On That Note: My Worst Experience

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  • @Bluemooque
    @Bluemooque 3 роки тому +2366

    "Kandi don't forget nothing! Y'all know she don't drink!" - Marlo

  • @d.d.322
    @d.d.322 3 роки тому +1250

    Kandi: "I can turn a shade tree into a money tree"! Now watch her work!

    • @1Doretha
      @1Doretha 3 роки тому +39

      Hello, and she's making money from this video addressing the issue.

    • @murjanipeterson9825
      @murjanipeterson9825 3 роки тому +13

      Work work work work work work
      See me do me dirt dirt dirt
      😁
      I couldn’t resist
      Kandi is one of my favorite people
      And I am so proud of her
      She is hot right now
      And Boyz…. They were wrong as h3ll
      Glad Mike apologized
      He is redeemed
      The rest can eat it

    • @ms.juhntialit7664
      @ms.juhntialit7664 3 роки тому +4

      🤞🔥🏆

    • @d.d.322
      @d.d.322 3 роки тому +6

      @@1Doretha check mate!

    • @TheBombshellBlerd
      @TheBombshellBlerd 3 роки тому +3

      HELLO!!!

  • @ncolastyleri
    @ncolastyleri 3 роки тому +491

    When will folks learn smh...they be FORCING the truth outta her. She be minding her own rich business and here they come with the mess. Smh

    • @GerardD85
      @GerardD85 3 роки тому +9

      You betta say that..

    • @xSertifyedClozx
      @xSertifyedClozx 3 роки тому +7

      lmaoooooo DEAD ASS.

    • @pattybabepp5243
      @pattybabepp5243 3 роки тому +17

      Trying for clout because Kandi is still relevant... that's all

    • @oklahomie95
      @oklahomie95 3 роки тому +8

      Exactly!! She be letting people live and just minds her business and for some reason, they think her quietness = they can say whatever or maybe she forgot what really went down.. and they’re wrong every time 😭

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

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  • @CarlitaCosmetics
    @CarlitaCosmetics 3 роки тому +359

    Dallas Austin also said he and Baby Face had a bad experience with Boys To Men so Kandi isn't the only one who had a bad experience with them.

    • @candacequalls3681
      @candacequalls3681 3 роки тому +67

      and Wanya didn't respond to the men to my knowledge! smh he was quick to try and address Kandi!

    • @CarlitaCosmetics
      @CarlitaCosmetics 3 роки тому +17

      @@candacequalls3681 absolutely

    • @unbiasedopinion1778
      @unbiasedopinion1778 3 роки тому +11

      @@candacequalls3681 you are totally right. I didn’t even think about that!

    • @nm4074
      @nm4074 3 роки тому +18

      @@candacequalls3681 Nathan was the one who responded and he responded in the exact same way as Wanye did to Kandi. Like dang y'all can't sit and be quiet or address ppl respectfully? These men are GROWN and acting like children

    • @williemariewilliams3710
      @williemariewilliams3710 3 роки тому +11

      I heard the same thing too and watched Dallas Austins video.....yup difficult Divas...it all went to their heads...except for Mikes. This is what happens when u let fame take over your Egos.....

  • @troyaturner1979
    @troyaturner1979 3 роки тому +207

    And can we talk about Kandi's braids & how amazing they look??❤❤❤❤❤

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

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    • @imher2679
      @imher2679 3 роки тому +3

      @@nft_joshelderoninstagram4915 Scammer foh!!!

    • @sillyme1642
      @sillyme1642 3 роки тому +1

      Yes we can they look like they're pulling her scalp to one side

  • @badtzcalade
    @badtzcalade 3 роки тому +864

    He should have just kept quiet because now kandi den hit the world with all the facts 🤣

  • @crystalclark4773
    @crystalclark4773 3 роки тому +642

    I am so glad you weren't intimidated by them, Kandi. You were a boss even back then. I love it!

    • @leoqueen300
      @leoqueen300 3 роки тому +12

      "Boys to Men same group that auditioned for Michael Bivens in a parking lot if the "New Edition Movie"👈 was on point😆 she is Absolutely right if she was a dude she wouldn't have gotten all that attitude✔💯

  • @ToyaHolly
    @ToyaHolly 3 роки тому +352

    The "slapping" of the 🍑👋🏾 is hilarious! 🤣

    • @leannkendall6757
      @leannkendall6757 3 роки тому +17

      Chile!!!! Took me all the way OUT!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @sherrigrant573
      @sherrigrant573 3 роки тому +3

      Yess

    • @itinavarait
      @itinavarait 3 роки тому +6

      I just got to that part as I was reading this 😂😂

    • @goodvibesonly153
      @goodvibesonly153 3 роки тому +3

      😂🤣😆😅

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

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  • @alexandra9540
    @alexandra9540 3 роки тому +474

    And this ladies and gentlemen is why this Queen stays relevant. He should have never open his mouth! 😂

  • @Camen_Sandie
    @Camen_Sandie 3 роки тому +289

    I knew something was off with them when I saw them publicly disrespect Mike, like he wasn't an equal part of that group. EXCUSE ME, Mike's speaking parts were legendary and he completed the 4 part harmony

    • @moniquewest3277
      @moniquewest3277 3 роки тому +41

      The best bass in the business since Melvin from the Temptations.

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому +1

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    • @tamarrahicks8122
      @tamarrahicks8122 3 роки тому +6

      I saw that! 👀 they're a mess.

    • @theeyesbutterfly6089
      @theeyesbutterfly6089 3 роки тому +18

      They don’t sound the same without him, honestly. And I’m under 30 - been listening to them before I was given an option to. They sound good - just not top Tier as they did. You can’t treat ppl anyway and expect for things to work out on the long run.

    • @BeautifullyBronzeGoddess
      @BeautifullyBronzeGoddess 3 роки тому +4

      Facts

  • @anetragoolsby2436
    @anetragoolsby2436 3 роки тому +576

    We knew you wasn't lying Kandi because you weren't the only person who said it. Jamie needs a job in the editing room at Bravo cause she's really good.

