15 Things I Don’t Buy Anymore (Minimalism & Saving Money)

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  • @ElAgustin
    @ElAgustin  Рік тому +19

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    • @stephaniegoodwin6774
      @stephaniegoodwin6774 9 місяців тому +1

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    • @Freebirdpr
      @Freebirdpr 6 місяців тому

      holaaaa; mucha gente cuando eres minimalista y aconsejas los beneficios. Ven tu felicidad y tranquilidad en el dia a dia. la gente se molestan cuando ven un minimalista viviendo feliz con menos.

  • @PixelShade
    @PixelShade 10 місяців тому +132

    I realize that I am probably more frugal than I think. I don't own a car, I bicycle everywhere (occassionally I take the train/buss), I don't have any subscription services. In terms of clothes I only buy what I need and each garnment will have the following lifecycle: during parties or at work > casual clothing when hanging out with friends/family > home clothing > sleeping wear > cleaning cloths/rags or recycling. Some of my clothes are 24 years old, and they have just now been downgraded to sleeping wear. Many at my age want to live in big houses, I chose to live in a studio apartment here in Sweden. Total monthly spending for me is

    • @Petra44YT
      @Petra44YT 6 місяців тому +3

      Nah. I don't agree with using very old clothes for cleaning. I have a problem to motivaty myself to clean anyway, so I buy the cleaning rags with the nicest colours I can find. Pink, green, blue, as long as it is shouting "use me", it's all good. The same goes for detergents. I don't usually buy the cheapest ones. First, I need to smell them, and only when I like the smell will I buy them. Motivation is key. 🙂

    • @carolyncilento5074
      @carolyncilento5074 5 місяців тому

    • @ShaunJoyce-y1c
      @ShaunJoyce-y1c 5 місяців тому +2

      Sounds good dude here in the uk a bottle of salad cream is 4 grand

    • @IrmaScott-u6o
      @IrmaScott-u6o 5 місяців тому

      Me too planet fitness ❤🎉I love this such good advice ❤❤❤

    • @ira_herself997
      @ira_herself997 4 місяці тому

      Try cotton clothes for sleeping in. It changed my life.

  • @lc8119
    @lc8119 Рік тому +68

    I am supportive of buying used furniture except couches or mattresses. I’ve heard too many bedbug horror stories.

    • @maxinef6654
      @maxinef6654 11 місяців тому +2

      Totally agree with that! 🥺

  • @juliaw.8
    @juliaw.8 Рік тому +57

    I had always worn cheap glasses and a few months ago bought expensive eyeglasses. What a huge difference! I will never repurchase cheap ones.

    • @whiteviper1979
      @whiteviper1979 11 місяців тому +6

      Yup that's one thing all never ever SKIMP on!

    • @vincentcrowley5196
      @vincentcrowley5196 6 місяців тому +1

      Have you considered laser eye surgery?
      Im in the UK and wore glasses for nearly 30 years.
      I had to pay ,£175 a month with a 24 month payment plan , about 4200 but i dont regret it.

  • @krislee5343
    @krislee5343 5 місяців тому +17

    Totally agree about food delivery! It's ridiculous not to go pick up your own food, let alone pay the extra fees.

    • @willchristie2650
      @willchristie2650 4 місяці тому

      I think of food delivery service as valid for elderly people and others who are basically shut ins due to health issues. Otherwise, it is just indulgence.

  • @eddiestilll
    @eddiestilll Рік тому +92

    i fully agree with the "new phones" point. my phone model is over 5 years old now and i still plan on keeping it until it stops functioning or breaks. people never understand when i tell them it's servicing me just fine and it's still as enjoyable as day 1. they always try to convince me of "reasons" to upgrade, like "slowdown" (no, it still works just as fast as day 1), "apps not working anymore (no, i can still download all the apps i need and haven't ran into 1 app i couldn't yet), or "degraded battery life" (no, i still have all day battery. sure, it's not as good as day 1 but it's like 90% of what it was on day 1)

    • @shougsshoug
      @shougsshoug 8 місяців тому +1

      You are exactly like me

    • @Summerbreeze537
      @Summerbreeze537 6 місяців тому +1

      I kept my 2g until I couldn't get service anymore.

    • @TheArchitectfella
      @TheArchitectfella 6 місяців тому

      It's about security and software updates it's not that simple.The phone can be used for how long as u want but the problem is the security.U have to be carefully what site you visit and what u clicking in . I can use the phone for 10 years but will I be secure with my data and all those passwords?

    • @heathco90
      @heathco90 6 місяців тому +2

      I used my iPhone for years. I just recently upgraded because it finally went out on me. I went from a
      6SE to a 15 and probably won’t buy another until the iPhone 22 or something like that.

    • @jamestkirkcameron9189
      @jamestkirkcameron9189 5 місяців тому +1

      You can also just change out the old battery for a new one for very cheap, at one of those phone repair shops, instead of buying a whole new phone. Not a lot of people do this or even know about it. Afterwards the phone holds a charge like its brand new again.

  • @mysticalmisfit1332
    @mysticalmisfit1332 Рік тому +52

    “I don’t want some weird mechanic touching my car.”🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sophieoshaughnessy9469
      @sophieoshaughnessy9469 6 місяців тому +2

      That’s just weird. It’s gonna happen anyway.

    • @IRLSuperb
      @IRLSuperb 6 місяців тому

      @@sophieoshaughnessy9469 in my personal opinion, dealing with multiple cars in my life, the best decision is to save and buy a brand new car base model, and keep it until the wheels fall off. You get the benefit of having a functional vehicle for more than a decade, and only minor repairs that you can do yourself for the following decade after that, so you could theoretically avoid a mechanic for more than 20 years if you do that. And I have seen anything that can go wrong to a car.

    • @VoxWodler
      @VoxWodler 6 місяців тому

      But the weird mechanic knows cars - he sees 1000s. I dunno bro. @@sophieoshaughnessy9469

    • @PhotoSlideshowmacai_
      @PhotoSlideshowmacai_ 5 місяців тому +3

      Over protective 😂😂😂

    • @melesefesi6955
      @melesefesi6955 5 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Sharperthanu1
    @Sharperthanu1 Рік тому +167

    There's something even cheaper than driving: Walking and occasionally using public transit.

