Parents treated me 2nd best to my sister for the last 8 years so I exploded
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- Parents treated me 2nd best to my sister for the last 8 years so I exploded
author: u/Black-sheep-B-Boy
#reddit #redditupdate #redditrelationship
I've heard this whole saga. Op deserves so much better. Hopefully he continues to heal from all he's been through.
He definetly deserves to heal but his two parents most certainly don't deserve forgiveness.
Rslash?
Absolutely....like christ guy just wanted a life!! Nothing wrong with that.
I’m feeling the same way as we speak but it’s not as bad as his situation between all of us and op keep fighting everyone
Be smarter guys this is ai generated
I am shocked, the girl didn’t even hit double digits yet and she’s already entitled to a car, 2 birthdays, and a phone. And a birthday cake. I’d say she still has a very small chance to have a normal life, but considering she’s threaten self harm to get what she wants and her mother basically enabling her daughter, she’ll be in a mental hospital for almost all her young life.
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dude her entire family basically hates her
Not to mention an apartment, apparently... What is life coming to, fellow sane humans??? Please tell me...
anyone who thinks genetics don't matter, this is the cast for all. mental is hereditary. but people think they can roll the dice and avoid any consequences. and sometimes it skips a generation. so just because someone born into a mentally whacked out family thinks they have escaped, guess again.
@@taminostam9912 that’s sad she needs a new family who will love her just the way she is. Not ones who will give into unreasonable demands for her or who will ridicule her and call her a brat.
All kids deserve parents, not all parents deserve kids
A wise guy said this
And some kids like her. Needed to be taught a lesson. Am i right? I mean. She needs to be taught some manners. That's what i mean.
What ? No logic
But if you have no kids, then you're technically not a parent.
@@Zane_the_robot then you don't understand what I said
nah 9 year old doing self harm is crazy
its real lol. my nephew was like that. he tried to ran away from us and get in the car with stranger because he wasnt allowed to eat mcdonalds
Dont worry this is all a lie lmao
Yeah it happens. I tried suicide at 8 😅
Def not like in these crazy stories, but it does happen
@@shabo747it’s not
The only advice I can give OP is to close down the posts on this story and take his time to heal. As for his sister, the best thing he can do about that situation is to do nothing. Just let his parents deal with the monster that they created and also file a restraining order on her. Last thing I'd recommend is change your phone number, email, and home and ask your grandparents not to tell anyone about your new information.
I would second that. For OP to feel he has to respond to every idiot on Reddit must be like having his own Alex Jones. The Sandy Hook kids' parents don't enjoy being targeted and vilified daily by every shock jock in the business.
You can’t put a restraining order on your own CHILD who is a MINOR and under YOUR GUARDIANSHIP.
@@katherinedupoise4604 Actually you can. I have a family lawyer and he told me that you can get a restraining order on a minor. Also that's not OP's child, that's his little sister.
Well then who is supposed to take care of her then if they file a restraining order on her?
@@katherinedupoise4604 I was talking about the brother for the restraining order, not the parents!
And I think *_MY_* sister is entitled…
God, love you sis, didn’t realize how lucky I am to have someone who just doesn’t talk to me as opposed to blowing out candles and DESTROYING A FUCKING CAR!
💀
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I kinda wish I had your sister instead of my brother ngl
I’ve heard of this whole saga of a story before and I feel bad for OP everytime! This poor guy deserves EVERYTHING in the world and then some cause of how their parents favortism caused them to not only neglect them as a child, but also raised a brat of a sister to the point said bratty sister VANDALIZED THEIR CAR AND CLAIMED THAT SHE WILL COMMIT SELF HARM JUST CAUSE SHE DIDN’T GET HER WAY FOR ONCE!!!
Considering how the sister was acting, why risk having her come to OP's 19th birthday party? Clearly the therapy wasn't working since she threw a fit.
She shouldn't have been released from the hospital.
@@lindah3803Yeah, she should’ve been adopted by better parents
I occasionally forget my birthday, cause my family never remembers, so now my birthday is just another day of the year to me, don't care about it anymore.
