Amber Heard Has a DISTURBING Past
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Amber Heard has not covered herself in glory recently. Even though the defamation trial has finished, there are many allegations of aggressive, hostile and downright nasty behaviour.
Is this all fair?
Has she really been mocking victims of domestic violence?
Does her behaviour fit in with a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder.
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I wish I had learned what Borderline Personality Disorder was a long time ago. It would have helped explain my family when I was much younger instead of spending most of my life thinking that stuff was normal.
Only that she isn't BPD
@@danielaspitz3052 Are we treading into muffin territory here?
@@m0L3ify I don't know what you mean by this.I thought I was a BP for 49 years, my mother also showed many traits. I've just understood she's a covert narcissist and I'm struggling with CPTSD. There are differences but they aren't easy to see recognise
@@danielaspitz3052 I thought you were saying Amber wasn't BPD when she's been formally diagnosed. I thought Dr. Curry was extremely credible. My mother and sister have all 9 traits of BPD, so it does actually apply to my original comment. I just didn't even learn what BPD was until I was in my 40's. I wish I'd learned sooner. My life would have made a lot more sense.
@@m0L3ify That's what I said, Amber isn't Borderline, she's a covert narc.. Did you know that BPD is misdiagnosed by at least 50%? If you're still in contact with your family and struggling a lot, you probably suffer from CPTSD. Amber displays all the signs of covert narcissism, the main traits are playing the victim role, a total lack of empathy and tremendous envy. Everything she did to Johnny was fueled with pure hatred. That's not a common BPD trait. Narcissism runs whole families, BPD doesn't
She is the type of person who thinks what makes her a good person is her good looks.
Anyone who poops on a bed out of spite does not need an official diagnosis.
lol
she is out of her mind not even a 2 year old does that
@@Wolfmanluv only diarrhea may cause that to happen.
Vindictive Poop Disorder VPD
@@boobearyhahahaha. Thanx. That made me smile. I'm not convinced she did it personally but she defo had something to do with it. When she started that interview after the trial and said. I'm definitely not vindictive. I laughed so hard. I've never seen someone, other than my sister show more signs if being vindictive in my life.
Every single time anyone recalls pain Amber has inflicted she smirks/smiles. Every single time.
Creepy…
Sadist.
My ex was like that, with physical pain. If I wanted him to be happy, I simply said 'ouch' to make him feel like a big strong man... Then filed for divorce when I realized that he actually Wanted me hurt.
@@constanceleah118 so glad you protected yourself.✌🏼🐦
I watched so much of this trial and videos about the trial. You are absolutely right. And it happens over and over. That when the discussion comes up of her hitting anyone or shoving or hurting anyone she smiles. I think in her house in her house growing up they probably all hit each other all the time and whoever won the physical fight was seen as the victor. So in her mind when you win physically you are the winner
She was NEVER an A-List celebrity. TMZ ex-employee Morgan Tremaine presented convincing evidence that she is most definitely a B-List celebrity whose prominence is largely due to having married JD.
Exactly! I live in the Netherlands and her name only rang a bell, because I had once seen a pic of her with JD when they were still married.
I had to Google her when my son said JD was dating/engaged to her and - still had no clue who she was.
she misjudges the situations bc she's never been a victim of anything. She doesn't feel any emotion towards victims bc she's never been one. The fact of the matter is she needs pity and sympathy from ppl and took advantage of a movement she didn't belong to. She's fake, mean, deceiver, and attention hoar. She needs help and meds.
It’s more likely that she has been a victim. Hurt people hurt people regardless if there’s severe MH/drugs/alcohol involved. She was a stripper and escort. I don’t know the exact stats on the abuse people in that profession endure but it’s high. But this does not, in any way, excuse her behavior. It’s vile. She should be in prison or a psych ward at the least. Her behavior seems to keep escalating as the years go by. How long until she offs someone? Remember when she Keith saying she thought JD was going to kill her on accident? Where did that thought come from? I’m guessing it’s a thought she’s had many times about herself. She even said she just goes into a rage and does things and just can’t stop. She’s dangerous. Her sister needs to separate herself or she will be the “fall guy” for when Amber takes one of her rage sessions one step too far and kills someone.
I agree with everything you said but for some reason I think she may have been used by a man the way she uses men,and she didn’t like it,that’s why she keeps saying”I’m not a victim I will never be a victim “ I don’t know ???
@@kibby5774 Her dad from what I’ve gathered about their relationship.
👏👏
She had a smirk only when JD was on the stand. It’s like a challenging/intimating/cocky attitude, but JD doesn’t look at her, sticking to his word.
At one time she had control over JD, maybe she thought she could have the same affect on him. That ship sailed, JD
just wants to live his life.
