Christ who you claim to follow died *unmarried and childless in his thirties* LOL. He did not marry, he avoided family creation, and he practiced celibacy. Now, what were you clowns saying about Rollo again?
Once again... you didn't actually watch the video. High value isn't only about money. You must also be attractive to the vast majority of women. The reason that high value men are not cheating is... 1. His wife knew exactly who he was when she married him. She didn't marry a normie. 2. A high value man is pursued by women everywhere he goes. Online and in reality. Even when he isn't interested. No matter how righteous you think you are, you wouldn't last 5 minutes walking around in Jason Mamoa's motorcycle boots. Women of every shape and color would destroy your discipline very quickly.
I used to listen to the Red Pill community. It was depressing! They're the male version of feminist. Praise be Jesus Christ who showed me the way of true manhood!
I’m 65, never married, and I’ve noticed with these red pill guys it’s “no women for you” and “look what you’re missing out on” (they have women). Rules for thee but not for me. Problem is, young broken and disaffected men eat this up🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻.
this is idiotic and maybe your age has something to do with this. dating in today's scenario is heartbreaking for a lot of young men coz most women their age go after guys who have money and dont come at me saying, then the young men should start working more and get more money which is ridiculous coz earning money takes a lot of time and you in your old age should be aware of it
that's fine if it works for you, but according to the stats it doesn't work for most. Also, 40 is pretty young, you still have probably around 40 years more of life, so who knows.
Rollo is in his own red pill lane. I know red pill people who completely disagree with some of those. Like "avoid family creation" or "vasectomy in your 20’s" and red pill will say to not get married legally, or not settle down early and gain experience by sleeping with many women sometimes, which is where I disagree with them. The rest of what’s on rollo’s list is good though
You know what's funny is both Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro much higher on the Dominant's hierarchy than Rollo is. I'm sorry, but taking HVM advice from Rollo is like taking advice on how to lose weight from Lizzo.
@@rampageskys5543 it isn't just some guys. There are women who consider theirselves red pilled too, different meanings . It's a real movement. But depending on what you're talking about , it has different meanings.
This is so sad! We have women opting out of having children because of how horrible some of these men are behaving. Also, men telling other men to get sterilized! Humanity is on the road to self destruction!
We’ve also got men opting of marrying because of how some of these women behaving. We’ve reached an apex with the toxicity for both sexes in how to overcome the other. It’s clownish at best.
No it's not the fault of men. It's the 100% responsibility on women and fault and blamefull women that tell other women to action on abortions on their children. I'm not going to destroy my testicles because Feminism said to do so Neither will I listen to RedPillers Only Jesus Christ. Don't place your blame on others because you're going down the road to misery if you don't realize you're not blameless youre like the rest of us sinful and disgusting now get back in track and run on the railroad to sanctification there's no turning back to sin!
I'd rather take the risk of marriage than actually die alone with no children, no grandchildren and no legacy to leave behind. Back when I worked in a nursing home there was this dude in his 80's who was a so called "high value man" when he was younger. He made alot of money and slept with alot of women and he even paid for a few of them to get abortions because he didn't want children. He never got married or had a family and he said he was miserable. He was full of regrets and had only grown more lonely and depressed as he got older. I simply refuse to end up like that.
I’d rather die young fighting for what’s good than take the risk of getting married! The juice isn’t worth the squeeze anymore brothers…. Focus on serving the Lord!
@@shaymalchione809 And every single one of them is given a mountain of incentives by the state to break the marriage vows Never sign a contract with someone who will be rewarded for breaking it
🔥 not all men in their 40s are sad and depressed. Im 42 single and extremely happy. I have the best companion. His name is Jesus Christ, my Lord and savior.🔥
Never sign a contract with someone who will be rewarded for breaking it Sorry but even Christian aren't worth marrying. Because what happens if she decides "I'll just divorce and ask God to forgive me later?" Then you're fucked. She will ruin you with full support from the state. All women, including so-called good Christian women, are given a mountain of incentives by the state to end the marriage vows. Until that incentive is removed, no woman is worth pursuing.
No one is saying that. We all know that some Christians have the gift of singleness, but most don’t. That is why the whole stay single narrative doesn’t work because most people want to start a family. We’re not saying they will suffer from depression and loneliness, but are more likely to.
We do have this marriage first sentiment in the church that celibate / asexual & aromantic peoples with little to no sex drive, fall through the cracks of church society. There is no celebration to singles dedicated to the Lord but in Catholicism, there are nuns who do so. Even Tim Mackie from the Bible Project speaks on this the need for more prioritization of Jesus-centered fulfillment. Marriage has its glory but so does God-centered celibacy. This burning need for marriage while an odd romanization and impatience isn’t equipping people for this need. It’s just further building statistics for the 50% divorce rate that still currently exists. And even then many of them remarry; despite the Bible giving very heavy restrictions on that. Marriage appears to be important but the toil is never mentioned, just the honorable side to self sacrifice & not the weight and burden, responsibility of work it casts on people. Not everyone is Ruslan & his camp. I’m glad he’s ascribing advice for Christian’s to be more creative have a skill set.
@Armand Vega he just said how “we all know the statistics on 50 year old single men, they are depressed and lonely” are we not watching the same video? He said it twice in this video and he didn’t make a distinction on Christian men but just single men in general. This does sound like your low key destined for depression as a single Christian from his point of view.
@3rd Way Productions Ruslan says have a skill set so that you can provide for your wife and kids. He doesn’t just say have a skill set so you can take care of yourself as a single. 3rd are you then saying from the ex-lgtv should just plan to stay single and inevitably fall into this gigantic gaps of community from the church. So let me get this right 1. Stop fornicating 2. Stay single because 1 Corinthians 7 3. Have no community because the church doesn’t know what to do with you -> sounds like a recipe for resentment and depression for those who aren’t married and who have this experience.
not really, there is massive difference between ripping out uterus vs getting a reversible snip allowing men to not have to worry about getting baby trapped
Maybe also, the vasectomy is to avoid having children because Roe vs. Wade was overturned. This solves the problem of having unwanted children, unwanted women, and paying for child support.
It's ironic that people kept saying men are sad and lonely but forgot the fact that women have so many bodycount in history. If men are so sad and lonely in their existence; then who is giving women so many body counts?
My personal pov: 1. that’s why in Islam men and women have same punishment for zina. 2. Hookup culture ruins both of men and women (men lower their standards for casual sex mate, as result that more men feel so lonely and resentful.)
Rollololo or whatever his name is also doesn’t allow anyone to even agree with him either. I’ve seen multiple videos of other Red pilled people agreeing with Rolo and he turns around to just bash them. Stating that they don’t really get it. This guy is strictly on his own team.
It is. The evolutionary biology excuse these charletens use is utter CAP, cause they're not telling guys to "spread their seed". They promote birth control, abortion and now vasectomy. Non procreative male promiscuity is just straight up hedonism, aka gay sex.
Finally I get to watch this. This live was amazing and fun. I was regretting I had a appointment. Your channels really been hitting lately. Thank God for your calling. My question is what’s the percentage of high quality men are having a vasectomy in their 20s?
