She did not fully follow what Shera was saying. Please know that I’m not victim blaming. However, Shera has stated that she is against dating apps ( Isis met her husband on a dating app). Also, Isis married her husband after a week, Shera talks about vetting men. No one should be trying to marry someone after a week no matter what their status is and how much money they have. Vetting someone does take time.
This. And she bought him a ring which Sheera would never advise. She also tells women not to date from a place of lack. Yes, what happened is that man's fault entirely, but the fact that she was misled has nothing to do with Sheera.
@@7Mushrooms7I thought the same exact thing, I’ve been watching Shera nearly 7 years.. and a lot of what she did is what Shera says don’t do. It’s just unbelievable situation and sad if it’s true
“Your kids don’t want a daddy they just want their mama”…as someone who grew up in a divorced household THANK YOU. Throughout my teens I begged my mom to stop pushing the “you need a step dad” thing on me. SHE wanted a “step dad” NOT me. 😕
Obviously idk your mom, but the societal pressure can’t be overlooked. She may not have wanted you to feel less than or like you were missing out bc society tells us we need fathers in the home. 🙄
@@mamasann7636Thing is there's a difference between good men/fathers and just any man. My father was an abusive deadbeat so I thank God that he didn't want to be around. Blessings come in many ways.
Sorry, but once you have children, you HAVE TO move differently. I totally agree with sis saying that your kids don’t want a father figure. They want their mother, they want PEACE, they don’t need a random stranger in the house. One thing I’ll never understand is a mom who is financially well off (imo) trying to secure more money by any means necessary. You already had it all…being independent with your kids safe and protected is literally the dream. what the hell. She ruined it
@ We don’t know if he abused his step children and if she overlooked this as well as all the other red flags. It’s terrible but you only see males come out and talk about these things in their 40s and 50s. I hope it’s not true…my goodness….but idk. This is all horrible.
DOESN'T MATTER. They are 2 and 4 years old, so whether they are biological kids or stepdaughters... what the hell kinda animal is he? There's no blaming the mother when HE IS THE PROBLEM.
I appreciate your comment. If I can confirm, I walked away from my children’s father into peace, focus, joy and freedom. When I walked into that my children accompanied me and I will not jeopardize that for them. We have a nice life and I don’t want to risk that for them. I can wait until they are older and if I remain single, I am at peace with that as well.
At the end of the day, a lot of women lack discernment period. Hence situations like this where it’s easier to blame another content creator, when said content creator talks about standards and boundaries and self esteem. If you’re looking for an outside source (a man) to make you feel worthy, then you’ve failed and betrayed yourself. Period.
Hypergamy, Shera, and Sprinkle Sprinkle aren't the problem. It's MEN! Broke, Fat, Rich, Successful, Straight, Gay, Downlow. THEY ARE THE PROBLEM! Women need to wake up & start using discernment.
Unless you’re doing straight up background checks, the idea of discernment is a JOKE. Abusers are skilled manipulators. Expecting women (who are generally good people) to be able to read the mind of a sociopath is insane.
@Ilikefrogs.. so background checks are an option? I don't then get how discernment is a joke. We as women when injured have the ability to use discernment plus background reports and we have eyes, we should also have people around us that actually care to help in the process.
@Ilikefrogs.. WRONG!!! Discernment is not a joke. The woman literally said that she saw red flags at the beginning. Lots of women ignore their own Discernment.
@Ilikefrogs.. I think that some men can bypass vetting and pull a 180 later but it wasn't the case here. He lovebombed her and they married/moved in a week or so after which is a red flag. She also says he SA'ed her several times during the marriage which was also a sign to leave earlier. Yes, he's a 100% the problem and this is HIS fault but discernment wasn't used here.
People take the shorts and don't really see the context. She used to have very long lives and everything was very well explained. People only see the viral bits.
I was thinking this yesterday. Like…how did Shera 7 get blamed for this? Broke men, rich men, and decent wage man can all be predators. It takes discernment but even that’s not guaranteed.
SheraSeven's response is BRUTAL but TRUE! If you have small children, how can you marry a man before properly vetting him?! Also I didn't realize she married after ONE week??!?! Wut da Fcuk 😬😬😬 I feel sorry for the "New Trophy Wife" but damn ladies, 👏🏾secure 👏🏾 your👏🏾 own 👏🏾 bag 👏🏾
She married him a week after she proposed to him, not a week after meeting him. But yes she still moved in with him very quickly to get away from her previous relationship. She didn't vet him at all.
Sherra kept that a buck. I hate the extremes were taking speaking common sense and asking questions is now victim blaming? I empathize with these children only
Please don't tell me women are blaming another woman for the deviant actions of a monster. This has nothing to do with sprinkling anything. The man is evil
Exactly!! It was this man, who chose to violate those kids!! He could have passed the background checks and she could have done everything "right", and he could still be a monster!! People need to stop blaming women for men's actions!
@@DeannaBaileytheRavensFan he graped her in the very beginnig of the marriage, what the hell made her think that a predator could behaved different with the children?
Like I don’t understand how Shera’s supporters expect her to give them any grace or sympathy when they know how cold blooded and sociopthic she is with men. Tf made them think they would be treated any different? they are NO different from the men she plays for money, Shera happily treats them like her bank account too bc that’s exactly what they are to her. 💀
@melanatedthinka8210 Well, she is dumb and said she took advice from Shera (did everything Shera advices against) and Kevin Scamuels (did some of the things KS adviced, like ignore the abuse of your vulnerable children).
I feel like we are all talking about Shera and no one is talking about Kevin Samuels. Are we not going to talk about how a lot of what she did is what that man encouraged women to do
I keep seeing this brought up and I don’t get it. Kevin is dead. Thank the lord. Lol people are bringing up Shera and other hypergamous CCs because they are alive and able to respond. That’s it and that’s all.
@@bunchielove6893 I literally just saw what Kevin samuels said about mom's not believing their kids on this video: ua-cam.com/video/QbjFWg8XTsU/v-deo.htmlsi=N58v38u8sEn2sx79
Wait until the kids are grown! That's what my mom did and I'm so grateful. I have never had to live with a stepdad. Because I am an adult now, if her husband gets on my nerves I can leave and go to my own house. 😄
@@AmaLoveGoddessTVyou been a long time follower too I see. Back when Shera was underground 2018 ish. Yes, she tells you to lie. These new followers looking for love and fairytales, hopping on tick tok trends.
I agree with you. I know that it’s not a popular opinion, but single parents shouldn’t date until the kids are grown and standing on their own two feet. The kids’ safety comes before your secksual urges. That goes for single dads, because there are some evil women out there who will hurt kids that aren’t hers.
I understand this opinion but it’s very selfish. Once the kids are grown the mother is old and the kids leave you alone and go to there own house when the mom is with the lesser option after waiting so long the kids to grow up
That's why i was laughing when people were blaming Shera for misleading women. Isis did a lot of things that Shera frowns about. First of all, she bought a ring for the man, she literally proposed to him just because he mentioned that he wanted to marry her. She married him in the court house one week later. Shera would never say that. Shera doesn't encourage marrying a man immediately, the man should prove himself to you. Probably if she dated the man for a while before rushing to marry him, she would have figured out that he was a sicko. He raped her four times early in the marriage and she didn't think she should pause the idea of having kids and make an exit plan. This is not Shera's problem. Shera even encourages you to stack your money up and use his money to invest in yourself while dating, even before you think of marrying the person. Like Shera will always say, don't watch 30 sec clips on the Internet and run with it, watch her videos to get full context. I don't believe everything she says so i will take what i agree with and discard the rest. God gave us brains for us to reason so you can't blame anybody for your own mistakes. Shera is for people who want to have a family and have kids. Men are not predictable but if you should involve yourself with them, you should protect yourself. A rich man or a poor man can be a child molester so it's not a problem of hypergamy. If you want to deal with them, then deal with them with your sixth sense. You can't rely on a man fully financially even if he is Jeff Bezoz.
@@mukaniwatkins2598Listen …. This isn’t about DS vs LS. This is about many women not being mentally, emotionally and spiritually stable enough to implement and discern certain types information when dealing with males.
