drugs that made her a bad person, it’s just who she is down to her core. I have friends and other men in my life that revere and have so much admiration for their mother, and really hurts sometimes that Im just not familiar with that feeling when it comes to mine. In the black community people rarely consider how many men are out here broken and hurt, but our culture teaches us that it’s not the nature of a man to feel anything other than aggression and indifference. It’s one of the most irresponsible beliefs in our community, and it results in so many black men having toxic masculinity. This is why many of us are physical, mentally, and emotionally violent towards others.
I'm riding with Judge Mathis today. Stop coming to him asking for rehab for people who aren't interested in going. He can tell this man isn't interested..it's been almost 30 years! He's not interested...
He needs to admit he needs help! No one can do it for him. He has to admit his addiction. Then he can start to get help
Ok new faces in the audience!!!
So heart melting this case
It is a disease 😔 he needs a different method... idk how he is given so much credit for helping addicts in this way
How was Judge Mathis too hard on him? Most of these drug addicts need to be talked to this way.
Agreed. He was speaking facts!
I thought the case was bout to end then he said tell me bout the case😂😂 I be forgetting this ain’t dr. Phil sometimes
I luv that Judge teaches as well,I like learning things,I also like when he organizes his things when he talks 😂
I need an update
Yes the relatives will break them down.
Better sell and let everyone get their own place to live.
She has pipe dreams.
I wish her well,but she may be fooling herself!!
Sounds like they need the money to keep the home.
Judge was right on target!!!
Respect!!! It would be nice to see more judges like Judge Mathis.
Mathis was out of control in this one. I wish we could have actually heard the defense. But Mathis won't stfu.
What’s to hear it’s been 30 years already smh
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late legendary people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.
@@judgeholder8112 omg Judge Wapner the good ole days he was the best but a push over they always lie to him and he would believe them 😉
@@zenatellsthetruth8457 right right
Judge matis you right no crack no more if so you calling for a death wish .bless this man cause I personally know God bless him.
He has a STRONG heart over 20 years of crack my goodness.
I think crackheads trigger JM🤔
30 years!!!
Yes, that is certainly a trigger for JM.
Lol 30 years of doing crack. His heart is made of steel.
Judge Mathis needs to shut up sometimes...dang. 😂
He's getting on my damn nerves
Omg yess talk to damn much and don’t know what the hell he’s talking about
He's kinda mean. I would break down🤣😭
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late legendary people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.
@@judgeholder8112 & here you are commenting on his page 😅
20:08, they definitely look like family. I pray that the defendant wins his battle against drugs, and takes his life back for the 1st time in 25 years.
He knew all along, that he owed money to the plaintiff that is good that he want to go to rehab I hope everything works out, for him.
Judge Mathis gives tough love when it comes to drugs & addiction.
Cause it's easier instead of love, hope & prayer.
i don't know why he is not an angel he moke them and that's it
@@calvinjohnson2179 but it's not his place he's not a doctor he's a judge and no one ask him to be hard on people
Yesssss....he does, but, i think he does it out of care and empathy.
@Sarah Rean he has said he does it to shame them into recovery. This gentleman came or was brought here to get help. There are those who pray and hope and there are those who tell you off and demean you. Both can be out of love. Whatever works to get him clean that's what's needed. Sounds like you are in judgment yourself against Judge Mathis....ijs
Mathis was on a rampage. Geeze…..
As always lol! He must not have taken his chill pill!
this was necessary though. 30 years?!? he playing. play time's over.
@@anastacia0189 you're right but I felt a bit sorry for the defendant bc JM did give him no time to play victim 🤦🏽♀️🤣
Judge Mathis was trying to save a life.
@@convowithashnicole He didn't hit his vape🤣
Wow!!! This hit home!! We hv a family member going thru the exact same story!!! Powerful words, Jusge Mathis! Everyone who has a drug addiction should watch n heed this episode!! Thank u for ur honest n tough love!!!! I will be sharing this wth my family members!!!! God bless!!!!🙏🏽🩷🥰🌷👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽👍🏽😍🌴🦩🌺
If more addicts had family who spoke love like his Niece does to their addicted family member, instead of shaming, degrading, & disowning, & forcing them to change their ways, SO many more addicts would be alive today. &&& Recovering!!!!
David Ruffin lookin boi
Just like em. Crack and all 😂😂😂
I'd like to see a follow up on this one.
I sincerely want to see this man succeed, but as of the verdict, and how long this addict has been at it without a strong intervention, I'm not seeing that happening.
I wish he'd talk to my mom like this she's been on drugs for my entire 34 years on this planet smh
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talk that talk Mathis!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Judge was on some bs
Happy Friday Y’all
This was so sad to watch..I had an Ex who also struggled with drug addiction and it lasted for him for decades until his death...drugs is a killer..just don't pick up..this is a lesson for all..Judge Mathis is not hard..he know he has to speak tough to them because crackheads are very devious and will scheme their way through anything so he was stopping it before it started. ..and this man has a family that loves obviously he's not homeless..I pray for him & the family this is has affected them all....
his family loves him so much they won’t let him hit rock bottom…. I was the same way with my husband; once I stopped enabling him he got help.
