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Meg if there’s one thing I could share is that don’t rush the 2nd baby. It’s a lot and it’s HARD! My babies are 2 years apart and I wish I would’ve waited another year. This could be different for other families at least. I have a special needs toddler and a very cranky 8 mo old. They are my whole world don’t get me wrong, but just know that I don’t currently recognize myself.
My kids are 13 months apart and it’s easily the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my entire life. The first 4 months after my youngest was born I went through the worst postpartum depression. She’s almost 9 months now and we got our routine nailed down but it was rough for awhile. My babies are soooo close though so it made it all work it. Also I have zero time for myself so there’s that lol but I’ve been making time lately.
@@agon1207 That's rude, she never said he was or was diagnosed.
My son is nonverbal on the spectrum and is 4.5 and we have a 2 month old now and it is WILD. Don’t recommend. Hahaha. I love my kids but woah. Transitioning to 2 kiddos is hard.
@@agon1207 First of all, Kayden is too young to be diagnosed with anything and watching him and his milestones, I do not believe for a second he is special needs. Do not spread nasty rumors like that. There are parents like myself who actually have special needs toddlers. Kayden seems to be neurotypical as of now.
@@nanafig4160 I’m not sure but I bet you she was being sarcastic about her husband. 🤷🏻♀️
My heart goes out to everyone who has a quarantine baby / toddler. You got this mama
Highly recommend ditching the homemade skin care.. I'm a licensed master esthetician. But instead of typing a novel check out skin care by hyram. He knows what he's talking about! Also don't apply acne treatment then dip back in to your treatment. You're adding that bacteria back into the treatment.
(No hate here, just want to help you out). I love you and been watching you for 8+ years!
thanks for the advice!! appreciate it!
Same goes for the roller as well. You’re rolling directly onto the bacteria and it’s going back into the product.
And be cautious if you are tempted to add any essential oils to the skin 😊
If you are overwhelmed as your ig stories indicate I would recommend holding off on a second for now. It’s not as easy to tag team with dad when there are two babies. Someone always needs something. You have even less time for yourself.
@@trotanboysen2238 she wants a girl so she can buy girl clothes
Totally agree. Not a great idea. It always seems She’s in such a rush... even though she’s overwhelmed. I wonder if maybe she is looking for happiness? Which we all know doesn’t come from outside things or people. It comes from in yourself.
🤷🏻♀️ it just feels like she is unhappy and always trying to get to the next thing...
@@Chloe-gg5hw with all the money she doesn't have 😂
Meg, sell the Peloton that you never ride or use, quit buying those terrible oils, and all the other useless crap you have and then you can afford daycare.
I agree. I had my second almost a year ago. Going from one to two is a huge adjustment.
@@annap7889 we can all sit back and watch her train wreck and complaining with another one . This girl is delusional.
He’s attached because he’s becoming more aware etc. As he gets older the separation anxiety starts. It’s normal
You’re having a difficult time with one child. That’s not your fault however, having another would be even worse. As it is you are tired all the time & in need of help. Your own words. I know it’s easy to get baby fever but seriously,the older they get, the better your life gets.
I wonder if she is suffering from post partum depression. I think she should see someone. The worst for us moms is thinking certain things will go away. But babies feed off of our energy.
Yes i agree and this comes from experience. A second child will increase the stress tenfold.
Thankyou 💗 my 13 month old is beautiful but wow I really think I’m one and done. Is there a point as a mother you gain a bit more independent back and ‘me time’ ? Thankyou
Couldn’t agree more with the comment “one is one, two is 20”. I think let Kaden have his time with you first, and wait till he’s grown out of the separation anxiety. But it’s hard because you probably want them close in age, so it really depends on how you and Ant feel about it. If you start trying, just go into it knowing the next few years will be tough but then you’ll be through it. All the best Meg, you are a great mother 💕
You complain and complain and complain.
Maybe your negative energy is rubbing off on your son where it’s effecting his behavior as well.
