Emotional Self Control / I'm Losing My Mind and Going Crazy
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- Опубліковано 15 жов 2024
- Grief and loss can cause someone to experience a wide range of emotions and unexpected behaviors. If you're dealing with grief while going through a breakup, it can make you feel like you've lost your mind. In this video, we discuss a situation where grief impacts a relationship and the struggles of dealing with loss while in a partnership.
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Grief therapist! Gold info thanks Margaret. Most people don’t know there’s many different
Do you guys coach for other relationships besides romantic breakups?
I’ve been adding success stories to my IG highlights lately. I often forget, but they can be a good motivator!
i really like these! please keep them coming!
We will
It's been almost 3 months since my breakup. My ex was severely damaged because of her previous abusive relationship. I thought I could fix her by treating her incredibly well and being there for her emotionally, but I was completely wrong. You can't fix a partner, they have to want to fix themselves. Anyways, my ex basically told me I treated her too well and she didn't deserve it. She immediately got into a relationship with a sleazeball who is currently cheating on her (she's aware and is still with him)... truth be told, I was probably monkey-branched. Regardless, the whole thing is too crazy for me. I'm a good guy who would never cheat or hurt anyone, and I treated her like a queen. I know my value and I now realize I don't deserve drama like that. I don't know what the future holds, but I will never invest my heart into another damaged woman again.
better not...stay focus..and good things are coming....
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This one was really great. While not every email coaching fits every person's situation, bits and pieces of them do. Very insightful.
Thank u ☺️
What an overwhelming sad situation. He got hit with a double whammy. I feel for you. 🥺. I hope things turn around for you this year.
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So important, trying to control emotions and the anxiety that can get so overwhelming..what a sad scenario.....it was the circumstances.....
It is easier said than done but I agree. Sometimes your head rushes away with its self and all sorts of scenarios play out in your head and make you anxious
My ex was a caregiver to me while I was reliving trauma and dissociating over the holidays. I had been sexually assaulted back in Sept by someone else. I made mistakes. I guilt tripped, controlled and pushed him away out of fear. I wasn't ready to be in a relationship. I've been doing self work for the last 3 months since he left. I'm in trauma therapy and getting my life together It has taken a long time to get to a place where I understand how he feels without blaming myself. I hope after no contact, I can show him I have let go of those trauma response behaviors. That I have let go of manipulation and controlling behaviors and that I'm working every day to find more and more coping techniques to replace them. If he gave us another chance, I would make sure those things never happened again. He has his own part in our breakup but I have forgiven him. Time to forgive myself fully too ❤
I'm so sorry you went through such an unwanted and scary experience and respect you for your bravery and willpower to workthrough it and get to this stage.
Please consider using your trauma and healthy self-love to help others who have been violated and need healing when you are ready.
BIG hug! 🧡🙏
Hey there. Your comment is very relatable to me. I was toxic to my ex and made him very, very tired. It’s only less than 1 week since the break up and I want to be with him so much. I hope I can contact you. I am curious how you are doing now.
Your vídeos are helping me to get my anxiety in check
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❤ Margaret, what a kind, decent person.
She’s the BESTEST ever
Hi guys, watching all the way from South Africa.... It's pity that being a good person is often interpreted as being weak. Most people watching your videos [including myself] are people who have thrived to be excellent partners in their relationships - but were dumped because they were deemed "too good; or boring". It has to mean they must be bad people to attract their partners back.
there is a love specialist who helped me get my ex back after 2years of divorce
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We can't generalize all breakups, but:
A relationship is not about "being good". And this thought in itself is faulty, as you interpret yourself as being good. If you're missing emotional connection, intimacy, physical attraction and love, one thing from "being good" is left and that is being a decent human - which is not enough for a relationship.
The best coaches always, in any situation
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Been on a roll with putting videos out lately craig team 🤔
Coach Margaret: want my five cents worth?
YES please!!! 😊
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She left me for someone else about 7 months ago. I know she isn’t coming back but I listen to your videos 24/7. They help so much. I wonder the difference between a rebound and being left for someone
Worry about you. She has a date with karma
They’re different. Search Rebound and Monkey Branching. This topic was discussed at the Love Chat channel.
I have a video on being left for someone. That's the ultimate slap in the face and I advise to never give that person a 2nd chance.
@@worwantubeI thought monkey branching was the same thing
Love Margaret she is a genius!!! Going to book a session with her. Great video.
This man was already married to his mother. No woman will ever be good enough for him.
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Great video bro
Thank goodness my girlfriend and I were still together when my father passed, I don’t think I would have gotten through my days without her around. But when the pandemic hit and we were not able to see each other as much, my anxiety kicked in and my separation attachment got worse, to the point where I was getting mad with her through text and she could see it, and she couldn’t take it anymore.
In some cultures, the eldest son cares for the parents and lives with them until they pass. It’s a traditional arrangement and they never fully have to individuate.
Sounds like he never left the nest. When he lost his mom, it not only crushed him but likely made him inherently fearful. Moreover, his girlfriend doesn't want to be the new security blanket or beck and call girl either. He was not ready for that kind of relationship...just not equipped with the life lessons, the knowledge, or ability to do so. Losing your mom hurts...losing her when you haven't attained your autonomy or cultivated your own identity...even worse. She's better off and may find someone else more secure. This guy just dropped some serious $$$ to have a session with these three out of codependent desperation rather than an introspective desire to better himself.
