This song helps me realize that my first love did in fact deserve much better than me. More importantly, it has helped me realize that the woman I have now is so deserving of both my love and attention. I'm no "simp" by any means. Fellas, if you have a good woman then don't lie to yourself if you claim you did all that you could. Do the best that you can and move on if need be.
Hey I agree and am in a similar situation. Had a serious relationship and was just awful to her and myself honestly. She left rightly and I was devastated. Learned and grew and found my soulmate and treat her like a queen. I wish I could apologize to my first girl but she deserves to be at peace from me.
i truly believe, that in life there are phases that we go through. and in this so called phases in life, there are upgrades. so after every phase that you go through there is a lesson to be learned. so every time i hear a song like this one particular classic by the group, Hinder i noticed that it literally talking about that one phase in life that we all go through. some good, bad, ugly.
Maybe...but if u believe that ...u dont believe in regrets. We all have regrets. My life is in fact better now.. Im 39. I've lived a hard life. And it is full of regrets.
It’s been so god damn long (probably a decade or so now) since I’ve been in love and every time I hear this song I start to cry. Like almost to the point of shaking violently type of crying I’m sorry for just blurting that out there 😢
This brings back my childhood memories. My favorite songs by them were Lips of an angle ( I had it on my iPod shuffle lol) and without you and this song
Same! Read my mind. I never really had a long term relationship or bad breakup. But this was one of the best songs of my late teens, early 20s. It hits so deep even if it's not relatable like most of Hinder songs. I think the instrumental talent is flawless.
Most definitely absolutely in some ways you can relate but yeah it rocks and Austin Winkler I love and miss you hinder will never be the same without you.❤️🔥🤘🤘😎
"And I can't pretend I wont think about you when I'm older, cause we never really had our closure." 'Here's to looking at you, kid.' That small quiet little nagging "what if" in the back of your head never really goes away. But 20 years later, does it even matter anymore? When your ghost in a red dress contacts you out of the blue...then yes, it does. Then that tiny little nagging voice isn't so quiet. But we're all grown ass adults now, and everyone understands the existence of priorities, and we all have ours lined up straight by now. ...Right?
This song hits for me. I had a beautiful woman and a daughter. But what did I do. Stupid me chose drugs over my family. I was able one time before save it but then I went back. And idk I never really been like this over anyone like I am but her. But I have to live with this regret rest of my life cause I chose drugs over my family. When we were around each other she help keep me straight. But I went to jail cause I miss court an she lost our trailer an had to move an I been trying to get us another place but without her around me to help keep me straight. I got back on drugs. If u have one person that helps u do something like I had. Keep ahold of that. Cause it's worth it. I wish I could redo this. But I can't. I really messed up bad. An now I have to live with this regret rest of my life cause I lost my woman an my daughter..
This music made part of my teenage time,actually i have 35 years old,i am living my recoveryng days,i had to pass for one surgery to take damned tumors of my brain,this situation made me and my loved wife stop with our plans to have our childs,it hurt so much,i am so tired,i don't know what will gonna happen in the future,sometimes i want to cry so much,i am sad,i can't believe it is happening in my life 😭
To my soon to be ex wife….Cheri, you truly deserve much better than me….I’m sorry for all the hurt I caused in our marriage….I wish you had understood what was happening to me but then again, that was on me and I’ll apologize to you until I take my last….you were the love of my life and there is no replacement for you and there never will be! See you on the other side….💔🙏🏻💔
That moment when u r not paying attention and sing at the top off your lungs what it feels like inside u......... im so thankfull i live alone otherwise id have a lot off explaning to do
If you are reading this and you still have her but things seem fked up! You still winning cause she ain’t gone yet!! Don’t wait till she gone to miss her 😢 loving someone in absence is torture my friend. Run to her now and hug her tight 🔥🔥🔥🥀🥀
I’m losing the one person I’ve ever wanted to spend the rest of my life with. After 5 1/2 years I’m just very last I don’t know if I am not sure if she’s here she might try as hard as I can. I had a lot of self-esteem before I met her, but now, after silage, confused, am I heart splitting up leave me the best thing for us, but I love her more than anything in the world. I just know that if she really loved it, I wouldn’t want her to love me, and she wouldn’t call me stupid, or always tell me to shut up.
