Been reading through all your comments throughout today and I am in awe of everyones stories and love. You are truly wonderful people. Thank you so much xoxo
Hey mama! I sent you a dm on Instagram and wanted to share my story. I had a 23+3 weeker baby boy due to placenta previa, partial abruption, and placenta percreta. Lived 437 days in the hospital. He's now a thriving 4 year old. So proud of your strength!
My daughter has had kidney issues her whole life. When she got pregnant with my granddaughter she ended up in the hospital with a bad kidney infection at that point she was about 20 weeks. Baby girl hardly had any amniotic fluid so they kept her on bed rest. My granddaughter was born at 24 weeks. 2 lbs 4 oz via emergency c section. I will never forget the walk down the hospital corridor the doctor telling me to prepare my daughter that her baby might not survive and if she did there would be more bad days than good. Out sweet baby fought and had more good days than bad. I am happy to say she is a sassy 8 yr old now. I will keep you in my prayers and your sweet baby boy.
It’s so strange how I’ve been so worried about someone I’ve never even met and so weird how I cried and smiled along with you as you told your story, Renee. I’m so happy you and you’re baby are doing well! Never lose that hope and keep staying strong! ❤
You have been on my mind and in my prayers repeatedly the last two months! I felt crazy worrying about someone I have never met, i’m so relieved to hear you are okay. Continuing to pray for you and your family! 💜
I had my baby at 26 weeks, 1lb 8oz, 3 months in the NICU. STAY STRONG MAMA! It's a journey unlike anything you will ever experience. I know it's hard especially when you can't be at the hospital. I know you don't know me but I watch you all the time and if you'd like an ear from another nicu mom, I would be honored to offer support in any way 💕
@@mercym1442 I know it can be scary especially seeing the baby so small but she can have a happy healthy life just like my son. My son was the size of my husbands hand, now he is happy healthy, with no therapies anymore. Welcome to motherhood, wishing your sweet girl much health. it will be a journey but so worth it
Hi Renee!! I was born at 24 weeks, in the NICU for 3 months, my dad gave me 4 pints of blood, and here I am ❤😊 that was back in 1997 and super scary for my parents. My mom had an incompetent cervix but they fixed it and then also had my brother 4.5 years later and he was born on time and in good health! I am proud to say that even though that happened to me I am here 25 years later in perfect health. I hope my little story shows you that there is hope and don’t lose faith! I am sure my parents thought that I would have a ton of complications yeah I did not and I am perfectly healthy now! It will all be okay!💕🤗
I just started as new grad nurse in the NICU and your story just touched my heart. I have such a great perspective on how many of the moms are feeling now so I can help care for their babies and them better. Thank you so much for sharing! I will be praying for your baby :)
My son was born in 2020 at 27 weeks and 5 days. This video made me cry it was like reliving the past. I remember when my son wore clothes for the first time. I’m so happy for you that you and your son made it with flying colors! Trust me - before you know it, he’ll be home! One day the NICU will be a distant memory. Love you and your videos.
Your baby is so precious! I’m sorry for the difficulties you had to go through, but so glad the baby is healthy and growing and that you’re healthy too! Thank you for sharing this vulnerable part of your story. I know it will help so many mamas going through similar experiences!
Worked for years in NICU's. I know how scary it can be for parents. Know that each nurse, therapist and doctor care about and even love those babies. We give everything we have to keep them safe. When you can't be there, those caregivers are talking to them, loving them and protecting them. Be strong! God bless you and your sweet boy. God bless those taking care of him. 💕💕
God bless you and all you of those you work with . Your line of work is something I admire a lot . I don’t know how you guys find the strength to deal with all you deal with. 😢 stay blessed
Being someone who really wants a baby someday but also struggles with health anxiety, it's terrifying for me to think about all the things that can come with pregnancy, things that are out of my control. Hearing your story is sad but also so so encouraging, because even with all the hard times and seemingly impossible times, something absolutely beautiful came out of it and that's amazing! You've got a whole support team here, and we stand and pray with you!
I am a triplet and my siblings and I were 3 months early! Spent a couple months in the NICU and my mom tells me all about how great the staff there was! You got this Renee, thinking of you and your little family!
I was born at 27 1/2 weeks! 2lbs 10oz. I believe I was in the NICU for about 1 month and a half and a specialized hospital. As far as I've been told, I shouldn't have made it. But I've always defied the odds, especially with growth! I'm almost 6 ft tall, and 30 now! I don't know how my parents did it back in 1992, but I can imagine medicine has come a long way. Happy to hear you and your baby are doing well! ❤
My husband works for a company that works with hospital/NICU, and it’s hard - he doesn’t even work at the hospital - the stories are heartbreaking, but so full of hope and happy endings. By no means, we (those that never been thru this) know what’s the feeling. But stay strong!
My son’s airways were blocked by meconium. When they take the baby away right after you deliver it feels like time stops. He’s a healthy 5 year old now! I love you. I will pray for you and your beautiful little family. If you’re ever in NC let’s go to Elevation. It’s about 40 minutes from me. ♥️♥️♥️
This hits so close to home. August of this year I had my boy at 27 weeks. Sadly we lost him 10 days later. I’m so happy your baby is thriving. It’s a blessing.
Congratulations on your beautiful boy! My boy was also early a couple of months and he is now 9yo and super healthy and strong. You, your partner and your family all have a life of joy and love awaiting ahead ❤
I found your channel in 2020, after I had just had a baby. It’s sweet to see you become a Mom now. I can’t imagine how hard this video was to make. I’m praying for you, Xander, and your son 💕
Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy! I am a NICU nurse and while a premature birth is never what anyone is expecting, I had a mom once share a really good perspective. She expressed her gratitude for the extra time and moments she has had with her baby that she would not have had if she carried to term. So while it is a hard journey to be on, enjoy all the little moments with your tiny fighter. I always say people don’t realize how much personality even the most teeny tiny babies can have! Congratulations again and take care you yourself momma!
My daughter was born at 27 weeks 6 days at 2lbs 10oz. Following NICU Instagram pages helped me a lot as well. Seeing her strength and progress in the NICU and beyond is so awe inspiring as well as the nurses and doctors that took care of her and all babies in the NICU. Sending you love to you and your family.
