"He worked away but the guy tried to have someone to move on with life, which is side chick when was in that process the wife came back to tried and negotiation resolution and find that he has side chick phone and mass thing on side chick side and he was dumped by the side chick and wife dumped him to so this is what made him furious that everything is messed up" father
@@sosmansa5359 “he cheated and got mad he got caught, and the person he cheated with still was a bad partner AS SHE ALWAYS WAS. So he got mad” in short. He was the problem, she showed him MULTIPLE times she wasn’t a good partner and HE stepped out of HIS committed relationship to be with her AGAIN Like the top comment said, WALK
Ayi Sbusiso was sick. Now I hear that he ran her over with a car and helped her apply for Road Accident Fund 😪 that's y he was so mad when she wanted to leave when she was about to get the money.
@@mahlabimapengo7520he did and got tricked back by the victim because the victim was on the mission to destroy. So she invited the worse that a human being can experience. She declared a war and war ended.
The very first set up was forgiving her with the baby incident ,knowing he will make her suffer for that situation and probably bring it up everytime and ngoba naye she was guilty she didn't have much to say or do but accept whatever🤧
Lets not kidd ourselves and try to be the voice of reason or psychologists or senzengathi sihluzekile or as if we would have acted better... the stats will still rise coz we're a very lost generation, full of lust and disregarding valuable things, senza noma yin to get what we want, singadla amasimb omuntu to satisfy our wants, listen to the father, this guy was a sane person, humble a d all that then ifike intombi engazaz ifunan izoxhaphaza inhliziyo yomuntu over n over... mxm we're really messed up nje as a youth and its as if we're trying to rope in nalaba abazlungele kuwonke umsangano esiwenzayo, akungimangaz lokhu and im afraid akupheleli lana...
Parents are the once who suffer most in Gbv situations, they are the ones to deal with the pain of the decisions made by their children, may they all find peace and solace in God .
I have no sympathy for that man at all but I do I feel for his family and you can tell his father is deeply affected by the whole situation. I hope the family and the girl’s family can find peace
"What about messing up the relationship that he was trying to figure side chick and also dumped him" I think the girl was provoking the guy we don't promote that
Okunye could be black magic (idliso) you can act out of character because lona. And maybe thats why ugirl was playing ngoGuy ube azi ukuthi angeke akhone ukuhlukana naye
Ayy kodwa abantu besfazane bayazi donsela amanzi ngomsele ubemenzelani islima abuyele kuye kube bebesebehlukene, and umuntu othulayo inkinga kabi , ngazi ngami ngacishe ngangena kulenkinga . mina nje ngiyaphuma manje if ngike ngasola something so nje angiyicabangi lento.
Ubushumane busezawubulala abantu abanzi, I families mazibe neliso kwi relationships zabantwana especially xa beselula ngeminyanga, lento ngeyingakhange yenzeke xa besibajonga abantu.
Yooo I'm scared of boys 😢this is no fair yoooo😭😭😭💔abafana yizinja umbulale nje umuntu wesifazane they doing this bcz of we don't have power to them....yoooo angikho ryt even i don't know her 😢😢😢this is really sad.
Kodwa mantombazane anoke nikhuzane phela🤦🏽♂️💔, akwenisebenzise your feminine energy to heal the masculine energy. Because if you become destructive to him by provoking and messing up his life this is what we gonna get ekugcineni, men can take so much pain and after lokho ay akulungi.
He messed up his own life. He was engaged and cheated on HIS fiancé with her knowing she wasn’t going to be a good partner coz she never was. couldn’t he have just stayed faithful to his fiancé?!
Hayi it's time to heal yourself. No one provoked anyone here. Men "provoke" women all the time. How many men cheat on women and have babies on them but they never kill their partners. Men should take accountability Qa and heal themselves. The is no justification to kill a human being.
So how did her actions helped her? Inkinga nicabanga ukuth i am defending his actions. This is not the survival of the fittest bathong🤦🏽♂️. Yini ndaba nihleli nifune to laverage?
@@nhlanhla.vchili960 how did his actions help him ? Got a one way ticket to hell and Left his family to deal with the mess he made instead of just loving himself and leaving the relationship he claimed didn’t serve him.
@ I believe you have the information so you can have an idea on what had transpired between them, but because we have to blame one gender yes we will go to and fro. Also, if I tell you what did he gain it won’t make you feel at ease. But ngyakhuza yekani to want to laverage, it is either you building a relationship or you not, but in whatever we do lets us not toy with each other’s feelings and emotions.
Thank you for being truthful instead of taking sides. We need people to adress the causes just as we rebuke the killing
As individuals we need to have more self respect, discipline and accountability for our actions.