    • @cheapsoot1981
      @cheapsoot1981 11 місяців тому +3

      Word.

    • @gymdilettante8407
      @gymdilettante8407 11 місяців тому +2

      That's what I do

    • @jsmith3946
      @jsmith3946 10 місяців тому +27

      @@gymdilettante8407 not if you live in the middle of no where like I do

    • @MrAnderson2845
      @MrAnderson2845 10 місяців тому +17

      ​@jsmith3946 For real. Even in the suburbs good luck with that. The irony is the people that can walk everywhere live in extremely expensive areas lol

    • @Ravenelvenlady
      @Ravenelvenlady 10 місяців тому +7

      As New Yorker I ONLY walk and use public transportation.

  • @annyer262
    @annyer262 Рік тому +33

    My dad taught me how to do an oil change when I was 15. Then I worked out how to do brake pads, then spark plugs, wires, carb overhauls, then engine overhauls. Then I learn to paint cars. There is not much I cannot do to a car, it is not that hard.

    • @Taichigirl311
      @Taichigirl311 11 місяців тому +2

      Great job I wish I could do all that👍

    • @Savvynomad225
      @Savvynomad225 6 місяців тому

      Do you replace tires by yourself? 😂

    • @annyer262
      @annyer262 6 місяців тому

      @@Savvynomad225 yes with tire irons soap, bead sealer and air compressor. It is not that hard. I might upgrade to the manual tire changer from harbor freight one of these days!
      I cannot do wheel alignment,. although I am told that there is a redneck way to do home wheel alignments (toe in) on live axle rwd cars!

    • @Kitiwake
      @Kitiwake 6 місяців тому

      ​@@Savvynomad225it can be done with tyre levers but it's a birch. Much easier with machinery.

    • @ScorpionMaiden75
      @ScorpionMaiden75 5 місяців тому

      That's so cool. My dad taught me to work on my own car when I was 16. I used to help work on cars with my grandpa, uncles and cousins during the summer.
      I found out that there are books on what the codes mean for newer cars and you can get the same machine the mechanics have that tells you the codes for what's wrong with your vehicle.
      You're so right that it's not that hard once you learn how.
      💜💕🦋🔥👑🔥🦋💕💜

  • @monishthomasp
    @monishthomasp Рік тому +76

    Fully agree.. Infact you don’t even have to buy used phones - I bought a iPhone 11 when the 13 came out - and it was a brand new one which cost me just half. Dealers want to push old model stocks off their shelf ASAP. This has been my policy always with phones. ❤

    • @schuylergeery-zink1923
      @schuylergeery-zink1923 9 місяців тому +4

      Same! I had my previous iPhone 5 forever and then replaced it with a 6 and had that forever until I accidentally ran over it with my car… uhhh it still worked kind of bc it was in a life proof case 😂 but eventually it glitched out and by that point the cheapest model I could get was an iPhone 11 which I still have

    • @JJ_house
      @JJ_house 9 місяців тому +5

      Fir minimalist, you don't even need AN IPHONE to begin with.

    • @monishthomasp
      @monishthomasp 9 місяців тому +2

      @@JJ_house Well you do need a phone for communication so better to use one with which you’re comfortable rather than get used to one which you have to learn to use.

    • @JoATTech
      @JoATTech 8 місяців тому +1

      Same, but got 13mini when 15 been announced.

    • @vincenzorossi4828
      @vincenzorossi4828 7 місяців тому +3

      My phone is samsung . 4 years old. 115 euro. Working fine. I keep it.

  • @elizabethm5422
    @elizabethm5422 10 місяців тому +58

    There are two things I spend on. I also spend on glasses for the same reasons. I also do not buy cheap shoes. My job requires professional dress. Life is too short for uncomfortable, painful shoes.

  • @jennesont4791
    @jennesont4791 10 місяців тому +20

    Getting rid of used oil is not easy in our area, so the drive through oil change places (with a coupon) work out to be a negligible price difference and a way better deal from the driving around and frustration levels

  • @HectorLopez-wc8fx
    @HectorLopez-wc8fx 11 місяців тому +18

    Don Agustin, love your videos. The short clip showing you from behind as you were squatting reveals medial collapse of the left knee (resulting in a slight outward flick of the heel). I'm a physical therapist and see this quite often. The medial collapse as you lowered means your left hip abductors (chiefly your TFL and glute medius muscles) are weak. That could lead to problems down the road. Just Google or UA-cam "Hip abductors exercises." I'm sure you'll find plenty of exercises that will fix the problem. A little payback for all your great content. Keep it coming!

  • @RideRedRacer
    @RideRedRacer 7 місяців тому +3

    i have been using the same Galaxy S6 edge+ for 8 years now. phone is in perfect condition and still using original charge cable. i dont understand why people buy new phones

  • @danspencer4235
    @danspencer4235 Рік тому +6

    I have a feeling that the people who would benefit most from your messages will not listen. That's fine, because you are helping the people who deserve it.

  • @AmericanWears
    @AmericanWears Рік тому +27

    I have a hard time convincing myself to buy anything, what I have still works.

  • @seaneverett3001
    @seaneverett3001 11 місяців тому +6

    Living in a place where there’s lots of snow in the winter, I have found that Cross Country skiing is a fantastic relatively inexpensive outdoor activity. Sure, you CAN go all out and get expensive skate skis and buy a bunch of fancy equipment, however, a new pair of decent entry level Nordic skis with boots and poles are only around a few hundred dollars. I even found an older (still in great shape) full set of gear for 45 bucks at a local thrift shop. A season pass for a WA state Sno-park is about 50 bucks. After that, you can XC ski for basically free!