Same here. Oct 14th is mine and my nephew that lives in another state FaceTime me within 2 minutes of my birth time and during our conversation he said HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNTIE. I was dumbfounded and ask if his auntie was near him and which one. He was shocked like are you being sarcastic or silly? When he saw my expression he knew I forgot my own birthday 🥳
Damn I had such a traumatic experiences as a child surrounding my bday. So as an adult with kids we party! I always ensure my kids do whatever they want and get whatever they want( within reason and budget) I've never given the other kids anything on the others bday. 😢😢😢 Celebrate your birthday beautiful it's a milestone that you only get once. Your worth it. Just start small. ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Ngl bro I cried on my last birthday
@@JenniferJohnson-l3ryo birthday buddies lets go
@@JenniferJohnson-l3rgotta always love your nephew and nieces cause they will always show the love. My aunts know that I love them with all of my heart and that they are basically my mother figures
OP deserves everything he has as an adult without his parents and so much more. He deserves those 8 years back and caring parents and a sister who isn’t a total brat. I would like to say though, it’s not the sisters fault. She was raised to where she gets everything she wants. She mentally couldn’t handle her brother getting a whole day because of his she was raised. Don’t hate on the kids. Hate on the parents for raising such a brat.
That bitch is SO screwed up, she can’t accept that her Brother gets to have something nice…
Stories like this reinforces 2 things. Restrictions on who can become a parent, and to never ja e more than one child.
You can have more than one child if you don’t favour one child over the others.
Ever heard of only child syndrome?
This comment thread OP is a liberal
Says gaster
(Fake gaster)
OP's parents literally created a monster.
I will say, IQ does not mean your smarter, it just means problem solving and information retension is just easier then someone with a lower IQ. There has been many instances of people with lower IQs being more successful then higher IQ individuals cause they work hard to bridge that gap and higher IQ people who know their IQ tend to slack cause the misinformation on what having a high IQ implied.
100% agree. As a college graduate, I can assure you that there are a ton of dumb people who have both graduated from and work in colleges and universities. Higher IQ doesn't exempt one from doing low IQ things.
Say IQ again 😂
Yeah, also people assume things about you if they know your IQ. Because I have been harassed and berated by people before because I didn't know something even though I have a higher than average IQ. It's why I usually avoid the topic entirely and lie to people saying I don't know mine when asked; additionally, I had people assume I was being narcissistic about it also when I told them when they asked as well. Like, just because I learn quicker than average doesn't mean I know everything.
Sorry about the rant. I just am unable to talk to anyone about it because no one knows about it being a problem.
@@nighthawk0317 Having a high IQ is a problem for a lot of OTHER people. It's often better to keep quiet about being clever. In traditional, pre-industrial societies, being clever made you dangerous. Priests and teachers looked out for clever boys and sent them away to be abused by men in funny clothes and forced to memorise yards of meaningless drivel until they were safe to count rich people's money for them. Families could usually cope with clever girls but if they could not, nuns could deal with them.
I wouldn't have problems in school if I wasn't lazy. I don't have problems with the things I have to do in school I just have problems actually doing them.
Idk what my IQ is but I feel like it would be low.
I feel stupid even though I'm not. I think.
Why?
That’s just depressing. So much damage that he took a break from Reddit. With a chance of never returning…
No surprise when idiots were dogging him about ages and other BS. Those were Redditors who wanted to "expose" him.
@@lindah3803ngl that did sound sus.
but in the end of the day we can't know the truth for sure, and that's okay
Sounds like they were both abused. They both have to recover from their parenting
IQ does not mean anything.
its literally just a number.
it does not say you are smart or stupid.
it was a test anitially made by rich people to say they were smart
The first IQ test was developed by Alfred Binet in 1904 after the French Ministry of Education asked a group of child psychologists to devise a means to tell in advance which children would do better if educated outside mainstream schooling.
source: trust me bro
t. Brainlet
Some people should simply not procreate
This is absolutely true
My 7 year.old sister has a mine complex with all my stuff, and I remember that about 2 years ago, it was my default to check under her pillow if smthn was missing
“You never know how much you love something until it’s gone.”
