Woman Demanded $5000 Per Month For Girlfriend Allowance....But Then This Happened

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  • @lamarkiuscox9016
    @lamarkiuscox9016 2 роки тому +228

    If you have to pay all that money to leave the house, you are not a 10 out of 10

    • @alexhartley9133
      @alexhartley9133 2 роки тому +13

      Glad someone said it

    • @algordon2420
      @algordon2420 2 роки тому +8

      Exactly, back in the day shade tree mechanics would add Saw dust to engines to make them run smoothly until they could dump a Lemon onto a Sucka, and this sounds a lot like that.

    • @RogerSanGabriel
      @RogerSanGabriel 2 роки тому

      Facts

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly 2 роки тому +10

      Exactly sir preach! I am tired of these women saying they spend all this money to look good! False! Some of these chics look average though they spend thousands of dollars on “things.”

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly 2 роки тому

      Some man buying love with money. It doesn’t work.

  • @jalan6270
    @jalan6270 2 роки тому +72

    This woman’s “monthly upkeep” is higher than the car payment on a Lamborghini for someone with a 400 credit score. They’re sick in the head

    • @-far-9194
      @-far-9194 2 роки тому +1

      Actually no. If we stopped using hair products and skincare we'd walk around with dull skin and a bird nest on our heads. Our maintenance is self care

    • @-far-9194
      @-far-9194 2 роки тому +1

      All men do is get a haircut and shave a little. We however are expected to have glowing skin and flowing healthy hair with no hair anywhere else on our body

    • @jalan6270
      @jalan6270 2 роки тому +11

      @@-far-9194 key word “self care”. Also, If you have to do that much work to be attractive, maybe you should humble yourself and learn to love what God gave you. I’m sure that’ll be more cost friendly.

    • @HypnoticHollywood
      @HypnoticHollywood 2 роки тому +2

      @@-far-9194 As a man I love naturally hairy women, who told you women can't have hair anywhere else on their body?

    • @jalan6270
      @jalan6270 2 роки тому +5

      @@HypnoticHollywood they let the media and these cosmetic companies fool them. It’s all a consumerism ploy. I’ve never not dealt with a woman because she had hair. As long as she’s practicing good hygiene, we’re good.

  • @jaycesmith7899
    @jaycesmith7899 2 роки тому +74

    This is the goofiest ish I've heard in long time. My wife is natural and might spend $100 a month or less on grooming and pampering. She's concerned about property and wealth building for later in life. We told our son's to leave females alone that are materialistic and don't appreciate them for who they are. These women are looking for tricks not anything else.

    • @TILLEYJS
      @TILLEYJS 2 роки тому +9

      That's how I pick them. Makeup, piercings, and tattoos?
      Nope. Next.

    • @JJ-jn7ei
      @JJ-jn7ei 2 роки тому +3

      Oh! See I thought I was doing something wrong and planned to send this list to my husband 🙃

    • @BreezeeGreenz
      @BreezeeGreenz 2 роки тому +7

      Your sons are lucky. Many boys and men today need parents like you and your wife.

  • @stefanwolf4978
    @stefanwolf4978 2 роки тому +53

    She’s not spending 5k a month on herself but you gotta do it. It’s the bare minimum 😂😂

    • @truestdude
      @truestdude 2 роки тому

      The BARE MINIMUM!! Smh lol

    • @everyone1liesd459
      @everyone1liesd459 2 роки тому +3

      That's not the sad part
      The sad part is other guys got her for free but you have to pay

    • @GameN3rdz
      @GameN3rdz 2 роки тому +1

      @@everyone1liesd459 if she don't find u attractive you gotta pay lol

  • @mikhailabdurrachman2443
    @mikhailabdurrachman2443 2 роки тому +338

    If pookie and Chad NEVER spend money on you then we sure as hell ain't gonna spend money on you either 🔥

    • @rogerblewett5595
      @rogerblewett5595 2 роки тому +23

      You can say that again 💯

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly 2 роки тому +27

      Dating does not have to be expensive for women. I invested in quality clothes and shoes. I do not spent money on makeup besides quality lipgloss and a pencil, potent active skin care , the gym, white teeth (dentist every 6 months). Short term investments go a long way. These chicks be buying 2K wigs and all this other makeup stuff.

    • @MegaBluemule
      @MegaBluemule 2 роки тому +20

      You got that RIGHT this broad can 🦵 🪨 💥 KICK ROCKS 🤣

    • @mokaLARE
      @mokaLARE 2 роки тому +14

      @@tmcurly $2k wigs? 😂😂😂 artificial hair? Even if it’s a real human hair, it’s not yours. Invest that money on something better for yourself. Like you said, see a dentist every 6 months is very important. If you check, those chicks don’t have insurance but will find the way to spend $2k in stupid things like wigs.

