How To Build Attraction & Comfort By Storytelling | Top 5 Rules - With Examples || Hindi
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Being a great storyteller can be a total game-changer for you.
The art of storytelling is not just about narrating the story; it's about making people experience it.
If you can tell a story well, you have everyone's attention, especially that girl you are into.
In dating and social life, comfort and attraction are reciprocals in the beginning.
While approaching a girl, if you're trying to build the attraction, the comfort level goes down a little naturally.
On the other hand, when you get too focused on making her feel comfortable, you will not be able to develop an emotion or attraction.
If you often struggle between maintaining an apt balance between comfort and attraction, then this video is for you.
Storytelling is where you can perfectly blend and balance both attraction and comfort and develop a stronger bond with others.
So let's dive deep into it.
Here are 5 rules to become a great storyteller.
#1 The Hero's Journey - Joseph Campbell
The first rule is all about a wonderful book by Joseph Campbell called 'The Hero's Journey'.
The author breaks every great story into several essential parts.
But to make it simpler for you, I'm breaking it down into 3 components.
a. A Hook and Setup
Every good story starts with a 'hook,' a tempting beginning.
Then it follows through a nice setup that will be useful in the later stages of the story.
b. An Adventure, A Twist
What sparks a great story is an adventure that breaks away the rudimentary arc that the story's main characters are playing.
Every good story needs a 'twist' that makes it interesting for the listeners.
It is when a story changes from just another story to a unique, memorable tale.
c. Climax and Conclusion
Many things happen between the adventure and conclusion, which I've explained in the video.
But in a nutshell, any good story must have an exciting climax which serves as the ultimate turning point in the story.
This is followed by a nice and simple conclusion, usually a happy ending.
#2 Talking In Vivid Details
The second rule of being a great storyteller is to use details that create an exhilarating picture in a listener's head.
The easiest way to do this is to include details that capture the essence of the five senses.
#3 Keep Your Story More Emotional Than Factual
When you're telling a story, the way to keep people hooked to it is to make them develop an emotional connection with the story.
To do that, you need to emphasize emotions, healings, and sensations.
#4 Sell & Own Your Vulnerabilities
If you're telling a story about yourself, do not be afraid to throw your vulnerabilities in there.
A major misconception is that any guy with zero vulnerability is cool.
But the truth is a guy who accepts his vulnerability and presents them in front of others comes off as cool, confident, and trustworthy.
Let people connect on a deeper level for you to leave a lasting effect on them.
#5 Be Congruent
The final rule of being a great storyteller is to learn to be congruent.
This means aligning and matching your body language, expressions, vocal tonality, and vibes with the story you're telling.
Love,
Kshitij 💖
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Storytelling things:
1. Hero's Journey ~ Hook&Setup - Adventure - Conclusion
2. Talk in vivid deatils ~ Ears - Eyes - Nose - Mouth - Touch
3. Talk in emotions more than facts ~ Talk about your feeling at the moment
4. Talk with vulnerability ~ Show your fearness & your negatives
5. Be congruent ~ Show emotions with Body Language & Tonal vocality
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4:01
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This one is great! Also watch varun mayya’s video on story telling.
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Saw this video alone at 2am and ur story freaked the shit out of me bc.Good info though.
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Just be confident and believe in yourself your good enough
learning hindi 😂 to understand this
pyar
Developed kaise karein story telling
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Kontent
11:11 🫡
Setich bhai aap ke team pecha sa bol rahi hai 😂 unke alag story chal rahi hai 😑
U look and talk more grounded bro due to vipassna?
Nahi. This was shot before I went to Vipassana
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