I will never come back to you, move on with your life- Hellen finally tells her side of the story
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- Опубліковано 19 бер 2021
- Many of you will remember George as the man who publicly confessed to cheating and beating his wife but still wanted her back so they can raise their two children together. His wife Hellen has been missing for two months but our reporter Lynn Ngugi traced her and she agreed to tell her side of the story.
One thing is clear though, Hellen is never going back to George but she promised to go see her kids once doors open for her.
We also brought in Grace Kariuki Nderitu, a marriage and family therapist to tackle this topic further and advise couples on the do's and don'ts in a relationship
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What is the greatest lesson you have learnt in George's and Hellen's story?
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Have a lovely weekend
Asante lin be blessed you are doing your divine purpose in this earth , be blessed .
I have a story to share but sijui kutumia email kindly, how can i reach you 🙏🙏🙏? Nko saudi Arabia but haiusu Saudi kindly assist mw
Do you remember my request of the other side of story?
I nowadays don't buy one sided story after my neighbour Jack, infected the "outgoing wife" with Aids. Suprisingly, the Jaluo inlaws were on Cindy's case ati ooh she's a malaya ooh sijui she's like this...
Only for the family Doctor to pasua mbarika. This life, and my Cindy imagine she's okey.
Nowadays I don't believe one side of the side of the story.
Let's learn to listen to the two sides of the story.
For this Lynn, congratulations,
Please pewa soda hapo kwa bill yangu.
Love you.
That was a toxic marriage and Helen did good by walking away otherwise it could be worse or even end up in suicidal
No subtitles ?
Male and female nature needs to be studied again..everybody should do their part then demand for respect,people should speak the truth always.
When you see an African woman says "No" and walks away from a marriage with kids, trust me she had enough. She already given him 100 chances and he took her for granted.
True
When you see a woman in a marriage with kids walks away, you should not judge she's the only one who knows the really side of the story.
Togoteba ekeene
True
Thank you for saying the truth
True
Especially death threats. Dunia ni kubwa
I knew from the word go...if u see a woman leaving her house that means she cant stand it anymore...GOD help her...
Very true this lady can't withstand the pain
@@graciouscathy4606 for sure ..mungu alinde watoto wake...one day her kids will understand y she left...
Kwanza hawa watu hujifanya wazuri wakiwa huku nje ndio wabaya zaidi
@@susanmuthoni1167 kabisa...na wenye hujifanya wapole
@@veronicanjokirich6080 true
I will only come to Kenya just to come meet this humble journalist . Love from Namibia Lynn🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦
Is true me too am from Namibia living in Germany I love this program it is a blessing Lynn is a blessing. God bless you
@@lisahartmann5470 True dear. Be blessed and be safe out there👏👏👏
Welcome kenya
You most welcome
@@robertnyawanga thank u👏
Am so proud of Hellen. She put herself first. She saw the red flags and flee for her life. I respect that. Lets emulate this.
Am proud of her too.
So do I
True! Some wait until the legs are cut, ndio wanaenda! The minute a man raises his hand upon you, run!!
True
True
Wee Leo nimejaribu sajachelewa wapi likes zangu I represent Kenya🇰🇪 nikiwa🇸🇦Saudi Arabia
Team hammam 👍
Hammam Manager's Hoiyeee😂😂
Hite
@@sheilahagok5467 niko hapa
We endlea kuosha mbwa
Wapi like sa Lynn ngugi ,huyu dem Lynn Ngugi God bless you darling you’re such wonderful gal
Lynn anafanya job nzuri sana God bless you
Amen 🙏
Ok Sijui mnachukuliaje/mnaelewaje hio!!! but Calling a lady that you appreciate and respect "Demu" /Dem" it contradicts hio heshima wataka mpa..
S
💯❤️
amen
She was wise to leave rather than kill each other or the family. Let her follow her instincts and may the Lord guide her.
Septic tank
So true
True
Due to a non existent love triangle.
No man is insecure than a cheater.
So true
Sure
Pewa maziwa kwa pill yangu
@@toshqueen4823 🤣🤣🤣aki wewe
But they forget.. „mwosha huoshwa“
Watu tulitaka story ya Helen kindly kuja hapa Lynn has finally brought her.lynn I must admit u're one in a million no wonder why daughter keep saying I wanna be like lynn
Please say hello to your daughter:)
@@Tuko i have emailed so many times, i get no reply. I have a story to share about abuse please tuko
Very true, when i have a daughter, besides me, Lynn will be one of the first role models i introduce to her.