    • @KatherineMartin502
      @KatherineMartin502 3 роки тому +58

      Dallas Austin said they were assholes.

    • @anetragoolsby2436
      @anetragoolsby2436 3 роки тому +35

      Yesssss he flat out said it on Vlad TV. They've always seemed like assholes and very arrogant to me. He also said they treated Babyface like crap.

    • @d.spigner3077
      @d.spigner3077 3 роки тому +19

      The editing was great!

    • @KatherineMartin502
      @KatherineMartin502 3 роки тому +24

      @@anetragoolsby2436 didn’t they kick the one member out. He was on iyanla fix my life. I think he found out he wasn’t in the group via the media. Assholes. Dude had health issues.

    • @Dnest10
      @Dnest10 3 роки тому +13

      So many people said far worse about them 🤷🏾‍♂️lol

  • @d.spigner3077
    @d.spigner3077 3 роки тому +432

    So glad you addressed this because he tried you loud and wrong.

    • @hismom5600
      @hismom5600 3 роки тому +22

      Exactly this. Loud AND wrong.

    • @TheWorshipWriter
      @TheWorshipWriter 3 роки тому +7

      Wow! That's crazy!

    • @locddenturedandblack5569
      @locddenturedandblack5569 3 роки тому +1

      💯

    • @Qjamz
      @Qjamz 3 роки тому +9

      Kandi- is a class act and a true boss. She addressed the issue at hand & didn't shade B2M or Wanya aka Mitch at all. Kudoos Kandi. Wanya aka Mitch- take notes.

    • @JudeBrighton
      @JudeBrighton 3 роки тому +6

      He tried and failed, abysmally...now he can go back into his hole of obscurity whilst Queen Kandi turns a shade tree into a money tree.

  • @mariedesignz1659
    @mariedesignz1659 3 роки тому +587

    He didn’t mind Kandi fixing her hand to pen the song but she can’t ask for fair splits 😩🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @hismom5600
      @hismom5600 3 роки тому +30

      Ok!! And I'm sure the clapback to this video will be full of guilt ridden lies and projections.

    • @ms.juhntialit7664
      @ms.juhntialit7664 3 роки тому +16

      Yes, they used females all the time but don't really respect it came from us🙉🙈🙊🤞🙏

    • @MK-uw8qt
      @MK-uw8qt 3 роки тому +2

      they believed in splitting down the middle, and Kandi believed she should get more since she wrote it

    • @evangelistmarypillow9197
      @evangelistmarypillow9197 3 роки тому +3

      @@MK-uw8qt And it was there group, all of them didn't help with the writing ( lyrics) so why should she the same amount.
      Wages
      A Woman vs A Man

    • @MK-uw8qt
      @MK-uw8qt 3 роки тому +2

      @@evangelistmarypillow9197 Kandi was fine splitting it down the middle when a song Boyz II Men wrote more of the lyrics at first...

  • @rogerhyman9578
    @rogerhyman9578 3 роки тому +190

    BAAABBBYYY! Kandi is not to be played with when it comes to business! Wanya aka Whineya just got bodied and I’m here for it!!

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

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    • @lashandaallenredmon2109
      @lashandaallenredmon2109 3 роки тому +5

      “Whineya “ 🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheTimo5494
      @TheTimo5494 2 роки тому

      You won best shade ever 😂🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂

  • @Xaybae27
    @Xaybae27 3 роки тому +140

    Two different types of Queens. Y’all see the difference 😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @theresalanice
    @theresalanice 3 роки тому +609

    Kandi doesn’t forget A THING! So I believe her verbatim!!

    • @MrsATLienStan
      @MrsATLienStan 3 роки тому +7

      Lol she forgot everything she told Marlo 😂

    • @RedRum312
      @RedRum312 3 роки тому +2

      😹😹😹😹💯

    • @Kayela
      @Kayela 3 роки тому +38

      @@MrsATLienStan no she didn’t lol she just realized she should’ve just never told her 😆

    • @madamnaija1117
      @madamnaija1117 3 роки тому +15

      Right! If Kandi said it, it is the TRUTH! She is an honest person.

    • @cadyg2531
      @cadyg2531 3 роки тому +4

      Right! Everything she says always comes to light and she standing there victorious lol

  • @hotrod275
    @hotrod275 3 роки тому +565

    Boyz II Men are cultural icons and that can’t be taken away but they did not write any of their successful singles. I’m gonna take the side of the known songwriter here who’s written hits for themselves and others.

    • @nataliambenzi7206
      @nataliambenzi7206 3 роки тому +24

      They are trash

    • @TDgeekolo
      @TDgeekolo 3 роки тому +17

      And years ago they also threw shade at Mariah after that 2014 Christmas performance like wtf?

    • @YoungLadyInRed
      @YoungLadyInRed 3 роки тому +7

      @@TDgeekolo what? They did? Mariah??

    • @RT-jw6jt
      @RT-jw6jt 3 роки тому +42

      He played himself when he tried to clap back which confirmed his character. Many other artists said the same thing about the Boyz....,the men part..,well, had he manned up

    • @kc-jv1rn
      @kc-jv1rn 3 роки тому +3

      THAT part

  • @sharettahall349
    @sharettahall349 3 роки тому +279

    The voice over “oh you wanna talk about the splits?”. 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mademan3267
    @mademan3267 3 роки тому +57

    Towards the end her reasoning for not throwing shade back was indeed a mic drop worthy moment

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

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  • @mumusil
    @mumusil 3 роки тому +851

    this is why kandi is a successful business woman. !!! “talking about you should be happy to work with us” tf is wrong with them?
    they give me mad sexist vibes

    • @VlogMediaBrees
      @VlogMediaBrees 3 роки тому +11

      I agree💯✔

    • @hismom5600
      @hismom5600 3 роки тому +8

      Same!!