Why do you guys think Rollo was the first to suggest vasectomy? I came from Return of Kings blog. On that blog men were going with vasectomy themselves. The popularity of vasectomies to avoid unwanted pregnancies came from there. He's just preaching what was circulating in Return of Kings. Though it does seem Rollo has been preaching this since the 2010s or something.
🔥 people change. There's no way I could be with the mother of my child. She use to be decent. Now drugs have taken over her life. She wants nothing to do with anything decent.🔥
Men are supposed to wait so we mature and build up what women desire to see in us. So no red pill isn’t feminism for men. The marriage laws are bent against even the best of men.
Please be fully informed before considering a vasectomy. There is a reason the majority of patients who go through with it are those who have already had kids. It is not a reproductive light switch to be easily turned off then back on. Be safe, be informed.
I'm happily married. I don't think men should pursue marriage. There is too much luck involved in finding a good woman that really wants you. Women in this country are too predatory. Too many men pay out the ass becoming slaves to a woman that never deserved this payout.
Yes, that’s because Ben is a Orthodox Jew. So his take is going to be similar to us. A lot of Conservatives come from religious background. We need to remember that their definition of value is different than the biblical definition definition of value. Our value comes from who we are in Christ. The same thing with submission. The world’s definition of submission is different than biblical definition. Yes, the manosphere is no different than the feminists. There is no forgiveness from either side
I hate the term "high value man". The way it's defined in the RP is completely inaccurate very disingenuous. Value is totally subjective. Everyone values different things. What they're really talking about is a high status man, now that everyone knows and agrees on what that is. High status men are often not very moral so are not of much value for women who are.
This twitter post does not represent the redpill scene/manosphere. He actually gave a statement to this post on the whatever potcast. And please do not put feminism in one bucket with the manosphere.
Agree that it is Radical feminism for men to a degree but worse?? High debatable in fact there's no question that feminism is levels deep into their hatred
Never sign a contract with someone who will be rewarded for breaking it. If that advice makes me a "radical" then fuck it I'm a radical. I'd rather be a radical than bend over to the state with a bad contract and make myself a slave for a woman.
when you debated Rollo he said specifically that men should not get married the way that secular society has us get married today. Get married in a church, with a pastor, without the government, and for life.
I think it would've been good for Rollo to just write books and stay off camera and out of the spotlight tbh. He's completely ruined his brand with his recent podcasts imo since people can see he's really just a dork (on vibes alone)
so true ruslan ive been working on my weight loss to get back into my early 20s shape and it has changed my life i feel so much better in every aspect of life
lol I listened to Kevin Samuels, that is exactly what he said, except when a high value man cheats it's not actually cheating but "exercising options" what utter garbage! He certainly had a good point on many topics but when it came to this topic about men cheating he was off.
@@sarabee7710 I love how you ladies leave out context he also said it's the woman's choice to deal with a man like that you can also marry an average man with no options to exercise and be in a happy monogamous relationship but that's not what women actually want hence why y'all get mad because you can't tame the alpha that's it.
@@Clintdaddy412 All this alpha talk is complete garbage. A man who doesn't have the honour of self-control and staying faithful is not worth being touched with a barge pole and his money be damned! Only idiotic women think that a man with money and no morals is something desirable. Besides I am talking about the morality of Samuel's statement. Contrary to Red pill belief God does not actually endorse polygamy. He allowed David and Solomon because God also understands exceptions to the rules (something Red pill men understand well since they always tell women not to go by the exception to the rule). But who did God actually tell men to imitate in the bible? Not David, not Solomon, But men like Jesus and Abraham. Both men exercised uncharacteristic self control in their sexuality, Jesus was celibate for His mission and Abraham remained faithful to a barren wife in a day and age where it was culturally expected for him to go with someone else if his wife couldn't give him a child. The only time he stepped out was when his wife herself asked him to, which we all know today was a mistake, an action that God did not sanction. The truth is, exercising self-control as a man is what makes you fit to lead ("he who rules his spirit is stronger than he who conquers a city" proverbs 16:32). But a lot of men don't want learn how to rule over their own urges, hence the reason we have weak men running around spewing complete garbage to our youth.
Well said Ruslan. I’ve always been taught to do it right or find someone who will show you how to do it right. Anyways once my oldest daughter started to shadow me, it made so much since why my father taught me that, and although I only have girls, they love and want to do whatever daddy is doing. Weather it’s blacksmithing, cutting the grass, or cleaning up. Plus you, Ruslan, taught me to do it for to the glory of God!
Rollo Tomassi has explained this multiple times on multiple occasions. People don't pay attention to words. First and foremost, he did say he was trolling. Second, the emphasis in the tweet is on the word 'QUICKEST'. NOTE: he did not say or use the following: best, most moral, most productive, efficient. He simply used the word fastest. It makes a huge difference. Words matter. It's also important to note that he used 'vasectomy' because it's the most 'efficient' form of birth control available to men outside of celibacy (which he could have used but didn't because it wouldn't have started this conversation). Too many people here just don't pay attention or haven't taken the the time to actually watch any videos that provide context.
I’m an old guy (65) and never married. High value men aren’t anti-natal/anti-marriage/work avoidant/video game-playing/pot-smokers like I hear and read from this red pill Church Of Nihilism.
Red pill was originally worse than this. The right wing just recently entirely adopted it. Men who saw women as abusive fleshlights who needed to be submitted and trained to behave were the "red pilled." It's been a thing for at least a couple decades and people started responding to it in articles a decade ago. The political right wing only recently adopted the term for themselves.
In rollo’s defence he clarifies the fact that he was in one of the last generations where the traditional mindset was the norm and it led to much more successful and cooperative relationships. He’s explain what men of this generation should probably do due to the rise in ‘happy wife happy life’ mantra that society as a whole has accepted and made the new norm.
He’s stated several times over if he was a 20 something today he would not get married. Men today are expected to handle the majority of the responsibility with little to no authority based on the way society is set up now. When their husbands finally snap from being treated like crap and gaslit all the time they grab there balls back out of her purse and get labeled a toxic male for standing up for themselves. Not all woman cause this but society sets it up for them to get away with it. They can verbally and physically berate their bf/ husband in public with out any issues. God forbid the man even raises his voice at her in front of people, complete strangers will feel obligated to step in. That’s just one example as to why Rollo gives this kind of advice to young men of today. The vasectomy might be extreme to some but there’s all kinds of messed up stuff being done by females that would put men behind bars if they did the same. Baby trapping, false abuse allegations etc. a vasectomy can solve a lot of those potential issues.
Whether he's boomer or Gen x it's not true that he was one of the last gens to have a traditional mindset. Boomers caused the famous 50% divorce rate because they weren't traditional and Gen x cowarded from marriage because of it and raised millennials to abandon the structure.
Ben is trying to redefine what a HVM is. Rollo is speaking to his audience/ community who know the lingo and understand whats hes saying. Ben is speaking to what his community would consider an HVM and they are two very different things. And to be fair, Rollo simply said this is the quickest way to become a high value man, not the only way.
