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  • @maryxm912
    @maryxm912 6 місяців тому +191

    Omar seems so grounded. Allahumma barek. There’s a good balance between your personalities. I like that he doesn’t shy away from his opinions/principles even when they may be controversial/different especially with living in the West lol it’s like there’s a pressure to be a “Yes-Man” and anything else gets you labeled especially as muslim men, and he definitely isn’t falling for that. May Allah protect and bless your marriage.

  • @hiba7170
    @hiba7170 6 місяців тому +58

    I think of the James Baldwin quote about core values "We can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist."

    • @MC-vd5kp
      @MC-vd5kp 4 місяці тому

      Both sides of the conflict believe this.

  • @SalehFamily
    @SalehFamily 6 місяців тому +140

    Team no sleep here 😂 our kids never slept through the night until 2 and 3. Time flies though so enjoy the snuggles ❤

    • @salwazaidi546
      @salwazaidi546 6 місяців тому +5

      Omg don’t say that😭 my son doesn’t sleep through the night he’s 1 and I have another one on the way InshaAllah and I’m just dreddddingggg no sleep rn 😭🤣

  • @amandadavispomeroy
    @amandadavispomeroy 6 місяців тому +34

    So glad you got a nanny! Having that dedicated support person is a game changer for a lot of families! (I’m a nanny, so I may be biased! Haha)

  • @fozzymalik
    @fozzymalik 6 місяців тому +16

    I so enjoyed this video! Thanks for being so honest and vulnerable both of you. It was like chatting with friends. Very easy going. Appreciate it!

  • @alhamdiuallah2989
    @alhamdiuallah2989 6 місяців тому +33

    The way I get through daily tasks is listening to tafseer of Quran on my wireless headphones while I work! it gives me so much joy even while doing boring chores.. with 1 head phone on low for mamas

  • @mariamadiaw9055
    @mariamadiaw9055 5 місяців тому +2

    I loved this video, I really like seeing your personalities, being spontaneous with your responses. It’s fun!

  • @laraineshawa1912
    @laraineshawa1912 6 місяців тому +6

    Yall need a podcast!!! Loved this video ❤

  • @Laila-jn7eq
    @Laila-jn7eq 6 місяців тому +23

    Please make sure to keep cameras in your house. I don't trust babysitters even sometimes family ones. This world is scary. You guys deserve your time together and I think a babysitter is a great idea just be cautious insha'Allah.

  • @risingconvertpodcast
    @risingconvertpodcast 6 місяців тому +10

    29:20 - 29:41 Omar nailed it with the advice. "You gotta let them know." I couldn't agree more. Communication and reflection takes time and you must be sincere about it. Once you have figured it out and you tell them, you''re actually adding value to the conversation you want to have with your partner to solve the issue.
    This video has been one of the best ones yet! I've really enjoyed listening to both of you touch on parenting as currently pregnant and soon to be a first time momma inshaAllah.
    BarakAllah feek to you both.

  • @dhartipatel5611
    @dhartipatel5611 6 місяців тому +33

    leena, 1899 was canceled after 1 season but the creators of that show first made a show called DARK on netflix, its 3 season, probably one of the best shows I've watched. The original is in german but there is a English dubbed version too. if you guys like 1899 am sure you and your mom would love dark!

    • @Withloveleenaofficial
      @Withloveleenaofficial  6 місяців тому +8

      Ohh thank you!!! We are gonna check it out 😍

    • @reneeupdike2220
      @reneeupdike2220 6 місяців тому +5

      Dark is one of the BEST shows I have ever watched. It's very complicated in an intelligent way. I didn't mind it being in German and reading the English subtitles. I had to watch it twice to understand it more. So so Good! I am going to have to check out 1899.

    • @sparklydemon
      @sparklydemon 6 місяців тому

      never heard about 1899 before but I really loved Dark

    • @somebodysopinion543
      @somebodysopinion543 6 місяців тому +1

      dark was so mind tripping, I was so lost by the end of it

    • @Saturn57
      @Saturn57 4 місяці тому +1

      I loved 1899. I have Dark on my list. Check out Manifest if you haven't watched it.

  • @aliahgapor6489
    @aliahgapor6489 6 місяців тому +4

    1899 is such a gooddddd show!!! so underrated!