My cousin is Borderline. I had to cut off all contact with her because I refuse to be a doormat, punching bag, garbage disposal, trashcan, or piece of gum on somebody's shoe. I've changed my phone number & she calls me under a new number so I don't answer my phone anymore unless I recognize the number. You teach people how to treat you so if you have a boss, family member, a friend or a co-worker who is abusive it's because you have allowed it. Get a divorce, find another job and cut friends , family and co-workers off at the knees. Establish boundaries with these creeps.
Ah yes, certainly need to protect yourself. But "creeps"...wow, such wise understanding is seriously missing.
What exactly did she do to you?
WOW! You must have allowed her to treat you pretty badly. Did it ever occur to you that, for her to lash out as she did, she must be in immense emotional pain on the inside? You gotta think of her like a wounded animal. Yeah, you probably don't want to get TOO close, but you don't blame the animal for reacting as it does to the pain either.
Don't forget, 10% of BPD sufferers commit suicide (that is, SUCCEED in committing suicide. 90% attempt it/make suicidal gestures) as compared to 1.4% of the general population. I genuinely would not want you to ignore your cousin's calls at a time when she really needs you, & then have to live with that. It sounds like the 2 of you WERE close as one point. Setting boundaries is important. Complete abandonment is her deepest fear. ❤️💪🏼✌🏼
Your cousin needs to be reassessed, though good luck with that. Some psychiatrists and psychologists are reticient about diagnosing women as Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) (psychopaths) and even as Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Amber fills the criteria for both, as well as for Borderline Personality Disorder and Histrionic Personality Disorder. Dat bish is facked. What drives her? She's a damned psychopath -- no conscience, no depth of human emotion, no Amber inside. If your cousin's like Amber, read up on ASPD.
@@nannettefreeman7331 you clearly have never been f'd over by a Borderline PD creep. No matter how much pain someone is in, it is NEVER an excuse for treating others the way those with BPD do. Why is it that so many people feel the need to go all "poor baby" on those with BPD but care nothing for those who suffer because of their behavior?
Truly, so what if abandonment is her deepest fear? That is HER problem. It is absolutely no one else's responsibility to pander to her manipulative BS.
You're borderline, aren't you?
I don’t think she acted that way just to mock DV Victims either. Unfortunately she thought that she could pull off playing a part that she truly doesn’t understand. Only people that have been through it truly understand the pain,fear, and trauma that comes with the territory of being a survivor. She was really convinced that she could simply play the part and treat the world as her stage. I can’t watch much of her either because she triggers me a lot. The way she acts reminds me of my abuser. The way she lies and tries to manipulate is really sickening. It is truly disturbing. Sorry for the novel
You're right. She's playing a part she doesn't understand
I agree with you, well put. I think she identified with the role of an abuser far more than if a victim. But like all narcissists, she easily feels victimized and plays that up whenever it's handy.
She triggers me too.
She's mocking true DV victims by claiming to be a victim when she was actually the abuser. Also by jumping on the "Me, too movement" bandwagon, and taking advantage of the new narrative "Believe All Women.* BTW: I heard she was earning $32K per speaking engagement.
Disappointing for the movement
Alleged
Exactly what I was thinking.
I watched the trial from start to finish. Amber Heard is the aggressor. Amber Heard is the abuser.
@@Pinkbunnylaw not alleged. She got proven guilty
We need more stars/celebs like Keanu Reeves.
The smug attitude look on her face.
For those of us that actually watched all six weeks of the trial and got to know her facial expressions can express it is a smug expression just because you didn't don't diminish our observations after watching her for 6 weeks.
If you want to see her smug face watch her deposition from 2016 on Incredibly Average
@@100Mickl already have watched live with him & Jax
Expressions don't mean a thing.
@@nm628679c of course they do it’s how we interact with other humans knowing if they’re happy sad angry etc
She was never an A list actor, no leading role-always supporting
My ex was diagnosed with BPD & narcissism. This case was like a replay of the abuse, my child & I suffered! EX got away with DV & SV in UK court because of " lack of witnesses " but, who abuses in public?
I live with BPD. I have had to deal with it so long, I developed some of my own coping skills. I feel awful for the things I do when I am angry and enraged. I had no control over my childhood and I'm sure it stems from that. I work hard in therapy to overcome my symptoms of abuse. It is a long process and a forever job to be better than my sick mind tells me I need to be. ❤️🥰😶🌫️
That's tough! To be your own judge and educator is very tiring. I think some people could learn a thing or two from you. ❤️❤️
Wow. You're strong.
It has to be hard. You're definitely an inspiration.
