My mother-in-law was jealous of my relationship with my husband

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  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  2 роки тому +13

    What message do you have for Terry? Please reach her through her number: 0724 057 875
    To share your story with us, send an email to lily.mwangi@tuko.co.ke or eucabeth.mukami@tuko.co.ke.

    • @anniemwaniki5063
      @anniemwaniki5063 2 роки тому +2

      Mambo

    • @anniemwaniki5063
      @anniemwaniki5063 2 роки тому

      Nanastory

    • @ellybkhimzy4048
      @ellybkhimzy4048 9 місяців тому

      She is my sister from another mother we grew up together from same village Trizah you are strong girl I know all this coz I know you from young age.

    • @JanetOkangi
      @JanetOkangi 5 місяців тому

      When the baby got born😅

    • @JanetOkangi
      @JanetOkangi 5 місяців тому

      Thas why sipendi wedding wacha niishi kama criminal😢

  • @janetwangari3106
    @janetwangari3106 2 роки тому +27

    We used to fellowship at the same church I didn't know she was going through hell in her marriage she used to lead praise and worship at our church you are strong mama keep going 🙏

  • @carolineochino2816
    @carolineochino2816 2 роки тому +34

    Watching this today and remembering what a wicked mother in law I had. God help me be a good mother to my son's wife

  • @hesbonolunga5479
    @hesbonolunga5479 2 роки тому +14

    I must say this Tuko presenter is doing a great job

    • @carolinemakezi5926
      @carolinemakezi5926 2 роки тому +1

      Yes she is. Just limit the advise within things you understand or leave it out altogether. You are a good listener.

  • @evangelistgrace5278
    @evangelistgrace5278 2 роки тому +127

    My mother in law could come in my house and gossip me with my house maid. She disrespect me so much, telling people I come from a poor family. She made sure everyone in the family hated me to point the family members abusing me... My former husband was so weak to protect me from all the abuse. You tell him what is happening, he used to keep quiet...I used to keep quiet once I'm abused. Now they started extending the hate to my children. I couldn't travel to his ushago, for the fear of been humiliated. I had to separate myself from this man, now I'm healing and at peace. I understand you so much.

  • @judymurerwa694
    @judymurerwa694 2 роки тому +9

    Aki my mom in law only God knows how good you was to me you're more than my mom, continue resting in peace till we meet again

    • @NancyNgugi-os9kx
      @NancyNgugi-os9kx 8 місяців тому

      Ooh mine too was so nice to me may her soul continue resting in peace

  • @lilychepkirui9947
    @lilychepkirui9947 2 роки тому +10

    This lady is beautiful in and outside ,you will go far mummy

  • @reginadavid4454
    @reginadavid4454 2 роки тому +20

    Nothing dangerous in this world more than staying with someone who is not loving you and he/she don’t want you to go,you are going far mama

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef 2 роки тому

      You are right. When someone realizes that you love him too much, thats,, when trouble begins, but unfortunately, love develops naturally.

  • @kemigishadaphine4409
    @kemigishadaphine4409 2 роки тому +8

    I can't hold my tear this is my story l ask God to strengthen me so as l walk out

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef 2 роки тому +1

      May God protect you and lead you .

    • @keflerbrownb.6450
      @keflerbrownb.6450 2 роки тому +1

      I declare total Healing in your life. In Jesus Mighty name!

  • @crocodilemasala7956
    @crocodilemasala7956 2 роки тому +10

    Mother in law ni sumu katika ndoa na akiingilia ndo yako utahangaika hadi mwisho. Sorry for the suffering you went through.

    • @agneswanjau559
      @agneswanjau559 2 роки тому +1

      Not all mother in laws are bad haki. Many are loving and concerned. By the way it's just a few years before the oppressed wives also become mothers in law.

  • @EWAHN
    @EWAHN 2 роки тому +17

    As a man, the moment you allow your parents (especially mums) take control of your family affairs, you are doomed!

