IVF JOURNEY | ANSWERING YOUR MOST ASKED QUESTIONS | COST, ADOPTION, EMBRYOS, IS IT PAINFUL?
Вставка
- Опубліковано 26 кві 2020
- Here are some of your most asked questions about IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) and my personal experience. This is part 2 of my journey. I would highly recommend to watch part 1 which is linked below.
PART ONE: My IVF Journey • MY SUCCESSFUL IVF JOUR...
Pregnancy Announcement video • WE ARE FINALLY PREGNAN...
1st Trimester video • 1ST TRIMESTER PREGNANT...
____
VLOG CHANNEL: / belindaslife
SNAPCHAT: BelindaSelene
INSTAGRAM: @BelindaSelene & @PlanWithBelinda
PINTEREST: Belinda Selene
TWITTER: @MissBelindaxox
FACEBOOK: belindaseleneyt
BLOG: www.BelindaSelene.com
_____
BUSINESS INQUIRIES: BelindaSelene@yahoo.com
_____
NOT SPONSORED
_____
MUSIC provided by Epidemicsound.com - Навчання та стиль
Just an FYI regarding the person who asked if they can go through IVF in their 40’s. I am 44 and going through IVF now. Just had my egg retrieval and they got 11 eggs 😁. Just recommend genetic testing for all embryos if your over 40.
Hello Cynthia..how did things work out for you?
It’s not that you’re unhappy for others.. it’s grief. you’re grieving for yourself. And that’s ok
Love love love hearing your whole story. As a fellow IVF warrior who is about to start my 6th egg retrieval your story gives me hope 💗 I also have low AMH for my age and don’t get a lot of eggs and have had a few miscarriages and hearing stories of people getting their babies always keep me going!!💗💗
Awww Belinda I’m so happy for you ! I’m team girl! Good luck on everything💕
I love this❤️ I think I mentioned this in your other video , but you are a Godsend. I had trouble as well but didn’t actively pursue a specialist until you encouraged me on IG. Two rounds of IUI later, I’m pregnant with twins. Your other video where you talked about letting go of anxiety after miscarriage also helped me to loosen up and enjoy each day of my pregnancy. I’m 14 weeks today. God bless you , Belinda. Your baby is going to be one of the luckiest to have a mama like you ❤️
I love hearing your story. Thank you so much for sharing. I'm sure it will also help a lot of people.
Thank you for sharing such a private matter. It’s helps so much to know I’m not the only one. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your journey!
You are so amazing. Wishing and praying for a healthy and amazing pregnancy! You deserve the best! 💕
Hey Belinda!! Love your videos?! 💖💕 they get me so excited through out the weeks wether I’m at work or home god bless you and congrats on your pregnancy! I cried a little on your video with Ricardo so sweet! Hugs and kisses love!
So happy for you. We got pregnant through IUI after trying for 8yrs. My girl is now 18 months old. I love being a mom. Good luck with everything. Enjoy every single moment.
Love you! So happy for you and Ricardo! 💗
Thanks for being very thorough with your story. I'm not going to do IVF, but I feel that your videos would be really helpful for people who are! It was easy to follow. Great job on this topic
Los tiempos de Dios son perfectos. We were trying to consive for almost 3 years and just kept failing. It almost became an obsesio tracking taking my temp. Etc. Feeling frustrated and not understanding "why not me" Towards the end i just left it to God, maybe i wasnt meant to ne a mom. I started my own little business and focised on that. In June that next year i wemt to a new Gyno i was waiting months to see and told them we wanted to consive after a few tests and them coming back abnormal... surprise i was already pregnate. I have a 2yr old little boy, I've had a miscarriage last April and im currently 17wks pregnate with another boy. Im 37years old and so blessed. Im soooo happy for you and i know that that time you took consentrating on other things is that you put it in Gods hands and je answered.
Hey Belinda! So happy for you guys! Thank you so much for sharing your journey and sharing all these details. Can’t wait 😊 to find out your baby’s gender.
❤️ so happy for u guys!
Hi Belinda thank you for sharing💕 God Bless 🙏🏻
I am so happy for you blienda may god bless and protect your baby . Wish you all the love and peace.😘😘🤎🤎🤎
I cried during this video, as I'm super happy & excited for you guys. You look absolutely beautiful pregnant.
Greetings from South Africa
So happy for u and hubby!!
Congratulations 🎉🎊 Very happy for you and Ricardo. Can’t wait for your baby to be here and to see you as a mommy. I can relate to you in so many ways. My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years and still have not been able to conceive and you give me a lot of hope. We’ve never really considered IVF but I will definitely keep it in mind. If you don’t mind, I wanted to ask, what type of insurance did you have?