I also have BPD. I've done a 💩 load of work to change my behavior and reactions. CBT has been a game changer for me. Your given tools to help you. You learn your triggers and how to deal with them. My childhood was a gong show too it definitely makes a difference to how you turn out. Meds help alot too. I had a wonderful "shrink" who got me on a great combo of meds that has helped alot. No others Dr. is willing to mess with. Meditation helps ALOT, as well. Take care and have fun!!!
@@theguest4516 ❤️
I appreciate your journey because tough childhood environments requiire alot of self reflection later.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE WOOHOO! How can anyone not be offended by that response even if it isn't intentional? It's clear that amber doesn't know what domestic violence is to most people who survive it.
Oh so she isnt intentionally mocking victims, so we excuse her as a naieve wealthy celebrity, but if she doesnt care enough about victims then she shouldnt be allowed to speak at these events in the first place. She is using her influence to harm people and not help people.
She's just using the platform to get herself seen and make herself look good. She obviously has no idea how it feels to be a victim of dv or she wouldn't behave this way.
I totally agree with you hun, AH has her problems... BUT SHE is a BAD BAD ,NARSASISTIC human being, an let me just say your wrong , this woman knows what she is doing , it doesn't matter to her who she hurts , let's just say it , she did it to MUM AND DAD. ...say no more , this woman is out for herself an F*"K everyone else...she doesn't give a dam an if your close to this woman ...RUN..
Well Said.
Clueless person speaking of something she knows nothing about.
Turning it into a HS pep rally.
Then cashing in on it.
Wow.
What a piece of 💩💩💩💩
To me it looked like she might have been reacting to something someone has called out to her or somehow grabbed her attention. So she’s automatically flipped to responding to that, then flips back to what she’s supposed to be doing. It’s still obviously inappropriate for the occasion, but not clear that she’s “mocking dv victims” in that particular action. (Considering that she has overall shown complete contempt for victims by weaponising dv for her own gain, the fist pump thing is barely a blip).
Couldn't agree more. And then trying to spin it that this trial has done harm to victims and it's a set back😮😮. That's gross. No amber. Only liars should be worried. She should have been made an example of, jail time for perjury. What was the point in swearing under oath if she just blatantly lied reguardless. And now it's all falling apart for Evan Rachel wood and her clan of witches. Amber 2.0.
Her facial expressions while Johnny is testifying is very telling . One day Whitney will turn on Amber with a tell all book,hope she doesn’t wait to long so she will will make the most money
Or 1 her 3 friends in crime. Surely 1 of them will break at some point and tell it how it was. Josh drew was the closest to the truth. He even said that she got InTouch a few months before the court case. He didn't say that's why. But it was obvious. And he called her out for sleeping around up to 50 times. I think they were sucked in by her dramatics. I honestly don't believe that they all had a key to JD and AH's apartment and they never saw a thing and just happened to see her in a state afterwards. That makes no sense. If they knew he was abusive,like they claimed they did. They would have gone in there the 2nd they heard anything. Which was often apparently. And non of there testimonies matched up. Especially the stairs incident. And amber said Johnny was drunk when he came home on her birthday. But rocky Pennington in her 2016 deposition said he wasn't. That's just 1 things that didn't match her 2016 deposition. It's all available,Inc 8 parts of AH's on the channel. Incredibly average. Her demeanor isn't the amber in that courtroom. Far from it. And this is only weeks after she got her TRO. But she's neither upset, traumatised or sad at all. And this is a month or so after the last count if abuse. Hmmmm strange huh 😂😂
Misjudgement, clumsiness, borderline personality disorder and plain stupidity.
You forgot narcissism. She did this to Johnny and used this as a platform to try boost her career. She gives people with BPD a bad name. That's only a part of what she stands for
In UK court its amazing how a witness can get away with mocking/ smirking & anger, but, it's ignored by the judge! Because they can, then say the "right" thing & get away with attitude( emotional abuse in court) It's obscene!
Just look at her facial expressions during the trial and you don't need any other evidence
How could Johnny have been so blind? I could see her crazy from 4000 miles away.
He wanted to fix her, because he couldn't help his mom? Or maybe to prove to his father it could be done? Things that happen in our childhood are hard to work out, sometimes we have to live it, to understand it.
She was typical narcissist. Love bombed him, loved everything he loved, was his perfect match. Til she had him legally trapped Then the real Amber came out. My husband turned into a completely different person an hr after the wedding.Someone I would never have married had he shown me that person before the wedding
She doesn't 'go out of her way' to put down DV victims, but she clearly doesn't care either.
I think her demeanour is grandiose and defensive
She was NEVER an A List celebrity but was the wife of one and figured in her mind that his wealth and fame was hers as well.