If you’re overwhelmed by one baby you’ll be certainly overwhelmed with two. Not to mention the finance side of it as well. Two babies is tough and I’m in the thick of it and I also work full time so it’s consistently hard. Really think it through
A child having a sibling is worth it all
@@TheBebe2214 agreed, I have two myself but if you can’t afford them and you’re struggling mentally then it’s probably a good idea to hold off till you’re comfortable. She is still quite young so she shouldn’t have to rush into it because it is a huge commitment
That is completely true mental health and money are most important when it comes to children
Thanks for your honesty. I have a 13 month old daughter and after a long IVF journey my hubby and I feel content. Do you think one child would be easier overall? (Very vulnerable question) ☺️
@@PinkBlushGlamour I think it depends on the temperament of the child. Some kids are somewhat “easier” than others. For example my first was very “hard”, he never slept day or night and was constantly ill but my second slept through and has had one or two colds and that’s really it. Either way kids are a joy and you will do well regardless what choice you make
Kids are hard at all stages. Just a different hard each stage. We had another when our son was 4 and I’m glad we waited. He was able to help get himself dressed and was a little more independent so I could focus on the baby.
I have an 18 month old. she'll be 19 months in 9 days and me and my husband are thinking we will wait till around that time as well.
All my kids are grown kids and now I'm a grandmother to an almost 4 year old and I want to say to you that you are 💯 right. Even adults are hard and have tantrums
Your mom is such a great hands on grandma!!!
Also, she’s looking great so don’t worry about aging too much!!
Kris Jenner said it best when it came to having more children, she said: One is one, and two is 20! Literally how it feels.
True statement!
TRUTH 🙌🏻
Yesssss!!
I didn’t feel this with my second but my 3rd 😅😅 I’m drained and feel like I’m running a daycare hahahaha
Big facts. Mine are only 13 months apart 😅 lol
yes i agree definately put a second little munchkin on hold for now Meg. Its so much harder than just one. I think Kaden is just going through that insecurity stage but he will also pick up on your feelings too and it sounds like you are quite stressed right now. It will definately all fall into place once some of your stress level comes down. Your a wonderful mum so give yourself a little break xxx
Meg most of us moms have been through it as well, don’t beat yourself up for this. It’s hard being a mom, it is f-ing hard!! Keep pushing through you’re doing your best!! ❤️💗👼🥰
Where is grey??? 😞
Too many commercials, gotta think of viewers also
Meg, alot of babies go through this. Let him get a little older before having a second one so you won't be so stressed out. It gets harder the second time around if they are too close together. Double duty. I had 2 under the age of 2 but that was 21 years ago. You will look back though and realize these are the best times in your life that you will always look back on. Time goes really fast so don't worry too much about the little things. Hes a baby and babies have been this way since the beginning of time.
Please don’t have another child yet, you’re are too overwhelmed with one
Why would you every say that to anyone? Motherhood is OVERWHELMING regardless! Please be polite and if you don’t have anything nice to say- don’t say anything at all.
Only trying to tell her the truth
Don’t tell anyone when to have a child. Plus talk to any mother and they will tell you that they are overwhe
I don't think she's overwhelmed to a point where she shouldn't have a second child. She's a SHAM to a toddler who is incredibly attached to her right now and teething. That would be overwhelming for anyone. She's doing great
Yep, she is!!
I don’t think there’s ever a right time to transition from 1-2 kids. Just remember, what he’s like now won’t be the same 9mos from when you conceive. You all will adapt ❤️. But your health is most important!
Couldn’t have said it any better!!
I think you read too much and watch too much of other people and their “parenting tips” like hiring a “sleep consultant” you overwhelm your brain and make something not hard EXTREMELY hard. Not saying having kids and parenting is easy, it’s the hardest thing we will ever have to do BUT you’re always talking non stop of all the issues that you create. Your his mom do what you think is best, stay off the internet. One thing though, don’t have another kid, you can barely handle the one and he’s not even a hard baby honestly. You have it easy.
OOF the judgement in this comment is gross :( and many more she does not CREATE problems THEY ARE life issues PERRIOD. And she is a new mother with more hormones trying to navigate this out WITH the influence of social media she literally is a social media influencer herself!! So I bet it is hard to see others posting things that makes them seem east and it frustrates her!!!! I get it!!! Lol y’all need to give her a break and LET. HER.VENT. DAMN. This is HER vlog channel. And don’t ever tell A MOTHER when to have a child. That’s crossing the line.
