"Do you love this man? Or do you love what another woman's impact left on him?" Damn! That's a powerful statement on what it really means to steal another woman's husband.
Эту фразу надо понимать так,что то каким мужчина стал и очаровал своими достоинствами молодую мечтательницу(раннюю простигосподи!) является заслугой жены,это она воспитала в нём эти достоинства.Хотя брать на себя ответственность в их жизни он так и не научился...
Somehow the actor playing this weak husband is so good that I started not liking this actor. He also played few other roles of cheating and despicable husband.
My pastor once shared this before. That when he was young and had poor dress sense, it was his wife who loved him and he grew under her care. When they got married, she bought him nice clothes and would help style his hair to her liking. So whatever any girl sees here, whoever he is the result of, the credit goes to his wife’l for her love and patience. He then said that this is similar for many guys out there who are married, so those ladies who are out to target married men, they don’t realise who they like is the outcome of their wives loving care. They should find their own diamond in the rough that they can cut to the brilliance they desire and polish. Don’t target someone else’s husband. If that husband leaves his wife for you, you will always wonder when he will leave you for someone else. Trust will always be a question mark. So true.
Love how strong Gu Jia is. She doesn't take any bs. She didn't react or act dramatic when she found out that her husband cheated on her But when someone mess with her son mommy bear comes out
If you are hurt, it's okay to show it. No need to hold it in, don't call that over dramatic. If your mother weeps at your grave, would you call her overdramatic too. Your mother weeps your death, and the cheated wife weeps the death of her love for her husband, none is being over dramatic.
It’s healthy to expresses grief, trust me. As someone who got incredibly sick for keeping it all in, you can develop serious illness for not being able to express your stress.
@@AirFire18 I agree. She can express her grief (which she did in later scenes) especially with her best friends but I think her not doing the dramatic recriminations scenes typical in dramas gave her back the power - the other woman wanted to see her crumble so that she could have the last “laugh” or to prove she has the power to bring the wife to her knees (so to speak). Acting the way she did, I think allowed her to wrestle back the dignity this other woman sought to take from her. But that is just how I view it. Other folks might definitely feel the other way and I guess it boils down to what works for each person. 🙂
@@imdreamingofawhite Oh yes! women who do this for real aim to hurt the other woman. It's a sick pathetic power move from them. Like mocking you, stating that "Yea, I can take your man what are you going to do about it, bitch." These women are sad deep down and only depend on looks and sex to get by. Once men stop giving them attention they peeved and try to dig into other peoples relationships to find stability.
I paused the video right then to look at the comments for this because this is why some women go for married men. When the man's wife builds them up to be the best of what they could be in looks, ways and everything it becomes attractive to the unmarried.
Society mostly blames the mistress but I think we should mostly blame the husband because the husband is the one who swore to love his wife and broke the marriage. All of us are exposed to temptation in varying degrees. A dishonorable man succumbs while a strong man will not.
@@xq3263 No. The husband is the one who made the promise and marriage to the wife and his marriage, not the mistress. If the husband never reach out the mistress, this will never happened.
I totally agree with this. A million women might want him, but that does not mean he has any obligation to return their feelings. He made a vow to love, honor, and respect his wife. As soon as he starts to even think of having an affair furthermore acts it out regardless if emotions were involved or not, he's the one to blame. Those vows were broken already once those thoughts were mentioned. Yeah, that mistress is to blame too for wanting someone else's husband, and most of the time they want that other person's livelihood. In the end, it's the husband that lets that person in, no one else. He's the one to blame and should just tuck his tail and leave.
It takes two and they are both equally to blame. The man cannot cheat if the woman is not willing. Sorry to say but there are too many aggressive gold-diggers today that will go after a man regardless if he is taken or married. Most men are in it for sex and ego gratification but the other woman is equally sinister and wants to take everything the current wife has.
@@amusedtofu that doesn’t mean the woman shouldn’t be blamed. You are equally as disgusting and have a lack of morals if you get with a married man with a family. Let’s not forget it takes two to tango especially if the woman is so thirsty for the man
Husband: Gu Jia, am I losing you? Me: you’ve lost her the moment you starting harboring feelings for someone else and cheating on your wife. She doesn’t deserve you 🙄😒
Such a banger line tho "do you love this man? Or do you love what another woman's impact left on him" Reminds me of Olivia Rodrigo's dejavu. Seems to be a theme worth touching, that the person who is with the man after, is not only with the person, but with the changed version that another woman has left behind.
Divorce is not a bad thing especially if you can regain yourself, your sense of peace and believe your value & worth. Being a better you is what a child needs to see & feel and not a toxic, unhealthy & unhappy relationship.
Perfection can be Bad.... MY EX HUSBAND IT WAS LIKE SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY.. the🎬 I just wanted him to let me in...make Loving him simple not something so hard to work at each day...