What a little champ your son is! I became a mom almost 8 months ago and I am crying through your story. Although my little girl wasn’t a preemie, I do know how you feel when it comes to little warning signs that you get freaked out about because you are carrying this little person inside of you. Continuing to pray for you and your little family and that your little boy gets stronger each day! being a parent is the most amazing thing in the world!
Stay strong mama! Had my girls at 27 weeks! And my baby is thriving and doing so well 9months later!! God will take care of all of this and soon enough your baby boy will be graduating from the nicu!
I just wanna recognize not only your individual strength, but the strength of you and Zander as a team. Obviously am not familiar with the details of your relationship, but the trials you both have been through together - including adopting a puppy! In such a relatively new relationship is an incredibly tough thing to go through. Wishing you all the best mama, your son is beautiful!
I’m so glad you and the baby are ok. You are amazing and strong! he will be fine! My son was born early and had to stay in the hospital for over a month until his lungs developed and that was the hardest thing for us to do is leave him at the hospital everyday but he got strong with time and the day we brought him home was the happiest day of our lives. He is now 27 and still are gift from God. I have been praying for everyday since the video you posted and will continue to do so! Stay strong, God bless
My baby boy arrived in the 33rd week. And the next 60 days were the most challenging days of my life. All I can say Renee is that we NICU mamas are privileged to see our little fighters grow every day. My son is 15 month old now. And he has hit every milestone out of the park. God bless you and Zander jr. I wish I could talk to you and say it gets better. Your son is a miracle and he will write his own story. Congratulations and welcome to the momma club. God bless you three. Lots of love from India.
My twin daughters were born at 29 weeks. They spent almost 3 months in the NICU. They are 2 years old now and healthy and strong. Stay strong and congratulations on the beautiful baby boy. ❤
Congratulations, I know how terrifying it is, I had my baby at 30weeks. I suggest getting 1se its an app where you take 1 picture a day for 1 year its amazing to see the babys growth when they turn 1. Praying baby boy keeps being strong and healthy
Omg, you loaded this SIX days ago??? Why I haven't gotten notice of this video, I have no idea! I've checked in here & there, but .... anyway. Yippee, your baby boy is here! I know you've been so scared, & I'm sure you still are, bless your heart. The hospital will take excellent care of him, & with him hearing your voice, & feeling your touch, he'll be so soothed. Sending you a big warm hug, through the air. Wish you could feel it. He IS beautiful !! Look at all that hair !! Prayers? You betcha, doll ❤️❤️
Dear Renee, I just came back from the hospital yesterday. We have our baby in march, but I had bleedings and it was scary. And then we have multi other things which scare the hell out of me. This video and seeing your fear and hearing you talk about it - it helps me so much. So….Thank you. I wish you ALL THE BEST!! Your son is perfect!
So sorry about this, I teared up when you showed him holding your finger. Yes, there is power in prayer and faith, multiple times, a day as well as in the baby's presence, pray over him as well. Wishing you and baby well.
Fellow NICU momma here.. My little warrior was born premature too weighing 2 pounds 12 ounces and after 58 days in the NICU we took her home.. It was such an emotional rollercoaster numerous blood transfusions, weight drops and etc but in here to tell your u everything will be ok.. God is good.. My baby’s due date was March 28 and she was born January 24. My little girl is now 11 almost 12 and so beautiful and very healthy! She’s 5’3 taller than her Momma! No one believes she was born that little.. Congratulations my love and welcome to the best hood,Motherhood ❤️
I had my baby at 31 weeks on the day. I was in a labor for a few days until they decided to break my water. I was so terrified through it all that I didn't even let my husband film or take pictures until she was born! Looking back i completley regret that. She did amazing and its great to hear how good your little boy is doing! 27 weeks is very early but he is definitely a fighter! They discharged my daughter from nicu during what wouldve been 36 week gestation (they told us due date as well). You find your new normal during it all. I can't imagine how scary that was for you to go into labor so early on top of your other experiences while pregnant. Im so happy to hear from you and that your baby boy is doing good. I love your attitude and outlook. You're right, having a baby in NICU is a roller coaster- I know everyone's experience and circumstance is different. But it is your baby's own story and your experience as a first time mom and it's great that you are making the most of it. I know some days are probably harder or better than others but keep on staying strong momma, you guys got this! And you're totally right- he is sooo perfect and beautiful!
As an OBGYN nurse, I am So Sorry you didn’t feel heard by your original provider 😢 That’s the worst! Keeping you & baby boy in my prayers 💙 You are both so very strong! Keep your faith & God will turn this trial into your testimony
I admire you for sharing this story in the thick of this journey. I've had 2 NICU warriors. One of which didn't make it home. 😢 you are a true warrior and I respect you so much for sharing this journey. So much love to your family! You are a beautiful mama and your boy is precious! You are right, he looks like a doll!
Hi Renee, you have been on my mind, and I see your video. Please stay strong, and my prayers are with you! I was a NICU baby, I'm a twin, and was born early, and my niece was a NICU baby she was also born at 27 weeks and weighed less than 2 lbs. My sister had undiagnosed preeclampsia and was on bed rest with low amniotic fluid. My niece is a thriving, beautiful sweet six-year-old. But your story resonates with me because I am doing my dissertation on the US healthcare system and maternal care treatment. I'm sorry that you have gone through this, and your story will be helpful for so many people.
Wow! You’ve been through a lot. Please take time to heal and take care of yourself: mentally and physically. Congratulations on a beautiful baby boy! He’ll be running around and tearing everything up soon. 💙
You are a very strong person. What a relief to know that you are doing okay and the baby is developing perfectly fine. Wishing you the best with your new journey. May God protects you and sends endless BLESSINGS upon you your baby and the whole family. Take care and I am sure wonderful things await you in the future.