I resonate with this so much. We are just starting our fertility specialist journey but Covid has put everything on hold 😔 I keep it from my family and friends as well, it's really hard to go through alone. I'm so happy that you guys succeeded!!!
Same here. My husband is really private so he doesnt want anyone to know. Been trying 3 years with no luck. Im to go in for ultrasound and hopefuly start shots next week. Im so excited but nervous cause i cant tell anyone about it
Hi im going through second cycle. Did you go through PGT on all the cycles? Would you recommend it and what you think about PGT? Thanks and congratulations!
We have a lot in common !!! I just turned 30 and my doctor diagnosed me just like you also, I didn’t tell my mom because she worries a-lot only my sister knew.. i did the first cycle of IVF and i got 3 eggs .. i am planning to do another cycle to freeze eggs .. but i’m so anxious and nervous that if i failed !!! i am scared that I cannot handle it !!! I’m sooo happy for you and you will be a great mom 💕i am praying for you to have healthy and beautiful child 💐
We just want to know the gender !!!
Brittany Avelar yesss 😊🙌🏼
Very happy for you ❤️
I am so happy that you are finally in this journey of future mom, creando tu familia, muchas bendiciones para ti y tu esposo Ricardo y el futuro bebé en camino. 😘🎉🎊🎉🎊👶🏻
So happy for you 🤗
We’re you getting positive readings on your clear blue ovulation tests been though you weren’t ovulating?
Hello
You look Beautiful 😍😍😍
I use to work TSA so I know how that was!!!
I can’t wait till you have your baby!!!! You are gonna make a great mom and your husband a great dad!!!
What insurance do you guys have is the golden question????
You are so strong! Thank you for sharing experience with us! God’s time is perfect and I’m so happy you get to see your pregnancy happen. God bless you and your family. ❤️🙏🏽
Does anyone know if she has mentioned which insurance company she has?
Congratulations so happy for you and your family.many Blessings
Thank you so much!
Love uh girl!!😘🤗💕 stay blessed n healthy..xoxoxo 😘🤗😍💕💕
So happy for you and your husband. Can’t wait until baby is born.
IVF is amazing. My husband and I tried for 7 years and ended up doing IVF. We did one cycle and three frozen embryo transfers. My baby girl is 3.5 years old and the love of my life. We currently have one embryo frozen away for when we try our last transfer.
@Sally anne Kolar LOL ok troll 🧌
You’re so amazing
What is your AMH? Were your embryos 3 day or 5 day embryos?
What insurance do you have?
I have blue cross blue shield carefirst. And it covers basically everything...
I was able to have a child he is will be 2 years old in July it took us 4years but my experience is I had to have a c section because I Gartner's duct cyst (only forms during pregnancy) that was 8 by 4 by 5 on my vaginal wall and it seems because if that Gartner duct cyst is caused nothing but problems after that and I did get it removed like 4 months after I had my son and then after that I got perianal abcess come up and I had to have surgery twice one on each side and then I just had Surgery in April because both sides opened back up because another abcess formed and this surgeon that I finally found that did my last one said it was caused by the Gartner duct cyst for this to happen and I'm so scared right now because I want to be able to have another child but in afraid the same things will happen again and I don't want to go through this process again of surgeries I was told my obgyn that each pregnancy is different and that my reproductive system is fine and it's something to do with my nerves down there which I have no idea what that means ( she didn't want to get me seen about the perianal abcess that were happening she said it looked normal but it wasn't normal) so I stopped seeing her im currently looking for a different obgyn I wonder if a fertility specialist would know anything about that
Progesterone shots are painful. 😭 It hurts for weeks...
I will turn 30 tomorrow and in sept we r going for IVF. I wasn't ready but my parents recently told me that I am an IVF baby and that really motivated me. Hoping it works for me as well.
Wait ...
You didn't have many eggs? I'm 41 next month and hearing that makes me nervous....But I'm BEYOND excited for you!!!!💕💕🙏
I really enjoyed this video it makes me feel better I feel like I'm alone me and my fiance can't have kids naturally I'm not that young either I'm 36 years old at this point I'm giving up
What is the name of the IVF doctor in Mexico ??
Thank you for sharing
Did you keep your struggles of trying to conceive private from family? Or just the ivf journey? How did you dodge questions of “when is the baby coming?”
I only shared my struggle with infertility with people I could trust and was extremely close with who I felt understood me with no judgement. When people would ask why we don't have children yet we would simply say it's all in god's timing. It would usually stop them from asking more questions.
👋 hola saludos y felicidades 🎊 on ur baby 👶🏼
Where you ever on birth control?.... i have not been able to conceive my self and i blame it i have not had a nornal period since i been off it but its getting better .
Amazing
what is ur last clinic?
I had 55 eggs retrieved in February, that was awful. We ended up with 6 embryos and are doing our first (and hopefully successful) frozen embryo transfer on May 11th!