@@Prayeveryday99. she 100% creates 99.9% of her own problems... she’s her own worst critic always making everything a huge ordeal. Your baby has separation anxiety? Cool you’re a stay at home mom, stay home with him...OR create some distance by putting him into some sort of daycare or with a family member a few times a week. There’s really no need to lose sleep or complain for 20minutes about it or say you can’t do your WORK FROM HOME JOB because of it. I’ve been a mom a long time but even when I was a young stay at home mom of one I never had so many issues. That’s the thing she compares herself to people who deal with real life problems without having a meltdown or complete breakdown over something so small and they continue working and doing normal stuff...she’s not mentally capable like most others are and that’s ok but get help for it instead of blaming the kid for being a kid. There’s absolutely no way she could do more than one kid with all these issues she already has. She will think she’s going to die when they’re both going through sleepless nights, get a cold at the same time , etc. She’s not built for two kids it’s not hate it’s a outside looking in third party perspective which a lot of other people also gave her in a much more rude delivery so clearly you’re just bored oof 🧐
I wanted to have another baby when my son was 2, but thank god it wasn’t in our cards that time. I can’t imagine going through pregnancy when my son was 2. He’s currently almost 5 & I’m due in 6 days. He’s been the best during the entire pregnancy. He understands & helps me. I think 4 is the best age to add another kiddo.
Good luck and CONGRATULATIONS in advance! 😘🎉
@@BrittsBites402 thank you 😊
Does it get a little easier the older they get? I have a 13 month old daughter 💗
@@PinkBlushGlamour i think it’s easier the older they are. My oldest (5yrs) can help get me things, he can do things on his own, so I don’t have to always tend to two kids.
@@ItsMASLove that’s so so good 🥰
You say your struggling financially you probably shouldn’t have another right now
If she was truly financially struggling she would not be placing constant amazon orders or have her eyelashes and nails done CONSTANTLY.
@@bnl_9888 I don’t think she’s struggling I think she is immature and doesn’t know the value of a dollar or how to save for the future. They will probably be in a rental for 10+ more years with the dumb purchases they make
Why isn’t anyone mentioning the fact that she has 2 kids already, but she keeps referencing she want a second child... she 👏 literally 👏 has 2 kids.. I think she forgot about her daughter. So incredibly heart breaking...
@@bnl_9888 then she needs to quit broadcasting false things.
@@natashajohnson5313 that kid is hardly with them, it’s hard to build a connection and consider a kid yours when you put no effort in. If I was in Anthony’s position I’d be living in Cali with my kid not states away and if Meg was a good person she would of supported it and went too. It’s crazy to me how little people can see their kids and be ok with it
I hope Grey is okay... haven’t seen him for a couple vlogs now
I worry about him with all the oil diffusers 😔
I was wondering where he is too☹️
He was in the most recent one and hes fine
Y’all are so petty lmao. Those oils are not going to hurt the dog or the baby. Calm down 🤦🏽♀️
Your neighbors HUSBAND?!?! 😬😲
I’m sorry but that’s a lil too desperate girl. Eeek
Please wait on having another Meg. No rush!!!! I am an anxiety perfectionist suffer and I have two children 7yrs apart. I did what was right for me. Not saying you need them 7 yrs apart but I honestly feel you need space between your children . The toddlers years can be difficult . Hang in there
I have two boys they are 2 years apart and honestly the transition from one to two kids wasn’t that bad. The oldest was so good and happy to have a little brother that he was just doing his best to help mommy and daddy out. And now that my boys are 4 and 2 they are best friends and they get along so well. I love you
Babies feed off you. If you’re stressed and crazy the baby will definitely be stressed. Please don’t have another baby right now, common sense 🥴
I’m not understanding why the rush to have a second kiddo so soon? You have Bella, too... There are TEN years between me and my little brother and we are still SUPER close, despite the age gap. Plus when my mom had him, I was already ten years old and was able to feed him, change his diapers, take him to school. I loved it! Every type of family is beautiful, you don’t have to fit a specific mold.
Had my daughter 1 and a half apart wouldn’t change it ever it’s the best feeling knowing they are going to grow up together
@@Alyssinnlovesyou123 that’s great. Never mentioned in my comment that families with kids close in age are bad, did I? I was simply bringing up the point that if someone (like Meg) is clearly not ready for another child, she shouldn’t force it.
Isnt it great that everyone has different opinions and views on when to have a kid. & isn’t it great that it’s her body and her choice. Sick of all of you literally trying to tell her when and when not to do things. Y’all do the absolutely MOST. She’s a grown woman and can have another kid whenever the heck she wants to. Damn.