  • @shavinewambui7754
    @shavinewambui7754 2 роки тому +2

    Hugs mamah... God in heaven sees and hears...you will get someone who will love 💞💕 you the way your supposed to be loved

  • @evainyambukhu5186
    @evainyambukhu5186 2 роки тому +2

    She is a very strong and beautiful woman. May the Lord bless her

  • @papa71725
    @papa71725 2 роки тому +6

    During dating its the time to learn each other and most people hide in weddings and the fear of failing after weddings combs many peoples school of thought and that's why many are in a dilemma and suffering to uphold the marriage which has already crumbled with one of the partners.

  • @africanawang2674
    @africanawang2674 2 роки тому +22

    Divorce is done by the court. your husband's signature is not necessary. please familiarize with marriage and divorce laws. Also, you don't need a man's approval to be acceptable to society. Kibali ya Mungu na kujiamini is all what you need.

  • @coureywanjohi896
    @coureywanjohi896 2 роки тому +2

    Woiye so the lady was going all this and the way she was good in praise and worship in church...may God watch and guide your steps to raise your kids.

  • @NaomiNzomo-w4n
    @NaomiNzomo-w4n Рік тому +1

    Me i got marriage may na ikaisha august na nikaacha marriage roho safi and i remember i told that guy ukiona mjinga kama mm shukuru mungu trust me kila siku unitafuta turudiane bt who is me i just send photos and tell him mungu hatoki kwenu uliniambia nitoke uendelee enda uendelee roho safi mm kwako is a hell tried to reach out my brother bt i told my brother go and get married to him bt not me again

  • @carolmanji1939
    @carolmanji1939 Рік тому

    Teresia, am listening to you and can't help but wonder, thank God I know you and even the people who have been there in your lives. Karma is real.

  • @damariszuckschwert9489
    @damariszuckschwert9489 2 роки тому +7

    I wish if women would love themselves enough to knows that..,they just don't have to give birth to any man out their..,those children's deserves good father as well. Woi.

  • @constanceashikhwiliayuku-a5059
    @constanceashikhwiliayuku-a5059 2 роки тому +1

    You are a strong woman. Take care of you and your lovely babies. God bless and protect you

  • @Nasimiyu1979
    @Nasimiyu1979 2 роки тому +35

    Life has no balance. Nice people always attract Narcissistic behaviors

    • @bethtoox9435
      @bethtoox9435 2 роки тому +3

      When we educate ourselves,about narcissists is better knowledge is powerful

    • @eunicenjeru215
      @eunicenjeru215 2 роки тому +5

      It is the inner fear that makes narcists have control.They thrive in making sure the victim has low self esteem.

    • @margaretnjenga7127
      @margaretnjenga7127 2 роки тому +1

      Unfortunately Very true!

    • @graceg2464
      @graceg2464 2 роки тому +1

      Aki I tell you

    • @nancijoy8687
      @nancijoy8687 2 роки тому +1

      💯 True

  • @angelinemwikali3691
    @angelinemwikali3691 2 роки тому +7

    The moment a man doesn't know how to balance the relationship with his mother and wife hapo ndio mwisho.Creating boundaries for both parties is equally important.

  • @juliaachieng4062
    @juliaachieng4062 2 роки тому +16

    This is my story. Insaults and blamings has become their joy and habit. But I believe my 3 kids will testify what kind of a ma'am they have...

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef 2 роки тому

      Amen. Stay strong, and always pray to God for safety and protection.

    • @keflerbrownb.6450
      @keflerbrownb.6450 2 роки тому

      They need Christ, GOD is LOVE !

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef 2 роки тому

      , you are right. God is love.

    • @AugasterMartha
      @AugasterMartha 2 місяці тому

      I think this started before,couz I remember my grandmother could fight my mom,ad my father always say my mom is a bad,this happend antil he can marry several ladies ad they were given room in shoes house,,God is good that can't happen today.

  • @LastEmperor86
    @LastEmperor86 2 роки тому +7

    Hawa wanaume wa kanisa ni maumbwa sana, they are the best pretenders.