    • @babybluepradas1
      @babybluepradas1 3 роки тому +6

      Facts

    • @carlottapitts8247
      @carlottapitts8247 3 роки тому +22

      And what are they doing now? And what's their networrh compared to hers?? It was a honor for them to work with her

    • @kc-jv1rn
      @kc-jv1rn 3 роки тому +21

      Outside of their voices, you can tell they were whack, especially Wanye

  • @monad8991
    @monad8991 3 роки тому +457

    "You need to be a housewife honey", lmaoooooo no shade, but shade!

    • @TheMcstafford3
      @TheMcstafford3 3 роки тому +33

      Hey girl yes that was the line for me too. Like she called him a B!#%$ without saying the word but she was correct. And they learned Kandi is about her 💰. And she still should get some more money for making them relevant again. #boystohouswives!

    • @shesogen
      @shesogen 3 роки тому +30

      & the peach slap in dyinggggg

    • @joranmikel7339
      @joranmikel7339 3 роки тому +18

      He acts very feminine

    • @monad8991
      @monad8991 3 роки тому +3

      @@shesogen that part!

    • @andybandy3543
      @andybandy3543 3 роки тому +4

      Lmao! That part 😂😂

  • @robertasmith3231
    @robertasmith3231 3 роки тому +309

    People hate hearing the truth about their pop stars, smh

    • @GAMEBOIMARCUS
      @GAMEBOIMARCUS 3 роки тому +1

      Or themselves from the past when they weren't in the best light. 👀

    • @Sttephy30
      @Sttephy30 3 роки тому

      @@GAMEBOIMARCUS Look at cho' ass being messy in the comments!

  • @nailazion2600
    @nailazion2600 3 роки тому +48

    And that ladies and gentlemen is why... Kandie is a BOSS.....👑👑👑

  • @chasevisions
    @chasevisions 3 роки тому +105

    In the future, ima need your manager is SPEAK UP and make sure you are never disrespected in his presence. He should’ve shut ALL of that down!

    • @Babykeiks78
      @Babykeiks78 3 роки тому +12

      That is what I was thinking almost the entire time is she should’ve lit her manager up for playing paddy cakes with these misogynists trying to play his artist. This whole situation smells of some black men solidarity bull crap. Meanwhile Kandi has to advocate for herself with people who made it clear through their actions they didn’t care about her, her contributions, or even what she had to say. Reprehensible. I don’t care how talented you are and how many records you have sold you don’t treat other human beings with that kind of disrespect.

    • @YaYa502Fitness
      @YaYa502Fitness 3 роки тому +12

      That’s what I was thinking... sound like he sided with B2M when he should’ve corrected them on the phone (Man to Man 1st)... See had Momma Joyce been there she would’ve got them together.😂😩

    • @brettsfav4
      @brettsfav4 3 роки тому

      Exactly what I was thinking

    • @muhsalihu
      @muhsalihu 3 роки тому +1

      @@Babykeiks78 "Mamma Joyce don't play" in Tiny's voice. 😁

  • @snobbypolitics7792
    @snobbypolitics7792 3 роки тому +235

    Kandi: “Y’all can cry about it, but I STILL got my CREDIT and my COINS for the work I DID!” 💯😂!💯😂
    Also, Dallas and Babyface have said the same thing about Boyz-to-Men.

    • @tremainem
      @tremainem 3 роки тому +21

      sure did!!! So I believe EVERY WORD that came out of her mouth!!!

    • @lindashelton1021
      @lindashelton1021 3 роки тому +12

      You are right Kandi..because you are a women they thought they can get over you

    • @prettyhandsomegang5227
      @prettyhandsomegang5227 3 роки тому +7

      It’s giving if she didn’t say nothing they really would of got over

    • @sherrigrant573
      @sherrigrant573 3 роки тому +4

      Exactly! I didn't see Wanya shade those men!

  • @thefascinatingfee
    @thefascinatingfee 3 роки тому +314

    Kandi specifically said Mike was very nice (he is the one who left the group due to health issues--(Mike was very humble and seemed like a very nice guy on Iyanla Vanzants show). Mike apologized on the groups behalf which says a lot about them. Mitches with a microphone

    • @leoqueen300
      @leoqueen300 3 роки тому +3

      Mic🎤 Drop say that again " Boys to Men" same group that auditioned for Michael Bivens in a parking lot👈😊if the "New Edition" movie was on point Yeah I like Mike( Base) too😍

    • @eyeswideshut2800
      @eyeswideshut2800 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you citizen reporter.. 🤗

    • @eyeswideshut2800
      @eyeswideshut2800 3 роки тому +3

      @@leoqueen300 Wasn't Michael the business behind Bel Biv Devo, I can believe it..

  • @blissfullybre4679
    @blissfullybre4679 3 роки тому +446

    It’s about a bigger conversation about respect for black women in the music industry. Thank you for having the courage to speak your truth despite his efforts to discredit and devalue your career and talent. #WomenEmpowerment

    • @naomicaldwell3422
      @naomicaldwell3422 3 роки тому +4

    • @youknowwhatflav9916
      @youknowwhatflav9916 3 роки тому +16

      Seriously!! I know its hard kandi is very strong for standing her ground and speaking up. Much respect to her.

    • @murjanipeterson9825
      @murjanipeterson9825 3 роки тому +7

      💯💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️

    • @LovelyTrueRed
      @LovelyTrueRed 3 роки тому +4

      Agreed.

    • @mrmusicality994
      @mrmusicality994 3 роки тому +5

      But Boyz II Men have disrespected Babyface too... Don't think it's its a matter of sexism they just sound like jerks💯

  • @thinkaboutit155
    @thinkaboutit155 3 роки тому +14

    "Yo shade means nothing" Yessss Kandi 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @deidrapeters635
    @deidrapeters635 3 роки тому +43

    I believe every word Kandi. She’s not the only one who has said they are divas. Wanya responding confirms it .