I've never clicked so fast either! Was really concerned about you and kept trying to see you on Instagram! So glad your journey is progressing into healing xx sending wishes to you all
Coming from a former NICU/Mother-Baby nurse, what you and your baby’s father went through was not easy, and the road ahead won’t be either. It’s ok to have days where you don’t feel like being positive or get upset or angry. But your baby is getting the care he needs, and you are absolutely right about it not being your fault. We do not know fully why these things happen, and they’re more common than you think. I was only a NICU nurse for about a year, and the amount of things I saw even in that short span of time was crazy. Keep visiting your little one. Pray. Feel every emotion that comes through you in it’s entirety, positive or negative. Realize you have done an amazing thing, and your son is very lucky to have you as parents. I always told my patients that your baby loved you so much that he just couldn’t wait to meet you. Now, you get even more time with him, the plus side to having a pretermer. ❤
Oh my goodness I’m a minute in and already crying. I’m just so happy you’re okay I was really worried about you 🥺 I can’t even imagine going through all of this but trust me you’re not biased he is absolutely perfect and I can’t wait until you guys can bring him home. always praying for you and you’re family 🙏🏽
Hi Renee, I was born at 26 weeks, only 1lb 7 ounces, spent 10 weeks in the NICU and am lucky enough to be completely healthy 17 years later, despite doctors telling my parents there was a high chance I'd be disabled. I know it must be a lot but things can work out so just stay strong ❤️❤️
Wow Renee, your strength and vulnerability are absolutely beautiful. Congratulations on the birth of your son, praying for him to continue meeting milestones and growing each day! What a strong son and momma duo!
I can’t even imagine how hard this has been for you. Thank you for sharing this as it will help so many people not feel alone. Praying for you and your little one 🤍🤍🤍
I was born at 24 weeks and I weighed 1 pound 7 ounces. I spent time in the NICU, and had PDA heart surgery. Today, I am completely healthy and living life fully. I believe your little baby boy will also heal and grow up to be healthy. I wish nothing but that. I’m so touched to hear your story. I’ve loved seeing your journey in life. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing. I am so happy everything is okay and I was crying along with you in the beautiful video ❤ Congratulations to you and Zander.
My heart is broken for you and everything you went through but so happy that you and baby are okay. Both of you have proven to be such strong fighters. Sending you and your family love, light and positive thoughts. 🤍
Congratulations your son is here and growing strong, that's what is important. You are an amazing and unbelievably strong soul and you deserve everything positive.
Hello Renee. I was born 3 months early, weighed 2 lbs 1 oz and had to have a gastrostomy (feeding tube) to be able to eat. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. It made me think of my mom and how she must have felt. Just shared your video with her. Thanks for being real, vulnerable and strong with us. Wishing you and yours all the best in 2023!
I am praying you for all during this journey. Know you are loved and not alone if you ever need anyone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on, we are here for you! Love and prayers
Renee, it's so good to see and hear from you! I think some of us feared the worst, so I'm happy you and baby boy are on your way back to full health! My grandson was born at 32 weeks after my daughter-in-law was on hospital bed rest for 2 weeks. He was 4 pounds when he was born. He's now a smart, happy, healthy 8 year old. I remember that time like it was yesterday. It was so stressful and scary! You are one strong mama! He's very lucky to have you and Zander as parents! Welcome to parenthood! XO
came here to say that I was born at 24 weeks! my mom always says that what kept me alive and healthy were her constant visits to the NICU and kangaroo care. sending you love ❤️
Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful baby boy! He will teach you so many lessons about life that you cannot even imagine yet. He’s a miracle. My third child was born extremely premature at 25+5 weeks gestation, at the end of 2015. She is turning 7 years old on Dec 21st, and she is an absolute miracle. I still can’t believe that we made it through and all of the time that has passed. At the time, the days dragged as I spent every moment on autopilot. She spent 112 days in the NICU, and I was terrified of what the future held for her. This is an experience that one would never understand unless having gone through it. I remember desperately scouring the internet, day in and out, trying to find any and all success stories. We have been “out of the woods” for years now, and I can still feel the rawness of our experience while listening to your story. To say my daughter is thriving is an understatement; she is brilliant and fierce! I remember longing to meet anyone who I could relate to, and if you ever need to talk to someone who has been there and knows what you’re going through, I’d be more than willing to connect. I wish you and your family a lifetime of happiness and health. You will absolutely make it through all of this, and will undoubtedly be stronger and better because of it. Celebrate his victories and triumphs, and don’t forget to celebrate his arrival because you’re both deserving of that 💙
Thank you so much for opening up and being vulnerable about your ongoing experience becoming a mama. It really pulls at my heartstrings but also makes me so thankful for the health care workers, your family, and Zander that could help you get through this. Take your time coming back to UA-cam, and enjoy every visit and interaction with your baby boy. 💙
There aren't enough words to describe how strong you are. You and your baby boy are fighters and I'm praying for his safe and healthy arrival home! Sending you lots of love and prayers
Congratulations Renee! He’s a beautiful boy. My 27 week baby just turned 32. It’s strong, healthy and happy. It’s a tough journey but you can do this! I’ll be praying for you and baby boy.
You are a warrior mama! ❤️ That is a powerful story. I've had an emergency c-section with my son as well and it was the scariest thing! All the love and thoughts your way. Stay strong. Break down when needed. Love on your son. That's all you can do.
he is a blessing and he is adorable, he is such a warrior. God willing he will continue to get stronger and healthier. Im so sorry you went through so much, but your faith and positivity help you and made you stronger. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I'm so glad you and your son are doing well! Pregnancy and birth is definitley a beautiful but scary thing all at the same time. I sadly lost my first pregnancy and when I got pregnant again I felt so much anxiety and fear. My birth was complicated, I also had a c-section and complications that led me in the hospital for 8 days but the pain from the complications lasted for 2 months. That pain and trying to take care of a newborn with no family or friends was rough. But she is a beautiful 7 month old baby girl now! Enjoy the ride, life is crazy but it's so worth it.
Yes, honey, all mamas think their babies are perfect and we are ALL right! Your sweet little boy is no different. He’s beautiful and strong. Its wonderful he’s hitting every milestone! Continued prayers for you, Zander and baby boy. 💙
Wishing you healing in mind, body, and soul and health & blessings to you and your baby 👶 you have been through so much thank you for sharing. I had my baby in February and she is 9 months old now every mama is a hero for bringing life into the world. God bless
My cousin had a rough pregnancy with her son as well. She ended up in the hospital for about a month or so because it was so risky. She ended up having an emergency c section at 27 weeks. He is now healthy and ypu would never be able to tell he was so tiny at one point. Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy. Your already a great mom
congrats Rene, Im 32 years old and was a prem baby, born 3 months prematurely. praying for you and your family during this time, but all will be ok. congrats on the new addition to your family. your dad is watching over you
Renee - I was getting so worried about you and my heart literally dropped when I saw this video. You're such a strong mama and that boy is a fighter. Glad to hear you guys are ok..
