Exactly! We (women) have to have more control over our reproductive health. Women end up doing most of the child raring anyways, so why be so loose with our reproductive health..smh
I agree! I immediately got back on birth control as soon as I met my ex fiance. All he could talk about from our first date (which was amazing) was having a daughter with me. He was literally obsessed. I never knew a man who talked about having a child so much. I didn’t immediately think anything was wrong with it since we only had boys between us bc he only had sons with his ex wife & I had 1 son. Still, I insisted on us growing our relationship and getting married first. If you love me that much to have a child, you’re going to have to marry me. Period. Lord, I’m so glad I did that. Within 8 months he turned into a monster & I was able to see he was a narcissist who was love bombing me. We had a good relationship until the mask fell off & we broke up. That was the worst breakup I’ve ever had. It hurt like hell & I was depressed for months afterwards. Looking back, I’m so thankful to God I had the sense He gave me to protect myself. If not, I would’ve been forced to have him in my life forever and been miserable bc he’sa terrible guy. Ladies, please protect your womb & wait until a man shows up as he should by marrying you BEFORE you have children. It’ll save you a world of heartache.
This man or should I say boy is going to waste her years and leave her emotionally crippled for the next guy. Sounds like that is what she is going to stay with. A man can make a good dad but the foundation of a stable household is nonexistent when you’ve got a “splashier” aka someone who always needs to point out your flaws when they are wrong to deflect off of their tired ways.
There's a severe rat stench around him. Don't trust him as far as I can throw him. If he can go find comfort in another's arms after a week, his gf's not anywhere in his heart at all. Coparent, people!!! No one should have to beg for fidelity or loyalty.
Man, this dude had an excuse for everything & kept trying to angrily put the blame back on her. He is way too machista in a bad way. Him: "I may slip." WHAAAT? 🥶😠NOOO! Mister, either change for the better (& treat her right) or hit the road Jack! She is so hurt from all the stupid things you've done. You are damaging the mother of your son. Needs to stop. Grow up. Be a real man & stop acting like a single & partying lil youngster. He's a fool if he loses her.
He said he’s trying….😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 They both are too immature to be together. She doesn’t know how to vet a man and not she has a 5 month old and trying to have a relationship with a man that acts like he’s 5.
@@bryanbeeman5256 Trying. Yes he did say that. Lol Agree, both immature but more bad on him for acting out on his immaturity then getting angry at her hurt reaction.
If I hear I am from NY one more time, as an excuse for a pass on doing something ,no one else finds appropriate, I am seriously going to lose my mind, come clean and simply admit that you are not ready for monogamy, dude it is such a simple thing to do, stop the lies and begin the honesty, life for you both, will change a 100% for the better, she gave you a son, that says everything 😮 💯
He may want a relationship, but he definitely don’t know what constitutes a relationship. If he’s asking how to fix it, he doesn’t know. He’s been doing just what he wants to do and doesn’t understand what sacrifice is. He needs to mature a bit.
People as a rule of thumb, if you know that they cannot take what they dishes out LEAVE. They’re fine with making you feel the way they would never want to feel or better yet allow you to make them feel so RUN
Don't get married. This behavior will continue and i know as women...we have a tendency to put up with so much even with cheating and such. When you're young it's even more convoluted. If it's tumultuous now, it'll probably we worse after marriage.
He not ready to be committed. He does not take accountability. People need to understand you can’t apologize for something and then turn around and act like you didn’t do the very thing you apologized for 🤷🏽♀️ that equals I don’t care and I will definitely do it again
She claims he's been this way the whole time they've been together, So why decided to be an idea to bring a baby into this And then want to leave him after the child's born ?! Should have left him before that !! If he's really that bad. And don't Marry him for god's sakes.
He doesn't have a place to live without her.. that's why he wants to stay together. Why get pregnant by these immature men CHEATING KILL THE RELATIONSHIP IT IS NEVER THE SAME..