    • @magoshlawrence3193
      @magoshlawrence3193 2 роки тому +2

      Very very very true hawa watu aki

    • @LastEmperor86
      @LastEmperor86 2 роки тому +3

      @@magoshlawrence3193 hao hata they don't cope with other ordinary men,ni watiaji sana

  • @tribepharmaceuticals7655
    @tribepharmaceuticals7655 2 роки тому +28

    I have worked from day 1 after cs I don't understand the kid of generation of men we have around.Being alone sometimes seems better .

    • @marthakuria9931
      @marthakuria9931 2 роки тому +2

      That’s true,.Another one said that wanawake wa gicagi hulima upto the last day

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef 2 роки тому

      Yeah, crazy world we are living .

    • @simpsonisoe8994
      @simpsonisoe8994 2 роки тому

      This men where borN by single mums

  • @ogachialice5810
    @ogachialice5810 2 роки тому +3

    This makes some of us tuogope kuolewa😒😭😭😭...take heart mamaa

  • @mercynelima4241
    @mercynelima4241 2 роки тому +41

    When a narcissist finds a girl who is obsessed with a wedding 💒 just know you've given him the right to abuse you,they have no empathy

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef 2 роки тому +2

      This world is just crazy and I guess he knew that she was much into him and not the other way round.

    • @damariszuckschwert9489
      @damariszuckschwert9489 2 роки тому

      💯

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 2 роки тому +4

      True. Some wemen will persevere anything for fear of breaking a wedding. 🤔

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef 2 роки тому

      @@MyJOSE2013, yeah.

    • @nurugizani3075
      @nurugizani3075 9 місяців тому

      We do that imagine ​@MyJOSE2013

  • @janewamoro309
    @janewamoro309 2 роки тому +1

    You are right my dear sister l fight such battle l understand you very well.

  • @ellybkhimzy4048
    @ellybkhimzy4048 9 місяців тому

    We grew up together from the same village we went to Same primary and secondary school. If asked of a humble girl from a very humble family I would bring Trizah all the time it has shocked me to see her going though this hell.

  • @marionnguu8075
    @marionnguu8075 2 роки тому +1

    You are not alone mama Mimi nliwachwa watoi wakiwa 4yrs en 2en half yrs eve Bob sijawahi pata but I thank wako 14 en 12 yrs respectively have been taking care of them since then can't complain first born anafanya exam class 8 the ex my foot 🦶

  • @stacymutua7401
    @stacymutua7401 Рік тому +1

    A true narcissist, they use you and dump you. They are protective of their character yet so egocentric and abusive

  • @esthermuthoni7965
    @esthermuthoni7965 2 роки тому +8

    I have known and served with this girl and for real she is a servant of God.
    I can't believe what she has gone through in the hands of a "church elder".

    • @godsown4683
      @godsown4683 2 роки тому +1

      He is a church elder? 🤔🤔🤔

  • @mirriamwanja1085
    @mirriamwanja1085 2 роки тому +2

    Pole sana kui kwa yale yote upetishwa na mume wako,Mungu atakusaidia ni mwaminifu sana zidi kumtumania, kwa kweli huyu mrembo namjua tulisoma nayeye high school Iresco na alikuwa msichana mzuri na anapenda Mungu,May God see you throu Terry.

    • @ellybkhimzy4048
      @ellybkhimzy4048 9 місяців тому

      Which class were you in I was there too aki nikikumbuka the way she was humble tulianza na yeye nursery school aki

  • @pauline2604
    @pauline2604 2 роки тому +18

    Narcs don't have sympathy my friend, do your research and get To know who these types of people are ,infact they hate their own children!