  • @richardackley1823
    @richardackley1823 11 місяців тому +13

    I love this video. Thank you Austin. I ordered the book. Can’t afford the therapy at the moment, but I might arrange something in future. Heading to Target to buy a pack of Tshirts. You’re very helpful I’ve got a lot of anxiety now. I love your gorgeous eyes, demeanor. I’m retiring right now, trying to minimalize everything. Appreciate your help. [Seattle, WA]

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    @ryanwilliams989 6 місяців тому +81

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  • @marcokeller3575
    @marcokeller3575 11 місяців тому +15

    THANK YOU for making the point about quality eyeglasses. You get what you pay for. I'm an Optician and I get people coming in all the time with stuff they bought on line that falls apart of is made incorrectly. You can buy quality and a decent price, you just have to shop around a bit. Particularly when you get older and need Progressive (no line bifocal) lenses. There is a huge quality difference between cheap ones and good ones. Good ones work so much better and are easier to adapt to. Cheap ones are usually old lens technology. Would you buy a brick sized cell phone? then why would you buy an old technology lens that limits your field of vision? Rant over

    • @thekagifret
      @thekagifret 10 місяців тому

      @adawon99about 2 years before a standard eye check is usually recommended:)

    • @theminicooper
      @theminicooper 9 місяців тому

      Of course an Optician would favor buying glasses in a shop as opposed to online! 😋

  • @joanaw.1379
    @joanaw.1379 Рік тому +17

    The last thing is true. I bought so many clothes and shoes with low quality, after 2 years or less they were old and I had to replace them. I just started buying good quality clothes and shoes from thrift stores. I could find new items still in tags for less than $15. Most leather shoes and coats, cashmere and even wool sweaters! I heard once someone said that we are too poor to buy inexpensive things!

    • @LearnMoreDoBetter
      @LearnMoreDoBetter 10 місяців тому +1

      I heard a different version of that saying: I am not that much rich to afford buying inexpensive things .

    • @christinaedwards5084
      @christinaedwards5084 8 місяців тому +3

      Two things I never skimp on.
      Shoes.
      Mattresses.
      I’m going to spend at least 1/3 (8hrs) of everyday in both of these things.
      You want good quality.
      A lumpy mattress and Ill fitting shoes have such a negative impact on you.

    • @tarablue4472
      @tarablue4472 6 місяців тому

      @@christinaedwards5084 I bought my mattress with entire bed set used from a friend who had it for only one year. That was over 20 years ago and the mattress and box spring are still like new. One of the best $700 I ever spent. I have equipped them with bedbug proof covers.

    • @Dream-bebe
      @Dream-bebe 5 місяців тому

      @@christinaedwards5084I don’t skimp on anything at all!

  • @wealthyspaces1131
    @wealthyspaces1131 5 місяців тому +5

    Agreed about the smells however good quality essential oils transforms a space into a sanctuary 😊

    • @AF_1892
      @AF_1892 4 місяці тому

      I enjoy smells of a freshly polished wood floor, or full detox/clay bar/wax on my 20 yr old pickup. He lives in the garage.

  • @biggbeefer
    @biggbeefer Рік тому +34

    I completely agree with not buying stupid clothes you don't need. But the other side of the spectrum, buying simple clothes that are dirt cheap, can also be a problem. The reason they're so cheap is because often times they're made by people in extremely poor work conditions and grossly underpaid, using materials that are cheap but awful for the planet. I advocate buying 5 shirts too, but getting them from a place with a track record of sustainably sourced materials and ethical supply chains. The shirt won't be $8, but the extra money is worth it. Also it lasts longer!

    • @mauricemaple1430
      @mauricemaple1430 Рік тому +1

      Very wise advice. Too many people fall into the belief that minimalism=cheap. I spend on quality shirts and socks. Underwear i can buy cheaper, hats i buy cheaper.. doesn't make sense to be cheap and spend more replacing things.

    • @zephyrr108
      @zephyrr108 11 місяців тому

      Idk. I guess a middle ground is in order.

  • @BigPhilly15
    @BigPhilly15 Рік тому +9

    I’ve had horrible vision since I was 5. Double astigmatism. I never skimp on glasses. Very nice frames and high end custom lenses. Arguably the most important thing I own is my glasses.

    • @tarablue4472
      @tarablue4472 6 місяців тому

      I was wearing glasses by age 8, a year later I was dependent on them. I remember spending $400 on prescription glasses, mind you that was 25 years ago so that would be more in today's dollars. In addition to that was contact lens. Then I got laser eye surgery and I haven't spent a dime on corrective vision wear of any kind. The surgery was for other reasons rather than to save money but it has saved me thousands of dollars over the years. The surgery has paid for itself. One of the best decisions I ever made.

  • @KeturaSaint-Fleurose
    @KeturaSaint-Fleurose Рік тому +28

    When I moved to nyc, I created a deeper hole for myself by spending so much money on food. Not getting groceries because I wanted to try out different restaurants (and the interior design like you mentioned created an illusion for me) Having said all that, I’m wayyyy less tempted to spend money at these restaurants after realizing how mediocre the food occasionally is to me. Mind you, I’ll enjoy myself out but I want to only spend money on occasions that are a 100% yes. And my 100% yes allows to me create a more narrow focus on what experiences will ACTUALLY create more meaning to me.
    Your hilarious 😆

    • @ElAgustin
      @ElAgustin  Рік тому +3

      Yeah, I feel like there are so many restaurants in NYC that it's a hobby for people.

    • @KeturaSaint-Fleurose
      @KeturaSaint-Fleurose Рік тому +4

      @@ElAgustin for sure! I would love to know what cost effective activities you do when you’re out socializing with others

    • @ihateallyall
      @ihateallyall 8 місяців тому +1

      yup. it’s become inexcusable for me to spend $20-$50 for a meal, that isn’t even that good, and that I will always later on regret because I could’ve bought days of meals with that money. now when I go out to eat, it’s maybe some special clam chowder out on the coast, or that one sandwhich shop I really love.

    • @KeturaSaint-Fleurose
      @KeturaSaint-Fleurose 8 місяців тому

      @@ihateallyall your doing great 👏🏾 I’m proud of you

  • @richardeidemiller6739
    @richardeidemiller6739 11 місяців тому +31

    You lost me at Nicholas Cage being the greatest actor of all time. 😂 Vicki

  • @ScorpionMaiden75
    @ScorpionMaiden75 5 місяців тому +2

    If I want my home to have a relaxing scent I use essential oils in my mop water or a couple drops in a spray bottle with a bit of water. Then spray curtains or put essential oils on cotton balls in hidden places in the house. Mint is also good for keeping pest out too 😊
    💜💕🦋🔥👑🔥🦋💜💕

  • @REDVARG
    @REDVARG 5 місяців тому +2

    Warning: the lifespan of a smartphone is 4 years, after which it no longer receives security updates.