Cultural differences. Amazes me how different Cultural/ ethnic groups bring their culture to court. Just leave!! He thinks he is all that just by all his. Anger outburst outburst this is one step from abuse. They actually look like sister and brother
From the beginning she said that she met him and did't even LIKE HIM! yet the next day they ended up at the same night club and from that moment on, they never spent a day apart. Sounds like he was HOMELESS!!!! and because he knows that she din't like him at first, he's been getting "revenge" on her ever since.
This one is on bro, she said she didn't like him at all when they first met but he kept pursuing her. Women who date guy's they don't like be praying for a reason to leave "lord let him breathe the wrong way just once so I can leave"
I looked at it this way: if a woman like her would have said she don’t like me like that, I’m out. I’m not everybody’s cup of tea (that goes for everyone). Go where you’re wanted. Stop pursuing people that don’t want you to prove that you can get them… because truth be told, you really don’t want her either.
Love language with a narcissist? That goes in circles till the psychotic merry go round crashes and you are left wondering where your life went wrong ! He’s awful
She just had a baby 5 months ago. She, perhaps is going through postpartum. He is young and overwhelmed with a new baby and commitment I don't know why people who are not married come to divorce court. Robert needs to be quiet. These people bring these terrible videos or photos to court. Just leave each other. He is not for real. He is faking he wants his own time he has the audacity to argue with the judge and have anger control in the courtroom.
First of all, you are not married to these people. Just walk away! Why are u married people on divorce court??? You don't need a judge to tell you what you already know! Just my opinion.
He's not too bright. All that "love language" jargon went WAAAAAAYYYY over his head cos all he thinks about is himself. And she's silly for sticking around.
His is narc. He is not going to accept responsibility for anything. It will always be her fault. He will make an excuse for his behavior every time. He was the benefits of a committed relationship but in the streets at the same time
If it is not judge Toler, I feel sick watching other judges. I am a man, I understand that some men are sick but some women are evil. Judge Toler will tell you how it is, woman or not but many other judges pick a side. Before they even start the case, like this particular one, the judge had made a decision. In a squabble, you hear both sides, the girl going through his phones regularly, breaking up him regularly does not build trust and this should be an issue. You don't this is what you get because she does not trust you.. If the table was turned and the guy is the one hacking Facebook, emails and phones, the guy will be tagged as "jealous and controlling " why is it alright for a woman to do it? / I could not finish the video.. Won't be watching this judge again.. I. Learn from these cases, I pick something as a man to improve on but you hip all the blames no matter what, I can't learn from that. It is an ambush..
U notice it too! I cant stand this feminist ass judge, shes a man hater i can tell.....she demonize the man every chance she gets.....like they angels themselves, i guarantee if he went in her phone she on BS too!
“Master of Manipulation” - Yells at a JUDGE whenever questioned - Squirms whenever someone looks at him - Gets constantly called out This… Is a master manipulator? 😂
I don’t get why people get in relationships when they don’t want to be committed. Sidenote all he worried about is her going thru his phone and social tryna manipulate her into not doing it so he won’t get caught smh
If I have no trust in you, you're not sharing my bed or my body...PERIODT and love ain't even a factor. Why does the serial cheater always say WE need to work on things .
Judge Starr I saw BS when he asked you that question. That was manipulation!! I hate to say this but that was a bad call. She needs to run for the hills and take their 5mon old with her. He clearly wasn't going to nor will he ever own up to his wrong doing. He showed that when he tried to make it like it was her fault at the end. They boy is bad news. He clearly needs to grow up and learn from the bailiff on how to be a man and not a boy.
This judge is wild, she berated him for lying with no proof!! The judge didn’t address her breaking up with him frequently which is manipulative and a lot would call emotional abuse. Rather the judge congratulate him for not pandering to the manipulative tactics, during the breakups, the judge mentions it’s proof of him cheating? The judge condones the lying done by the girl by saying this is what you get. This show is wild.
Finally smbdy said it! I cant stand this biased ass judge, the woman can do NO WRONG in her eyes! Judge Toler was a way better judge than her.....This Star character is such a feminist she cant even hide it!