I have actually heard that story that the op was talking about about and it’s a sad situation
Best way to kill time when youre bored fr
@Black-Sheep-B-Boy, I hope your 20th birthday is better than your previous ones, also if your sister does go to the party’s, act like she isn’t there, then laugh at her being mad
Do you know him?
@@katherinedupoise4604 No.
I have an older sister, there is 4 years between us, on eachothers birthdays, we would get one gift from my parents, as my parents didnt want the other to feel left out, but we both understood that we were blessed in that way, my parents didnt have to do that but they did because they loved us, and wanted me and my sis to be equals. Me and my sister always appreciated it, and were never spoilt, because our parents raised us right and always explained the value of things. I am 25 now and my sister 30, if its my sisters birthday, my mum will still give me a gift or a small amount of money and the same for my sis on my bday. We always tell her she doesn't have to and neither me or my sister expects this treatment anymore because we're adults, but she continues to do it because she loves us. Me and my sister were lucky to have two amazing parents who taught us right from wrong and the value of things, and taught us to be polite and thankful.
Have a niece that if she weren't in my family, she could be as bad as OP's sister. My mom and grandma were both bad about it as was my brother but Nowhere near as this enabling. She has 2 sisters with a slightly larger age gap who also love her and lightly spoil her (both are adults now but she's 8 now). She got kicked out of school cause she beats the kids up cause she's larger (not weight, height, we're a very tall family) and other than her sisters on her moms side, she has 2 brothers and 2 sisters from my brother's family.
That dude's sister deserves a special spot in the world's worst children book. David Walliams, take some notes.
Mash potatoes and gummy bears?!!!
Bro was staying chill for so long bro is so long to anger
An 8 year old having a smartphone shows how entitled she really is
I feel bad for OP his sister is a spoiled brat and the parents are bad parents no matter the reasons why they choose the sister as the golden child it’s horrible and I hope OP has a better future
Y-YEAH THISE PARENTS ARE S-S-SPOILED BADTARDS TOO! THEY NEED TO BE IN JAIL!
My friend used to live in McAllen, Texas and it is the most obese city in the U.S. Now what I am about to tell you is traumatizing, if Ms. Princess Sunshine loved junk and she was fat, she might go ahead and live in McAllen. Also the fact that she loves junk and wants stuff from you and others all the time gives me a feeling she might be a robber in the future. I think you should tell this to your dad/mom, that is concerning
It's normal for OP to not wana return on Reddit. Healing needs time, and touching the argument constantly is like touching the wound, never allowing it to heal
"Can't be diagnosed with narcissism before 18"? That's garbage. Anyone displaying the telltale signs of narcissism would surely fit the bill good enough. Y'know, if it walks like a duck, looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck... it's most certainly a duck.
Why is common sense so taboo with Redditors?
"when's your birthday?"
"it's complicated"
My parents kicked me out after my "golden child" sister convinced
them I had betrayed the family.
Many years later, having realised they made a huge mistake trusting her.
But when they reached out, I delivered some tough news.
Gummy bears on mashed potatoes is crazy
what the actual hell,
why is it so good
@@Crimson_Smiler gummy bears, ruin it tbh mash, potatoes, are far superior
I don’t even care if these stories are fake they’re just so entertaining
27:30
Contradicts the beginning of this video.
He said he got some B's and C's but is saying now a D and C average
As if most stories are true
Even with all the plot holes, people are *still* eating this ridiculous story up 🙄😂
@@Mitsubachi2529 While it's true that the story is most likely fake, what happened isn't THAT ridiculous.
CBA to watch the entire thing but couldn't It just be his grades went down lol happens all the time
@@Sethoshini95 I'm biased because I pretty much take everything on reddit with a grain of salt 😂
OP deserved alot better, the parents are to blame, they raised the sister like that, so they should be the ones blamed
I feel bad for op and the little sister because both of them could have had a normal life if it weren't for their parents if the parents didn't treat op like shit and didn't treat the little sister that she can get whatever she wants they would have had a normal childhood and good relationship with each other but no it never happened all thanks to their parents
"Why wont my kids visit me " ahh parents
Having trauma from gummy bears is scary
Not-so-fun fact : almost every subject in school is just you needing to remember stuff that you learnt in school, so basically school is just making you remember stuff just to make you “smart“, instead you NEED to remember those to graduate, have good luck for those kids and people who have long term / short term memory disability!