  • @Listening4n0w
    @Listening4n0w 3 роки тому +495

    Wanya's response was so pathetic he sound like a petty middle school girl! Jodeci was my favorite male group anyway. Also he DEFINITELY did not keep that same energy with Dallas when he called them out on their nasty, disrespectful attitudes!

    • @RedRum312
      @RedRum312 3 роки тому +15

      RIGHT!!!!!!!!

    • @shaer3056
      @shaer3056 3 роки тому +22

      He was disgusting. I no longer like them because of his particular interview.

    • @deshda.almostdaily1008
      @deshda.almostdaily1008 3 роки тому +31

      @@shaer3056 I had iffy feelings about him since his dealings with Brandy

    • @lisap1335
      @lisap1335 3 роки тому +13

      Yes!!! Jodeci!!!!

    • @QronikJonez
      @QronikJonez 3 роки тому +18

      He's too much of a coward to address a man

  • @eben8999
    @eben8999 3 роки тому +75

    One thing about I’ve learned about Kandi from watching housewives is that she don’t forget shit and remember me every detail lol

  • @camecaedwards6962
    @camecaedwards6962 3 роки тому +143

    People forget that the person who they affect never forget how you make them feel. While you move on they will never forget the way you treated them.

    • @MissIngrilicious100
      @MissIngrilicious100 3 роки тому +3

      100% nailed it ..@Cameca Edwards

    • @craig2469
      @craig2469 3 роки тому +2

      Facts. Period!!! 💯

    • @1991Meka
      @1991Meka 3 роки тому +1

      Chile my sister let me starve when I was a pre-teen and act like it NEVER HAPPENED!!!

    • @MissIngrilicious100
      @MissIngrilicious100 3 роки тому +2

      @@1991Meka so sorry you had to go through that. Give her to God, Karma is never far away.

  • @bittasw33ts
    @bittasw33ts 3 роки тому +121

    3 Things Happened, for me, once hearing Kandi's version of the story. (1) Mike was always my only favorite in B2M and this story helped vindicate that for me. (2) Sean and Wanye reassured they are his ugly sisters. (3) The group of men that I once thought were the least problematic and respectful to women, turned out to be some actual Batches!

    • @WhoseIAm7
      @WhoseIAm7 3 роки тому +5

      And Nate got real hood when Dallas called them out...Alex Vanderpoolera flexed real tough on Mr. Austin fr....

    • @taylorcole7937
      @taylorcole7937 3 роки тому +3

      Let me add, they were clearly intoxicated and still had drinks in hand (at least Nathan), but still doesn’t excuse the unnecessary commentary. If I could go back, instead of saying “that’s my little sister”, I would have LOUDLY said “you know that’s a CHILD you’re lecherously oggling, right?”

  • @pilar8ful
    @pilar8ful 3 роки тому +11

    So proud of how you handled this messy situation Kandi. Assertive women can always “fix there mouth” to ask for what they want. Ladies continue to have that kind of AUDACITY!!!!!

  • @1ddedde
    @1ddedde 3 роки тому +49

    “SPLITS?!! WHATCHU MEAN?!” That voice effect had me dead!!! 🤣💀💀

  • @lxspa529
    @lxspa529 3 роки тому +233

    I’m so glad Kandi made this. But also, she gone make money off this video. While Wanya has to wait to get on an interview that he won’t try paid from to be messy and shady towards a woman. He could’ve took the L, and apologized. But instead he showed the world a different side of him that we didn’t know. Shading her career but Kandi has never stopped working. Literally. She reinvented herself on housewives, gained new fans. Has remained relevant. People know her name more now than they did in the 90’s probably.

    • @MadameJoWellness
      @MadameJoWellness 3 роки тому +2

      And do!

    • @Specialkxxx
      @Specialkxxx 3 роки тому +3

      Yep she is way more known than Boys2Men. Music industry terrible

    • @steve20032
      @steve20032 3 роки тому +1

      FACTS!

    • @xSertifyedClozx
      @xSertifyedClozx 3 роки тому +5

      you are right on with this one. I’ve been a die-hard boyz ii men fan all of my life and couldve continued not knowing this about them. but he exposed their personalities which now taints their image. smh

    • @keshashaw1720
      @keshashaw1720 3 роки тому +3

      So true. Most ppl now didn't know her for music, but since Verzuz they were reminded. She has done so much more since then. Some people just can't admit they were wrong. So sad!

  • @youngfilmingblack4037
    @youngfilmingblack4037 3 роки тому +179

    Viola Davis just did an interview talking about how we have to fight for our worth. Smh.

    • @daddyschoc
      @daddyschoc 3 роки тому +1

      Sure she didnt mean each other

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

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  • @NotHalfBadNomad
    @NotHalfBadNomad Рік тому +1

    I love Kandi! This powerful woman has earned and deserves every penny she has in the bank! Also, watching her over the years, I believe every word that comes out of her mouth. I trust that she tells her truth and speaks her feelings accurately.
    PS- whoever edits in all of the funny video bits and sound effects is hilarious! I love all of the side eye.

  • @rozay6124
    @rozay6124 3 роки тому +30

    Kandi definitely is a great business woman and extremely professional. Definitely inspires me.

  • @deasiacousar835
    @deasiacousar835 3 роки тому +150

    “It don’t matter that you shaded me you can’t shade my businesses!!! PERIODDD!!!! PERIODDD!!!😍😍😍🤩🤩🤩🤩💯💯💯💯

  • @joisand197
    @joisand197 3 роки тому +224

    That’s right Kandi, no one can tell you about your feelings or how felt about a situation. You felt how u felt and that’s that.

  • @allisongarrettbarber
    @allisongarrettbarber 3 роки тому +210

    Girl (Kandi) you all were great on the Verzuz. Now on Boyz 2 men, you weren't the only producer who has said that. Dallas Austin and Baceface, said the same thing. Those were your experiences, so no one can tell you what your experience were with them.