Naw she’s a brat. Instead of standing up and leaving she likes the toxic behavior. She will continue to nag him and he will continue to find peace elsewhere. Sorry to the baby
Yeah I don't think she really liked him initially as she said. And dude cheating and having other women well ughh that will lead to him being on child support so if he's ok with that then kool....
You are standing over him in his phone, heart pounding, reading cheating texts ....... BUT you're in dc, years later. What is jstar going to do for you that you can't do for yourself?
I love Robert, he is such a kind soul, he reminds of someone. You could tell he makes his wife happy. I don't understand these other men who have no respect or even genuine remorse for their actions. Why because they don't feel as if they are wrong, they are irritated cause they got caught.
“And a hush fell over Jerusalem..” 🤣😂😆 I love Judge Starr
Lol! Yesss, me too. Also: “Tag you’re it”. 😂😂😂 Translation: “How you gonna explain this BS?!!” 🤣
Lmao I love when she says that😅😂
I wait for the hush comment! 🤔 👀😆🤣😂
Robert has his comments. Love it.
Love it when he says,"Wow"
If Robert doesn’t say the right thing, he better find another job… this show is about the sisterhood….
@@bryanbeeman5256You sound like a silly red pill podcast bro 😂 go cry in the car 🙄
One thing about Robert, he gone make somebody feel stupid when they are wrong 💯
I understand it takes two, but I wish women would just stop getting pregnant for these men.
Exactly! We (women) have to have more control over our reproductive health. Women end up doing most of the child raring anyways, so why be so loose with our reproductive health..smh
I agree! I immediately got back on birth control as soon as I met my ex fiance. All he could talk about from our first date (which was amazing) was having a daughter with me. He was literally obsessed. I never knew a man who talked about having a child so much. I didn’t immediately think anything was wrong with it since we only had boys between us bc he only had sons with his ex wife & I had 1 son. Still, I insisted on us growing our relationship and getting married first. If you love me that much to have a child, you’re going to have to marry me. Period. Lord, I’m so glad I did that. Within 8 months he turned into a monster & I was able to see he was a narcissist who was love bombing me. We had a good relationship until the mask fell off & we broke up. That was the worst breakup I’ve ever had. It hurt like hell & I was depressed for months afterwards. Looking back, I’m so thankful to God I had the sense He gave me to protect myself. If not, I would’ve been forced to have him in my life forever and been miserable bc he’sa terrible guy. Ladies, please protect your womb & wait until a man shows up as he should by marrying you BEFORE you have children. It’ll save you a world of heartache.
Couldn't agree more. You can only cry so much when you knowingly let a man get you pregnant.
They can’t get enough of Pookie…
I agree. There's rarely accountability for the women. Why have kids with him AFTER you say you can't trust him? It's on her at that point.
He's a vicious scumbag, liar and cheater with no remorse and no accountability. That "relationship" is too toxic!
Robert be keeling it real. I love how he just drop is ine liners
This man or should I say boy is going to waste her years and leave her emotionally crippled for the next guy. Sounds like that is what she is going to stay with. A man can make a good dad but the foundation of a stable household is nonexistent when you’ve got a “splashier” aka someone who always needs to point out your flaws when they are wrong to deflect off of their tired ways.
There's a severe rat stench around him. Don't trust him as far as I can throw him.
If he can go find comfort in another's arms after a week, his gf's not anywhere in his heart at all. Coparent, people!!! No one should have to beg for fidelity or loyalty.
If she doesn’t trust him then leave! Not that complicated!!!
Yep no TRUST NO RELATIONSHIP
She has a five month old with him.
@@bryanbeeman5256So what, if see dont trust him gtf on......why keep living in misery????
It is not complicated at all especially if you got your own cash
Man, this dude had an excuse for everything & kept trying to angrily put the blame back on her. He is way too machista in a bad way.
Him: "I may slip."
WHAAAT? 🥶😠NOOO!