    • @milehighgambler
      @milehighgambler 2 роки тому +5

      Big facts

  • @tunekas01
    @tunekas01 2 роки тому +22

    They don't even have 5.300k to spend on themselves and expect a man to do so? That's hilarious 🤣

  • @bazoena
    @bazoena 2 роки тому +6

    As a woman, that amount the young lady is naming on the list are crazy! 😳😕
    And why must a man pay her gym...aren't you surpose to be in shape for your own health. 🤔

  • @joecain8287
    @joecain8287 2 роки тому +23

    Make-up is why every woman thinks they are a "10."

  • @alexandradarbyshire7433
    @alexandradarbyshire7433 2 роки тому +20

    This is why people should present who they are and not put on a facade for a date 😞

  • @coachc125
    @coachc125 2 роки тому +136

    Now these women want you to pay for their maintenance before the 1st date? I'm good. I'll save my money and do things for myself and my son. Stay free fellas! #SYSBM

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 2 роки тому +15

      Pay for a stranger you never met😂 You can't make this shxt up

    • @RogerSanGabriel
      @RogerSanGabriel 2 роки тому +4

      Get your passport.

    • @coachc125
      @coachc125 2 роки тому +4

      @@RogerSanGabriel 🤣 Bro I've been using my passport since 2003.

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly 2 роки тому +9

      If women focused on getting in shape and clear skin!! Stop buying all this fashion nova cheap clothes that rip after 1 wash!

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly 2 роки тому +3

      I wish I could become a man advocate. I am actually natural. No wig no makeup but I like lipstick from time to time. No powder, no foundation. I did not have clear skin growing up. You need to invest.

  • @robsawyer8034
    @robsawyer8034 2 роки тому +89

    Pro Tip: H00k3rs are rented, girlfriends are leased, and wives are financed. In the end, you own none and will eventually have to trade them in due to lack of performance. Never finance something that’s been rented or leased by other owners. You’re welcome. - No matter what, your payments will stay the same even though the vehicle gets older with more mileage.

    • @Agbahizzal
      @Agbahizzal 2 роки тому +14

      This is a certified hood classic.
      If all she offers is external, u've overpaid

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 2 роки тому +8

      Like Dave Ramsey said. leasee is slave to the lender. Don't lease. Rent with cash. 😂😂 Don't finance poousy

    • @rogerblewett5595
      @rogerblewett5595 2 роки тому +9

      I guess it's true what they say.. "all heroes don't wear capes" 💯 👍🏿. Brilliant

    • @maroon9273
      @maroon9273 2 роки тому +10

      Finance with a huge penalty fee. Sugar baby is a high interest loan.

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому

      Some of you sound like professional tricks. People aren't cars. You can always buy a dog and die alone.

  • @davidmoss7216
    @davidmoss7216 2 роки тому +11

    Pokie and Ray Ray never paid that much but they get everything plus kids and run away.

  • @ExtraterrestrialBeing-jc7to
    @ExtraterrestrialBeing-jc7to 2 роки тому +4

    She will never find that guy.

  • @poppa1050
    @poppa1050 2 роки тому +4

    Calling CAP on gym membership. Unless you’re at one of these posh clubs

  • @TheWealthBuildingJourney
    @TheWealthBuildingJourney 2 роки тому +137

    So dating overseas affords BM more attractive options for beautiful, feminine women who WANT to compete FOR THEM at an affordable price for the value...🤔 Wow! Glad I got my passport 👍🏿

    • @joebidet2050
      @joebidet2050 2 роки тому +9

      Chester if u r a BM
      Head to africa
      Uganda especially

    • @TheWealthBuildingJourney
      @TheWealthBuildingJourney 2 роки тому +6

      @@joebidet2050 My lineal heritage hails from western Cameroon and the island of Equatorial Guinea (like most ADoS' descendants origins along the motherland's western coastline). 👍🏿
      That sounds like the move, then. Appreciate it 💯

    • @NAT-turners-Revenge
      @NAT-turners-Revenge 2 роки тому

      no, you just get a woman who wants to be lifted out of *POVERTY* 🤣😂 dimwit. And, she'll use the system to ghost u and get paid

    • @BreezeeGreenz
      @BreezeeGreenz 2 роки тому +1

      No kidding.

    • @BreezeeGreenz
      @BreezeeGreenz 2 роки тому +1

      @@joebidet2050 how about Nigeria? I never hear anyone say to go to Nigeria? Are Nigerian women terrible?

  • @yardleyhbk
    @yardleyhbk 2 роки тому +8

    Pookie and Ray Ray and Chad and Brad don't pay shit ,why should u?!