  • @noreenzahoor9804
    @noreenzahoor9804 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you sooo much. Loved the video and really needed this xxx

  • @aabidahsiebritz3839
    @aabidahsiebritz3839 6 місяців тому +10

    My youngest son was the same, he wouldn't sleep until I layed down too, you're a genius getting a nanny lol. Also Omar saying shopping for groceries must be your hobby because you do it so much, like you guys don't need to eat lol

  • @sherryidibo2304
    @sherryidibo2304 6 місяців тому +9

    I enjoyed this chit chat video. You both seems a great parents.

  • @lauradelucastroia4191
    @lauradelucastroia4191 5 місяців тому +5

    On parenting, I think it’s important to set boundaries and stick with them consistently. Boundaries help children feel secure. It’s so much work to be a good parent and to love your children enough to discipline them, but it pays off. And children who are intelligent are often much more challenging, if that’s any comfort. I used to worry so much as a single parent, but my daughter is such a blessing and turned out to be so wonderful, thanks to God. ❤

    • @zainabaziz741
      @zainabaziz741 5 місяців тому

      Was very comforting reading this comment 😂, my girl is 2 (terrible 2s) very intelligent but sooo challenging 😅I worry about her but hopefully she grows up to be just as wonderful ❤

  • @vee9133
    @vee9133 6 місяців тому +12

    I would love to see a tour of the upstairs of your home even if it’s not finished.

  • @sanaaatime
    @sanaaatime 5 місяців тому +1

    Such a cute video! Very easy to watch and so honest, we love it ❤

  • @ameenoahmad
    @ameenoahmad 6 місяців тому +7

    I swear I am so happy a new video is out😍😍I missed you guys

  • @sabaa1308
    @sabaa1308 6 місяців тому +11

    heyyy luv ur videos they just bring me comfront especially as a young hijabi girl, I have been watching u for years and I just want to say how amazing yous are mashallah

  • @hauwafayinkeh
    @hauwafayinkeh 6 місяців тому +3

    I love love this question and answer session the level your honesty 😊

  • @taylorburdette2518
    @taylorburdette2518 6 місяців тому +7

    Awh leena and Omar mashallah! I’ve been here since your first Q&A together!!❤️❤️❤️ also so happy for y’all I was a nanny for 8yrs! It’s such a rewarding job.

  • @sah-nae
    @sah-nae 6 місяців тому +9

    Congratulations Leena on 1M subscribers 🎉 You and Omar are such a beautiful humble couple with the cutest babies 🥰, and Leena you are so beautiful inside and out 🥹🥰

  • @sallyw184
    @sallyw184 6 місяців тому +2

    i love how honest you guys are.l0ve you both.

  • @sereneyacoub8875
    @sereneyacoub8875 6 місяців тому

    Love the video! ❤️

  • @Cyberkatz487
    @Cyberkatz487 6 місяців тому +6

    Children r gentle when u treat them with kindness

  • @renukasrinivasan5955
    @renukasrinivasan5955 6 місяців тому +1

    Sending you both lots and lots of love !!🧿🧿🧿🧿

  • @martagarcia6428
    @martagarcia6428 6 місяців тому

    Love you guys !!

  • @MuslimahTiktok
    @MuslimahTiktok 6 місяців тому +6

    In life with hardship comes easy. We can experience both at the same time.

  • @s.a5758
    @s.a5758 6 місяців тому +2

    Aww I loved this thanks for sharing g such a cute raw video please share more of these. And I love how you always include 🇵🇸 on IG. ❤❤

  • @mariaelyoussif
    @mariaelyoussif 6 місяців тому +1

    Leena, I need your lip combo! so pretty

  • @ewablonska
    @ewablonska 6 місяців тому +1

    You are very wise smart and kind people, really love to watch your films, beautiful couple and family and all answers to questions were beautiful 😍😍😍😍

  • @Jakejake20
    @Jakejake20 6 місяців тому +8

    LMAOOOOOOOOO HE SAID GROCERY SHOPPING MADE ME DIE MashAllah love you guys

  • @user-zc7bn3cl9o
    @user-zc7bn3cl9o 5 місяців тому +1

    First congratulations Leena for 1M 🎉 and you guys very kind and wise , I like watching your videos ❤