    • @verystylishordinarypeople
      @verystylishordinarypeople 3 роки тому +18

      Yep, Dallas said they dissed Babyface. Babyface! Baby face? Huh. Wah?

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 3 роки тому +10

      @@verystylishordinarypeople exactly ! He wrote most of their iconic hits 🤦🏽

  • @BraidLoungeTV
    @BraidLoungeTV 3 роки тому +6

    I absolutely love me some Kandi and have so much respect for her!

  • @vocalygiftd
    @vocalygiftd 3 роки тому +11

    As a songwriter this is such an important experience and I’m thankful you shared it! I advocate for us (writer’s) especially black women and this encourages me! Our work is niched but within it WE KNOW what happens. I love you even more and I believe you, period. 💯💯💯

  • @eshesh622
    @eshesh622 3 роки тому +170

    I love how she teaching business women and men about legit business period that’s all I’m gonna say ... Stay woke love 🥰

    • @ShawnteAmoure
      @ShawnteAmoure 3 роки тому +8

      YESSSSSS!!!! Catch those gems Baby!

  • @serenityb.8379
    @serenityb.8379 3 роки тому +157

    Kandi, that is why you are still here, and they are now... Boys are Gone!

    • @munyau3
      @munyau3 3 роки тому +4

      The boys are legend. No one in the music industry will remember Kandi but boys 2 Men have it locked and sealed.

    • @hotchocolate6804
      @hotchocolate6804 3 роки тому +16

      Yeah on bended knees longing for yesterday cause it's so hard to say goodbye....Kandi never stopped being irrelevant boo

    • @TheMcstafford3
      @TheMcstafford3 3 роки тому +36

      @@munyau3 sorry but Kandi is still writing and she is producing and acting facts.

    • @VashtiPerry
      @VashtiPerry 3 роки тому +14

      @@munyau3 😂 delusional

    • @RedRum312
      @RedRum312 3 роки тому +2

      😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹

  • @atashawright4348
    @atashawright4348 3 роки тому +113

    Wanye seems like he had an ego then and now. He was definitely in his feelings with his response. Good for you

    • @moniquewest3277
      @moniquewest3277 3 роки тому +7

      I agree...a lot of nerve since he was boinking an inappropriately too-young Brandy. Gross.

  • @anthill927
    @anthill927 3 роки тому +42

    Jami edited the shit out of this video lmao great job girl!

    • @HauseOfGlam
      @HauseOfGlam Місяць тому

      😘 3yrs later just had to watch it again

  • @amandamedia1126
    @amandamedia1126 3 роки тому +28

    I’m glad Mike apologize overall the disrespect is wrong and not called for.

  • @serenityb.8379
    @serenityb.8379 3 роки тому +330

    They felt like they were better than you, and the fact you are a woman... they felt you should be proud to bow down to them. Business is business between men or women is still should remain the same. That is why Karma came to back around to their selfless AZZ!

    • @VlogMediaBrees
      @VlogMediaBrees 3 роки тому +13

      I think you meant "selfish"❤

    • @munyau3
      @munyau3 3 роки тому +1

      🤫🤫🤫🤫 You go girl, call them selfless again🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @cutiepie5884
      @cutiepie5884 3 роки тому +1

      What is their net worth?

    • @anetragoolsby2436
      @anetragoolsby2436 3 роки тому

      They thought they better then everybody

    • @serenityb.8379
      @serenityb.8379 3 роки тому +1

      @@VlogMediaBrees So you are like the grammar police for UA-cam? You must be the world's greatest English professor?? Thank You, for that English lesson Grandma.

  • @MrRickymoore
    @MrRickymoore 3 роки тому +111

    This is how a real Taurus respond! she choose and pick her battles wisely, she didn't had to stoop low on her video like Wanye. She came and addressed what happened and she didn't disrespect and diss him back. I fuck with Kandi we share the similar traits it's a Taurus thing hahaha

    • @femylafi
      @femylafi 3 роки тому +4

      Haha... She is cool... Bit she did say he needs a peach... Which translates to me as a big old big girls blouse.. 😂.. I love Kandi and her marketable personality. It should have been her who got that TV show... Instead of that tardy Barbie fool.. With those awful duck lips. That really do look like duck lips. 😂

    • @GerardD85
      @GerardD85 3 роки тому

      Wys 💯. She's a real boss!

    • @youtubestolemyoriginalhandle
      @youtubestolemyoriginalhandle 3 роки тому

      @@femylafi ducks have bills

    • @femylafi
      @femylafi 3 роки тому

      @@youtubestolemyoriginalhandle people have bills too. Just saying 😂

    • @evangelistmarypillow9197
      @evangelistmarypillow9197 3 роки тому

      @@femylafi 🍑😜😝

  • @realitytvfan6414
    @realitytvfan6414 3 роки тому +249

    musicians need to understand that if they don’t write their own songs, they can’t be out here giving songwriters an attitude. writers are the ones literally responsible for their success when it really comes down to it

    • @prettyhandsomegang5227
      @prettyhandsomegang5227 3 роки тому +15

      Facts becuz they can find anyone too sing the song are they can be like Mariah Carey and just make their own hits

    • @final1fantasy
      @final1fantasy 3 роки тому +8

      😂🤣Yeah, right. If that was true Kandi would be singing her own songs. Without the singer's unique delivery the song wouldn't be successful.
      So, they work must work TOGETHER.

    • @WhoseIAm7
      @WhoseIAm7 3 роки тому +1

      You all don't know. They are some talented dickheads, BUT they've written a lot of their own material since CooleyHighHarmony. Particularly the album with the combination of their first names. Now the second tracks Kandi worked with them on are on that album. We will never know what really happened, but Kandi Is batting a 1000 in the truth category...

  • @RideTheMaverickTV
    @RideTheMaverickTV 3 роки тому +30

    I believe everything Kandi is saying right now, especially considering the fact that they disrespected BabyFace with I’ll Make Love To You.

