Thank you Dr. for this vary useful video.I my self is a victim of narcissistic abuse.Though I am from medical field it took 17 years to understand the narcissist in our family.I have been searching for a Malayalam content for the past 3 years.now I found two channels.Let’s support this channel by sharing this video
Me my self and my children are suffering for the last 33 years in a intense form... Help us to cure mentally, emotionally... It is a big long saga... I can give a short help to anybody... If someone in your home is strong enough to give him a tight slap... Just give him.. Even if it is your son or daughter.. no guilt feelings... Narcissistic man won't react... Give them many tight slap if you hv grown up children...we are the most affected people in the world due to Narcissistic behaviour... I used to pray for his death.... But I know now how to handle him... Even I lost my kidney due to high pressure... I haven't seen smile or hearty laugh on my children face... Just run away from such devil's... Don't look back... Thank you Dr Susan for your precious videos...
You are really a savior empowering women who are sacrificing their lives for such narcissistic people.Such people from marriage to death fly with their broken wings.Your marvelous talks, save lakhs of people physically mentally and spiritually.
Thank you so much Dr.. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻.. ഈ വീഡിയോ വളരെ വളരെ helpful ആയിരുന്നു.. സത്യം പറഞ്ഞാല് maminde വീഡിയോ കാണുമ്പോൾ ഒരു പ്രതീക്ഷയൊക്കെ ഉണ്ട് ജീവിതത്തിനോട്. God bless you Dr.. Love you..
Mam thanku for the valuable information .It will help in my life. Sooo thankful 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌 I didn't know anything about this personality before watching this video. So grateful mam👏👏👏👏
. അവസരവാദിയായതു കൊണ്ടു തന്നെയാണ് എന്റെ hus ഒക്കെ NPD യാണെന്ന് എനിക്ക് വേഗം catch ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റിയത്. മനസിലാക്കാൻ പറ്റുന്ന ഭാര്യയ്ക്ക് അതൊര് മോശ സ്വഭാവമായിട്ട് അനുഭപ്പെടും sure
Madam you how beautifully analysing and sorting minute behaviour of N P D In short you peeling the goat skin of a wolf A lot of people understood that through which path they sre travelling that is as a coma stage means no emotion exactly depressin,xanxiety stress etc God bless you
I have got flowers sent by somebody after I got proposed through arranged marriage , realized he's a narcisst in few days . He wanted things his way ,was not open to compromises and man he was very insecure and jealous . I was put under microscope with my male friends when he gets to dance with foreigners in US. Phew I dodged a bullet. Do people practise what they preach is what you need to note 🖊️ 📒
Mam Narcissist aayittullvar orupadu lies Parayumo? I mean situation anusarich orikal Avru paranja karyngal avrkk ariyillarunu Enna reethiyil Matti Parayumo
Hi mam..First of all am expressing my sincere gratitude to you for your valuable videos.. Nearly two days before i saw your videos regarding NPD.. From that videos am able know the fact that am also a victim of NPD. After 26 years of family life now am realising the nature of NPD...How can I contact for the help I need from you .Pls reply mam.. It's very urgent.
Brilliant job Doctor.. I was searching for Malayalam content about Covert narcissist & Thank God I found you. In September I identified my cov narc husband after 22 yrs of suffering..!! I knew something is wrong from the beginning & Lord Jesus showed me what exactly is NPD. I am still im shock So praying daily & learning coping techniques from you tube. Can you please do a video about Dysfunctional families & tips for me to save my 2 daughters from his Counter parenting
I am glad that the videos are helpful to you. I will do a video on dysfunctional families soon. Also narcissistic parenting emphasis on counter parenting.
@@DrSusanKoruthu Thank you so much Dr. We all are victims of narc parents. It is devastating, after we find out the truth about them and the abuse we go thru from childhood, we have no life left to live😥😢😢😭
So glad to see you Doctor. You are our Dr. Ramani Durvasula of Kerala/India 💐💐💐 Keep going, we are here to support you 💪🏽💪🏽👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I have been told that even a therapist is not supposed to counsel more than 2 or 3 narcs in one year. Also, that Counselor himself/herself must undergo Counseling. This clearly shows the severity of impact of these demons👹👹
This is so true, but the moment relatives/friends leave, its hell..my friends dont believe! Also counselling doesnt work as we tried, if its in your favour they leave saying excuses, but if they can manipulate counsellor all blame on you and you are the issue in the relationship..
Psychologist is the best choice as there is no medicine for NPD. If the personal is undergoing continuous therapy and making changes, then he/she may not be having NPD. So far the statistics show either they take no therapy or break the therapy whenever, an NPD person is introduced to therapy.