Christ wasn't redpill. You guys would have stoned the woman caught in adultery if she was brought to you the way she was brought to Christ and you would have excused the man who committed the sin with her (because why wasn't he also brought out to be stoned?) He is nowhere near what your community stands for.
The whole vasectomy thing comes from multiple scenarios of men getting baby trapped from the women they've hooked up. Not the ideal solution but i can understand that.
I hate to break it to you but if you guys did any significant amount of research to educate your position you'd realize how correct Rollo is. There's obviously a left-wing religious bias at play here, it's blinding you to the reality that rollo's advice is meant to help you navigate
Vasectomies are necessary for Every Pro Athlete after first freezing your sperm. After your career is over or after you find that right woman, have your sperm Invitro into her.
There's this guy in his 40s, he didn't want to get married, cheated on his past girlfriends. All of his friends are married and are busy, so he spent his 30s to 40s travelling around the world, and he said whenever he goes back to his hotel, an unsettling feeling of void and emptiness overcomes him. And whenever the plane lands after the vacation, he feels depressed. He would drown himself in alcohol and tried to kill himself twice
Funny how you conveniently skip over all the married guys (50% divorce rate and 80% initiated by women) who were divorce graped and ended themselves thereafter. 😅
Christ who you claim to follow died *unmarried and childless in his thirties* LOL. He did not marry, he avoided family creation, and he practiced celibacy.
When speaking of a high value man, you are talking about yourself and only you. The rest are just additives than dont work for your life style and goals. As twisted as Rollo's take is; some people believe that. Just like the opposite argument of Bless God says, it's a different form of a valued man. However, in both instances, men can turn into real horrible people. Rollos take, you abuse women in devaluing them for your own life style. In Gods take, same thing, devalue women in marriage. While both instances elevating yourself. Just in both cases, your simply trying to protect yourself.
After our 3rd kid was born, my (now ex) wife started having affairs. We were very active in church. Culture has defeated church for most modern women. The blind side was crushing. Rollos first and second book explained exactly what happened. If your wife does not see you everyday as her best option, you will get roasted these days. This is my reality and the reality for most men who want to naively believe in traditional values but live in a non traditional value culture.
Im not gonna lie i have compassion now for even the feminists its very easy to call them subhumans and gaslight them i have compassion for the males who don't know what it feels like to love and need to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Im not that much more happy to be honest. My health is deteriorating because of my lack of care and its a sting in my ego and life i dont know if God will fix it for me for as long as i fasting and praying i dont want to treat God as transaction of materialism but i realize theres no hope if no human could treat each other with nice genuine warm hugs that dont burn nor are cold. And meaningful words and actions and good works. Jesus christ ............is the only true Pill. The Yellow Pill. Of truth. Objectively the truth of everyone they just have to realize it's good for them. Tooth ache hurts like hell but only in my mouth and then my whole me crumbles and in a fetal position as a literal baby or worse because im not baby but a man in pain that i caused myself self destruction im not sure but i think that's possible even withought the devil. Mabey I'm wrong here. But just realize man God can use pain for good *hehehe* ow. Yeah im not laughing no more. Being humble is the first 1st# seat to seeing miracles is what a Catholic Excorcist said. I believe that. Believeing in Christ is number 1# and miracles is only like residue. But neccesary secondary weapon i guess you could say. Prayer and humility a sword of infinity cutting straight through the devil!
Would love to see the symmetry of the mics and chairs match/mirror each other in the dual frames here 😂 i don't have ocd lol i just like when things look real squared away
Here’s the real rules of being a high value man 1. Have as many kids as you can 2 knock up as many women as you can 3. Keep doing this, the more you do this, the less the government can take from you. 4. Create as many tribes as you can 5. Tell your kids to create more children. Grow your tribe!!!! 6. Lastly, become a trucker and create a family in every state. You will eventually be king of the whole nation. Become a modern Genghis Khan.
This video is laughable, why? Because it doesn't change any modern divorce laws that apparently give woman an incentive to cheat on her man or bail on a marriage, and reward them with cash and prizes,
He doesn’t said it’s a good way or you should do it. He just said its the fastest way. Getting a millionaire, for the most people the fastest way is stealing a million dollar. I don’t say its a good way or you should do it
Stop it. That's his BULLSHIT explanation trying to do damage control. That fucking dork will never admit to being wrong about anything, and that's why a female grifter like Pearl is bigger in this community than he is.
I think we agree as Christians that marriage is wonderful and needed. That being said the laws on marriage are horrible and men have a good chance of getting divorced and haveing their lives destroyed. Look at Steven crowder, he did everything right and is getting destroyed right now.
I'm 54, and I've always been miserable when in a committed relationship, and I've always been happy and content when alone - whether or not I was spinning plates. I regret not getting a vasectomy in my 20s, even though I've never had kids. My lifestyle has allowed me to retire early to a beautiful place on the beach. I feel sorry for anyone who isn't me :)
Ruslan, I don’t really understand why you guys are flipping out about vasectomy’s. NOT hating on you man just curious on what your thoughts are. Most of the time they’re reversible. So if Men don’t want any children right away they can get a vasectomy and then get it reversed when their ready. Women on the other hand once they get their tubes tied they can’t change their minds. Plus there are less side affects and it costs less money for a Man to get a vasectomy than it is for a Woman to be on Birth Control and/or get her tubes tied. Plus Men can get it done as early as 18 (NOT saying people should have s*x before marriage and/or NOT saying people should get married for s*x reasons only just stating a fact). While Women can’t get their tubes tied until she has had at least had 2 children, have health issues or a doctor prevents you from you getting your tube’s tied until your in your 30’s (again depending on the doctor). It’s very rare that young Women get their tubes tied (because of medical restrictions. NOT saying this negatively or say this in a “feminist way” just bringing up some facts). Also I do NOT believe in abortion (regardless of what the reason is). I am also a Christian. But I also think it’s ok for SOME people/couples to NOT have kids and SOME people/couples to have kids if they choose to do so. I also think it’s ok for people to remain single if they choose to do so, Apostle Paul was. One last thing I would like to bring up is that we live in a generation where SOME people want kids BUT they DO NOT want to parent their kids. And it saddens me. And as someone who has worked with Children, it saddens me that there are so many parent’s that DO NOT take accountability for their actions. We need to call out the Parents that DO NOT Parent or/and abandon their Child(den). BUT I am happy for the Parents that actually do Parent their Children. Let me know your thoughts Man and God Bless!
Keep it in your pants until you're married. Getting a vasectomy isn't like popping a pimple. Most of the time there's a decrease in fertility, which men can't biologically afford with just a fraction of former generation's virility, and it causes sterility more often than people think. Saying that a vasectomy is entirely reversible 99% of the time is like saying an abortion doesn't cause any issues after the fact 99% of the time. People think it because we've been told it.