Basically, both George and the wife came together prematurely. They didn't have time to study and learn each other's strengths and weaknesses. George on one side, grew up in an environment that planted wrong stereotyped behavior that a woman must be beaten and harassed because they are worthless, and sex slave. The wife also, because she grew up an orphan, she had learnt to fight for herself. So, when she learnt that the husband is cheating on her, she resorted to revenge by also looking for a side guy. So, both of them are wrong! They should be counseled together, and start a fresh
She will be
The moment he said “I know you never loved me as your husband” just know he’s not sorry, he’s still petty and wants the woman to feel sorry for him. That’s narcissistic
Exactly. He's a real naccist and this lady shouldn't look back, he's not apologetic either.
True, emotional blackmail
Fact 💯
Yes he was acting innocent no mum can leave her children without a reason
I rolled my eyes when I heard that..just few seconds into this clip. Turning the narrative to make him the victim. Pthoo
Wapi likes za counselor? She is so wise.
very
Very wise lady.
Very very true
Very very true
Very very wise
Its good to listen to the other side of story,..some people judge a lot before listening to the other side . Gonga like kama unakubali...
Tumepata kutoka kwa Hellen kama ako hai angangane na hali yake asonge mbele kama injili
KUKUBALI NINI SASA
@@dennisoiro486 kukubali its good to listen to both sides ndio ujudge
@@philyskasaya7317 kabisa
I saw the man being a narcisive 🚶🚶🚶
Never ever dare mistreat an orphan. My friend George you'll never have peace.
I second as members of orphans association...tumbafu ya mwanaume...ati nilimnyorosha vizuri sasa and says with a big smile
@@emmanabakolwe6291 idiot man indeed.
But how was she mistreated??? Both of them need help! George having done what he has done doesn't mean the girl do the same ,,I sympathize both n their problems! So sorry
@@annnjoki2421 - He beat his wife! That is not OK, that is abuse!! It doesn’t matter WHAT she did, it is never OK to beat her, NEVER. And wasn’t he chasing someone with a panga as well? That ALSO is not OK!!
Pls temper this with forgiveness. l was an orphan with no family to stand by me when l suffered domestic violence for decades at the hand of my now ex-husband, who continued having extra-marital affairs and clubbing into his 40s. l stayed in that marriage because l wanted our 3 children to be brought up in a home where there is a mother and father.
l forgave him, but left the marriage because l felt that he would eventually kill me if l didn't, thereby making our children orphans and wards of the state, because he would definitely have gone to prison for life as a result of all the written and photographic evidence the local police had gathered over decades of the abuse l suffered at the hands of my ex-husband, as a result of my neighbours in London here, always calling the police for mine and my children's protection when they hear my crying from being beaten up.
l refused to prosecute him, because l couldn't bear to face my children one day to tell them that l put their father in prison for aggravated domestic violence.
l choose to leave him and took our children with me, even though l had no money & no job. lf l was back in Nigeria, l would not have been allowed to take our children, because the law there favours the husband that he owns the children.
Thankfully, the Law in England has been changed, giving the police and the courts the powers to prosecute any man for domestic violence, even if his wife refused to bring charges against him, and if he is a Policeman or Prison officer, he will automatically be dismissed from work for abusing his wife.
I choose to forgive him, because Jesus Christ said in Ephesians 4:22 'Forgive one another just as Christ forgave us'. Hebrews 10:30, says 'Judge not, for vengeance is God's. In Exodus 14:14, God also says 'hold your peace and God will fight for you'.
10 yrs after we separated, he filed for divorce in which he lied that, my dead parents (who he never met) had colluded with myself and our three very young children to beat him up for years, and that he had ran away from us to save his life. He stated this in his divorce to get a quick divorce, so that he can marry his Landlady whom he had gotten pregnant. Unfortunately for him, 'he was played' because the woman was not pregnant, but only wanted him to give her and her kids British Citizenship, and officially adopt her children so that if he chooses to leave her, she can go after him in court for child support of her children which he had not fathered.
A couple of years into their marriage, his cousin discovered that the new wife beats him up with a frying pan, and he is too ashamed to report her to the police. That shows you that everything we do on this earth, we will reap, no matter how long it takes.