That is just to let you know what kind of a loser these men are if you're going to cheat own up to it I don't blame someone who's the victim!!! He's upset because she wants to divorce him she's upset because he cheated and caused all this!! That lady's is called deflection 101 it's all his fault but he can't handle it because he's a narcissist!! Best part when you view this in it's entirely The soon to be ex-wife gets her rocks off what is a hot dude she has a one night stand!! Lmfao And the dude is extremely hot like she did 1000 times better than her ex-husband the guy is also a CEO of his own business and he's smart so in the end she wins it's called karma
Never date men or women if they have salary less than you ,that what my lesson i learn in my live.guy's is easy you get if you have alot money ,but they never truly love you ,just love you money and more they cheater.i hate guy like gu gu hubby.in way i heal my wound i go fly oversea ( im staying now) one my employer mother tell me" don' t worry about guy' s now,just focus to you live and job and earn alot money,if you have alot money, alot guy's drop their knee's in your feet and they find you".belive me in time i was take off from my job i visit my family in my country ,not only guy who never 1 second intrested to me but my ex my cheater ex wanted come back to me.im singgle in late 30 have better live now
@@lissettemullen7335 todo es cierto y estoy de acuerdo, pero tocante a que ella tuvo una aventura de una noche con un hombre que estaba caliente 🤔🤔🤔, no lo vi así e repetido mil veces esa escena porque pensé lo mismo, pero me equivoque ese hombre joven se acerca y si toma un trago con él y hablan y ríen, pero luego solo se ve ella sola quitándose el anillo 💍 y seguido esta acostada en la cama sola y no hay nadie con ella y la cama no hay rastro que alguien haya dormido del otro lado
This is alot like my mother and father, alot of women loved and wanted him but he only wanted my mother who was the one who made him what he was and he would tell you that too. "She made me this way." He was kind, warm, caring, funny, generous, wouldnt hurt a fly, always gave to the poor. He was an amazing driver. Worked hard. But that was all only after my mother put her foot down when she was tired of him being the opposite. She said if he didnt start acting right and grow up she was gonna take my older sisters away and never come back. He loved my mother and changed for her. People DO change for love, if its real love. Its a wonderful feeling knowing that you are youre parents love child, the one who helped them start over.
🌸 He’s still only concerned with his feelings! For crying out loud, his wife is missing because of him and he’s talking about the bathroom diffuser? Poor Baby!! How miserable for him. What a total loser. I’m so glad that her sister and friends are supportive.
It takes two to tango. If you're a married man, don't give in to temptation. If you're a woman and knows that a man is married don't even entertain thoughts about him. If he cheated with you with his wife he can do that again with another woman to you, hun. P.S. Love these women's friendship.
Well his little college girl didn’t even blink an eye. Oh look here. A hot guy I want and how cute he carries a child like bandaide in his wallet. Must have a wife and kid. Oh well. I want him now. That girl needed the snot smacked out of her. 😡
after watching all these kind of series drama don't wanna marry never and don't wanna have bf as well so well single from inside and outside happy though.....
Mistress: I made this my last opportunity Biss please, just say that you're broke AF and can't even afford a plane ticket back home 🙄 How can she feel so entitled with so little substance
No one can be stolen. A person makes a decision that they will fall for temptation or not. So yes you can blame the home wreckers but they wouldn't be able to succeed if one of the partners didn't open the door to let them in.
@@beelesedi Exactly. Whoever started the game is to be blamed but the person to be blamed most is the one who cheated because once you've done it, TRUST will turn to DISTRUST and DISGUSTMENT.
@@beelesedi i know that the other party is the one in the end who made decision. But if you are a woman and you know the man is already has GF or married, you then should not seduce them. That's the point of my comment. I will never justify any man or woman who seduce other although they already known they already has wife/husband/bf/gf/fiancee. Don't ever say when you like a man/ girl, then someone told you that what you did is a homewrecker, then you will say: It won't happen if the man won't fall for me.
@@somqicarat1591 It's the other thing..but still when you already know someone already has wife/husband, never seduce them. I despise them. No excuse.. About the other party is another stuff..Ofc it's bad too. Because it needs 2 to tango.. Bu t i will never justify and make an excuse : oh..it's not my fault..he falls for my seduce? Lol..seriously?
He’s such a looser. He can’t do anything for himself, asks his wife to do it, then blames her for taking over doing his work. But he knows how to cheat with a young girl and spend his and his wife’s savings on the homewrecker.
Boys we woman forgive you so many times for hurting us but cheating having an affair we never forgive or forget because it hurts a lot emotionally even if we forgive then it will never be the same like before. If trust is broken then it’s very hard to reappear.