First of all good to know did NOT know that about vasectomy’s. I was always been told they could get reversed easily and I did NOT know they cause fertility issues. So thank you for telling me. And 2nd I never said people should have s*x outside of marriage. I even stated that in my previous statement. I also said abortion is wrong in my previous statement. And I never said abortion had side affects that cause physical, mental, emotional or/and spiritual trauma to Women, I know it does. I just think that whenever birth control is brought up in the Christian Community, people attack (verbally) Women for taking it during marriage. They say things like, “ You’re NOT trusting God enough and Birth Control has bunch side effects” And some Christian Woman are like we trust God and we know that Birth Control has side effects. We DON’T like the side effects but we take it because maybe some Women are NOT ready for kids or Women have female health issues that birth control helps them with it or maybe some Women HATE the idea of being pregnant or maybe they DON’T want to have a kid or maybe the Husband does NOT use protection in the marriage and the Wife isn’t comfortable without having a little protection or some Women aren’t comfortable with Natural family planning and prefer the pill; I can go on and on. And if a Women ever decides to have a kid there are so many things that a Women’s body goes through. From morning sickness, pregnancy brain, destroyed bladder, tiredness, her organs shift, if she sick she CANT take certain medications, stretch marks, fertility issues, high risk pregnancy, miscarriage, birth etc. I can go on and on. While Christian Men hardly ever get criticized for reproductive health because most Men’s contraceptives are less controversial (excluding vasectomy’s because you rarely hear about it, unless vasectomy’s are happening a lot more in younger Men than I know about). Sorry I wish there was an easier way to treat these kind of issues Men and Women wise. And also if fertility or giving birth doesn’t sound good to a married couple they can just adopt. There are millions of kids in the foster care system that need good homes.😢
According to shapiros list most men are high value since most have a job and a family and are relatively healthy. Which would undermine being anything special. His take is as much of a joke as rollo's.
Lol. Employ your talent in the most market driven way. That's why I sometimes get angry with Ben. The truth was never marketable. You can find that from Plato to Jesus to Confucius. I don't know any greater authorities than those men. You can also probably find that same concept in Native American or Tribal Sage proverbs.
The second I saw it, it was clear to me that he was not making a prescription, he was being extreme to show a mentality, while simultaneously baiting tradcons that give prescriptions into outrage. Your world views are so different that it sounds like a prescription to you, bcoz tradcons think in prescriptions.
Don't go to church if you don't believe. But replace that with something you can enjoy with your wife. Join a cycling class. Join a book club together. Find a mutual hobby. Religious people tend to push rheir beliefs on people, thinking it should help them. You can follow their example, and also not practice their belief system.
Very unfortunate tweet and not a good representation of the Ration Male. It's meant for a very specific context and situation. But anyway, it was a bad take, I won't be his advocate here.
Kevin Samuels “high value men cheat and they should” (first 6 min) ua-cam.com/users/liver-mK06gmhJU?feature=share
Literally violating God's law: Thou shall not cheat.
Who's running this agenda?
And now FACEBOOK shutdown my ability to praise the Lord
Amazing how many conservative men openly like Kevin Samuels.
Christ who you claim to follow died *unmarried and childless in his thirties* LOL. He did not marry, he avoided family creation, and he practiced celibacy. Now, what were you clowns saying about Rollo again?
Once again... you didn't actually watch the video.
High value isn't only about money. You must also be attractive to the vast majority of women.
The reason that high value men are not cheating is...
1. His wife knew exactly who he was when she married him. She didn't marry a normie.
2. A high value man is pursued by women everywhere he goes. Online and in reality. Even when he isn't interested.
No matter how righteous you think you are, you wouldn't last 5 minutes walking around in Jason Mamoa's motorcycle boots. Women of every shape and color would destroy your discipline very quickly.
I used to listen to the Red Pill community. It was depressing! They're the male version of feminist. Praise be Jesus Christ who showed me the way of true manhood!
Which is?
@Moon Man you can literally say this for anything but yeah
@@steved5960 you literally can’t say this for anything. The Bible and The Holy Spirit are exclusive to Christianity.
@@armandvega2752 of course!
I'm sure she's glad your wallet is available to her.
after getting a vasectomy and becoming a high value man, i can’t wait to start my family!
look living proof. don't knock a chick up...why is this considered crazy?
The wealthiest people in the country are men in their 50’s that’s been married for 20 plus years.
That dude is bugging!
@@ApexAL Is she still a gold digger if she married him when he was a penniless 18 year?
@@orthotuber
She would not have been born when he was 18
I've noticed there's a lot of confusion out there. It's best to stay far away from this toxicness and keep God's word close to you.
I’m 65, never married, and I’ve noticed with these red pill guys it’s “no women for you” and “look what you’re missing out on” (they have women). Rules for thee but not for me. Problem is, young broken and disaffected men eat this up🤷🏻♂️🤦🏻.
Yip, reeks of elitism. There's no brotherhood in the RP.
There is in the black pill.
Yes I stead of going to therapy a d changing their diets and improving themselves. Most people have some trauma from childhood.
this is idiotic and maybe your age has something to do with this. dating in today's scenario is heartbreaking for a lot of young men coz most women their age go after guys who have money and dont come at me saying, then the young men should start working more and get more money which is ridiculous coz earning money takes a lot of time and you in your old age should be aware of it
Had a vasectomy in my 20 s, approaching 40 and still no regrets
I don't know why this is controversial?
That's fine for SOME people, but to advise all young men to do so is wrong.
@@TGP109 Which never happened.
that's fine if it works for you, but according to the stats it doesn't work for most. Also, 40 is pretty young, you still have probably around 40 years more of life, so who knows.
@shinobivice1800 i make the same!!!!
Rollo is in his own red pill lane. I know red pill people who completely disagree with some of those. Like "avoid family creation" or "vasectomy in your 20’s" and red pill will say to not get married legally, or not settle down early and gain experience by sleeping with many women sometimes, which is where I disagree with them. The rest of what’s on rollo’s list is good though
You know what's funny is both Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro much higher on the Dominant's hierarchy than Rollo is. I'm sorry, but taking HVM advice from Rollo is like taking advice on how to lose weight from Lizzo.
Exactly they're more successful than Rollo by every measurable metric.
I’m dying over the “how to lose weight from Lizzo.”🤣🤣
Yes, as a female, i like Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro more than Rollo 😂❤
Thank you Everybody. LMAO
Yeah but they are tradcucks
I never could stand Rollo. The red pill community is crazy now.
Most of the red pill community doesn’t fuck with Rollo like that. Rollo is like Thomas Edison in which he just hijacked other peoples’ ideas.
What do you guys think red pill means?
Not red pill....just some guys...just like every other field
@@Timotheous87 red pill has different meanings depending on what you're talking about.
@@rampageskys5543 it isn't just some guys. There are women who consider theirselves red pilled too, different meanings . It's a real movement. But depending on what you're talking about , it has different meanings.
This is so sad! We have women opting out of having children because of how horrible some of these men are behaving. Also, men telling other men to get sterilized! Humanity is on the road to self destruction!
We’ve also got men opting of marrying because of how some of these women behaving. We’ve reached an apex with the toxicity for both sexes in how to overcome the other. It’s clownish at best.
