Wow... I've been married for 28 years. My husband and I are Christian's, but haven't been from the beginning. I thought I have submitted to my husband as Christ called me to, but Lisa has shown me that there is more to it. I must do it THROUGH Christ, not because CHRIST TELLS ME TO. If I do it THROUGH HIM, my whole Spirit and attitude will change. If I do it because He tells me to, it's with attitude and sometimes, unwillingness. Thank you for allowing Jesus to work through you in this.
Thank you so much for this message. I wish I knew these truths before my marriage and divorce:-) I share this with young ladies when I can. I could have stressed so much less in my life had I rested in God more during the difficult times. Bless you. I still walk with the Lord and I am sure He is not finished with me yet.
I love this for so many reasons but the last note Francis ended on is the best for me; I am no longer me but Christ; showing Him to everyone; dying to myself.
Thank you Lisa Chan! I cried hearing some things you said and read in scripture. God gave me what I needed to hear. I've been struggling with my role as a wife for a while now and unable to find direction. This was such a fantastic message on dying to yourself and being Christ-like. I believe the rest will fall into place. Thank you for having the courage to speak the truth!
Wow your wife is awesome! And so articulate and you both are fantastic examples of what we should be in Christ. Your wife is a great role model you should have her speak on these issues more, and the Oprah subject she got so serious, I could see it in her face, that was awesome. You both are so blessed, thank God for both of you.
The man I am endorsing and praying to swiftly take office is DR. BEN CARSON. I have watched him for a long time and always come away blessed. He has held his peace in such a dignified and patient way, when I knew he SAW...he OBSERVED as he SERVED.
I am single! And I love the way she talks: so clear, honest, and transparent. I can see she is talking from her heart. It makes me appreciate more my singleness gift and I even ask myself now if I really want to be married someday. God bless them!
i dont know i got into these videos but im happy i did ...deff hard to find people these days who are christ centered and preaches with a christ like heart i pray that he continues to preach this way that God continues to help him in all he does proud of these two! amen
Thanks for this message! I've always struggled w/ the idea of submission (was raised to be a strong independent woman), esp since society associates submission w/ negative connotations. However, it's good to see that submission does not equal enslavement. Through supporting our men's leadership (and thru their commitment and service to us), it can bring out our full potential to do God's work in this world. It's nice to see such a great example of a Christ-centered relationship in you two.
Tregnier52 being a strong independent woman is always an aspect of christianity... you need to find yourself first before you find yourself a man... a happiness and contentness in Christ first before a marriage or after one is what every human being, man or woman, should strive for... submission to others come when self is not first, a place where you don't worry about self and your self is given to the Lord to take care of, so you can focus on others and God... in other words you cant love and value one another as yourself if you don't love and value yourself... independence aspect should be I'm strong and content without the need of another person AS LONG AS I'm in Christ, then submission becomes a choice not a standard of measuring your worth.... but many people especially women don't understand this, and they become extremists of a sense, they either completely surrender to a dictatorship like relationship with a husband, or they fight for thw power to govern that was not initially given to her as per the intent of God on marriage
I am sooo glad at 3:00 am this day I stumbled upon Francis Chan & his wife's talk in Christ-Centered Relationships Part One. I have been sooo blown away because both of them people have got the message soooo into their hearts. When I was in College I can remember listening to classes talking about how St. Paul hated women and marriage. They had whole classes about his hatred of women; along with the other disciples. And this was a catholic based college. I hooked on CHAN!!!!!
I think the whole point is to NOT get hooked on any man or woman but instead on Jesus Christ. Although Francis Chan has a great message he is human with weaknesses and can never be the answer to all your needs. God bless.
I hope Brother Francis won't mind me using this venue... I talked with President Trump about this perhaps now a week ago. I didn't want him caught unaware or embarrassed in any way. I am so grateful to him as are multitudes in Our Country. He was told I would be endorsing another for the presidency of the United States. He knew and I believe, is understanding. He is a great man.
This is just so amazing and so hard. I find it so hard, SO hard to be submissive. While watching this video, GOD made me realize, if I'm not submissive to a husband, I won't be submissive to Him. This is such a hard message to swallow, but it's the message of JESUS and no matter how hard the message seems, He will take His children through it and help us all to obey. He wants us, we were chosen, and if this is what we want, He'll help us receive it.