Even if you do forgive them it’s never the same after word sometimes and a very rare cases it can make the couple stronger I’ve seen many couples from their marriages that had an affair and then afterwords they became stronger from them but then there’s the weak minded that don’t understand forgiveness and they can never let go however they will make the other party pay for it for the rest of your life in that case it’s divorced time
Me gusta cuando la amiga dice; usando la perfección de su esposa como excusa. Me recuerda a un Chico que tuve, me dijo me engañaba porque yo trabajaba en el día y en la noche estudiaba, y que al llegar dormía. En serio no entiendo que excusa son esas, cuando usted empieza una relación usted estuvo de acuerdo y hasta feliz con lo que se le ofrecía y luego se quejan y quieren otra cosa y al final culpan a la pareja. Obvio le di banda, conocí a un hombre maravilloso que me despierta a besos y hace la cena cuando tengo examen y me hace preguntas de lo que me puede salir en el. Somos una pareja en donde reina el apoyo mutuo, compañerismo y compresión. De solo pensar que me pude perder está relación tan maravillosa, por estar forzando en una relación tóxica con alguien que no valía la pena...uff es que no me lo quiero ni imaginar
Gu Jia é um baita mulherão... Pisou com classe e mostrou que tudo que a outra queria na verdade não pertencia a ela. E a frase de impacto: "quando você conhecer alguém no futuro o que vai ter pra contar sobre seu passado?" Tipo assim: suas atitudes te trazem orgulho ou te envergonham? Suas atitudes fazem as pessoas te admirarem? Muito forte isso
What she said is so true. Mistresses don’t understand that what they love about a married man is what his wife did for him. The wife most likely does his laundry, takes care and manages most of the day to day of the children, doctor’s appointments, supports him, etc etc. This allows him to be worry free in his personal life in order to focus on his career or some other interest ironically like meeting women because of the free time the wife’s hard work leaves him to have.
Que mulher forte e decisivo ,mãe ,esposa uma verdadeira ajudadora do seu marido e ele não a deu o valor necessário infelizmente muito triste . Um casamento destruído é realmente horrível e quem sofre são sempre os inocentes nessa história 'filhos "pq os pais traem e não pensam na família que é o bem mais preciso que tem .
My wife is famous for "Emily of Emerald Hill" a play written by Stella Can. It is a monolog play and Pearlly has given it in Malaysia, Singapore, Canada and other places.
Never go back girl! I’m sorry but, once that kind of trust is broken it can hardly ever be repaired. I understand that they have a child together, but if one or both of the parents are unhappy, or unable to trust the other the child will feel the strain too. Also, it is a bad example to set the child. 😢
Acabo de ver este drama y me ha encantado!!! La recomiendo por ser un drama con historias actuales de relaciones tóxicas, de amores incomplendidos y de infelidades.
@@marthaosorto4344 Se llama Nada más que treinta, el título dice mucho de como trascurre la historia de tres amigas que cerca de los 30 en una sociedad como es la China ya deben estar casadas, con hijos y con una exitosa carrera. Lo puedes ver en Viki aquí te saldrá de vez en cuando publicidad, también lo encontrarás en Estrenos Doramas. Tiene 43 episodios. Espero te guste.
Not for the man.. her son He said, “ I’ll pick daddy” so she’ll stay.. son wants them to stay together. She should explain to the child the truth at some point if it’s impossible to stay.
After watching news from some VD YT..my God..my heart breack n hurt.., Mao Tjia Tong real life story like Gu Jia..her BF heating n she come home look that with her eyes..😧😭😭😭
This thing happened to me and breaks me ...... I walked out and he asked me to stay coz of my son.... I went to the lady's house to ask her if she really love my husband...... For me to get divorce and the problem is husband don't love her lady affair..... I'm still here and all my trust for him is gone ...... Sometimes good ladies Don't deserve this kind a cheating man
Me gustó como actuó está mujer, lejos del comportamiento de la mujeres de dramas usuales, que lloran chillan,pegan ,pero luego vuelven con el esposo. Bravo !!!
Estou com pena do papel de se ator o cara perdeu tudo por uma aventura fico lembrando do sorriso dele crente que estava abafando nada fica escondido um dia a conta cha
His not man enough to sit down and discuss his feelings with his wife. He just keeps telling her to solve his problems. He was treating her like a mother.
Girlz just love n respect yourself (one day your kids grow up n leave you ,husband can stop love n think ,care n respect ,nothing s forever …who s most imported : You
"Do you love this man?
Or do you love what another woman's impact left on him?"
Damn! That's a powerful statement on what it really means to steal another woman's husband.
They are Trash sleeping with another woman's husband The man became one at marriage second person breaks the bond of marriage DIVORCE
是不要太假賢慧，太用自己以為的方式為對方做太多，承擔太多責任，要讓他自己承擔起責任，才不會不切實際老愛作夢
Эту фразу надо понимать так,что то каким мужчина стал и очаровал своими достоинствами молодую мечтательницу(раннюю простигосподи!) является заслугой жены,это она воспитала в нём эти достоинства.Хотя брать на себя ответственность в их жизни он так и не научился...
Somehow the actor playing this weak husband is so good that I started not liking this actor. He also played few other roles of cheating and despicable husband.