If i was the older brother Ohh that spoiled women will never be seen again
The thing is that girl is also a victim of those shitty parents. OP has been hurt, but he'll most likely grow up to be someone who is considerate of other people's feelings, while that girl will have a miserable life because she expects everyone to pander to her and will behave like a baby if they don't. In the long run, they've done her no favours and she'll likely end up miserable and alone when her parents are gone and nobody else thinks she's an angel.
Maybe his sister identifies as a princess? Just a thought? 🤷🏻♀️
I cried while watching this. Because I got yelled at for small things. And thought I am not even the average IQ. I always got bullied at school. They always thought was my fault.
I mean, yeah your sister is special in a way
"so i exploded" what💀
why did I think bro actually exploded in the title
Honestly some of my birthdays are just… not exactly exciting since they didn’t reach my expectations but I either pretend to be happy or decide it’s okay enough.
Damn, I didn’t think this guy posted to more than one channel someone else told the story too bros going full scorched earth with this
i bet the op was told by an employee (If he was talking to one) at that local knock off chuck e cheese that they wish him luck
Even though I’m half his age, still be bored as hell at Chuck E. Cheese.
Well
At least the dad tried to do better and admitted his mistake
Man I feel bad for u I hope u can feel better soon(emotional)
Bro really went 😡💥
Ngl I don't believe this post. He got the ages wrong, timeline wrong, even the grades he graduated in school.
Plus the behaviour for the ages and the familial reactions seem off.
I'm not going to lie I have a feeling the only reason that the grandparents did anything for the OP was due to the fact that he is literally the son of the eldest child which is a course understandably his dad And that's what kind of pisses me off here because like these people can't fucking say that they just thought that the OP was okay with this bullshit lifestyle of his parents constantly turning his cake pink and putting his sister's name on it come on dude they knew what the hell was going on this whole entire time The same thing goes for the damn grandparents it's not until they really saw how screwed up this shit was for the sake of not looking bad in front of a group of people at a restaurant that's what happened there That's what made the grandfather and the grandmother realize oh shit we need to put her foot down cuz now we're in front of people we can't let this go on I think that's what really happened in this story in all honesty this whole entire family just sounds terrible because I know for a fact if I was related to the OP I would have voiced my concerns a long time ago I don't give a shit of people don't like me in the family no more I'm not going to let him go through that hell like literally somebody should have stuck up for him a long time ago instead of being scared of being shunned from the family are no longer being like just because I hate to say it OP's dad had a little bit of power to make certain family members not be looked at in a good light anymore because the very moment he decided to twist the words of what was really going on in their situation of course understandably Grandpa would have just been like oh okay I guess my oldest maybe he's telling me the truth and everybody else is just full of crap yeah I'm sorry I agree with OP I don't like pac mentality at all
NTA: Your feelings are completely valid after enduring years of unfair treatment and neglect from your parents. It's heartbreaking to hear how you were consistently sidelined and made to feel less important compared to your sister, especially on special occasions like birthdays. Your emotional outburst was a long time coming and understandable given the circumstances. It's positive that other family members finally realized the extent of the situation and supported you.
imagine your sister being so entitled a psych ward diagnosed her with Heavy Case Narcissistic
I think MY sister is spoiled but I’m glad she’s not close to something like this
i just read the title and i thought op literally exploded💀
“So I exploded”
Wait a minute
What?!
I saw "exploded" and imagined a nuke being set off, leading to a nuclear apocalypse leaving bits of flesh due to OP being the one to explode
i'm surprised the unplanned one was the favorite one
This is sad😢 I really really hope they know they have God to run to 🙏
Yo the story stolen. The original story has the sister as a brother. They just change brother to sister.
