Stop Bullying Me - A Message To Haters

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024

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  • @weevil8025
    @weevil8025 2 роки тому +23

    Your content genuinely does feel unique, and it's great to see someone so passionate about sso that they're willing to express their concerns and critique publicly. These are the things that improve games, praising games when there's little to praise is basically destined to put that game in the grave.
    Please don't let these comments get to you, because a whole lot of people care about you. It's easier said than done, I guess. I just hope you're doing well, I wouldn't be able to handle this amount of bullying and slander. People online shouldn't be policing how you spend money, it's so rude.
    Plenty of Sims and WoW players (along with countless others) still pay for the games while giving critique because of course a game you spend money on, you'd be expected to express any critique you have. If anything paying money on the games gives you more right to give critique about the prices and quality of the game since you've experienced that paid content for yourself.
    Your channel is so important, not only for sso. But I really appreciate that you make content promoting smaller games to give those small dev teams the attention they deserve. Developing games is extremely hard after all. This is the only sso channel I watch often now, even though I don't play sso anymore.

  • @MiaTheGamer
    @MiaTheGamer  2 роки тому +15

    *Before somebody says I am using mental health as an excuse to NOT bully people* , I think that NOBODY should be bullied. And bullying people with mental health related issues is one of the worst things you can do (and you can also give healthy minded people an UNHEALTHY mind by hurting them. bullying causes lifelong damage). I have been told for so long to go k!ll myself and to die or even starve to death. When you are already hurt, and then people hurt you more, it feels like a downward spiral. Even when okay, words can still hurt. **Also before somebody says I'm NOT being bullied, getting BLACKMAILED and HARASSED for my identity or sexual orientation, SOUNDS A LOT LIKE BULLYING.**
    I forgot to also mention that in one of the screenshots, somebody referred to me as "annoying" or something similar to that- which I have been called annoying my whole life. If you don't like me, leave. *You don't know what people are going through, so just be nice. It's not that fucking hard.* And if somebody says, "Hurt people will hurt people!" that's not an excuse to be vile. I have been hurt physically and mentally for such a long time, with no justice, and I am NOT hurting others. If anything, I try to uplift people because I know how it feels to be hurt. If you are miserable, don't take it out on me. Go to a therapist, find a hobby, heal yourself, etc. Just do something good.

  • @the_ethical_horse_girl
    @the_ethical_horse_girl 2 роки тому +11

    I am so sorry that you had to make this video. People are truly horrible, bulying just shows how scared and weak those people are, however you are the strong one for speaking out about this. Thank you for not staying silent ❤

  • @CrowleyMMD
    @CrowleyMMD 2 роки тому +14

    Those people acting like children and didn't learn how to act on the internet, dont let them get to you, ignore them and delete the comments whenever they come! Continue make your content as best as you can. :) have good day / night Mia :)

  • @takeaiim
    @takeaiim 2 роки тому +9

    Thank you for making this awareness video, these people are probably just bored and want entertainment out of hurting others which is completely wrong. I am here to support you and please never feel pressured to upload for youtube if you need to take breaks 💜

  • @filidolphini
    @filidolphini 2 роки тому +3

    i’m so sorry you have to deal with this. i hope you know your viewers will stick around even if you ever need breaks. sending nothing but support and love 🤍 you and your mental health are a priority 🤍

  • @skybluepainter
    @skybluepainter 2 роки тому +4

    I love your statement of Instead of telling the bullied to get over it, for the bullies to back off. This is so true. It doesn't even matter if the bullied is extra sensitive; leave them alone.

  • @RimFaxxe
    @RimFaxxe 2 роки тому +21

    Don't worry, it will be alright, I'll always be here for you

  • @elizzabeth255
    @elizzabeth255 2 роки тому +9

    Love this video. I absolutely despise the idea that a lot of people on the internet are trying to push, whereby it's the bullied person's problem for being too "sensitive" and a "snowflake" if they take offense. that they'll be told to "simply get off the internet and off the game/s" if they can't handle it. It places the blame on the victim and enables the bullies to keep doing what they're doing.
    It's such an incredibly toxic mindset to have, to normalize hateful comments as acceptable, everyday behavior. It's not normal, it's awful and should always be called out. Thank you for being so candid about your mental health and making this video, I really applaud you for not shying away from any topic 🙏 don't let the haters get to you, you're lightyears ahead of them

  • @KristineClearshield
    @KristineClearshield 2 роки тому +9

    I think it's really high time everyone to understand what freedom of speech means. It doesn't mean right to insult, cyber bully, bully.... Everyone should know that !