  • @jasminebaby3375
    @jasminebaby3375 2 роки тому +6

    Oshay you are so good at what you do. I’m a married woman and I’m all convinced to take notes. So funny 🤣

  • @lauriealexander9700
    @lauriealexander9700 2 роки тому +45

    *Woman* I spent hundreds on make-up and then used a profile filter.
    *Men* WTF, even Shrek had good days.

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 2 роки тому

      Even shrieks girl eventually came to accept her ugly. But these b_itches want you to spend 63k a year 😂😂😂

  • @danielj9779
    @danielj9779 2 роки тому +8

    dating just turned into a business🤔

  • @remyhendrixx
    @remyhendrixx 2 роки тому +108

    Oshay this is what I call quality content. I love when you substantiate opinions with case studies. This is not celebrity junk. I think you need to create a third grouping of videos that are just like this video. Ones where you take opinions and walk us through real life scenarios and case studies to show how illogical shit is in todays society. Love it. Great quality.

    • @algordon2420
      @algordon2420 2 роки тому +4

      I agree, in addition there's a lot of free content on Pod cast that I found useful in navigating the Finical world. Listening while driving or exercising has been a game changer.

    • @greatthenate9864
      @greatthenate9864 2 роки тому

      O' Dusty is quite the deep thinker...my favorite channel 🤜🏾🤛🏽

  • @gptruepro
    @gptruepro 2 роки тому +39

    The $5300 shorty is the exact reason that I am working on me 😂. Great content sir!

    • @donelkingii3738
      @donelkingii3738 2 роки тому +3

      Keep pushing young brother. Remember to get that passport.

    • @a.d9780
      @a.d9780 2 роки тому +1

      @@donelkingii3738 yea like brazil for me. Afro Brazilian

  • @dcoldestjenkins5868
    @dcoldestjenkins5868 2 роки тому +43

    If Pookie and Ray Ray nem didn't have to do it, I'm not doing it. 🤷🏿‍♂️
    #SYSBM #PassportGang✈️

    • @redpilledninja4634
      @redpilledninja4634 2 роки тому +6

      Passport Gang for our win!!!

    • @inko123
      @inko123 2 роки тому +1

      💯

    • @RogerSanGabriel
      @RogerSanGabriel 2 роки тому +1

      Facts

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому

      So you're on pookies level? SMFH. At least you're being honest. I guess its true, you get what you pay for.

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 2 роки тому +7

      @@sugarsweet196 BW crave Pookie, Ray Ray and Dontayveus with the waves in his hair.
      All I'm saying is that a BW can't have ridiculous demands (for the guys she don't want) for certain men when Pookie, Ray Ray, nem and Dontayveus with the waves in his hair just left your house this morning after twisting you into a pretzel last night for FREE!
      If they didn't have to do it, stop expecting non Pookie BM with sense to do it. We want that same treatment.

  • @yourstruly9978
    @yourstruly9978 2 роки тому +6

    They have priced themselves out of the dating market. Nobody is paying 5K a month for what Pookie and Chad get for free.

  • @markdowning445
    @markdowning445 2 роки тому +15

    See this is why marriage isn't worth it no more everybody's in it to take you

  • @KeenanTheArab
    @KeenanTheArab 2 роки тому +5

    In South Africa 5300 USD equates to R92,683,49. This woman is crazy.

  • @twalk2008
    @twalk2008 2 роки тому +7

    Go get a job Mrs. 304.

  • @RedRobin714
    @RedRobin714 2 роки тому +12

    Watching this video, I learned the ROI on a $63,600 woman equates to: a minimum of 1 cooked meal that you will have to pay for per month, a minimum of 4 sexual encounters per month, and a possible child that costs $12k per year if you impregnate the woman. Financially speaking, that is a huge liability.

  • @deshadriancampbell7173
    @deshadriancampbell7173 2 роки тому +15

    I do my own hair except when I'm on vacation, nails, minimal make up because I like natural look and not buying new stuff every month and may spend $30 on clothes cause I'm shopping clearance unless I really need/want (I usually still wait til a markdown). I like cooking for myself and gym membership is around $50. I'm not Mr. Krabbs but I'm like the 2nd cousin he got.

  • @SAMYAHBENSHEMUEL
    @SAMYAHBENSHEMUEL 2 роки тому +2

    I'm going to Brazil!

  • @a97jones
    @a97jones 2 роки тому +16

    That's like the take-home for a $100K job. lol

    • @Realmeninvest
      @Realmeninvest 2 роки тому

      Bro if your spending $5000 a month there is something wrong in that. I spend $500 a month and we mostly do free stuff.

  • @davidisrael1165
    @davidisrael1165 2 роки тому +31

    No. 1 answer women give me is "Loyalty". Implying they aren't. SMDH.