  • @aniraz90s
    @aniraz90s 6 місяців тому +10

    Salam Leena, it's normal for kids to behave that way. They are adjusting to having a sibling in their life. It's just a phase and Insyaa'Allah everything will get better. I have two boys and my eldest son is an easy baby. My youngest is very challenging and demanding. He's turned 5 and he is much better as he gets older. He's very clingy to me compared to my eldest son who isn't at all. Different kids have different personalities and my boys are opposite of each other. One likes to read books and the other one doesn't like to read books. One of them is able to sit still and quietly while another one is always climbing around and jumping. It's really hard even for me so just be patient and understand that kids are always in a developing stage. It's important to educate them by communicating with reasons and explanations. I'm sure you guys will do just fine. 🤗

  • @melissasantos1823
    @melissasantos1823 6 місяців тому +1

    Asa Wr Wb Leena and Omar alhamdulilah. Thank you for choosing to share and being real about things. You are wonderful parents and a lovely
    Couple. I agree Ireland would be a good place! Inshallah I will be there soon for a visit

  • @bezauta
    @bezauta 6 місяців тому +1

    You two are so adorable and sweet. ❤

  • @mairahumaira2257
    @mairahumaira2257 5 місяців тому

    A mother with a 6yo girl and 4yo twin boys here. It will get better! Trust the process. I understand how overwhelming it feels to have more than 2 kids. My family grown from 1 to 3 kids in a blink of my eyes but now we have more time for my marriage. Happy n

  • @biancaf8708
    @biancaf8708 6 місяців тому +2

    Omg 1899 is such a good show!!!!!!

  • @zahraaalsaffar8996
    @zahraaalsaffar8996 6 місяців тому +1

    Love your videos. ❤️❤️

  • @mehmudaaslam9478
    @mehmudaaslam9478 6 місяців тому +1

    Hi Leena! Mashallah i loved this Q and A as it was so fun❤Keep up ur hard and good work. Can i ask u what is ur next vlog going to be about because they are sooo fun and interesting. Also thank u for posting about Palestine 🇵🇸❤ Leena keep up hard work!

  • @monaelayan
    @monaelayan 6 місяців тому +2

    My kids are 1 and 3, and our date nights have been replaced by family nights. Ita still fun and we get to go out!

  • @NikkiLynn22
    @NikkiLynn22 5 місяців тому +1

    This was the cutest video❣️you guys did so good with all of those questions across the board!

  • @taramisu1483
    @taramisu1483 6 місяців тому +3

    MashaAllah tabarakallah may Allah Swt continue to bless your marriage and growing family allahumma Ameen

  • @asyed1980
    @asyed1980 6 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for being so honest. I named my daughter Alaina after your Alaina❤. Sick a beautiful name.

  • @yaldasafari1496
    @yaldasafari1496 6 місяців тому +8

    Who else loves watching Q&A video's?🥰🥰🥰

  • @sevinjaa655
    @sevinjaa655 6 місяців тому +2

    Hi both, great video as always😊 could you please also share with us how you deal with your strong willed Alaina. my daughter is also strong willed, and sometimes I loose my mind :( would be nice to know your approach and if it works. I have tried a lot of things throughout the years, but she always somehow figures out how to get what she wants and manipulate us. she is now 7 y.o., and it's scary to think about her teenage years😞

  • @jeniferjohnson374
    @jeniferjohnson374 5 місяців тому +3

    I do the same exact thing. I can be stern with my little one but if baba is stern with him I'm like nooo don't do that🥺😅. Gentle parenting is like medication I feel, use where needed.

  • @fathinahxx
    @fathinahxx 6 місяців тому +1

    Allahumma barik lahum. Ma sha Allah. Good to see you guys together. Allahumma barik lahum. Ma sha Allah

  • @seyamnida7061
    @seyamnida7061 6 місяців тому +22

    so are we just ignoring the fact that Leena reached 1M ??? lol Congratulations! Mabrook

  • @Japple123
    @Japple123 5 місяців тому +1

    Gonna make my husband listen to this so I can try convincing him to get a nanny 😆😫 help with little children is so important!