He has tearfully asked for mine and our childrens' forgiveness, which we told him that we had forgiven him over a decade ago, and for the 1st time in 20 yrs, he bought food ingredients for our children, and thanks me for having done a good job raising our children on my own, with no support from him, because they all turned out well; 1st child (son) is a Chartered Financial Adviser/Wealth Manager, the second child (the only daughter) is a lawyer, and the 3rd child (2nd son) is in his final yr at University.
l hope the above helps someone out there to know that God will never leave you nor forsake you and your children, if you choose to leave a marriage which endangers your life and causes children trauma from witnessing the abuse. Forgiveness unburdens you of pain & bitterness, and allows you to heal. Stay blessed.
I’ve thoroughly enjoyed listening to this therapist. She’s intelligent, levelheaded, down to earth and a reliable professional. Lynn should invite her often, she has a lot to share. I can listen to her all day. Thankyou Grace Kariuki.
How can we get help personally from her lynn I really needed her help
Grace karuiki is calm and understand the Kenyan context and norms very well.
Sipendi kusikiza therapist for some wierd reasons beyond me especially about marriage but huyu nimemsikiza Hadi nikaskia asimalize kuongea...she is so good
Hellen talked and she didn't even cry even when her kids were mentioned...that tells alot. She also sounded relieved and peaceful. A woman can only persevere for so long. Once she moves on she's gone. Narcissistic men are now being exposed in the society. Their tactics are being uncovered...All the best Hellen❤️
Yassss! Expose them
There is no woman who can just pack and leave with no reason don't be too first to judge....
True
Exactly, by the time a woman decides to walk away, she is more than sick of the man's bullshit.
Absolutely correct
Ndio lkn kumbuka huyu alikuwa akihanyaa na mwanaume mwingine
Sometimes mtu ndio ifike time atoke anakuanga amevumilia anafika mwisho...but if your partner cheated and can't forgive don't revenge by the same just walk out if you can't take it....karma karma we all know is a bitch
She spoke a language everyone descent human should understand. She spoke with alot of compassion herself. This lady can change alot in a human being!!!!! Her words really resonated with me as man. FROM NOW MOVING FORWARD I AM PUTTING MY EGO DOWN!!!!
George threatened to kill her it could be the reason he wants her back to finish what he wanted to in the name of kulea watoto 🙆🏽♀️It’s better for Hellen to stay away for him.
Exactly Lulu. Bado yuko na hasira George
You have just spoken my thoughts! Hellen never go back!
Exactly. He is mad that she dared to leave him. He can't stand it. He misses being a contol freak and if given the chance, he will finish her off. No remorse coming from him whatsoever. Hellen should NEVER ever go back. Thankfully she's not deceived. I pray o God, make a way where there's no way for Hellen to earn an income and raise her children. Amen.
Wacha akae na mkia Wake wa 24/7. Waluyha kwa mkia.hata Kama umezaa Jana..atakupitia loi😂😂😂😂😂
@@kaninamargaret8025 the lady was wise to leave early I would do the same
EUROPE ulete hii story oooh nikamyorrrrrrooooosha vizuri ati interview ... my friend U ll regret 😳 and cut the tongue 👅 that put you into disaster..
.. KENYA SYSTEM SHOULD WORK BETTER.EVEN AFTER ALL THESE INTERVIEWS.ITS TIME WE FACE THE WHO IS WHO IN EVERY DEPARTMENT AND QUESTION THEM.sio kusikiza hizi interviews and leave the stones unturned. TUKO FIXING KENYA.leteni hizo likes hapa we do the count down.
I wonder kwanini hakushikwa na aliconifess mwenyewe
Ninani has right 4 beating a Woman 🤷🤷😭😭
Germany , utajuwa hujui aki 👍
He must Look for Help May be he needs Help 😭
True he confessed himself he was violent 😥
😂😂
Which Europe countries are many
Nipewe kaa like leo atleast am top 10 lynn
Let me apologize for judging Hellen from the story of George,I will never judge anyone before I get to know his /her story...may God open doors for you and for the person reading this...God bless you all
Never judge my dear. And even after hearing both sides of a story, still never judge, people are battling all kinds of issues.
@@sarahkawala you are right...never judge. This man may change for the best marry again n stop fighting with the next wife n still take care of all the kids, current n future...he may also be depressed n with counseling he may change...he is not emphathetic...fighting is wrong
@@humanhomesolutions9782 - One of the most defining features of people with ‘Narcissistic Personality Disorder’ (NPD) is ‘lack of empathy’. People with NPD are emotionally immature (they are children in adult’s bodies), and unfortunately NPD is one of the few personality disorders that are almost impossible to treat. Counselling sometimes helps a bit though - but unless they get counselling for the rest of their lives, they will just revert back to their old behaviours :-(
Ukiona mama ameacha watoto wake ujuwe amefika mwisho wa dunia
nice guiding and counseling , bring the guest again.kudos Tuko.