@@EllDuclos so it's healthy for her to bring a child into this world when she is not mentally stable? Correct her body her decision but why make her mental health worse? Why bring another child into the world before working on herself? The ones who really suffer are the children.
@@dianaponte9724 she takes care of her child perfectly fine from what I see. Not to mention in this video she said they are waiting anyway so idk why you all are pushing the narrative and telling her to not have a second child when she stated she was waiting. The comments you all spread on her videos DO NOT help with her mental health, I can almost guarantee it. I’ve never read so many judgmental comments before, You all pick this woman apart. Spreading positivity would probably help her mental health a lot, not to mention you only see glimpses of her life and act as if you personally know her.
My two kids are 4.5 years apart and looking back, in a way, I’m glad they’re that far apart. Older brother was able to help a little and wasn’t as dependable on me as he was when he was younger so it made the transition from one to two kids a little easier. It’s definitely a challenge some days but that’s with any amount of kids you have.
Please wait to have another child you don’t know if your child will be born with special needs and you will really be overwhelmed! I have four kids! My youngest has severe autism and a heart condition and we didn’t expect to have a child born with special needs but it happens! I’m not saying that will happen to you I’m just saying it is so much easier with one then two! My kids are 21 months apart!
Don't rush into having a second baby, I have three the last two are two years apart, and its a hand full I had couple of melt downs myself.
Hey Meg! Have you ever tried doing sensory activities with Kaden? He seems to enjoy playing with things that are not "toys" so perhaps setting aside an hour a day to doing supervised and engaging sensory play with him! Especially some messy fun, maybe painting, a deep bowl/container of water with bubbles and his fav toys, a tray of shaving cream and spoons, a tub of pasta or rice with scoops and bowls. If you cut open a large garbage bag and lay it on the floor to capture the mess and then sit down and do it with him and engage with him, he may be really into it! Its a great way for him to let out some expression, find new interests, and also pick up some new language and communication! Help him label his actions, his emotions etc, never too early to start giving them the tools for communication, hopefully it help him communicate his needs in the near future too without too much crying :) You're an awesome mama Meg and Kaden loves you!!
Natural doesnt mean its going to work. Try to find a salicylic acid acne treatment, I love ceravw SA wash or zapzyt acne wash. Plus those don’t have any fragrance. Don’t use face brush when you have active acne
it sounds like you’re trying to do things “by the books” with Kaden.. have you tried to just go with the flow? when my son was 1, we still put him down for a couple naps a day, but they started getting shorter and shorter until he just weaned himself out of one nap. then again he weaned himself out of a nap in general.. if he got really cranky we would put him down again but just listen to what his body is saying. nap time was the only time i could get a good amount of housework done so it definitely helped
Put the baby books and blogs down and trust your instinct!!! I cannot imagine being a parent and constantly going by “books”. I have 3 kids and that just seems WAY more stressful than just letting the child tell you what they need!!
Just relax!!!
Also!! Please wait to have a second... you seem to be having a very hard time with one.. which is TOTALLY normal, but don’t make things worse for yourself... I waited 5 years before having a second.
This is just an observation, but I noticed it’s normal for people in the US to leave their shoes on while I’m their homes. I think it’s a little gross, cause you’re walking around in your house with the germs of the outside on your floor and you have a baby who’s on the floor a lot. In Germany it’s common for people to take their shoes off when entering someone’s home and either just walk around in socks, or wear slippers. I think the attachment phase is just a phase. I know a lot of small children who’ve been through it.
I live in the US and I would never wear shoes in the house. But I know others in this country do & I think its so nasty lol
I’m US and was raised to wear “house shoes”, slippers that are only for in the home. Wearing outside shoes inside 🤢
Your mom is so good with Kaiden. 😇
Meg you kept saying that the apartment was "basic" but it's soooo nice and minimalistic plus your parents and your sister will add the homey touches to it! :)
@@theonlyybb8970 I think she just say the things that she thinks ppl will say
As a mother of four ages 27, 25, 21, 16 my advice is to wait until your son is out of diapers and potty trained before having another child. You won’t regret it. Makes life a little easier . God bless you & your family.
As a mom of two (now toddlers 2&3) that I had back to back (13 months apart) yesssss!!! Enjoy all your time with Kaden that you can. I couldn’t recommend enough to wait til the are potty trained.