The LORD is calling for HIS MIGHTY MEN of GOD...MEN TO MATCH HIS MOUNTAINS. Personally and with those with similar calling..we are called to CULTIVATE, NURTURE and PROTECT those called ORDAINED for Leadership.
Having watched Leadership in many venues and allowed to sit close with care, I began to observe the "trickle down effect" and how FAR REACHING...if the leader was healthy and wise...the ones under him were as well, whether a company, corporation or family. If they weren't in that number...it was devastating.
I don't agree with you completely Megan. My wife is nothing like this to me. But I still find encouragement to be Christ to her. I do constant actions of love. Hand made gifts to words. Nothing comes of it but I do it because I love her. It has been a revelation to me of what God does and did for me. We try to make mutual agreements but it comes easier when she is of a gentle heart about things. I except her side more and move forward with what we agreed. Most of the time its what She Wanted.
I wouldn't say being in the will of God is the safest place. bc people get killed. but being in the will of God will give you piece that you'll meet the father one day
The will of God is the safest place even though people get killed. It is only the flesh that is dieing. No one can kill your spirit or soul or the God within you. God Bless you and your life for peace and a great relationship with God.
This word spoke more to me about how much more I need to be doing toward my wife. If my wife submits anything in my hands I feel almost overwhelmed not to mess it up for her trust in me. Its a heavy burden. We have our parts to play and it is reaffirming to a me as a man if she ever shows anything that resembles submission of trust. Ask do you Trust no matter the price?
Thank you for shareing this message. I only became aware of Francis Chan yesterday...(where have I been?) . Biblical teaching, approachable temperment. Thanx again.
Its because its about control for a women, and men as well. Its easy to submit to God when there is no audible voice to tell you no when you don't agree.
There is great Damage Control needed...i.e. an EMERGENCY because of failure of the CHURCH in time of need. Meditating this morning on Isaiah 58, 59, 60, 61, 62. Ephesians 4, Book of James...i.e.the CHURCH has an opportunity to set aside differences of Opinion and Line Up with the WORD of GOD...yes its "in there"...oh. and it's in more places than the above.
Let's no forget the bible says to submit unto one another!!!! Yes the husband is the head, but 2 become 1 flesh and marriage needs to be a 2 ppl coming together as one and working TOGETHER! Yes wives submit to ur husbands and husband's submit to ur wives and ultimately follow your husband as he follows Christ, but submission does not mean the woman has no voice or part in decision making. Wake up ppl!
Provérbios 31:10 NVI Uma esposa exemplar; feliz quem a encontrar! É muito mais valiosa que os rubis. Proverbs 31:10 CEVUS06 A truly good wife is the most precious treasure a man can find!
Genuine question. The Santa Claus decoration story is a lovely example of thoughtful submission. I'm not married and still learning so if anyone who is married could offer their thoughts- what if the husband had brought home the Santa decoration and the wife was the one who thoughtfully didn't want the Santa as a home focal point?? If the husband listened to that thought and returned the Santa himself, would that be an instance of the wife overstepping her.role and taking undue leadership? Or could that be an issue that either party could appropriately bring up and discuss? Or should the wife deal with feeling uncomfortable able the Santa because her husband thought it'd be an appropriate decoration and he's ultimately in charge of the house? Thanks, and God bless!
I am not married, but I just wanted to clarify the thought Lisa shared in this video. As she mentioned, the submission of wives does not mean to say "yes, sir" to everything without a say. It is rather a "here is how I think on this matter, but I will follow your decision, even if it does not coincide with my thoughts". She's not telling you to not have any say in the household, is what I'm trying to say. If the husband hears the say of the wife laid out in front of him and "he decides" to return the Santa himself, that is the influence that the wife is having upon her husband as his "helpmate".
Unless something is an outright sin it is sinful not to respect and submit. 1 Peter 3 Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they see your respectful and pure conduct. If your husband is not submitting himself in the same way to God then he is sinning. Do not sin because your husband is sinning or being difficult. instead be an example of submission and respect.
I love the series and love the Chans, but your comment makes me question... verbatim like in original Greek? All the English translations are somewhat interpretation of the translators... so Bible verbatim will be.. just in original Greek which we do not really have anymore. or I guess refer to the oldest manuscript we have.