My pastor once shared this before. That when he was young and had poor dress sense, it was his wife who loved him and he grew under her care. When they got married, she bought him nice clothes and would help style his hair to her liking. So whatever any girl sees here, whoever he is the result of, the credit goes to his wife’l for her love and patience. He then said that this is similar for many guys out there who are married, so those ladies who are out to target married men, they don’t realise who they like is the outcome of their wives loving care. They should find their own diamond in the rough that they can cut to the brilliance they desire and polish. Don’t target someone else’s husband. If that husband leaves his wife for you, you will always wonder when he will leave you for someone else. Trust will always be a question mark. So true.
I love Gu Jia's character and her female friends too. They're real friends who have her back. Love seeing strong female characters like this.
Me too! While Hollywood fails in creating strong leading females China and Korea do it so effortlessly.
Lol I loved that fiesty friend! I hope to have a friend that would have my back like that!
Love how strong Gu Jia is. She doesn't take any bs. She didn't react or act dramatic when she found out that her husband cheated on her But when someone mess with her son mommy bear comes out
I really love that part , she smash the mistress for her baby
Love how she handled this - no weeping, overdramatic recriminations instead quiet dignity and resolve on her part.
If you are hurt, it's okay to show it.
No need to hold it in, don't call that over dramatic.
If your mother weeps at your grave, would you call her overdramatic too.
Your mother weeps your death, and the cheated wife weeps the death of her love for her husband, none is being over dramatic.
It’s healthy to expresses grief, trust me. As someone who got incredibly sick for keeping it all in, you can develop serious illness for not being able to express your stress.
@@AirFire18 I agree. She can express her grief (which she did in later scenes) especially with her best friends but I think her not doing the dramatic recriminations scenes typical in dramas gave her back the power - the other woman wanted to see her crumble so that she could have the last “laugh” or to prove she has the power to bring the wife to her knees (so to speak). Acting the way she did, I think allowed her to wrestle back the dignity this other woman sought to take from her. But that is just how I view it. Other folks might definitely feel the other way and I guess it boils down to what works for each person. 🙂
@@imdreamingofawhite Oh yes! women who do this for real aim to hurt the other woman. It's a sick pathetic power move from them. Like mocking you, stating that "Yea, I can take your man what are you going to do about it, bitch." These women are sad deep down and only depend on looks and sex to get by. Once men stop giving them attention they peeved and try to dig into other peoples relationships to find stability.
@@imdreamingofawhite is just expressing her opinions, @Ki and @AirFire18 overanalysed her comment LOL
I live for that statement! "Do you love the man or another woman's impact on him?"
That’s is so goooood
I agree
It was brilliant 👏
Awesome statement clearly telling the mistress she is only getting what the wife left behind(in other words,leftovers)
@@sds424 no she is saying you only like what a relationship with me turned him into. Which makes it that much more cutting / a slap in the face.
I love this character. She is strong woman who deserves better. I like to see her happily married with someone else.
Even the mistress recognizes that!
Hey hey may I know the drama name?
Judulnya apa ya
@@queenfamily9304 Nothing but thirty
把妻子的完美當成出軌的理由真是太低級了
說得太太太對了
Love that line, "....or do you love what another woman's impact left on him?".
現實中不少男人都是如此身在福中不知福
男人自己的軟弱不進取督促妻子只能一肩扛起。。她的無怨無悔換來男人自尊心作祟
那句。。把妻子的完美當作出軌的理由。。會不會太低級。。。
嗯。。說的真好
哪天我要是離婚了，我也會像顧佳一樣飛到一個陌生的城市，抛下一切不去想，到最后只剩自己好好爱自己
現實生活，我就是顧佳，現在的我~快樂、健康、有自信~我身心很美麗❤
"Do you love this man or do you love what another woman's impact left on him" **Snaps fingers in praise**
I think this is frequently the case as well as envy.
👏👏👏👏👏
I paused the video right then to look at the comments for this because this is why some women go for married men. When the man's wife builds them up to be the best of what they could be in looks, ways and everything it becomes attractive to the unmarried.
Exactly
Society mostly blames the mistress but I think we should mostly blame the husband because the husband is the one who swore to love his wife and broke the marriage. All of us are exposed to temptation in varying degrees. A dishonorable man succumbs while a strong man will not.
No it depends. If the mistress knows the man has a gf/ wife then she deserves to be blamed.
@@xq3263 No. The husband is the one who made the promise and marriage to the wife and his marriage, not the mistress.
If the husband never reach out the mistress, this will never happened.
I totally agree with this. A million women might want him, but that does not mean he has any obligation to return their feelings. He made a vow to love, honor, and respect his wife. As soon as he starts to even think of having an affair furthermore acts it out regardless if emotions were involved or not, he's the one to blame. Those vows were broken already once those thoughts were mentioned. Yeah, that mistress is to blame too for wanting someone else's husband, and most of the time they want that other person's livelihood. In the end, it's the husband that lets that person in, no one else. He's the one to blame and should just tuck his tail and leave.