These women today are hyper focused on the top 5% men who can score with many women. The men in the 95% are being treated horribly by women too.
No it's not the fault of men. It's the 100% responsibility on women and fault and blamefull women that tell other women to action on abortions on their children. I'm not going to destroy my testicles because Feminism said to do so Neither will I listen to RedPillers Only Jesus Christ. Don't place your blame on others because you're going down the road to misery if you don't realize you're not blameless youre like the rest of us sinful and disgusting now get back in track and run on the railroad to sanctification there's no turning back to sin!
@@Theohybrid I totally agree with what you've said!
A lot of these women are not acting right either and I do not agree with the vasectomy part.
No need for a vasectomy when you practice abstinence. Guard your eyes and you thoughts
I'd rather take the risk of marriage than actually die alone with no children, no grandchildren and no legacy to leave behind. Back when I worked in a nursing home there was this dude in his 80's who was a so called "high value man" when he was younger. He made alot of money and slept with alot of women and he even paid for a few of them to get abortions because he didn't want children. He never got married or had a family and he said he was miserable. He was full of regrets and had only grown more lonely and depressed as he got older. I simply refuse to end up like that.
That is so incredibly sad😢
I’d rather die young fighting for what’s good than take the risk of getting married! The juice isn’t worth the squeeze anymore brothers…. Focus on serving the Lord!
There are 400m people in the US believe me there are good women out there.
@@shaymalchione809 50% divorce rates and only 40% of men reproduce while 80% of women reproduce.
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And every single one of them is given a mountain of incentives by the state to break the marriage vows
Never sign a contract with someone who will be rewarded for breaking it
🔥 not all men in their 40s are sad and depressed. Im 42 single and extremely happy. I have the best companion. His name is Jesus Christ, my Lord and savior.🔥
Marriage definately helps my dad, he's in his 60s and it helps my mum and she's in her 50s.
Your father needs a caretaker
@@wyleecoyotee4252 Why?
Never sign a contract with someone who will be rewarded for breaking it
Sorry but even Christian aren't worth marrying. Because what happens if she decides "I'll just divorce and ask God to forgive me later?" Then you're fucked. She will ruin you with full support from the state.
All women, including so-called good Christian women, are given a mountain of incentives by the state to end the marriage vows. Until that incentive is removed, no woman is worth pursuing.
Christian men aren't worth marrying either.
So are we saying celibate older Christian men are going to be depressed and lonely? That’s such a great outlook for Christian singles.
No one is saying that. We all know that some Christians have the gift of singleness, but most don’t. That is why the whole stay single narrative doesn’t work because most people want to start a family. We’re not saying they will suffer from depression and loneliness, but are more likely to.
If they don't completely dedicate themselves to the Lord then yes of course.
We do have this marriage first sentiment in the church that celibate / asexual & aromantic peoples with little to no sex drive, fall through the cracks of church society. There is no celebration to singles dedicated to the Lord but in Catholicism, there are nuns who do so.
Even Tim Mackie from the Bible Project speaks on this the need for more prioritization of Jesus-centered fulfillment. Marriage has its glory but so does God-centered celibacy. This burning need for marriage while an odd romanization and impatience isn’t equipping people for this need. It’s just further building statistics for the 50% divorce rate that still currently exists.
And even then many of them remarry; despite the Bible giving very heavy restrictions on that.
Marriage appears to be important but the toil is never mentioned, just the honorable side to self sacrifice & not the weight and burden, responsibility of work it casts on people.
Not everyone is Ruslan & his camp. I’m glad he’s ascribing advice for Christian’s to be more creative have a skill set.
@Armand Vega he just said how “we all know the statistics on 50 year old single men, they are depressed and lonely” are we not watching the same video? He said it twice in this video and he didn’t make a distinction on Christian men but just single men in general. This does sound like your low key destined for depression as a single Christian from his point of view.
@3rd Way Productions Ruslan says have a skill set so that you can provide for your wife and kids. He doesn’t just say have a skill set so you can take care of yourself as a single. 3rd are you then saying from the ex-lgtv should just plan to stay single and inevitably fall into this gigantic gaps of community from the church.
So let me get this right 1. Stop fornicating 2. Stay single because 1 Corinthians 7 3. Have no community because the church doesn’t know what to do with you -> sounds like a recipe for resentment and depression for those who aren’t married and who have this experience.
This is beyond crazy 😂😂😂 that’s like telling women to get a hysterectomy’s at 21
not really, there is massive difference between ripping out uterus vs getting a reversible snip allowing men to not have to worry about getting baby trapped
A hysterectomy that is not medically necessary causes huge health problems and is not the same as a visectomy.
I’ll say this…. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze anymore. Let’s focus on serving the Lord!
Maybe also, the vasectomy is to avoid having children because Roe vs. Wade was overturned. This solves the problem of having unwanted children, unwanted women, and paying for child support.
Exactly. Options are far more limited now with no abortion.
They finally figured out abortion = no child support
@@wyleecoyotee4252 Beta males love paying child support. Haters of the Red Pill are complaining because men are walking away from the plantation.
How about people just learn how to keep it in their pants. Self-control is a beautiful trait to have.
Someone forgot to read the comments. Rollo Tomassi, "The fastest way, not the best."
But thank you for pushing more traffic to Rollo.
They are doing God’s work, Godspeed.
some people lack critical thinking skills and like to be triggered over everything.
It's ironic that people kept saying men are sad and lonely but forgot the fact that women have so many bodycount in history. If men are so sad and lonely in their existence; then who is giving women so many body counts?
Women are the gatekeepers of sex. This type of behavior was less common when women chose to behave more chaste.
A small amount of Men
My personal pov: 1. that’s why in Islam men and women have same punishment for zina. 2. Hookup culture ruins both of men and women (men lower their standards for casual sex mate, as result that more men feel so lonely and resentful.)
Rollololo or whatever his name is also doesn’t allow anyone to even agree with him either.
I’ve seen multiple videos of other Red pilled people agreeing with Rolo and he turns around to just bash them. Stating that they don’t really get it.
This guy is strictly on his own team.
Kevin Samuel’s never said hv men should cheat, he always specified that. He just said that they do. And he was right for the most part
Can I see your data about single men in their 50s?
🔥❤️🔥 i don't think anyone should cheat. We are suppose to be faithful to each other.❤️🔥🔥
Isn't being infertile something that decreases your value as a man or woman ? what is Rollo thinking.
It is. The evolutionary biology excuse these charletens use is utter CAP, cause they're not telling guys to "spread their seed". They promote birth control, abortion and now vasectomy. Non procreative male promiscuity is just straight up hedonism, aka gay sex.
Surprisingly enough, reading stats I discovered that abstinence is even more effective than vasectomy. Imagine that. Lol.
Finally I get to watch this. This live was amazing and fun. I was regretting I had a appointment. Your channels really been hitting lately. Thank God for your calling.
My question is what’s the percentage of high quality men are having a vasectomy in their 20s?