    • @swanskambakua2985
      @swanskambakua2985 2 роки тому

      Which cannot be verified and which can change at any moment for no reason. They're selling smoke. We're giving away hard assets.

  • @celli2191
    @celli2191 2 роки тому +7

    All she is saying =
    Brooooooooooooooooooooooooooooookkkkeeeeeeeeeeeee

  • @PassportBrosBusinessClass
    @PassportBrosBusinessClass 2 роки тому +34

    If I invested $63,000 in 2012, I'd have $7,000,000 now.

    • @algordon2420
      @algordon2420 2 роки тому +3

      You could start this year.

    • @infinite0Loop
      @infinite0Loop 2 роки тому +2

      If someone had of invested just $1000 in Apple back in 2001 they’d have roughly $450,000 now. 🤔

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому +1

      Were you high writing this because idk of any investments that yield those kind of returns unless its illegal

    • @PassportBrosBusinessClass
      @PassportBrosBusinessClass 2 роки тому

      @@KB-TAYLOR TESLA was $30 a share in 2012.
      I invested $10,000 in 2012

    • @donntaviusgraves2348
      @donntaviusgraves2348 2 роки тому

      @@sugarsweet196 yeah I think he's trolling

  • @lionofjudah6763
    @lionofjudah6763 2 роки тому +5

    "You cant make this stuff" up KS. This woman is very delusional and make these woman look even more as gold diggers. Just her coming up with a budget for a dude to date is non-datable female especially with nothing in return.

  • @firestick4991
    @firestick4991 2 роки тому +2

    My goodness. Most of that list is pure bs.

  • @Tee.415
    @Tee.415 2 роки тому +7

    $2 gas🤯???? Where in the world does he live?! The Bay hasn't had $2 gas in my lifetime!

    • @gptruepro
      @gptruepro 2 роки тому +2

      H-town baby 🤘🏾.

  • @redpilledninja4634
    @redpilledninja4634 2 роки тому +40

    Remember fellas, your wallet your choice.
    If all you want to do is smash just get your passport and travel overseas and get you a Pro.
    You gonna spend the same money as if you spent time trying to date just to smash. By getting a pro you bypass all the BS and get straigt to the point.

    • @sevmeister21
      @sevmeister21 2 роки тому +7

      Yup

    • @RogerSanGabriel
      @RogerSanGabriel 2 роки тому +4

      Facts

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому +2

      Why do you need to leave the country to get a pro? I thought y'all were leaving the country to find wives? That's like hustling backwards. You don't need an international flight to pay for some p.

    • @SteppinRazor76
      @SteppinRazor76 2 роки тому +2

      You can get Pros here. Why fly out of the country?

    • @bernardpenningsworth5997
      @bernardpenningsworth5997 2 роки тому

      On my mama

  • @Cyber-Rain
    @Cyber-Rain 2 роки тому +9

    1. These "Boss Chicks" boastfully list the money their making as something they bring to the table while also demanding the man to pay for her entire life.
    2. They price themselves or their maintenance like an object, but get mad when being objectified.
    3. Where's the line of men willing to sign up for this nonsense?

  • @doug1217
    @doug1217 2 роки тому +18

    Women can save on makeup by eating healthy, drinking more water, and using basic hygiene products on their skin ... ijs.

    • @enjoy-ly7zw
      @enjoy-ly7zw 2 роки тому +1

      Sir that’s effort

    • @doug1217
      @doug1217 2 роки тому +2

      @@enjoy-ly7zw How is eating vegetables (instead of junk food), drinking water (instead of soft drinks), and washing your face daily (as you already should be) more effort?

    • @TheOlmonroe1
      @TheOlmonroe1 2 роки тому +1

      @@doug1217 He probably means they're too lazy to put in the effort so you'll have to take them as they are.

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому +1

      Eating healthy doesn't make you prettier.

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +1

      And using aloe vera plants for their skin.

  • @Mike-hy4lv
    @Mike-hy4lv 2 роки тому +10

    When you put a money tag on dating, relationship and love. You have nothing.

    • @1230mkelly
      @1230mkelly 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly. She is basically letting everyone know that her vagina has more miles on it than the Space Shuttle Challenger 🌌🚀🌌.

    • @swanskambakua2985
      @swanskambakua2985 2 роки тому

      You have something: an expensive exchange for the man. Better to go direct and cheaper.

  • @john_carter8243
    @john_carter8243 2 роки тому +5

    not having a girlfriend.... Priceless!

  • @mikaelpaul7900
    @mikaelpaul7900 2 роки тому +3

    This is as close as legalized prostitution gets.

    • @maroon9273
      @maroon9273 2 роки тому

      More like seeking arrangements

  • @robertsmith20022
    @robertsmith20022 2 роки тому +2

    Nobody said they had to look like a barbie doll...NATURAL!

