Tsu Surf And Lil Mama ARGUE About GENDER ROLES In RELATIONSHIPS On CLUBHOUSE
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Surf not confused the woman are smfh
This "worker" shit is silly. How is it that a woman that cooks & cleans is a "worker" but a man that pays the bills is just doing what he's supposed to do?
Some women don't want any responsibility
Bars🔥
"Buss some fuckin suds" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Surf spoke straight facts. If I’m paying all the bills I ain’t cooking or cleaning shit. That’s for them 50/50 niggas
I pay all the bills and I like to cook sometimes my wife cook most of the time but I’m definitely helping clean I don’t like living in dirt
@@billwalter5092 point is you shouldn’t have to if you’re paying all the bills nigga. Like said does she pick up a bill or two sometimes ?
@@lorrainesimser446 the internet bill it’s only $30 tho Lmaoo
@@billwalter5092 u need better internet my g
@@billwalter5092 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I most certainly agree with Surf .....
Thank you surf and the homie ar !!!! Da fuc man wtf
Men r being raised to value there roles as a providers n protectors but women aren’t being taught to be home makers or to value her position
Too many simps out here throwing them money and not requiring them to "buss some fuckin suds" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
“If your dad teaching you to be independent, he’s showing you how cold the world can be” Think about it surf preaching 😤😤
Well they should. I do the same to mine
Nah, I agree with Surf completely and I'm definitely not a super submissive type of chick. If my dude is making big bank a year and paying ALL of the bills? What? Mann listen.
I didn’t want to be the one to say this, but even when Tsu Surf speak he be spittin bars I was waiting for him to tell Lil Mama what I gotta put it in Subtitles or something? “Don Demarco” style 🤣😂🤣
Surf ALWAYS gotta let somebody know he's worth 6 digits 😂
lol and all the 6 digit deals he has pending
@@ChigsSmooth lol word
Nigga swear he invented money lol. Shit i been making 6 figures my whole life and its still nothing to brag about. Niggas in Houston millionaires and you wouldn't even know it .its normal
@@ellsworthconstructionllc shit I been making 6 digits for the last 4 years n it's a blessing but definitely not nothing to brag about bro 💯
@@jerseybaby100 facts being worth 6 digits ain’t even impressive at all maybe if he was worth 7 or 8 digits that would be impressive but even mentioning that as some bragging tool comes off as childish.
THANK YOU SURF!
"You gon pull up and fall in line with life or I'm good" Surf 🤣🤣🤣
CTFU LMAOOO
SMfh lol
Surf 3-0
Tsu Surf My Guy don't He don't let nobody get a Word In 🤣
That New York shit
@@prolificjaywon2713 he from jersey
Everybody had a chance to speak
@@CLS_7301 yeah but I know Surf he gonna talk whether they speaking or not 🤣🤣
I'm with Surf. When I get to where I wanna be financially, I don't mind paying all or the bulk of the rent/mortgage. In return all I want is her to cook & do the bulk of the cleaning.
I wouldn't date a woman long-term if she doesn't want to cook or clean. That's just my preference. Also I have African parents who have been married over 20 years. From what I've observed, gender roles make things simple & easy.
That is so simple and yet they can't do that
Cuz it feels natural bro
So a woman that cooks and cleans is a “worker” just sounds like a responsible adult to me you can cook and clean an still be a fly chick
There's plenty of ways this cuda went wrong but Surf bodied this
Tsu surf isn’t petty he’s just traditional. Like and Lil Mama not wrong she’s just modern. It’s choices like Surf said!!
Fam, it's real simple. If it's agreed that one person pays all the bills and etc, then the other person does all the cleaning and cooking. If the bills and etc are shared, then the cooking and cleaning is shared too. What's the confusion?
Exactly shit easy af😂😂😂
People can't check their ego at the door that's the problem
So if I clean my own spot up im beta....lol Mmk good to know 👍🏿 This is where men's insecurities in masculinity and not being raised with father's comes in. Pops stayed with a clean house fresh towels fresh everything stayed having women and kept a burner and a grenade from the surplus in his house. Before him and mom split all 25 years of the relationship they both worked and whoever was home at the time would cook and clean. And pops made the best omelettes. Talmbout bacon green peppers onions cheese salt shxt be fire in the morning. And he still kept a titan demeanor all while doing it no complex about it whatsoever.