Fibromyalgia oru narcissist personalities disoder anganeayulla oru vyektthiyudea koode muppatthimoone varsham jeevichha oru baryakkye ippol fibromyalgia enna avasstthayane enthe cheyyum please oru replay tharu Dr nale varshamayi e oru avassttha please 🙏
Fibromyalgia can be caused by physical injuries or from other infections or hereditary. it can be triggered by prolonged psychological stress. A victim of a malignant narcissist can develop such issues. you will feel body pain, fatigue and impaired cognitive abilities. Taking care of self and protect self from any physical or psychological or spiritual harm is the key responsibility of a person.
Thank you Dr. for this vary useful video.I my self is a victim of narcissistic abuse.Though I am from medical field it took 17 years to understand the narcissist in our family.I have been searching for a Malayalam content for the past 3 years.now I found two channels.Let’s support this channel by sharing this video
I agree Laly. Such profound information by Dr. Susan 👌🏼
Me my self and my children are suffering for the last 33 years in a intense form... Help us to cure mentally, emotionally... It is a big long saga... I can give a short help to anybody... If someone in your home is strong enough to give him a tight slap... Just give him.. Even if it is your son or daughter.. no guilt feelings... Narcissistic man won't react... Give them many tight slap if you hv grown up children...we are the most affected people in the world due to Narcissistic behaviour... I used to pray for his death.... But I know now how to handle him... Even I lost my kidney due to high pressure... I haven't seen smile or hearty laugh on my children face... Just run away from such devil's... Don't look back... Thank you Dr Susan for your precious videos...
Lizy...I m also a victim..life is so horrible
Give your children confidence and extra love and make them know their worth ...know that you are not alone in this world 🥰🥰...stay strong
Satthyam avarode onnum mindathirikkyunnatha nallathe entammoo
You are really a savior empowering women who are sacrificing their lives for such narcissistic people.Such people from marriage to death fly with their broken wings.Your marvelous talks, save lakhs of people physically mentally and spiritually.
Men can also be victims of NPD abuse.
Thank you so much Dr.. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻.. ഈ വീഡിയോ വളരെ വളരെ helpful ആയിരുന്നു.. സത്യം പറഞ്ഞാല് maminde വീഡിയോ കാണുമ്പോൾ ഒരു പ്രതീക്ഷയൊക്കെ ഉണ്ട് ജീവിതത്തിനോട്. God bless you Dr.. Love you..
Correct... Kelkumbo nte anubhavam parayunnath pole
I know 3 people with this behaviour and the way I approached was wrong. Thank you so much for your uploads ma'm. Waiting for your next videos ❤️
You're welcome 😊
100%correct&clear picture of npd
Mam
thanku for the valuable information .It will help in my life. Sooo thankful 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌 I didn't know anything about this personality before watching this video. So grateful mam👏👏👏👏
എത്രയോ ശരിയാണ് മാം പറഞ്ഞത്. ഞാൻ പലപ്പോഴും അതിശയിച്ചു പോയിട്ടുണ്ട്...
Narssisttaya oru bartthavintea koode kazhiyunnavarkkea ikkaryam zerykkyum manassilagu
I have a narcissistic friend.. I can also understand bro😭
Yes...
. അവസരവാദിയായതു കൊണ്ടു തന്നെയാണ് എന്റെ hus ഒക്കെ NPD യാണെന്ന് എനിക്ക് വേഗം catch ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റിയത്. മനസിലാക്കാൻ പറ്റുന്ന ഭാര്യയ്ക്ക് അതൊര് മോശ സ്വഭാവമായിട്ട് അനുഭപ്പെടും sure
Madam you how beautifully analysing and sorting minute behaviour of N P D In short you peeling the goat skin of a wolf A lot of people understood that through which path they sre travelling that is as a coma stage means no emotion exactly depressin,xanxiety stress etc God bless you
Dr.. Pls do a video about narcissistic collapse
I have got flowers sent by somebody after I got proposed through arranged marriage , realized he's a narcisst in few days . He wanted things his way ,was not open to compromises and man he was very insecure and jealous . I was put under microscope with my male friends when he gets to dance with foreigners in US. Phew I dodged a bullet.
Do people practise what they preach is what you need to note 🖊️ 📒
Thank you Mam for this wonderful information ❤
Mam Narcissist aayittullvar orupadu lies Parayumo? I mean situation anusarich orikal Avru paranja karyngal avrkk ariyillarunu Enna reethiyil Matti Parayumo
Ente husband exact ethuthanneyanu mam😢
Hi mam..First of all am expressing my sincere gratitude to you for your valuable videos.. Nearly two days before i saw your videos regarding NPD.. From that videos am able know the fact that am also a victim of NPD. After 26 years of family life now am realising the nature of NPD...How can I contact for the help I need from you
.Pls reply mam.. It's very urgent.