Your not ready for another your son goes to sleep at 7 and your struggling already don’t put more on your self if you can’t handle what you have it’s clear as day your truly not happy fix that first
WHY would you have another kid
Really? She can if she wants it’s not up to you
So rude geez!!
I commented this, but she does have 2 children... how tf is she forgetting about Bella?? She is even moving or have moved closer to Meg & Anthony.
@@natashajohnson5313 Who said she forgot about Bella? She just said they are thinking about trying for a second one. She didn't try for Bella...
I’m guessing because she wants to...
Omg putting on all then oils & some treatment that you don’t really know & then a homemade oil over gave me anxiety. Maybe that’s what’s giving you breakouts
As soon as Kaden was in the highchair I was like here comes the flapping. 10 seconds in....Kaden flapping away!. So funny. He's like saying, Mom I want more food now!! LOL
Mom to mom. Yes kids are difficult at times especially when they’re not able to express how they feel with words. I get it. But complaining constantly about your kid and your problems online is not the right thing to do. You have MULTIPLE people in your life that have kids that you can and should go to for advice. Not the internet. And the internet is permanent. Your poor son is going to see these videos and Instagram posts one day of you constantly complaining on how he acts. He’s a baby. What do you expect? I get hard days but quit putting it out to the public. Even if you delete it, it can still be accessed from other sites or from other people. Just please think more about what you say or do and put forth out into the cyber world because it could cause problems to your kids in the future.
Well said! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
🙌🏽 exactly!! I feel so bad for him 😞
It’s very sad . That poor kid.
You guys are so extra. You act like she sits there bashing her child. All I saw was her saying that her child has separation anxiety and that she doesn’t mind it because she likes spending time with him, but that it just makes it hard to get things done. There’s literally NOTHING wrong with that.
My mom told me I was a huge cryer and that it made her exhausted most days and guess what, I’m not offended AT ALL. Lmaooooo. It’s just so hilarious how crazy all of these comments sound. You over analyze everything she says. It’s unreal.
@@EllDuclos well said ! These comments are ridiculous i don’t blame her for turning off her comments.
Where's your dog? You cant handle him and Kaden but you want a 2nd child?
Right! Shes a princess! Its ridiculous they way she complains about taking care of her poor baby.
She’s a new mom and she’s learning as she goes. And y’all are honestly telling me when or if you even have a kid you wouldn’t complain?? Specially when it’s new to you?? How about try to give her advice and not break her down or better yet not watch her videos. Be better!
You underestimated motherhood so bad . Why would you want to have another child when you can barely handle your first ?
one is relaxing, two is consuming haha. my kids are 5 years apart and im still greatly overwhelmed !! I love the bond they have though & having my older boy- younger girl ❤️
He’s a baby. Lol. You’re his world and you’re all he knows. He’s going to be attached. My son is 19 months and is this way
Hes attached cause your his mom and he loves you.. please don't have more kids if you can't handle your one. There is nothing wrong with not be able to Handle more kids. I have 2 boys right now and so many people are ready for me to try for a girl but I'm being realistic that even though I would love a girl Im not ready for a third. Don't rush for more kids!
I would definitely wait until you have things figured out more it’s just gonna add more stress! Kaden is still young; it won’t be that big of a gap even if you wait one or two more years to get pregnant! Put your mental health first. It’s hard.
If I were you I would hold off on having a second child especially if you are feeling overwhelmed and struggling with your mental health, this isn't a comment to be rude just would hate for you to run yourself into the ground with your mental health, I struggle with mental health myself so I get it.
I have 3 siblings, we are all 2-3 years apart and the age gap isn't a big deal I also have friends who's siblings are 5+ years apart and they still bond so well together.
Ultimately it is your life but just make sure you guys are 100% ready and that you will have plenty of support when you have another. 😊
Thank you for your comment Jasmine!! I definitely want to put more effort into focusing on my health and sanity lol! But this is all a new journey of motherhood and parenthood and learning how to navigate it all!
@@LaVitaDiMeg you are doing great! Be proud of yourself for the fact your little man is thriving.
You'll feel so much better within yourself when you focus on your own well-being for a bit but it's hard when you have a little cutie running around 😊
i’ve seen siblings 7yrs apart have the strongest bond. EVERYONE is different and it’s extremely important to remember that. just relax and go with the flow of what God has planned for you.
You have so many more years to have more children! For now just focus on yourself and your first born! I’m so glad so many moms are being honest about motherhood. It is very difficult!