  • @Century2008
    @Century2008 2 роки тому +3

    Cascade of young black men are working on themselves to the point women are being left to themselves. A record number of black men are childless unmarried, along with the passport bros. death of the dating market is a Sunami gone wild. Women should not complain as the finally get what they want. Independence.

  • @ScarfaceVsSosa
    @ScarfaceVsSosa 2 роки тому +33

    That’s pretty intense.. How did it get this bad!?
    That passport movement just might truly be the way out.

    • @akin242002
      @akin242002 2 роки тому +10

      Passport: $160
      Airline ticket: $1,800 or less.
      Dinning out for the month: $300
      Condoms per month: $15×4 = $60 (California prices)
      Total: $2,320
      Passport bros saved more than 50%.

    • @Cugastratos
      @Cugastratos 2 роки тому +6

      It IS the way out. Unless by some chance in this frozen over hell you stumble across an American unicorn.

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 2 роки тому +8

      It is the way. Out I promise you. you will never look at American women after you experience what we experience.

    • @MarkLeel
      @MarkLeel 2 роки тому +5

      @@akin242002 actually they saved 56%.

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому

      @@akin242002 where are you staying at, on a bench? You forgot the highest expense, accomodations LOL. If you're just buying sex why do you need to go overseas for that? That seems like a big waste of money.

  • @Profitglutton90
    @Profitglutton90 2 роки тому +7

    Bro on TikTok was spitting absolute FACTS!! You gotta spend all these thousands just to have a girl and spend money before you spend money on her. Prices too damn high to be out here spending money like that and I’m cheap 😂

    • @maroon9273
      @maroon9273 2 роки тому +3

      They want every guy to be simps and tricks

  • @tuavaresm
    @tuavaresm 2 роки тому +3

    He said, he’s a gold digger now. 🤣🤣

  • @brandonf.8360
    @brandonf.8360 2 роки тому +10

    If he grew up in the church, he should've been used to seeing money leave every offering.

  • @melmartin1196
    @melmartin1196 2 роки тому +4

    Why pay that much money for something that’s going to depreciate in value the older she gets?

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому +1

      Umm everybody gets older everyday. Its part of life.

  • @MarcheRenoir
    @MarcheRenoir 2 роки тому +35

    This woman's bio screams: I'm BROKE & IMPOVERISHED. She wants to live the SOFT GIRL LIFE; but she's hard broke. They shouldn't have to PAY FOR IT; but men should (got it)..?

  • @squeezefirst5039
    @squeezefirst5039 2 роки тому +4

    This is why I tell people that getting a girlfriend is a second job.

    • @djonesthe21
      @djonesthe21 2 роки тому +1

      A second job that TAKES money from you, doesn’t even pay

    • @s9sonet400
      @s9sonet400 2 роки тому

      @@djonesthe21 yes they why I focus on myself too many women have unrealistic standards

  • @akin242002
    @akin242002 2 роки тому +14

    She asking for things even wives don't ask for, and she is doing it before the first date. Just laugh 😆 🤣 😂 at her and move along fellas.

  • @Beef_Wellington_Ross
    @Beef_Wellington_Ross 2 роки тому +5

    Shout out to ODJ!!

  • @littlebuster07
    @littlebuster07 2 роки тому +1

    That whole list is over inflated.

  • @coachganginthebuilding
    @coachganginthebuilding 2 роки тому +15

    Coachgang in the building! Well put oshay. Definitely been thinking why am I’m waiting around and dealing with American women and their bs. After watching this video I made the decision to move on. Thanks. Deeeema, next video!

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому

      So videos, not personal experiences, determine who you interact with in real life? I think a lot of people do this though. They listen to other peoples experiences and take it as if it happened to them. This follower culture is ridiculous.

    • @BreezeeGreenz
      @BreezeeGreenz 2 роки тому +2

      Do you know where you're moving to yet?
      If I wasn't tied up with a job contract I would've moved already to Eastern Europe. I've had some Eastern European friends since middle school and know I'd be appreciated over there.

    • @BreezeeGreenz
      @BreezeeGreenz 2 роки тому +3

      @@sugarsweet196 you're right about follower culture (which is worse with women), but I'm sure he'll do research before he moves and he can always change his mind after he gets there. The point isn't follower culture or making a big move without personal experience (afterall how do you experience a place you've never been to). The point is that American women have become so delusional and unreasonable that many American men just want to pick up and run.
      This type of mass exodus has never happened in America's 245-year history. It only shows that something is legitimately wrong and that's what these videos are addressing and why passport bros and leaving America to date in other countries is even a thing. As soon as I'm able, I'm outta here myself. Looks and economic status don't matter to me if a woman has a rotten attitude which is endemic in America. When it comes to women and life I believe only in good investments.