I am keeping your baby and your entire family in prayer! You’d be amazed how many NICU babies are strong healthy kids today. Stay strong and have faith in God and he will see your through! 🙏🏽
Sending you all lots of love. You’re showing such incredible strength through a very scary time and he’s getting strong and resilient with your support. ❤
I really feel for you-you can tell you went through a lot of trauma. This brought back memories for me. With three of my four children I had complicated pregnancies and births and they were in the NICU. The nurses were surprised that I wasn’t a bawling wreck, but I was just very calm, peaceful, and had great faith that it was all in God‘s hands, and in the hands of the people caring for them and they were in the best possible place they could be. And I’m not a super religious person.
I’ve been wondering how you have been. I lost my baby at 12w5d about a month ago and it is been the hardest thing I have ever gone through.. I can only imagine your worry because I felt it every time I went to the bathroom and saw the bleeding. I spent weeks trying to figure out a reason, but only God knows. Praying for more health for your little one, and lots of strength for you. We are all here with you!
I wasn't premature but born C-section with Spina Bifida. I was in the NICU for a month. It's hard but you got this. You are right, there was nothing you could have done to prevent this. It just is what it is. You, Zander and baby are in my thoughts and hoping for a full recovery. It sounds like baby is making his milestones. Congratulations!❤️ By the way, you were right to seek out a different doctor. What your doctor did to you is called "medical gaslighting. " Continue to advocate for you and your son's health care.
I had been thinking about you and praying for you all. I literally had to do a search for you because I was going to leave you a message today and seen that you already posted a video. Thank "GOD" your precious little one arrived and your both are healthy and doing good. I will keep you all, especially baby boy in prayer. You look great I am so happy for your and Zander "Congratulations" your baby boy is beautiful!!! Bless you all xoxo
Oh sweet girl I wish I could hug you right now. You did great! Baby boy will be just fine and you are all warriors. Sending you all the love. Also he is just beautiful!!
What a beautiful little warrior he is 💙 You are strong and you were meant to be a mother. Sending you prayers and strength. May you find the little joys in the tough moments.
YOU are also a warrior. No one will ever understand what you all went through but you did it!!! You were an amazing and strong mother before he was even born...I can't even imagine how wonderful you will be now that he's here. He is a lucky baby. Congratulations, mama. You did it ❤️
All my preemie babies looked absolutly normal and perfect. I remebwr 1 of my c sections they wheeled me into the nicu on my recovery bed lol it was so awkward. Most of my babies came home before their due dates it's crazy how strong nicu babies are and how well they can progress so much more then drs give them credit for
I cried with you… i wanted to hug you so badly. I am so glad u are good now and the baby is healthy!! I prayed for you all the way from italy cause i had a feeling something was going on. u have a wonderful family,husband,dog and baby boy who love u so much!!!! And we too are here to support you from a screen❤️❤️❤️
Happy to see you ! Congratulations! My sister had her twins at 7 months they were so small they are 3 years olds now they are just fine Wish you well ❤
Having a NICU stay is both a blessing and a curse. My baby boy was not born nearly as early as yours, nor was he nearly as acute as yours is nor did he require the length of time that your dear boy does, but it didn’t hurt any less. However, they are in the right and safest place they can be when they require such extra care. And the blessing comes in that you will have had time to heal yourself before having to also care for him, especially post c-section. I had to fight through the pain when my boy came home, so I can’t imagine having to have done that immediately post birth. Stay strong, NICU warrior and NICU mama.
Currently going through this with you 🥺 I had an emergency c section at 28 weeks + 4 my baby will be 33 weeks on Monday. Basically going through all of the same things. I can relate to your story in almost every way & especially saying that your eyes opened up to a whole new world you didn’t know existed. I have been praying for you since the last video you posted, even through my own struggles I try to think of everyone going through this 💜🙏🏼 sending you so much love. These babies are resilient, they are mighty warriors & like you say take enjoyment out of their story & not let it become a sob story 🥹 thank you for that. 🙌🏻 my baby weighed 2 pounds 7.2 ounces 😍
Been reading through all your comments throughout today and I am in awe of everyones stories and love. You are truly wonderful people. Thank you so much xoxo
Your baby is healthy and beautiful ❤ he’ll be discharged in no time and be in your hands 24/7 ❤❤❤❤
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Hey mama! I sent you a dm on Instagram and wanted to share my story. I had a 23+3 weeker baby boy due to placenta previa, partial abruption, and placenta percreta. Lived 437 days in the hospital. He's now a thriving 4 year old. So proud of your strength!
thank you for sharing your story, it is giving me hope, as I am going through the same experience. sending lots of love xx.
My daughter has had kidney issues her whole life. When she got pregnant with my granddaughter she ended up in the hospital with a bad kidney infection at that point she was about 20 weeks. Baby girl hardly had any amniotic fluid so they kept her on bed rest. My granddaughter was born at 24 weeks. 2 lbs 4 oz via emergency c section. I will never forget the walk down the hospital corridor the doctor telling me to prepare my daughter that her baby might not survive and if she did there would be more bad days than good. Out sweet baby fought and had more good days than bad. I am happy to say she is a sassy 8 yr old now.
I will keep you in my prayers and your sweet baby boy.
It’s so strange how I’ve been so worried about someone I’ve never even met and so weird how I cried and smiled along with you as you told your story, Renee. I’m so happy you and you’re baby are doing well! Never lose that hope and keep staying strong! ❤
It’s so good to hear from you Renee, I think we’ve all been worried about you. Sending you prayers and so much love xx
Couldn’t agree more ❤
You have been on my mind and in my prayers repeatedly the last two months! I felt crazy worrying about someone I have never met, i’m so relieved to hear you are okay. Continuing to pray for you and your family! 💜
Oh my goodness same. I’m so happy she’s doing a little better now ❤
Same❤️
I had my baby at 26 weeks, 1lb 8oz, 3 months in the NICU. STAY STRONG MAMA! It's a journey unlike anything you will ever experience. I know it's hard especially when you can't be at the hospital. I know you don't know me but I watch you all the time and if you'd like an ear from another nicu mom, I would be honored to offer support in any way 💕
Hi I am so pleased with your comment .. my baby born in 26 weeks 😢.. in NICU .. Am so worried about her future..