  • @lovebekkikayy
    @lovebekkikayy 3 роки тому +9

    Kandi always keeps it like it is. That's why I love her. Her integrity is so strong, no matter who is present.

  • @anotemyer
    @anotemyer 3 роки тому +61

    Kandi is able to find a bag anywhere! Now on UA-cam!!

  • @MamacitaNatural
    @MamacitaNatural 3 роки тому +23

    Mike was always my favorite member of the group (plus he was fine too). I hope he is healthy & doing well

  • @reflectionsofagenxdiva
    @reflectionsofagenxdiva 3 роки тому +149

    Kandi you saying Wanyah needs to be a house wife was shade 😂😂😂🤣😂😂 🌴

    • @ak-xp4hp
      @ak-xp4hp 3 роки тому +11

      Honey! He was giving messy gay vibes with his response

    • @Samahsings
      @Samahsings 3 роки тому +13

      Also that peach slap.

    • @andybandy3543
      @andybandy3543 3 роки тому +1

      Not Wanyah 🤣🤣🤣

    • @MissIngrilicious100
      @MissIngrilicious100 3 роки тому

      @@ak-xp4hp 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @shalisedixon6771
      @shalisedixon6771 3 роки тому +9

      It was the slap on the peach ass for me🤣

  • @justbusiness01
    @justbusiness01 3 роки тому +9

    I love Kandi and how humble she is. It’s her amazing qualities that keep her blessed and successful.

  • @jae6335
    @jae6335 Рік тому +2

    Kandi inspires respect. Not only is she talented and has a phenomenal business mind, but she is spectacularly emotionally intelligent.

  • @Vampirictattoo
    @Vampirictattoo 3 роки тому +188

    Wanya was giving messy power bottom queen in that interview, it was actually an embarrassment to watch & he owes Kandi an apology coming at her sideways like that. The industry has been talking about boyz 2 men vile attitudes for years. While we’re at it let’s discuss Wanya messing with brandy when she was a child.

    • @RedRum312
      @RedRum312 3 роки тому +5

      🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 3 роки тому +12

      Brandy's parents should have stepped in to that mess . Her Mom is no shrinking flower.

    • @hismom5600
      @hismom5600 3 роки тому +2

      Oop!!!!!💯👍

    • @VocallyYours3
      @VocallyYours3 3 роки тому +3

      LOL GIMMIE YOUR CELLULAR DEVICE 📱 RIGHT NOW!!☝🏽😂

    • @monad8991
      @monad8991 3 роки тому +3

      lmaoooooooo not power bottom! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @BrownSouthernGirl
    @BrownSouthernGirl 3 роки тому +68

    Kandi (I can turn a shade tree into a money tree). Nobody can touch her body of work.

  • @kayh1654
    @kayh1654 3 роки тому +8

    1 thing about Kandi, she's NOT a liar.....PERIOD

  • @tonibrooks9719
    @tonibrooks9719 3 роки тому

    That was so well stated that Boys to men clearly should know not to mess with a Queen! Kandi is a boss! You go girl.❤️❤️

  • @nerocentric
    @nerocentric 3 роки тому +16

    “I don’t care if you felt like I should have got 5% or 2%, it’s still a discussion to be had if we’re doing business together.”
    And that is why Kandi is a successful business woman!
    The best part of this video is Kandi at 15:04. 🤑

  • @AshleyRueFly
    @AshleyRueFly 3 роки тому +104

    It’s the hating on Kandi for me! Sir have a seat!

    • @LBright4444
      @LBright4444 3 роки тому +2

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @thefascinatingfee
      @thefascinatingfee 3 роки тому +11

      He needs to have several seats. They are misogynist

    • @AshleyRueFly
      @AshleyRueFly 3 роки тому +2

      @@thefascinatingfee exactly!

    • @josephinecannon228
      @josephinecannon228 3 роки тому +2

      But she brought it up. Despite how Kim Zolziack treated her and ripped her off. She doesn’t consider her being her worst experience ???

    • @AshleyRueFly
      @AshleyRueFly 3 роки тому +3

      @@josephinecannon228 friend!! listen I didn’t come up here to debate with anybody. If that’s how you feel, and what you think…cool

  • @lcukei
    @lcukei 3 роки тому +47

    Kandi! You gave them grace and mercy and you shined so big in this video! A true BOSS and entrepreneur!💛✊🏾

  • @lmckay7572
    @lmckay7572 3 роки тому +68

    Y’all killed it on versus 🤩

    • @CompletelyMzE
      @CompletelyMzE 3 роки тому +3

      Yes girl! I watched it twice! Love UA-cam for that 🎤

    • @anetragoolsby2436
      @anetragoolsby2436 3 роки тому +4

      Kandi's energy got me so lit

  • @freshangel1
    @freshangel1 3 роки тому +15

    Kandi is the epitome of what a Lady Boss should be:
    Soft enough to be loving and feminine
    Strong enough to defend herself and not be a walk over
    Zealous enough to do business
    Straight enough to love her truth
    Good enough to not go over board on any
    She’s a perfect split in all areas she’s worth emulating

  • @DajaLatte
    @DajaLatte 3 роки тому +9

    Kandi will come with the REAL every time!!!!!!

  • @catinawilliams4645
    @catinawilliams4645 3 роки тому +102

    He didn’t know that you heard their conversation with your manager. The NERVE to not only talk crazy about you to your manager but to come through a door you opened and not even speak……….smdh

    • @chiffonk28
      @chiffonk28 3 роки тому +5

      She was good cause I would say yall grown ass men didn't see the lady who opened the door for you, well damn!!!

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/fmtG896Fy8o/v-deo.html

    • @zeepickens9049
      @zeepickens9049 3 роки тому +3

      *That seemed so **#BitchAssNess**!!!!* 🤬

  • @hadiyahb9393
    @hadiyahb9393 3 роки тому +163

    That was crazy that they just walked past you and didn’t say thank you for opening the door or say hello. I’m not used to men acting that way 🤷🏽‍♀️
    I’m glad you got what you were supposed to get Kandi!