I believe Grace Kariuki Nderitu is the most knowledgable professional marriage and family therapist on Tuko! She explains and illustrates all her points/theories. She is also impartial, she ses the god and bad in both George and Hellen, and then leaves the audience to make their decision on who is in the wrong. She adds a spiritual perspective to the situation which is makes me respect and trust her knowledge even more. Thank you Lyn for inviting her to the program.
I know the pain I also left mine for 7yrs
Heri kuwaacha una save life yako kuliko kuvumilia hapo then ana Kua wanakuzika. I hate men who beats their wives. Corwads
True dear pia mm miliona nitakufa stress nikatoka nikawaja watoi wangu bt now is 3years niko gulf sooner nitawajukuja wakae maisha poa
Yes dear your life is important now you are stress free. God bless you and protect you and your family
Ata mimi nilikuwa napigwa nikaamua kuenda exile
Real cowards
@@mariambendera6321 azn
After watching this episode I realized all my circle of friends need a lady like grace to cancel them. Actually everyone needs a therapist
Well said we see in movies couples going for counseling I understand why now.
I'm stuck on Lynn's hair.... girl you're rocking it the natural way. 😍😍😍😍😍😍
When a lady says enough is enough no amount of money or gold can take back her words trust me!!!!!Hellen focus on ur life periodtt.....
Women have a right of choice...but choices have consequences
@@DavidNdara e.g if she stays and the man fulfills his threat and kills her.That's a very bad consequence.
Hakuna words strong nishawahi skia kama hizi
@@carmiimrac9131 louder please
@@tinahtinez774 🥰
I knew this man was an evil from first, Thank you for the bringing to us the second side of the story.. without further ado let's sit and watch
He's a psychopath. Helen should keep off this beast. He was looking to justify his cheating behavior.
Me too..from the first time nilijua huyu jamaa ndo shida tupu
And he had the nerve to come on the show wanting people to feel sorry for him.?? 🙄🙄He needs help and he needs to proper sort himself and his behavior out before he even thinks of looking for another wife. Honestly I already feel sorry for that innocent woman who might become his wife.
He needs deliverance.
This man looks dangerous Mimi siwezi Rudi huko
Lynn, mimi nliambiwa ntachapwa mpaka watu wetu wakiniangalia washindwe kama ni gari ilinigonga.Nlimtoka 2012 till now i hv a dota 13 yrs n am still single living life to the fullest.
The best decision you ever made Mimi niliambiwa'nitakukatakata nikupeleke kwenu ukiwa kea gunia!'nilitoka 2018 am now happy
If it's not working just let go, it's better to walk out of a toxic relationship than to be buried and leave your kids to suffer 😴😴😴
@@catherinenaswa5028 Wat!!!!! Ati akuweke kwa gunia?Once a man akianza vitisho n vita think twice b4 matanga ianze.
@@nellykamau3399 U r right my dear.Most ladies wako kwa toxic relationship n marriages.
@@damarismacharia5954 imagn but I thank God nilitoka kea hiyo ndoa am now okay and at peace
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Awwww, thank you so much:)
Sure.
Let's patiently let ADs run.
We enjoy these stories and we need to give back.
@@sonyia7521 When you let the AD run on her channell without skipping, it has so many advantages since the advertisers do pay the youtuber whenever their ads are viewed fully without skipping on their channels.
@@sonyia7521 The percentage of people who skip ads heavily impacts UA-camrs' revenue as UA-cam does not count skipped ads as a view, advertisers don't pay for skipped ads, and therefore creators do not get paid for viewers who skip ads. If a UA-camr has an audience made of people who always skip ads, they won't earn as much.
Tunajaribu.
The guest speaker is wise, knowledgeable, and genuine. Thank you.
Yeh this should happen to all ladies mtu akikutishia maisha we ondoka instead ukufe uwache watoi kwa shida,,
True mimi nilitishiwa
Mm nilishikwa makagari nikaenda exile😂😂😂
Just love how Lynn speaks..she's so natural and real
When a man beats you once, leave. She made the right decision, P E R I O D....