Hi Smitha, you can send a message to drsusankoruthu@gmail.com with your contact number.
Cashinu vendi wifine continuously vilich kondirikunna narcissisto?
A great message
Brilliant job Doctor.. I was searching for Malayalam content about Covert narcissist & Thank God I found you. In September I identified my cov narc husband after 22 yrs of suffering..!! I knew something is wrong from the beginning & Lord Jesus showed me what exactly is NPD. I am still im shock So praying daily & learning coping techniques from you tube. Can you please do a video about Dysfunctional families & tips for me to save my 2 daughters from his Counter parenting
I am glad that the videos are helpful to you. I will do a video on dysfunctional families soon. Also narcissistic parenting emphasis on counter parenting.
Hi Elina
@@DrSusanKoruthu Thank you so much Dr. We all are victims of narc parents. It is devastating, after we find out the truth about them and the abuse we go thru from childhood, we have no life left to live😥😢😢😭
Well said Mam, correct manipulation.
So glad to see you Doctor. You are our Dr. Ramani Durvasula of Kerala/India 💐💐💐
Keep going, we are here to support you 💪🏽💪🏽👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I have been told that even a therapist is not supposed to counsel more than 2 or 3 narcs in one year. Also, that Counselor himself/herself must undergo Counseling.
This clearly shows the severity of impact of these demons👹👹
Yes understands.
Well said mam. 👌
Very good observation
This is so true, but the moment relatives/friends leave, its hell..my friends dont believe! Also counselling doesnt work as we tried, if its in your favour they leave saying excuses, but if they can manipulate counsellor all blame on you and you are the issue in the relationship..
Thank you..
🙏
Can you do a video about narccistic word salad, mam?
Thank you very much Doctor
Chilappozhokke njanum vicharikkarund nalla behavior kaanumbo ethu maintain chaithu pokanam but ath one day poyitt one hour polum last chaiyyarilla pinneum pazheya padi thanne appozhokke njan vicharikkarund njanano wrong enn eppkzhum thonnarund engane talk chaiyyanm enium areela
If possible seek therapy help.
👍
Thank you Dr
Hi Dr ,if the person (narcissistic) is willing for a counselling who's better to consult, psychologist or psychiatrist?
Psychologist is the best choice as there is no medicine for NPD. If the personal is undergoing continuous therapy and making changes, then he/she may not be having NPD. So far the statistics show either they take no therapy or break the therapy whenever, an NPD person is introduced to therapy.
Fibromyalgia oru narcissist personalities disoder anganeayulla oru vyektthiyudea koode muppatthimoone varsham jeevichha oru baryakkye ippol fibromyalgia enna avasstthayane enthe cheyyum please oru replay tharu Dr nale varshamayi e oru avassttha please 🙏
Fibromyalgia can be caused by physical injuries or from other infections or hereditary. it can be triggered by prolonged psychological stress. A victim of a malignant narcissist can develop such issues. you will feel body pain, fatigue and impaired cognitive abilities. Taking care of self and protect self from any physical or psychological or spiritual harm is the key responsibility of a person.
Dear Dr. Please advice remedy for this.. Because I am victim
You can seek therapy to either handle it or get out of it.
Very correct..
💯true
100 percent correct
mam പറഞ്ഞത് 100 % correct.32 years of Suffering mam എനിക്ക് പൊട്ടിക്കരയാൻ തോന്നുന്നു ......
@@prabhar8531 vishamikkathe nammalokke oru category. Kootindalllo ennu alochichu sammadanikki
How i can contact you doctor... i need your help
drsusankoruthu@gmail.com
Brilliant
💯 true
Should we divorce a narcissist
That is up to each individual. I have worked with many narcissistic victims and among them only three wanted to seek divorce.
They are not humanbeings. They do not exist except for the problem they bring
@@JP-bc6wk Yes this is what my understanding is! Narcs never change, at the same time they get worse as they age👵👴😬😠
does anyone know a good therapist in ernakulam for narcissistic victims for an in person session not online one.
Did you get one ?..
Maranam varea ithe sahikkyanamenne oru chanel parayunnu mam
It is up to each individual to decide whether to stay and suffer or to leave and live.
Replay thannathine thanks 🙏 Dr sussan
താങ്ക്സ. മം. എന്റെ. അവസ്ഥ. ട്വന്റി. യേർസ്. ഇതു. തന്നെ. അന്ന്. ഇപ്പോൾ. Avasayaie
If hus n wife npd how it ll be.
Video coming soon
@@DrSusanKoruthu thanks
Doctor pl post a video on anti social disorder.
Yes Mary, I will do a video on the antisocial disorder and NPD = Malignant Narcissist, first described by Otto Kemberg.
@@DrSusanKoruthu Thank You Doctor
👍🙏🙏
Ma’am 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