It takes two and they are both equally to blame. The man cannot cheat if the woman is not willing. Sorry to say but there are too many aggressive gold-diggers today that will go after a man regardless if he is taken or married. Most men are in it for sex and ego gratification but the other woman is equally sinister and wants to take everything the current wife has.
@@amusedtofu that doesn’t mean the woman shouldn’t be blamed. You are equally as disgusting and have a lack of morals if you get with a married man with a family. Let’s not forget it takes two to tango especially if the woman is so thirsty for the man
Husband: Gu Jia, am I losing you?
Me: you’ve lost her the moment you starting harboring feelings for someone else and cheating on your wife. She doesn’t deserve you 🙄😒
More like he doesn't deserve her. 🙄
@@quinnbloodmoon1112 - I agree, but I think they meant she doesn't deserve such a vile husband.
I say he doesn't deserve her
Amen
@@troublemcallister730 - Women are gold diggers anyway
“Do you love this man or do you love another woman’s impact on him? “
Jeez that’s so dang accurate
Yep that was pretty awesome.
What does that mean
@@nishas6110 "do you love this man or do you love the actions/traces of him that is influenced by another woman?" Is what the line meant
She's so strong. I wish to be strong like her.
Such a banger line tho "do you love this man? Or do you love what another woman's impact left on him"
Reminds me of Olivia Rodrigo's dejavu. Seems to be a theme worth touching, that the person who is with the man after, is not only with the person, but with the changed version that another woman has left behind.
所以一个人不能太爱其他人 人还是多爱惜自己
Divorce is not a bad thing especially if you can regain yourself, your sense of peace and believe your value & worth. Being a better you is what a child needs to see & feel and not a toxic, unhealthy & unhappy relationship.
So agree. Staying together for the sake of children leaves everyone miserable including the children. She is such a strong role model.
Home wrecker aside, that girl acting is really good. I love her facial expressions.
Using your wife's perfection as an excuse to have an affair,! Well said 🧐 you don't miss the well until the water runs dry 🌊
Perfection can be Bad....
MY EX HUSBAND
IT WAS LIKE SLEEPING WITH
THE ENEMY.. the🎬
I just wanted him to let me in...make Loving him simple not something so hard to work at each day...
That is just to let you know what kind of a loser these men are if you're going to cheat own up to it I don't blame someone who's the victim!!! He's upset because she wants to divorce him she's upset because he cheated and caused all this!! That lady's is called deflection 101 it's all his fault but he can't handle it because he's a narcissist!! Best part when you view this in it's entirely The soon to be ex-wife gets her rocks off what is a hot dude she has a one night stand!! Lmfao And the dude is extremely hot like she did 1000 times better than her ex-husband the guy is also a CEO of his own business and he's smart so in the end she wins it's called karma
Never date men or women if they have salary less than you ,that what my lesson i learn in my live.guy's is easy you get if you have alot money ,but they never truly love you ,just love you money and more they cheater.i hate guy like gu gu hubby.in way i heal my wound i go fly oversea ( im staying now) one my employer mother tell me" don' t worry about guy' s now,just focus to you live and job and earn alot money,if you have alot money, alot guy's drop their knee's in your feet and they find you".belive me in time i was take off from my job i visit my family in my country ,not only guy who never 1 second intrested to me but my ex my cheater ex wanted come back to me.im singgle in late 30 have better live now
@@prue3318
I say more power to you no woman needs a man point blank. The thing is why buy a whole pig for a little sausage LOL
@@lissettemullen7335 todo es cierto y estoy de acuerdo, pero tocante a que ella tuvo una aventura de una noche con un hombre que estaba caliente 🤔🤔🤔, no lo vi así e repetido mil veces esa escena porque pensé lo mismo, pero me equivoque ese hombre joven se acerca y si toma un trago con él y hablan y ríen, pero luego solo se ve ella sola quitándose el anillo 💍 y seguido esta acostada en la cama sola y no hay nadie con ella y la cama no hay rastro que alguien haya dormido del otro lado
This is alot like my mother and father, alot of women loved and wanted him but he only wanted my mother who was the one who made him what he was and he would tell you that too. "She made me this way." He was kind, warm, caring, funny, generous, wouldnt hurt a fly, always gave to the poor. He was an amazing driver. Worked hard. But that was all only after my mother put her foot down when she was tired of him being the opposite. She said if he didnt start acting right and grow up she was gonna take my older sisters away and never come back. He loved my mother and changed for her. People DO change for love, if its real love. Its a wonderful feeling knowing that you are youre parents love child, the one who helped them start over.
🌸 He’s still only concerned with his feelings! For crying out loud, his wife is missing because of him and he’s talking about the bathroom diffuser? Poor Baby!! How miserable for him. What a total loser.
I’m so glad that her sister and friends are supportive.