Love how real you are! You always show and admit you are struggling or having a hard time wether it be with motherhood or just life itself! Please never change 💕 My OG youtube favorite for sure...love ya! ❤️
You keep saying your parents rental is so basic. Some people would kill for a house like this smh.
Mine are 3 years apart and I can’t imagine having them closer. Don’t rush it. I think it’s better to wait until the first child is old enough to understand what’s going on.
I think your problem is your a princess and kids are work that you don't feel like you should have to do. You literally wine about him all the time.
Where has greyson been?
Where is Grayson
It’s obvious being a stay and home mom is a lot for you. It’s a lot for lots of moms. Don’t add to that. And is Greyson getting the attention he deserves?????
Of course he ISNT ❤️
@@agon1207 y’all are WHACK. It’s embarrassing how obsessed you all are with picking this girl apart.
@@EllDuclos exactly, I agree
@@agon1207 she vlogs moments that she wants people to see so no one knows what’s going on off camera. You’re just assuming.
Does Anthony help you with Kaden? UA-cam is also your job! I feel like you are taking on the double shift...not fair
Exactly
He works full time. You want him to quit his job to help with the baby? She doesn’t film every second of the day. How do you know he doesn’t help? You people are ridiculous and rude.
He works and I’m sure he helps when he is home. Some of these comments are ridiculous. The fact that people can be so ride and judgmental just makes me think how sad and miserable they must be.
it’s very age appropriate for separation anxiety to emerge around 12-18months, they now understand when mommy is gone or busy and that’s who they typically are most attached to! this too shall pass! it may be a really hard few months but he will get over it eventually!
Yes girl! My daughter is that way with me and she’s 29 months old and I literally have to sneak out so she doesn’t cry after me, because it breaks my heart hearing her cry for me.
the days are long but the years are short 💙 patience is key. when you’re stressed, they’re stressed. Calm down, relax and put music on, redirect kadens attention when he’s screaming. You just have to learn how to communicate with your toddler. It’ll get better 💙
Ps. Your mom is such a loving grandma and very beautiful ❤️
I would not recommend having a second child right now!!!! Also Meg. Why don't you go back to therapy?!? The Bible is nice but you seem so sad. Therapy will help you 💖
There’s no way
For some reason she doesn't go to therapy, even though she should have years ago especially after meeting Anthony that's when things made a turn to the worst, mentally for her
@@brendalove1230 agreed. Anthony is trash
Definitely wait on having another. There is no rush and kaden is still SO young!
There is always a rush on things in Smegs world.
Stick with one..wow
I definitely wouldn’t be worried about another baby if your struggling with your 1st. No shade at all .. I love your videos . I’ve been a SAHM for 8 years and get the struggle but as we all can see .. that’s the last thing you should be worried about love. Maybe wait until he’s around 3-4 and take care of your mental health
Welcome to Motherhood, Mama. I have three kids and they are 3, 6, and 7 years old. It's a normal thing what Kaden is going through just give yourself some time to breathe and remember it's only for awhile, they grow soo fast.
Please don’t use essential oils on your skin. That’s a big no no.
actually if you do research and become knowledgeable on the topic; certain essential oils are actually great for your skin. especially Tea Tree, lavender, rose, etc. they have amazing benefits. so your statement is incorrect. you just need to know what to use and how to use it properly. essential oils have been used on skin for centuries. look it up.
@@PRiNCESSfARRxo How do you know if I haven’t done my research? I’ve done a LOT of research and also many skin specialists and dermatologists all say that essential oils are very bad for any types of skin. I personally can’t use any essential oils on my skin and so many of my friends and family can’t either. They have absolutely no benefits whatsoever on the skin and can cause very bad irritation and allergic reactions and breakouts. if not now in the long term of using them. Lavender is one of the worst essential oils. Very irritating on the skin.
@@PRiNCESSfARRxo no quite. With only a few exceptions, essential oils in their concentrated state should NOT come into contact with skin or mucous membranes
MEG... YOU keep talking about having another a second child!!! YOU literally 👏 have 👏 2 KIDS.... her name is Bella... remember??
It’s not her child. That child already has a mother. There is nothing wrong with wanting your own biological children
@@SimplyMonique I didn’t say that there was something wrong with her having biological children. I was stating the fact that she forgets she indeed has 2 kids. Idc how u look at it. You make the commitment of marrying someone with children, you become a blended family. She seems to forget about the “step”. No child wants to be seen or known as that “title”. It’s sad and she holds a grudge against that little girl , everyone sees it. I’m sure at her age now, she sees it too.