If a wife were ever to be so submissive to her husband, how much more should a husband submit to God in all things and serve there wives? Husbands submit to God, Wives submit to husbands like Christ and Children submit to there parents. Submission is a learned trait. Most children have to see it first. If my kids are rebellious, Why? Servants heart/submissive heart must be taught by example.
How do I give to the ministry of Francis (the visitor)? He mentioned clothes, homes, wheelchairs, food, so many needs that are being met and yet are unmet. I want to know how to get involved?
I do not understand why you are mad. They said pretty much the same thing you did, to follow the will of God and be like Christ and submit. And they said that it does not only apply to marriages, but in general and people with authority over us....
The word submit is not found in Greek or Hebrew It's an English only word, the word is adapt - wives adapt to your husbands ways, this should free you guys up a bit as all anyone needs to do is go look up stuff for yourself - men need to get direction from God for their family's and not be so insecure that they feel they need to control you to get what they want
+Angela Andrews Sister Angela, thank you for your post. You seem to truly be concerned with disciplining others for Christ. I think that is wonderful. I was curious where you got the information about a better translation being "adapt" instead of "submit." The greek word hupotasso is the word that is used in Eph 5:22. Strong's Lexicon defines hupotasso as, "to subordinate; reflexively to obey: - be under obedience (obedient), put under, subdue unto, (be, make) subject (to, unto), be (put) in subjection (to, under), submit self unto." Thayer Defines hupotasso as, "1) to arrange under, to subordinate 2) to subject, put in subjection 3) to subject one’s self, obey 4) to submit to one’s control 5) to yield to one’s admonition or advice 6) to obey, be subject." Are you getting the definition from somewhere else than either of these 2 lexicons? If you could point me in the right direction, I would be very grateful. Thanks again...God Bless Sister.
I studied in Athens Greece for over 5 years. Submission does not mean "to obey." The Greek word for "obey/obedience" is hupakoe, which means to listen to or to harken to. Submission (hupotasso) means to get under and lift up, or to put in order. It does not mean obedience. Gundry well defines this equalizing principle as a sort of voluntary raising everyone else to your own personal level of importance and worthiness.(2) It is interesting to note that other languages further reinforce this concept. For example, Kluane Spake, writes, "The German translation of that word, sich unterstellen, means to place oneself at a disposition of another." It can also be a military term referring to the equal sharing of tasks, to support, to fulfill one's part of the assignment." Believe me, I understand people want to believe what they want to but the term was not intended as what western society as depicted its a scheme .....Try looking it up in Hebrew it doesn't even exists- Good luck!
Sister Angela, thank you for your response. You definitely have much more Greek training that I do. Did you study Koine or Classical Greek? Maybe that is where the difference in definition is coming in. Either way, thanks again for taking the time to help me out. I am a little confused though, in your first post you said the "submit" (hupotasso in the Greek) should be translated as "adapt" instead of "submit." This is the main reason I responded. In your most resent post, you said that hupotasso means to "get under", or "put in order." So, does it mean all three of these? Also, James 4:7 uses hupotasso also. It is translated in almost every translation as "submit." and it says, "Submit yourselves therefore to God." Are you saying the correct translation should be "get under God" or "Adapt to God"? The only reason I am so curious about this is because, if you are correct, and every translator is wrong, then your translation changes the meaning of 49 verses in the Bible where hupotasso is used. Every time hupotasso was used, it was translated to either, "obey", "submit", "subdue" or "subject." Do you have a different scholarly reference or a lexicon that you are using? Any help would be much appreciated. By the way, submission is not a bad thing, as some make it out to be. There are times I submit to my wife and times when she submits to me. The main idea is that one is not so full of pride that they are unwilling to put someone before themselves. Jesus gave us the example, he put everyone before himself. Also, why is it that many women try to find a different word for "submit" and downgrade it to "support" or something like that when the next verse tells the man to give his life for his wife as Christ did for the Church. If a wife wont even "submit" to her husband, then why does she deserve a husband that would die for her? That is the story of the Gospel. We don't deserve God, but Jesus died for us anyway, while we were still sinners. Praise God!
Brother David, I'm not sure who you were talking to on this post, but the definition she gives in the video is correct. In the post I made I was just trying to be nice to Sister Angela, but the fact remains that the best translation is "submit." Please let me know if you have any questions. God bless you!