@@mukaniwatkins2598No, she wouldn’t. Shera always said have your own separate bank account for your money that he doesn’t know about and spend his. Isis did the exact opposite and now she can’t even access her own money.
She is definitely bagging on this story and more to come. Last time I watch it was only around 34k view and she only had 27 sub. Now the view is 1.8 million and 57k sub. I pray for the kids. ❤
That's the fucked up part. She is making more money in this tragedy instead of what she was doing before. The problem I have is that she still refers to that man as her husband. But she hasn't posted him
@@Play4keeks but he is her husband until they get divorced, then he will be her ex husband. Husband isn’t a term of endearment like boyfriend is, it’s a legal title.
Sadly, she got into that situation due to desperation for a lifestyle she couldn't afford. Why she kept having children with this old man that if he didn't have children by his 60s is because he didn't want to or knew he was a pedo and was avoiding to get in trouble. So many single women see dating as a source of income and they think men don't see it for what it is, pure delusion. So far we have not seem police reports so something it isn't right here.
This is pure stupidity… So nobody wants to use their own heads but blame other people for their own foolishness and it seems to me nobody is listening. Shera met her husband at 22 and married him at 26 she even said you don’t know a man within 6 months or even a year so for that lady to get married within a week or so it’s mind boggling and was clearly desperate. Shera has also said do not rush into marriage or anything, make sure you have your own so you leave any situation you don’t like, self esteem, confidence etc. Shera also stated make sure you are with a man that is kind not just being a provider. I followed sheras advice and my husband is a sweet man who also is a provider. To point the finger at shera because you chose to be desperate and dumb is stupid as being those two things goes against sheras teachings.
I think that lady is messed up talking publicly about what happened to her daughters. Especially if she has ever posted her daughters anywhere. The whole world doesn't need to know their business like that.
I’ve been thinking this since the beginning too, but I was a bit nervous to say anything because I didn’t want to seem like I was victim blaming or anything - but like, her daughters now have their trauma exposed. It won’t be hard to find out their identities since their mom is a public figure and that’s something they’ll always have to deal with now.
@@TheRandomIzzy society has its picks and chooses on who gets heat and who doesn’t. She was actually the first monster, when you listen to her old videos. She s0ld herself, her kids well-being and her uterus, all for a false lifestyle and then began to teach other vulnerable women immediately after she was successful with her plan. This is all Diabolical, those poor kids.
@jasmineAtucker yessss!!! She's trying to make herself out to be a victim, when she put her kids in the victim position in the first place. What a terrifying grift.
@@hannahgrapes1554 she is profiting HARD off of her children’s trauma. Someone should call her out, and not congratulate her for speaking up about this! She needs to have some accountability for her own actions that led up to this situation. I’m super passionate about child exploitation and children having a safe upbringing. I think that she sets a bad example for her daughters, it’s all her fault. Sorry not sorry, the kids are the victims, most definitely not her. Then she still has that trophy wife nonsense up for profit. Girl you were untruthful back then and what about now?
WHO is this chick giving her take?! Because sis is super wise and ON POINT :" It doesn't matter how pretty you think you are, if your baby daddies left you, you ain't all that special." PREACH!!!
@Rosemary46840 are we forgetting that said man's actions couldn't have been made possible without the actions (failing to properly vet) of the woman? Men don't just gain access to women and children WITHOUT the women giving consent and access.
shera called her stupid and that man knew she was stupid as well. he already knew she would do anything for a buck. This is the result of moving without integrity and morals. Stop thinking men should have something you don't. This female lacks decency and morality. Her actions caused her children to be in a position to be harmed.
You’re right after she was graped multiple times she didn’t leave !!! Then he now went onto doing the same to her children she should have left with the first red flags why did she think her children were safe with a grapist! She’s part of the fate she gave her children which can never be undone. NO amount of money makes a man high value!! No amount!! There are a lot of sickos who are older who earn a lot of money.
After hearing her story, I feel like that lady rushed into that marriage for a place to stay. Not even knowing this pred. It’s unfortunate what happened but she did not make great decisions. This has nothing to do with Shera. She walked into the hands of a monster thinking she hit the jackpot.
@@OuuThatteaHotDid you see the video where one of her daughters is screaming and saying “Ouch! Ouch!”, and she told the people on the livestream that her daughter was upstairs with her Dad and to pretend that they couldn’t hear the child screaming? She just sat there putting on her makeup whilst her kid is screaming in the background, and she knew he was a grapist.
If you are a single mom with young children, YOU SHOULD NOT BE DATING! Period. Focus on you and your damn children and yes, work hard to take care of them...NO Sprinkle Sprinkle for you right now, oh well. You don't need to entertain ANY MAN right now and WATCH ALL MEN even friends and family. You will not die without a man. You will be fine. It is not worth it to risk your children's safety even if your children are old enough to speak; they shouldn't have to experience that trauma AT ALL! MOST MEN ARE ANIMALS! If you want to deal with them fine but don't make your kids pay for it! I said what I said as a child molestation survivor!
My question is, have the authorities been notified and are charges being pressed? Regardless of who she is or why she did what she did, at the end of the day those innocent children need justice!
Don’t hold your breath. Less than 46% of reports go to criminal court charges. Of those that go, less than 10% end in convictions and about 2.5% get jail time
I don't know if these topics trending is for views, but how are almost all commentary channels by black women, are more focused on shera and hypergamy than the fact that there's a large percentage of men that are pedo***iles regardless of your economic status. We are so stuck genuinely, we don't even see it. I'm starting to see the superficiality of content creation as a whole. I'm South african and we have been going through a femicide. Men don't need reasons.
majority of people in the black community are male identified and they will always find a way to blame the woman or a woman and disregard what the man has done because "she should've known better" (which is true in her case) but they will always blame a woman for his actions
A provider male does not = predator, the same way a broke man does not = Saint. There are women everyday who are dating and married to men who do the same thing. A person’s character is a persons character regardless of his external appearance. Getting with a broke men would not have guaranteed a different outcome. Women ensure you have your own stability before you “build” with a man. The same hand that feeds you can also starve you.
@ You lack comprehension as well. She incorrectly stated what I said and intended to negate my point under that basis. You both could have kept scrolling. Good day
You are in control of what you listen to and consume on the internet. So many wrong advice from different people, it's up to you to filter them. Some lifestyles on here are performative. Y'all be careful.
Yep. One woman basically said put your kids last when it comes to dating cause the man wants you not your kids… like what?😂 package deal.. why would I️ want him if he don’t want what comes with me.
I could not agree more with the girl with an afro in the black tank top. She explained everything I was thinking 😭 The trophy wife is definitely exploiting the children's trauma that she had a hand in causing!
I think this reflects the con of shera becoming mainstream. People dont LISTEN and they cherry pick information, just to act surprised if it backfires on them. If youre not going to follow all of Shera's advice then dont listen to her at all. Her advice is not for the weak.
@@beewest5704 Okay but thats not new information either. Its never been a matter of question as to whether it is a game because Shera herself acknowledges it as such. So if youre going to play then do it correctly. And definitely dont do it if you have low comprehension because youll definitely get chewed up and spit out.
As a single mother of a two year old, I'm not even thinking about dating anyone right now because my child is not old enough to articulate if someone did anything to him. He is a healthy and happy child and I provide a safe environment for him. And plus I'm enjoying my single life. One day I might get back out there but right now it's not a priority for me.
She didn’t care cause she was desperate. She only heard getting a rich man and get married but ignored all the other steps. It’s even more insane cause she was a Kevin Samuel follower as well
I know exactly when my lease ends. I’m not getting on dating apps reaching out to men asking to move in with them. Like a responsible adult, I’m making sure I secure a place for myself. Why did she drop the ball in the most basic way?
Shera isn't lying. I don't agree with her messaging(I'm not dating no old fart for money. I get my own), but she does speak out against being a pick-me. Which the Trophy wife was. My heart goes out to her and the kids. However, she didn't do what Shera teaches, which was her own choice. Blaming Shera is wild. Why are we not blaming the man who graped his own kids. This can happen to anyone, in any tax bracket.