@@mercym1442 I know it can be scary especially seeing the baby so small but she can have a happy healthy life just like my son. My son was the size of my husbands hand, now he is happy healthy, with no therapies anymore. Welcome to motherhood, wishing your sweet girl much health. it will be a journey but so worth it
Hi Renee!! I was born at 24 weeks, in the NICU for 3 months, my dad gave me 4 pints of blood, and here I am ❤😊 that was back in 1997 and super scary for my parents. My mom had an incompetent cervix but they fixed it and then also had my brother 4.5 years later and he was born on time and in good health! I am proud to say that even though that happened to me I am here 25 years later in perfect health. I hope my little story shows you that there is hope and don’t lose faith! I am sure my parents thought that I would have a ton of complications yeah I did not and I am perfectly healthy now! It will all be okay!💕🤗
Wow your a blessing and miracle ❤
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Hi I am so pleased with your comment .. my baby born in 26 weeks 😢.. in NICU .. Am so worried about her future
@@mercym1442mine was just born yesterday at 26 weeks. How is yours doing?🙏
@@danielhurtado1905 am sorry I lost my baby
I just started as new grad nurse in the NICU and your story just touched my heart. I have such a great perspective on how many of the moms are feeling now so I can help care for their babies and them better. Thank you so much for sharing! I will be praying for your baby :)
My son was born in 2020 at 27 weeks and 5 days. This video made me cry it was like reliving the past. I remember when my son wore clothes for the first time. I’m so happy for you that you and your son made it with flying colors! Trust me - before you know it, he’ll be home! One day the NICU will be a distant memory. Love you and your videos.
He seriously looks soooo healthy for being born so early! That’s incredible and such a gift!
Your baby is so precious! I’m sorry for the difficulties you had to go through, but so glad the baby is healthy and growing and that you’re healthy too! Thank you for sharing this vulnerable part of your story. I know it will help so many mamas going through similar experiences!
Worked for years in NICU's. I know how scary it can be for parents. Know that each nurse, therapist and doctor care about and even love those babies. We give everything we have to keep them safe. When you can't be there, those caregivers are talking to them, loving them and protecting them. Be strong! God bless you and your sweet boy. God bless those taking care of him. 💕💕
God bless you and all you of those you work with . Your line of work is something I admire a lot . I don’t know how you guys find the strength to deal with all you deal with. 😢 stay blessed
Being someone who really wants a baby someday but also struggles with health anxiety, it's terrifying for me to think about all the things that can come with pregnancy, things that are out of my control. Hearing your story is sad but also so so encouraging, because even with all the hard times and seemingly impossible times, something absolutely beautiful came out of it and that's amazing! You've got a whole support team here, and we stand and pray with you!
I am a triplet and my siblings and I were 3 months early! Spent a couple months in the NICU and my mom tells me all about how great the staff there was! You got this Renee, thinking of you and your little family!
I was born at 27 1/2 weeks! 2lbs 10oz. I believe I was in the NICU for about 1 month and a half and a specialized hospital.
As far as I've been told, I shouldn't have made it. But I've always defied the odds, especially with growth! I'm almost 6 ft tall, and 30 now! I don't know how my parents did it back in 1992, but I can imagine medicine has come a long way.
Happy to hear you and your baby are doing well! ❤
Wow you are a miracle . ❤
My husband works for a company that works with hospital/NICU, and it’s hard - he doesn’t even work at the hospital - the stories are heartbreaking, but so full of hope and happy endings. By no means, we (those that never been thru this) know what’s the feeling. But stay strong!
My son’s airways were blocked by meconium. When they take the baby away right after you deliver it feels like time stops. He’s a healthy 5 year old now!
I love you. I will pray for you and your beautiful little family. If you’re ever in NC let’s go to Elevation. It’s about 40 minutes from me.
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This hits so close to home. August of this year I had my boy at 27 weeks. Sadly we lost him 10 days later. I’m so happy your baby is thriving. It’s a blessing.
😢 I’m sorry mama .
Congratulations on your beautiful boy! My boy was also early a couple of months and he is now 9yo and super healthy and strong. You, your partner and your family all have a life of joy and love awaiting ahead ❤
I was a NICU baby. 26 weeks, 1 lb 2 oz. 11 inches long. Now 26 😊 We are fighters. Stay strong mama. Your little one is a fighter ❤️🥰
I found your channel in 2020, after I had just had a baby. It’s sweet to see you become a Mom now. I can’t imagine how hard this video was to make. I’m praying for you, Xander, and your son 💕
I’ve never clicked on a video so fast. You’ve been in my prayers so heavily. Much love and take all of the time you need. ❤❤ we love you.
Me too!!! I stopped everything lol
Same omg as soon as I saw !!!!
Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy! I am a NICU nurse and while a premature birth is never what anyone is expecting, I had a mom once share a really good perspective. She expressed her gratitude for the extra time and moments she has had with her baby that she would not have had if she carried to term. So while it is a hard journey to be on, enjoy all the little moments with your tiny fighter. I always say people don’t realize how much personality even the most teeny tiny babies can have! Congratulations again and take care you yourself momma!
My daughter was born at 27 weeks 6 days at 2lbs 10oz. Following NICU Instagram pages helped me a lot as well. Seeing her strength and progress in the NICU and beyond is so awe inspiring as well as the nurses and doctors that took care of her and all babies in the NICU. Sending you love to you and your family.
What a little champ your son is! I became a mom almost 8 months ago and I am crying through your story. Although my little girl wasn’t a preemie, I do know how you feel when it comes to little warning signs that you get freaked out about because you are carrying this little person inside of you. Continuing to pray for you and your little family and that your little boy gets stronger each day! being a parent is the most amazing thing in the world!
Ohhh hun. Watching this crying. I’ve felt these emotions many times myself. Sending you and your baby boy love.