Letting your wife let go of what God called her to do as a worship leader and being a slave to u what u want to do is not Bible! " For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."- Ephesians 2:10. We all have a calling ( make and female). It's not a help-mate is it a partnership to create a family and serve God together.
How do you submit and be a good wife to husband when husband is a sinner and verbal abuser...are wife supposed to stay quiet and obey and allow husband continue the abuse
Surf Sand “Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. Do not let your adornment be merely outward-arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel- rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.” I Peter 3:1-6
Surf Sand I would also encourage you to talk to a pastor or counselor. While it is good to be an example to your husband, but there can be harmful circumstances that you should avoid. So, find a pastor and talk to them and then listen to them. Afterward, I would suggest finding Christian community.
Probably a lot of the ubiquitous confusion comes in poor translations of the Bible. "Be subject to" better conveys the grammatical nuance of the Greek PASSIVE voice Ephesians 5:24). It’s a state of being; being “subject to” your husband is like being “subject to” gravity. The word “submit” implies choice/volition on the part of the “submitter”. "Be submissive to" and has caused untold grief and strife (since most marriages don't work quite as well as Lisa seems to assume they do).
I just do not get it. That's the e.g of submission?? if my Husband (or if I were a man, my Wife) offered me a reason for not wanting or wanting something and I sit and think that ok fine this makes sense and is of God, then I would go ahead with doing it. If my Husband told me to do some crap then no I won't do it, the idea isn't who it's coming from, the idea is THE IDEA! ugggh, once it is of God then there goes your answer. It has nothing to do with your Husband saying it. Learn the truth.
The goal is to be like Jesus so wives submit to their husbands because Jesus submitted to the Father? But, actually, we're ALL called to be like Jesus. So, that would be mutual submission, not wifely submission. Also, Francis claims that "no one else acts like that" at the end when he's praising Lisa for being so submissive...but history shows us that women generally give up their dreams for their husbands way more than the other way around, so how will submission get attention?
She is not accurate,Men often do not soften to humility and love if THEIR walk is shakey.They abuse.Thats just the truth.This message is good if both are Christians and have a comitted relationship.Otherwise it is SUPER dangerous.Especially in a narrow minded culture of male and female.
Wow... I've been married for 28 years. My husband and I are Christian's, but haven't been from the beginning. I thought I have submitted to my husband as Christ called me to, but Lisa has shown me that there is more to it. I must do it THROUGH Christ, not because CHRIST TELLS ME TO. If I do it THROUGH HIM, my whole Spirit and attitude will change. If I do it because He tells me to, it's with attitude and sometimes, unwillingness. Thank you for allowing Jesus to work through you in this.
Amen sister. Thank you for sharing. Praying for you now
Thank you so much for this message. I wish I knew these truths before my marriage and divorce:-) I share this with young ladies when I can. I could have stressed so much less in my life had I rested in God more during the difficult times. Bless you. I still walk with the Lord and I am sure He is not finished with me yet.
Reconcile with your husband if you can or stay single. God bless you sister
I love this for so many reasons but the last note Francis ended on is the best for me; I am no longer me but Christ; showing Him to everyone; dying to myself.
Thank you Lisa Chan! I cried hearing some things you said and read in scripture. God gave me what I needed to hear. I've been struggling with my role as a wife for a while now and unable to find direction. This was such a fantastic message on dying to yourself and being Christ-like. I believe the rest will fall into place. Thank you for having the courage to speak the truth!
Wow your wife is awesome! And so articulate and you both are fantastic examples of what we should be in Christ. Your wife is a great role model you should have her speak on these issues more, and the Oprah subject she got so serious, I could see it in her face, that was awesome. You both are so blessed, thank God for both of you.
The man I am endorsing and praying to swiftly take office is DR. BEN CARSON. I have watched him for a long time and always come away blessed. He has held his peace in such a dignified and patient way, when I knew he SAW...he OBSERVED as he SERVED.