You already know if someone mentions crack the damn judge automatically starts judging
How is the judge judging ??? The man literally has been on crack for 25 years … he admittedly uses drugs … where’s the judgement??
He sounds PITIFUL.
This case was unnecessarily long!!!! Judge mathis love crackhead cases!!!
I was homeless for seven years i was on meth for a year then in 2018 i chose to get clean on my own without any treatment or addiction facility i made the decision because i wanted my mom to he proud and not worry about me i also wanted to start a family and have my our own place and car and one month after being clean i met my now husband and we slept on the street in a tent for an additional year then i got pregnant we started working while in a tent then we moved into our apartment but the moral of the story is me and my husband was heavy drinkers and never relapsed just cigarettes weed and alcohol then we made the decision to stop drinking and we been a month sober off of alcohol and ive been sober 6 years in April and for my husband 7 years this month so now we just smoke weed and cigarettes and we dont plan on relapsing
That’s an awesome story! Being homeless is always rough but it’s especially tough for women for a lot of different reasons. I’m so happy you met your husband, he probably protected you and you were both able to get off the drugs and even quit the drinking! Some former addicts think it’s okay to drink since they’re not on the heavy drugs anymore but as an alcoholic I can tell you it’s just as bad, I’ve seen people in their 30s die from it, they got into the hospital with jaundice or something and never leave, they die there a few days later. So, again, congrats!! ❤
@@LissyVee most definitely my brother had a relapse and I helped him get clean now he smokes weed just like me
Nuts! Cigarettes and booze killed a lot of my childhood friends. Why give up one nasty habit for another?
Everybody have a blessed New Year!!! 🎉🎉🎉
You as well
I love how these families can come to Judge Mathis for help. Not many TV judges do that.
Nothing to hard for GOD.
@@estelldrummond5775 no one ask you that ! Everyone knows that Einstein
the guy can't help himself alone though he need the to be sober damn
Kinda of disrespectful aren't you! God is the answer.
@@sarahrean7174 ,
Joking or what the judge calls “shaming” someone into recovery/rehab is old, especially how he does it. Addiction is not funny nor does the “joking” seem like it’s coming from a place of compassion, just rambling and public humiliation. Judge Mathis doesn’t know everything…CLEARLY.
Numerous ppl have came back and stated they went to rehab and got clean due to JM shaming and embarrassing them on tv. Some ppl need tough love and a wake up call
& neither do you know everything!!! He has more experience than you!!!
@@904baybeecakes right and for some people that doesn’t NOT work…
@@kingman1330 NEITHER DO YOU! 😂
@@shaniya7558 sucks to be them but it works for the majority, soft talking a crackhead rarely accomplishes anything especially if their family crying and begging them into treatment doesnt work. The last thing long term crackheads need is a soft talking shoulder to cry on.
Hey Doyle!!! Always happy to see you ❤
All that there is SPIRITUAL WARFARE STRONGHOLDS upon him and prayers and fasting should be incorporated.
If after all these years if he don't want to change for himself, NOBODY CAN DO IT FOR HIM OR HER.
The addicted person must want to be the change and changes he wants to DO.
He will not last in the AA/meetings, an accountability coach, plus rehab, as well as moved from the areas and any known drugs areas as to not temp and entice him
if he doesn't want to it will not work and he needs to do the work and willing.
Why is the Judge being so rude to him ..Lawd
That’s his preferred method of helping people get over addiction …I don’t think one size fits all though
he deserves it...that's what hurts addicts now...soft ppl and enablers
@@THE1STEBONYRAINFALL good thing I’m not a counselor. ✌🏾
@@THE1STEBONYRAINFALL Amen!!
My guess is tough love
Maaannnn I love Judge Mathis history facts and other things but the way he talks over people, jokes too often, and mocking and disrespecting people with addictions is flat out ugly. I've heard him say this is his tactic to embarrass and shame them into getting better maybe bc know one really gets real with addicts but this is ungodly and ugly. For some people ot will make them run to drugs commit suicide....They're battling demons. You don't know how deals with low self esteem , been raped tormented etc
True,true because he would have me crying with all that yelling.
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late legendary people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.
Judge please let ‘em talk!! Sheesh!
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late legendary people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.
Sis, a family rental home/hardship home will be your worst nightmare. Trust me sell it and split the proceeds, if you already has a home.
Trust, this story is every day life, especially in ATLANTA. Our grandmothers worked hard, built wealth, purchased beautiful homes in Atlanta and their daughters succeed and the sons failed to drugs.