Stay strong mama! Had my girls at 27 weeks! And my baby is thriving and doing so well 9months later!! God will take care of all of this and soon enough your baby boy will be graduating from the nicu!
I just wanna recognize not only your individual strength, but the strength of you and Zander as a team. Obviously am not familiar with the details of your relationship, but the trials you both have been through together - including adopting a puppy! In such a relatively new relationship is an incredibly tough thing to go through. Wishing you all the best mama, your son is beautiful!
I’m so glad you and the baby are ok. You are amazing and strong! he will be fine! My son was born early and had to stay in the hospital for over a month until his lungs developed and that was the hardest thing for us to do is leave him at the hospital everyday but he got strong with time and the day we brought him home was the happiest day of our lives. He is now 27 and still are gift from God. I have been praying for everyday since the video you posted and will continue to do so! Stay strong, God bless
My baby boy arrived in the 33rd week. And the next 60 days were the most challenging days of my life. All I can say Renee is that we NICU mamas are privileged to see our little fighters grow every day. My son is 15 month old now. And he has hit every milestone out of the park. God bless you and Zander jr. I wish I could talk to you and say it gets better. Your son is a miracle and he will write his own story. Congratulations and welcome to the momma club. God bless you three. Lots of love from India.
My twin daughters were born at 29 weeks. They spent almost 3 months in the NICU. They are 2 years old now and healthy and strong. Stay strong and congratulations on the beautiful baby boy. ❤
Congratulations, I know how terrifying it is, I had my baby at 30weeks. I suggest getting 1se its an app where you take 1 picture a day for 1 year its amazing to see the babys growth when they turn 1. Praying baby boy keeps being strong and healthy
Omg, you loaded this SIX days ago??? Why I haven't gotten notice of this video, I have no idea! I've checked in here & there, but .... anyway. Yippee, your baby boy is here! I know you've been so scared, & I'm sure you still are, bless your heart. The hospital will take excellent care of him, & with him hearing your voice, & feeling your touch, he'll be so soothed. Sending you a big warm hug, through the air. Wish you could feel it. He IS beautiful !! Look at all that hair !! Prayers? You betcha, doll ❤️❤️
Dear Renee, I just came back from the hospital yesterday. We have our baby in march, but I had bleedings and it was scary. And then we have multi other things which scare the hell out of me. This video and seeing your fear and hearing you talk about it - it helps me so much. So….Thank you.
I wish you ALL THE BEST!!
Your son is perfect!
So sorry about this, I teared up when you showed him holding your finger. Yes, there is power in prayer and faith, multiple times, a day as well as in the baby's presence, pray over him as well. Wishing you and baby well.
Fellow NICU momma here.. My little warrior was born premature too weighing 2 pounds 12 ounces and after 58 days in the NICU we took her home.. It was such an emotional rollercoaster numerous blood transfusions, weight drops and etc but in here to tell your u everything will be ok.. God is good.. My baby’s due date was March 28 and she was born January 24. My little girl is now 11 almost 12 and so beautiful and very healthy! She’s 5’3 taller than her Momma! No one believes she was born that little.. Congratulations my love and welcome to the best hood,Motherhood ❤️
I had my baby at 31 weeks on the day. I was in a labor for a few days until they decided to break my water. I was so terrified through it all that I didn't even let my husband film or take pictures until she was born! Looking back i completley regret that. She did amazing and its great to hear how good your little boy is doing! 27 weeks is very early but he is definitely a fighter! They discharged my daughter from nicu during what wouldve been 36 week gestation (they told us due date as well). You find your new normal during it all. I can't imagine how scary that was for you to go into labor so early on top of your other experiences while pregnant. Im so happy to hear from you and that your baby boy is doing good. I love your attitude and outlook. You're right, having a baby in NICU is a roller coaster- I know everyone's experience and circumstance is different. But it is your baby's own story and your experience as a first time mom and it's great that you are making the most of it. I know some days are probably harder or better than others but keep on staying strong momma, you guys got this! And you're totally right- he is sooo perfect and beautiful!
As an OBGYN nurse, I am So Sorry you didn’t feel heard by your original provider 😢 That’s the worst!
Keeping you & baby boy in my prayers 💙 You are both so very strong! Keep your faith & God will turn this trial into your testimony
I admire you for sharing this story in the thick of this journey. I've had 2 NICU warriors. One of which didn't make it home. 😢 you are a true warrior and I respect you so much for sharing this journey. So much love to your family! You are a beautiful mama and your boy is precious! You are right, he looks like a doll!
Hi Renee, you have been on my mind, and I see your video. Please stay strong, and my prayers are with you! I was a NICU baby, I'm a twin, and was born early, and my niece was a NICU baby she was also born at 27 weeks and weighed less than 2 lbs. My sister had undiagnosed preeclampsia and was on bed rest with low amniotic fluid. My niece is a thriving, beautiful sweet six-year-old. But your story resonates with me because I am doing my dissertation on the US healthcare system and maternal care treatment. I'm sorry that you have gone through this, and your story will be helpful for so many people.
My daughter was born 23 weeks 1 pound 6 ounces, 4 months in NICU, healthy 10 year old now! These babies are such miracles
Wow! You’ve been through a lot. Please take time to heal and take care of yourself: mentally and physically. Congratulations on a beautiful baby boy! He’ll be running around and tearing everything up soon. 💙
You are a very strong person. What a relief to know that you are doing okay and the baby is developing perfectly fine.
Wishing you the best with your new journey. May God protects you and sends endless BLESSINGS upon you your baby and the whole family.
Take care and I am sure wonderful things await you in the future.
