Sorting My Life Out! - Huge Tidy With Me | Decluttering Over Half Of My Wardrobe!
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- Опубліковано 2 лис 2023
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Tell me why I said I am watching Married at First Sight when I meant I am watching Love is Blind 😂😂
It's not just the clothes you are letting go of. It's a whole way of life and a safety net that you are letting go of. We'll done and thanks for being such an inspiration
I 100% understand and relate - I’ve gone from a 28-30 to a 16 in the last year, and I have a room full of clothes that don’t fit that I can’t bear to get rid of - I think you’re totally right that it’s to do with how hard it was to find nice plus size clothes I felt good in, and it feels so strange trying to let them go. You are not alone!! Sending lots of love xxx
Congratulations, you've done amazing! 🎉
LOVE a declutter video! I've found that to soften the blow when I'm on the fence about getting rid of something special is to have it altered. I had a lot of maternity clothes that I just couldn't let go of so instead I took them to a local seamstress and she tailored them to my new body and it wasn't even that expensive! ❤❤❤
Hi Trina Louise
I have lost weight and put it on all my married life. I've been married 47 years. It's not losing the weight it's keeping it off is my problem. I quite understand how you feel about your clothes. You felt so good when you wore them, you don't want to let them go. It's quite heart wrenching. You should be so proud of yourself. I think your doing so well Trina. ♥️♥️
I think it's important to stay in the hard emotions and mourn the loss of a different time and moving into a new body phase. Not everyone will understand how courageous this is. Sending you lots of love and strength! 💗
I feel like I’m putting on weight so I’m now a size 28 so I’m looking forward to checking out your Vinted for bargains 😂 Well done on the decluttering it is so hard xx
your cheery energy always brightens my day 🤎
Aww thank you! That's such a sweet and kind thing to say!! 🥰🥰🥰
Please please please keep one of the size 30 dresses that you got a lot of wear out of so that you can compare and see how far you have come on your weight loss journey... trust me... it helps!!!! Sometimes its so hard to get out of the mindset of being that big and we lose sight of just how far we have come and can get discouraged. Having an item of clothing from your 'biggest' days can really help you keep things in perspective and remind you how amazing you are!!
Also, yes I would love to see a part 2, I wanna see how it all ends lol! Great job xx
Excellent work!! Can't wait to see part 2!!!
My other half lost about 6 stone so had to seriously declutter a couple of times. It is indeed difficult (especially with more expensive and hardly worn items). It helped him to focus on the fact that you'll be helping someone else out who needs those larger clothes. I know the charity shops really appreciated them.
I love a good de-clutter. 😊It always feels a bit stressful when you're in the middle of doing it, but you will feel great afterwards.
Wow girl, your looking incredible!!!
Ahh thank you! 💕💕
OMG!!!! SO nice watching someone else struggling with getting stuff done ❤
I totally understand you. I still have old clothes in sizes 12 to 24 in my closet. I'm a size 8/10 for over a year now. It's so hard to let some things go. You can be proud of yourself. ❤
Your doggo made me so happy
You did great, and a lot of people will have their own new wardrobe to love. And you look fabulous, but you always do X
Me to I’m decluttering today sorted my wardrobe out and my bedroom . As we have new furniture. Xx
This is my husbands sight I’m Annette and going for gastric bypass April 16 . Xx
Keep going girl! You look fantastic
Oh, Trina you will just feel so much lighter when the clothes that are too big are gone. I found it really really hard to get rid of my clothes - especially my TS collection. But it was liberating when they were gone!
Aww... Hugs my friend!!! 🫂🫂🫂
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Suggestion for future sorting...
🔸Get nesting laundry baskets to sort clothes into. Can nest together when not in use
🔸 Get assorted colors of luggage tags to mark each basket
🔸 Once you have them sorted you can deal with one basket at a time
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Sit in your tidy office space
🔸think about work flow processes for how to keep things up regularly
🔸 make a plan & write it down or type it up
🔸If you're struggling with this part, get with a
- family member
- friend
- fellow UA-camr
- or hire a professional
... to help you build a plan for keeping up with things
Love, Hugs & Sparkles! ❤️🫂✨
I can totally understand what you're going through. I lost 53 pounds and had to do a closet cleanout and it was heartbreaking. The worse thing was, I love fashion and I had soooo many clothes and things were literally falling off me without being un-buttoned or un-zipped. What made it even worse was that a lot of the items still had the tags on them and I still loved them. I remember after each day (it took a couple days to finish) I would sit down and cry. It'll be OK, though, in your profession you will get tons of new clothes and you should concentrate on how proud you are to have lost so much weight.