    • @saiko_1
      @saiko_1 3 місяці тому +1

      Having bank apps and investment apps in an old smartphone is kind of dangerous…

  • @sandy1938
    @sandy1938 7 місяців тому +3

    Austin- You are a smart and entertaining young man, with great tips! You have found your calling. You are a natural at this. I love watching your videos as they bring a smile to my face and I learn something along the way. Great job!

  • @allenbrown9052
    @allenbrown9052 Рік тому +29

    Props to you on getting your first sponsor. BetterHelp is a great company. Mental health is everything. 🧡 🐪

  • @bayarbuyan84
    @bayarbuyan84 6 місяців тому +2

    These are good points, something I agree on but nothing surprising. The best one for me is check out books at the library.

  • @bagery
    @bagery Рік тому +6

    Good list. Think ive done my last oil change this year. Few things, it takes forever to finish emptying. You need a decent space to do it and must account for wind. Clean up. You have to find time and an appropriate place to dispose of it. Finally you have to account for how different each car is.
    I inherited my dad's vehicle recently and due to the way his is constructed, it's way messier than mine ever was. I don't drive much and reason next year just to continue buying an exceptional 20k synthetic oil/filter and take it somewhere the pros nor the ground are covered in oil.
    1 change a yr, less than 100 bucks. 50ish with coupon which isnt much more than oil/filter alone.

    • @cheesecurd100s
      @cheesecurd100s 11 місяців тому +1

      Yeah I agree, when you factor disposal, time, mess etc, are most people even saving much money?

  • @StevenNybida
    @StevenNybida Рік тому +3

    Hey El Augustin - You can get furniture 100% cheaper at your local dumpster. Just go down any apartment alleyway here in the Springs on the 1st of the month and you can furnish your entire flat for free. That includes dishes, a toaster and microwave. Other choice dumpster items include a circular saw, 3/4 HP router, guitar amplifier, refrigerator, stove and even a flat screen TV. And they all work.

    • @jsmith3946
      @jsmith3946 10 місяців тому

      and come with free cockroaches

    • @shmataboro8634
      @shmataboro8634 6 місяців тому

      Furniture: if you live in a college town there will be free furniture on the curb at end of semesters when students move out. Some crummy, some good. Free cheap furniture is better than paying for cheap furniture. Free solid good quality furniture is amazing. Free fabulous antiques is the pot of gold at the end of the curb shopper's rainbow.

  • @agusgani610
    @agusgani610 10 місяців тому +2

    I'm glad so many comments agree with you..I hope to be able to do the same. This shows there's another way of living that I believe will reduce consumerism and replace meaningless spending with a more enjoyable time and space.

  • @ownedbymykitty270
    @ownedbymykitty270 Рік тому +16

    The way I'm saving money: showing up to work every day (unless I'm really sick), no kids (I have a cat lol), renting a rent controlled apartment, buying a 15 year old car (before 2021), keeping my distance from friends who tend to live more lavishly, buying a high quality used bike, buying all furniture used, buying most electronics used, buying most clothing used or heavily discounted high quality brands, spending a bit more to have a higher quality TV + microwave + fan + air purifier, as an audiophile I only buy cheap but high quality Chi-Fi gear (Chinese Hi-Fi), never go to expensive big act concerts (i prefer more indie / underground acts where the ticket price rarely exceeds $30-40, usually only go to museums on discount or free days, buying 90% of items only when on sale at the grocery store, quit drinking (huge money saver), never ordering delivery, never eating at fancy restaurants, if I eat out I rarely order appetizers or drinks (I only order what I can eat which is usually just 1 dish), eating at home more, buying coffee outside only 2x a week, going to only matinee movies and never buy concession snacks or drinks, keeping online subscriptions down to the few I actually use (Spotify, UA-cam Premium), being vigilent about not getting parking / speeding / traffic tickets, maintaining excellent credit, not going on local trips / vacations (the US is outrageously expensive now and not worth it), buying cheap but high quality marijuan@ from local growers and consume in small amounts (I live in SF Bay Area). My friends wonder how I'm able to live in the SF Bay Area without having a 6-figure income. They know I'm resourceful, but they're all too fancy / bougie to be able to live like me.

    • @ninnymuggins5159
      @ninnymuggins5159 10 місяців тому +3

      Wow, you should make a video on this topic as well! Nice job. Also, if you love your cat, please don't feed him cheap cat food, it will cost you more in vet bills and shorten his life!!

    • @vincenzorossi4828
      @vincenzorossi4828 7 місяців тому

      Cut on maria and you will be great!

  • @anaisgeoffrion2819
    @anaisgeoffrion2819 11 місяців тому +6

    I agree with you, except for the expensive glasses, knowing that this industry is almost entirely dominated by the same Italian man who owns something like 70% of the brands and can manage to keep the prices high and make people assume it must be because the material is expensive. Not at all. You can find great glasses for a cheap price.

  • @debbiewalker273
    @debbiewalker273 Рік тому +5

    Good advice Austin, and I used to change my own oil in High School. Then I had my boyfriend take over. ☺️ Glad you’re getting sponsors, but Better Health is quite spendy. They don’t accept insurance, Medicare, or Medicaid. You can submit your bill to your Insurance, and may possibly be reimbursed. I sure wish there were more affordable options for people struggling with their mental health.

    • @annyer262
      @annyer262 Рік тому +1

      have your tried some kind of worship or spiritual music? This helps my mental health! Plus I can talk to the pastor about life and it is almost free.

    • @Christina-sf4py
      @Christina-sf4py 11 місяців тому

      ​@@annyer262that can backfire. Sorry to say..many ppl in positions of supposed spiritual authority haven't got a clue about the reality of mental issues or even day to day problems. In fact many (not all but heck, many) have very little compassion and just like to give out patronizing platitudes which increase suffering, making the person feel they aren't good enough to get through their problem. You can double this risk if the sufferer is female.

    • @ChristineHWilliamsJDMSW
      @ChristineHWilliamsJDMSW 10 місяців тому

      @@annyer262 Agree with this. If you’re part of a religious or spiritual community, you have access to people who have been trained in counselling techniques, and have an aptitude for caring.

    • @ChristineHWilliamsJDMSW
      @ChristineHWilliamsJDMSW 10 місяців тому

      @@annyer262 Agree with this. If you’re part of a religious or spiritual community, you have access to people who have been trained in counselling techniques, and have an aptitude for caring.