I've never clicked so fast either! Was really concerned about you and kept trying to see you on Instagram! So glad your journey is progressing into healing xx sending wishes to you all
Coming from a former NICU/Mother-Baby nurse, what you and your baby’s father went through was not easy, and the road ahead won’t be either. It’s ok to have days where you don’t feel like being positive or get upset or angry. But your baby is getting the care he needs, and you are absolutely right about it not being your fault. We do not know fully why these things happen, and they’re more common than you think. I was only a NICU nurse for about a year, and the amount of things I saw even in that short span of time was crazy. Keep visiting your little one. Pray. Feel every emotion that comes through you in it’s entirety, positive or negative. Realize you have done an amazing thing, and your son is very lucky to have you as parents. I always told my patients that your baby loved you so much that he just couldn’t wait to meet you. Now, you get even more time with him, the plus side to having a pretermer. ❤
Oh my goodness I’m a minute in and already crying. I’m just so happy you’re okay I was really worried about you 🥺 I can’t even imagine going through all of this but trust me you’re not biased he is absolutely perfect and I can’t wait until you guys can bring him home. always praying for you and you’re family 🙏🏽
Hi Renee, I was born at 26 weeks, only 1lb 7 ounces, spent 10 weeks in the NICU and am lucky enough to be completely healthy 17 years later, despite doctors telling my parents there was a high chance I'd be disabled. I know it must be a lot but things can work out so just stay strong ❤️❤️
Wow Renee, your strength and vulnerability are absolutely beautiful. Congratulations on the birth of your son, praying for him to continue meeting milestones and growing each day! What a strong son and momma duo!
Wow. You put your body/mind through so much in order for you baby to survive! You definitely deserve the mother of the year award.
I can’t even imagine how hard this has been for you. Thank you for sharing this as it will help so many people not feel alone. Praying for you and your little one 🤍🤍🤍
I was born at 24 weeks and I weighed 1 pound 7 ounces. I spent time in the NICU, and had PDA heart surgery. Today, I am completely healthy and living life fully. I believe your little baby boy will also heal and grow up to be healthy. I wish nothing but that. I’m so touched to hear your story. I’ve loved seeing your journey in life. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing. I am so happy everything is okay and I was crying along with you in the beautiful video ❤ Congratulations to you and Zander.
You are so strong for speaking your experiences on this. May your little prince overcome all his obstacles. He's a little warrior.
My heart is broken for you and everything you went through but so happy that you and baby are okay. Both of you have proven to be such strong fighters. Sending you and your family love, light and positive thoughts. 🤍
Congratulations your son is here and growing strong, that's what is important. You are an amazing and unbelievably strong soul and you deserve everything positive.
Hello Renee.
I was born 3 months early, weighed 2 lbs 1 oz and had to have a gastrostomy (feeding tube) to be able to eat. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. It made me think of my mom and how she must have felt. Just shared your video with her.
Thanks for being real, vulnerable and strong with us. Wishing you and yours all the best in 2023!
I am praying you for all during this journey. Know you are loved and not alone if you ever need anyone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on, we are here for you! Love and prayers
Renee, it's so good to see and hear from you! I think some of us feared the worst, so I'm happy you and baby boy are on your way back to full health! My grandson was born at 32 weeks after my daughter-in-law was on hospital bed rest for 2 weeks. He was 4 pounds when he was born. He's now a smart, happy, healthy 8 year old. I remember that time like it was yesterday. It was so stressful and scary! You are one strong mama! He's very lucky to have you and Zander as parents! Welcome to parenthood! XO
came here to say that I was born at 24 weeks! my mom always says that what kept me alive and healthy were her constant visits to the NICU and kangaroo care. sending you love ❤️
Wow. Amazing. I’m glad you made it!
Despite what you’ve gone through, you are staying positive and that light is shining through this video. Praying for your family
Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful baby boy! He will teach you so many lessons about life that you cannot even imagine yet. He’s a miracle.
My third child was born extremely premature at 25+5 weeks gestation, at the end of 2015. She is turning 7 years old on Dec 21st, and she is an absolute miracle. I still can’t believe that we made it through and all of the time that has passed. At the time, the days dragged as I spent every moment on autopilot. She spent 112 days in the NICU, and I was terrified of what the future held for her. This is an experience that one would never understand unless having gone through it. I remember desperately scouring the internet, day in and out, trying to find any and all success stories. We have been “out of the woods” for years now, and I can still feel the rawness of our experience while listening to your story. To say my daughter is thriving is an understatement; she is brilliant and fierce! I remember longing to meet anyone who I could relate to, and if you ever need to talk to someone who has been there and knows what you’re going through, I’d be more than willing to connect. I wish you and your family a lifetime of happiness and health. You will absolutely make it through all of this, and will undoubtedly be stronger and better because of it. Celebrate his victories and triumphs, and don’t forget to celebrate his arrival because you’re both deserving of that 💙
Thank you so much for opening up and being vulnerable about your ongoing experience becoming a mama. It really pulls at my heartstrings but also makes me so thankful for the health care workers, your family, and Zander that could help you get through this. Take your time coming back to UA-cam, and enjoy every visit and interaction with your baby boy. 💙
There aren't enough words to describe how strong you are. You and your baby boy are fighters and I'm praying for his safe and healthy arrival home! Sending you lots of love and prayers
Congratulations Renee! He’s a beautiful boy. My 27 week baby just turned 32. It’s strong, healthy and happy. It’s a tough journey but you can do this! I’ll be praying for you and baby boy.
You are a warrior mama! ❤️ That is a powerful story. I've had an emergency c-section with my son as well and it was the scariest thing! All the love and thoughts your way. Stay strong. Break down when needed. Love on your son. That's all you can do.
He looks so cute and healthy, You are going to be the best mom. And yes praying does help. He looks a little bit like your dad.
Sending you so much love! And praying for overwhelming peace over your entire beautiful and PERFECT family
he is a blessing and he is adorable, he is such a warrior. God willing he will continue to get stronger and healthier. Im so sorry you went through so much, but your faith and positivity help you and made you stronger. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I'm so glad you and your son are doing well! Pregnancy and birth is definitley a beautiful but scary thing all at the same time. I sadly lost my first pregnancy and when I got pregnant again I felt so much anxiety and fear. My birth was complicated, I also had a c-section and complications that led me in the hospital for 8 days but the pain from the complications lasted for 2 months. That pain and trying to take care of a newborn with no family or friends was rough. But she is a beautiful 7 month old baby girl now! Enjoy the ride, life is crazy but it's so worth it.