You’re hysterical Trina😅….your indecisiveness is making me laugh😅. It’s cute though, I wanna come and help you ! ❤❤😊
Summer is beautiful. I love seeing her
You got this girl well done on such a life changing journey, sending big loves to u ❤ xxxxx
Look forward to part 2 !!
Yes plz, part 2 x
I have lost 3 and a half stone in the last year and have nothing in my wardrobe that doesn’t fit me now. I sold, or gave away everything that was too big - it’s empowering and exhilarating- 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Decluttering is overwhelming! I agree
yes, life happens! It will get done eventualy.
Be kind to yourself!
You did a grate job!!!!! So proud of you!
Love that blue floral patherned dress on you, get a simular dress in your curent size
I understood this bittersweet feeling, sweety
Not silly I went down from a 56 to a 46. I can relate to you!
Love that navy dress on you!!!!!!! Gorgeous on you!
Time for a new chapter, embrace it XXX
🎉You did well! Congratulations! It would be weird if you hadn't gotten emotional. You probably have fun memories associated with some of those outfits. It is hard to let go until you experience the freedom on the other side.
You should put all the hangers the same way and when you wear it put it back facing the other way then in 6 months revisit your wardrobe and look at the ones you haven’t worn. Also if you put something on and decide it’s to big or you have gone off it put it straight on Vinted.
Excellent idea
Yes I understand completely. I have lost 115 Lbs over the last 2 years and I've had to declutter my wardrobe also and it hurt.
I agree that the difficulty of finding great plus size clothes leads to hoarding once you have then and a fear of letting go. I am the same, it is hard to say bye when you are primed to worry about finding new things that fit.
You talking about overwhelm decluttering has me wanting to reorganize my bookshelves to help with my stress.
You did a grate job! Still enough dresses left.
Ik keep buying more hangers. Finaly have some more clothes in my size.! It s hard for me to get rid of things because I keep flutuating in my size but not as much as I used to. Just have L and XL left
Oohh love the bodycom dress on you!
Keep 1 of those plad dresses, get rid of the other one. I prefer the darkest one for you.
Aaawww love the pink floral dress on you! love it!
Loved the 2 last ones on you too.
You did grate!!!! You got so much done! So much can go! Lots of empy hangers!
Be proud!!!!!!
Its interesting that youre going through something similar to my life too. What a mess my room is ! All the same issues with clothes to sort, sell, donate, hang up or put in drawers. Then of course a nice cleaning and i can actually sleep in my room and have it feel like more of a sanctuary space. Good inspiration and good for you keeping things real.
I'm on a very similar journey , just 5 months behind you !!
I love watching you're videos, you are a real person...
Saying it like it is...
I got a pair of pleather trousers to wear for a day out , last week, and an hour before going for a train, put them on...only to scream....as they could now fit a second person in them with me !!
Had a melt down, put on a totally different outfit...when your real tight things you used to wear are now massive, it's so surreal.....😂
Keep going ! You look great.xx
I really liked that blue top with the lace sleeves, really looked nice on you.
The ruffle dress was the best
Hi Trina, you’re doing a fabulous job I fully understand your dilemma, I have/had a similar problem thru weight loss from a 20 to a 12 thro illness, fine now. I have an m an s fur coat, faux leather trench coat, faux leather jacket and a Blazer which I just cannot part with just decided to wear my really thick sweaters under them, maybe next year heh. Really good video Trina you look fabulous now xx
So funny I had just started doing the same thing as I put you on to listen to whilst I did it. I got through it with you!!! I am just over a year out from GBS and feel much the same as you. Well done 👍🏼 ❤
The first step is the hardest,tiny steps every day build up to a big change.Go for it!
