Jai Gurudev. Mostly I don't react but sometimes I do react. Thanks Dinesh bhaiyya for telling me how to deal with such people. I was upset for few days because of rude behaviour of someone close but through you, Guruji gave me this message. I am grateful to you and Guruji
In some situation we just hv to ignore and move on...or sometime even reply back to them if its necessary.... but we should manage as much we can😊 Even I do face the same issues with my Team Lead in my ofc since a year.... I followed these steps...nothing worked...hence started shutting him down😁 now he beaves natural🤣 Hence you should take ur call at the right time😊 Coz If a snake gonna bite us...we need to take necessary steps to be safe as per the situations...r8?😊 Jai Gurudev!!! Tkcr😊
Your explanation and solution showed me that I have at least come half way or more. Now I must work on the remaining 25 percent...with 2 important 'Rs' with a Smile: Response instead of React.
Wow..This answers a lot of my worries and questions for so many months. I truly believe that sudarshan-kriya helped me a lot in handling rude behavior, however, I will now practice what you taught.
There's a elderly relative, who has been rude. For 20 yrs, I have still shown back love, stood by their side in times of health issues. Scorn sarcasm still continues. I saw a clip of Gurudev, to deal arrogant, rude people. 1st , ignore , be compassionate seeing lack of knowledge. 2nd, ignore again , smile n move on, move away, if possible convey how it hurts. If yet , it continues, deal it... exprssing them what it is to be rude n arrogant. Yes ,it's a learning how not to treat Someone or talk to...
It's not your responsibility to cure other people's narcissism. Isn't it your narcissism to think that you have the ability to prevent others from being one? :)
JGD. SOME PERSONS ARE RUDE ALWAYS EVEN WE LET GO FOR MANY TIMES SHOWN COMPASSION TO THEM . ALWAYS HOW TO HANDLE EVEN THOW WE R DOING KRIYA MEDITATION KNOWLEDE STILL WE HAVE SOME CAPACITY . SOME PEOPLE HAVE NATURE .
Ya i need this because I m becoming more rude even to my mom also i know i m doing wrong but my financial and angry problems i m trying to solve but still I m v v hesitated
Hii R V S FARMS How r u now..?? We have online pan India meditation festival by art of living ...it would be great if you do that dear... I vl put details here ...u can register
my husband is very rude to me and I use to give him broad smile try to make him happy but then to he wasn't change. He always pointed out me and scold me by saying that stop behaving like a kid. He says that it's look to me that I married who is still studying in 12th standard not a M.sc. maths. what should I do to make him happy
True this knowledge is selectively applicable and can't be applied in real world situations. When people really close to us behave rude and insensitive, a broad smile doesn't do shit. It encourages them to go further harsher, they think they dump their emotional garbage on us and we cant really walk away from them. This knowledge doesn't helo
Ha Megha ....Get him a Happiness course done online dear...somehow skillfully... I hope he gets knowledge of Sudarshan kriya and progress in a better way
Knowledge Sheet 78 : How to deal with Rude Behaviour 28 Nov 1996 Thiruvananthapuram - Kerala,India What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you? 1. Get upset 2. React rudely back 3. Get frustrated 4. Run-away from and avoid the person or the situation 5. Blame the person 6. Preach to the person None of these will in any way strengthen you. Then what are the options? See rude behavior in this light: 1. It indicates the intensity of their commitment 2. It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity 3. It projects the up-bringing of the person 4. It indicates a behavioral pattern 5. It shows lack of knowledge 6. It shows lack of observation of one's own mind and its sensations 7. It shows you behavior to avoid 8. It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness 9. It strengthens your mind 10. It unconditions the love that you are The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don't get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you. NEWS FLASH Guruji came from Delhi for an overnight stay at the Ashram and left the next morning to Kerala. Organizers in Delhi as well as in Cochin (Trivandrum and Trichur) had experienced very clearly the non-doership of the big event. Everything fell in its space at the right moment as always. Enthusiastic devotees in Cochin renovated their homes. After Cochin, Guruji rushed to the colorful Trichur (In Trichur as usual there was chaos and asana-snatch). Excellent team work and elaborate arrangements were appreciated by thousands who came to the Satsang. The Kerala-style decorated elephants with umbrellas and the ballkas dressed in traditional attire carrying lights and flowers were a spectacular welcome. Many people shared their amazing healing experiences. Then the whole troop moved to Trivandrum, the town of infinity. The king of Kerala received Guruji at the Senate Hall with a packed audience of 4000 people. Colorful umbrellas, elephants, the traditional horns and drums and the Vedic chanting filled the air. People were enraptured for a three and a half hour program. The next morning newspapers were filled with the news of the Art of Living Satsang. Jai Guru Dev
If we always accept such people they continue to treat you in the same way. If we always choose to be the sink, garbage will always be dumped on us. And this also encourages other person to continue treating you like shit. We should accept people as they are but if we don't make them better in their behavior, we just being a punching bag forever.
