I married planned with her umrah but she didnt came i went alone alhamdulillah after umrah suddenly i got dream that she is cheating to me i thought it could be false dream but alhamdulillah it was a true dream from Allah( sub'haan'nahu wata'ala)then i prayed He (Glore be to Him) saved me frm that woman ..she accepted her cheating and i divorced her..
Brother i had the exact same situation but I didnt do umrah, but had a dream and was true. I feel for you brother, I am in this situation and it was depressing
7:22 "what do u mean u dont know what to do, drop her!"😂😂👏👏👏 well said Mate even if shes talking to some other guy in a teasy way i would be mad pissed let alone cheating on me, straight out da window fam
Damien Smith this life isn't perfect... Do what you have to do and pray to Allah to protect you always from harm and evil and to make you strong no matter what happens to you may Allah light your way 🙏.
*"The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that has been made unlawful to the believers."* Surah 24
Wow this was a great video👍🏽. Nothing vulgar, straight to the point, (In some parts harsh but fair). When you’re sincere it really does show barak allaahu feek. In shaa allaah rewatch this video and further on, follow suit.
this is a bit personal but, this is coming from child of a marriage that has been this way for years, i say even if the kids are involve and they are aware of the heinous act then the divorce is necessary even if they don't know i would say explain it to them and get the divorce. my parent has been married for 19 years and i can't remember a year since childhood that me father haven't had an affair and it like has be come a norm for my family, even my 9 and 11 years old sibling. once the cheating starts it'll never end leave when you have your dignity.
بيض الله وجهك I'm so happy you're talking about this honestly I've seen people advice sisters who know their husband is cheating or the very least chatting to other women that they should remain married and not destroy their family, home and marriage ... I don't know where the logic is in that but
personally whether there are kids involved or not (I'm a married woman/mother) I would instantly divorce too Allah is ar razaaq and i have my uni qualifications to fall back on
Wife/husband cheated = Ex wife or ex husband. I would make that decision instantly. After that Mans got no love what so ever. Love for the ex is out of the window and so is the marriage in mho.
Brother you made some good points, some were a little blunt but I guess you got straight to the point. I'm going dm you InSha'Allah if you can make a video concerning the topic.
People need to learn how to spot these kinds of people from the get-go. No hijab/beard? NEXT Having friends from the other gender? NEXT Heavy social media user/poster? NEXT etc. etc. I've nexted something like half a dozen girls who asked for my number or were on the verge of asking it. It's not even funny anymore. If this keeps happening I will have to travel all the way to Qatar or Afghanistan to find a proper wife...
This has happened to my best friend. I think it is worth noting that not all cases are the same. Divorce is not always the answer, even if in most cases it is the best choice. Remember that the door of tawba is always open, even for adulterers. Whether you want to take your spouse back or divorce, one thing should be clear: you need to know exactly why you choose that. Your choice must be genuine rather than based on norms. It mustn't be based on fear of loss or desire to hurt your spouse back. It must come from your true, genuine, loving self. You have to ask yourself what you want and you must be able to answer it with confidence. In other words, the way to better the relationship (even if it leads to no relationship) is the betterment of self.
Assalamulaykum Imran. Please advise me. I am in talks with someone about marriage and i'm pleased with most things but he has female friends/acquaintances. How can i addres this and let him know that we cannot continue if he continues to have female friends without sounding rude or judgemental? JazakaAllah
Brother when I was engaged my to be husband he cheated on me, he said he did it because he was falling to deep for me that’s why he was messed up over it and confused and it lead him to cheat (he said it was only dancing and fondling each other but no intercourse). I only agreed to marry him as he and his family were known to be a practising and I thought a practising man will be good for me and my future children. He’s practising our religion deeper now but I can’t get over that isolated incident and want to misbehave (like give him bad attitude etc) my hearts not at ease, I know why I can’t trust and forgive as He still hangs around the friends that get intoxicated and use drugs and my husband says he doesn’t use drug or alcohol and he is trying to get he’s friend off drugs. We have 3 children together. Sometimes for my kids and for Allah I continue without pain but I miss having a friend in my husband, I’m so lost. I don’t know if I should take up some hobbies in order not focus on him.
He said drop her in a heartbeat hhahahhahahahahaah, boy leave her and get yo self a new loyal wife, as a woman I can't stand woman that stay with guys who cheat on them, LIKE GIRL IF YOU DONT LEAVE!!!
Salam from Brighton brother.. I was wondering if there is a whatss app group or you can help with marriage akhi Jazakallah khair May Allah give the best in this life and hereafter to you and family ameen and really appreciate you helping the deen of Allah
Main reason I believe why spouses cheat each other is because of mobile phones. Guys, be jealous of your women. Do not give then phones. If you do, then do not give them any mobile service. Plus, do not let your wives out of the house unless she is with you, or her male relatives, you are her guardian. Wallahi be a man, do not worry if they get mad, as men in Islam we with hold what is right for us before our emotions.
I dont really understand why people cheat. I mean, if you are not happy with your marriage just divorce. Better than hurting the person that loves you
I married planned with her umrah but she didnt came i went alone alhamdulillah after umrah suddenly i got dream that she is cheating to me i thought it could be false dream but alhamdulillah it was a true dream from Allah( sub'haan'nahu wata'ala)then i prayed He (Glore be to Him) saved me frm that woman ..she accepted her cheating and i divorced her..
Islaam and World mashallah
Brother i had the exact same situation but I didnt do umrah, but had a dream and was true. I feel for you brother, I am in this situation and it was depressing
How can your wife or husband cheat and you stay with her. Some ppl are victims. May Allah protect us all.