  • @jwhitley26
    @jwhitley26 3 роки тому +43

    Lol!! That reminds me of the time you told NeNe “I’m not changing “ when she wanted you to change rooms 😂😂

    • @anetragoolsby2436
      @anetragoolsby2436 3 роки тому +14

      Kandi and Sheree are the only ones on that show who never kissed Nene's behind. Oh and Claudia 😂😂😂😂

    • @jwhitley26
      @jwhitley26 3 роки тому +1

      @@anetragoolsby2436 correct and they wasn’t having it lol

    • @thefascinatingfee
      @thefascinatingfee 3 роки тому +5

      She actually sang it " I'mmm not changinnng!!" I was weak!!

  • @DaringDanielletravels
    @DaringDanielletravels 3 роки тому +14

    Wow, Kandi is such a trail blazer and strong, talented woman

  • @chantalbrown3285
    @chantalbrown3285 3 роки тому +1

    Wow Kandi, you sharing your experience adds validity to the disrespect boss women and women period go through!!!

  • @jgibson8092
    @jgibson8092 3 роки тому +96

    when she said they said " I cant believe she even fix her mouth to ask for some splits" I almost fell out Just the Disrespect of it all these dudes egos are on another level wow . what Mike did was something I would've done mike is the real mvp of this situation thank you mike.

    • @missdoublemint2005
      @missdoublemint2005 3 роки тому +15

      I agree J Gibson💯 Their egos were wayyyy too much. Mike was at least sincere enough to apologize. The rest of the group did him dirty and continued on without him. He still goes through some emotional trauma about that. He was on Iyanla Vanzant expressing his feelings about that.

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/fmtG896Fy8o/v-deo.html

    • @YaYa502Fitness
      @YaYa502Fitness 3 роки тому +6

      Yes, but he should’ve corrected his group members in person/real time in front of Kandi. Not “off record”.

  • @realiticommentator6804
    @realiticommentator6804 3 роки тому +150

    They were misogynistic assholes and I’m so glad you stood up for yourself!! Ain’t a damn thing him or nobody else can say to downplay your career bc your work speaks for itself!! Keep winning!!💜

    • @ACETHEEGR8
      @ACETHEEGR8 3 роки тому +4

      facts

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/fmtG896Fy8o/v-deo.html

    • @bettyas74
      @bettyas74 Рік тому

      How did it turn out? Did u get ur fair split!?

  • @theebonyshow5536
    @theebonyshow5536 3 роки тому +41

    Kandi is literally one of my inspirations. Just a boss out here, a living legend that makes dreams look attainable for Black women. ♥️♥️🎶🎶🪄🪄

  • @showme413
    @showme413 3 роки тому +4

    Exactly, Kandi..Clear your dayum name...When he FIXED HIS MOUTH to talk about it we knew it was some BS. LUV YOU SIS💫

  • @hahadarrie
    @hahadarrie 3 роки тому +36

    I'm so happy she didn't recant or down play her experience. I'm a fan of B2M's music but their reputation is horrible.

  • @ucheok4562
    @ucheok4562 3 роки тому +77

    Probably so many young and upcoming songwriters who have gone through similar situations and got bullied out of getting paid for their hardwork!! Speak on it Kandi! Show them you have to fight for the rights to your work.

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/fmtG896Fy8o/v-deo.html

  • @alexanderakan6131
    @alexanderakan6131 3 роки тому +88

    All them boys in that group look like they stay with an attitude.

  • @mumusil
    @mumusil 3 роки тому +37

    lemme get my popcorn 🍿👀 give us the real tea kandi 😆

  • @pial4841
    @pial4841 3 роки тому

    Kandi is soooo BOSSED UP!! My inspiration on a normal day and dark one. Such a Taurusss too, like me! Love all the way from South London, UK ❤❤❤

  • @hesable007
    @hesable007 3 роки тому +14

    This is why I love Kandi...she's about her business and she don't retract...SHE SAID WHAT SHE SAID! ❤ She keeps it real...#bossbabe

  • @imsoadored1419
    @imsoadored1419 3 роки тому +18

    Omg ! Kandi, I love how you handled that clap back❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @KezzyBoo
    @KezzyBoo 3 роки тому +29

    Glad you telling it, Kandi. The fact that he responded to a women but not the multiple men who said the same thing about the group says a lot, imo.

    • @RaychelleofSunshine
      @RaychelleofSunshine 3 роки тому

      So true

    • @keshamassington5780
      @keshamassington5780 3 роки тому

      I agree that everyone should tell their story, but people keep saying they didn’t respond to Dallas Austin’s comments, and that is not true. Wanye didn’t respond, because Nate responded to Dallas rather quickly. I think his response is still on his Twitter account. And I have to say, Dallas went on mute after Nate’s response, so I have to wonder...

    • @KezzyBoo
      @KezzyBoo 3 роки тому

      @@keshamassington5780 Good to know. Did they respond to Babyface, too? I still believe there's something behind his response. He still did the most by going in on her singing. He's been funny towards Brandy, too. I'll continue to side-eye him.