@@nandi_m04 They literally don't understand what's going on. LOl. That's not Shera's fault. I do feel like she can talk more about the P. Diddy's of it all though, for the slow ones in the back.
This is everything I said !!!!! DESPERATE to say she’s a wife and brand herself as a “trophy wife” for some damn content after that man R worded her, be for real that’s trifling
I don’t know who Shera is. I don’t have T!kT0k. But I absolutely agree with the beautiful dark skinned lady. She is right! Shera might not tell women to be desperate, but there many women - especially in cultures where men are centered- that are DESPERATE to get a provider man. The girl was beyond desperate! And when you are desperate, you will get horrible/pr3dator men. Pr3dators KNOW when a woman is desperate. Didn’t you hear that comedian said he likes women in poverty? Because he said those women cannot afford to leave him.
@@bunchielove6893 doesn't change anything honestly. I only ever see shorts of her content in tiktok but have never been recommended any of her videos on UA-cam. I don't follow her content as she's not talking to me. I'm single (and continuously choosing to do so) and under 25.
@@nandi_m04- That’s the problem Tiktoc reels don’t provide full content,so people aren’t familiar with that person’s content, yet people are giving their incorrect opinions. There’s no reason to blame Shera because had she really listened to Shera’s content she wouldn’t have married a man after a week of knowing him and definitely would have done a background check to know not to even date him. Shera has been on UA-cam for several years now.
the fact that she wasn't poor and desperate makes this even worse. she did this out of greed and unfortunately the kids have to suffer. only ones I feel sorry for is the kids.
I dont think it's fair or right to blame Shera. This unfortunate incident has NOTHING to do with her. Anyone with a brain would know to move more carefully. 1 week??? Small children??? This is INSANITY. You shouldn't attach an innocent person to your mess/drama. Own up to all your mistakes!
I'm not a follower of shera 7 but the amount of grown women that can't make their own decisions is alarming. Nobody should have that much influence over your life. I'm sure shera didn't force anyone to follow her lifestyle. As an adult you are on your own. Your bad choices are YOURS! I've said it before and I don't care who gets mad but bw definitely need some kind of therapy or counseling to learn how to develop healthy relationships and self care.
Yeah most of these content creators don't even live the lifestyle they are selling. They just care abt the clout & views. You cannot emulate them without using your own discernment.
I agree my with dark skin sis! When her video flashed across my UA-cam page I immediately said she need to take this down because her kids are going to see this…
This is not Ashera's fault. Never not once does she tell people to be stupid and not have decernment. She doesn't tell women to tell people to air your desperation to a potential person. She also advises to not be a pick me. She said don't introduce your kids to a new guy until they are way older and not until your closer to being engaged. I guess she missed those videos huh? The New Trophy Wife was less than smart and has no one to blame but herself. I feel bad for her children, but not for her. I'm pretty sure that this happened when she was out getting her hair done, getting her nails done, you know being that rich kept wife, and he was home alone with the kids. This is a painful lesson for her for the future. She better have looked for a job, a new place to live, a lawyer, and some counseling all in the same day that she posted that video.
I do feel badly for Isis. However, Shera is NOT to blame for Isis’s poor choices. The problem is that the people are only listening to the cherry-picked sound bytes from Shera on TikTok without listening to the ENTIRE videos from her. Shera is VERY CLEAR about protecting yourself physically, mentally and financially, and that includes getting an education, investing, and doing your own businesses (Shera herself has a mortuary science degree). Shera also warns about talking about your kids while you’re dating because of p3dos. To be honest, I have the unpopular opinion that single parents should wait to date until the children are older and standing on their own two feet. It’s for the children’s safety.
Shera is not to blame. Shera has NEVER pedestalized men. Matter of fact, she basically says if you’re going to be with one, might as well get your money’s worth. Never has she said men are angels… she actually says quite the opposite. She also promoted having your own life and money. It’s not Isis, fault either. It’s that evil, poor excuse of a man’s fault. Why are people blaming the women?! The women blaming the women and calling them pickme’s, are the TRUE pickme’s, projecting their negativity at women and not holding the true abuser accountable. Typical, typical 🙄 The one thing Isis did wrong was play about herself. How are you going to get raped and let that slide. Also, being naive or blind because anyone with wisdom knows the one way someone does something, is usually the way they do EVERYTHING. If he can rape you, he can rape anyone. I’m also seeing comments about buying a ring for him, but I don’t know if that’s true or not. It’s not her fault but someone raping you is the BIGGEST boundary crossed. How can you not make a connection with that to his character?
12:18 I’m glad she said this. Like I said as a paralegal I saw so many women basically selling their children to predator men for a lifestyle. They learn if from their own mom’s who traded them for money. It’s a whole family affair. Generational trauma passed down. People argue that all mom’s love their kids and some mom’s don’t even know what that means.
I don’t know why people are blaming Shera or being hypergamous, or dating rich men . It’s about sick men , pedophiles and damaged women , being a pickmeshma , desperate or they suffering from trauma making poor decisions because of their trauma not having fathers present in our life and choosing these much older men to save them because of childhood neglect. Poor baby girls.
The bottom line is the trophy wife dropped the ball. She should never have put her children in such a position. She don't know the man from Adam she jumped into a marriage for status and her daughters have paid the ultimate price. She needs to get her sons checked as well because a predator will always be a predator. She can't blame following anyone's advice on how to appeal to a man with money when she has a duty of care to her children. I dont feel sorry for her I feel sorry for her daughters that will carry this trauma for LIFE
Shera was in the right and that girl knew better, she was being silly and stupid. never put your kids at risk for a man you barely know!!! Some women are the problem... like she was ...
No. The husband is the problem. The criminal. It wasn't the stepchildren he touched...it was his own daughters. HIS OWN BIOLOGICAL DAUGHTERS both under the age of five. NO! There's no excuse. That's a double crime of sincest and pedo. There's NO WAY to blame her for what HE did. I just wish she had left him before having children by him.
@@natashadickson4819 how do you explain her saying he did those things to her, and she then turns and has children with him? If a person is capable of forcing himself on to you, is capable of a lot more! Please don't be a victim of identifying with wrong because of similar experiences.
@@loyaltyb71052 What?!? If you want an explanation, ask the animal himself!!! Ask him why he would commit crimes against HIS OWN DAUGHTERS and his wife. Blocking you now. ✋️
The lady in white is the very example of "You don't listen". She keeps saying that the problem with the sprinkle sprinkle mentality is that women will marry out of desperation. Ashera has NEVER said to be desperate, she ALWAYS says the opposite. I know Shera is TIRED of the word twisting when it comes to her teachings. Sprinkle sprinkle!
I’ve been watching Shera for yearssss! She doesn’t preach stupidity! She doesn’t preach desperateness! That woman sparked a movement where women started valuing themselves a little more! The New Trophy Wife’s issue is more spiritual than anything else! She was a victim of abuse, a product of abuse and now her kids are suffering the same fate… She just fell into a predators trap! It has nothing to do with Shera.
That short clip wasn’t posted by Shera seven btw. That tik tok page is a fan page and they clipped a part from her live on UA-cam of her responding to that. She never reacted to that girls video like that.
And, everyone misses the most important part. Shera says to use your funds from your provider man to create/further your own business. If she missed that, that's on her
I love Shera, and she’s definitely not the one to blame. A lot of women go through so much in life because they refuse to learn their lessons. That woman is so desperate that she’s jeopardizing her daughter’s case by speaking up online. I still don’t understand why she’s sharing so many private details about the abuse.
There is a video of the mother doing her makeup and one of her children is crying in the back round saying Oww. She completely ignored her kid screaming and just continued to do her making for tik tok.
I believe other content creators particularly black women are using this as a “ah ha” moment against Shera to put her down and lift up their own voice because they’re jealous of Sheras success and the fact that she’s authentic, witty & that’s something that can’t be copied.