Mister, either change for the better (& treat her right) or hit the road Jack! She is so hurt from all the stupid things you've done. You are damaging the mother of your son. Needs to stop. Grow up. Be a real man & stop acting like a single & partying lil youngster.
He's a fool if he loses her.
He said he’s trying….😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They both are too immature to be together. She doesn’t know how to vet a man and not she has a 5 month old and trying to have a relationship with a man that acts like he’s 5.
@@bryanbeeman5256 Trying. Yes he did say that. Lol Agree, both immature but more bad on him for acting out on his immaturity then getting angry at her hurt reaction.
If I hear I am from NY one more time, as an excuse for a pass on doing something ,no one else finds appropriate, I am seriously going to lose my mind, come clean and simply admit that you are not ready for monogamy, dude it is such a simple thing to do, stop the lies and begin the honesty, life for you both, will change a 100% for the better, she gave you a son, that says everything 😮 💯
I hate that too. It's like saying I'm from NYC we have no morals. So deal with it
He may want a relationship, but he definitely don’t know what constitutes a relationship. If he’s asking how to fix it, he doesn’t know. He’s been doing just what he wants to do and doesn’t understand what sacrifice is. He needs to mature a bit.
Run! He is not ready to change.
People as a rule of thumb, if you know that they cannot take what they dishes out LEAVE. They’re fine with making you feel the way they would never want to feel or better yet allow you to make them feel so RUN
He meant none of it!!
Absolutely none of it.
@@austinbuscaglia8705 💯
At all!
@@kashmeredreamss1689 right!!
He don’t know how to mean it.
He truly didn't own anything, he didn't mean any of those apologies. A weak little boy.
Don't get married. This behavior will continue and i know as women...we have a tendency to put up with so much even with cheating and such. When you're young it's even more convoluted. If it's tumultuous now, it'll probably we worse after marriage.
Robert be going in 😂😂😂
Coparent 😇 sugar and move on, the ignorance is crystal clear, the maturity is nonexistent 💯‼️
He not ready to be committed. He does not take accountability. People need to understand you can’t apologize for something and then turn around and act like you didn’t do the very thing you apologized for 🤷🏽♀️ that equals I don’t care and I will definitely do it again
Bro your a player you ain't going to stop you can't convince her with your actions and you don't have reassuring words for her
They have more to worry about than cheating! They look like TWINS!!!! Better invest in a DNA test😂
the minute i saw them, i thought they were brother and sister lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
6:08 he ssaaassssyyyyy 😂😂😂 omg😂
She claims he's been this way the whole time they've been together, So why decided to be an idea to bring a baby into this And then want to leave him after the child's born ?! Should have left him before that !! If he's really that bad. And don't Marry him for god's sakes.
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Women always want to leave their man AFTER the baby is here. It makes no sense.
He doesn't have a place to live without her.. that's why he wants to stay together. Why get pregnant by these immature men CHEATING KILL THE RELATIONSHIP IT IS NEVER THE SAME..
Cultural differences. Amazes me how different Cultural/ ethnic groups bring their culture to court.
Just leave!! He thinks he is all that just by all his. Anger outburst outburst this is one step from abuse.
They actually look like sister and brother
Good for Ms. Diaz for taking a stand and defending herself😊. He's immature and appear to have issues with integrity.
As soon as he said "but"...im out!
When he said “but”, he still was not accepting responsibility.
From the beginning she said that she met him and did't even LIKE HIM! yet the next day they ended up at the same night club and from that moment on, they never spent a day apart.
Sounds like he was HOMELESS!!!! and because he knows that she din't like him at first, he's been getting "revenge" on her ever since.
This one is on bro, she said she didn't like him at all when they first met but he kept pursuing her. Women who date guy's they don't like be praying for a reason to leave "lord let him breathe the wrong way just once so I can leave"
Good point
I looked at it this way: if a woman like her would have said she don’t like me like that, I’m out. I’m not everybody’s cup of tea (that goes for everyone). Go where you’re wanted. Stop pursuing people that don’t want you to prove that you can get them… because truth be told, you really don’t want her either.