Oh my goodness, can you hear me screaming at you. Lol What a mess we get ourselves in when we overthink! You are a lovely,intelligent woman and are driving yourself nutty over some clothes. I just sold my house of 35 years . Thousands of decisions to make . So l do understand your situation. You have done well and l am teasing you.
Keep 1 item from when you were at your biggest to remind you. Think how proud 1 year ago you would be now 🎉🎉 (says the lady with piles of clothes to sort out 😂😂)
You should keep 1 dress from your original size before the surgery. Good to compare on those days you feel discouraged
The plaid shirt dresses would look great with your pleather leggings. Leave open with a tank or 1/2 way open long dangly necklace or big hoops. High boots. Casual chic.
Yayyyy to part 2
Sorry Trina, but you crack me up so much😂😂😂 I can see myself in you so much with the decision making 9:35 on things I dont want to do....😂😂😂 Love you!❤....now to the rest of the video😊
I’d Like to suggest you keep one item from your larger sized clothes to show you over time how much weight you’ve lost, that can be a motivator in its own right
Hi Trina I can fully get where ur coming from but you have to do it 😌but I dreading that I will have to do all this we are so similar regards this.I am still awaiting my journey to surgery
Well done Trina. I would get rid of the two oversized shirt dresses. Xo
I would put stuff away first then bag up what’s definitely going x
Babe, Trust me... Apart from all the other stuff that invades my house (which is small with no adequate storage) My spare room is an absolute nightmare... Your room looks like a palace compared to mine😢. I have to sort it out but it's difficult when have nowhere to put 'stuff'.. Hopefully, like yourself, I will be able to get organised and find out the best way to start this mammoth task ...😢😮
Get radical - donate clothes to a charity for jobseekers on a low income or have a clothes giveaway party and invite all your pals or just drive it all to a charity shop. You wont miss the clothes and the buzz from doing good will likely make up for the lost sales $!
I've been through this myself. I was in 2 minds because although I was really happy to see my clothes way too big I was sad and annoyed at the money I'd "wasted" on them. What was even sillier was the fact that most of them had been left unworn for ages anyway, because when I was bigger I just couldn't be bothered and tended to wear the same 3 or 4 tops / bottoms (I don't wear dreses or skirts). I felt like I looked horrible in whatever I wore so why bother going through the stuff to find something different to wear. For reference I am only 5ft tall and was size 22 / 24 so that size on me looked way different than on a much taller person. I am now size 12 / 14 and none of those original clothes are left. I found that because they were too wide all round it made the shoulders drop more and in turn the sleeves ended up too long. I bought nowhere near the amount I'd originally had as I just don't need loads of clothes. I'd been wanting to get my clothes down to a manageable amount, so I finally got my chance.
Girl you are not a 28 anymore!
Just imagine that the clothes are lbs of weight you have lost. Feel proud of how far you have come and are going. Now you have room to buy new clothes.
Me again, I would not keep the two plaid dresses unless you plan on wearing them open with a shirt/jumper underneath with pants. Otherwise, they look way too big and sloppy.
Unfortunately there are people out there selling clothes on Vinted not because they don't fit them but to try & raise some much needed money in this financial crisis, personally i think people buy far too many clothes that sit in their wardrobes with tags on never to be worn which is a complete waste... Maybe now your in a completely different size cut back on buying too many dresses
Most of them are gifted. Whilst I agree with you somewhat, It’s her job to buy and review clothes.
@@Courtneyburns90 not necessarily her channel covers different things including vlogs & make up, personally there are so many people who buy generic clothing from generic shops that it becomes repetitive anyway.... Her original angle was reviewing plus size clothes/ brands which in the near future won't be applicable as she is already wearing size 22 Clothing
Well done on de-cluttering so much.
I think the checked shirt dress looks too big on you rather than oversized.
Also the wrap around dress looks too big.
Sorry just my opinion.
And the
I’m not being funny but maybe this could serve as a motivation to not keep as much stuff! You have a lot of stuff brand new with tags just sat unworn in the wardrobe, I know you don’t pay for a lot of your stuff but still it’s such a waste. Nobody needs all this stuff. I know it’s a big thing but you have to try and accept you are not a size 28 anymore!!
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