I agree with Dr das I think she wasn't intentionally making a mockery but putting on a facade and performing a charade. If anything,she was just a hypocrite pretending to be passionate about some she doesn't give a damn about for personal benefits.
That is in fact the meaning of "making a Mockery"
@@kittencatlover156
Nope pretending to be something you are not for"personal gain" is called been a hypocrite. Mockery is pretending to be something out of spite and hate.
I met a 'borderline girl' once in a CBT-therapy group (I'm dysthymic, some of your collegues say). She joined the group when I was in my last 2 or 3 weeks of a year long, 3 days a week program. And no, I'm not a millionaire, I live in The Netherlands where we have a National Health Plan 😉 She was a lovely girl. Laughing, crying, trying to hit me, hugging me, more crying and laughing again. And all in the 1st minute she joined! As i said, she was lovely. But exhausting. I was glad to end my therapie, just because of her. But she really was a very sweet girl.
She was determined to represent victims of violence & SA through Me Too movement.
Despite her appearing to be a perpetrator of violence not a victim!
Your coverage of AH has been the least unbiased,reporting it from view of your profession which is so refreshing thanks✊♥️
19:43 she got exposed years after she had caused all the damage to JD, therefore I don't think she got exposed easily.
There was a recent video out about her 2016 deposition, she was saying Johnny was delusional about the poop on the bed, she was smiling while saying it, you see the duper's delight on her face, even though during trial she said it was the dog.
She's not mocking victims, but it shows, she is disconnected from DV or she would never act this way, she doesn't represent US!
As my Grandfather said to me on his deathbed, "bitches be trippin", ya know what I'm sayin.
Perfect timing. Watching this during my lunch break. Thank you!
I appreciate you looking into the Depp v Heard case more in-depth! I really value your opinion but did find it hard to accept a lot of the points you made in earlier videos that I disagreed with because you had some of the facts wrong. It was apparent that you had not done much more research beyond what the media reported. I hope you continue on the series!
I agree with you. He seemed to not clarify if she is Borderline
@@RoxHimmel1 Without a full psycho-social history and some time working with her, within the context of a mental health setting - he can't.
Vanessa...Thank you! I was disappointed that he really didn't seem to be offended by any of those clips and yeah maybe some were not 'intentional' in how she acted or what she said, but she was definitely inappropriate with some of these instances and he seems to think differently! I mean, he did say 'innaproriate Ok, but he didn't seem bothered! He is the professional, so maybe we're wrong and she is just inappropriate and we've all misjudged her! Maybe all her crap is just 'Innapropriate' and misjudged! He may be a slight fan of AH! I guess some people are mesmerized by her looks and just think she's misunderstood! I'm done!
@@ShannyShan20 To be fair to Dr. Das, I don't think he's an Amber fan. I believe he is giving his honest assessment of the situation. But he doesn't have all the facts.
And I just feel like he should have all the information---at least the same info the jury had---so he would understand how they came to that verdict. And even if he were still to come to the same conclusions after having all the info, then he would be able to present legitimate arguments that may even sway some people.
@@vanessaspeaks I agree 👍
It's not that she doesn't deserve help, I'd postulate that she doesn't believe she needs it, and that there's anything wrong with her. From the tapes of her and Depp she comes across as being entitled in inflicting as much emotional damage as she can. Any compassion she displays is completely mocking and ends up being destructive, in other words she's gaslighting him viciously. She needs to exert power over Depp and others by demeaning and hurting them in every way possible. To have any doubt about who and what she is gives her permission to keep being the destructive, manipulative person she is. She's shown that she has no insight, nor is she introspective because she continues in her vindictive behaviour towards Depp by doubling down, she won't let go. The verdict in the trial has taught her nothing. I can't feel sorry for someone like that. Compassion just enables her.
During that whole trial what was revealed in Johnny Depp treats waiters, people working for him, common people with respect.
It was just the opposite with her.
I agree. Didn’t hear mockery in these examples. Seems very intoxicated.
the Mockery is that she is the abuser, standing up on stage claiming to be the victim. That is making a Mockery
@@kittencatlover156 on the one hand a valid position but not a match for the accusation.
@@RadhE-ug6on I guess the best way to imagine it is if Weinstein had have gone on stage supporting SA victims, fully knowing he was in fact a predator.
She knew whilst supporting victims that she was not only the abuser but even got arrested for being an abuser. That is making a Mockery or actual Victims . Its hard to watch from having lived through abuse.
I don’t think Heard was making fun on stage either but She did say,according to sources)that basically if you stay in an abusive relationship your weak.Sorry can’t remember where I saw it. IMO the fist pumping was really really off and the cracking up was bad! Thanks
the part I think that makes it about her making fun of DV victims is she is the perpetrator of DV not the victim.
borderline sounds like over-the-line
I never noticed before but when Johnny is giving this testimony, amber is sitting g there smiling. She is just so horrible
When will she stop Dr Das? She has no shame or dignity. It’s nauseating the level of I’ll mannered activity in the me too, then media after litigation against her for her false representations to ride on me too tails.