    • @keflerbrownb.6450
      @keflerbrownb.6450 2 роки тому +1

      they need Christ

    • @graceg2464
      @graceg2464 2 роки тому

      They don love them at all.they are not even concerned about them.n you force them around to do things for them n you too.they treat you like hell.n if you are working,you cater for yourself n he withdraw everything from you

  • @kemkem9621
    @kemkem9621 2 роки тому +2

    I feel like shouting but let me try to say it calmly!!!!Those men who are clothed in ngozi ya kondoo kumbe ndani ni mbwa mwitu wamejaaa sanasana kanisani!!!!!!!!!!! To the public they are angels, but to their spouse they are so evil!!!!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lady, I am so happy for the support your parents gave u, some parents chase back their daughters to the abuser!! Go on with the divorce he doesn't have to sign the papers as long as there's record he has been served,an affidavit to confirm will suffice,the case can go on, kwanza asipotokea, case itaenda in your favor!!! Go for it, the earlier the better!don't tie yourself, it's time for your grand rising 👏👏 all the best

  • @Velkaira
    @Velkaira 2 роки тому +5

    These pipo exist but the ones to blame are the mama’s sons whom we get married to unknowingly because of their camouflaging abilities😢

  • @teresakiruthi4261
    @teresakiruthi4261 Рік тому

    Pole sana terry...and the way you are a great worship leader..i know you together with your ex husband and we didn't know you were going thru all these.
    Take heart girl..God will see you thru with your kids

  • @purityJillo
    @purityJillo Рік тому

    Pole Sana dear for what you have gone through, but still as a servant of God you cannot advise people to go for (come we stay), it's not Godly and God is very much able to give someone the right partner, the right way and a blessed marriage, keep hope alive.

  • @annnjeri4359
    @annnjeri4359 2 роки тому +1

    Pole Sana kui...Mimi yale nimepitia sijui naeza anzia wapi nimalizie wapi.nimepitia abuse ya kila aina

  • @murianzi6336
    @murianzi6336 2 роки тому +16

    Besides all yes your mother inlaw did all that but the truth is your husband broke the marriage.

  • @carolynemukui4810
    @carolynemukui4810 2 роки тому +5

    This is my exactly my story

  • @annahnechesah1301
    @annahnechesah1301 2 роки тому +4

    Sio kwa ubaya bt I prefer kudate mwanaume mwenye Ana mama is better love yenu italast forever, mama's boy is a no for me, nasijasema mtu asipende mamake bt ajue mm ni bb na ule ni mamake

    • @hawamusumba431
      @hawamusumba431 2 роки тому

      Mimi nilioleka na mamaboy lakini nilimnyorosha na maombi mpaka akarudi kwa line na bado na omba hakuna kutulia

  • @janeamiani6826
    @janeamiani6826 2 роки тому +5

    hoo my dear daughter that is exactly what happened to my marriage

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef 2 роки тому

      So sad what you went thru. May God give you peace.

  • @cmc4079
    @cmc4079 Рік тому +1

    Gd eve, just seeing his video and reflected on my relationship with mom in law. Sadly, I havn't spoken to mine will iver 1 1/2 yr. Meddles and wants to run our household, in she treats all her adult children like this especially the 2 grown men. The grown ladies will not put up with her behaviour. Her behaviour is that of a Sh**t disturber. My husband has now seen for himself. Now she lays in Nursing whaling that no one honours her?? We pray for her to change before she loses out on her salvation.

  • @reginathuku7239
    @reginathuku7239 10 місяців тому

    Pole Sana gal for what you went through......May God continue blessing u

  • @Embracejustice
    @Embracejustice Рік тому +1

    Kansiime's twin siz
    Much love dear.

  • @katieharrington2845
    @katieharrington2845 2 роки тому

    God bless you and I hope you find peace in your heart and healing 💗 x

  • @miriammwangi1520
    @miriammwangi1520 11 місяців тому

    I love my mum in law she was an angel you have to work on yourself. You have to be positive if your mum did not give birth and cared for your husband you could not have met him it is your duty to blend into the family. Be positive.

  • @ccl8229
    @ccl8229 2 роки тому +2

    This woman is a strong survivour. So brave and hard working. God bless you. I hope everything works out for the best ❤

  • @lucymwikali5439
    @lucymwikali5439 Рік тому

    Y’all have patience, you took too long beautiful. Mm nayo sipendi ujinga hyo mambo ya kanisa siko hyo mother in-law ningemfunika😂tano tena

  • @naomimunywoki1128
    @naomimunywoki1128 2 роки тому +10

    sorry gal you were dealing with a narcissist. do not regret of him leaving you.