Where’s Greyson?
I have four kids my girls are 4 years or 3 years apart, if you want another baby wait a bit enjoy him wait till he is older and then have one.
I have 3 kids now ages 8,6,4 ! The transition from 1-2 was the hardest ever! 2-3 easy , I took care of all 3 (4,2 and newborn) after having a surgery. But for some reason going from 1-2 was extremely hard for me. I always looked like a hot mess , I worked full time and nursed so that put extra stress on me. Its was hard but I wouldn’t have done it any other way! 1boy 2 girls ! They get along so well and love each other , I love to watch them grow up and be the best of friends
Who would watch your babies when you worked?😊
Everything that you and Kaden are going through is completely normal, you're not alone, and it is okay to walk away and ask for help. Its crazy though because one minute you want a break, and as soon as you do, you miss him & want to hold him.
You're a good wife and mother.
You were made for this, you can do this, and you are great at it ❤
I'll be keeping you in my prayers!
If you want to have a 2nd child wait till Kaden starts school 🥰
Are kids easier when they start school? 😅
Hi there! I am a mom of 2, and in fact a young mom at that. I am 22 with a 3 and 1 year old. It’s not easy. There are days that are tougher than others, but you definitely need to make sure you have a good support system. You (Meg) can not do it alone, but hey, maybe you can. But for your mental health sake just don’t have a 2nd child until you’re 100% ready. Yes, the new born stage is easy, but wait till you have 2 toddlers. It’s not as easy, just be wise in your decision making.
You can’t with one..wait for the second.
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@@TheBebe2214 lmao byeeee it’s facts tho
@@TheBebe2214 she need to think about her mental health and she’s going through it.
so she should wait.
Girl one thing don’t ever dip your finger back in the medication after touching your acne that will spread the bacteria and make more breakouts. What I do is take a q-tip and dip in and I always get a new one after every dip. ❤️
Another tip girl is use those hands, just wash them really good before touching your face. I stopped using the brushes, because my face would get worse and spreading the bacteria too. I wash my hands really good and I don’t touch nothing but the pump and my face after I wash them. My skin looks amazing after doing that too. I have the same issues as you with hormonal break outs. All I use is cervea products and nothing else and they have helped so much. Throw out those face wipes and get the Garnier Skin Active Micellar Clear Water it’s amazing and not so harsh on your skin either.
I feel really stupid for never thinking about this 🥺🙈
@@lezomaje your not stupid girl. It took me a little to learn to do that too. I also see she’s using a brush to clean her face that will also spread bacteria too. I use to use one and my fave would get worse. I see she doesn’t want to use her hands, but I wash my hands really good and I don’t touch anything after that besides my face and the pump to my face wash and my skin looks amazing. ❤️
How much screen time is Kaden getting? Including TV... he might have sensory overload if you have the TV constantly going. I noticed my son plays so much better with his toys with minimal toys out and TV and music off.
Our pediatrician says no tv until at least 2 my daughter is 4 now and could care less about tv.
Been following for over 6 years. Always depressed, always anxious... that is always the theme.
Also try getting out once or twice a week.. even just getting groceries. Give him alone time with Anthony. I made that mistake I never left my sons side until he was almost 2.
One thing I found helpful when transitioning to one nap was to run an errand in the morning so my son could catnap in the car and then do regular nap during the one nap time 🙂 it helped for a couple of weeks until we moved past the cat nap! My sons are 2 years apart and it’s definitely challenging if you’re going to be the sole caregiver majority of the time (I am). However! I always think about when they’re older they’ll be able to keep each other company ☺️ omg sweet and sassy! Lol my little sister went to birthday parties there 😆
Yes! This is exactly what I’m doing. He takes a little 20-30 min nap in the car and that holds him over. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
This is honestly such a good idea
One child is easy compare to two... two is a mess especially if you don't got help but if you got help im sure it'll be fine but you'll get through it we all do
I said it another video & I'll say again, please do you research about skin care. If you used the right products/ingredients, you wouldn't have to constantly struggle with your skin.
Please do a more detail video on the Bible study and also how you make the natural essential oil 💛
1 is 1. 2 is 20! I have 4 kiddos and the transition from 1 to 2 was definitely the hardest for me personally.