It would be interesting to follow up on this case. If she did take them to the hospital, child abuse report hotline would have been made, doctors are MANDATED reporters. If mother does not report, child social services would be involved as she lacks capacity to protect the children- anyone that works in this field (myself included) knows the process too well. If her follow up download video is not about her or the childrens therapy (which would be likely be recommended by the courts) or his arrest-- i hate to say I would doubt the legitimazy of this 😥
Shera is 100% right. Don’t be dumb and this isn’t victim blaming since the kids are the true victims the mother is just the one who led the predator into their lives.
I thought I was being judgmental watching “Trophy wife” and saying to myself she isn’t crying her emotions almost seems forced. Then she kept calling him her “husband”,,, I wouldn’t damn DARE call a rapist my husband!!
Nope!!! Don’t blame Shera for your stupidity! She’s been around for YEARS and none of us who followed had any BAD results! Shera actually used to say NOT to tell me you had kids! Don’t even try to put this on her. I wish she was still our best kept secret. Smh
Who is the second sis? She was all facts! There are some documents on file of incidents that occured prior to this situation. Not SA but DV. Protective order or two. Another contentent creator pulled the order/s.
Right. I was wondering the same. Destiny said she would post the creators information but I didn't see it. I appreciate her view points & definitely agree. I would check out more of her content
i too found it weird that she noticed the redness from her daughter randomly cause if its something he's been doing, she would've noticed way before that day and her daughters would probably be acting weird around their dad
Look. I actually read 2 of Shera’s book on kindle because I have the unlimited monthly plan. This lady obviously did not read her books. She did not advise this stuff
The only way this harm to our children will stop is if women start holding other women accountable. Women need to stop putting themselves in situations for them to be victimized.
Her advice on waiting until a man falls in love and invests in them financially to tell him that you had kids is likely gonna make them flip out. It is so easy for her to say this nonsense since she didn't meet her husband as a single mother herself. I'm not saying that you should tell them that you have kids either. This is why it is probably best to date men with kids if you have kids. Most men don't want single mothers let alone most men that don't even have kids of their own.
It's Chinese wispers people adding fabricating and adding their own bits. Only person that knows the full details is the mother of the kids watch the original video
All I will say is that, never think that any situation could not happen to you!! I don't judge anyone. Everyone makes mistakes and has to live with the choices they make. I don't date men, and my partner passed away, so I am out of the dating game as my daughter is grown. Wishing everyone the very best with this dating game!!!
Uhm she needs jail. She needs to be beneath the prison. All I see is child endangerment and reckless , careless behaviour. I have no sympathy for her, but a broken heart for those poor, poor children. Somebody save them from her.
This just confirmed what I was thinking about TheNewTrophyWife. Like I still think she isn't done with that man. The fact that these were his biological daughters makes this even more sick. Follow her and learn how to be a stereotype. If it's money and men verses her kids the money and men win out every time. I hope CPS in involved she shouldn't be allowed to keep her kids she isn't responsible enough.
@rensii-e8b It still kills me that she still refers to him as husband. Like you just finished telling us the man molested his children. He would be less than dirt in my eyes if it were me.
Shera Seven teaches the *exact opposite* of the things this woman did that ultimately led to her children being violated. But even if Shera or any other content creators had given bad advice online, that trophy wife is a grown azz woman who is responsible for her own life decisions!
i toldddd shera to leave tictok alone but I know she is strong enough to weather the storm...let this put a light on abusers not provisionary lifestyle...alls I can say is I knew the gofundme was coming soon...no one is clocking that she still had on that ring!
I agree. Single moms of young kids should not be trying to date to be in a relationship and bring people around her kids. If she wants to go outside the home and "do adult" activities from time to time, that's one thing...but until she raises those kids until they are of age, then she has to give up her wants in certain aspects, such as "having a man"
She did not fully follow what Shera was saying.
Please know that I’m not victim blaming. However, Shera has stated that she is against dating apps ( Isis met her husband on a dating app). Also, Isis married her husband after a week, Shera talks about vetting men. No one should be trying to marry someone after a week no matter what their status is and how much money they have. Vetting someone does take time.
@@taybee4653 I’m tired of people who are dumb always pointing the finger to escape the shame of what they allowed to take place
This. And she bought him a ring which Sheera would never advise. She also tells women not to date from a place of lack.
Yes, what happened is that man's fault entirely, but the fact that she was misled has nothing to do with Sheera.
@@7Mushrooms7I thought the same exact thing, I’ve been watching Shera nearly 7 years.. and a lot of what she did is what Shera says don’t do. It’s just unbelievable situation and sad if it’s true
A WEEK…..
Right she said "I'm old school meet a man at the grocery store, in a nice neighborhood". 😅
“Your kids don’t want a daddy they just want their mama”…as someone who grew up in a divorced household THANK YOU. Throughout my teens I begged my mom to stop pushing the “you need a step dad” thing on me. SHE wanted a “step dad” NOT me. 😕
_Sooo_ much THIS! I could've done w/o every single *ONE* of the random nakers my mama brought in the house!
Obviously idk your mom, but the societal pressure can’t be overlooked. She may not have wanted you to feel less than or like you were missing out bc society tells us we need fathers in the home. 🙄
@@mamasann7636very true
I think parents are guilted into recreating this “standard” family. It’s very toxic.
@@mamasann7636Thing is there's a difference between good men/fathers and just any man. My father was an abusive deadbeat so I thank God that he didn't want to be around. Blessings come in many ways.
Shera always encourages having your own and vetting men
And she'd never advise buying a ring for a man nor tolerating SA (she said she was SAed by him a few times before she found out what he did).
Precisely
She literally even said how you gonna stay rich if you spending yo own money too😂
You cant vet no man. Even a men said that 💩 she irresponsible, selfish and desperate.
@@yoursnatchedwig2856Shera does spend her own money too, from UA-cam, so her point is a bit contradictory.
Sorry, but once you have children, you HAVE TO move differently. I totally agree with sis saying that your kids don’t want a father figure. They want their mother, they want PEACE, they don’t need a random stranger in the house. One thing I’ll never understand is a mom who is financially well off (imo) trying to secure more money by any means necessary. You already had it all…being independent with your kids safe and protected is literally the dream. what the hell. She ruined it
Yeah but he abused his own biological kids, remember that. Everything you’re saying is true, but he abused his own biological daughters.
Was she the mother of his biological daughters?
@ We don’t know if he abused his step children and if she overlooked this as well as all the other red flags. It’s terrible but you only see males come out and talk about these things in their 40s and 50s. I hope it’s not true…my goodness….but idk. This is all horrible.
DOESN'T MATTER. They are 2 and 4 years old, so whether they are biological kids or stepdaughters... what the hell kinda animal is he? There's no blaming the mother when HE IS THE PROBLEM.
I appreciate your comment. If I can confirm, I walked away from my children’s father into peace, focus, joy and freedom. When I walked into that my children accompanied me and I will not jeopardize that for them. We have a nice life and I don’t want to risk that for them. I can wait until they are older and if I remain single, I am at peace with that as well.
Shera said "yall don't hear me you just wanna dance"
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🎶Oh-Ohhhh🎶
Thats A bar
Shake it like a PO LA ROID PIC CHA 🎉
@ 🎶Oh-Ohhh🎶😂😂😂
At the end of the day, a lot of women lack discernment period. Hence situations like this where it’s easier to blame another content creator, when said content creator talks about standards and boundaries and self esteem. If you’re looking for an outside source (a man) to make you feel worthy, then you’ve failed and betrayed yourself. Period.
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Wow well
Said
Bullseye 🎯
She followed KS, the very man who told women not to believe their kids who says Dad touches them. 🤦🏾♀️ Glad she didn’t follow that very instruction.
Right! Most women would’ve overlooked the abuse and continue to stay because of the “bag”!
Who is KS??
@angelsweet9611 Some women, maybe. Definitely not most women.
WHO IS KS
Kevin Samuels?? Idk
Hypergamy, Shera, and Sprinkle Sprinkle aren't the problem. It's MEN! Broke, Fat, Rich, Successful, Straight, Gay, Downlow. THEY ARE THE PROBLEM!