Why do you guys think Rollo was the first to suggest vasectomy? I came from Return of Kings blog. On that blog men were going with vasectomy themselves. The popularity of vasectomies to avoid unwanted pregnancies came from there. He's just preaching what was circulating in Return of Kings. Though it does seem Rollo has been preaching this since the 2010s or something.
Red pill has turned into male feminism lmao!!!!!!
Don't insult feminism
We need that part 2 Ruslan!! You was looking like 2018 LeBron when you were on the SOSCAST
🔥 people change. There's no way I could be with the mother of my child. She use to be decent. Now drugs have taken over her life. She wants nothing to do with anything decent.🔥
1) Self-discovery
2) Self-reflection
3) Self-improvement
4) Self-realization
5) Enlightenment
LaVeyan Satanism?
@@hunterbidensaidslesion1356
More like the path of bodhisattva.
Men are supposed to wait so we mature and build up what women desire to see in us. So no red pill isn’t feminism for men. The marriage laws are bent against even the best of men.
Just point to crowder and laugh at trad people all are shit people period
Isn’t rollo married with kids?
Please be fully informed before considering a vasectomy. There is a reason the majority of patients who go through with it are those who have already had kids. It is not a reproductive light switch to be easily turned off then back on. Be safe, be informed.
I'm happily married. I don't think men should pursue marriage. There is too much luck involved in finding a good woman that really wants you. Women in this country are too predatory. Too many men pay out the ass becoming slaves to a woman that never deserved this payout.
Yes, that’s because Ben is a Orthodox Jew. So his take is going to be similar to us. A lot of Conservatives come from religious background.
We need to remember that their definition of value is different than the biblical definition definition of value. Our value comes from who we are in Christ. The same thing with submission. The world’s definition of submission is different than biblical definition.
Yes, the manosphere is no different than the feminists. There is no forgiveness from either side
I hate the term "high value man". The way it's defined in the RP is completely inaccurate very disingenuous. Value is totally subjective. Everyone values different things. What they're really talking about is a high status man, now that everyone knows and agrees on what that is. High status men are often not very moral so are not of much value for women who are.
This twitter post does not represent the redpill scene/manosphere. He actually gave a statement to this post on the whatever potcast. And please do not put feminism in one bucket with the manosphere.
This is RADICAL feminism for men. In fact these guys are far worse.
Agree that it is Radical feminism for men to a degree but worse?? High debatable in fact there's no question that feminism is levels deep into their hatred
Never sign a contract with someone who will be rewarded for breaking it.
If that advice makes me a "radical" then fuck it I'm a radical. I'd rather be a radical than bend over to the state with a bad contract and make myself a slave for a woman.
when you debated Rollo he said specifically that men should not get married the way that secular society has us get married today. Get married in a church, with a pastor, without the government, and for life.
What does it mean to submit to your husband?
I think it would've been good for Rollo to just write books and stay off camera and out of the spotlight tbh. He's completely ruined his brand with his recent podcasts imo since people can see he's really just a dork (on vibes alone)
This is gonna be interesting cant wait!
Ironically, Rollo Tomassi has a biological daughter
That poor girl
so true ruslan ive been working on my weight loss to get back into my early 20s shape and it has changed my life i feel so much better in every aspect of life
Rollo and Mr. Endure deserve each other
Who's Rollo, I've heard him for the last 4 days but I still don't know who that is.
Kevin Samuels didn't say high value men CAN AND SHOULD cheat he said a high value man can exercise his options if he chooses to.🤦🏿♂️
lol I listened to Kevin Samuels, that is exactly what he said, except when a high value man cheats it's not actually cheating but "exercising options" what utter garbage! He certainly had a good point on many topics but when it came to this topic about men cheating he was off.
@@sarabee7710 I love how you ladies leave out context he also said it's the woman's choice to deal with a man like that you can also marry an average man with no options to exercise and be in a happy monogamous relationship but that's not what women actually want hence why y'all get mad because you can't tame the alpha that's it.
@@Clintdaddy412 All this alpha talk is complete garbage. A man who doesn't have the honour of self-control and staying faithful is not worth being touched with a barge pole and his money be damned! Only idiotic women think that a man with money and no morals is something desirable.
Besides I am talking about the morality of Samuel's statement. Contrary to Red pill belief God does not actually endorse polygamy. He allowed David and Solomon because God also understands exceptions to the rules (something Red pill men understand well since they always tell women not to go by the exception to the rule). But who did God actually tell men to imitate in the bible? Not David, not Solomon, But men like Jesus and Abraham.
Both men exercised uncharacteristic self control in their sexuality, Jesus was celibate for His mission and Abraham remained faithful to a barren wife in a day and age where it was culturally expected for him to go with someone else if his wife couldn't give him a child. The only time he stepped out was when his wife herself asked him to, which we all know today was a mistake, an action that God did not sanction.
The truth is, exercising self-control as a man is what makes you fit to lead ("he who rules his spirit is stronger than he who conquers a city" proverbs 16:32). But a lot of men don't want learn how to rule over their own urges, hence the reason we have weak men running around spewing complete garbage to our youth.
feminism for men... I was just thinking it feels like that
Well said Ruslan. I’ve always been taught to do it right or find someone who will show you how to do it right. Anyways once my oldest daughter started to shadow me, it made so much since why my father taught me that, and although I only have girls, they love and want to do whatever daddy is doing. Weather it’s blacksmithing, cutting the grass, or cleaning up. Plus you, Ruslan, taught me to do it for to the glory of God!
Yes, me too with my Dad!
Great stuff. Thanks for the content Ruslan.
Rollo Tomassi has explained this multiple times on multiple occasions. People don't pay attention to words. First and foremost, he did say he was trolling. Second, the emphasis in the tweet is on the word 'QUICKEST'. NOTE: he did not say or use the following: best, most moral, most productive, efficient. He simply used the word fastest. It makes a huge difference. Words matter.
It's also important to note that he used 'vasectomy' because it's the most 'efficient' form of birth control available to men outside of celibacy (which he could have used but didn't because it wouldn't have started this conversation). Too many people here just don't pay attention or haven't taken the the time to actually watch any videos that provide context.
The thumbnail and title of this video is misleading, why add Matt Walsh. He was not in any form seen in the video or his views heard
A high value man is a man I don’t cheat it’s honored, have morals
He desperately wants views.
I feel a lot of Christian are very much blue pilled, then they get dumped and finally understand the world for what it is : a hot mess.
RUSLAN!That is not what red pill means! It drives me crazy all this “high value man” crap is being confused with being red pilled
I’m an old guy (65) and never married. High value men aren’t anti-natal/anti-marriage/work avoidant/video game-playing/pot-smokers like I hear and read from this red pill Church Of Nihilism.
Agreed. I hate how the manosphere have highjacked this conservative term.
Red pill was originally worse than this. The right wing just recently entirely adopted it.
Men who saw women as abusive fleshlights who needed to be submitted and trained to behave were the "red pilled." It's been a thing for at least a couple decades and people started responding to it in articles a decade ago.
The political right wing only recently adopted the term for themselves.