I found this song after I lost my first fiance I got caught cheating on her bout the same time I caught her cheating on me lol but I'll be damned if I didn't love that bitch
Even knowing I still loved him I was fading fast. Sucking the life out of me. It was an addiction he will never b able to conquer. Sadly, 2yrs later my worth is spent. Gave everything to better him, us. To no avail. I will search for my old sparkling, spitfire , outgoing self. I will fight the gud fight and carry on..💔💔
I found out my boyfriend has been lying to me about alot of things from his past and him doing drugs its a hard decision that j have to figure out and i sent this song to him saying i hope you know what your losing is me.
i'm about to lose my wife because i neglected her and she's asking for divorce, this is the fight of my ife to keep her, every second is a stab in my soul until i get her back
The love of my life is John Darryl Gill. I know he is still out there somewhere. I know the real Darryl Gill and I refuse to give up on him. If he loves me like he says he does he will figure out who I really am. I deserve to be happy with him and I will fight for him. Just in case he is listening just know Gd has a plan for us Darryl. He didn't bring us this far to leave us now.
Absolutely love hinder and Austin Winkler the music will never be the same this song Totally rules and it's what I think about now that I'm finally over my loser EX Nathaniel garbage kartes thank God I realized very quickly that I could do so much better than you but you will never get better than me haha😂🤣🤣👌
I was always a good woman to every guy i dated but I deserved better than my exes and then I got better I've been with my current boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months
To sone nice special pll in my life ty for wanting to get me a car nice effort just not accepting anything used. No more. My cars taken were not used. Guess the Bible is wrong it don't matter no more. Letting go of it all I had my made up but after this morning. There is no turning bavk for me. Then we have one that trys to pull on heart strings do favor fir kid. Not goibg to keep happening. Aby more
Better days will come. Hang tight and just try to enjoy life and let the haters hate. People are just jealous of you. Just smile and kill them with kindness. Peace ✌️!!!
I hope and pray 🙏 that things are going better for you. Remember, you are not alone out there. People are mean to me every day and I still hold my head up high. For some odd reason people have a problem with happy single people, however, that's there problem. If these haters have to wake up and think of us everyday then we are so popular. Lol!!! Take care!!! Peace ✌️!!!
To my ex Sabrina you deserve so much better than me I wasn’t a good boyfriend I didn’t defend you when you’re parents accused you of cheating on me but you never cheated on me I was so stupid to believe you’re parents over you
This song helps me realize that my first love did in fact deserve much better than me. More importantly, it has helped me realize that the woman I have now is so deserving of both my love and attention. I'm no "simp" by any means. Fellas, if you have a good woman then don't lie to yourself if you claim you did all that you could. Do the best that you can and move on if need be.
I HAVE TOO SAY I FKING HATE THE GIRLS AND BOYS THE MEN AND WOMAN THAT COMES TO FUCK MY FAMILUY AND OR THE ONES WHO COME TOO TAKE FROM MY BAD REPLIES
Hey I agree and am in a similar situation. Had a serious relationship and was just awful to her and myself honestly. She left rightly and I was devastated. Learned and grew and found my soulmate and treat her like a queen. I wish I could apologize to my first girl but she deserves to be at peace from me.
I can relate.
i truly believe, that in life there are phases that we go through. and in this so called phases in life, there are upgrades. so after every phase that you go through there is a lesson to be learned. so every time i hear a song like this one particular classic by the group, Hinder i noticed that it literally talking about that one phase in life that we all go through. some good, bad, ugly.
I like your stance on life. And I agree. Suffering is inevitable but leads to growth.
Maybe...but if u believe that ...u dont believe in regrets. We all have regrets. My life is in fact better now.. Im 39. I've lived a hard life. And it is full of regrets.
One of the best songs they've ever made!
Best Love Ever!❤❤❤
It’s been so god damn long (probably a decade or so now) since I’ve been in love and every time I hear this song I start to cry. Like almost to the point of shaking violently type of crying I’m sorry for just blurting that out there 😢
great tune...still strumming along in 2021
Samee
Its Not The Same When The Band Is Without Him
2022 brother
2023 and I'm still listening! 👂
February 2022
This brings back my childhood memories. My favorite songs by them were Lips of an angle ( I had it on my iPod shuffle lol) and without you and this song
Damn all of those high school memories are coming back….
What a band What a voice 🤘 lovely song ❤
Thank you for the HD upload! :D
Still one of my favorites after all these years…Better than me
Best song they made 🥺💕💕
I love this song so much I've listened to it like 10 times today
Relatable to the max lol 😂😂😂
This was just recommended to me and I love this...
Great lyric format.... More please.
hits when it needs to , awesome
This song bout made me cry
I miss my babies cute little girls growing up. I just got my oldest daughter 30 now to pray for and hope for. They marry but one hasn't.
Wow 😢😮 thank you
This has to be one of the greatest songs ever made.