This is so sad 😢 May the two families find peace.
Guys you have the CHOICE to walk away, if the girl is wrong walk, if the boy is wrong walk.
"He worked away but the guy tried to have someone to move on with life, which is side chick when was in that process the wife came back to tried and negotiation resolution and find that he has side chick phone and mass thing on side chick side and he was dumped by the side chick and wife dumped him to so this is what made him furious that everything is messed up" father
@@sosmansa5359 “he cheated and got mad he got caught, and the person he cheated with still was a bad partner AS SHE ALWAYS WAS. So he got mad” in short. He was the problem, she showed him MULTIPLE times she wasn’t a good partner and HE stepped out of HIS committed relationship to be with her AGAIN
Like the top comment said, WALK
you have no idea how it feels i know this very well.
At the end of the day, this is not a justified action.
I fear for my life 💔to be honest opening up about abuse it’s not easy at all.
Are you okay?
Are you safe ? The minute you fear someone, that is not right.
😢I hope you okay mama❤....maybe seeing this video Is a sign for you too open up before it's too late
Please reach out if you feel unsafe please please
Open a case sisi
The father is very articulate.
Ayi Sbusiso was sick. Now I hear that he ran her over with a car and helped her apply for Road Accident Fund 😪 that's y he was so mad when she wanted to leave when she was about to get the money.
Haiboo he ran her over😮???
Joo
Yeah they plan that hit together to get money ba stout ke bao heh ba e sigile bale 2
You know what you are saying makes sense why was he sooo furious over RAF monies that aren't his ?
Too sad for sure.. but the blame goes to both parties.
The one to blame is the murderer, he had a Choice to walk away
Weman have to be taught to be independent stop using for financial support. Men stop buying woman for love
@@mahlabimapengo7520he did and got tricked back by the victim because the victim was on the mission to destroy. So she invited the worse that a human being can experience. She declared a war and war ended.
@@mahlabimapengo7520They are all to blame.
This Witchcraft is difficult to Explain
Hai for witches and wizards if they were doing positive spells the world could be a better a place......witchcraft at higher levels.
@@OnlyRandiweeeh they left the yt people killing their family members left and right. What difference would they make now?+
@blaqbee03 only witches and wizards could really answer that because the way they like inflicting pain towards people.
The very first set up was forgiving her with the baby incident ,knowing he will make her suffer for that situation and probably bring it up everytime and ngoba naye she was guilty she didn't have much to say or do but accept whatever🤧
Turns out the baby is his
And the sad thing about this whole thing is that Sbu had a choice, he wanted to delete his life and he did not give Ntobe that choice🤷🤷
Aaiii ibuhlungu le nto😢
Lets not kidd ourselves and try to be the voice of reason or psychologists or senzengathi sihluzekile or as if we would have acted better... the stats will still rise coz we're a very lost generation, full of lust and disregarding valuable things, senza noma yin to get what we want, singadla amasimb omuntu to satisfy our wants, listen to the father, this guy was a sane person, humble a d all that then ifike intombi engazaz ifunan izoxhaphaza inhliziyo yomuntu over n over... mxm we're really messed up nje as a youth and its as if we're trying to rope in nalaba abazlungele kuwonke umsangano esiwenzayo, akungimangaz lokhu and im afraid akupheleli lana...
Parents are the once who suffer most in Gbv situations, they are the ones to deal with the pain of the decisions made by their children, may they all find peace and solace in God .
I have no sympathy for that man at all but I do I feel for his family and you can tell his father is deeply affected by the whole situation. I hope the family and the girl’s family can find peace
Eyi ibuhlungu lento. Yes, the girl was wrong for making him raise a child that's not his, but ukubulala umuntu is never a solution.
"What about messing up the relationship that he was trying to figure side chick and also dumped him" I think the girl was provoking the guy we don't promote that
@sosmansa5359 he also was a willing participant, y was he with his ex if he's in a "New relationship" with someone else.
Amanga okwengane eyakhe.
@amafanisa2446 I personally believe you
Same story even me but I decided to run ,.i raised a child which is not mine I found out the boy when he was 9years.
Toxic. Toxic. Toxic😩😩
Mina ngithi kumele ibhekisiswe kahle lento yalentombazane ibe isifunda kwabaningi sihlukumezekile singamadoda kopha asinandawo lasingakhala khona ngoba nohulumeni wena akasazi singabadoda wazi abesifazanekuphela
Shame man. He is so ashamed.
The father is not ashamed for his son's actions, he is broken for what happened. He also lost a son.