She seems to be a Cluster B nightmare.
'A-list celebrity' is hysterical 😂
😂👍
No, it wasn’t mocking, just completely insensitive and even insulting. I don’t know why they said that. You don’t need to exaggerate to get people to see that Amber behaves badly. Exaggerating only discredits everything else said.
That being said, if you did a deep dive into who she is, you probably wouldn’t feel the need to defend her.
Here’s hoping she gets her life on track and learns the value of being genuine and caring with people, other than herself.
Brilliant video, and excellent analysis of bpd symptoms. I really like the style your recent videos have taken, the subjects are very informative and very well delivered. Thank you.
BPD has had so many negative connotations for so long, and this case has defintly fuelled it. Before anyone jumps to anything, I cannot stand this woman and I am so so glad that she lost the case. But in terms of BPD (I have been diagnosed with it myself) I know many people with BPD who are non violent, lovely and genuine people who have extreme amounts of empathy and live every day suffering extreme amount of emotional pain, who would never dream of hurting anyone intentionally. It would be lovely for a professional to one day to explain not everyone with BPD is like her because they are absolutely not!!
My best friend has BPD. She knows it and struggles with it. It helps her when I'm honest with her about things when she's behaving as BPD. She appreciates my patience and honesty because she is aware she does these things, but not while doing them. She cares enough to accept herself and work to better herself. They are definitely not all bad people. My friend is very caring. I agree with you, we should not let Amber be the face of BPD, nor DV/SA.
AH is not an A list celebrity. Never was. Before JD she was a D lister. At best, when she targeted an already partnered man using flattery and lies that her interests were similar to his and then gaslit him into marriage (and, later, when his deep addictions were apparent, his will and inheritance), she moved up to C/B list.
There’s a FHM magazine (or similar magazine) Q&A from years before JD where she proudly states that she prefers to date “older rich men” and my interpretation of that is that she craved wealth and clout and “older men” provided that.
I wish she would just go away.
A wolf among the lambs. Amber among the victims.
My self harm urge has gone since STOPPING sertraline!
I agree she's not trying to mock victims but I think she is not really affected by the subject she is talking about and her excitement and enthusiasm shows she really is not wounded the way actual victims are.
Very much appreciate your expert analysis, I watched every minute of the trial, to say the least. Ty
I have to think there’s more than BPD. I’m working through DBT book in therapy and definitely think BPD is what I have going on BUT I’m able to admit it and know it’s not “normal” behavior. She’s never going to admit she has done anything wrong. Idk if it’s narcissistic behavior or something else but it’s unfortunate that BPD has been the entire focus since the trial because not all borderline is like her.
YES. This ☝️. She gives people with BPD a bad name. She has probably scared people into being around people with BPD. If you accept you have a problem and seek help, go to therapy and work on yourself. Bpd does not make you an amber Heard at all. She has alot more going on. People with BPD don't purposely set out to hurt other people. They're more likely to sabotage themselves rather than others
Just call her a narcissist and be done with it.That's the main attribute.
Amber (a grown WOMAN) being praised by nurse Erin for not tearing into a waiter for messing up her order is all I need to know. She definitely has what she was diagnosed with!
Michelle Dauber is rude & unkind to serve her narrative.
100%! Michelle Dauber is HORRIBLE! She is what I believe is called a 'Toxic Feminist' and totally doesn't get what being a 'Real Feminist' is! It only means EQUALITY! To be equal to men, treated as such, it doesn't mean to be allowed to bash men or think women are better, or put down other women when they defend 'innocent' men, for Christ sakes or the worst one these Toxic Feminists are trying to push... BELIEVE ALL WOMEN! I mean, what kind of insanity is that?! That is alien thinking! Not only is it extremely DUMB, but it is harmful and detrimental to society! We believe others, regardless of gender, on TRUTH and FACTS! Not because one is a woman! Like, seriously?! This Dauber chick is a professor at one of the most renowned and highly respected colleges, so for this woman to SPEW this kind of nonsensical BS and really stand behind it...is not only WRONG but, truly very SCARY! That woman NEEDS SERIOUS HELP and she should not be in a position to keep running this CRAP to the masses! Get help MICHELLE DAUBER! And take AMBER HEARD with you! For real! And EVE also!
Media love to cut up and edit clips to make the villain appear even worse
Amber 's Waldman short joke stolen from Churchill is the only time she quoted him. Now she is quoting the "End of the Beginning" one too. Somebody must have watched The Crown" or something and stole them. They sure didn't read a book. Not those people.