I am single! And I love the way she talks: so clear, honest, and transparent. I can see she is talking from her heart. It makes me appreciate more my singleness gift and I even ask myself now if I really want to be married someday. God bless them!
i dont know i got into these videos but im happy i did ...deff hard to find people these days who are christ centered and preaches with a christ like heart i pray that he continues to preach this way that God continues to help him in all he does proud of these two! amen
Thanks for this message! I've always struggled w/ the idea of submission (was raised to be a strong independent woman), esp since society associates submission w/ negative connotations. However, it's good to see that submission does not equal enslavement. Through supporting our men's leadership (and thru their commitment and service to us), it can bring out our full potential to do God's work in this world. It's nice to see such a great example of a Christ-centered relationship in you two.
Tregnier52 being a strong independent woman is always an aspect of christianity... you need to find yourself first before you find yourself a man... a happiness and contentness in Christ first before a marriage or after one is what every human being, man or woman, should strive for... submission to others come when self is not first, a place where you don't worry about self and your self is given to the Lord to take care of, so you can focus on others and God... in other words you cant love and value one another as yourself if you don't love and value yourself... independence aspect should be I'm strong and content without the need of another person AS LONG AS I'm in Christ, then submission becomes a choice not a standard of measuring your worth.... but many people especially women don't understand this, and they become extremists of a sense, they either completely surrender to a dictatorship like relationship with a husband, or they fight for thw power to govern that was not initially given to her as per the intent of God on marriage
He saw our need and was moved to compassion.
I am sooo glad at 3:00 am this day I stumbled upon Francis Chan & his wife's talk in Christ-Centered Relationships Part One. I have been sooo blown away because both of them people have got the message soooo into their hearts. When I was in College I can remember listening to classes talking about how St. Paul hated women and marriage. They had whole classes about his hatred of women; along with the other disciples. And this was a catholic based college. I hooked on CHAN!!!!!
I think the whole point is to NOT get hooked on any man or woman but instead on Jesus Christ. Although Francis Chan has a great message he is human with weaknesses and can never be the answer to all your needs. God bless.
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Ahh, I love them. It makes me so happy to see a Godly man like Francis, he's such a great role model for young Christian men. ;)
Seeing what they did for Francis and the kids in Uganda, shows me the body that Christ was talking about
You both inspire me to be more like Jesus. Thank you
I appreciate the wisdom inherent in this instruction.
This series Part 1-3 are AWESOME! Love
Man this is a hard message to hear and apply. It is beautiful, and scary
never forget that Schrose. Your and awesome women of God for getting this without complaint. You hit it right on the head.
I love seeing how prayerful Francis Chan.
Thank you Francis and Lisa your message help me a lot .
I hope Brother Francis won't mind me using this venue...
I talked with President Trump about this perhaps now a week ago. I didn't want him caught unaware or embarrassed in any way. I am so grateful to him as are multitudes in Our Country. He was told I would be endorsing another for the presidency of the United States. He knew and I believe, is understanding. He is a great man.
Thank GOD for Pastors like Francis and Lisa Chan, for choosing to follow the BIBLE verbatim, without any following the Jonesis.
This is just so amazing and so hard. I find it so hard, SO hard to be submissive. While watching this video, GOD made me realize, if I'm not submissive to a husband, I won't be submissive to Him. This is such a hard message to swallow, but it's the message of JESUS and no matter how hard the message seems, He will take His children through it and help us all to obey. He wants us, we were chosen, and if this is what we want, He'll help us receive it.
I've never heard the passage about serving one's husband or even the idea of it. I had no idea! Why have I not come across this sooner?! Oh man.
The LORD is calling for HIS MIGHTY MEN of GOD...MEN TO MATCH HIS MOUNTAINS. Personally and with those with similar calling..we are called to CULTIVATE, NURTURE and PROTECT those called ORDAINED for Leadership.
what a tremendous example by Lisa in following Christ as a Godly wife :)
Your reward will be greatly increased Authority in this lifetime.
You can do it!
so encouraging. Praise God. the end had me tearing up
Do we have an opportunity to REPENT! FOR the KINGDOM of GOD is NEAR? HIS MERCIES ARE NEW EVERY MORNING...GREAT IS HIS FAITHFULNESS...Selah...
Praise God.. Good word. As a wife we are his help meet..
Such different approaches to faith! Thank you!
I wish they focused equally on couples who are not married yet, but either or is very helpful
This is so beautiful! Wonderful to find a community who can still stomach this message - having a hard time on my channel, lol!
Hahaha! I never thought I'd ever hear Francis Chan sing Shania Twain...amazing! And an awesome message!