I want to agree with you no man should beat his wife can u tell me what a man should do when he find out his wife is cheating in their marriage I need an advice please
@@gamingwithjaiddy725 Leave it, u can't force people with what they decide to do like cheating.
Very correct they never stop
Very correct
I digress when a “man” ASSAULTS you once,leave!! That’s on PERIOD,no cap!!!
Wish you all the best hellen you can't live in violent marriage sababu ya watoto,Employment is the best husband who will never disappoint
🤣🤣🤣
Please say that again
Absolutely well said
When she told her kids that she is coming tomorrow I cried.... 😭
Mi too damaris I cried also, eti nikuletee nini so painful
Aki pia mm I cried venye mtu hufeel that feeling si mchezo
That broke me too
It's soo wrong to lie to kids... Trauma on trauma
She didn't want to hurt their feelings.
Oh I love the lady how she has expressed everything so well, systematic,and very straight sensitivity and clear.she is a great counselor and coach.powerful.mothertherly and composed.
Never stay in abusive relationships walking away is the bravest thing a woman can do! It's about time we stop judging each other and start supporting our sister's who are suffering silently
This woman is totally fed up. Let her just do what is good for her. Women are told to vumilia juu ya watoto. No. They will be fine with their dad too. Women step up all the time
Please bring back this lady to talk about mental health issues as a result of childhood trauma caused by parents and how to overcome them
Congrats i was disturbed to know her side ....lyne wewe ni nani ....wewe ni wetu .....✔✔✔✔
For this woman to go in hiding it must have been bad for her. I work as a social worker, and one of the measures that a person is fearful is when they flee to unknown destination and change everything in order to get away from the abuser. I really wish her the best for the future.
TOXIC RELATIONSHIP... THE MAN IS A WOMANIZER when he gets a taste of his own medicine he is bitter.. lol... violent relationship NAY
George should repeant in to God
@@henryoboya5139 he jz want the woman to come back to raise his kids .not as a wife parse
Na nilijua huyu jamaa ataachwa
@@milkanyevu8471 do you know him
Hii ndio dawa sasa...we are still learning..life is short..
Fact is she left emotionally/mentally first... Looks like she was fed up 😢wishing y'all healing and your kids❤️🙏
Sasa ww 😂😂😂😂😂
Very true wanjiru muya
Was looking for your comment 😂😂
umesahau physically😅
@@shirufridah me too😁😊
That man is toxic. Someone beating up a woman and smiling when narrating huyu ni devil. Someone tell him now that he is a very good provider who provides anything and everything si atafute tu mwanamke mwingine.
Anakaa mtu haja mature bado, and knows nothing about marriage
Hahhaha..aki na ana smile..
You read my mind
Aki ati nilichukua belt nikamnyorosha😥😥😥
Well said
I didn't watch the interview with George. But from the clips it disturbs me how he smiles when talking about beating his own wife. So proud of himself 😢
Stupidness just. (Excuse my language)
A pure narcissist 🤦🏽♀️
Same here. He does not deserve any woman on earth.
Toxic
Yes, the husband smiles about beating his wife, and is proud of it - and that is because he’s a Narcissist, and does not have 'self-awareness'. People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder are emotionally immature, and unfortunately their personality disorder is almost impossible to treat with therapy.
I felt something was not true about George’s story. I thank God Hellen is alive ❤️
Grace Kariuki is amazing at her Job. she has analyzed the situation in a way that she addressed the issue rather than attacking George or Hellen.
Niliacha story ya George nusu he was just too much of himself, thank God Hellen is safe and happy.
Pia mi everything in him he felt was right ...
Me top
Pia mm
Provision provision. Kumbe ni toxicity
Me too
I was once in the situation,I left my husband and the kids went look for money and I came back for then after I was stabled to take care of them,now am happy with my kids and found someone who deserved me ,,Hellen you did the best decision
Waw congratulations yu are also a strong woman
Yet you went and got married again..you are very strong..
I have a hot story about marriage.... I need to share here, what I went through, singevumilia, I ran away to say my life. Congrats girl, our God is with you
Can't wait to hear your story. You will help someone.