@orthotuber not really. The conservative movement took the "Red Pill" terminology from the men's movement.
Exactly HVM is bullshit
In rollo’s defence he clarifies the fact that he was in one of the last generations where the traditional mindset was the norm and it led to much more successful and cooperative relationships. He’s explain what men of this generation should probably do due to the rise in ‘happy wife happy life’ mantra that society as a whole has accepted and made the new norm.
He’s stated several times over if he was a 20 something today he would not get married. Men today are expected to handle the majority of the responsibility with little to no authority based on the way society is set up now. When their husbands finally snap from being treated like crap and gaslit all the time they grab there balls back out of her purse and get labeled a toxic male for standing up for themselves. Not all woman cause this but society sets it up for them to get away with it. They can verbally and physically berate their bf/ husband in public with out any issues.
God forbid the man even raises his voice at her in front of people, complete strangers will feel obligated to step in.
That’s just one example as to why Rollo gives this kind of advice to young men of today. The vasectomy might be extreme to some but there’s all kinds of messed up stuff being done by females that would put men behind bars if they did the same. Baby trapping, false abuse allegations etc. a vasectomy can solve a lot of those potential issues.
Whether he's boomer or Gen x it's not true that he was one of the last gens to have a traditional mindset. Boomers caused the famous 50% divorce rate because they weren't traditional and Gen x cowarded from marriage because of it and raised millennials to abandon the structure.
That's not true whatsoever as many his age have divorced. Many women if that age became educated with lucrative jobs.
Ben is trying to redefine what a HVM is. Rollo is speaking to his audience/ community who know the lingo and understand whats hes saying. Ben is speaking to what his community would consider an HVM and they are two very different things. And to be fair, Rollo simply said this is the quickest way to become a high value man, not the only way.
It's still advice in the end the worst advice ever, getting a vasectomy in your 20s won't make you successful ☠️
@@uurone_ I think he meant, prevent yourself from having unwanted children. That will slow down your path to success.
@IronMan50780
If you get a vasectomy you will still get and spread std's
Use condoms
@@IronMan50780 How about we teach young men to exercise self control instead of telling them to take such a huge risk to get vasectomies.
@@sarabee7710 I agree. But in a world where a single mistake can cost you everything, it makes sense to take every precaution.
Red pill is simply a representation of the truth, Christ was red pill, does this mean he was an overcorrection?
Christ wasn't redpill.
You guys would have stoned the woman caught in adultery if she was brought to you the way she was brought to Christ and you would have excused the man who committed the sin with her (because why wasn't he also brought out to be stoned?)
He is nowhere near what your community stands for.
He meant high value trans man
If you would only read the first 3 points, without any context. How would you know that it wasn’t written by the devil?
The whole vasectomy thing comes from multiple scenarios of men getting baby trapped from the women they've hooked up. Not the ideal solution but i can understand that.
It's not a trap if they chose not to use a condom
@@wyleecoyotee4252 there were instances where women try to sneak off with the used condom to get pregnant.
@@chasityeve
Ya that's crazy but not commonplace. They should flush it.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 it's likely they tried.
Maybe they should learn how to keep it in their pants? Self- control is a beautiful thing.
😂 the red pill movement makes men look like demons with no honor or self controll
Because they are.
No intellect either since they missed the part about getting and passing std's even if they have a vasectomy
I hate to break it to you but if you guys did any significant amount of research to educate your position you'd realize how correct Rollo is. There's obviously a left-wing religious bias at play here, it's blinding you to the reality that rollo's advice is meant to help you navigate
I like how ruslan puts a golden brown editior on is face for the caption.
Vasectomies are necessary for Every Pro Athlete after first freezing your sperm. After your career is over or after you find that right woman, have your sperm Invitro into her.
You nailed it Bro ❤
It says to become a high value man. Just because Rollo does not follow the list doesn’t mean he doesn’t consider himself high value now
Was he ever? NO
@@wyleecoyotee4252 by KS definition, most likely is
Rollo couldn't even define what a HVM is to him when he was called out for it.. and the f&f crew dipped on their beliefs to back up rollo
There's this guy in his 40s, he didn't want to get married, cheated on his past girlfriends. All of his friends are married and are busy, so he spent his 30s to 40s travelling around the world, and he said whenever he goes back to his hotel, an unsettling feeling of void and emptiness overcomes him. And whenever the plane lands after the vacation, he feels depressed. He would drown himself in alcohol and tried to kill himself twice
Funny how you conveniently skip over all the married guys (50% divorce rate and 80% initiated by women) who were divorce graped and ended themselves thereafter. 😅
Funny no one ever suggests they get a cat
My late husband was tall, handsome, and virile :)
Good for you!
The tweet was made to be hyperbolic...Rollo even said it himself. Looks like none of you picked up on it.
Almost 50 poor no children alcoholic cocaine habits..but please stop Mulvaney😅
Jesus is the only high value man.
Facts.
Christ who you claim to follow died *unmarried and childless in his thirties* LOL. He did not marry, he avoided family creation, and he practiced celibacy.
Show me the data? Show me the data? Show me the data?
You guys, Walsh, and Shapiro type’s always cite data says this but never provide sources.
No bud, no one runs in your family
When speaking of a high value man, you are talking about yourself and only you. The rest are just additives than dont work for your life style and goals. As twisted as Rollo's take is; some people believe that. Just like the opposite argument of Bless God says, it's a different form of a valued man. However, in both instances, men can turn into real horrible people. Rollos take, you abuse women in devaluing them for your own life style. In Gods take, same thing, devalue women in marriage. While both instances elevating yourself. Just in both cases, your simply trying to protect yourself.
After our 3rd kid was born, my (now ex) wife started having affairs. We were very active in church. Culture has defeated church for most modern women. The blind side was crushing. Rollos first and second book explained exactly what happened. If your wife does not see you everyday as her best option, you will get roasted these days. This is my reality and the reality for most men who want to naively believe in traditional values but live in a non traditional value culture.
Im not gonna lie i have compassion now for even the feminists its very easy to call them subhumans and gaslight them i have compassion for the males who don't know what it feels like to love and need to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Im not that much more happy to be honest. My health is deteriorating because of my lack of care and its a sting in my ego and life i dont know if God will fix it for me for as long as i fasting and praying i dont want to treat God as transaction of materialism but i realize theres no hope if no human could treat each other with nice genuine warm hugs that dont burn nor are cold. And meaningful words and actions and good works. Jesus christ ............is the only true Pill. The Yellow Pill. Of truth. Objectively the truth of everyone they just have to realize it's good for them. Tooth ache hurts like hell but only in my mouth and then my whole me crumbles and in a fetal position as a literal baby or worse because im not baby but a man in pain that i caused myself self destruction im not sure but i think that's possible even withought the devil. Mabey I'm wrong here. But just realize man God can use pain for good *hehehe* ow. Yeah im not laughing no more. Being humble is the first 1st# seat to seeing miracles is what a Catholic Excorcist said. I believe that. Believeing in Christ is number 1# and miracles is only like residue. But neccesary secondary weapon i guess you could say. Prayer and humility a sword of infinity cutting straight through the devil!