Women need to wake up & start using discernment.
Unless you’re doing straight up background checks, the idea of discernment is a JOKE. Abusers are skilled manipulators. Expecting women (who are generally good people) to be able to read the mind of a sociopath is insane.
@Ilikefrogs.. so background checks are an option? I don't then get how discernment is a joke. We as women when injured have the ability to use discernment plus background reports and we have eyes, we should also have people around us that actually care to help in the process.
@Ilikefrogs.. WRONG!!! Discernment is not a joke. The woman literally said that she saw red flags at the beginning. Lots of women ignore their own Discernment.
@aylanae4797 they ignore their discernment because they are desperate. My discernment has NEVER steered me wrong and I do mean NEVER.
@Ilikefrogs.. I think that some men can bypass vetting and pull a 180 later but it wasn't the case here. He lovebombed her and they married/moved in a week or so after which is a red flag. She also says he SA'ed her several times during the marriage which was also a sign to leave earlier. Yes, he's a 100% the problem and this is HIS fault but discernment wasn't used here.
Thank you for speaking up. A lot of people watch Shera, but very few listen.
People take the shorts and don't really see the context. She used to have very long lives and everything was very well explained. People only see the viral bits.
Everyone has their own interpretation of her advice based on their intellect.
@@SasaSasa-wy9wuwhen they don't have to interpret, they can listen.
@@SasaSasa-wy9wu you nailed it
@@SasaSasa-wy9wu this part
I was thinking this yesterday. Like…how did Shera 7 get blamed for this? Broke men, rich men, and decent wage man can all be predators. It takes discernment but even that’s not guaranteed.
SheraSeven's response is BRUTAL but TRUE!
If you have small children, how can you marry a man before properly vetting him?! Also I didn't realize she married after ONE week??!?! Wut da Fcuk 😬😬😬
I feel sorry for the "New Trophy Wife" but damn ladies, 👏🏾secure 👏🏾 your👏🏾 own 👏🏾 bag 👏🏾
She married him a week after she proposed to him, not a week after meeting him. But yes she still moved in with him very quickly to get away from her previous relationship. She didn't vet him at all.
@@Shay.Zeigler Thanks for clarifying!
This is why women need their own money and financial stability so they can leave if things get rough without leaving them destitute.
And she only married him cause she was homeless she needed a place to live. That girl was born stupid. Sry for her children tho
@Shay.Zeigler she was gunna be homeless! thats y
Sherra kept that a buck. I hate the extremes were taking speaking common sense and asking questions is now victim blaming? I empathize with these children only
Same
@jozilee2098 balanced is needed
A whole buck. Not a cent more or less!
And it was good that she nipped that in the bud because people are quick to sue
Please don't tell me women are blaming another woman for the deviant actions of a monster. This has nothing to do with sprinkling anything. The man is evil
Of course!! Thats how it goes!
Exactly!! It was this man, who chose to violate those kids!! He could have passed the background checks and she could have done everything "right", and he could still be a monster!! People need to stop blaming women for men's actions!
That's how it goes
@@DeannaBaileytheRavensFan he graped her in the very beginnig of the marriage, what the hell made her think that a predator could behaved different with the children?
They are using what happened to these little girls to beat up on black women trying to practice hypergamy. It's actually pretty sick.
😂😂😂😂 she said you’re dumb sprinkle sprinkle 😂😂😂😂😂😂
RUTHLESS 🥶😅
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Like I don’t understand how Shera’s supporters expect her to give them any grace or sympathy when they know how cold blooded and sociopthic she is with men. Tf made them think they would be treated any different? they are NO different from the men she plays for money, Shera happily treats them like her bank account too bc that’s exactly what they are to her. 💀
@melanatedthinka8210 Well, she is dumb and said she took advice from Shera (did everything Shera advices against) and Kevin Scamuels (did some of the things KS adviced, like ignore the abuse of your vulnerable children).
I feel like we are all talking about Shera and no one is talking about Kevin Samuels. Are we not going to talk about how a lot of what she did is what that man encouraged women to do
I think Isis aka The Trophy Wife explicitly said that she followed a lot of Kevin Samuels advice.
I keep seeing this brought up and I don’t get it. Kevin is dead. Thank the lord. Lol people are bringing up Shera and other hypergamous CCs because they are alive and able to respond. That’s it and that’s all.
@@Ilikefrogs..yep. The same man who told women not to believe their kids when they say the man is Messing with them.
Because women are to blame for the all the worlds evil . I guess I blame Eve
@@bunchielove6893 I literally just saw what Kevin samuels said about mom's not believing their kids on this video: ua-cam.com/video/QbjFWg8XTsU/v-deo.htmlsi=N58v38u8sEn2sx79
Wait until the kids are grown! That's what my mom did and I'm so grateful. I have never had to live with a stepdad. Because I am an adult now, if her husband gets on my nerves I can leave and go to my own house. 😄
No just lie
@@AmaLoveGoddessTVyou been a long time follower too I see. Back when Shera was underground 2018 ish. Yes, she tells you to lie. These new followers looking for love and fairytales, hopping on tick tok trends.
KS has said many of times to wait until your kids is grown and then date
I agree with you. I know that it’s not a popular opinion, but single parents shouldn’t date until the kids are grown and standing on their own two feet. The kids’ safety comes before your secksual urges. That goes for single dads, because there are some evil women out there who will hurt kids that aren’t hers.
I understand this opinion but it’s very selfish. Once the kids are grown the mother is old and the kids leave you alone and go to there own house when the mom is with the lesser option after waiting so long the kids to grow up
That's why i was laughing when people were blaming Shera for misleading women. Isis did a lot of things that Shera frowns about.
First of all, she bought a ring for the man, she literally proposed to him just because he mentioned that he wanted to marry her. She married him in the court house one week later. Shera would never say that. Shera doesn't encourage marrying a man immediately, the man should prove himself to you. Probably if she dated the man for a while before rushing to marry him, she would have figured out that he was a sicko. He raped her four times early in the marriage and she didn't think she should pause the idea of having kids and make an exit plan. This is not Shera's problem. Shera even encourages you to stack your money up and use his money to invest in yourself while dating, even before you think of marrying the person.
Like Shera will always say, don't watch 30 sec clips on the Internet and run with it, watch her videos to get full context. I don't believe everything she says so i will take what i agree with and discard the rest. God gave us brains for us to reason so you can't blame anybody for your own mistakes.
Shera is for people who want to have a family and have kids. Men are not predictable but if you should involve yourself with them, you should protect yourself. A rich man or a poor man can be a child molester so it's not a problem of hypergamy. If you want to deal with them, then deal with them with your sixth sense. You can't rely on a man fully financially even if he is Jeff Bezoz.
If Shera was a darkskin BW she would definitely get BLAMED no matter what.
@@mukaniwatkins2598Listen …. This isn’t about DS vs LS.
This is about many women not being mentally, emotionally and spiritually stable enough to implement and discern certain types information when dealing with males.
I agree with you
@@mukaniwatkins2598No, she wouldn’t. Shera always said have your own separate bank account for your money that he doesn’t know about and spend his. Isis did the exact opposite and now she can’t even access her own money.
She is definitely bagging on this story and more to come. Last time I watch it was only around 34k view and she only had 27 sub. Now the view is 1.8 million and 57k sub. I pray for the kids. ❤
That's the fucked up part. She is making more money in this tragedy instead of what she was doing before. The problem I have is that she still refers to that man as her husband. But she hasn't posted him
@@Play4keeks but he is her husband until they get divorced, then he will be her ex husband. Husband isn’t a term of endearment like boyfriend is, it’s a legal title.
@@Play4keeksshe dumb!
Look at you pocket watchers 😂😂😂
Most of that better go to getting help for those kids. Therapy is expensive. smh
Sadly, she got into that situation due to desperation for a lifestyle she couldn't afford. Why she kept having children with this old man that if he didn't have children by his 60s is because he didn't want to or knew he was a pedo and was avoiding to get in trouble. So many single women see dating as a source of income and they think men don't see it for what it is, pure delusion. So far we have not seem police reports so something it isn't right here.