Am waiting to hear your story dear
Gather yourself and share with everyone you might encourage someone
Hug you mama run for your life I have been through hell in marriage I run without seeing back 🏃♂️🏃♂️ I'm my sister's keeper ❤
I wish to understand lynn I also have a story nd I need help from the marriage counselor
Wow mwanamke akikupenda amepanda akienda utajua hujui good job hellen tumeskiza pande zote,apambame na hali yake Hellen kanyaga kubwa kubwa Bora uko hai
🤣🤣🤣🤣 true
ARE YOU HELPING NOW
@@dennisoiro486 😂😂😂tukienda tumeendaga wee uliza usaidizi
Yes that is true
@@dennisoiro486 hee wewe wauliza helping to kienda huwa tunajua hatutakuja kuuliza helping
To everyone watching and reading this it's always good to leave in peaceful life so if marriage doesn't work for you just leave don't hurt yourself by fear of what others will talk about you .
I respect Helen for leaving. Death threats are not a joke. Engine waking wanakaa happy waiting to be killed
This councilor is absolutely amazing. I grew every second she was talking!
She's really good
Veery good
I'm loving the way she is explaining like she is amazing 👏👏
Lyn should be bringing her for such cases.
Wow! This counselor is more than a million words. Am a therapist, but I cant hold a candle to her. @Grace you are a wonderful. @Lynn Ngugi, hats off to you.
The wife is innocent, after watching first 5 minutes of her talking..stay safe lady
All the best to your kids .
Ju hauna mtu
Hellen run for your dear life, George is not a man who really wants a wife, he is a big pretender.
In many marriages, orphans, are not respected the man knows she has no support system
He is a proper definition of a narcissist. I'm so happy she left.
Not only orphans hata wakijua u have no support system, men hapana kwa kweli i salute the male gender
What people like this man don't realize is that when you oppress an orphan you leave God with no option but to fight you as their advocate!!!!! Deuteronomy 10:18 “He defends the cause of the fatherless and the widow, and loves the alien, giving him food and clothing.”
Very true... narcissists attack the vulnerable, and they can't stand being left
I agree....
Lyn you are one in a million...very kind and good hearted lady....May the Lord grant you more years
Baas,udaku kama hizi ndio napendanga, I can't miss watching,hata kama kuna shughuli wacha ikae🤣🤣
Your not alone 😂😂😂, ata chakula ikiungua wacha ingue 🤣🤣
Pamoja 🤣
Ata me nimeacha kazi inipite niskize udaku😂😂😂
@@ivyngeny1726 nimeekelea Githeri..😂😂😂
@@ivyngeny1726 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The man was shamelessly bragging 'nikamnyorosha sasa viruri' ,,shindwe pepo....am so proud of hellen,she even left the phone 👏👏
That man is worse than an animal
Fisi akiwa hakimu mbuzi hana hatia wakenya wanawake hatuna lakusema ni kuteswa na maisha mbaya
He got other women who treat him " like a king " n still begs the ( 'bad ' ) one that fled to " come back"... Doesn't make sense 2 me..🤔🤔
Narcissists never make any sense. They are mentally sick and delusional and selfish and very dangerous.
Lol
He is just interested in sex.
It's good to hear both sides,.. good job lynn
That lady has alot to say it's only that she has fear of speech
The authorities should help this woman reunite with her kids.
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They are with their father. He's their parent too.
@@rosendungu8051 a narcissistic,abusive,machete wielding,murderous threatening father? Yeah,they are safe indeed!!
Yes they should,I don’t believe they are safe in that environment they are in right now!!
True. Wapi maprobono hapa?
A man who beats a woman worst is infront of kids,that's not a solution,the guy is a narcissist.
I like the therapist, why don’t they teach parenthood classes in school. So many parents don’t know they are doing and when their children stumble and they think it’s independent of their actions. We determine how our children end up, and at times they will succeed regardless of our bad parenting however most people don’t overcome childhood trauma
Yes, the therapist is great, for sure! And teaching parenthood classes in school would be such a good idea! But what we should also be teaching in schools is ‘Empathy’. Empathy is not something you are born with, it has to be taught (I did not know that, until recently). And also, it’s important to teach empathy to children from when they are still young. If all children are taught about empathy while they are still young, that will greatly reduce marital and child abuse, as well as trauma, in the future.
Abuse is not a problem of anger! It primarily stems from entitlement and lack of empathy. I agree that it’s all from upbringing. Father n mother wound.
Nikikumbuka vile nilikuwa nachapwa na mshipi kama mtoto na mwanaume walai naona tu niishi single forever...mtu anakupiga hadi unableed na anakufukuza kwake ulale ukinyeshewa kama ubwa ni mnyama...but I thank God I left Hellen don't go back wacha huyo George kama ako so perfect angekuwa ameoa already but since he is a narcissist he can't get a woman who can stand him.