  • @Luncheon23
    @Luncheon23 Рік тому +19

    An Agustin video is such a great way to round off the week 😊 Love your minimalist tips and ideas and will be keeping them in mind so that I can reach my financial goals.
    P.S. congrats on 57k subscribers!

    • @ElAgustin
      @ElAgustin  Рік тому +3

      Thanks!! It's been climbing up recently...got a few tricks up my sleeve!

  • @overlyskinned
    @overlyskinned 7 місяців тому

    I switched from expensive glasses to cheap ones 2 years ago and I have no regrets. Zenni make very good classes for 1/10 the price and they work perfectly and look great - even varifocals. Expensive glasses get scratched and broken just as easily and are so much harder to replace.

  • @djrickyb
    @djrickyb 11 місяців тому +3

    I disagree about oil changes. When I was 34 I threw my back out trying to get out from under my car after giving it an oil change. It took 13 days for me to get my back to normal again. First 5 days was painful! Also, you don't save much money buying the oil yourself. Try to use coupons when they are available at the express oil change places. I go every 5,000 to 6,000 miles with both of my cars.

  • @magal55
    @magal55 8 місяців тому +2

    Lucky me, I don't own a car. I don't need it. And I follow almost all of your points of frugality.

  • @jkallina100
    @jkallina100 5 місяців тому +1

    NO Thing is more expensive than therapy!!!! #betterhealth

  • @pip1723
    @pip1723 11 місяців тому +12

    I consider owning books as an investment in one's self especially my philosophy collection I'm always dipping in and out of them once purchased they give year's of pleasure.

  • @okirorcalvin2801
    @okirorcalvin2801 8 місяців тому +1

    Hi Austin ,thanks so much just found your in December 2023, it's so educative, just 24yr Ugandan am learning alot here

  • @miahthorpatrick1013
    @miahthorpatrick1013 7 місяців тому +1

    I gotta say something about number 2: it’s not so easy to simply “change your own oil” when you don’t have a house, driveway or garage. At an apartment or something, this just isn’t a viable option. It’s unsafe and leaves you wide open to compromise if you attempt to do this in a small apartment complex parking lot. Love your videos but you are leaving out the part about the time save. Also did I mention having car ramps is a must have for changing your own oil *within a timely manner*? If you’re not experienced with this task, not having certain materials can make this take as long or longer than if you take it to a professional.

    • @Dream-bebe
      @Dream-bebe 5 місяців тому

      It gives cheap vibes $….

  • @Victorcolongarcia
    @Victorcolongarcia 5 місяців тому

    I am so much like you. Never go to restaurants or buy cooked food. Never wear brands. Never buy new stuff if its available on second hand markets. I find I save much more than my friends. In fact I was able to buy a flat much younger and working less.

    • @Victorcolongarcia
      @Victorcolongarcia 5 місяців тому

      I only spend money on FUNCTIONAL THINGS. Like you said: good glasses, a good coat, comfort trainers if you really use them and so on. And I try to not have clutter, buy things for no purpose.

  • @aoeulhs
    @aoeulhs 5 місяців тому

    I'm with you on everything except books. I search for free pdfs for books that have been in print for a while, buy used instead of new if I can, a lot of my books I got for free, but the ability to purchase a book that I can't get otherwise is one of the highest and best uses of money. There are many things known to impoverish a person but nobody has every come to ruin because of their library.

  • @nickb1892
    @nickb1892 8 місяців тому +1

    God Bless Austin and all viewers! Amen

  • @desireebragg4576
    @desireebragg4576 10 місяців тому +10

    Agreed about the furniture! Marketplace has great pieces for 90% less!

  • @darleneaitken1620
    @darleneaitken1620 4 місяці тому +1

    The one thing I refuse to spend my money on while traveling is expensive hotels. There are plenty of budget hotels that offer free breakfast, and that's fine with me. As long as it's clean and comfortable, I'm happy.

  • @debbiemas4395
    @debbiemas4395 Рік тому +11

    #16 Crap from Temu

  • @montymonto6430
    @montymonto6430 6 місяців тому +2

    I agree with everything except the furniture. Furniture of good quality can last tens of years and you see it all the time so it should also look nice.

    • @jkallina100
      @jkallina100 5 місяців тому

      Plus it can actually appreciate in some cases!!

  • @celticspirit1
    @celticspirit1 10 місяців тому +2

    The financial author, Jim Collins, whom you referred to had the best financial advice. He advised to avoid debt, live below your means, and invest the rest. Sage advice.

  • @schuylergeery-zink1923
    @schuylergeery-zink1923 9 місяців тому +1

    If you don’t like physical books and can swing it, buying ebooks gives us authors (especially self-published authors) the same profit margin. Ebooks are more affordable and don’t take up physical space. But it’s also appreciated if you like physical books to donate them to libraries or little free libraries in your neighborhood. My husband donated most of his books to the state prison system bc books do wear out and need to be replaced. Now he does donation runs twice a year for folks in our network to also donate :)
    My book series is the Crescent Crown Saga and I also have a kindle vella called “A Promise So Dark & Wicked” 💖 📚

  • @ThePantherproof
    @ThePantherproof Рік тому +5

    8:23 I had to buy a new phone recently. Cost me $110.

  • @999manman
    @999manman 10 місяців тому +2

    i love to change my own oil and used to refuse to consider purchasing a vehicle whose oil filter I could not easily access. But lately Ive noticed that modern vehicles often have a filter located where you need a hydraulic lift to reach it. Or in a tight alcove where it would take far too long to remove. In those cases I have little choice but take it to a professional. That's sad because early on I could actually do basic mechanic work on my vehicles. Nowadays you need a degree from MIT just to look under the hood.

  • @TheSilvertrigger
    @TheSilvertrigger Рік тому +19

    There is nothing wrong with having a pet octopus 🐙 they are smart friendly and have 3 hearts ❤❤❤

  • @RobertHastings12
    @RobertHastings12 6 місяців тому +1

    @8:43 "eBay is still a thing." I literally just got home from the post office to drop an expensive pocket knife I sold that I had no business buying in the first place. Thankfully, I broke even. It was like watching $140 collecting dust in a drawer. Watches and pocket knives were my "buying stuff I don't need with money I don't have" vice.