This is pure stupidity… So nobody wants to use their own heads but blame other people for their own foolishness and it seems to me nobody is listening. Shera met her husband at 22 and married him at 26 she even said you don’t know a man within 6 months or even a year so for that lady to get married within a week or so it’s mind boggling and was clearly desperate. Shera has also said do not rush into marriage or anything, make sure you have your own so you leave any situation you don’t like, self esteem, confidence etc. Shera also stated make sure you are with a man that is kind not just being a provider. I followed sheras advice and my husband is a sweet man who also is a provider. To point the finger at shera because you chose to be desperate and dumb is stupid as being those two things goes against sheras teachings.
That’s society today, lack of accountability and discernment. Blame others instead of looking inward.
@@SmileySaidIt I just can’t with it anymore 🙄
Shera don’t even want women to tell men they have kids🤷🏽♀️
They dated for some time, then had a break, when they got back together things progressed faster. It wasn't a week.
@@niratomas579 Yes
I think that lady is messed up talking publicly about what happened to her daughters. Especially if she has ever posted her daughters anywhere. The whole world doesn't need to know their business like that.
This entire time, I have been thinking about, how can you out your own daughters business like this for money‼️‼️‼️
I’ve been thinking this since the beginning too, but I was a bit nervous to say anything because I didn’t want to seem like I was victim blaming or anything - but like, her daughters now have their trauma exposed. It won’t be hard to find out their identities since their mom is a public figure and that’s something they’ll always have to deal with now.
@@TheRandomIzzy society has its picks and chooses on who gets heat and who doesn’t. She was actually the first monster, when you listen to her old videos. She s0ld herself, her kids well-being and her uterus, all for a false lifestyle and then began to teach other vulnerable women immediately after she was successful with her plan. This is all Diabolical, those poor kids.
@jasmineAtucker yessss!!! She's trying to make herself out to be a victim, when she put her kids in the victim position in the first place. What a terrifying grift.
@@hannahgrapes1554 she is profiting HARD off of her children’s trauma. Someone should call her out, and not congratulate her for speaking up about this! She needs to have some accountability for her own actions that led up to this situation.
I’m super passionate about child exploitation and children having a safe upbringing.
I think that she sets a bad example for her daughters, it’s all her fault. Sorry not sorry, the kids are the victims, most definitely not her. Then she still has that trophy wife nonsense up for profit. Girl you were untruthful back then and what about now?
WHO is this chick giving her take?! Because sis is super wise and ON POINT :" It doesn't matter how pretty you think you are, if your baby daddies left you, you ain't all that special."
PREACH!!!
Yeah I'm trying to find her. shera even shared her but didn't share her handle which was odd 😕
No smdh. Nothing wise about shaming women for men's actions smdh.
@Rosemary46840 are we forgetting that said man's actions couldn't have been made possible without the actions (failing to properly vet) of the woman? Men don't just gain access to women and children WITHOUT the women giving consent and access.
shera called her stupid and that man knew she was stupid as well. he already knew she would do anything for a buck. This is the result of moving without integrity and morals. Stop thinking men should have something you don't. This female lacks decency and morality. Her actions caused her children to be in a position to be harmed.
You’re right after she was graped multiple times she didn’t leave !!! Then he now went onto doing the same to her children she should have left with the first red flags why did she think her children were safe with a grapist! She’s part of the fate she gave her children which can never be undone.
NO amount of money makes a man high value!! No amount!! There are a lot of sickos who are older who earn a lot of money.
After hearing her story, I feel like that lady rushed into that marriage for a place to stay. Not even knowing this pred. It’s unfortunate what happened but she did not make great decisions. This has nothing to do with Shera. She walked into the hands of a monster thinking she hit the jackpot.
Which doesn’t even make sense because she said was making 90k a year. She could’ve secured her own place 🫠
@@bloo675 unless of course, she lied about her income?
Ikr sad fr 🤦
I’m so glad someone finally said this. She’s one hundred percent exploiting her children’s trauma it’s so wrong.
She follows Kevin Samuels more than Shera it seems.
How when’s he believe her daughter asap and got them out of the situation? Y’all are really s!ck…
@@OuuThatteaHotDid you see the video where one of her daughters is screaming and saying “Ouch! Ouch!”, and she told the people on the livestream that her daughter was upstairs with her Dad and to pretend that they couldn’t hear the child screaming? She just sat there putting on her makeup whilst her kid is screaming in the background, and she knew he was a grapist.
@@toscadonna wow...
@@toscadonna are you serious? which video is that?
If you are a single mom with young children, YOU SHOULD NOT BE DATING! Period. Focus on you and your damn children and yes, work hard to take care of them...NO Sprinkle Sprinkle for you right now, oh well. You don't need to entertain ANY MAN right now and WATCH ALL MEN even friends and family. You will not die without a man. You will be fine. It is not worth it to risk your children's safety even if your children are old enough to speak; they shouldn't have to experience that trauma AT ALL! MOST MEN ARE ANIMALS! If you want to deal with them fine but don't make your kids pay for it! I said what I said as a child molestation survivor!
My question is, have the authorities been notified and are charges being pressed? Regardless of who she is or why she did what she did, at the end of the day those innocent children need justice!
In her story, she said that she was escorted to another hospital with the police.
She did notify police immediately she said, and they escorted her to the hospital. So at the very least she did that
Don’t hold your breath. Less than 46% of reports go to criminal court charges. Of those that go, less than 10% end in convictions and about 2.5% get jail time
Once Isis heard “get the money” she ran to it. Everything else Shera said went completely out the window.
Who is the creator with the afro?Good insights.
Yes that young lady’s analysis was spot on.
It kinda seems like someone wasn't paying attention in class, gets the homework wrong and now wants to blame the teacher, like sis please
Yesssss
I don't know if these topics trending is for views, but how are almost all commentary channels by black women, are more focused on shera and hypergamy than the fact that there's a large percentage of men that are pedo***iles regardless of your economic status.
We are so stuck genuinely, we don't even see it. I'm starting to see the superficiality of content creation as a whole.
I'm South african and we have been going through a femicide. Men don't need reasons.
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Because it's easier to blame women and not go to the root of the problem.
majority of people in the black community are male identified and they will always find a way to blame the woman or a woman and disregard what the man has done because "she should've known better" (which is true in her case) but they will always blame a woman for his actions
Patriarchy will be the end of us😢
A provider male does not = predator, the same way a broke man does not = Saint. There are women everyday who are dating and married to men who do the same thing. A person’s character is a persons character regardless of his external appearance. Getting with a broke men would not have guaranteed a different outcome. Women ensure you have your own stability before you “build” with a man. The same hand that feeds you can also starve you.
This*
You were on point until you said a woman should build with a man !
@@rickilake4838 clearly you lack comprehension, it says a women should have her own BEFORE building with a man.
@@QueenHenry7 you don’t have to be condescending. She only stated what you said that doesn’t mean she lacks comprehension skills.
@ You lack comprehension as well. She incorrectly stated what I said and intended to negate my point under that basis. You both could have kept scrolling. Good day
You are in control of what you listen to and consume on the internet. So many wrong advice from different people, it's up to you to filter them.
Some lifestyles on here are performative. Y'all be careful.
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That’s it!
Yep. One woman basically said put your kids last when it comes to dating cause the man wants you not your kids… like what?😂 package deal.. why would I️ want him if he don’t want what comes with me.
I could not agree more with the girl with an afro in the black tank top. She explained everything I was thinking 😭
The trophy wife is definitely exploiting the children's trauma that she had a hand in causing!
I think this reflects the con of shera becoming mainstream. People dont LISTEN and they cherry pick information, just to act surprised if it backfires on them. If youre not going to follow all of Shera's advice then dont listen to her at all. Her advice is not for the weak.
Even if you take "all" her advice we are not all playing the same game & it's definitely a game Shera is playing.
@@beewest5704 Okay but thats not new information either. Its never been a matter of question as to whether it is a game because Shera herself acknowledges it as such. So if youre going to play then do it correctly. And definitely dont do it if you have low comprehension because youll definitely get chewed up and spit out.