Very secure with himself and still on some G shxt. Sagittarius. Freedom loving guy. Surf is a young man though he still learning. Yeah it's cool to have a lady cooking and cleaning for you but when you in a relationship and they do it because they care realize that's not their job. They doing it because they care and in turn you would do it for them just like you would yourself. Too often we take advice from guys in the neighborhoods that's not all that bright in terms of knowing females. Dudes is giving out bad info not out of spite but because of lack of knowledge.
" Aw man that's female shxt let that females do that that's for them ho's "
Financial responsibility doesn't absolve us from caring. Would you know how to let her care for you besides the physical? If it's all about position what about when things slow up or when the roles are reversed and you're relying on your feminine counterpart at one point.
Is it not okay to show her appreciation and give yourself over in ways she needs you as they do for you for the both of you? Are you too masculine for that? And this is why women also cut their losses and move on why entertain toxic masculinity? I'm not speaking beta this is real life wisdom.
Men don't deal with emotions like that so I can understand his position and it gets very deep but if you desire to keep a good woman that cares around eventually you will have to come to terms with your own ignorance. It's women from the south who that's all they do cook clean and so forth and I love the south it's no shade but that's what they do. That's just how they've been raised that's not all women.
Surf Preaching
Surf making good points and he’s an excellent debator but he gotta let other people at least finish their point. Damn bro it’s only right. But he def speaking facts for his situation
I can listen to surf all day PURE comedy lol
facts lol i got another one dropping soon today from him
Lil momma was against surf being able to produce receipts for the money he spends to qualify for being able to comply to wat he wants
I enjoyed this conversation. There were many good points made!
Feminism has ruined these women 😒 it’s really not that hard. I work as a nurse make over 100k and I cook wash dishes and do laundry and my husband and I have a healthy sex life. It’s not hard!
The problem is they keep taking the extremes of everything lol
That's why she single 😂
He is too
@@coreyallen135 Yea the difference is women peak faster than men on the dating market. So men can be single longer.
I’m a 50/50 person. Let me see how invested you are in this and not having me come up and out of resources while you can stack yours. Respect to those who pay all the bills but it ain’t for me
I’m not into listening to entertainers talk about relationships! Anybody but entertainers smh
Club house is,the internet version of a phone chatline LOL
Straight trash app
This shit is nothing but internet three way call. I swear apps be making money off of shit we did back in the day
@@obatv5733 facts that's all these Apps are is a updated version
Voice recognition
Women have no problem with men saying paying bills is a mans job but soon as a women’s role is talked about those chicks find a issue
mans spitting facts lol
cuz been listenin to kevin samuels haha
Surf was definitely preaching!!!!✊✊✊✊✊
This is a comversation. Shout out SURF
Lil Ma gonna Cry again , Yall better stawp 😭😭😭
😆🤣🤦🏻
Surf is red pill
I agree with surf on this one! And I am a business woman but I’m taking care of home! You’re not a “worker” if you’re taking care of home.
26:20 was awkward af 🤣😂 bro thought he was preaching
Lmao that long ass pause
Lil Mama can kick rocks.. she def one of these 2021 chixks 💀🥱☠
Surf 3-0
logic vs emotion
I think you should do what you comfortable with. If I make more than my woman, I'm providing whether she doing housework or not. If she making more than me, I expect us to make similar financial contributions to the household until she has my child, then I'll take more of the financial load. If she can't cook, I'm cooking. I hate washing dishes so she can do that. Point is, either work together off your strengths or find someone who meets your standards.
Chat line back in the day 😂😂😂😂😂
Bruh I'm just 18 years old man. But hearing shit like this makes me scared to get in a relationship bruh. Like women wanna be masculine so badddd
lol don't let this affect you man, this is just clubhouse talk. 95% of women out there are wholesome and reasonable
@@ChigsSmooth shiiiid I hope so nigga😂
@@ChigsSmooth 95% ..😂😂😂 fucks no
Get out there man, get your own experiences
@@midelawal8167 nigga u never had a girlfriend before?