I tend to lose self control at times and would take it out on my ex (what you call displacement) and she would tell me so many times not to and to watch myself. She would tell me to take a breath first and calm down before I start talking to her. She had told me in the beginning of the relationship that her father is the same way and she didn’t want another man in her life like that. To be honest, I had made some progress on that situation throughout our relationship, but I would slip up once in a while.
Along with Margaret’s 5 cents, the girl friend did what she can for them emotionally and you all said she is exhausted at this point, she also needs to have someone strong for her emotional support and seeing him breakdown, she may have lost the attraction or respect for him as the man she needs In her life...he needs to take care of himself first then she will come back I think
True love never die don't give up anything in life all hope isn't lost
Hello getting back your ex shouldn't be a problem anymore....
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These videos comfort me, but I don't think my ex is coming back, been 5 months, it's really sad because if I knew then what I know now, it would be different.
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So I set up a date with my ex gf d but she came with an excuse that she's busy. I think I have to let it go. I'm trying my best to meet up but it's not working and I'm super busy.I said okay and she said honestly you can come see me since I wanted to talk. And she told me I should get a hotel instead of staying in her place.I'm not getting emotional but I might change my mind and just call her and see what she wants instead of wasting money on flight and hotel and barely get to see her. I feel like I'm forcing to see her and she just not interested.
Update?
great video, keep it up! i’d love to see more duet videos of craig+victoria and margaret+victoria♥️
The videos will either be with me, Margaret and myself, the 3 of us, or Victoria and myself
@@CoachCraigKenneth fab, i’d love to see more of coach victoria :)
You’ll see plenty
You cant go Norman Bates on you gf and expect her to stay.
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It would help so much if you could talk about when the dumpster tells themselves "its better like this so i dont hurt them like i was hurt, they deserve someone better, im not meant to be with anyone, i dont want to bring them down with me" all the things my ex said. I wish i could understand where shes coming from more and if theres any hope left for our relationship. If she thinkgs shes doing this for me, and that she has unfixable issues, how will she ever reach back out?
She walked. To hell with her. You'll find someone better
I got the "you deserve someone better" speech too a couple yrs ago and honestly, I think it's a BS line people use when they aren't interested in you anymore and/or found someone they like better. It's a cop out "nice" saying that people use to not hurt your feelings. I didn't go awww he really cares about me and my happiness, I was pissed and annoyed I got a cliche breakup line and never talked to him again.
haha dumpster... I'm gonna use that word from now on :D
But yeah, this "it's not you, it's me" excuse is exactly just that: an excuse. They're too weak to tell you the truth.
Hi Coach Craig. Nice video as always!! 👍I think a good topic to discuss is about when a dating partner says something bad happened to them / they don't feel good, and at the same time they're disconnecting from us!!! Is there any way to connect with them? What to say to connect with them?
there is a love specialist who helped me get my ex back after 2years of divorce
I can help you out
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Do you guys coach for other relationships besides romantic breakups?
Of course. We are also trained therapists… not some shmuck off the the street 😉
Poor guy I can relate to that
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Hi Coach! When can we expect to get a response from email coaching?
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Should i go no contact if i dumped my ex? I tried getting back with her but she kept saying she needs space and that she's not sure if this is what she wants in life.
If she wishes for space, give it to her. You reached out (with clear intentions to get back?) and now it's her decision to do something.
True love never die don't give up anything in life all hope isn't lost
Hello getting back your ex shouldn't be a problem anymore....
What's>App the healer.......
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There’s so much on the web that says dumpers don’t miss there ex otherwise they wouldn’t have ended it. Can you talk about this Craig?
Someone said to me that they found almost all the info they read about online about breakups is like “the blind leading the blind through a mind field”. Until they found our channel that is run by professionals... ya know... with degrees and real experience. And site actual research... by professionals
@@CoachCraigKenneth thank you I needed to hear this
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Love Margaret!!
I def feel bad for the girl in the story
I think a grief counselor could help me. Where would a person find a grief counselor in Washington?
I think I'm grieving several things, actually So many bad things have happened in my life in such a short time.
there is a love specialist who helped me get my ex back after 2years of divorce
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Psychology Today is a great resource to find therapists in your area!
Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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So Advice is :Do not letter to send her to tell her about my changes I have made ?
I've watched enough of Coach Craig's videos to know he would advise against sending a letter.
there is a love specialist who helped me get my ex back after 2years of divorce
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@@katieb5052 how can we show our ex about the work we put in to live consciously ! ?
@@GetMikeNyce Coach Craig says repeatedly in his videos that you wait for your ex to reach out to you & you show it respecting boundaries & the way you interact with them when the time comes.
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Hi @coach craig i am wondering does no contact work on someone you were dating for 6-7 months or is there no attachment if you weren't in a relationship the guy seemed crazy about me then ended things out of the blew he said he had lost emotion for me and didn't want to continue on further can no contact work or am i wasting my time please if you could help me understand i would be truly grateful? He does have autism also I'm not sure of level of autism he has.
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He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯
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