🤦🏾♀️What do you bring to the table?
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- 🌸 Because we all lead with something, ladies lead with your femininity and womanhood because that's where your true magic resides!⭐️
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That part! When I was dating I was NEVER asked what I brought to “the table”. I just brought my sweet, kind, supportive self and he provided everything I needed from then on. ❤
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🚨Before y'all get it twisted and start to tussle, I didn't say not to have a degree or your own money. I have those things. I'm saying as a woman who wants a relationship, DO NOT LEAD WITH THAT. You provide more value than that….Toodles..💋
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April this is so ON POINT! These are the same women that I coach. They've checked all of the "success" boxes but cannot maintain intimate relationships. I've been married for 16 yrs and am successful in my own right... My husband cares about me doing my own thing BUT cares more about how I treat and love him... PERIOD!
I never had a man ask me this. Bring your personality period
What is understood does not have to be explained. My husband didn't ask me what I bring to the table. My presence, demeanor, and interactions with people made it very clear. My husband asked me what my relationship goals were for dating and just took the ball and ran.
My accomplishments were appreciated for what they indicated about my character moreso than being a flex.
That is so true miss April but there's another side of the story too. I see it a lot. Lots of these women weren't satisfied with situations they saw around them. They want to do better because they've seen their mom struggle. Father's who were absent. They had to survive so they worked on their education and careers. Caus that's seen as the key to success and what they can depend on. Many men not all men fall behind. Women are getting ahead. They had to be tough caus life is tough when you have no strong man to depend on. She can make it on her own and she worked hard for it. So that explains the attitude. Now we expect her to be soft and nice too. Women are the product of our society. Men want women to be nicer and softer. Make life a little easier and carry some of the heavy load. The feminity will flow naturally. I play my role if you play yours. Don't let me do both.
Absolutely ! This is why the Creator has gifted you with this assignment. Thank you so much for all you do. May the Creator continue to bless you in abundance, healing for you and your family as well as favor in all your endeavors. 💙
Thank you, I appreciate you! ❤
Preach April! All the stuff she mentioned are cherries on top.
Exactly
All she did was lead with her accomplishments. But what is that energy like? What is that personality like? How is that attitude? What type of purpose partner are you
This is the question men r asking.
🙄 First and foremost, financially secure men don't ask women what they bring to the table. Smh. 🙄
My affluent male family members and friends stated, this is a broken man's conundrum. Financially secure men don't have this conversation.
Therefore, her response was accurate.😊 These particular men want to know her financial and career status NOT her essence .
A woman's essence is not his primary concern. 🙄 Nevertheless, a woman will reveal her essence when a genuine, authentic man with integrity ask her about her goals, dreams, desires, intentions and purpose for a popotential relationship.
The above will reveal her essence rather than what she will brings to the table. 🙄
@aprilmason I have absolutely no problem with what you are saying. The challenge is that most women have had to learn how to be strong and independent. If all of your mind and energy is giving over to building, you have less time to cultivate and appreciate your feminine qualities. Clearly, some women can do/have it all but they are in the minority. Most women cannot work/build a business, get an education, raise children, heal from their own trauma, be a contributing member of a community etc and still be soft and feminine. Most of that requires masculine energy and it's difficult weave in and out. It's really hard for some women to believe that their are millions of women who never had men looking out for them therefore never been able rest. No fathers, uncles, brothers and forget about the men who desire you.
I hear you however, the why no longer matters. We must decided to be something different if we want different.
Peace = Emotional regulation and maturity.........Now, how many women bring peace to the table?
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