  • @willchristie2650
    @willchristie2650 4 місяці тому

    You described my home, Scottsdale, Arizona! So many trendy restaurants where the always handsome waiter tells you his life story and then describes the pedigree of each menu item, e.g., "The tomatoes come from Tuscany and are embellished with salt from the South of France...". Then the meal comes with a giant bill and its just 1 step up from McDonalds and half the size!

  • @ginamick4926
    @ginamick4926 5 місяців тому

    I believe in good shoes, good mattresses, good food & good haircuts (but maybe not "high end"). Walking is the best & lowest cost workout I've found in terms of maintaing basic physical & mental health.

  • @gracealexandre3381
    @gracealexandre3381 4 місяці тому

    Furniture from the Thrift Store will probably last longer because they used better wood back then. The appliances back then also lasted longer.

  • @iceWaterProductions1
    @iceWaterProductions1 4 місяці тому

    I agree with almost everything and I don’t buy several other things. Most of my family and friends think I’m cheap and keep track of every single dollar I spend. I know that it’s the little things that most people spend every day that adds up to a lot of money in the end. Take for example I’m planning a trip for my niece and myself for her graduation in two years. We’re actually taking 4 one way flights around the entire world. Most people just use knee jerk reactions and say “How in the Hell will you afford that” this is without them even considering what it costs and them having next to NO travel experience. The funny thing is I’m totally cutting out drinking any bottled beverages and eating out at any places. This means ZERO places. It doesn’t matter if it’s a 99 cent taco. If people just wrote down every purchase they made they’d be amazed on how much they spend on total bull crap. About four years ago I set my record at 22 months without any outside food expenses. I didn’t go to a restaurant, drive through, delivery, I just made my food and packed a sack lunch if i was gone half the day. Oh course there had to be a loophole somewhere. If I was over 200 miles away for over a day or so. Even then my friend I was visiting supported my challenge and made me food. I’ve started it back up and I want to break the record. If I can hold out for the graduation in June of 2026 that with the bottled beverages subplan with a little cut back on records we’ll be on the best trip of her life.

  • @lateshachurney5965
    @lateshachurney5965 Рік тому +8

    Austin I would like to see you and Prepper Princess do a collaboration video on UA-cam.

  • @rickyiglesias5384
    @rickyiglesias5384 8 місяців тому

    I started changing my oil almost 16 years ago. There were a few years in there where with a coupon I actually paid the same price to have a local dealer do it, but times have changed and it's gone back to being WAY cheaper to do it yourself. No one will ever care about your car as much as you do, which is a great reason to change your own oil. Shops don't put their best guys on the easy jobs. So you're not getting the brains of the organization, which means they can make MISTAKES like not screwing your filter on all the way or stripping out your drain plug.

  • @lynne2774
    @lynne2774 4 місяці тому

    Wise advice, I'm over 60 and couldn't agree more with your list. I've been avoiding buying most of that stuff for many years, possibly my whole life.

  • @lilyofthevalley7413
    @lilyofthevalley7413 Рік тому +8

    I like new furniture not used by anyone else

    • @leannejayne3545
      @leannejayne3545 Рік тому +9

      I definitely wouldn’t be keen on a second had sofa, who knows what action it’s seen! 🤣

    • @debbiewalker273
      @debbiewalker273 Рік тому

      @@leannejayne3545You can have it professionally cleaned, but it would still creep me out. 😂🤣

  • @VitainFlorida
    @VitainFlorida Рік тому +5

    Great contact, as always! 🥰

  • @fenlandwildlifeclips
    @fenlandwildlifeclips 5 місяців тому

    If you change your own oil, you will not have a service history & who buys a pre owned car without service history? You could also miss something important that needs fixing. You also need to keep an eye on all the other fluids. Re expensive gyms: I joined an "expensive" gym post mastectomy last year. Swimming is helping me to heal & I have access to a rehab specialist, which I wouldn't have without that membership.

  • @gemnilocs
    @gemnilocs 8 місяців тому +1

    I keep saying I’m going to stop using delivery services cause 1) it’s expensive, 2) sometimes I get the wrong food items. Granted it’s convenient but it’s a cost for that convenience.
    I love to travel outside of the US, it may cost a pretty penny to get there but once you’re there, I feel like it’s cheaper once there.

  • @chrisoseko
    @chrisoseko 12 днів тому

    Another good reason to change your own oil is it makes you feel manly and in control. Brake pads are fairly straightforward too.

  • @a.m.308
    @a.m.308 8 місяців тому

    I agree especially with the furniture. They usually crowd almost any space without any other purpose. So if I’m going to buy one, it might as well have a multiple purposes like storage, not just to be sat on or place stuff on top of.

  • @edwardbrock3807
    @edwardbrock3807 2 місяці тому

    Oil changes are tricky. As a weird mechanic friends always ask if i can change their oil to save money, but not all oil changes are the same, you may be lucky and have a easy car, but some are downright a pain, specially if they sit low; then theres the jacking the vehicle up, dangerous in the wrong hands; theres alot of variables i tell them, whats their schedule, whats the availability, are u gonna go dispose your oil. Essentially does the time outweigh tge costs and speed of service. Trust me oil changes are the triicky one when it comes to savings. If youre proficient and you got a "user friendly" vehicle then youre gold ponyboy. But yeah i totally agree great skill to learn!

  • @bernardsegouin6773
    @bernardsegouin6773 Рік тому +33

    It's always good to have a financial plan, I work with a portfolio and savings manager in the US. fixed income serves as a buffer for the volatility of the equity and also bring legitimate returns.

    • @gregorridavichko
      @gregorridavichko Рік тому

      indeed, most people downplay the roles of financial planners until burnt by there mistakes. Productivity is optimized and keeping up to date strategies and analysis makes it more lucrative. I've been able to navigate the volatilities and scaled up 880k from 220k with professional guidance.

    • @gabrielbruhnr
      @gabrielbruhnr Рік тому

      Honestly this cannot be overemphasized, helping people mitigate unforseen circumstances and mistakes, who do you work with?

    • @gregorridavichko
      @gregorridavichko Рік тому

      Chris Ryan Stewart is the CFP responsible for my portfolio success, the man has a private client base you can confirm him yourself on the internet, regulation an all.