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef 2 роки тому +1

      Yes, she went thru hell, but God strengthened her.

    • @graceg2464
      @graceg2464 2 роки тому

      Sure even me am planning to leave .

  • @marynganga7385
    @marynganga7385 2 роки тому +20

    Aki Wooshe likes munipe likes.... Mapema ndio best

  • @irenembula9802u
    @irenembula9802u 2 роки тому +1

    Nikiimagine vile am always discussed by my mother in law with my nanny's naskia. Nguvu kwa miguu zinaisha...

  • @danferresearchgroup4408
    @danferresearchgroup4408 2 роки тому +1

    Wishing you the best. But don't advise people into "Come We Stay" marriages. There is more pain in them. Church weddings are good with the right person and counseling.

  • @vasityruto7953
    @vasityruto7953 10 місяців тому

    sorry dear sister may God open your ways to take care of your children.

  • @faithmulandi6401
    @faithmulandi6401 2 роки тому +5

    God bless sisters aki ❤️

  • @travelandwonderwithwanda2022
    @travelandwonderwithwanda2022 3 місяці тому

    Such a sad story. The title is misleading, the husband never loved and cared for his wife so there's no way the mother in law was jealous. The mom in law was terrible but the husband ndio mbaya kabisa.

  • @frashiahwangari2177
    @frashiahwangari2177 2 роки тому +8

    Very good sympathetic interviewer 👍

  • @emilywanjiru2551
    @emilywanjiru2551 2 роки тому +1

    One pray I do pray for My daughter's is that when they get married they find their mother in law Dead reason being for what My mother in law has made me go through one thing she forgets that she has a 11yrs daughter that will get married one day

  • @valerieobanya5172
    @valerieobanya5172 2 роки тому +9

    A word of advice. Whenever we ask God for the desires of our hearts, satan has the ability to see what God has in store for us, he therefore, moves with speed and makes a replica of that which God intents to give us except, that his compared to God's, has imperfections. That is when the power of patience is supposed to kick in through prayer and ask God if truly what is right before us is His will and wait patiently for His response. God, in His abundant love, will always show us a sign but only and only if we practice patience.

    • @dawnminerve2254
      @dawnminerve2254 2 роки тому +2

      Absolutely

    • @godsown4683
      @godsown4683 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you, I was asking myself this the whole time.
      Did you ask God before you went for that marriage? Sometimes God warns us and we ignore.

    • @leillahwawudawordsofwisdom9443
      @leillahwawudawordsofwisdom9443 2 роки тому +2

      This is great 👌 advice. Patience sio mchezo...people don't like waiting. But it's better to.

  • @mercyesendi294
    @mercyesendi294 2 роки тому +1

    Since when will men understand that not providing and caring is not hurting the mother ua hurting your own kids yawaaa...aaa
    Hawa wanaume wa kujenga jina their own families are suffering....wamedharau bibizao and not taking care of the kids I don't like such people kufuraisha watu but behind the scenes people don't know.....at least parents and siblings should learn to listen and understand their own
    Heeei....uyo mama ndio alikuharibia pia

  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 2 роки тому +11

    I wish she could have seen her value before she had 3 kids with him. I feel sad to see hardworking women stay in dysfunctional relationships for years until their egos are completely shattered

  • @patriciandungwa5
    @patriciandungwa5 2 роки тому +2

    Sasa mother in law alikua ameacha bwana yake nanani

  • @joynyambura9715
    @joynyambura9715 2 роки тому +6

    Pole for what you went through.
    But come we stay won't help. The secret to a successful marriage is.... Know yourself first..... Once you know who you are and what you want, everything in your life falls to place and you make better decisions. And once you know yourself, you will know what kind of man you want in your life. No come we stay! Know yourself.