U need to very very thorough in your sadhna , that's the time when this knowledge can be applied , actually it gets applied automatically , Sadhna includes Kriya , sehej and Seva ATLEAST
I think the smile and the sweetness of Guruji is Shining through you🙏💜🤍🤓😃
Jai Gurudev. Mostly I don't react but sometimes I do react. Thanks Dinesh bhaiyya for telling me how to deal with such people. I was upset for few days because of rude behaviour of someone close but through you, Guruji gave me this message. I am grateful to you and Guruji
Its easier said than done. My brother is troubling me from past four years. I practice what you said. I even pray for him. Results zero
In some situation we just hv to ignore and move on...or sometime even reply back to them if its necessary.... but we should manage as much we can😊
Even I do face the same issues with my Team Lead in my ofc since a year.... I followed these steps...nothing worked...hence started shutting him down😁 now he beaves natural🤣
Hence you should take ur call at the right time😊
Coz If a snake gonna bite us...we need to take necessary steps to be safe as per the situations...r8?😊
Jai Gurudev!!! Tkcr😊
"Thank you for teaching me this" 🙏❤️❤️
Your explanation and solution showed me that I have at least come half way or more. Now I must work on the remaining 25 percent...with 2 important 'Rs' with a Smile:
Response instead of React.
Other person's rudeness always hurts.and this is the truth.
What the truth is we are less an empty sink and more a full garbage...Expecting to be empty rather than just being....
Yes.... Acceptance or absorbing those harsh behaviour comes when guru connection is there . Jai guruDev.
I always come nd watch this, when someone is rude to me, and truly it changed my life a lot 😇😇
Thanks Dinesh Sir😇.
Jay gurudev🙏🙏🙏🌻
Wow..This answers a lot of my worries and questions for so many months. I truly believe that sudarshan-kriya helped me a lot in handling rude behavior, however, I will now practice what you taught.
So nice explanation about rudeness. Giving maturity. Thank you so much Dinesh bhaiya.
Jaigurdev 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you. Jai Gurudev 🙏 It is very difficult for me however I will try my best to implement.
Lovely smile and explanation...my heart goes big hearing you
Beautiful knowledge
There's a elderly relative, who has been rude. For 20 yrs, I have still shown back love, stood by their side in times of health issues.
Scorn sarcasm still continues.
I saw a clip of Gurudev, to deal arrogant, rude people.
1st , ignore , be compassionate seeing lack of knowledge.
2nd, ignore again , smile n move on, move away, if possible convey how it hurts.
If yet , it continues, deal it...
exprssing them what it is to be rude n arrogant.
Yes ,it's a learning how not to treat Someone or talk to...
Too much acceptance of rudeness on our part also perpetuates narcissistic behaviour in others.
Haha if he is foolish then he will be nacissistic then it's this problem
It's not your responsibility to cure other people's narcissism. Isn't it your narcissism to think that you have the ability to prevent others from being one? :)
Jai Gurudev
This has shown me a new perspective ..... Never thought about rude behaviour like this....
I'm glad that you liked it. Thank you!
Thank you sir ✨️
Joy gurudav bhai.
Beautiful knowledge for daily life
Thank you bhaiya.
JGD. SOME PERSONS ARE RUDE ALWAYS EVEN WE LET GO FOR MANY TIMES SHOWN COMPASSION TO THEM . ALWAYS HOW TO HANDLE EVEN THOW WE R DOING KRIYA MEDITATION KNOWLEDE STILL WE HAVE SOME CAPACITY . SOME PEOPLE HAVE NATURE .
👌👌 Jay Gurudev 🙏💗🌸🍒🍫
Wow jai Gurudev 🙏🏼
Thank you 🙂
Love You GuruDev...:)
Ya i need this because I m becoming more rude even to my mom also i know i m doing wrong but my financial and angry problems i m trying to solve but still I m v v hesitated
Hii R V S FARMS
How r u now..??
We have online pan India meditation festival by art of living ...it would be great if you do that dear...
I vl put details here ...u can register
Thanks so much
Thank u ! Soo much !
😃😃thanks jai guru Dev
thank you....jgd
namrata sonawane right
Very true❤️
Thank you so much bhaiya..
What if a person is behaving rudely with intent to get away with unreasonable demands.?
Jai guru Dev 🙏😍
🤩🤩🤩
my husband is very rude to me and I use to give him broad smile try to make him happy but then to he wasn't change. He always pointed out me and scold me by saying that stop behaving like a kid. He says that it's look to me that I married who is still studying in 12th standard not a M.sc. maths. what should I do to make him happy
True this knowledge is selectively applicable and can't be applied in real world situations. When people really close to us behave rude and insensitive, a broad smile doesn't do shit. It encourages them to go further harsher, they think they dump their emotional garbage on us and we cant really walk away from them.