    • @keshamassington5780
      @keshamassington5780 3 роки тому

      @@KezzyBoo Honestly, the only two people that I have known to speak on B2M have been Dallas Austin and Kandi. I will have to look up what Babyface said, because I haven’t personally seen (or heard) it. I will say that everyone keeps mentioning the Babyface incident, but B2M has said many times that they love and respect Babyface. They also explained why they felt so strongly about not recording I’ll Make Love To You initially. When they were making “II” they didn’t want their first single to be a ballad because that’s what they were primarily singing (and known for) from the first album. Sure, they were not on the same page, but I don’t think that classified as disrespect, but rather a creative difference of opinion. Babyface couldn’t have been too upset with them since he confirmed that he wrote “A Song For Mama” specifically for B2M a few years later and wanted it was the leading single from Soul Food. In fact, he also praised them as being great artists during his verzuz last year, so it doesn’t seem the relationship between him and B2M was too damaged. People try to make things deeper than what they really are, and others run with it based on one version of the story. I don’t know of any artist in the industry who has not had an ago at some point in their career-especially if they started out young like B2M. It’s interesting because I’m sure that B2M saw a lot being in the industry for as long as they have, and could share many stories and experiences regarding other people, but they choose not to. Again, I can’t discredit Kandi and what she is saying, however that doesn’t mean that the other stories about B2M are fully accurate.

    • @juliawhitehall
      @juliawhitehall 3 роки тому

      @@keshamassington5780 Yea I understand you .I just wished kandi would have not said anything since it was so long ago considering escape had their own issues with egos before they came back together.

  • @randellpina2222
    @randellpina2222 3 роки тому +17

    I live for the reenactments in this 😂🔥🖤💐❤

  • @jzana007
    @jzana007 3 роки тому +25

    I love that you are more relevant and financially successful than them to the point that you can now laugh 😂 at the shade he was attempting to throw at you. The nerve...

  • @Ijusbpostin
    @Ijusbpostin 3 роки тому +17

    The thing is…people who’ve worked with Boyz II Men consistently list them as artists with whom they’ve had the WORST experience.
    Also, I almost choked when Wanye tried to shade someone’s career relevancy because just a couple of years ago, Boyz II Men was headlining at our Mississippi State Fair….and it wasn’t even packed 😂

    • @confessionsofagoodgirl
      @confessionsofagoodgirl 3 роки тому

      Woooowwww!!!

    • @yezmirsheppard-halika6892
      @yezmirsheppard-halika6892 2 роки тому +3

      True. In my 16 years in the military traveling around, they have been touring state fairs and I was always wondering why. I see they burnt bridges and connections within the industry. No one wanted to deal with them. Pity.

  • @Yespls888
    @Yespls888 3 роки тому +114

    I honestly could tell by how he responded that his attitude sucks. I know some people got a good laugh from the "shade" but I'm like he said ALL that in response to what you said initially (which wasn't much) and tried to downplay you. I've known people like that...and his response showed his true character.

    • @verystylishordinarypeople
      @verystylishordinarypeople 3 роки тому +6

      Hopefully this will help him grow. Sorry to hear bad vibes about Boyz II Men. Proud of Kandi, what a role model she is.

    • @kayh1654
      @kayh1654 3 роки тому +1

      THAT PART

    • @hismom5600
      @hismom5600 3 роки тому +3

      I love this comment. True all the way through👍💯

    • @trinablessed3131
      @trinablessed3131 3 роки тому +7

      I lost so much respect for him with that unnecessary statement. The only response warranted was an apology.

  • @greeksun369
    @greeksun369 3 роки тому +11

    The reenactments and sound effects had me cracking up. 🤣

  • @StephandNia
    @StephandNia 3 роки тому +50

    I'm glad you addressed it, cuz he was out of pocket how he answered that question. After his response, I was like yeah Kandi wasn't lying tf

    • @NurseKJ80
      @NurseKJ80 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/fmtG896Fy8o/v-deo.html

  • @mpearlw
    @mpearlw 3 роки тому +7

    And that's why Mike was always my favorite.

  • @heavenlyreigns
    @heavenlyreigns 3 роки тому

    KANDI!!!! GURL!!! I just love your authenticity!!! You always keep it 💯!!!!

  • @melissakirk9033
    @melissakirk9033 3 роки тому +17

    God gave you many talents...writing, singing, business, acting, great mom and step mom, great wife, friend to many and you don't walk around with a big head nor arrogance. You use what you have to help others and that honors God. I love when you send out a Bible verse and how you keep your fans close. I have a lot of respect for you. I get a smile on my face when I get your text. Thanks for sharing! God bless and keep a hedge of protection around you and your beautiful family always. Much love!

  • @Tiffanyswalk
    @Tiffanyswalk 3 роки тому +34

    In the end, you stood up for yourself and you ultimately WON!! Your businesses and career is EXPLODING and they’re doing cover albums and 100 people clubs instead of the arenas.

  • @Samahsings
    @Samahsings 3 роки тому +168

    This is the most attention boys 2 men has had in a long time. They should be glad people care.

    • @xChizo
      @xChizo 3 роки тому +5

      That part 😂😂😂

    • @FI-xc1ug
      @FI-xc1ug 3 роки тому +2

      Lol🤣🤣🤣

    • @daddyschoc
      @daddyschoc 3 роки тому +3

      Yall are sad. Yall try to inherit an issue between legends. Then downplay the legends actual talent based on a beef that isnt yours. Funny

    • @JRenee-Sings
      @JRenee-Sings 3 роки тому +3

      @@daddyschoc
      Naw, it's the response Wanyeh gave towards the situation that's got everybody up in alms. He shoulda just owned up to what happened back then and not make matters worse. Then, it looks bad on his part that he NEVER replied to Dallas Austin after he definitely shut them down and exposed their nasty egos. He didnt hold back. So, why didn't Wanyeh " clap back" at him ? Anyway, it is, what it is

    • @daddyschoc
      @daddyschoc 3 роки тому

      It was not YOU or anybody in these comments so why is that yall place? Its NOT. U want folks to respect her perspective of THEM but pissed at his experience of HER. Makes no sense.

  • @melissachiou738
    @melissachiou738 3 роки тому +3

    That peach slap! My favorite thing ever. :)

  • @brittanyniccole
    @brittanyniccole 3 роки тому +2

    “Do business as business is being done.” You did right. Love that you didn’t back down and still handled business regardless.

  • @reded6640
    @reded6640 3 роки тому +112

    Over 500k. Get it Kandi. What a great business woman and person overall