Would love to see the symmetry of the mics and chairs match/mirror each other in the dual frames here 😂 i don't have ocd lol i just like when things look real squared away
Here’s the real rules of being a high value man
1. Have as many kids as you can
2 knock up as many women as you can
3. Keep doing this, the more you do this, the less the government can take from you.
4. Create as many tribes as you can
5. Tell your kids to create more children. Grow your tribe!!!!
6. Lastly, become a trucker and create a family in every state. You will eventually be king of the whole nation. Become a modern Genghis Khan.
This video is laughable, why? Because it doesn't change any modern divorce laws that apparently give woman an incentive to cheat on her man or bail on a marriage, and reward them with cash and prizes,
He doesn’t said it’s a good way or you should do it. He just said its the fastest way.
Getting a millionaire, for the most people the fastest way is stealing a million dollar. I don’t say its a good way or you should do it
Stop it. That's his BULLSHIT explanation trying to do damage control. That fucking dork will never admit to being wrong about anything, and that's why a female grifter like Pearl is bigger in this community than he is.
After what happened to MLD (which he deserved to a degree) sos (tate blower) is gunna have trouble getting these guys back on his podcast
I think we agree as Christians that marriage is wonderful and needed. That being said the laws on marriage are horrible and men have a good chance of getting divorced and haveing their lives destroyed. Look at Steven crowder, he did everything right and is getting destroyed right now.
I'm 54, and I've always been miserable when in a committed relationship, and I've always been happy and content when alone - whether or not I was spinning plates. I regret not getting a vasectomy in my 20s, even though I've never had kids. My lifestyle has allowed me to retire early to a beautiful place on the beach. I feel sorry for anyone who isn't me :)
LORD, BLESS ME WITH A HUSBAND!!!!!!! IN JESUS NAME, AMEN!!!!! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Y’all have no game; runaway from spaces that don’t teach you to be inclined with yourself.
Whats the difference of women being on BC from 14 until 40?
Id definitely go to church in the US. Sounds awesome. However in Spain everything revolves around guilt and punishment. Fugg that
Why would anyone think Rollo is worth anything?
Ruslan, I don’t really understand why you guys are flipping out about vasectomy’s. NOT hating on you man just curious on what your thoughts are. Most of the time they’re reversible. So if Men don’t want any children right away they can get a vasectomy and then get it reversed when their ready. Women on the other hand once they get their tubes tied they can’t change their minds. Plus there are less side affects and it costs less money for a Man to get a vasectomy than it is for a Woman to be on Birth Control and/or get her tubes tied. Plus Men can get it done as early as 18 (NOT saying people should have s*x before marriage and/or NOT saying people should get married for s*x reasons only just stating a fact). While Women can’t get their tubes tied until she has had at least had 2 children, have health issues or a doctor prevents you from you getting your tube’s tied until your in your 30’s (again depending on the doctor). It’s very rare that young Women get their tubes tied (because of medical restrictions. NOT saying this negatively or say this in a “feminist way” just bringing up some facts). Also I do NOT believe in abortion (regardless of what the reason is). I am also a Christian. But I also think it’s ok for SOME people/couples to NOT have kids and SOME people/couples to have kids if they choose to do so. I also think it’s ok for people to remain single if they choose to do so, Apostle Paul was. One last thing I would like to bring up is that we live in a generation where SOME people want kids BUT they DO NOT want to parent their kids. And it saddens me. And as someone who has worked with Children, it saddens me that there are so many parent’s that DO NOT take accountability for their actions. We need to call out the Parents that DO NOT Parent or/and abandon their Child(den). BUT I am happy for the Parents that actually do Parent their Children. Let me know your thoughts Man and God Bless!
Keep it in your pants until you're married.
Getting a vasectomy isn't like popping a pimple. Most of the time there's a decrease in fertility, which men can't biologically afford with just a fraction of former generation's virility, and it causes sterility more often than people think.
Saying that a vasectomy is entirely reversible 99% of the time is like saying an abortion doesn't cause any issues after the fact 99% of the time. People think it because we've been told it.
First of all good to know did NOT know that about vasectomy’s. I was always been told they could get reversed easily and I did NOT know they cause fertility issues. So thank you for telling me. And 2nd I never said people should have s*x outside of marriage. I even stated that in my previous statement. I also said abortion is wrong in my previous statement. And I never said abortion had side affects that cause physical, mental, emotional or/and spiritual trauma to Women, I know it does. I just think that whenever birth control is brought up in the Christian Community, people attack (verbally) Women for taking it during marriage. They say things like, “ You’re NOT trusting God enough and Birth Control has bunch side effects” And some Christian Woman are like we trust God and we know that Birth Control has side effects. We DON’T like the side effects but we take it because maybe some Women are NOT ready for kids or Women have female health issues that birth control helps them with it or maybe some Women HATE the idea of being pregnant or maybe they DON’T want to have a kid or maybe the Husband does NOT use protection in the marriage and the Wife isn’t comfortable without having a little protection or some Women aren’t comfortable with Natural family planning and prefer the pill; I can go on and on. And if a Women ever decides to have a kid there are so many things that a Women’s body goes through. From morning sickness, pregnancy brain, destroyed bladder, tiredness, her organs shift, if she sick she CANT take certain medications, stretch marks, fertility issues, high risk pregnancy, miscarriage, birth etc. I can go on and on. While Christian Men hardly ever get criticized for reproductive health because most Men’s contraceptives are less controversial (excluding vasectomy’s because you rarely hear about it, unless vasectomy’s are happening a lot more in younger Men than I know about). Sorry I wish there was an easier way to treat these kind of issues Men and Women wise. And also if fertility or giving birth doesn’t sound good to a married couple they can just adopt. There are millions of kids in the foster care system that need good homes.😢
According to shapiros list most men are high value since most have a job and a family and are relatively healthy. Which would undermine being anything special. His take is as much of a joke as rollo's.
Lol. Employ your talent in the most market driven way. That's why I sometimes get angry with Ben. The truth was never marketable. You can find that from Plato to Jesus to Confucius. I don't know any greater authorities than those men. You can also probably find that same concept in Native American or Tribal Sage proverbs.
The second I saw it, it was clear to me that he was not making a prescription, he was being extreme to show a mentality, while simultaneously baiting tradcons that give prescriptions into outrage. Your world views are so different that it sounds like a prescription to you, bcoz tradcons think in prescriptions.
Don't go to church if you don't believe. But replace that with something you can enjoy with your wife. Join a cycling class. Join a book club together. Find a mutual hobby. Religious people tend to push rheir beliefs on people, thinking it should help them. You can follow their example, and also not practice their belief system.
Very unfortunate tweet and not a good representation of the Ration Male. It's meant for a very specific context and situation. But anyway, it was a bad take, I won't be his advocate here.
I see why you were trolling Rollo 😂
No man should get married (until the laws change)
Umm...... that sounds more progressive than "Red Pill"
These labels.... How about we all just be God loving, NORMAL people. 🙏