Not the damage is decided by the opponents but the replacement effects, "whenever something something"-effects , are decided by the opponent as those effects resolve based on the order that the player owning the affected source decides. So if it's one of his cards or himself he decides how replacements resolve
Not the damage is decided by the opponents but the replacement effects, "whenever something something"-effects , are decided by the opponent as those effects resolve based on the order that the player owning the affected source decides. So if it's one of his cards or himself he decides how replacements resolve