  • @berylotieno276
    @berylotieno276 2 роки тому +3

    Wah. .you just told my story in 2010.pole mummy.

  • @ramalilakanumba1265
    @ramalilakanumba1265 2 роки тому +5

    So so sad. Kutesa mtoto wa mtu n you are a parent.

  • @DamarisNyanchama-ti3ld
    @DamarisNyanchama-ti3ld Рік тому +1

    Thank God I met angelic mother in law but her son was a devil himself, it didn't work

  • @eunicemwanza5960
    @eunicemwanza5960 Рік тому +1

    Mother's inlaws surely

  • @winrosemwangangi3980
    @winrosemwangangi3980 Рік тому

    Since the day I realized that my husband's people are not my relatives am always happy and I can't entertain them anymore .so long as they don't feed me .

  • @najmaomar83
    @najmaomar83 Рік тому

    What kind of a husband is that?
    Huyo hafai kua baba wa mtu wala bwana wa mtu...yaani mbona hata hashuguliki na watoto wake? Na walikua wagonjwa..😢some people are just mentally ill...huyo hafai kusamehewa..this lady has gone through hell from her so called wicked husband and mother in law

  • @monicahmwikali2767
    @monicahmwikali2767 2 роки тому +2

    Am also proud of you trizza..

  • @kimanititus
    @kimanititus Рік тому

    Wow, this is so sad, I know this lady “Kui” just sad to see and hear her story.

  • @eunicenjoki549
    @eunicenjoki549 2 роки тому +4

    My God bless you,my former manager,seeing the way you were dedicated in your marriage.

  • @bettwinny9183
    @bettwinny9183 2 роки тому

    Ur talking for the silent majority, what hurt me todate is the hate she has for my children,,ooh God give me your grace

  • @purity..
    @purity.. 2 роки тому +4

    Naulizaa shida ya language iko wapi hapa?Skizeni message wachana na English yake

  • @NanaMazwide
    @NanaMazwide 4 дні тому

    I watched half of the video because she stopped speaking English so I could not understand. I hope she heals and may the almighty protect her n her kids.

  • @MwendwaAndrew-jd7uh
    @MwendwaAndrew-jd7uh Рік тому

    Bt siku ipo mwanaume hatakutafuta tu ya mungu ni mengi bt only God knows tomorrow of you

  • @sallyw6158
    @sallyw6158 2 роки тому +5

    Terry. God will wipe your tears away. He will restore everything you lost.

  • @doesitworknailoke8125
    @doesitworknailoke8125 2 роки тому

    We are twining , exactly is what happened to me my sister. we parted and he want me back again

  • @julietbiketi826
    @julietbiketi826 2 роки тому +1

    There is nothing as hard as being abused by inlaws and the person who is supposed to defend you pretends to not seeing what is happening.may God give us strength

  • @sallyeringo33
    @sallyeringo33 2 роки тому +6

    Terry your beautiful just move with live.

  • @JuliahNgoiri
    @JuliahNgoiri 2 місяці тому

    God wil see you through.

  • @rebimbere
    @rebimbere 9 місяців тому

    I love this journalist jamani

  • @ThymaKlone
    @ThymaKlone 2 роки тому +7

    I sympathise with the lady. But she is now advocating for 'COME WE STAY' for young ladies who want to get married. Really - you are a christian currently leading Praise & Worship at a church and you are advocating for ;Come we stay'.

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 2 роки тому +6

      Often people think if they had done things differently, there would be a different outcome. For her case, she thinks if she tested out before getting married, it would have ended well. But it's a folly because the problem wasn't wedding in church but not knowing the person you are settling with. Those two are different

    • @frashiahwangari2177
      @frashiahwangari2177 2 роки тому +3

      She's actually right! There's a research that shows most church weddings including of our parents' time either fail or pple live in misery & faking it for life. In fact couples in church are the most unhappy couples.