    • @gregorridavichko
      @gregorridavichko Рік тому

      Chris Ryan Stewart

    • @valeriejeanmathis874
      @valeriejeanmathis874 Рік тому

      Yeah he's quite popular in the financial space, I have turned over more than half mil working with Chris on a wide array of options and finally sticking to a few that have been favorable in the past 2 years. I began working with her In October 22 after the Fed lended 300b usd for stimulus to stem crisis, I knew I needed help.

  • @Peter-tf2uc
    @Peter-tf2uc 6 місяців тому +1

    Big yes for self oil changes!

  • @lcomfort8683
    @lcomfort8683 5 місяців тому

    Cheapest high quality coffee- roast 1/2 pound green coffee beans on light colored cookie sheet pan in super preheated oven, flip/ stir beans every 2-4 minutes for more even roasting, takes about 12-15 minutes. Little smoky towards end of roasting, open window/door. Burman's sells lots green beans $5/# and up, with delivery ends up being about $10/# with delivery and waterweight loss from roasting, if you stick to the least expensive beans. Fun! Who knew coffee beans from India would be so good? 😊

  • @oldegoatee8450
    @oldegoatee8450 8 місяців тому

    The only used furniture I personally would NOT buy is anything with fabric, such as upholstered chairs, couches, mattresses, etc. I'm a bit of a germaphobe and don't want bed-bugs either!

  • @juliehoot3916
    @juliehoot3916 Рік тому +5

    Great video but with all due respect my last phone, I bought new, lasted years, years and more years. I dont mind buying a book from the library for .25 cents, then redonating. I dont like the stress of return dates. I have also had libraries boo boo say I didnt return a book, when I did, so I went and found it on their shelf. That stressed me out. Just better to pay the .25 cents and read at my leisure. I am sure the money helps our libraries too. We are all different with our minimalism. Fun to share. Thanks for sharing!

  • @ComeKingJesus
    @ComeKingJesus 6 місяців тому +1

    2. No more rip off oil changes.
    Jiffy rip off lube. Never.

  • @yokiryuchan7655
    @yokiryuchan7655 8 місяців тому +1

    I never spend money on streaming services. Netflix, Hulu, Amazon Prime etc.

  • @INFJ2
    @INFJ2 8 місяців тому +1

    Stupid to spend money on phones. I bought mine for 130$ once. I have Boost Mobile. Had it for a few years.

  • @plappin
    @plappin Рік тому +8

    Great video and congratulations on getting another sponsor. I have always believed those scented stick-up things were incredibly toxic: I have been known to hunt them out of vacation rentals, along with cheap Yankee candles -- sickening. (If you can smell it, there's actually something floating in the air.) Don't get me started on dryer sheets and Febreeze. While I agree with most of the things on your list, as someone a little (okay, a lot) older and a city dweller, I do enjoy a high-end gym experience, especially since I swim. I used cheap city pools for decades so today I really appreciate clean water (and the cleaner people swimming in it). As far as food delivery, I don't own a car, so it would take me WAY more time to pick up food from a restaurant than having it delivered. I don't do it often (a few times a month max) but I do do it. If you're out and about in a car I can see that it might make more sense to pick it up yourself, though factoring in fuel costs, I wonder. With the exception of a lamp here and there, I don't think I have EVER purchased new furniture. Between Craigslist, thrift stores, flea markets, and the street (yes, NYC is a free-furniture paradise) there is simply no reason to buy new unless you're talking a mattress (and I once got one of those free from a guy selling his bed frame). Fun video as always!

    • @ninnymuggins5159
      @ninnymuggins5159 10 місяців тому +1

      So, I'm NOT the only person with ZERO tolerance for sprays, perfumes, colognes, candles, plugins, scented laundry soaps and dryer sheets. 🤢🤮 They burn my nose and make me nauseated. Some people think that's crazy but I cannot stand it!

  • @AF_1892
    @AF_1892 4 місяці тому

    New to your channel, but you are coming at it with the Virgo energy! I am a Virgo too. Some of my quality classic clothes I bought 30 years ago are still fine. I'm petite so I do know how to sew and alter clothes (tailors are total ripoffs, except for $600 suits).

  • @MooseCracker
    @MooseCracker Рік тому +2

    ok but, how do you not buy haunted buildings?
    One note on thrift store and preowned furniture: If it has any cushioning or any parts that you can't directly clean (like actually see and get your fingers on) don't buy used. The last thing anybody needs to pay for and face is a bed bug infestation.

  • @Dream-bebe
    @Dream-bebe 5 місяців тому +1

    I would Not change my oil! It’s messy ! And I have no interest to get oily

  • @muddywaters538
    @muddywaters538 Рік тому +1

    you are right on, you don't want a weird mechanic touching your car. something else will break... problem with changing the oil is disposing of it properly

    • @MistaTofMaine
      @MistaTofMaine 11 місяців тому

      If you have used motor oil and have something you want to stain that you won't be touching used motor oil is nice. A lot of places you can't do this but can save one hundreds if you had to buy paint or stain from a store.

  • @ses-ei7oc
    @ses-ei7oc Рік тому +6

    The only thing that I buy from the list are professional oil changes. I have no idea about cars and I like that they can do a full inspection. The more preventive maintenance, the better! Had no idea you lived in CO. Very cool.

  • @saiko_1
    @saiko_1 3 місяці тому +1

    Good video and good tips. Except for one thing… Books are one of my greatest pleasures in life. I love to read, to collect (and to smell them 😂). I save money in a lot of things, but I’ll never stop loving books. If nobody bought books, most of the authors would stop writing and, I don’t know, maybe in the future we would have AI writing books? Soulless books, to soulless people.

  • @pattykake7195
    @pattykake7195 Рік тому +10

    90% of my furniture is from thrift stores or gumtree….have saved heaps and got good quality items as well…👍🏽

    • @Joce123
      @Joce123 Рік тому

      I save on my home insurance because I requested that they not cover my personal property.
      I don't care about all of the second hand stuff..I keep important things in a safe deposit box at the bank

  • @nealdooley9591
    @nealdooley9591 11 місяців тому +1

    I personally go to a powerlifting gym, which has a lot more niche equipment that you can't find as easily in most comercial gyms, and certainly not planet fitness. So, I'm more than happy to spend extra for a gym membership to get what I need and be in an environment with like-minded people.
    And with furniture, I've found it's much more difficult to verify weight capacities on second hand items. Buying something first-hand can help guarantee personal safety and usually comes with the reassurance of some form of warranty.