Appreciate the video and sis was ON POINT!!!!!! BE SAFE LADIES>> Please center GOD and yourself.. STOP being desperate..
As a single mother of a two year old, I'm not even thinking about dating anyone right now because my child is not old enough to articulate if someone did anything to him. He is a healthy and happy child and I provide a safe environment for him. And plus I'm enjoying my single life. One day I might get back out there but right now it's not a priority for me.
Any decent trustworthy man would understand why you would lie about having kids. You have to be a mother first and protect your babies.
She's putting her daughter's trauma on blast without their consent-effed up
Shera is on point as always. She set the record straight! Sprinkle, sprinkle!
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Shera always spoke about the background check stuff I am suprised homegirl did not clock that
She didn’t care cause she was desperate. She only heard getting a rich man and get married but ignored all the other steps. It’s even more insane cause she was a Kevin Samuel follower as well
I know exactly when my lease ends. I’m not getting on dating apps reaching out to men asking to move in with them. Like a responsible adult, I’m making sure I secure a place for myself. Why did she drop the ball in the most basic way?
She did say she is irresponsible with money so I think this might have been part of her desperation.
Shera isn't lying. I don't agree with her messaging(I'm not dating no old fart for money. I get my own), but she does speak out against being a pick-me. Which the Trophy wife was. My heart goes out to her and the kids. However, she didn't do what Shera teaches, which was her own choice. Blaming Shera is wild. Why are we not blaming the man who graped his own kids. This can happen to anyone, in any tax bracket.
"Old fart"🤣🤣🤣🤣
But yes I 100% agree. Also some of the women who listen to her lack comprehension skills.
@@nandi_m04 They literally don't understand what's going on. LOl. That's not Shera's fault. I do feel like she can talk more about the P. Diddy's of it all though, for the slow ones in the back.
Yes, that low life is to blame! Period!!!!!! He is the abuser!
Shera never said u cant have ur own money stop lying
@@rensii-e8b Exactly, he's not getting any heat.
This is everything I said !!!!! DESPERATE to say she’s a wife and brand herself as a “trophy wife” for some damn content after that man R worded her, be for real that’s trifling
Shera took 'Think like a man' to an elite level and teaches how to mirror the energy of man back at them, to get what you want. Its a win-win 😅
I don’t know who Shera is. I don’t have T!kT0k. But I absolutely agree with the beautiful dark skinned lady. She is right! Shera might not tell women to be desperate, but there many women - especially in cultures where men are centered- that are DESPERATE to get a provider man. The girl was beyond desperate! And when you are desperate, you will get horrible/pr3dator men. Pr3dators KNOW when a woman is desperate. Didn’t you hear that comedian said he likes women in poverty? Because he said those women cannot afford to leave him.
Shera is on UA-cam.
@@bunchielove6893 doesn't change anything honestly. I only ever see shorts of her content in tiktok but have never been recommended any of her videos on UA-cam. I don't follow her content as she's not talking to me. I'm single (and continuously choosing to do so) and under 25.
@@nandi_m04- That’s the problem Tiktoc reels don’t provide full content,so people aren’t familiar with that person’s content, yet people are giving their incorrect opinions. There’s no reason to blame Shera because had she really listened to Shera’s content she wouldn’t have married a man after a week of knowing him and definitely would have done a background check to know not to even date him. Shera has been on UA-cam for several years now.
"If you're desperate don't claim me"
She needed a place to stay and her husband was like "we ain't shacking up"
the fact that she wasn't poor and desperate makes this even worse. she did this out of greed and unfortunately the kids have to suffer. only ones I feel sorry for is the kids.
They don’t listen and have the damn audacity to blame SheraSeven for their f!ckups.
I dont think it's fair or right to blame Shera. This unfortunate incident has NOTHING to do with her. Anyone with a brain would know to move more carefully. 1 week??? Small children??? This is INSANITY. You shouldn't attach an innocent person to your mess/drama. Own up to all your mistakes!
I'm not a follower of shera 7 but the amount of grown women that can't make their own decisions is alarming. Nobody should have that much influence over your life. I'm sure shera didn't force anyone to follow her lifestyle. As an adult you are on your own. Your bad choices are YOURS! I've said it before and I don't care who gets mad but bw definitely need some kind of therapy or counseling to learn how to develop healthy relationships and self care.
Yeah most of these content creators don't even live the lifestyle they are selling. They just care abt the clout & views. You cannot emulate them without using your own discernment.
Yes!
People love misconstruing information I’m glad Shera made a statement!
“If you’re stupid don’t claim me” Yes 😂
I agree with Shera!
I agree my with dark skin sis! When her video flashed across my UA-cam page I immediately said she need to take this down because her kids are going to see this…
This is not Ashera's fault. Never not once does she tell people to be stupid and not have decernment. She doesn't tell women to tell people to air your desperation to a potential person. She also advises to not be a pick me. She said don't introduce your kids to a new guy until they are way older and not until your closer to being engaged. I guess she missed those videos huh? The New Trophy Wife was less than smart and has no one to blame but herself. I feel bad for her children, but not for her. I'm pretty sure that this happened when she was out getting her hair done, getting her nails done, you know being that rich kept wife, and he was home alone with the kids. This is a painful lesson for her for the future. She better have looked for a job, a new place to live, a lawyer, and some counseling all in the same day that she posted that video.
I do feel badly for Isis. However, Shera is NOT to blame for Isis’s poor choices.
The problem is that the people are only listening to the cherry-picked sound bytes from Shera on TikTok without listening to the ENTIRE videos from her. Shera is VERY CLEAR about protecting yourself physically, mentally and financially, and that includes getting an education, investing, and doing your own businesses (Shera herself has a mortuary science degree). Shera also warns about talking about your kids while you’re dating because of p3dos.
To be honest, I have the unpopular opinion that single parents should wait to date until the children are older and standing on their own two feet. It’s for the children’s safety.
Shera is not to blame. Shera has NEVER pedestalized men. Matter of fact, she basically says if you’re going to be with one, might as well get your money’s worth. Never has she said men are angels… she actually says quite the opposite. She also promoted having your own life and money. It’s not Isis, fault either. It’s that evil, poor excuse of a man’s fault. Why are people blaming the women?! The women blaming the women and calling them pickme’s, are the TRUE pickme’s, projecting their negativity at women and not holding the true abuser accountable. Typical, typical 🙄 The one thing Isis did wrong was play about herself. How are you going to get raped and let that slide. Also, being naive or blind because anyone with wisdom knows the one way someone does something, is usually the way they do EVERYTHING. If he can rape you, he can rape anyone. I’m also seeing comments about buying a ring for him, but I don’t know if that’s true or not. It’s not her fault but someone raping you is the BIGGEST boundary crossed. How can you not make a connection with that to his character?
Who’s is this Queen!!! With the Fro!! She said a mouthful ❤❤❤❤ love her!
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12:18 I’m glad she said this. Like I said as a paralegal I saw so many women basically selling their children to predator men for a lifestyle. They learn if from their own mom’s who traded them for money. It’s a whole family affair. Generational trauma passed down. People argue that all mom’s love their kids and some mom’s don’t even know what that means.
Isis must've missed those episodes or just had selective hearing 😏 heard what she wanted to hear smh
Afro chick is wise. I need a friend like her!
I don’t know why people are blaming Shera or being hypergamous, or dating rich men .
It’s about sick men , pedophiles and damaged women , being a pickmeshma , desperate or they suffering from trauma making poor decisions because of their trauma not having fathers present in our life and choosing these much older men to save them because of childhood neglect. Poor baby girls.
The bottom line is the trophy wife dropped the ball. She should never have put her children in such a position. She don't know the man from Adam she jumped into a marriage for status and her daughters have paid the ultimate price. She needs to get her sons checked as well because a predator will always be a predator. She can't blame following anyone's advice on how to appeal to a man with money when she has a duty of care to her children. I dont feel sorry for her I feel sorry for her daughters that will carry this trauma for LIFE
Shera was in the right and that girl knew better, she was being silly and stupid. never put your kids at risk for a man you barely know!!! Some women are the problem... like she was ...