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 2 роки тому +1

      @@frashiahwangari2177 point me to the research.. just one. I'm sure there is none. What's right is many come we stay marriages fail compared to marriages done the right way. I can give you plenty of that research. So stop the lie and heresy. You even don't need research. Look at come we stay 'marriages' around you

    • @frashiahwangari2177
      @frashiahwangari2177 2 роки тому

      @@phillipsidhojapap1461 🤐

    • @nancyweru4899
      @nancyweru4899 2 роки тому +2

      I noted that also...she is still not healed,very emotional.

  • @MBINGATATI
    @MBINGATATI 2 роки тому +3

    Fellow women marriage doesn’t not define or complete you. Again & again we box and diminish ourselves to fit into society scripts. Learn to be complete and whole!! Learn to stand in your God given power!!!

  • @janeotieno6660
    @janeotieno6660 Рік тому

    The interview room is too noisy. Kids should not be in the room so that we can focus. Kindly.

  • @annahnechesah1301
    @annahnechesah1301 2 роки тому +4

    🤔🤔🤔Some stories make me afraid of getting married

    • @josephinemulama6338
      @josephinemulama6338 2 роки тому +2

      Marriage is a good thing,you will get a good partner just position yourself and be careful

    • @Lily_Aiysha
      @Lily_Aiysha 2 роки тому +1

      Don’t be afraid baby girl, your story will be different 😊

  • @HellenWanyama-n5n
    @HellenWanyama-n5n Рік тому

    Pole for what you went through

  • @edrickmasira6065
    @edrickmasira6065 2 роки тому +10

    What I went through in the hands of a mother in law is hell in as much as I am a man, always advising her daughter the wrong way from not including my name in the birth certificate yet I was taking responsibility, telling her daughter that she doesn't believe in marriage,even men go through difficulty in the hands of their mother in laws only that men don't speak much hence broke marriage that I had built

    • @rao023
      @rao023 2 роки тому

      So sorry for that.

  • @sallyeringo33
    @sallyeringo33 2 роки тому +14

    Destiny destroyers n Narcissist are hard to please I was there ,it's good u left this abusive marriage.

  • @angieblessed
    @angieblessed Рік тому

    Gal, you are right .mine was good out there, but he was an animal. The beatings I received!he will give alot in church.he would takelot of shopping any time he went to see my mumyet he will not help me.i suffered oooh.O was taken to kiambu poloce station claiming thst i want to kill him and the kids😢but he had left the kid with the killer yet pretending to care for them.i woud fibd cds in his pocket and yet he would stand and preach. I thank God him and his parent;aunties sent me packing while i was still alive.God has opened my dor greatly.

  • @kobifm
    @kobifm 2 роки тому

    Terry you are an exceptional woman.gogo gal

  • @sintoyiapulei9105
    @sintoyiapulei9105 2 роки тому

    Hajawaai kukupenda!
    You were forcing him.
    Ati akaogeleshwa..for what?,
    Pole.

  • @khayraa7374
    @khayraa7374 2 роки тому +1

    These are type of man who trash thr kids today. Kesho the child becomes successful thts when they will show up thr faces ….

  • @TheGeneralEntertainment
    @TheGeneralEntertainment 2 роки тому +7

    Now, bring the man he must be having a banger of a story

    • @jkabese73
      @jkabese73 2 роки тому

      We have to listen to both parties

    • @nurugizani3075
      @nurugizani3075 9 місяців тому

      ​@@jkabese73he will deny

  • @rachaelkeino3624
    @rachaelkeino3624 9 місяців тому

    Take him to court he will support his children

  • @1on1withjune81
    @1on1withjune81 2 роки тому +6

    Please ask to seek a lawyer and get a divorce.

    • @nurugizani3075
      @nurugizani3075 9 місяців тому

      They are expensive. Anyone to offer pro bono?

  • @katieharrington2845
    @katieharrington2845 2 роки тому +3

    This relationship was like my first love relationship it scarred me for a long time.

  • @KonstantBakora
    @KonstantBakora 8 місяців тому

    Siku marriage itakua day school ill go in

  • @beatricengei1473
    @beatricengei1473 2 роки тому

    Pole sana mum.. may God help us