I hear for her to get the Raf money Sbu drove over her with a car, yah neh 😑😔
Every action has equal and opposite reaction...... GBV will get worse until "actions" are addressed instead of always addressing the "reactions "
Okunye could be black magic (idliso) you can act out of character because lona. And maybe thats why ugirl was playing ngoGuy ube azi ukuthi angeke akhone ukuhlukana naye
Ubheka mina ngedwa unje uzimbela wena umgodi udlisa ingane yomfazi ujike uyafeba
Ladies don't be indecisive if you don't want someone don't get back to him 🙏🙏🙏
Ayy kodwa abantu besfazane bayazi donsela amanzi ngomsele ubemenzelani islima abuyele kuye kube bebesebehlukene, and umuntu othulayo inkinga kabi , ngazi ngami ngacishe ngangena kulenkinga . mina nje ngiyaphuma manje if ngike ngasola something so nje angiyicabangi lento.
It keeps getting worse 💔💔💔
Yeah this is not good any way im a mother of 5 boys im very sorry about this but you girl you are so cruel some time you don't deserve be married
Awu nxesi Tata, niwenzile owenu umsebenzi no mama namukhulisa u buti
Results of ubufebe
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Ubushumane busezawubulala abantu abanzi, I families mazibe neliso kwi relationships zabantwana especially xa beselula ngeminyanga, lento ngeyingakhange yenzeke xa besibajonga abantu.
Sad
...but he decided not to tell you about the RAF dispute and how she was involved in a car accident and what happened after the RAF claim..
...all in all abantu abazi iqiniso lokuthi kuze kufike la kwenzenjani...noma ngabe umzali noma wumngane wabo, nathi sonke singaznhlanhlathela nje...kulenkantolo yehlathi
Mina i believe ekthenini izinto ezikanje in most cases ksuke kunedliso phakathi,,ladies please ningayenzi lento yokdlis umuntu bese uyajika uyamala isphetho sayo simbi,,kodwa angijaji ngalokho ngithi imindeni yomibili nceseni nginifisela ukuphola ngokushesha kulengozi enivelele
U Sisi uyalunga , ubhutie nje wenze kahle kakhulu futhi , ningazami ukumufuna iphutha ngenxa yesi febe
How so? He is dead too 🤔
Naye ubeyisfebe esifebele ingoduso yaso! Umbulali
Guys asiyekeni ukuthuka sihloniphe imindeni yabo abasekho bona kodwa basathandwa imindeni yabo please asizihlonipheni bakwethu 😢❤
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Uthinike lomfana owamithisa lentombazane njengoba sekunjena , uthini njengoba edle umfazi womuntu wamzalisa kuze kube kanje nxeee amanye amajitha kodwa.
Please translate for me, I don't understand the language you're speaking.
Ai ibuhlungu lento yazi uBhuti angimgxeki mina
You’re too pretty for such words babes.
Ryt now ama comments awasena sdingo, RIP to both of them
Mara😢
Kuningi😢
Yooo I'm scared of boys 😢this is no fair yoooo😭😭😭💔abafana yizinja umbulale nje umuntu wesifazane they doing this bcz of we don't have power to them....yoooo angikho ryt even i don't know her 😢😢😢this is really sad.
Kodwa mantombazane anoke nikhuzane phela🤦🏽♂️💔, akwenisebenzise your feminine energy to heal the masculine energy. Because if you become destructive to him by provoking and messing up his life this is what we gonna get ekugcineni, men can take so much pain and after lokho ay akulungi.
He messed up his own life. He was engaged and cheated on HIS fiancé with her knowing she wasn’t going to be a good partner coz she never was. couldn’t he have just stayed faithful to his fiancé?!
Hayi it's time to heal yourself. No one provoked anyone here. Men "provoke" women all the time. How many men cheat on women and have babies on them but they never kill their partners. Men should take accountability Qa and heal themselves. The is no justification to kill a human being.
So how did her actions helped her? Inkinga nicabanga ukuth i am defending his actions. This is not the survival of the fittest bathong🤦🏽♂️. Yini ndaba nihleli nifune to laverage?
@@nhlanhla.vchili960 how did his actions help him ? Got a one way ticket to hell and Left his family to deal with the mess he made instead of just loving himself and leaving the relationship he claimed didn’t serve him.
@ I believe you have the information so you can have an idea on what had transpired between them, but because we have to blame one gender yes we will go to and fro. Also, if I tell you what did he gain it won’t make you feel at ease.
But ngyakhuza yekani to want to laverage, it is either you building a relationship or you not, but in whatever we do lets us not toy with each other’s feelings and emotions.
Mina ngibona umjita angenalo icala
This Witchcraft is difficult to Explain