Glad to see Francis finally use his gifting to bless the church! 21:30
Having watched Leadership in many venues and allowed to sit close with care, I began to observe the "trickle down effect" and how FAR REACHING...if the leader was healthy and wise...the ones under him were as well, whether a company, corporation or family. If they weren't in that number...it was devastating.
I don't agree with you completely Megan. My wife is nothing like this to me. But I still find encouragement to be Christ to her. I do constant actions of love. Hand made gifts to words. Nothing comes of it but I do it because I love her. It has been a revelation to me of what God does and did for me. We try to make mutual agreements but it comes easier when she is of a gentle heart about things. I except her side more and move forward with what we agreed. Most of the time its what She Wanted.
Wow that was such a powerful message and I’ve never heard that verse delivered in that way. She has such a gentle spirit about her. #Amazing
Wow!! This was GOOD!!!
wish more girls would watch this... more young Christians in general!
I wouldn't say being in the will of God is the safest place. bc people get killed. but being in the will of God will give you piece that you'll meet the father one day
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The will of God is the safest place even though people get killed. It is only the flesh that is dieing. No one can kill your spirit or soul or the God within you. God Bless you and your life for peace and a great relationship with God.
Chester Yee Thank you for these videos. They've changed the way I see marriage and submission and the family. ***** 53 cents *****
please don't EEVER delete these videos!
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So good teaching about marriage.
This word spoke more to me about how much more I need to be doing toward my wife. If my wife submits anything in my hands I feel almost overwhelmed not to mess it up for her trust in me. Its a heavy burden. We have our parts to play and it is reaffirming to a me as a man if she ever shows anything that resembles submission of trust. Ask do you Trust no matter the price?
Amazing simply amazing 🎁🙏🔥🎯
Thank you for shareing this message. I only became aware of Francis Chan yesterday...(where have I been?) . Biblical teaching, approachable temperment. Thanx again.
Its because its about control for a women, and men as well. Its easy to submit to God when there is no audible voice to tell you no when you don't agree.
"Oh so you just think I'm not a Godly wife, and I love Santa Claus and I hate God?"....HAHA!!! Priceless. Loved this.
Thank you for posting this :)
There is great Damage Control needed...i.e. an EMERGENCY because of failure of the CHURCH in time of need. Meditating this morning on Isaiah 58, 59, 60, 61, 62. Ephesians 4, Book of James...i.e.the CHURCH has an opportunity to set aside differences of Opinion and Line Up with the WORD of GOD...yes its "in there"...oh. and it's in more places than the above.
Amen Sister Lisa, I'm just dumb founded at every thing she said, is explicitly Bible.
Let's no forget the bible says to submit unto one another!!!! Yes the husband is the head, but 2 become 1 flesh and marriage needs to be a 2 ppl coming together as one and working TOGETHER! Yes wives submit to ur husbands and husband's submit to ur wives and ultimately follow your husband as he follows Christ, but submission does not mean the woman has no voice or part in decision making. Wake up ppl!
It does but understand that she was only speaking to the women
K andJesus in my home my husband is an unbeliever and I only have Christ alone to follow and I must be the example. It's def a struggle...
I agree
Best part was Francis with hair. Well not the best but definitely the most funny. 1 John 2:6 was the best!
lol. I love Francis Chan. But the music video he did was painful. lol! God bless that man.
Most good pastors know the Greek.
Amazing!
Provérbios 31:10 NVI
Uma esposa exemplar; feliz quem a encontrar! É muito mais valiosa que os rubis.
Proverbs 31:10 CEVUS06
A truly good wife is the most precious treasure a man can find!
Genuine question. The Santa Claus decoration story is a lovely example of thoughtful submission. I'm not married and still learning so if anyone who is married could offer their thoughts- what if the husband had brought home the Santa decoration and the wife was the one who thoughtfully didn't want the Santa as a home focal point?? If the husband listened to that thought and returned the Santa himself, would that be an instance of the wife overstepping her.role and taking undue leadership? Or could that be an issue that either party could appropriately bring up and discuss? Or should the wife deal with feeling uncomfortable able the Santa because her husband thought it'd be an appropriate decoration and he's ultimately in charge of the house? Thanks, and God bless!