    • @brandonlongdikjones8117
      @brandonlongdikjones8117 2 роки тому +1

      Social media is spreading world wide, better hurra up lol

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому

      @@BreezeeGreenz I personally think its the "pookie in reverse" ,men are going after "ig model" type women who are looking for sponsors not husbands. There seems to be some delusion going on where everyone (women and men) think they are the best of the best, so they think they deserve the best of the best. Apparently no one is average or lives average lives anymore. The men claim there aren't any good women and the women claim there aren't any good men. Both are looking for something that doesn't exist, perfection. Of course you'll say you just want a "regular chick" someone to be nice to you, but it just doesn't exist in America 😉

  • @transformerstoytalk8393
    @transformerstoytalk8393 2 роки тому +3

    This video needs to GO VIRAL!

  • @ModestNea
    @ModestNea Рік тому +1

    This is insane. I don’t know what these people in my age range are on nowadays smh. Why are you investing so much on the first dates? I get making an impression, but you don’t even know the person. My first date with my ex was simply going to the park and talking. My first date with hubby we met at waffle house when he was delivering near my home and oddly enough that is our favorite go to spot now when everywhere else is overcrowded.😂❤

  • @georgeturner301
    @georgeturner301 2 роки тому +1

    JUST WHAT IS A GUY GETTING FOR THAT $5300! As opposed to a "PRO" for a month!!!!

  • @velmabruney1646
    @velmabruney1646 2 роки тому +3

    In the Caribbean women don't demand these things. There are some materialistic women here but most of us can do without all these things

    • @rybackfrankie8679
      @rybackfrankie8679 2 роки тому

      As a half French Carribean male I confirm this. These African American women are something else lol🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @rybackfrankie8679
      @rybackfrankie8679 2 роки тому

      As a half French Carribean male I confirm this. These African American women are something else lol🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @Advic77
    @Advic77 2 роки тому +2

    Fellas, your money is the 'family's' money and her money is her money has never been truer....😂🤣😂
    And that is the key reason why women who say "I have my own money" can't understand why men aren't flocking in to marry them.
    Thats why most times men don't care about your money, it's not the family's money.

  • @vaughnandrews7932
    @vaughnandrews7932 2 роки тому +2

    I'm so happy this is happening now. I tried to tell my daughters because their mom hates the black Manosphere. My youngest daughter gets it and has a man but her older sister is falling into that same BS OSD talks about.

  • @kenethw172
    @kenethw172 2 роки тому +7

    These females could just forgo dating and do Netflix and chill, as KS said dating is a modern concept that women require from some dudes, whiles others don’t have to do a thing.

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому

      Stop worrying about what "others" are doing/getting. There's levels to everything.

    • @markflowers3985
      @markflowers3985 2 роки тому +1

      @@sugarsweet196and who does that benefit?

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому

      @@markflowers3985 it benefits the person obsessing over something that they will never know and can't change? It sounds ridiculous. That's like a woman telling you "I heard you spent x amount of money to take Maria out and she didn't give you any, so you need to spend more than that on me for me to even consider having sex". Everyone isn't the same so people dont get treated the same. You know that. The problem is everyone thinks they're the best of the best so they deserve the best and they think they only need to do the bare minimum to get the world. Women want money for nothing and men want sex for nothing. "If pookie got it for free I should too". But why would you want a woman that messes with pookies unless you are a pookie or you're expecting an easy lay.? Or why would you think a woman that may have been dumber when she was younger .shouldn't have gotten some standards and higher self esteem, instead of letting any and everyone have access to her body? We all learn as we go through life right?

    • @markflowers3985
      @markflowers3985 2 роки тому +3

      @@sugarsweet196 so you support a dude being a goofy. Got it

    • @sugarsweet196
      @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому

      @@markflowers3985 how did you get that from what I said? You're one of those people that add your own words as you're reading.

  • @williamljonesjr6695
    @williamljonesjr6695 2 роки тому +12

    Mabuhy from Cebu Philippines…I've been a passport brother( yes I was one
    of the corny, lame, boring ones )since I was
    18 (1990) and I visited many countries
    around the globe.
    I didn't have any kids ( twin boys) until after
    I got married at age 40 to an amazing
    Filipina ( we met in Dubai in 2007) and we
    are living our best life here in the
    Philippines…..
    Brothers don't let anyone shame you into
    doing something you don't want to do.. just do you and live your best life stress free, drama free #SYSBM😎😎😎

  • @meemeethecat7391
    @meemeethecat7391 2 роки тому +5

    From the beginning. Just listen at her name. And that should tell you something.