I think she doesn’t know real emotion and what it looks like. She attempts to model it (act) and comes across as all over the place.
This sounds so much like my ex daughter-in-law. Sadly my son only survived the relationship by little over a year, while she just goes on and on.
Nope. Someone who has been severely abused DOES NOT LOVE HER ABUSER, which we know she wasn't abused,however she never loved him as SHE WAS THE ABUSER and she tried getting him for Millions. She doesn't know what Love is, she's incapable of love...
I feel for that baby she got a hold of. It is not fun to grow up with a mother with borderline personality
Amber is not and never will be a “A” list celebrity!
Because it ISNT PERSONAL to her, a DISCONNECT deom DV IPV Abuse
As a clinician, what bothers me most about this case is extent to which amber heard’s behavior is so heavily scrutinized while Johnny depp had a much more favorable bias. I can only use a provisional diagnostic judgement that this was a relationship between two partners with BPD
Who ever said that clown is an A-List celebrity? Heard is a terrible actress!
i have same diagnoses and no way do i or would i do what she has done.why all the lies
The more I hear come from her mouth, the more distasteful she becomes!
Very nicely and neutrally explained. That final video was embarrassingly over the top. Let’s face it, nobody needs to make up more issues for AH she is already her own worst enemy. And It really is time to stop this pushing the logical error of guilt by association too. Even the worst people are entitled to be represented to ensure the rule of law.
Ok, I have the entire scene where she "got excited about DV" she was talking about a DV shelter". I can't stand Amber and I feel she needs serious help but that was half a sentence. They cut out the rest of it. Also when she laughed on stage someone's phone went off during her speech and she thought the timing was funny. Not really appropriate but NOT laughing about the dv.
I find you content really good although I would suggest that you buy a microphone due to the poor sound quality when you speak. Take care!
I still think she has Histrionic personality disorder, and she's proved that over and over while she testified in court. That, along with DID and BPD. What are your thoughts on this?
I mean HPD is a disorder characterized by a pattern of moodiness, stupidity, and promiscuity.
Given that she cheated repeatedly on Johnny at his house and that evidence in the trial showed that she was caught on camera doing it, it pretty much affirms that she definitely has it.
occassional disassociating is not DID. but disasscoaiting is a common symptom of bpd. she does not have DID.
@@mud6866 I agree with you that "occasional" dissociation is not DID. After watching Amber in court, watching her behaviour unfold over weeks, and watching testimony given with regards to her mental health, I think she has many issues going on. Above all, I believe she is dangerous because she's manipulative and narcissistic, willing to hurt others to achieve her goal, with no empathy for others.
Did this guy just say he wants to see evidence. The trial testimony isn't good enough. I am not going to waste any time watching this guy.
I cant stand Amber but she was not mocking victims of abuse in that video lol. There is literally no words that could be construed as mocking victims. It was the ramblings of an awkward drunk weirdo but there was no mocking.
she was an abuser. she knew she was an abuser. She stood up pretending to support Victims.... Id say thats making a Mockery
@@kittencatlover156 Of course but the words she says, restricted to this video, aren't mocking
Do you have any advice for someone who thinks they might have BPD? Do you think it is worth getting a diagnosis?
Great video, nice to see actual reasoned responses to these clips. Just because she's done some evil things doesn't mean she always has bad intentions.
He was apologizing for all that he is to say that may be offensive.
Do we know what causes BPD - either in general or in Amber's case?
It’s funny how Lisa Bloom was saying crap about Depp and she was Weinstein’s lawyer lol. Dauber didn’t include Bloom in her tirade.
Humans sure do luv to spin things to make their points..most of us have done this so I really appreciate u being unbiased in ur assessment.
i suppose this is th right time to congratulate u doctor fr acheiving yr target(s)...iv always had th feeling tht ur surfing a tidal wave
It creeps me out when she says she still absolutely loves him. How confusing to be the recipient of this "love". I think my definition of love doesn't line up at all with how she defines it.
Also people, there are 256 different ways to have BPD and many of us are NOTHING like Amber and NEVER lose our temper or show how we are. I'm always told I'm the funniest person people ever met and I'm always smiling and seem fine, they just don't know how I really am. This Dr is great but he talks in general, we all have some things in common (usually we struggle to regulate emotions and feel a lot of emotional pain + fear of abandonment) but Amber is not a good example of how we are
Mann…She looks like a whole different person 👀
Found you on On the Edge. U have a new fan.
I'm befriended with two People, with Borderline Personality Disorder. I think in Amber Heards Case, the BPD isn't the main Troublemaker. The histrionic Personality Disorder is it, but of course it it's getting multiplied with the BPD. My Neighbor is a Narcissist. I'd prefer a Borderliner.