Yes, honey, all mamas think their babies are perfect and we are ALL right! Your sweet little boy is no different. He’s beautiful and strong. Its wonderful he’s hitting every milestone! Continued prayers for you, Zander and baby boy. 💙
I had a preterm 3oz baby and she is 17 today and stronger than ever. The Nicu is an amazing place. Sending much love ❤
Wishing you healing in mind, body, and soul and health & blessings to you and your baby 👶 you have been through so much thank you for sharing. I had my baby in February and she is 9 months old now every mama is a hero for bringing life into the world. God bless
Sending you love and comfort! your baby boy is beautiful- take all the time you need
My cousin had a rough pregnancy with her son as well. She ended up in the hospital for about a month or so because it was so risky. She ended up having an emergency c section at 27 weeks. He is now healthy and ypu would never be able to tell he was so tiny at one point. Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy. Your already a great mom
Praying for you all. You’re one strong mama and I bet your dad is watching over your son helping him get stronger every day ❤️
Crying with you ❤ I can just feel the overwhelming love in your sweet little family. Will be praying for all of you.
congrats Rene, Im 32 years old and was a prem baby, born 3 months prematurely. praying for you and your family during this time, but all will be ok. congrats on the new addition to your family. your dad is watching over you
Renee - I was getting so worried about you and my heart literally dropped when I saw this video. You're such a strong mama and that boy is a fighter. Glad to hear you guys are ok..
I am keeping your baby and your entire family in prayer! You’d be amazed how many NICU babies are strong healthy kids today. Stay strong and have faith in God and he will see your through! 🙏🏽
Sending you all lots of love. You’re showing such incredible strength through a very scary time and he’s getting strong and resilient with your support. ❤
I really feel for you-you can tell you went through a lot of trauma. This brought back memories for me. With three of my four children I had complicated pregnancies and births and they were in the NICU. The nurses were surprised that I wasn’t a bawling wreck, but I was just very calm, peaceful, and had great faith that it was all in God‘s hands, and in the hands of the people caring for them and they were in the best possible place they could be. And I’m not a super religious person.
I’ve been wondering how you have been. I lost my baby at 12w5d about a month ago and it is been the hardest thing I have ever gone through.. I can only imagine your worry because I felt it every time I went to the bathroom and saw the bleeding. I spent weeks trying to figure out a reason, but only God knows. Praying for more health for your little one, and lots of strength for you. We are all here with you!
Love you praying for you. I feel for you 🤎
Stay strong my love
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for you to heal and to be blessed. My heart goes out to you.
I delivered a woman’s baby at 23 weeks. She went home happy and healthy. Stay strong Renee! Prayers for you and baby boy ❤
I wasn't premature but born C-section with Spina Bifida. I was in the NICU for a month. It's hard but you got this. You are right, there was nothing you could have done to prevent this. It just is what it is. You, Zander and baby are in my thoughts and hoping for a full recovery. It sounds like baby is making his milestones. Congratulations!❤️
By the way, you were right to seek out a different doctor. What your doctor did to you is called "medical gaslighting. " Continue to advocate for you and your son's health care.
He’s perfect Renee! Bless you and your beautiful family. You are a warrior through and through.
I had been thinking about you and praying for you all. I literally had to do a search for you because I was going to leave you a message today and seen that you already posted a video. Thank "GOD" your precious little one arrived and your both are healthy and doing good. I will keep you all, especially baby boy in prayer. You look great I am so happy for your and Zander "Congratulations" your baby boy is beautiful!!! Bless you all xoxo
Oh sweet girl I wish I could hug you right now. You did great! Baby boy will be just fine and you are all warriors. Sending you all the love. Also he is just beautiful!!
What a beautiful little warrior he is 💙 You are strong and you were meant to be a mother. Sending you prayers and strength. May you find the little joys in the tough moments.
YOU are also a warrior. No one will ever understand what you all went through but you did it!!! You were an amazing and strong mother before he was even born...I can't even imagine how wonderful you will be now that he's here. He is a lucky baby. Congratulations, mama. You did it ❤️
All my preemie babies looked absolutly normal and perfect. I remebwr 1 of my c sections they wheeled me into the nicu on my recovery bed lol it was so awkward. Most of my babies came home before their due dates it's crazy how strong nicu babies are and how well they can progress so much more then drs give them credit for
You're such a strong woman.
So happy that you and your baby are doing well.
I cried with you… i wanted to hug you so badly. I am so glad u are good now and the baby is healthy!! I prayed for you all the way from italy cause i had a feeling something was going on. u have a wonderful family,husband,dog and baby boy who love u so much!!!! And we too are here to support you from a screen❤️❤️❤️
I am crying with you mama! You have been heavy on my mind for awhile. Sending prayers and love to your sweet family🥰
I was so thankful to see this update. Congratulations on your little miracle baby! He is precious and perfect. Keeping all three of you in my prayers.
OH Renee he is so gorgeous. Thank you for sharing your birth story with us. He will be home in your arms soon!
My nephew was a NICU baby, and it was super scary. You're so strong and I'm going to continue for your growing family, hug his pinkie for me 🥰
Happy to see you ! Congratulations!
My sister had her twins at 7 months they were so small they are 3 years olds now they are just fine
Wish you well ❤
Having a NICU stay is both a blessing and a curse. My baby boy was not born nearly as early as yours, nor was he nearly as acute as yours is nor did he require the length of time that your dear boy does, but it didn’t hurt any less. However, they are in the right and safest place they can be when they require such extra care. And the blessing comes in that you will have had time to heal yourself before having to also care for him, especially post c-section. I had to fight through the pain when my boy came home, so I can’t imagine having to have done that immediately post birth. Stay strong, NICU warrior and NICU mama.
That is such a powerful story of love and courage! You do your son proud.
Currently going through this with you 🥺 I had an emergency c section at 28 weeks + 4 my baby will be 33 weeks on Monday. Basically going through all of the same things. I can relate to your story in almost every way & especially saying that your eyes opened up to a whole new world you didn’t know existed. I have been praying for you since the last video you posted, even through my own struggles I try to think of everyone going through this 💜🙏🏼 sending you so much love. These babies are resilient, they are mighty warriors & like you say take enjoyment out of their story & not let it become a sob story 🥹 thank you for that. 🙌🏻 my baby weighed 2 pounds 7.2 ounces 😍
I'm crying... At same time I am so so happy for you!!! Blessings for you and your baby!!!! In my prayers always!!!!