  • @laraslowford2263
    @laraslowford2263 2 роки тому +5

    Im so sorry you have to go trough that. This isnt right, i dont get why those people have to say mean things to you, you are inspiring person to me. (sometimes i get answers why people hate on someone, its because they may be jealous for a reason or so.) but dont let them get to you! we will always love you!!!!

  • @PositivelyPony
    @PositivelyPony 2 роки тому +5

    i have ptsd too and when i get hurt, it feels way worse than it should. like every little thing feels like i will snap at any moment. i try to get help though i have a therapist. but still it hurts. u mentioned being blackmailed and like that sounds terrible. i can imagine how u must feel

  • @ladyd4961
    @ladyd4961 2 роки тому +5

    I think your videos are awesome. Fresh new information and your feelings oh what to do and how to improve the game...I saw your video about how you feel Star Stables may come to an end and it was so very awesome.
    As far as bullies, I can't say just don't let it get to you because I know that just doesn't happen. People who hurt others are usually miserable in their own life...It's a pity that so many people want to make others miserable. With you having PTSD and others knowing this lets them have something to use against you...I know I would not tolerate bullies, in person's or cyber....I will never understand how people can be so hurtful and live with themselves...
    Take care hun....and look forward to your next video...

  • @laylam.ingram-alger6091
    @laylam.ingram-alger6091 2 роки тому +3

    It saddens me that this video even has to exist, people are just like this sometimes. But just know that your content is the most wonderful to listen to when gaming or doing homework. People like that could never really understand what you go through and it's none of their business to try and make it their business. You are an amazing person and you have a whole community that loves you. ♥

  • @adrianaxx1260
    @adrianaxx1260 2 роки тому +3

    Im so sorry that this happened to you. You are such a sweet person. I know that this kind of topic and situation is hard but..stay strong..please.

  • @grimm6176
    @grimm6176 2 роки тому +3

    i am here to give my view and my like and to watch a little but i can't watch too much of the video. it just sours my mood and upsets me too much especially after i've had two of my closest best friends drag me through the mud, dump me and not give me a reason why they no longer want to talk to me especially when it seemed like we were getting along, then leave me curled up in a ball on my bed for the next few days rethinking every interaction i ever had with them, every word i ever told them and having panic attacks non-stop because i cant figure out what i did wrong or why they suddenly hate me or dont want to talk to me.
    i lost my one best friend, then my grandmother died and i turned to friend #2 for support because they knew i had issues with mental health and i just needed someone to talk to, then a week later friend #2 told me to stop talking to them and wouldnt so much as meet my eyes in the hallways because they KNEW that what they did was shitty and they felt ashamed. i had to deal with my grandmother's death alone.
    point is, i understand where you're coming from and its really fricken shitty of these people and this person. situations like these are very difficult for me to hear about considering that i've lost friends and people i trusted, people i gave sensitive information to, people who can use said sensitive information to blackmail me and make me look bad and talk about me behind my back in this EXACT same FUCKING way.
    its cowardly and spineless. they talk about you BEHIND your back for a reason. they're behind you for a reason. anyway, you have my support. i hope you can move past this and can manage to ignore the comments and hatred, i know how it feels.

    • @MiaTheGamer
      @MiaTheGamer  2 роки тому +2

      its so hard to make friends because of this. cant trust anybody almost due to them talking bad about you. like what even.

    • @grimm6176
      @grimm6176 2 роки тому +1

      ​@@MiaTheGamer us - gets ridiculed and dumped by friends repeatedly
      trust issues - allow us to introduce ourselves
      but seriously, please dont let this get you down. your content is good and your editing is good, your video topics are what the community needs to hear about. you don't deserve this treatement, no one does.
      stay determined!
      its a gamble when picking friends nowadays because you never know who you can trust so you spend most of your relationships in the "dont get too attached, they're going to leave" mindset.