Love language with a narcissist? That goes in circles till the psychotic merry go round crashes and you are left wondering where your life went wrong ! He’s awful
He’s so young. He has some maturing to do first … 😔
He's not that young. I was mature at 25. I'm 30 now.
He needs time to mature,losing her might straighten him out cuz shorty a keeper
Can we talk a little bit about accountability ?! 😅
Judge Star please give us an update.
Hi my brother when your woman tell you she is done don't try to save the relationship just move on my brother 🤣
She just had a baby 5 months ago. She, perhaps is going through postpartum. He is young and overwhelmed with a new baby and commitment
I don't know why people who are not married come to divorce court.
Robert needs to be quiet.
These people bring these terrible videos or photos to court.
Just leave each other. He is not for real. He is faking he wants his own time he has the audacity to argue with the judge and have anger control in the courtroom.
Before they continue the relationship they need to take a siblings DNA test. Them mfs look alike. Lol
Hahahahaha they do look " Related" too funny!!😅
@@annaprice7276 😆 🤣
😂😂😂😂
IMMATURE
if he think he is cute he probably never stop cheating because he think he can get with any woman that smile at him
Babbyyy may be tough, but walk away. If it’s meant to be it’ll happen and be good, not games, immaturity, begging and pleading. Period.
First of all, you are not married to these people. Just walk away! Why are u married people on divorce court??? You don't need a judge to tell you what you already know! Just my opinion.
I say this ALL the time
He's not too bright. All that "love language" jargon went WAAAAAAYYYY over his head cos all he thinks about is himself. And she's silly for sticking around.
He lying…somebody get him and ALL his manipulations.
His is narc. He is not going to accept responsibility for anything. It will always be her fault. He will make an excuse for his behavior every time. He was the benefits of a committed relationship but in the streets at the same time
She has allllllllllllll this evidence but stayed!!!! Girl have some boundaries/standards and leave!!!! Use the power to walk away!! Self respect!!
He as no remorse he's a manipulator and evil person
Don’t buy it.
She's childish on top of his actions no man can deal with that selfish attitude not cute
Narcissist!
And he will never change...
Why have a baby with this guy?
Girlllllll you need to drop that zero but she's not. She'll keep crying keep looking in the phone keep taking him back.....sad
And dont have no more children
She should have gone with her first instinct
Robert hit it on the head. Disrespectful 😅
Its worse than that in a strip club that was NOTHING, she aint no angel either if he went thru her phone he will definitely find some BS too!
Capacity, Consistency, and Care. Where is the accountability???
He likes it when she breaks up with him every two weeks
If it is not judge Toler, I feel sick watching other judges.
I am a man, I understand that some men are sick but some women are evil.
Judge Toler will tell you how it is, woman or not but many other judges pick a side. Before they even start the case, like this particular one, the judge had made a decision.
In a squabble, you hear both sides, the girl going through his phones regularly, breaking up him regularly does not build trust and this should be an issue. You don't this is what you get because she does not trust you..
If the table was turned and the guy is the one hacking Facebook, emails and phones, the guy will be tagged as "jealous and controlling " why is it alright for a woman to do it? /
I could not finish the video.. Won't be watching this judge again.. I. Learn from these cases, I pick something as a man to improve on but you hip all the blames no matter what, I can't learn from that. It is an ambush..
U notice it too! I cant stand this feminist ass judge, shes a man hater i can tell.....she demonize the man every chance she gets.....like they angels themselves, i guarantee if he went in her phone she on BS too!
“Master of Manipulation”
- Yells at a JUDGE whenever questioned
- Squirms whenever someone looks at him
- Gets constantly called out
This… Is a master manipulator? 😂
I don’t get why people get in relationships when they don’t want to be committed. Sidenote all he worried about is her going thru his phone and social tryna manipulate her into not doing it so he won’t get caught smh
Noticed that too
She hacks his Instagram he is angry, he CHEATS and he wants her to forgive him no such thing a a slip up it's a DECISION HE MADE ON PURPOSE to CHEAT.