7:22 "what do u mean u dont know what to do, drop her!"😂😂👏👏👏 well said
Mate even if shes talking to some other guy in a teasy way i would be mad pissed let alone cheating on me, straight out da window fam
this is my biggest fear if I get married
Damien Smith may Allah protect us from it.
Damien Smith this life isn't perfect... Do what you have to do and pray to Allah to protect you always from harm and evil and to make you strong no matter what happens to you may Allah light your way 🙏.
" drop her in a heart beat " absolutely bro
*"The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that has been made unlawful to the believers."* Surah 24
Wallahi love you for the sake of Allah akhi
Well said brother once a cheat always a cheat. My mother divorced my dad because he was adulterous.
This is why I support islamic law even tough I myself am not muslim. Because the penalty under islamic law for cheating I think is death right??
Yeah that’s right (provided the four witnesses though)
Jo James no loool it's divorce
Depends on the situation
"How dare they have an emotional affair"😂 6:12 good vid👍
Wallahi so true bro, people take this issue to lightly
may Allah rewards you with good Brother Imran , Thats how real men/women should be
Wow this was a great video👍🏽. Nothing vulgar, straight to the point, (In some parts harsh but fair). When you’re sincere it really does show barak allaahu feek. In shaa allaah rewatch this video and further on, follow suit.
this is a bit personal but, this is coming from child of a marriage that has been this way for years, i say even if the kids are involve and they are aware of the heinous act then the divorce is necessary even if they don't know i would say explain it to them and get the divorce. my parent has been married for 19 years and i can't remember a year since childhood that me father haven't had an affair and it like has be come a norm for my family, even my 9 and 11 years old sibling. once the cheating starts it'll never end leave when you have your dignity.
بيض الله وجهك I'm so happy you're talking about this honestly I've seen people advice sisters who know their husband is cheating or the very least chatting to other women that they should remain married and not destroy their family, home and marriage ... I don't know where the logic is in that but
personally whether there are kids involved or not (I'm a married woman/mother) I would instantly divorce too Allah is ar razaaq and i have my uni qualifications to fall back on
Wife/husband cheated = Ex wife or ex husband. I would make that decision instantly. After that Mans got no love what so ever. Love for the ex is out of the window and so is the marriage in mho.
Your advice was well delivered allahumabarek
Brother you made some good points, some were a little blunt but I guess you got straight to the point. I'm going dm you InSha'Allah if you can make a video concerning the topic.
People need to learn how to spot these kinds of people from the get-go.
No hijab/beard? NEXT
Having friends from the other gender? NEXT
Heavy social media user/poster? NEXT
etc. etc.
I've nexted something like half a dozen girls who asked for my number or were on the verge of asking it. It's not even funny anymore. If this keeps happening I will have to travel all the way to Qatar or Afghanistan to find a proper wife...
SubhanaAllah it's a sad matter. And the advise dawah man gave is Saheeh. But he jus cracked me up. I feel bad for laughing.
This has happened to my best friend. I think it is worth noting that not all cases are the same. Divorce is not always the answer, even if in most cases it is the best choice. Remember that the door of tawba is always open, even for adulterers. Whether you want to take your spouse back or divorce, one thing should be clear: you need to know exactly why you choose that. Your choice must be genuine rather than based on norms. It mustn't be based on fear of loss or desire to hurt your spouse back. It must come from your true, genuine, loving self. You have to ask yourself what you want and you must be able to answer it with confidence. In other words, the way to better the relationship (even if it leads to no relationship) is the betterment of self.
May Allah Love you and grant you jannah
I seek Allah forgiveness... Some of the women prefer their husbands cheating rather having a second wife.
Assalamulaykum Imran. Please advise me. I am in talks with someone about marriage and i'm pleased with most things but he has female friends/acquaintances. How can i addres this and let him know that we cannot continue if he continues to have female friends without sounding rude or judgemental? JazakaAllah
Brother when I was engaged my to be husband he cheated on me, he said he did it because he was falling to deep for me that’s why he was messed up over it and confused and it lead him to cheat (he said it was only dancing and fondling each other but no intercourse). I only agreed to marry him as he and his family were known to be a practising and I thought a practising man will be good for me and my future children. He’s practising our religion deeper now but I can’t get over that isolated incident and want to misbehave (like give him bad attitude etc) my hearts not at ease, I know why I can’t trust and forgive as He still hangs around the friends that get intoxicated and use drugs and my husband says he doesn’t use drug or alcohol and he is trying to get he’s friend off drugs.
We have 3 children together. Sometimes for my kids and for Allah I continue without pain but I miss having a friend in my husband, I’m so lost. I don’t know if I should take up some hobbies in order not focus on him.
He said drop her in a heartbeat hhahahhahahahahaah, boy leave her and get yo self a new loyal wife, as a woman I can't stand woman that stay with guys who cheat on them, LIKE GIRL IF YOU DONT LEAVE!!!
It is wrong either way you are married.Don’t rush into marriage if you are not ready.
Salam from Brighton brother.. I was wondering if there is a whatss app group or you can help with marriage akhi Jazakallah khair May Allah give the best in this life and hereafter to you and family ameen and really appreciate you helping the deen of Allah
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That is so sad 😞
Main reason I believe why spouses cheat each other is because of mobile phones. Guys, be jealous of your women. Do not give then phones. If you do, then do not give them any mobile service. Plus, do not let your wives out of the house unless she is with you, or her male relatives, you are her guardian. Wallahi be a man, do not worry if they get mad, as men in Islam we with hold what is right for us before our emotions.
Brother Imran would you please help me find a Spouse?
wait what...
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"Islamic Imam" lol