  • @hanibeeez
    @hanibeeez 6 місяців тому +10

    Please be careful promoting better help. They’ve been exposed multiple times before for the shady stuff they do with patients health information. And now they are supporting Israel and giving them free therapy

  • @NoName-dj9tu
    @NoName-dj9tu 6 місяців тому +3

    Hey Leena da everyone. We also have noone to Look after our Kids…
    We have 3 Daughters 4,3 almost 2.
    I put them down to sleep between 6-7 pm. So we have 3-4 Hours of Husband and Wife Time. ❤️🙏🏼 & it works perfekt alhamduallah

  • @leenaabed1817
    @leenaabed1817 6 місяців тому +2

    Laughing at the favorite meal and favorite outfit 😂😂😂

  • @Saturn57
    @Saturn57 4 місяці тому

    If you guys liked 1899, you should watch Manifest. It's 4 seasons. I loved it.

  • @shakeelahbehardien8768
    @shakeelahbehardien8768 6 місяців тому +1

    Leena and Omar - The lovely and oh so cute couple. Mashallah. All the best for 2024. 💙

  • @kan2903
    @kan2903 6 місяців тому

    Good one👏

  • @NK-jy4zy
    @NK-jy4zy 6 місяців тому +5

    Please consider doing a video on the topic Muslim couple with kids date night ideas and tips on making time for each other. Thanks.

  • @fat10100
    @fat10100 6 місяців тому +1

    1899 got cancelled 😢 but watch dark it has similar vibes and its amazing!

  • @Jenna20001
    @Jenna20001 6 місяців тому +2

    Mashaallah you and your husband mach together may Allah keep you guys together❤❤❤❤❤

  • @janafarouk3900
    @janafarouk3900 6 місяців тому +5

    Salaam Leena❤
    Love you so much from Egypt 🇪🇬 We need more UA-cam videos on the Palestinian issue🇵🇸🍉

  • @yallalebanon5778
    @yallalebanon5778 6 місяців тому +3

    Why did it make me laugh so much how you said "as far as like demons and stuff..I'm not into that" 😂
    May you always be blessed 🤲
    As usual ✌🇵🇸🤲

  • @domspoems2124
    @domspoems2124 6 місяців тому +1

    The side eye the thumbnail 😂

  • @Dbyugfeyybfgfregyg
    @Dbyugfeyybfgfregyg 6 місяців тому +1

    Happy new year sweetheart. What colour of your hijab, is white or pear and also is this from Haute hijab

  • @Fatemesheikhlarr
    @Fatemesheikhlarr 6 місяців тому

    love you ❤

  • @marisaeventsmichigan2292
    @marisaeventsmichigan2292 6 місяців тому

    1 M congratulations 👏🎉

  • @faseegahdavids7978
    @faseegahdavids7978 6 місяців тому +3

    May ALLAH bless you both Insha Allah 💕

  • @karlstheg8
    @karlstheg8 4 місяці тому

    31:00 My brain "every time" I get ignored LMAO

  • @karlstheg8
    @karlstheg8 4 місяці тому

    29:34 "stop breathing" me to my partner LMAO

  • @shonaloren5117
    @shonaloren5117 5 місяців тому +7

    Better help are offering free sessions to Israelis affected by war and not Palestinians. No thanks

  • @imanebahnane6568
    @imanebahnane6568 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @Dandoony
    @Dandoony 3 місяці тому

    1899 is sooooo good!!!!

  • @fmss6694
    @fmss6694 4 місяці тому

    You guys are a great example for other Muslim progressive couples. I wish I had an example of this when I was younger. May Allah bless you guys. Do t worry though the kids thing will pass and they will get older and more independent but always try to make time for each and communicate and listen.

  • @emanuelaberaldo5272
    @emanuelaberaldo5272 6 місяців тому +1

    Leena could you talk about the October 7th Hamas attack? I would be interested in knowing your opinion on what happened. I am very upset with what is happening in Palestine but I want to also know about how Palestinians feel about Hamas. thank you I hope you can answer this Blessings from Canada. I'm praying for Peace and I am Pro People and Pro Peace

  • @romonaharrison3268
    @romonaharrison3268 6 місяців тому +13

    I thought Better Help was backing Israel's atrocities.

  • @AEO123
    @AEO123 6 місяців тому

    Omar, are you sweating?? Turn on the AC 😂

  • @asma9988
    @asma9988 6 місяців тому +3

    I love that hijab where is it from?