If I have no trust in you, you're not sharing my bed or my body...PERIODT and love ain't even a factor. Why does the serial cheater always say WE need to work on things .
Agree. But unfortunately they are too young.
THAT OUTFIT LEFT MY 🏠 THIS MORNING 🌄😂😂😂 IMAGINE A OUTFIT WALKN AROUND WITHOUT A HUMAN IN IT 🤣🤣🤣 😂😂 LMBO _FUNYYYYYYYYYY
He's Not Changing for Her!!! He's Manipulative and I think he will continue to cheat etc.
Judge Starr I saw BS when he asked you that question. That was manipulation!! I hate to say this but that was a bad call. She needs to run for the hills and take their 5mon old with her. He clearly wasn't going to nor will he ever own up to his wrong doing. He showed that when he tried to make it like it was her fault at the end. They boy is bad news. He clearly needs to grow up and learn from the bailiff on how to be a man and not a boy.
I also like the way you're good at catching the man or the women in their lives.
Love her style ❤ go judge Star
You had his baby why??
He'll do anything but not cheat on him 😂😂😂
She is beautiful
This judge is wild, she berated him for lying with no proof!! The judge didn’t address her breaking up with him frequently which is manipulative and a lot would call emotional abuse. Rather the judge congratulate him for not pandering to the manipulative tactics, during the breakups, the judge mentions it’s proof of him cheating? The judge condones the lying done by the girl by saying this is what you get. This show is wild.
Facts. That's y I luv Mrs.Toler she doesn't let anyone slide that doesn't deserve it
This show is now only about the sisterhood. So if you’re looking for a fair, unbiased ruling, this is the wrong show for you.
Finally smbdy said it! I cant stand this biased ass judge, the woman can do NO WRONG in her eyes! Judge Toler was a way better judge than her.....This Star character is such a feminist she cant even hide it!
Amen judge!
omg the red pointed shoe!!!!! yessss
Judge he wasn't trolling. He was hollering.
“Tag you’re it”
FLIRTY 🐦 BIRDYSSSS_ ALWAYSS GOT SOME DARKRIDE DiRTYSSS😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 🌑
The core values for this boy. Yeah right 😂
Naw she’s a brat. Instead of standing up and leaving she likes the toxic behavior. She will continue to nag him and he will continue to find peace elsewhere. Sorry to the baby
Come off it..hes a cheating underhanded liar
At times i don't like watching divorce court with Star Jones. She can be bias at times when it comes to fairness. They both were wrong.
He is just not there. Definitely don’t go further.
Quit kicking him out all the time!! Too immature to be in a relationship! She acts like she’s perfect!
Yeah I don't think she really liked him initially as she said. And dude cheating and having other women well ughh that will lead to him being on child support so if he's ok with that then kool....
Please TELL that Little BOY Bye Bye! ❤🙏🏽☝🏿🙌
You are standing over him in his phone, heart pounding, reading cheating texts .......
BUT you're in dc, years later.
What is jstar going to do for you that you can't do for yourself?
A nan asking a woman what he can do to be better - as he continues to misbehave.
He's a clown
20 - 28 years are just kids. He couldn't even express himself...
He so full of it. Girl your beautiful n u n kids deserve better.
I love Robert, he is such a kind soul, he reminds of someone. You could tell he makes his wife happy. I don't understand these other men who have no respect or even genuine remorse for their actions. Why because they don't feel as if they are wrong, they are irritated cause they got caught.
That couple wasn't worth coming on divorce court.
Girl you are absolutely beautiful, he wants his cake and eat it 2
They are both immature. He doesn't know how to listen.
You say he's chearinf hur yet have unprotected sex with him. Make it make sense
Star is an old lady that has been hurt by men and its obvious
He is 12, emotionally. Girl, run! Date a man, not a child
Trolling 😂 she dont know what that means
Leave him ASAP
He's a disrespectful ticking bomb. Stay & be unhappy if you want.
How do you turn a one night stand into a relationship and you haven't gotten to know each other?
he a lil sassy lol.