Complains about money but get lash extensions
And a $400 coffee table and 2 or 3 diaper bags that are over $100 each.
@@southernchic15 I can tell your jeolous cuz you counting up her stuff 😂😂😂😂
@@TheBebe2214 she said it in her videos , you idiot ! I make 6 figures a year . I’m hardly jealous of SMEG. 😂 I also own my own home .
@@southernchic15 yeah sure you do.
@@Jessa8891 ohhhh so you know how much I make ? Didn’t really that you know me personally . Then please my all means since you know me so personally , give me a call so that we can have a little chat 😉
Where is Greyson?? I haven't seen him in a long time...
Miss you Meg❤️ This vlog feels like I’m hanging out with my sister or bestie. Hope your doing well and miss this time of life
Honestly as a mother of 4, everything you're saying is completely normal and will pass. Going from 1 to 2 children is fine. I found going from 2 to 3 the hardest as I don't have 3 hands 🙂
This honestly depends on your child’s temperaments. I have two high needs babies (24 months apart) and it has truly been SO hard.
@@jennellebailey unfortunately you can't tell this until it happens.
As a mom of 3 definitely wait if you feel overwhelmed with 1 . I thought having two would be easy as they could play together all they do is fight. It’s draining . work on yourself and a routine before! Only love no hate❤️❤️❤️
2 children is tough. My kids are 3 years apart and they fight constantly. It’s that brotherly thing. The jealousy will be there. Kids are so messy. Ugh, the house is never clean with kids. Your moms sweatshirt, keuka lake is 45 minutes from where I live.
Mine are 5 years apart and they fight. The youngest loves pushing her sisters buttons.
I am not going to lie...I have 4 kids ranging from 7 to 5 months. They are all 2-2.5 yrs apart. And it’s tough sometimes mama. But mentally if you don’t think you can handle another right now please keep in mind that it’s better to wait until your mental health is taken care of. If that means that your kids are 3 years apart then that’s great! That’s still close in age.
I definitely agree with you!
My son is almost 4 and I’m waiting to have another baby when I figure things out with my anxiety. I know how much harder it would be for me.
@@Ella-ub5gy Good luck! You can do it!💪🏾🍀
I have 2 kids, 3 years apart. I believe it' s the perfect gap of age between simblings. They play a lot together. And at the beginning i did struggle a lot even of my first daughter was already 3. She was still little and needed a lot of assistente for everything, from going to the bathroom, to eat. And i was alone amo the day long with the 2 of them.
See I love this kind of comment no rude judgment in it! 🤍 some people are telling her what to do straight up and that’s so rude.
Did something happen to Greyson?
Essential oils on your skin is sooo bad :( anything fragrance is just typically gonna inflame and make the issues worse. Natural isn’t always better 🤍
Thank you for mentioning this! I'll definitely be looking into this and doing some research!
@@LaVitaDiMeg I never wanna seem like I’m making a negative comment :(! I had horrible hormonal acne and really had to get to the root of my skin issues. Diet played a huuuuge role for me as well! Soy being found in almost everything leads to acne and also something as simple as peanut butter ! I hope you find something that works for you pretty girl 🤍
I was about to say the same thing too girl. I’ve had hormonal acne and I’ve switched all to cerave products. I also stopped using the face brushes too. I was my face with my hands. I wash my hands real good first and get to washing and since I’ve stopped using the brush my skin hasn’t broke out as bad and my skin looks amazing and better then ever. ❤️
actually if you do research and become knowledgeable on the topic; certain essential oils are actually great for your skin. especially Tea Tree, lavender, rose, etc. they have amazing benefits. so your statement is incorrect. you just need to know what to use and how to use it properly. essential oils have been used on skin for centuries! :)
@@PRiNCESSfARRxo I got my information from an esthetician who cleared my skin after using those products it inflamed my skin. Everyone’s skin is different.
I would definitely recommend waiting on another baby. 💓
One is one, two is a zoo.
Two feels like four I swear! Insane the difference.
Facts lol
She states that she doesn’t have money for daycare and she wants another child ? Lord have mercy 💀
Oh I remember that stage separation anxiety he will get through it just takes time.
Where is Grey?!
They still got him don’t worry
Also, never hesitate to take him and get his ears looked at! The ONLY symptom either of my children ever showed for ear infections was just being extra cranky!