    • @kimkirksey562
      @kimkirksey562 10 місяців тому

      I beg to differ on the chairs...I have some 1938 Ethan Allen wing chairs....with modern fabric upholstery...they are so heavy and could hold an elephant...these modern plywood chairs...nahhhh....

  • @StephanieG1
    @StephanieG1 Рік тому +3

    How do you dispose of the old oil safely and responsibly? One of the ways I save money is that I never buy tea/coffee outside. I have never entered Starbucks or Cafe Italia or any other similar place. If I want a cup of tea I wait until I get home.

    • @mikelongco
      @mikelongco 11 місяців тому +1

      If you're in the US and live anywhere near an AutoZone or an O'Reilly Auto Parts, they will dispose of your used oil for free. Each company has over 6,000 locations in the US. Hopefully there's one near you.

  • @Revert2017
    @Revert2017 Рік тому +5

    OMG! You really made my day with the "solid shirt fashion show"! (And you are so cute in glasses).

    • @ElAgustin
      @ElAgustin  Рік тому

      That's what it's all about.

  • @Grovel88
    @Grovel88 5 місяців тому

    The oil change is good to a point, and generally is most of a service. However your car needs much more maintenance and inspection over time. Brakes and brake fluid, transmission oils, coolant, spark plugs, bearing repacking (4wd) and inspection of items keeping your car safe to name a few. Ideally you change your oil yourself and have your car checked periodically by someone qualified. Also the weird mechanic sentiment is ridiculous.

  • @celiaespinoza5446
    @celiaespinoza5446 4 місяці тому

    "I know how to drop it low" you're 😂 😂 hilarious!!
    I don't pay a dime for gym memberships, I walk for free at the park. You can drop it low there too.

  • @raleighbrecht4033
    @raleighbrecht4033 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for revealing the truth about oil changes! I don’t have to funnel out as much once I transition to a DIY process.

  • @RobertDay-k6v
    @RobertDay-k6v 5 місяців тому

    1. Trendy food; Dollar store and have been seen at a burger or chicken drive through. 2. Oil change; not sure if have ever paid to get that done. 3.Single stocks, theres my vice. but it is a bull market, will put that index thing in my mind (back of).4. No jim membership of any kind.5. Never been North of the Mason Dixion.6.Have a list of needs and don't deviate. 7. Phone problem, went from $35. to $70. need to change bact. pd. $100. for the phone maybe.8. Minimal furmiture, have bought used before.9. No logos on clothes at all.10. Sented home products? Am afraid your not helping. 🤨

  • @CatholicSaintslayIncorrupt
    @CatholicSaintslayIncorrupt 4 місяці тому

    You spoke of not wasting money buying unhealthy fragrance candles! Instead as a wise health investment if needed, I buy essential oils of a very high quality & I put into A Electrical essential oil diffuser, which is very frugal choice instead of a water steaming vaporising essential oil diffuser. As the electrical diffuser is chargable & it last 32 hours, the steam one will need charge in 8 hours. My Electrical diffuser will last 4 months of charge, as I place it when turned on very near to me & I use it for a few minutes only to pick me up or rest me. As with these electrical essential oil diffusers you are actually inserting the entire essential oil bottle into it, not wasting expensive oils by dropping lots of drops into water of a water steamer vapour diffuser & it steams away in no time. You're using much much less oil and getting a much longer return on the electrical diffuser. With a electrical essential oil diffuser you Donot turn on & walk out the door, as it will go through the expensive essential oil in no time, but instead use it as I wrote above & you will find you only buy another bottle of an essential oil every 2 years, yes every 2 years.

  • @slackerjo
    @slackerjo Рік тому +1

    I have a refurbed phone from a local discount electronics store. It doesn't have to be fancy because I don't use my phone as a computer. I listen to library books on it and that's about it. To be honest, I find surfing on a phone very frustrating.

  • @irenafields3324
    @irenafields3324 5 місяців тому

    I agree with everything but traveling overseas. There is nothing in any other country that is worth my money. Besides I a little anxious about traveling, eating and staying in hotels. I don’t like at all. I love this country specifically Arizona, Colorado, Utah, Montana. The rocks just amazes me. However, I don’t judge those who can travel without any anxiety. Go for and enjoy the journey.

  • @BL-rb7jm
    @BL-rb7jm 5 місяців тому

    I don't pay for any therapy.I get it free because I got a lower income.
    And after 2 years.
    Of therapy twice a week, I was able to say to myself don't look back.That's the big thing.
    Imagine you're driving down the road and right in front of you is your destination. You have this view of a beautiful future right?In front of you.Are you going to ruin it by imagining the worse. Or you wanna just barrel through all the c***That's in front of you.
    Mentally I was in this train tunnel walking to the channel and it was pitch blak and I had all these hurdles in front of me and I kept jumping over the hurtles in the darkness.I didn't know what was ahead of me. Just said I needed to see the light at the end of the tunnel. And I couldn't see it, but I kept ongoing.Because everybody else knew there was an end to that tunnel of darkness. And I had to push myself just like the way my father pushed me so I wouldn't feel sorry from myself. Every time I was working with him at 1012 years old on construction.Because he was a carpenter.And he built homes for wealthy people I would be helping him. And if things were too heavy, he was hardcore.And told me to pick it up and keep going and not to feel sorry for myself even if I was crying.
    I thought he was a mean son of a bee. But no I looked back and I said because of him and almighty God.Of course we can't forget him. I was able to push to all trauma in my life to get where I am now.
    I keep hearing those words in my head.Keep going keep going don't give up and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
    If you're driving a car.
    Don't look back.
    Or your crash. When we're driving a car we don't look in the rear view mirror all the time. We occasionally look in the Rear view mirror .
    Just like life, you can't look back and say I should have.I could have but we don't know If it's true. All we know for sure is what we're dealing with today. We're not even sure about tomorrow.
    Ice is too short to live in the past.

  • @anjarch
    @anjarch 4 місяці тому

    I have two kids under 5 so sometimes uber eats delivery saves the day and is worth the price rather than trying to get two kids in and out of the car, in a grocery basket with groceries and they fight and need the restroom and want me to buy all the treats the see.