有這兩個好友真的很幸福！
是不是你配不上她，把妻子的完美，當作出軌理由的男人，會不會太低級了😌
顾佳这马上能飞的机票是我最爱的。活了一辈子，这辈子的辛劳到底是为了什么，何时是为了自己而活。
到了这把年纪，我才明白，女人不能把爱情看得太重，生活终归要回归平凡，寡淡。像林有有这种张口闭口爱情的小三，还是太年轻啦。
她会这么难受是因为爱，才会痛。如果女人不把男人看得那么重，多爱自己，关注自己的生活和发展，心态就会好很多
是真的很好看也很寫實 看第二遍了 無限感動
i really admire her character wow
I like this drama the story and all that played the character So beautiful thanks for the eng subtitle
顾佳真的太酷了。
It takes two to tango.
If you're a married man, don't give in to temptation. If you're a woman and knows that a man is married don't even entertain thoughts about him.
If he cheated with you with his wife he can do that again with another woman to you, hun.
P.S. Love these women's friendship.
Usual excuse love ( temptation) is have no moral compass for them
What is ADULTERY?
TWO RIGHT PEOPLE DOING THE WRONG THINGS
Well his little college girl didn’t even blink an eye. Oh look here. A hot guy I want and how cute he carries a child like bandaide in his wallet. Must have a wife and kid. Oh well. I want him now. That girl needed the snot smacked out of her. 😡
Seeing the expression on her face, the mistress was truly shameless.
Yes, mistress is utterly shameless, saying that she is still trying her luck by not buying the plane ticket, in case she can change the husband's mind
Queria que ela tivesse tido outra oportunidade, com outro, ela merece, mas dá maneira que terminou, também gostei, ela merece palmas
心疼~顧佳
Strangely enough I think in this life she took Ruyi's advice and temperament she handled a selfish man then gracefully let him go
Loved her as Consort Hui and seeing her in this drama definitely made me think that this would be her reincarnated.
Imperial Noble Consort Huixian wished to be a normal woman in her next life, to have a child and care for them. It was definitely granted to her❤️ ❤
The moment the man cheats, he has already lost his woman...
Agree
She just needs space to think…feel all those feelings and just deal with it all….just a break..a moment to think
这小三还在做最后的挣扎，到头等来的是个寂寞。就像顾佳说的那样“你所看到的完美情人是别人千锤百炼后呈现在你面前的物品”作为第三者永远是可耻的
這也就是為什麼...
很多朋友想介紹一些條件不好不會照顧女生的所謂乖乖牌、或者鮮肉給我
我都一概拒絕
因為我也交往跟教好過一個 把男孩養成男人
最後都是便宜別人
所以現在要不是準備自己獨活 要不就是只挑那些已經受過教訓、養好的、長大的
不寂寞 ,顧讓她清醒了
搭訕顧佳那個也太帥了😂
说飞就飞，经济独立，自己也独立。我向往这样的人生。爱自己，让自己独立，有潇洒果断的资本。
Really like her character ..I need Gu Jia in my life wwww
after watching all these kind of series drama don't wanna marry never and don't wanna have bf as well so well single from inside and outside happy though.....
Este escritor está de parabéns, o tema traição e dolorido,mas qdo vemos mulher que sofre mas coloca o marido no lugar,é lindo de ver
Como se titula?
好烂的男人，连小三的烂事还得妻子处理
A melhor fala da esposa: "Vc ama este homem ou o impacto que outra mulher deixou nele"
演得真好，戳中了我的泪点…
WsW
Mistress: I made this my last opportunity
Biss please, just say that you're broke AF and can't even afford a plane ticket back home 🙄 How can she feel so entitled with so little substance
顧佳太優秀，該斷了這婚姻，好好的找個優質男，若沒有就該自己一個人過也比跟渣男過日子強！
She is such a strong woman .... salute and she suffer alone but she just know what she wants to do
They may stay together but it will never be the same.
True
" mirror that once cracked might be glued together, but the reflection will be forever crooked".
@@nfspbarrister5681 that is a VERY good saying. .....and very true.
@@troublemcallister730 it's an old asian saying about trust (marriage, business etc)
@@nfspbarrister5681 - and one I will definitely try to remember because it's beautiful and so very true.
警示名言：
“你愛上的是這個男人，還是這個男人身上、屬於另外一個女人的痕跡？”
What increasable actress in these films. I commend all who have put this together. You know your stuff beyond words.
“Do you love this man, or do you love another woman’s impact left on him?”
👏👏👏
These are friends you keep for life
Forgot to say I love this actress playing the wise strong wife.
A woman's worth is never enough....
I despise any woman or man who knows the man or woman has husband/ wife already..but still seduce them and steals them
No one can be stolen. A person makes a decision that they will fall for temptation or not. So yes you can blame the home wreckers but they wouldn't be able to succeed if one of the partners didn't open the door to let them in.
@@beelesedi right
@@beelesedi Exactly. Whoever started the game is to be blamed but the person to be blamed most is the one who cheated because once you've done it, TRUST will turn to DISTRUST and DISGUSTMENT.
@@beelesedi i know that the other party is the one in the end who made decision. But if you are a woman and you know the man is already has GF or married, you then should not seduce them. That's the point of my comment. I will never justify any man or woman who seduce other although they already known they already has wife/husband/bf/gf/fiancee.