  • @monstazgaming6872
    @monstazgaming6872 2 роки тому +8

    Mia, I just wanted to say that you are my comfort youtuber and I am so thankful for you being on youtube

  • @liolikesgrass
    @liolikesgrass 2 роки тому +3

    I just don’t get people… being that mean is of no use. Literally. It doesn’t make your life or their’s better, so why bother ? Plus, making fun of sexual of gender identity is soooo childish and homophobic… I can’t even- people are crazy. I got people calling non human because of who I am and my mental health issues. Mia, I just discovered your channel and I already love it, even though I sometimes won’t agree with everything you say. But it doesn’t change anything and being mean leads nowhere.
    Rest well, I hope people will understand. Take some rest and breathe, be with people you love and take care of yourself. See ya, have the best day possible❤️✨
    PS: what pronouns do you prefer to be called ? If you don’t want to be out on UA-cam I totally get it (especially after what you showed us)❤️✨

  • @drot3391
    @drot3391 2 роки тому +3

    it's just jarring to imagine this really happened. You're such a genuine and kind person, and never deserved this treatment.

  • @judith_rrp
    @judith_rrp 2 роки тому

    Hi Mia. I’m so sorry about this. I hope you feel better now. That’s really gross and I’m so so sorry. You’re my favorite SSO youtuber.
    I relate very much to you. I also have PTSD, and I was wondering, when you feel those “pains”, how does it feel? Does it feel different everytime, and does it happen in different bodyparts? In that case, it’s the same for me. And ofc if you don’t want go answer that’s fine, I understand.

  • @zawmbified
    @zawmbified 2 роки тому +2

    I personally do not have PTSD so I won't go too in depth, but I do completely understand why this kind of stuff would make you feel like crap and I think other people (the people who were talking about you) need to stop being ignorant and immature and actually talk to you about an issue they have rather than just shit talking you behind your back and intentionally trying to make you feel bad and bring you down.
    It baffles me that these people have the audacity to say that you aren't self-aware when they're sitting there blatantly spreading misinformation and lying through their teeth to make you look bad. This is your channel, not theirs, they do not have a say in what you should and shouldn't post. Even if you were copying other people, that wouldn't even matter because this is social media, everyone copies each other, it's just how it is. If they have an issue with your content then they just shouldn't watch it, it's as simple as that. Talking smack and making a big deal out of issues that THEY have is pointless and will only dig themselves into a hole.
    Clearly your "friend" did or does have an issue with you as a person which confuses me because why in the world would they remain friends with you if they had so much shit to say? All of their issues lie with them and they need to stop projecting it onto you and attacking you for simply making videos about topics that you feel need to be addressed/are interesting to you. Again, if they do not like the content, they do not have to watch it, I don't understand why that's so difficult for people to do.
    Good people do not shit talk their friends and promote that behaviour to other people. I do in fact understand that standing up to people who're talking poorly about your friend can be hard, however, this person was joining in on it and that speaks volume on the kind of friend they are.

    • @zawmbified
      @zawmbified 2 роки тому +2

      There was a lot of haste behind my comment and I apologise for that. I'm very passionate about this stuff because I've dealt with my fair share of backstabbing friends who have tried spreading misinformation, ruining other friendships, and just talking bad about me. Situations like these suck and people need to start fixing their issues rather than projecting them onto other people which is a message I've been trying to spread for years. I find that people will complain about others talking bad about them and then will go on to talk bad about other people. That's what you call not being self-aware. It's hypocrisy.

  • @thatstrawberrygamer
    @thatstrawberrygamer 2 роки тому +7

    It oki the world is just toxic and it needs to chang i hope you get through it your subscriber are here for you ❤️ :D

  • @mimicri326
    @mimicri326 2 роки тому +1

    This video needs so much more views and shares, especially, since young people are very proudly siding with "evil" because according to them being good is boring. A lot of talk about Sabine being a "cool" character to be looked up to or admired. I don't agree. Star stable must show these children that siding with evil minded people (even if it seems cool at first sight) is never going to end positively. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and speak up.

  • @hunteraep
    @hunteraep 2 роки тому +1

    I also too get cyber bullied. It’s really hurtful and I don’t know how to deal with it, and I have a high chance of ASD too, so this adds to the situation. I understand you.

  • @ericakuntz2167
    @ericakuntz2167 2 роки тому +15

    Can't believe that you have to make a video about this. Your content is amazing.

  • @Viva_Cynefin
    @Viva_Cynefin 2 роки тому +1

    I hate people like these, those are the types of people who just want misery in other people's lives. Im so sorry you had to go through that.