Huwa nasema ukiona mwanaume anaanza kutrack simu ya partner yake, juwa huyo ndiye fisi mkubwa, I can relate...
Hata ukipewa kila kitu na usiwe na uaminifu ni bure tu
@@janetoroko9271 Kabisa dada,👌🏾
Apo ni ukweli
The pain of talking to your children on phone and lying them that you will come tomorrow!
I can relate😥hiyo part imefanya nlie aki
I have felt a very sharp pain in my heart I can relate
Very painful 😭😭
It probably wasn’t a very good idea for her to tell the children that she will come ‘tomorrow'. Better to say she will come ‘soon’.
It hurts so much. Haki she gave her children hope...ooh no, i cried.
Wale watu huwa mnasema patanisho haikuagi ukweli kujeni muione live apa tuko 😅😅😅😅
Hhhhhhhh
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Haaaaaaa..noma sana...
Ukweli kabisaa hii ndio patanisho sasa
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Seriously? Is he telling her to go back just to bring up children?So she will be like a house help? Haiya😭😭
Men aky 😒😒😒😒
Imagine
That is exactly what he saw in her from the beginning, not a wife but a tool of sex to be used .
Atajua hajakomaa , hajatokota kiume.
I am supporting Hellen. Any man who threatens her wife he doesn't deserve to have one.
I love how women are moving on from toxic relationships and marriages for their peace of mind.Shindwe pepo mbaya ya narcissists😠
We rebuke these narcissist demons out of our women’s lives in the name of “marriage” in Jesus name!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣 shindwe 🏃💨🏃💨🏃💨🏃💨🏃💨
Plz Lyn bring this Councilor back💕💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much mama, I've really learnt alot🥰🥰
This lady is talking the gospel truth ,the husband was just making stories cz he seemed too good to be true yawa
George, you said she must come back to look after your kids not because you loved her 😥😥...... so you need her as nanny not as your wife 😥😥
Hellen is so intelligent. Usikubali kuuliwa kisa ndoa
True
Mimi niliacha ndoa ya fujo..karibu niuluwe tena akanitishia kuniuwa
@@millicentayangokunting3728 Ulifanya poa u are wise.
Au nafumilia juu ya watoto na unauliwa
And hellen if you found love elsewhere go for it..hiyo ingine ilikuwa slavery
Physical assault is punishable under the law. He should face charges accordingly. I still don't understand why he's walking scot-free.
Thats kenya4u
Where murderers walk freely..
@@meg-iv1sw Its saddening to say the least
@Yvonne Wanjiru - exactly, so why is he walking scot-free? I don’t understand why it is not mentioned in these videos that physically assaulting your wife is a punishable offence?? It would be useful to many abused women to hear those words spoken - many women may not even know that!
@@beautifuldayzee5942 Precisely! So many women go through assault and it gets normalized. My heart goes out to all victims who go through this and dont get justice for the same. Internalized Patriachy, society, culture etc all play a part in this. Its saddening to say the least!
We need a pro bono lawyer. This guy confessed beating her.
I do not understand ... the husband said, I know you never loved me... but come back home for the sake of our kids!.What kind of life is that?.Kids grow and will have their lives.They can as well live elsewhere...You want her to live in misery all because she has to be close to the kids!.She can live with them and you cater for their needs as well.She has life to live.I believe most of us marry for the worng concept.
Hi Lynn I would want someone to talk about the pressure people face in there 20's especially after school..pressures on finding a stable job as well as feeling the need to have a stable relationship at the same time.. the feeling of you not being good enough..as in how to go about it and stop being hard on yourself
Hey .. I suggest you listen to Benjamin Zulu ... He has spoken very much about it
Kurudi nyuma kunahuwa move on with your life dear ata mimi nilifanyiwa kitendo na all his family ati cause Baba watoto wangu amepata a good wife since l left him 15yrs know and he has marry 7wives wakienda at this time hana wife na hana job they are telling me to go back but l can't cause l have already buy my land and doing my protect with my two kids one girl and one boy . I thank God for all
Atafikisha 20 hao mabibi
I should know how you did it
Move on dear na baraka mob ziko njiani
AMEN TO GOD🙏🙏🙏🙏
Maisha inasonga mungu yupo
Morning 🇰🇪 and Uganda 🇺🇬, thank you Lynn for these educational classes that are free for those who are open minded
and TZ we here
I think I’m the one that got the counseling more than them.😂
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Me here to.