  • @fbwkeezy
    @fbwkeezy 2 роки тому +1

    Real players ain’t gotta spend a dime on a woman

  • @robinafrica3456
    @robinafrica3456 2 роки тому +7

    It takes a woman about 3 days to get ready for a date, hair, nails, outfit and the date may cost the guy $50 - $100!!😂😂 I totally agree dating is expensive for men and women, getting ready for the date(s) is also expensive for men and women!! Yessss do the index fund!!! Go on inexpensive or free dates!!!

  • @raevinb
    @raevinb 2 роки тому +4

    My man and I have been together 9+ years and it’s really not his responsibility to maintain my womanhood..it’s mine. My hair, nails and everything dealing with my body is and should be my responsibility. He does treat me to things often but I don’t expect or demand him to do any of those things. I do not envy anyone who has to date in this current climate, quality and great black women are out here but we’re often silent and or already taken. Wishing all the single brothers the best but you have to vet women correctly or you may end up with a headache in a bra…🥴

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 2 роки тому

      That's why you're married and these women out here are for the streets for a reason.

  • @OGCinemaATL
    @OGCinemaATL 2 роки тому +6

    Future gave us the blueprint.
    “She was tryna join the team, I told her wait
    Chicken wings and fries, we don't go on dates”

  • @leonhenry4861
    @leonhenry4861 2 роки тому +4

    You know it’s an f’ed up situation when the hair is 450 and groceries are 500 lol 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @swanskambakua2985
      @swanskambakua2985 2 роки тому

      Superficial to the 9th degree. Her appearance is more important than her health.

  • @cjmarsh504
    @cjmarsh504 2 роки тому +2

    You're right, the dating market is overvalued. Especially in the united states.

  • @ctjmaughs
    @ctjmaughs 2 роки тому +1

    Where you get that 10% return number from? Expect closer to 5% return if that.

  • @jamessmothers9132
    @jamessmothers9132 2 роки тому +11

    And if she not my wife , I'm not paying all that money for someone I'm dating... And wifey not doing her job as a wife, then she's outta here!!!!

    • @willierhone6244
      @willierhone6244 2 роки тому +2

      They are yet to convince someone to do it, that's the funny part. All the women who talk like this is single.

  • @mrsophistifated1
    @mrsophistifated1 2 роки тому +2

    Most people can't move some where else and keep their salaries.... I need to be in this mythical world.

  • @juniorleslie4804
    @juniorleslie4804 2 роки тому

    Who goes on vacation every month? Lol. These women are clearly CAPPING!

  • @SMW-TRAVEL
    @SMW-TRAVEL 2 роки тому +2

    A lot of Men do not want all of the
    makeup, fake nails, eye lashes ect. The gross majority of women
    would be better off getting a gym membership and working out at least 5 days a week.

  • @mokaLARE
    @mokaLARE 2 роки тому +5

    You can do your nails at home; you don’t need wigs, eyelashes and Co (nothing but superficial things). You don’t need to eat every time outside (especially if you know how to cook; if you don’t, then, learn how to). If you can’t find gym subscription below $50, then, run outside, buy a jump rope and get yourself a bike. Most importantly, eat healthy in order for you to not need to go to the gym very often when walking and running outside are good enough. When it comes to clothes, the fact is we don’t need all those stuff we usually have (buy for buying). It’s even good for our mind to just have the essentials. A lady once told me she has only few clothes. When she is about to go out, she doesn’t have a headache caused by the fact she has too many options. She knows what she wore the day before and so, knows what to wear next. She is not in her room, trying to see what will be better, what combination she should do, try them, then take them off, try another one, call someone else to help her and so on. And the thing is that can make you late for important events or for your work. Live simply is definitely the best way to live happily.

  • @joebidet2050
    @joebidet2050 2 роки тому +16

    5300 a month
    Ill stick with asian women
    She pays
    12 cents for a sachet of pantene shampoo/conditioner and i pay her 18 dollars for an hour of fun
    And that british chick... beautiful?
    Spend 3 quid on a mirror
    😆😅🤣😂
    You could sell the crown jewels and wouldnt be enuff to fix her up

  • @blackpow3r
    @blackpow3r 2 роки тому +4

    This was a great video ODJ. I enjoyed the in-depth analysis. We already know these standards are ridiculous. Let's instead see what the alternative is. #freeagentlifestyle 💯✊🏾💪🏾

  • @shwayanstv2607
    @shwayanstv2607 2 роки тому +2

    a $63,000 headache

  • @digi9ten
    @digi9ten 2 роки тому +2

    Wise video. 👍🏾
    Hope brothers are actually listening.

  • @rhammond1963
    @rhammond1963 2 роки тому +1

    It sounds more like married than dating.