Amanda Faria best of luck! 🌸💕🥰
Nalleli Z thank you! 💕
Hello Amanda. How did things work out for you, and awesome outcome..
@@AliJaeJR not good :( that cycle was cancelled. Had a transfer in July which ended in a biochemical. Had another October 1st and going through my second biochemical now :( this journey is rough.
Your very strong girl
I wanna see the nursery been waiting since you said you was having the baby lol ❤️❤️🥰🥰
I will be blogging the whole thing :)
Belinda Selene yayyyy
Hi, yes most of the time insurance doesn't cover IVF. I did IVF and my doctor was wonderful....he was ok for me to doing most of my test at my regular OBGYN office and then I would take the results to my IVF doctor. Which help me save more money for other things.
Cathy Rodriguez IVF is covered in Illinois and certain states. You might want to check your state regulations with IVF. I know California does not have insurance coverage for IVF but Illinois def
C CCMV my husband actually has BCBS ins of Illinois,but we live it texas do you think it would cover
So. You didn't answer the question. How many eggs were retrieved??, I have ER next week., our first cycle they got 7 eggs. 1 made it and she's almost3. We are about to have another retrieval. No one in our families know of our journey..only of our losses prior and after.
Why she doesnt say what insurance she had!!!?
Four years of nothing and recently got the same diagnosis of unexplained infertility. So frustrating :( currently on the wait list for a fertility clinic
Me and my husband were trying for 3 and half years and we were also diagnosed with unexplained Infertility which was so frustrating as to which course we should take, but after we hit 3 years I decided I was going to take control of my fertility and started taking a few supplements, cutting out dairy and soy, and exercising...even my baby dancing routine changed and finally I got pregnant naturally in December and I'm currently expecting a healthy baby girl! You got this girl and I wish you a strong and healthy journey!
Jalissa R-D thank you so much for your comment! It is so nice to hear stories like this and give me some hope ❤️ we have started making changes, taking more supplements, etc. Fingers crossed it will happen!
@@thecosmogirl171 aww you're welcome!I'm sending happy thoughts and baby dust 🤗🤞🏻❤if you're curious the supplements we took (please talk to your doctor first) for me was fish oil, methyl folate, zinc, vitamins d and c, probiotics, and cell salts, my husband took everything I did minus the probiotic and cell salts 😊 definitely ask your doctor before starting anything though! And remember timing is everything I reccomend using ovulation test strips with fmu and take another with your 2ndmu the second always gave me the best lines the fmu is not as potent as some believe! Good luck hun I'm rooting for you!❤❤
Jalissa R-D This is so helpful! I am taking a lot of what you listed but what I don’t have I will run out and try ❤️ Thanks again and huge congratulations to you!!
@@thecosmogirl171 you're welcome love and thank you I'm sending you happy thoughts 💕💕🤞🏻
Thank you or this video Belinda
I’m 29yrs old and did 2 rounds of IVF with both failed attempts. Turned out I actually don’t produce eggs so that was very devastating for me. Was told I actually can’t have biological children after that- when this whole time I thought I just had endometriosis as I was told. I’m so happy for you that your outcome was very different than mine! Wish u the best and congratulations on your pregnancy!! 🥰💕💕💕
I’m sorry to hear about your experience!! 😢😢Did you have regular periods if you don’t mind me asking!
Do you know the gender yet?
Sweet cravings usually means you are having a girl but I think you are having a boy. However I’m always wrong so you’re probably having a girl 🤣
I’m soooo glad you are having baby, I’m so so happy it’s finally happening! Failed rounds and miscarriage must be so devastating! Xxx
Waiting for the gender !!! Lol
Amanda-Lynn Rodriguez I think it’s a boy!
Savannah Alvarez me tooo !! Lol just impatiently waiting for her to announce it lol 😂
Fans has Belinda posted the gender reveal? i keep asking and no answer i'm going to die if I missed it. i check her channels and don't see it. She's known for a while already I'm so impatient !! YIKES! I'm on computer and cant put the 20 emojis I want to add to this comment right now LOL!! Belinda please tell us! :P :P :P LOL!!!
Adria Almeida she just posted it! ❤️
You went through a lot to have a baby but your not eating? You should have gained at least 15lbs by now you want your baby to be healthy
I think is a girl ;)
Love you, love all your videos, but PLEASE don’t say “we wanted to have one of our own.” I know you mean “we wanted a biological child.” As an adoptive mom, my daughter is very much “my own,” even though we’re not biologically related. It’s super easy for people to wave it away and just say “you know what I meant,” and I did...but please, try to update your terminology. Thank you, and I can’t wait for the gender reveal! 🌷
Yes I agree. We would most definitely call any child adopted or biological our own and love them endlessly.