This knowledge doesn't helo
Ha Megha ....Get him a Happiness course done online dear...somehow skillfully... I hope he gets knowledge of Sudarshan kriya and progress in a better way
Jai gurudev
🙏
❤🙏
Knowledge Sheet 78 : How to deal with Rude Behaviour
28 Nov 1996 Thiruvananthapuram - Kerala,India
What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you?
1. Get upset
2. React rudely back
3. Get frustrated
4. Run-away from and avoid the person or the situation
5. Blame the person
6. Preach to the person
None of these will in any way strengthen you.
Then what are the options? See rude behavior in this light:
1. It indicates the intensity of their commitment
2. It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity
3. It projects the up-bringing of the person
4. It indicates a behavioral pattern
5. It shows lack of knowledge
6. It shows lack of observation of one's own mind and its sensations
7. It shows you behavior to avoid
8. It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
9. It strengthens your mind
10. It unconditions the love that you are
The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don't get upset. Just give back a broad smile.
If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.
NEWS FLASH
Guruji came from Delhi for an overnight stay at the Ashram and left the next morning to Kerala. Organizers in Delhi as well as in Cochin (Trivandrum and Trichur) had experienced very clearly the non-doership of the big event. Everything fell in its space at the right moment as always. Enthusiastic devotees in Cochin renovated their homes. After Cochin, Guruji rushed to the colorful Trichur (In Trichur as usual there was chaos and asana-snatch). Excellent team work and elaborate arrangements were appreciated by thousands who came to the Satsang. The Kerala-style decorated elephants with umbrellas and the ballkas dressed in traditional attire carrying lights and flowers were a spectacular welcome. Many people shared their amazing healing experiences. Then the whole troop moved to Trivandrum, the town of infinity. The king of Kerala received Guruji at the Senate Hall with a packed audience of 4000 people. Colorful umbrellas, elephants, the traditional horns and drums and the Vedic chanting filled the air. People were enraptured for a three and a half hour program. The next morning newspapers were filled with the news of the Art of Living Satsang.
Jai Guru Dev
Fine idea
🙏🏻 jai gurudev
+Tanuja Chauhan :)
Chinese－Traditional(繁體)
每週知識78. 如何應對無禮的舉動
1996/12/5 印度 喀若拉
有人對你無禮時，你會怎樣呢？
1.心煩意亂
2.粗魯地反擊
3.感覺受挫
4.逃走，並避免遇上對方或相同情況
5.責備對方
6.向對方說教
然而用這些方法都無法使你變得強壯。那麼你還有什麼選擇呢？你可以就以下觀點來看待他人的無禮舉動。
1.那顯示他們罪行的強度
2.那顯示他們的壓力及感覺的遲鈍
3.那投射出這人的教養
4.那顯示其行為的模式
5.那表示缺乏觀照本身的心理與感覺
6.那告訴你該避免的舉止
7.那是你欣然接受的機會，並消化掉這無禮的舉動
8.那增強你心智的能力
9.那使你本然，無條件的愛流露出來
下次當有人對你無禮時，確定你並不會因此懊惱。只要報以哈哈大笑如果你能消化掉這無禮舉動，就沒有任何事情能動搖你了。
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Chinese－Simplified(簡體)
每周知识78. 如何应对无礼的举动
1996/12/5 印度 喀若拉
有人对你无礼时，你会怎样呢？
1.心烦意乱
2.粗鲁地反击
3.感觉受挫
4.逃走、并避免遇上对方或相同情况
5.责备对方
6.向对方说教
然而用这些方法都无法使你变得强壮。那么你还有什么选择呢？你可以就以下观点来看待他人的无礼举动。
1. 那显示他们罪行的强度
2.那显示他们的压力及感觉的迟钝
3.那投射出这人的教养
4.那显示其行为的模式
5.那表示缺乏观照本身的心理与感觉
6.那告诉你该避免的举止
7.那是你欣然接受的机会，并消化掉这无礼的举动
8.那增强你心智的能力
9.那使你本然、无条件的爱流露出来
下次当有人对你无礼时，确定你并不会因此懊恼。只要报以哈哈大笑。如果你能消化掉这无礼举动，就没有任何事情能动摇你了。
too good..
Good one🙏
thanks 😇
Jgd🙏
Good
Tnk u
Still not clear.a rude person can go any extend.the evil don't have limitations.and the evil take the advantage of the limitations of a good person.
🙏❤🤗
If we always accept such people they continue to treat you in the same way. If we always choose to be the sink, garbage will always be dumped on us. And this also encourages other person to continue treating you like shit. We should accept people as they are but if we don't make them better in their behavior, we just being a punching bag forever.
🙏😘
Don't Deal
I used to smile
in coming lectures r u going to tell how to sleep and drink ??? Funny advertisement video.
Ram also couldn't follow this path.Ramayana is the proof of it.
U need to very very thorough in your sadhna , that's the time when this knowledge can be applied , actually it gets applied automatically , Sadhna includes Kriya , sehej and Seva ATLEAST
but by giving smile on one's rudeness isn't show how shamless n mad v r
Jai gurudev