Really enjoyed seeing you on Spidey’s recent Casey Anthony video, so I’m checking out your previous work.
This case and the public’s reaction to it was so fascinating, and I agree with your take. There are SO many things to criticize and call out Amber Heard for, but so much of the hate felt akin to having a hate fest about your ex with a bunch of friends and twisting every tiny thing into the worst possible intention. I get the impulse, but let’s just focus on what the facts are.
People say A list celebrate but shes not really.The only good film she made was the Danish Girl. The rest are not great. A listers are Nicole Kidman Meryl Streep, Tom Cruise, johnny Depp himself etc. She’s just not in their league dou you think.? Anybody else think the same. What she is is very beautiful which i think let her get away with alot. Men obviously were besotted by her, she had alot of different partners thats not a critisium but an observation and they all seemed to be going on at the same time. Normal i can’t tell.
Although this comment is rather late, Amber Heard's testimony and behaviour in court was, in my view, a timeless example of someone who claims to love or respect the very person she attacks and insults.
Could you please analyse Meghan Markle’s latest Archetype Podcast: her interview with Serena Williams?
Every single word told about how AH Behaved is absolute Holy Word. You can see her doing these things. You can see her trying to hurt JD with all her might, with an evil look on her face. He had to always calm her down by giving in to her. You can see it. AH smirking while he tells on her, is exactly what those evil ppl do.
My cousin and Mother both diagnosed with this always in the middle of the night, or if you have plans, they ruin it by calling incessantly to cry and scream about whatever they dreamed up about their problems.
after watching everything, I don't think that pointing out her traces of borderline+ made her "look bad". quite the opposite. I myself am more inclined to associate her behaviour with the illness (don't like using this word), not to excuse what she did, but to understand it.
I'm happy for JD having his path open again. maybe his heart too (hope so).
but I have to say (it's wierd, but yes), considering the diagnosis and all the alleged abuse she herself also suffered from her father, it's more disturbing imo her friends "supporting" whatever she was doing and mainly for not trying to help her + the relationships.
and, hum, "crazy", "not normal" (what is normal anyway?), shows like... people being shallow.
would've loved that the jury recommended treatment for her, but I don't know if they had this prerrogative. It would've helped the world to recognize the condition and the importance of seeking help, treatment, not only for the the person, but for those around.
5:00 - AH is smirking
She was never an A List celebrity. Maybe D
What do you think of HG TUDOR being cancelled???? He gives a good explanation of BPD although he isn't a shrink as far as I know.....his explanation of BPD and Narcissistic personality disorder is easy and relatable for those that have been exposed but Don't understand what is happening 😀
He was cancelled??
@@javanjunkindahouse6625 not entirely thank God 🙏
The cop where AH is supposedly mocking DV victims, I think it was actually for suicide awareness and a different clip
AH is a horrible actress . Her facial expressions are over the top. So glad she lost.
Is borderline only used with personality disorder, or is it an umbrella term used with other conditions?
BPD is the name of a specific mental illness
I like your balanced take on this. I agree that there was no purposeful mocking by AH and that these were more social gaffs. I do think, however, there is something really lacking in this human in terms of empathy or awareness of others. I dislike what I see of her, but I do think it's a psychiatric condition of some sort. Wires are messed up for sure. That doesn't absolve her responsibility for her behavior but it does make it more sympathetic.
She gave a rev it up motion for DV? She’s an actress. She should know how to handle herself.
BPD takes a lot from childhood to develop doesn't it? My understanding is also that women tend to be incorrectly diagnosed with BPD at a higher rate than men when they actually have other conditions. Given that we are only going off media controlled presentation of a person without knowing them in a clinical setting and knowing how women have a tendency to be misdiagnosed with BPD even in a clinical setting and therefore not correctly treated I'm always hesitant to be taken by such a diagnosis.
I think Amber needs some time in therapy, with her own psych spending one on one time, possibly on a ward and actually get to the crux of her issues to get some help.
When it comes to Amber, I think what most people have forgotten is at the end of the day, she is still a human being deserving of mental health treatment. She isn't just a gossip column or an interesting discussion. Regardless of your opinion she deserves proper diagnosis and treatment and I don't think she will get that now.
What do you think Doc?