What's funny is all these convos is based off a relationship with a man with money but lets be honest...not all of us rich, im alright but not rich but as a man im the protector and do the man things around the house like fixing shit, oil changes,, shit like that but my chick still knows as a woman it's her job to keep up with the house and cleaning and all that but if she not there then anything that I do is a bonus and If I do wash some dishes I know im getting neck or something when she get back and my bitch a alpha female but she submissive to me cuz she knows her place...its all about knowing ya place and I think u gotta get that shit out in the open right from jump....
Tsu is just childish he thin lol money is everything he gotta be with a woman younger than him
When did he say he has to be with a woman younger than him?
🤔 so Lil Mama is not a worker ? Why does she have “so much going on” if shes not working ???
Surf on point point!! If I got the bills you got the house.
Lil mama tweaking 🤦🏽♂️
Basically surf saying traditional women are going to submit before the modern day women
I aint never seen lil mama and bow wow in the same room.. im just sayinnn
🤣😆🤦
I need a blunt after 5min of this ish...she trying to make 13 different points at ounce
mannnn lol and its like 13 ppl talking all at once
She’s a women, they just be throwin shi at the wall until something sticks
I need a blunt after reading your comment trynna figure out if you meant ounce or once.
@@MoneyEyeGetall it takes was a word damn you a addict 😂
@@mississippibilly_ Word 😂😂😂
Dame!!! Surf is preaching thattttt talk!
I have this same problem with my women we have been together for 11 years! And she has been raised by her mama and she told her to be independent have your own things and recently she has let her guard down and now she cooks cleans etc washes clothes and I will do my part for her. She thought it was weak to cook and clean for me because of her mom telling her to watch out for men. It’s deep the cycle has broken women use to do these type of things allllll the time
Took 11 years? You strong man
@@dclarke2179 I have too much love and understanding for my black women that’s why. I was raised by a single parent so I get the mentality. But it’s something that is taught to a lot of young black women to don’t trust no man or let no man take you for a fool. So I get it. Deep rooted problem, because the women will struggle to let that guard down even with a good man.
This isn't about what's or who's right or wrong! Everything does not have to be an argument. Like wth is wrong with people?! Everyone is different. Everyone wants, needs and desires something different. The problem with people is everyone wants to be right. Everyone expects the world to be just like them and want, think, do, act and believe the same as them. That's like arguing with someone about what flavor of ice cream is better. Who does that?! 🤦🏾♀️ It's unrealistic and quite frankly, immature af. What you eat will NEVER make me sh*t. Everyone needs to grow tf up and understand there is only ONE of you. I don't gaf what anyone wants or needs in their personal life, that's them. But I will always do what works and is best for me. 🤷🏾♀️
Check Kevin Samuel's out
I see no wrong in what surf saying 🤷♀️ it's life it's roles it's double standard 🙄
Surf ain’t say nun wrong
Did she say you got an Employee🤦 Modern women boi 🤪🤣 Surf talk that talk💯🎯💯
Surf is speaking on himself you get me, he’s basically saying if I’m out making money all day and you can chill and cook and clean it don’t take that long.
I’m pro women independence, however I understand the importance of ROLES. This is why our society is going downhill fast. Not everyone can be the same role. Doesn’t make one gender better, smarter or anything like that SMH
Why are roles important ? I think situation determines who does what .
@@Volt-K_44 because I think we were made for the roles. And when you try to force something that isn’t natural, it just doesn’t work. Sure, there are one off situations where man and women play opposite roles and it works, but I’m not talking about anomalies. I’m talking about the majority. All situations I know where the women was the breadwinner, the leader, the one “who wore the pants in the family”, did not work. The man felt emasculated and the women didn’t respect the man.
@@callmeifyougetlost2079 Yeah the majority of men make more than their spouse but I think that will be less common as equality improves. I don't think the mentality of women do this bc that's what they've always done will apply soon .
@@callmeifyougetlost2079 Also right on men feeling emasculated. However at some point those roles can go away like when they were talking abt maids and stuff. The dude saying that he wants a woman to work in his house is weird to me bc if I wouldn't want my girl to work hard at home , personally.
@@Volt-K_44 🤡🤡
Surf 3-0 all the women in the room
Women want to be men. While men have to figure it out in the meantime . I’m tired of figuring it out.