I have no story to tell, I'm just here coz this is one of the few songs my voice allows me to sing.
I do have a story. I just don't wanna tell it. I am also here to learn the lyrics. (Not going well so far)
Nice
I know that feeling lol 😂
You just told a story :P
Who else gets hit in the gut by the lyrics even though they can't relate to a single one of them?
I relate to every part of this song but I definitely get hit in the stomach
Same! Read my mind. I never really had a long term relationship or bad breakup. But this was one of the best songs of my late teens, early 20s. It hits so deep even if it's not relatable like most of Hinder songs. I think the instrumental talent is flawless.
@@mattyo5022 1,000% agree with you on that one, although I've never been in any kind of relationship before 😂
Most definitely absolutely in some ways you can relate but yeah it rocks and Austin Winkler I love and miss you hinder will never be the same without you.❤️🔥🤘🤘😎
@@raqueledwards6061 Austin was Hinder. They should really change the band's name, considering they completely lost their original sound
Listening in 2021 and I relate to it alot with my freinds and parents
This song is about not living up to expectations
"And I can't pretend I wont think about you when I'm older, cause we never really had our closure."
'Here's to looking at you, kid.'
That small quiet little nagging "what if" in the back of your head never really goes away. But 20 years later, does it even matter anymore?
When your ghost in a red dress contacts you out of the blue...then yes, it does. Then that tiny little nagging voice isn't so quiet.
But we're all grown ass adults now, and everyone understands the existence of priorities, and we all have ours lined up straight by now.
...Right?
This song hits for me. I had a beautiful woman and a daughter. But what did I do. Stupid me chose drugs over my family. I was able one time before save it but then I went back. And idk I never really been like this over anyone like I am but her. But I have to live with this regret rest of my life cause I chose drugs over my family. When we were around each other she help keep me straight. But I went to jail cause I miss court an she lost our trailer an had to move an I been trying to get us another place but without her around me to help keep me straight. I got back on drugs. If u have one person that helps u do something like I had. Keep ahold of that. Cause it's worth it. I wish I could redo this. But I can't. I really messed up bad. An now I have to live with this regret rest of my life cause I lost my woman an my daughter..
Missing u so much dad you’ll be missed 😭😭😭😢😢😢😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️💕💕❤️❤️2/6/55 - 7/1/13
im sorry for you ):
@David LMFOA
God Bless You
@Jamie exactly... but yea..
@@ariannaishman2782 lmfao *
♥ this song :3
This music made part of my teenage time,actually i have 35 years old,i am living my recoveryng days,i had to pass for one surgery to take damned tumors of my brain,this situation made me and my loved wife stop with our plans to have our childs,it hurt so much,i am so tired,i don't know what will gonna happen in the future,sometimes i want to cry so much,i am sad,i can't believe it is happening in my life 😭
I love listening to this with over the head headphones to really hear the drums better
Im so sorry ❤️🩹 ..
U deserve to be happy.
I took 8 years from u .
I love u more and more each day.
To my soon to be ex wife….Cheri, you truly deserve much better than me….I’m sorry for all the hurt I caused in our marriage….I wish you had understood what was happening to me but then again, that was on me and I’ll apologize to you until I take my last….you were the love of my life and there is no replacement for you and there never will be! See you on the other side….💔🙏🏻💔
I didn't deserve you Carisa, then or now. You are better than me. 🥹❣️ thank you.
2023 and this song still hits hard
Purest form" music art "
I love it❤
Anyone in 2022 listening to this?
Wow is very nice :)
Totally relates to my life w much regret
I've heard some sad fucking music. But this has to be the saddest song I have ever heard in my life.
Sad or pathetic?
That moment when u r not paying attention and sing at the top off your lungs what it feels like inside u......... im so thankfull i live alone otherwise id have a lot off explaning to do
As soon as I hear that guitar note, I go off into another zone.
Great song.
That's some good quality right there.
My first love T.A.T ❤ you did deserve much better than me. Sorry for all the pain and trauma 🙏❤
If you are reading this and you still have her but things seem fked up! You still winning cause she ain’t gone yet!! Don’t wait till she gone to miss her 😢 loving someone in absence is torture my friend. Run to her now and hug her tight 🔥🔥🔥🥀🥀
Damn this really really hit 😢 she makes it hard to go back
I’m losing the one person I’ve ever wanted to spend the rest of my life with. After 5 1/2 years I’m just very last I don’t know if I am not sure if she’s here she might try as hard as I can. I had a lot of self-esteem before I met her, but now, after silage, confused, am I heart splitting up leave me the best thing for us, but I love her more than anything in the world. I just know that if she really loved it, I wouldn’t want her to love me, and she wouldn’t call me stupid, or always tell me to shut up.
great vid
I found this song after I lost my first fiance I got caught cheating on her bout the same time I caught her cheating on me lol but I'll be damned if I didn't love that bitch
🤣 That bitch.