  • @scout3421
    @scout3421 2 роки тому +2

    You do not deserve any hate, You are my fav You-tuber! keep your confidence up! Those haters are just jealous

  • @OliviaDragonman
    @OliviaDragonman 2 роки тому

    #stopcyberbullying this better work u are so inspirational and hard working I really belive in u remeber there are so many people who love ur content (me) and who support everything u make don't be hard on yourself life always has its ups and downs and u have pulled through so much I hope this message spreads through the world #stopcyberbullying

  • @resting.in.the.mountains.
    @resting.in.the.mountains. 2 роки тому +7

    I am seriously shocked to see a video like this from you . Someone already mentioned it before me, your content are amazing ! Ignore them ,haters really does not worth your time and energy Mia😭💕YOU'RE AMAZING💖💗💓💘❤

    • @MiaTheGamer
      @MiaTheGamer  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much!! I wasn't going to make the video but then I found out that my haters were coming from a friend of mine- since they were all talking about me behind my back, and then I guess coming to my channel to leave bad comments. I feel so betrayed.

    • @resting.in.the.mountains.
      @resting.in.the.mountains. 2 роки тому

      @@MiaTheGamer Understandable why you're feeling betrayed and it is really saddening to see that you had/have to deal with these, I hope you'll feel better soon and this will remain as a bad memory in the near future. Gosh 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Kaileyponysmith5329
    @Kaileyponysmith5329 2 роки тому +2

    I’m sorry if I’m a little I know you can like what you like and I like what I like I’m not your boss I’m sorry if a may be mean same times but you are one of my favorite youtubers I love you

  • @idlydog1232
    @idlydog1232 2 роки тому +3

    Ayo don't be shy... Tell us who that friend is. Especially if they're another youtuber.

    • @MiaTheGamer
      @MiaTheGamer  2 роки тому +2

      i dont want them to get attacked rip that'd be BAD.

    • @idlydog1232
      @idlydog1232 2 роки тому +2

      @@MiaTheGamer i wouldn’t attack them personally, but if i was subscribed i’d unfollow that’s all! But also I completely understand your concern. I know what it’s like to see a supposed friend turn on you like that. It’s so gross.

  • @elusive99
    @elusive99 2 роки тому +1

    When I found your channel it was very refreshing because your content is very original and not the same videos over and over like many in the sso community

  • @ulisesmarvels
    @ulisesmarvels 2 роки тому +1

    I’m sorry if anything I’ve ever said offended you, I was annoyed and it was more of an unpopular opinion I have. Again, I’m very sorry if I ever hurt you 🙁

  • @Bumble838
    @Bumble838 2 роки тому +1

    The only thing that annoys me about this vid is that you keep calling them you're "friend". But jokes aside cyber bullying is such a hateful thing and it can damage a person in the inside. Hope you feel better!💗

    • @MiaTheGamer
      @MiaTheGamer  2 роки тому

      well they are ex friend now lmao

  • @Pacia333LPS
    @Pacia333LPS 2 роки тому +1

    This video should be called something like „how people act when they’re jelaous af”

  • @robertfoster2574
    @robertfoster2574 2 роки тому +1

    I know what you mean I have been Bully also that's Why I left the cloud server and I see it on all the servers in a matter of fact .it is most by big club owners and they really don't like little members in there clubs . So I try to help the ones that being bully because I don't like it .on line or any where and I can't stand discord it doesn't work for me

  • @CozyKitsunae
    @CozyKitsunae 2 роки тому +2

    damn some ppl are so toxic holy shhh

  • @catswhiskerssso4259
    @catswhiskerssso4259 2 роки тому

    It really saddens me that people would do this to you. Honestly, words fail me right now.

  • @zippyducky1704
    @zippyducky1704 2 роки тому +1

    Omg the the toxicity and white knights is enough to quit SSO, let alone the bugs and lack of content. XD

  • @thehorseplays4491
    @thehorseplays4491 2 роки тому +1

    I am not hater Mia,i love your videos and i dont i sent you message in discord and you aswered

  • @Kocyq
    @Kocyq 2 роки тому +8

    Dont worry thoose children know no better

  • @georgia_blueland
    @georgia_blueland 2 роки тому +7

    Yes girl you got this

  • @starstablehuman3027
    @starstablehuman3027 2 роки тому +1

    Yo who’s hating on you 😡