  • @aisyahsyafiqah5053
    @aisyahsyafiqah5053 6 місяців тому +1

    House Tour please,, Love from Malaysia ❤

  • @MirroredInMud
    @MirroredInMud 6 місяців тому +3

    20:32 Breast feeding is thirty months minus the duration of your pregnancy. Per the faith. I calculated and weaned on the exact date, I was so afraid of committing injustice to him. 🙈

  • @barbtheresa5693
    @barbtheresa5693 6 місяців тому

    yeess FIFA Croatia

  • @21972012145525
    @21972012145525 6 місяців тому +2

    Leena, what?! You were trying to have a discussion when he was playing video games? 😅

  • @martagarcia6428
    @martagarcia6428 6 місяців тому

    Can you please do a house tour?!

    • @QueenHayaat
      @QueenHayaat 6 місяців тому +2

      She has an empty house tour on YT but yet id loveee to see a furnished house tour In Sha Allah💗

  • @murniati6211
    @murniati6211 6 місяців тому +1

    Omar likes paranormal movies 👍 me too

  • @shakela3554
    @shakela3554 6 місяців тому +3

    @withloveleena in todays world hiring a nanny is very scary to leave ur baby alone with …family is more safe even a daycare with camera if you need to work to make money

  • @1234Lainey
    @1234Lainey 6 місяців тому +1

    ✨💕✨

  • @holidaygirl1224
    @holidaygirl1224 6 місяців тому +7

    Even coming from a different background, I really appreciate your couples content so much. It is very honest and makes me feel less alone in the every day grind of trying to maintain a relationship with young kids 🫶

  • @zarahhamid3304
    @zarahhamid3304 6 місяців тому +5

    Hey Leena! I'm not trying to offend you or anyone with this but I'm pretty sure betterhelp does supoort Israel.

    • @irisr3898
      @irisr3898 6 місяців тому +2

      I’ve commented this before and my comments were removed

    • @zarahhamid3304
      @zarahhamid3304 6 місяців тому

      @@irisr3898 sounds familiar, yt deleting comments abt Palestine. 🤷🏻‍♀

  • @danahbdair9402
    @danahbdair9402 6 місяців тому

    Allah bless you both 🤍🤍🤍

  • @mariyavatulko7922
    @mariyavatulko7922 6 місяців тому

    Kids should be the reason 😂

  • @Klmrc
    @Klmrc 5 місяців тому

    your husband is the younger version of gerard butler

  • @reinventinglamour
    @reinventinglamour 5 місяців тому

    Shop for groceries 😂😂😂omg

  • @hadeeljaber5105
    @hadeeljaber5105 Місяць тому

    I could tell there's something off between the two of them here.. especially Leena, she's not her usual self at all..

  • @rahnuma11
    @rahnuma11 6 місяців тому +1

    Lol 2 little kids and they worried about date nights. Sorry it will only get waaaaaay harder before it gets easy! ESP if you guys want even more kids…..

  • @deenakarem558
    @deenakarem558 5 місяців тому +3

    leena better help are an israeli corporation🥺

  • @anglaismedical5573
    @anglaismedical5573 6 місяців тому +4

    Thank you Leena for mentioning Palestine in the beginning. Content for Palestine is a priority right now! Entire videos should be completely devoted for Palestine: history, geography, Palestinians' lives for the past 75 years.. please use your platform in a way that makes you happier on the day of judgement ❤😊

  • @kafeole
    @kafeole 6 місяців тому +7

    I struggle to trust this when their goal is to promote Better Help, a company that wants you to have mental illness because they capitalize on that.

  • @OmarAhmed-vh8yo
    @OmarAhmed-vh8yo 5 місяців тому

    Omar you need to join Top G’s ‘The Real World’ bro - you guys shouldn’t see a therapist, ask Allah and he shall give! Maybe increase your worship to the almighty?

  • @vanillachocola7079
    @vanillachocola7079 6 місяців тому

    ♥️🇵🇸♥️

  • @nel3065
    @nel3065 6 місяців тому

    🇵🇸 ❤🥺

  • @cgmohammed
    @cgmohammed 6 місяців тому +1

    G غ