But at the end of the day, the home is property and will be best sold, if the family will turn it into a flop house...short of a drug house. 😒
Yes she needs to get her money and hold the positive memories in her heart. 😅
@@scottrogue946 Exactly...its the emotional ties. But she will be beyond heartbroken to see crackheads living in her grandmother's home.
The memories are the only thing we carry with us, everything else has ended.
Our judge was not playing 😂
They still have crack !!!! Ole schoolers still smoke it. I know a few.
Judge Roasted that man...
Some think judge Mathis is being too aggressive but I truly think this man left thinking deeply about his future actions
I seen a lot of my homeboys/girls get on that glass. Heartbreaking I got a cousin I looked up to smoking hard.
She needs to sell that house and move on. That sounds like a nightmare to deal with.
I disagree. Did you hear what she said about her hard her grandmother worked for that house. She said she planned on occupying it herself. Why the heck would she give up her family house
Im already looking for the update...I'll wait I wish them the best. Sometimes it just takes someone to care.
So glad Judge Mathis is still showing and sharing our stories. We need positive intervention and inspiring results to empower our community.❤
Glad uncle is getting help after being on Crack for 25 yrs. Be good to have a follow-up on how he is doing now.
thank you for the upload, can you put the rest of the week up
JM you knowing how it works and having experienced a crack addiction are 2 different things! You’re not an expert on addiction sir!
Thanks for the shot out. Durham NC
Wouldn’t crack kinda always be around since they want something similar to coke?? lbs. I thought crack would just a cheaper version. 😅
Said where do you even get crack 😆 🤣 😂 like he want some!!
I wonder how he’s doing. This was aired months ago right.? Hopefully he’s doing good.
I pray that he sticks /stayed in rehab I would love a follow up
I hope he get his self some help 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Judge Mathis is the truth when it comes to drug addiction! Prayers for his Niece! She’s really trying to help her Uncle! He need to pay rent! He can’t live no where for free!
AS LONG AS THERE IS BREATHE IN A HUMAN THERE IS HOPE..NEVER GIVE UP ON ANY HUMAN BEING..
Such a classy good looking women.
I hope he gets it together, he seems like a nice guy.
The judge don’t play around he’s a hard man that’s good we need people like him
Sad sad sad sad sad
An addict has to want to get help. It was his niece & other family idea. Since he didn’t come up with the idea on his own to get help I doubt he will get clean.
GET EM, JUDGE!!!🙏🏽 God bless you, Judge Mathis
It's nice and refreshing to see and hear from a Black female in 2023 who has managed to keep a good head/ frame of mind on her shoulders.🙂
I hope he can get the help he needs
30yrs of being addicted to crack cocaine maybe a lost cause in the defendant's case, but how is suing him for a breach of contract going to aid him in any way. Mathis was disrespectfully rambling throughout so much in this case that everyone forgot what they were here for. I knew that this defendant had no chance of winning this case.
This case was very cringe worthy and I hate to see Mathis on such high horse being so rude and not empathetic at all. This man came in AGREEING he needs help and still was scolded.
How can you call “Mathis” ,as you disrespectfully put it smh, disrespectful?. This episode is about getting him OFF OF DRUGS. She asked Judge Mathis for intervention. It’s a court tv show but this was about help not the CASE. I usually dont address people but you sir are clearly disillusioned
As long as he is still breathing, he still has a chance to change his life around. Don't be so negative merkels do happen, I'm sorry you have not lived long enough to witness one
@@buckAWEsum exactly! JM has the resources and he’ll hold litigants accountable. Rehab is largely a private practice that preys on repeat offenders, it’s how they make their money. It’s not cheap, either! Idk if this man has insurance (maybe SSI or Medicaid since he gets a social security check) but the ones rehab cover are super depressing and they’re usually for 28 days, not 90 which HAS proven to be the better route for recovering addicts. So I think the lawsuit was less about that $1600 and more about getting him help because we all know JM loves those crazy crackheads
Mathis isn't wrong in being blunt to the defendant about his health failing any time with his habit especially at his age. My godfather died on a basketball court of a heart attack in his 30's from snorting that 80's LA coke. I've never done coke or crack myself but I've seen what it does to people, even functional addicts who know enough to not give everything for their habit, and it never ends well. Dude made it to his age and looks alright if he's been into crack for decades, but it'll take you either way.
Judge Mathis you don't know anything about addiction
There's something very attractive about the plaintiff. She's my crush
Omg judge is so funny!!!
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Being on drugs for over 25 years and he looks old….I think he’s a lost cause.
30 years!!!
Is the plaintiff the same lady,who sits in the audience on a regular day.
Is Doyle sick?
Hey y’all 😘
Word!✌🏾
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Not 9 mins in and the case just starting. 😅
Drugs + Mathis Court= funny
Ain't no mo crack 🤣
I bet that house is on the market or sold by now 🤣