Don't ever say when you like a man/ girl, then someone told you that what you did is a homewrecker, then you will say: It won't happen if the man won't fall for me.
@@somqicarat1591 It's the other thing..but still when you already know someone already has wife/husband, never seduce them. I despise them. No excuse.. About the other party is another stuff..Ofc it's bad too. Because it needs 2 to tango.. Bu t i will never justify and make an excuse : oh..it's not my fault..he falls for my seduce? Lol..seriously?
He’s such a looser. He can’t do anything for himself, asks his wife to do it, then blames her for taking over doing his work. But he knows how to cheat with a young girl and spend his and his wife’s savings on the homewrecker.
蠢女人才會相信男人會為了一段外遇的感情去放棄原本幸福的家庭。
蠢男人才會相信女人說我不在乎你有家庭，我只要偶爾能陪在你身邊就行。(等關係進一步之後，她就會要的更多了，最後目標當然是取代你的另一半，還以為她會乖乖的藏起來嗎？愚蠢!)
你深有体会啊。。。可是逼说的不对啊。。。。。人过来人都有家庭就没事
@@v霸刀藐视天下 不是很懂你的意思...你想表達的是你有類似的經驗但家庭現在還是好好的是嗎？另一半完全接受婚外情的存在是嗎？那也是有可能的呀~有的因為利益關係，有的是真的太愛放不掉，或是不甘心讓給別人，寧可綁住對方一起耗，也決不放手讓他自由，最後再來個各玩各的，也是有的呀~沒有什麼體會啦XD只是討論劇情(電視劇不都這樣演)，人性的貪婪乃是社會萬象罷了~
Sadly, some stupid men do give up their happy family for their stupid affair/mistress
Boys we woman forgive you so many times for hurting us but cheating having an affair we never forgive or forget because it hurts a lot emotionally even if we forgive then it will never be the same like before. If trust is broken then it’s very hard to reappear.
Even if you do forgive them it’s never the same after word sometimes and a very rare cases it can make the couple stronger I’ve seen many couples from their marriages that had an affair and then afterwords they became stronger from them but then there’s the weak minded that don’t understand forgiveness and they can never let go however they will make the other party pay for it for the rest of your life in that case it’s divorced time
I hate to say this but sending off the mistress is morally wrong, it her right to stay. He will have to learn to be loyal and she have to divorce him.
@@tyler8788 She sent the mistress away because the mistress threatened her son. ua-cam.com/video/H-elxDtBluk/v-deo.html
@@trela47. then sending her away wouldn't be enough. That mistress should have been dropped into the abyss.
@@tyler8788 "morally wrong"? That's a bit twisted thinking don't you think... she crossed the line when she messed with the son...
Me gusta cuando la amiga dice; usando la perfección de su esposa como excusa.
Me recuerda a un Chico que tuve, me dijo me engañaba porque yo trabajaba en el día y en la noche estudiaba, y que al llegar dormía. En serio no entiendo que excusa son esas, cuando usted empieza una relación usted estuvo de acuerdo y hasta feliz con lo que se le ofrecía y luego se quejan y quieren otra cosa y al final culpan a la pareja.
Obvio le di banda, conocí a un hombre maravilloso que me despierta a besos y hace la cena cuando tengo examen y me hace preguntas de lo que me puede salir en el. Somos una pareja en donde reina el apoyo mutuo, compañerismo y compresión. De solo pensar que me pude perder está relación tan maravillosa, por estar forzando en una relación tóxica con alguien que no valía la pena...uff es que no me lo quiero ni imaginar
Gu Jia é um baita mulherão... Pisou com classe e mostrou que tudo que a outra queria na verdade não pertencia a ela. E a frase de impacto: "quando você conhecer alguém no futuro o que vai ter pra contar sobre seu passado?" Tipo assim: suas atitudes te trazem orgulho ou te envergonham? Suas atitudes fazem as pessoas te admirarem? Muito forte isso
Como se chama o dorama..???
Eu amei este drama pelo empoderamento desta mulher,sofrido porém lindo de ver
Puedes decir como se titula?😊
What she said is so true. Mistresses don’t understand that what they love about a married man is what his wife did for him.
The wife most likely does his laundry, takes care and manages most of the day to day of the children, doctor’s appointments, supports him, etc etc.
This allows him to be worry free in his personal life in order to focus on his career or some other interest ironically like meeting women because of the free time the wife’s hard work leaves him to have.
Que mulher forte e decisivo ,mãe ,esposa uma verdadeira ajudadora do seu marido e ele não a deu o valor necessário infelizmente muito triste . Um casamento destruído é realmente horrível e quem sofre são sempre os inocentes nessa história 'filhos "pq os pais traem e não pensam na família que é o bem mais preciso que tem .
這部戲的女主、配角、小三
通通都好美~~~
Such a strong 💪 person.😊I absolutely ❤her!!! I know her heart was broken 💔and she did what needed to be done.