These videos are addicting
Atleast he got silver
My family WANTS me to blow out their candles for some reason mabye I’m the youngest but idk why
Its always the youngest regardless the gender😂
I kinda feel bad for the little sister, due to the parents negligence she will suffer trauma and mental issues for the rest of her life
bro
"my grandparents had strong words for my parents because they raised her to act like a
"temu ad"
op deserves better 😞
Eric cartman is wild
If i had 1 regret in my life it would be that I was somewhat the way that sister was except i didn't have presents on his birthday or blow out his candles for 9 1/2 years until my incredible stepmom came into my life and changed me for the so much better and now me and my older brother who is almost 2 years older than me are pretty much friends now not just brothers for my stepmother I LOVE YOU MOM AND I ALWAYS WILL AND THANK YOU FOR CHANGING MY LIFE and for my Brother I'M SO SORRY FOR WHAT I DID TO YOUR LIFE FOR THE FIRST 9 YEARS AND I LOVE YOU MAN
ngl i almost cryed
if i were to ever see them, i would say this to their face: "You are an accident. Literally." because in the beginning it states that.
I heard this story before
17:23 yeah she sounds like Eric
My younger brother is the same, his personal hygiene sucked as well
bro doesn't ur lil brother blow out the candles? what was he like too with ur sister
Edit: Shit i forgot that was another story
Plot twist: the title was literal
WAIT SHES 9 ?
People who read the thumbnail and title: man shuh up-
People who watched the whole video after clicking: oh, im so sorry...
Also, i didnt like what the sister did...
Who noticed the “baaby”
favortism sister biting the curb in 4k
I feel horrible for the sister
DUDE WHY ON HER SIDE!
Im suprised that the parents dident buy her a car💀💀💀
18:13 why Eric cartman😫💀
My family never had celebrate birthdays with big party traditions. I don't remember having one. But probably because I hate desserts. I hate too overly sweet soft things. My birthday cake is a nice 3 pieces of lamb chomps or something similar usually.
My mother did that to me with all the daughters my mom likes the girls a lot more so she got rid of my brother got rid of me too but then she got married and the man wanted to have a baby with her but he was sick and couldn't so they adopted me back from foster care or got me back but as soon as he dies she says she wished she never would have got me back she only did it for him she pretty much tell me she never loved me and she wanted me to die and for the 18 years I was with her on and off all she did was abused me robbed me and Destroy who I felt I was pretty much just broke me as a human being
Telltales told the same story😅
Have you ever found/posted the reddit post that OP mentionned at the end?
W FAMILY MEMBERS 🔥🔥 🗣️🗣️🔥🗣️🔥🔥🔥🗣️
L PARENTS❌❌☹️😡😡😡☹️☹️😡☹️
then everyone clapped.
My little brother is like this but toned down a couple notches. Anything that I have, he at least has to play with, or see, or touch... or destroy... I had just got a new mouse because I had my old mouse for like 5 years. I unbox it, test it out, grab a snack, and it's gone. IT HADN'T BEEN 30 MINUTES! Guess who I see in the living room, with it in pieces... MY. LITTLE. BROTHER. I took one of his toys because he should know better. Not destroying it, taking it for like 10 minutes... Guess who gets in trouble. ME. I HAD JUST BOUGHT, A 130$ GAMING MOUSE, AND HE BREAKS IT, I GET IN TROUBLE? (It was my OWN money) I'm back to using my old mouse that I've now had for like 6 years. Even though my mouse is a chonker, it's never broke, and has been a handy mouse. I'm still salty about my other broken mouse though. (I didn't even get my money back from my parents.)
This isn't even the only story I have btw. I have PLENTY more. Just as a quick bonus story, I remember one time I went to make myself some pasta. It was those microwaveable mac&cheese bowls. It was the last one. I come out from my lair after have enjoying my first and only meal of the day when I see him... Standing there... MENACINGLY! He's mad because I ate the last mac&cheese bowl and BITES ME. THIS LITTLE FUCKER BIT ME. Guess who got yelled at?
A. My little brother
B. ME.
If you said A... You are wrong.
I remember this from am i the jerk!
Guys I swear I’m not crying after this story 😅
I don't have this type of experience at all but if my parents did what happened to you I'd go disowning them
Bro wen i was 9 i had respect for mi bigger siblings
Also im the joungt and i get the best tratment