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Yeah...everyone deserves that if they're struggling with any form of mental disorder, but the thing about AH is that she CAN'T get treatment for the PROPER DIAGNOSIS, because she doesn't see any wrong in what she does, her attitude, her treatment of others, etc. So yeah, like anyone, she deserves to be treated properly, but at the same time, if she can't see it, in order to get it taken care of, that's on her and we have EVERY RIGHT to comment on her BS!!!! OVER AND OVER! A NARCISSIST shouldn't be put in that category of someone who needs help... they're too far up their own arses to even see or think that they need help! So we're just supposed to excuse it? Because she deserves proper treatment and diagnosis?! No! This is why she has GOTTEN AWAY WITH IT FOR AS LONG AS SHE HAS! No cap ...and no EFFEN sympathy! But you and the doc here have your right to think how you do!
@@ShannyShan20 cluster b personality disorders are especially damaging to the people who are impacted by them, I have personal experience with abuse from someone who has been diagnosed as a narcissist and with antisocial personality disorder among other cluster b personality disorders. At no stage have I tried to minimise the impact that they can have on others. But that doesn't change the fact that they are entitled to a proper diagnosis and treatment.
As I said, a lot of these issues start in childhood and therapy and treatment in childhood would have gone a lone way to help AH. As far as narcissistic tendencies, well, JD as well as many in Hollywood could be accused of having them too, we have to admit that everyone has their head up their arses here just some have more harmful behaviours than others.
Someone who is like this should especially be put in the category of needing help, if this behaviour can be stopped, if this person can learn and behaviour can be changed then surely it can lead to a better life for the person and all those that they impact being such a public figure?
Mental health treatment should be available to everyone, you won't always like the way the symptoms present, sometimes it will make the person seem very unlikeable or even hurtful, but when you separate the personality disorder/mental illness from the person who needs help and realise it's rather cruel to say these people don't deserve help because you don't like their symptoms? That's like an oncologist saying they won't treat certain cancers because the symptoms are "yucky". Mental health is medical treatment and everyone should be entitled to it.
@@smurfetteSar I agree! I'm not saying she doesn't deserve mental health help, she absolutely does, as does anyone with a mental health issue, what I'm saying is the ones like her, who seem to be so much on the narcissistic side of things, that they don't see or at least, won't acknowledge that they need psychiatric help. And I agree, most people do have narcissistic traits in one way or another, but one who has a more empathetic and a giving type personality, their narcissism is very minimal in the sense that it doesn't hurt others, but it seems to make them do more and put more out there for the world to see. And tbt, most people who do things in a public way are narcissistic in a sense(such as an actor, musician, artist, comedian, etc,) just more in wanting to show the world their talents, which when all is said and done, it's probably, as in JD's case, not in a blatant conscious way, saying "look at me, look at my talents, look at how good I am at things" he has those talents and does share them with the world and like most people, of course, you like to hear positive comments and want to hear them, of course and get that admiration, it is a normal aspect to being human. But people with the BPD and Narcissism, or even just speaking on Narcissism alone, AH and others like her.... THEIR main focus, outright, is to get that praise, and to WIN, at whatever cost to others it might take to get it! That's the difference, to me anyway, between 'normal' narcissism(that we all have to a degree)and selfish Narcissism! I truly believe, at this point with AH, she is not about to ADMIT DEFEAT in any area of her life, professionally or on a personal level such as her mental health care. I believe,if someone actually talked her into getting help, at this point, I think she would be just humoring whoever talked her into it and would try to manipulate and more or less, 'con' whoever the psychologist or therapist or psychiatrist was that was treating her! This is all just my opinion and what I think. I'm not trying to debate with anyone, this is just a comment section and this is what I think, that's all! Take care🙂
@@ShannyShan20 even if initially she was just humouring someone when she attended therapy, it is on the professional, the psych, to know how to work with people with these personality disorders and help them. It's their job to do this and they do it everyday. AH herself may not go get therapy, she may already be in therapy 🤷♀️, we don't know the inner workings of her personal life.
If you're not debating why did you reply to my comment to tell me how much you disagreed with my comment? 🤣. I can respect your comment and also disagree with it. I haven't been disrespectful towards your view, just disagreed with you.
Have a nice day 😃
@@smurfetteSar I wasn't even disagreeing with you. For the most part I do agree and it is up to the professional to assess, but sometimes one can or at least try, to act as if they're in therapy for the right reasons, but aren't really, anything is possible and I don't know about what she's doing personally, I'm just speaking on what I think would be the case with AH. Nobody really KNOWS the true basis of her mental health, what she is doing about it or IF she is doing anything. My thoughts are just what I see. That's all.
I hope you have a nice day also!
I have this " condition " and i never treated anyone wrongly , perhaps my fits of anger and paranoia with abandonment are a bit harsh but not much else
One thing that I don’t understand is why she’s taking Provigil. I’m narcoleptic and have taken it in the past (I think…I’ve tried so many meds for it) - Nuvigil or Provigil- but how is she on it? Was it the med from Limitless? Like it’s a nootropic or something?