Big applause to the script writer! 😭👏👏
心疼到心好酸😢
Gostaria uma segunda temporada desse drama ,foi muito bom.
Qual é o nome???
@@emmilymelo7504 nothing but thirty
My wife is famous for "Emily of Emerald Hill" a play written by Stella Can. It is a monolog play and Pearlly has given it in Malaysia, Singapore, Canada and other places.
Never go back girl!
I’m sorry but, once that kind of trust is broken it can hardly ever be repaired. I understand that they have a child together, but if one or both of the parents are unhappy, or unable to trust the other the child will feel the strain too. Also, it is a bad example to set the child. 😢
我只覺得 顧佳 單身 還會比較開心
Acabo de ver este drama y me ha encantado!!! La recomiendo por ser un drama con historias actuales de relaciones tóxicas, de amores incomplendidos y de infelidades.
Buenas noches bendiciones, como se llama este drama y en donde lo puedo ver completo
@@marthaosorto4344 Se llama Nada más que treinta, el título dice mucho de como trascurre la historia de tres amigas que cerca de los 30 en una sociedad como es la China ya deben estar casadas, con hijos y con una exitosa carrera. Lo puedes ver en Viki aquí te saldrá de vez en cuando publicidad, también lo encontrarás en Estrenos Doramas. Tiene 43 episodios. Espero te guste.
O nome do dorama por favor simmmms.??
What’s the name of this drama
@@kaciageorge73 Nothing more than thirty
世上所有的小三。。果然都是不要脸的。。。
所以不嫁人，永不被一个男人帮着，未必是坏事。。。
What's the title of this drama I want to watch full episode
Nothing but thirty
Essa mulher é poderosa!!! Resolveu tudo e não voltou atrás porque traição é a morte!!
This drama same with reality..unforgiven for women but give secend change for man.. We must stronge heart n brave for challange..👍🤔
Not for the man.. her son He said, “ I’ll pick daddy” so she’ll stay.. son wants them to stay together. She should explain to the child the truth at some point if it’s impossible to stay.
After watching news from some VD YT..my God..my heart breack n hurt.., Mao Tjia Tong real life story like Gu Jia..her BF heating n she come home look that with her eyes..😧😭😭😭
It's all faults of her husband I hate him😤😤😤 that much she not contacts anyone now what is she upsets of now ☹️😔☹️
Que frase dijo la Esposa me encanto......... Amas a ese hombre o amas el impacto que otra Mujer dejo en El 👏👏👏👏👏
现实中的男的，其实早就跟小三在一起了，没有老婆，还有小三。许幻山不跟小三在一起，其实也只是在电视剧才会发生的。事实就是，男人有小三，小三就是个备胎，老婆不要了，小三还要，为了解决生理需求，男生肯定会和小三在一起。
確實⋯現實活生生，人性黑暗面太殘酷？如果不是為了宇宙幻想而艱挺存活？⋯害⋯編劇就得善良點⋯端正社會太多不良風氣哈！
If only we could ever be elegant like Gu Jia!
Is it just me? She looks like Zhang Ziyi right
I love Gu Jia
She’s so gangsta
This thing happened to me and breaks me ...... I walked out and he asked me to stay coz of my son.... I went to the lady's house to ask her if she really love my husband...... For me to get divorce and the problem is husband don't love her lady affair..... I'm still here and all my trust for him is gone ...... Sometimes good ladies Don't deserve this kind a cheating man
Isso é pra esses homens que não dão valor pra esposa e vão atrás de meninas e o estrago edta feito filme lindo👏👏
好愛顧佳
What a wonderful woman!
Gu Jia acting is good 👍
This is my number 1 drama. Friends who support friends ❤️
And that is why you need supportive friends! Love how her two friends are two ends of the spectrum but with same moral
love this.. full w feelings
Lmaoooo so satisfying...Gu Jia's words.
Me gustó como actuó está mujer, lejos del comportamiento de la mujeres de dramas usuales, que lloran chillan,pegan ,pero luego vuelven con el esposo.
Bravo !!!
Esa mulher merece um Oscar parabéns pelo trabalho maravilhoso
Estou com pena do papel de se ator o cara perdeu tudo por uma aventura fico lembrando do sorriso dele crente que estava abafando nada fica escondido um dia a conta cha
I need a Gu Jia in my life
When the wife is one who is arranging what will happend to the pistress
6:49
Same vibe as The World of The Married. But sadly, the MC in TWTM didn't really have close friends like the MC in this series has
His not man enough to sit down and discuss his feelings with his wife. He just keeps telling her to solve his problems. He was treating her like a mother.
Que cara covarde, depois de tudo, a mulher ainda tem que passar por essa humilhação, que absurdo, não merece ela mesmo não
Not every man can handle a strong woman.
Girlz just love n respect yourself (one day your kids grow up n leave you ,husband can stop love n think ,care n respect ,nothing s forever …who s most imported : You