I am not married, but I just wanted to clarify the thought Lisa shared in this video. As she mentioned, the submission of wives does not mean to say "yes, sir" to everything without a say. It is rather a "here is how I think on this matter, but I will follow your decision, even if it does not coincide with my thoughts". She's not telling you to not have any say in the household, is what I'm trying to say. If the husband hears the say of the wife laid out in front of him and "he decides" to return the Santa himself, that is the influence that the wife is having upon her husband as his "helpmate".
Amen...
So so good. Yes Santa should not be on the shelf.
Unless something is an outright sin it is sinful not to respect and submit.
1 Peter 3 Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they see your respectful and pure conduct.
If your husband is not submitting himself in the same way to God then he is sinning. Do not sin because your husband is sinning or being difficult. instead be an example of submission and respect.
Thank you.
thank you.
IT'S HARD TO BE SOMEONE'S BEST FRIEND TO MAKE IT EASY FOR THEM TO BE YOURS???
FRANCIS PROBABLY WOULD'NT BE HALF THE MAN OF GOD WITHOUT LISA---A GODLY WOMAN. TOO BAD THERE IS NOT ONE LIKE HER FOR ALL GODLY MEN
hehe i loved the video
I love the series and love the Chans, but your comment makes me question... verbatim like in original Greek? All the English translations are somewhat interpretation of the translators... so Bible verbatim will be.. just in original Greek which we do not really have anymore. or I guess refer to the oldest manuscript we have.
If a wife were ever to be so submissive to her husband, how much more should a husband submit to God in all things and serve there wives? Husbands submit to God, Wives submit to husbands like Christ and Children submit to there parents. Submission is a learned trait. Most children have to see it first. If my kids are rebellious, Why? Servants heart/submissive heart must be taught by example.
How do I give to the ministry of Francis (the visitor)? He mentioned clothes, homes, wheelchairs, food, so many needs that are being met and yet are unmet. I want to know how to get involved?
I do not understand why you are mad. They said pretty much the same thing you did, to follow the will of God and be like Christ and submit. And they said that it does not only apply to marriages, but in general and people with authority over us....
God is good :)
The word submit is not found in Greek or Hebrew It's an English only word, the word is adapt - wives adapt to your husbands ways, this should free you guys up a bit as all anyone needs to do is go look up stuff for yourself - men need to get direction from God for their family's and not be so insecure that they feel they need to control you to get what they want
+Angela Andrews Sister Angela, thank you for your post. You seem to truly be concerned with disciplining others for Christ. I think that is wonderful. I was curious where you got the information about a better translation being "adapt" instead of "submit." The greek word hupotasso is the word that is used in Eph 5:22. Strong's Lexicon defines hupotasso as, "to subordinate; reflexively to obey: - be under obedience (obedient), put under, subdue unto, (be, make) subject (to, unto), be (put) in subjection (to, under), submit self unto." Thayer Defines hupotasso as, "1) to arrange under, to subordinate 2) to subject, put in subjection 3) to subject one’s self, obey 4) to submit to one’s control 5) to yield to one’s admonition or advice 6) to obey, be subject." Are you getting the definition from somewhere else than either of these 2 lexicons? If you could point me in the right direction, I would be very grateful. Thanks again...God Bless Sister.
I studied in Athens Greece for over 5 years.
Submission does not mean "to obey." The Greek word for "obey/obedience" is hupakoe, which means to listen to or to harken to. Submission (hupotasso) means to get under and lift up, or to put in order. It does not mean obedience. Gundry well defines this equalizing principle as a sort of voluntary raising everyone else to your own personal level of importance and worthiness.(2) It is interesting to note that other languages further reinforce this concept. For example, Kluane Spake, writes, "The German translation of that word, sich unterstellen, means to place oneself at a disposition of another." It can also be a military term referring to the equal sharing of tasks, to support, to fulfill one's part of the assignment." Believe me, I understand people want to believe what they want to but the term was not intended as what western society as depicted its a scheme .....Try looking it up in Hebrew it doesn't even exists- Good luck!