Well just some advice kiddo, if you truly love one then don’t call her that… No girl worth having will ever put up with that disrespectful bullshit.
Continue speaking through songs.
Even knowing I still loved him I was fading fast. Sucking the life out of me. It was an addiction he will never b able to conquer. Sadly, 2yrs later my worth is spent. Gave everything to better him, us. To no avail. I will search for my old sparkling, spitfire , outgoing self. I will fight the gud fight and carry on..💔💔
Damn I just found this song again after years…
My ex deserved better than me this reminds me of him
Make you better and take your ex please, don't give up my friend, please ^^ ❤️
😂 man the memory's
I found out my boyfriend has been lying to me about alot of things from his past and him doing drugs its a hard decision that j have to figure out and i sent this song to him saying i hope you know what your losing is me.
Is it bad that I first read the band name as "Hitler"? o_o
😂😂😂😂😂
Lol
Sounds about right
great songs which lets us think about the past
BABY
Lost the girl if my life now i live to regret it..
You can do it, don't give up ❤️
i'm about to lose my wife because i neglected her and she's asking for divorce, this is the fight of my ife to keep her, every second is a stab in my soul until i get her back
@@the-hakimo I hope it all worked out bud i’ve been there.
I miss you Jessica, so much I wish you’d come home, it’s not even home anymore
only 2 things that MATTER PICK WHICH YOU WANT TO GIVE UP 😘
❤
Whooo! They've removed that ridiculous"warning" thing some idiot placed years ago!
EMAW LOVES SOCIETY!
The love of my life is John Darryl Gill. I know he is still out there somewhere. I know the real Darryl Gill and I refuse to give up on him. If he loves me like he says he does he will figure out who I really am. I deserve to be happy with him and I will fight for him. Just in case he is listening just know Gd has a plan for us Darryl. He didn't bring us this far to leave us now.
good good
Robert Small’s anthem lowkey
Absolutely love hinder and Austin Winkler the music will never be the same this song Totally rules and it's what I think about now that I'm finally over my loser EX Nathaniel garbage kartes thank God I realized very quickly that I could do so much better than you but you will never get better than me haha😂🤣🤣👌
I shouldn't be able to relate to this song, but I do. And I admit, I'm a piece of shit for what I did.
The bus crash wasn't your fault, you have to let it go mait..
I was always a good woman to every guy i dated but I deserved better than my exes and then I got better I've been with my current boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months
Congrats Choomba
To sone nice special pll in my life ty for wanting to get me a car nice effort just not accepting anything used. No more. My cars taken were not used. Guess the Bible is wrong it don't matter no more. Letting go of it all I had my made up but after this morning. There is no turning bavk for me. Then we have one that trys to pull on heart strings do favor fir kid. Not goibg to keep happening. Aby more
💔💘💔
I played this song when Michael Myers had a miserable childhood
I love you james
Good I have my own plans. I need to get ready. So I can rest to execute. My plans
I hate my life I really do my family hates me everyone does I'm so tired of this silly life
Stay strong. People love you.
Better days will come. Hang tight and just try to enjoy life and let the haters hate. People are just jealous of you. Just smile and kill them with kindness. Peace ✌️!!!
I hope and pray 🙏 that things are going better for you. Remember, you are not alone out there. People are mean to me every day and I still hold my head up high. For some odd reason people have a problem with happy single people, however, that's there problem. If these haters have to wake up and think of us everyday then we are so popular. Lol!!! Take care!!! Peace ✌️!!!
🙄 honesty
hi
Better then lips of an angel
Truly🍕🍉🎸🍼
Words*
They sound kinda like skillet.
So romantic till the whole “innocence taste”’thing that’s weird
I really miss your hair in my face
Cuz u can michelle
TheInfernalCore1 Those word should be in the song eoe
Dan Shay arentellen ioprahormaddenmaddox
My life sucks
Same
did it get better?
Hgrw
Song is good, but his voice is like nails on a chalkboard.
Where the fuck are u dallas
?
2023 and still listening ❤❤
"I really miss your hair in my face and the way that your innocence tastes "
To my ex Sabrina you deserve so much better than me I wasn’t a good boyfriend I didn’t defend you when you’re parents accused you of cheating on me but you never cheated on me I was so stupid to believe you’re parents over you