  • @Understandme44
    @Understandme44 2 роки тому +2

    It’s wild these women never came from the life they require the good man to provide them! They let scum bags turn them inside out but the good man has to be wealthy and chivalrous?! You can’t make this stuff up!

    • @jrock7561
      @jrock7561 2 роки тому

      Bro I have noticed that! The women with the longest lists and demands never came from it. Matter of fact usually for the BW it’s damn near poverty or poverty.

  • @sugarsweet196
    @sugarsweet196 2 роки тому +3

    This generation of women and men are obsessed with "stuff" and money. And having things everybody else has. I was always opposite, I like stuff no one else has and I don't think I've ever spent over 100 on an outfit. People still ask me where I get my clothes at. You do not have to spend 1000s on clothes to look good, but I guess that's also part of the "follower" culture.

  • @LordHollow
    @LordHollow 2 роки тому +1

    10 outta ten, huh? Is that what she thinks she is?

  • @georgeturner301
    @georgeturner301 2 роки тому

    $5300/MONTH...THANKS for sharing!!!!

  • @JJ-jn7ei
    @JJ-jn7ei 2 роки тому +2

    5300 to keep a woman! I'm sending this list to my husband. I can forgo many of these listed items to buy more crypto. Ill let you guys know what he says 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @AndrewDTOX
    @AndrewDTOX 2 роки тому +2

    I went to the market and chicken is double the old price. We're in some tough times.

  • @dontrellsloan8337
    @dontrellsloan8337 2 роки тому +4

    The lady said she doesn't want to catfish men. She says she wants to look like a 10 of 10. Isn't that catfishing though?? Saying she wants to look like her profile picture smh I want to see you normal. Plain with no makeup then you're not catfishing me. Anything else is a lie.

  • @PassportBrosBusinessClass
    @PassportBrosBusinessClass 2 роки тому +4

    PASSPORT BRO DIVESTMENTS LLC
    We are going to WIN this!!!

  • @waltdiesel
    @waltdiesel 2 роки тому +12

    I'm not spending over $200... Seems like when men spend more money things don't work out for some reason. A nice date should lead to a long-term relationship or marriage, in my opinion. I no longer led with my wallet. Now I led with other qualities.

    • @17thN.O
      @17thN.O 2 роки тому

      Good for you. That's the best thing you can do.

    • @froststrife6583
      @froststrife6583 2 роки тому +1

      Your a better man than me I am not spending over $50 on a date if the pookies can get it for free that's saying something

  • @christophersterling6788
    @christophersterling6788 2 роки тому

    That's right, Oshay.

  • @rhammond1963
    @rhammond1963 2 роки тому

    I completely understand.

  • @kendallsewaliah7029
    @kendallsewaliah7029 2 роки тому +14

    Hey Oshay, just commending you on your work and I wish you all the best in your future endeavours.
    I like your 'keep it real' and 'logical' stance on various topics...

  • @rasdakai
    @rasdakai 2 роки тому +18

    This was really good. Makes ya think about a lot of different things. Why must it be so expensive? Let's just go to the park and eat sandwiches or something lol

    • @rogerblewett5595
      @rogerblewett5595 2 роки тому +2

      Fr though 💯

    • @rasdakai
      @rasdakai 2 роки тому

      @@rogerblewett5595 lol I'm tempted to say that shit from now on

    • @sbuderlenyora
      @sbuderlenyora 2 роки тому

      Exactly, they make it unnecessarily expensive.

    • @rasdakai
      @rasdakai 2 роки тому +1

      @@sbuderlenyora bring back picnic basket dates lol! To hell with spending 300 on a date. No need for make up and nails either.

    • @sbuderlenyora
      @sbuderlenyora 2 роки тому

      @@rasdakai right. Those things are all distractions anyway, people not putting the focus on where it matters most, getting to know each other. That's why I agreed with KS when he used to say dating is dumb.

  • @christopherbrown7102
    @christopherbrown7102 2 роки тому +2

    She’s like a 6.5 on a good day, ? 10? Wtf

  • @michaelharris6662
    @michaelharris6662 2 роки тому +5

    So I’m going to spend over $60,000 JUST on you? That kind of money, for someone living in THIS reality, can be used for something much better than for someone who could, as Beyoncé said, “Have another you in a minute.”

  • @ciarrajohnson3849
    @ciarrajohnson3849 2 роки тому +1

    4:00 PREACH, BROTHER (F them itches. GOD got you). Look into passport prices😉❤️❤️

  • @cardarroblackmon5672
    @cardarroblackmon5672 2 роки тому +4

    Passport Gang

  • @timothybright7064
    @timothybright7064 2 роки тому +1

    It's called Trick'n!

  • @darkpower6406
    @darkpower6406 2 роки тому +2

    This is why they are single! Brothers invest your money into things that will increase your wealth and power!