No your daddies say that because he dont want u going back and forth with men thats worth it... but u also need to talk to ya father about how a man should treat u
Lil Mama said writing music. Haha.
Respect!!!
hhaha
When was the last time she released music? [×]
She is releasing music
Does Surf stay on clubhouse all day
But it’s different types of ppl point blank period it ain’t black n white. If you want a woman who does that then find that, but nobody’s raised wrong for not being comparable to what your looking for
TSU bodied some points
The one guy made a great point. Some women have been submissive multiple times and have been used and abused multiple times so it's not easy to do it again.
My daughters are HIGHLY independent and they're HIGHLY Cleanly. So if you deal with either of them you have to bring both to the table. If you treat them with gifts then so be it but they can buy those same gifts themselves. We didn't raise them to depend on any man or woman unless it's a two way street.
Question out of curiosity: would you tell your daughters to a leave a relationship if she dealing with a highly paid man who said he wants to go 50/50 in living expenses if your daughter is a making bank aswell?
Yoooo SURF DIDNT EVEN HAVE A FATHER IN HIS LIFE!!! ...he mentioned that in plenty songs so How was he raised like that Lmfaoooooo
Maybe he had some other father figures
some women well never b happy they going to find something wrong i tell them shut up
I agree with the guy 🤷🏾♀️
Nigga surf got the most lit club house he should keep doing it
This nigga Surf said " Buss some fucking suds" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
lil mama is weird especially when surf was explaining how he cool with her then she try an make to like it’s something else smh
Nobody:
Surf: SIX DIGIT NIGGA RIGHT HERE!!!
Lol did he say a nigga that makes 6 digits a day?! Or did he mean somebody who makes 6 figures
Lil Mama know she not the regular women Surf talking about like she said she got business to handle music to make Surf talking about a women not in the industry that don't wana be in the spotlight
no cap they might be dating on the low 😂😂 search them up on UA-cam
@@ChigsSmooth yeah they just seem like they close homies tho Surf still probably hit tho
Saying all that bs but you got a maid a driver in a chef so wtf is you crying for if you got allll dat 🧢
😂😂😂
You the clubhouse plug
you know the vibes!!
This nigga can speak damn how he handle all these women ready to kill for this convo
I agree with Surt.. women need to know their place!
Regular is traditional.
Surf was talking to they soul, he said he gon clean like a nigga lol
facts its like women aint even giving men the chance to voice their opinion anymore
This why I fuck wit white woman
Surf need to gone head and open up his own church 😂😂😂
🗣🗣🗣WHAT PEOPLE CONSIDER TRADITIONAL DEPENDS ON HOW THEY GREW UP. Lil Mama’s mother passed when she was little, she was raised by her father so her views on gender roles are going to be what she saw growing up. There was nothing wrong with what Surf said. I’m tired of people trying to shame women for cooking and cleaning. I cook, clean and work, my husband pays ALL the bills. I buy groceries. And WE have great savings. 50/50 is for roommates, but to each its own. 🤷🏽♀️
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Free tsunami
People can't tell that surf is on here to talk about HIMSELF more than any of that other shit. And no matter how much progress will be made in the conversation trust me he'll fuck it up. 😂😂😂
All these females trippin. I bet they mamas and grandmas would love that. They was takin care of the house and the man wasn’t really gettin it like surf.
What kind of women are these? The brain is not registering the information Surf is saying. Listen!!! I mean its so simple for to me. Love you Surf.
Salute to surf
He agreed when she said communication but then continued NOT communicate and over talk everybody. 😂😂
The women actually acknowledged surf was right and they fell back.
I never in my life met a man who talked as much as Surf or knew it was even possible for men to talk that damn much! I'm trying to find one interview where someone spoke as much as he did where he wasn't cutting everybody off and not letting them get a word in edgewise.
You wrote an entire paragraph cause a nigga speaks a lot when being asked questions lmfao
Surf was completely right on every point
some women don't know what they want.
They wanna be independent, but then they get with a guy & complain that he doesn't take care of them.
Then they want a guy to take care of them, but then when he does they complain that they want to be more independent.
You gotta pick one and stick to it.
Tsurf cool but he gotta stop secretly sliding in his street credit, that shit is corny
Some of these chicks dad failed them terribly
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