No. The husband is the problem. The criminal. It wasn't the stepchildren he touched...it was his own daughters. HIS OWN BIOLOGICAL DAUGHTERS both under the age of five. NO! There's no excuse. That's a double crime of sincest and pedo. There's NO WAY to blame her for what HE did. I just wish she had left him before having children by him.
@@natashadickson4819 how do you explain her saying he did those things to her, and she then turns and has children with him? If a person is capable of forcing himself on to you, is capable of a lot more! Please don't be a victim of identifying with wrong because of similar experiences.
@loyaltyb71052 You want an explanation? Get an explanation from the pedo himself.
@@loyaltyb71052 What?!? If you want an explanation, get it from the pedo himself!!! The children are HIS OWN daughters, ages 2 and 4. Just stop. ✋️
@@loyaltyb71052 What?!? If you want an explanation, ask the animal himself!!! Ask him why he would commit crimes against HIS OWN DAUGHTERS and his wife. Blocking you now. ✋️
Shera is always 💯
The lady in white is the very example of "You don't listen".
She keeps saying that the problem with the sprinkle sprinkle mentality is that women will marry out of desperation.
Ashera has NEVER said to be desperate, she ALWAYS says the opposite.
I know Shera is TIRED of the word twisting when it comes to her teachings. Sprinkle sprinkle!
I’ve been watching Shera for yearssss! She doesn’t preach stupidity! She doesn’t preach desperateness! That woman sparked a movement where women started valuing themselves a little more! The New Trophy Wife’s issue is more spiritual than anything else! She was a victim of abuse, a product of abuse and now her kids are suffering the same fate… She just fell into a predators trap! It has nothing to do with Shera.
That short clip wasn’t posted by Shera seven btw. That tik tok page is a fan page and they clipped a part from her live on UA-cam of her responding to that. She never reacted to that girls video like that.
Do you the Shera live the clip came from?
And, everyone misses the most important part. Shera says to use your funds from your provider man to create/further your own business. If she missed that, that's on her
Anyone that actually watches Shera 7 knows she stresses to vet these guys ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE KIDS
I love Shera, and she’s definitely not the one to blame. A lot of women go through so much in life because they refuse to learn their lessons. That woman is so desperate that she’s jeopardizing her daughter’s case by speaking up online. I still don’t understand why she’s sharing so many private details about the abuse.
There is a video of the mother doing her makeup and one of her children is crying in the back round saying Oww. She completely ignored her kid screaming and just continued to do her making for tik tok.
Thank you for this video! Other women don't want to address this. Bravo for bringing out this point of view 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾
Shera doesn’t encourage anyone to be goofy. She encourages women to have their own money shera had money befure James.
I believe other content creators particularly black women are using this as a “ah ha” moment against Shera to put her down and lift up their own voice because they’re jealous of Sheras success and the fact that she’s authentic, witty & that’s something that can’t be copied.
It would be interesting to follow up on this case. If she did take them to the hospital, child abuse report hotline would have been made, doctors are MANDATED reporters. If mother does not report, child social services would be involved as she lacks capacity to protect the children- anyone that works in this field (myself included) knows the process too well. If her follow up download video is not about her or the childrens therapy (which would be likely be recommended by the courts) or his arrest-- i hate to say I would doubt the legitimazy of this 😥
Shera is 100% right. Don’t be dumb and this isn’t victim blaming since the kids are the true victims the mother is just the one who led the predator into their lives.
I thought I was being judgmental watching “Trophy wife” and saying to myself she isn’t crying her emotions almost seems forced. Then she kept calling him her “husband”,,, I wouldn’t damn DARE call a rapist my husband!!
Nope!!! Don’t blame Shera for your stupidity! She’s been around for YEARS and none of us who followed had any
BAD results! Shera actually used to say NOT to tell me you had kids! Don’t even try to put this on her. I wish she was still our best kept secret. Smh
Does anyone know the name of the woman with the Afro who's tiktok video started playing at the 7:56 mark?
Who is the second sis? She was all facts! There are some documents on file of incidents that occured prior to this situation. Not SA but DV. Protective order or two. Another contentent creator pulled the order/s.
Right. I was wondering the same. Destiny said she would post the creators information but I didn't see it. I appreciate her view points & definitely agree. I would check out more of her content
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She's @unblockmecherish
i too found it weird that she noticed the redness from her daughter randomly cause if its something he's been doing, she would've noticed way before that day and her daughters would probably be acting weird around their dad
Girl do research you know nothing about sexual abuse!
Why are you blaming the mother who’s the victim
Yeah, it doesn’t work like that.
@@cupcakepatrice8418 where did you see me blaming her please? im just questioning some of the stuff she said 🙄
@@cupcakepatrice8418 and i definitely know about it since it happened to me so hush before telling me what i know and doesn't know
@@cupcakepatrice8418 and you dont know what i know or not about SA so please hush!
The only people I feel bad for are the kids. They have two monsters as parents.
Look. I actually read 2 of Shera’s book on kindle because I have the unlimited monthly plan. This lady obviously did not read her books. She did not advise this stuff
Shera said keep her name out cha MOUF🗣️🗣️…
This isnt a hypergamy issue. This is a lack of discernment and vetting issue and whether rich or poor this man would still be a sicko
The only way this harm to our children will stop is if women start holding other women accountable. Women need to stop putting themselves in situations for them to be victimized.
Her advice on waiting until a man falls in love and invests in them financially to tell him that you had kids is likely gonna make them flip out. It is so easy for her to say this nonsense since she didn't meet her husband as a single mother herself. I'm not saying that you should tell them that you have kids either. This is why it is probably best to date men with kids if you have kids. Most men don't want single mothers let alone most men that don't even have kids of their own.
I didn't know all these details. Kinda changes my perspective
It's Chinese wispers people adding fabricating and adding their own bits. Only person that knows the full details is the mother of the kids watch the original video
Clicked on this video so fast my index finger snapped!!
In order to get a rich man, be a rich woman!!!! EQUALLY YOKED
Advice for you.
Others may take too.
All I will say is that, never think that any situation could not happen to you!! I don't judge anyone. Everyone makes mistakes and has to live with the choices they make. I don't date men, and my partner passed away, so I am out of the dating game as my daughter is grown. Wishing everyone the very best with this dating game!!!
@@bookie4565 thank you ...I'm sorry for your loss..but you hit the nail on the head for me
Uhm she needs jail. She needs to be beneath the prison. All I see is child endangerment and reckless , careless behaviour. I have no sympathy for her, but a broken heart for those poor, poor children. Somebody save them from her.
This just confirmed what I was thinking about TheNewTrophyWife. Like I still think she isn't done with that man. The fact that these were his biological daughters makes this even more sick. Follow her and learn how to be a stereotype. If it's money and men verses her kids the money and men win out every time. I hope CPS in involved she shouldn't be allowed to keep her kids she isn't responsible enough.
I’m worried she isn’t done either 😢
@rensii-e8b It still kills me that she still refers to him as husband. Like you just finished telling us the man molested his children. He would be less than dirt in my eyes if it were me.
@@CelesteMinerva Listennnn! Okay!! That’s an indicator she still needs to work on her mental. I just pray they are all safe.
@rensii-e8b Same, especially those kids they don't deserve this. Those poor babies I pray for them.
Shera Seven teaches the *exact opposite* of the things this woman did that ultimately led to her children being violated. But even if Shera or any other content creators had given bad advice online, that trophy wife is a grown azz woman who is responsible for her own life decisions!
i toldddd shera to leave tictok alone but I know she is strong enough to weather the storm...let this put a light on abusers not provisionary lifestyle...alls I can say is I knew the gofundme was coming soon...no one is clocking that she still had on that ring!
I agree. Single moms of young kids should not be trying to date to be in a relationship and bring people around her kids. If she wants to go outside the home and "do adult" activities from time to time, that's one thing...but until she raises those kids until they are of age, then she has to give up her wants in certain aspects, such as "having a man"