Some men have sweet mouth that people don't see their inner weakness
This is very true,,,and once a woman decides to walk out they will see u as evil
So these men think they have a right to hanyaa us ? But when we do the same they are bitter! Kwendeni huko , ukihanya hata mimi nahanya period.
I support you but the best is to leave the bastard alone
@@a.muchemi4360 thank God she never waited for something worse to happen!
Yeah very true, wanaume wanajionanga kama wako right ya kwenda inje na wanawake ata kuzaa na hawa.
Kabisa,,, deed for dat is a fair game
No,they cant take their own shit when served back
During introduction, I had thought this guest is the Helen and I missed a breath....
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Lyn nipee Namba ya Hellen nimpee kazi yeyote.. I feel this lady is traumatized with marriage.. Let her follow her decisions marriage is not a force thing,, also money is not solution to everything.
Thanks Noor may God blessed you plz do so have been to the same situation
Be blessed siz
Hello Noor, drop Lynn your number at lyn.ngugi@tuko.co.ke and she will get back to you
And not in Saudia Arabia
Ata mimi mnikumbuke aky. I need a job
The way Mrs. Kariuki answers Lynn's question... Wow.. Wisdoms detects.
George, if you are up in these comments, you need to go and work on your behaviour before you start getting with another woman. Find a good therapist to help you deal with your childhood trauma and insecurities. If you do not, you will damage that one too and she will walk away too.
If you keep up with this, you will meet your match and she will send you to your creator. And do not think of using your children to entice Hellen back coz you will only make things worse. It is a good thing that she left because her safety and wellbeing comes first. She cannot protect and care for her children when she is damaged through. She was already traumatised and you added to that.
Forget about her and that relationship. You have damaged her trust in you and not even the best glue can fix it.
Yes like my cousin no man can play with her coz she beats them.
Well spoken my dear. Someone cannot take care of another if themselves are broken.
Sure
George needs to go to a rehabilitation.
It's good to learn from experience
....... This is what we call loosing a gold while picking up stones,........ She gave you time to change yourself but you took advantage of that now you have to deal with it
A thief is always very bitter when stolen from..!
True 😂😂😂
Amen!
Naked truth
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True
This marriage counselor knows what shes talking about. Amen and shes genius.
Lynn if everyone of us would contribute 10bob ata 5k is enough for Ellen to start a business achukue watoto wake remember the internet never forgets those kids one day watafika 30yrs wataingia social media na watajionea for real they will never forgive there father
I agree
Hata wacha babayao awalee watoto ni wake pia.huyi dame ajijenge solo kwanza she's through so much already
I agree with you.
@@esthergitau777 hatuna issue tunasema the woman to be helped the father is a narcissist if he can do that to the wife what of the kids kindly reason like a mother ujue the children needs there mother figure around as long as ako hai
Sio lazima watoto walewe na mama. If she in fear of danger let her be. Pia huyu mwanaume awalee he is a parent too asi🤷♀️
That’s my gal Lynn she knows how to keep promise
Let agree after hearing 👂 both side..Ukipata mwanake akichukuwa vilango aende,,aache boma yake usimuhukumu,,,welcome to our side single mummy stress free kama singo ya kuku🐔🐔...
Welcomed to singlehood dear.boma bila uhai ni bure
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Well sa my dear.
I guess i'll choose singlehood for life. I just cannot deal with a "man child" . I love my freedom, personal space , sanity and emotional health too much too put up with a controlling abusive man.😂😂😂😂
@@bluebird4815 😘😘😘Let enjoy our free life full of joy 🤩 without stress of a someone have 32 🦷🦷🦷 2)enjoy sleeping 🛌 well without kungeuswa njuu inama lala kifo ya mende 😂😂😂saa hii we are enjoying with lesson plans 😘😘😘😘alafu usikie ata akipewa tena na tena lazima alalamike nkt...we are free like ocean 🌊 we move the time storm ⛈ come
I knew tables would turn after hearing the two sides of the story even kwa patanisho you might think the victim is innocent until you listen to the other side of the story
God is the father of orphan and husband to the widower may God comfort everyone passing through hard life situation and deliver destiny helpers to His people....Hellen it's my prayer that God offer job to you and kindly take your children never leave them back ....all shall be well
Ooh my