Sister Angela, thank you for your response. You definitely have much more Greek training that I do. Did you study Koine or Classical Greek? Maybe that is where the difference in definition is coming in. Either way, thanks again for taking the time to help me out. I am a little confused though, in your first post you said the "submit" (hupotasso in the Greek) should be translated as "adapt" instead of "submit." This is the main reason I responded. In your most resent post, you said that hupotasso means to "get under", or "put in order." So, does it mean all three of these? Also, James 4:7 uses hupotasso also. It is translated in almost every translation as "submit." and it says, "Submit yourselves therefore to God." Are you saying the correct translation should be "get under God" or "Adapt to God"? The only reason I am so curious about this is because, if you are correct, and every translator is wrong, then your translation changes the meaning of 49 verses in the Bible where hupotasso is used. Every time hupotasso was used, it was translated to either, "obey", "submit", "subdue" or "subject." Do you have a different scholarly reference or a lexicon that you are using? Any help would be much appreciated. By the way, submission is not a bad thing, as some make it out to be. There are times I submit to my wife and times when she submits to me. The main idea is that one is not so full of pride that they are unwilling to put someone before themselves. Jesus gave us the example, he put everyone before himself. Also, why is it that many women try to find a different word for "submit" and downgrade it to "support" or something like that when the next verse tells the man to give his life for his wife as Christ did for the Church. If a wife wont even "submit" to her husband, then why does she deserve a husband that would die for her? That is the story of the Gospel. We don't deserve God, but Jesus died for us anyway, while we were still sinners. Praise God!
Brother David, I'm not sure who you were talking to on this post, but the definition she gives in the video is correct. In the post I made I was just trying to be nice to Sister Angela, but the fact remains that the best translation is "submit." Please let me know if you have any questions. God bless you!
kkk that video was amazing!!
O Lord have mercy!! That video he made for her!!!! I couldn't stop laughing....he needs help, this man!
Letting your wife let go of what God called her to do as a worship leader and being a slave to u what u want to do is not Bible! " For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."- Ephesians 2:10.
We all have a calling ( make and female). It's not a help-mate is it a partnership to create a family and serve God together.
lolllllllll wow that video
How do you submit and be a good wife to husband when husband is a sinner and verbal abuser...are wife supposed to stay quiet and obey and allow husband continue the abuse
Surf Sand
“Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. Do not let your adornment be merely outward-arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel- rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.”
I Peter 3:1-6
Surf Sand I would also encourage you to talk to a pastor or counselor. While it is good to be an example to your husband, but there can be harmful circumstances that you should avoid. So, find a pastor and talk to them and then listen to them. Afterward, I would suggest finding Christian community.
Probably a lot of the ubiquitous confusion comes in poor translations of the Bible. "Be subject to" better conveys the grammatical nuance of the Greek PASSIVE voice Ephesians 5:24). It’s a state of being; being “subject to” your husband is like being “subject to” gravity. The word “submit” implies choice/volition on the part of the “submitter”. "Be submissive to" and has caused untold grief and strife (since most marriages don't work quite as well as Lisa seems to assume they do).
I just do not get it. That's the e.g of submission?? if my Husband (or if I were a man, my Wife) offered me a reason for not wanting or wanting something and I sit and think that ok fine this makes sense and is of God, then I would go ahead with doing it. If my Husband told me to do some crap then no I won't do it, the idea isn't who it's coming from, the idea is THE IDEA! ugggh, once it is of God then there goes your answer. It has nothing to do with your Husband saying it. Learn the truth.
21:43! "baby [you're] hot productions"
The goal is to be like Jesus so wives submit to their husbands because Jesus submitted to the Father? But, actually, we're ALL called to be like Jesus. So, that would be mutual submission, not wifely submission. Also, Francis claims that "no one else acts like that" at the end when he's praising Lisa for being so submissive...but history shows us that women generally give up their dreams for their husbands way more than the other way around, so how will submission get attention?
Does this apply to same sex couples?
estuchedepeluche No, because that’s unbiblical.
dear goodness that video! :D haha....so BAD!
cweb1988 haha I watched that at least 5 times... crinchworthy... but at least he cares about her right 😂😅😅😅
We Christ-persons Must stop splitting hairs.
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This is so sad that such godly people believe this.
What? (not disagreeing, just asking specifically what you disagree with)
Yeah, I'm wondering the same
She is not accurate,Men often do not soften to humility and love if THEIR walk is shakey.They abuse.Thats just the truth.This message is good if both are Christians and have a comitted relationship.Otherwise it is SUPER dangerous.Especially in a narrow minded culture of male and female.