Oh Karen you do make me laugh out loud . David was a minimalist before it was popular! As his mom I’ve had the odd comment about how lucky you are to be living this lifestyle . All I can say is I saw first hand how you two fitted together when I first stayed with you. Both working stupid hours it was like a military operation each day and time spent together was little and precious. But it was , as you say, team work and like two sides of the same coin coming together. Fair to say my son has found his perfect match.
It's so nice to read this coming from you. I feel very lucky for having such a good husband and amazing mother-in-law. I always spend a good time when I'm with you. Thank you.
Jill, it warms my heart to see such a comment from a MIL! My exMIL was the spawn of Satan! Her attitude towards me really caught me off guard, because my past boyfriends had mom's who really liked me, and were so good to me. I guess I should've stuck with one of them! Lol!
@@LaKarencitaMX Hi my name is Peter, I just discovered Your channel. Is Your husband from Europe, I was born in Poland and live in USA for a long time.
Never let people outside your marriage, friends, family, acquaintances, colleagues, and so on, ever....ever...ever impact or infect your relationship with your spouse. Whatever you and your spouse decide a relationship or marriage will be is of concern only between you two. My wife is from Mexico and I am from the US and we have had numerous people try to set expectations of our marriage, make assumptions of us, and other negative perspectives. Ignore those people and focus on what you two want your relationship to be.
@@LaKarencitaMX some people are just ignorant. You are such a blessing to many others so continue to be who you are and allow those haters to hate and allow the rest of us tell you how great you are ❤️
Ay Karencita, que sabía eres! Un matrimonio siempre debe valer el uno para el otro, no? Y no importa de dónde vienes los novios. Me imagino que sí has crecido mucho y te felicito por tu sabiduría. Sigue con tus videos porque eres un aire fresco!! Saludos de Cuernavaca, Morelos!!
Have to agree! I just clicked out of curiosity. I never thought anything of it. You are Mexican; your husband is British. Ok, great! BTW, I love your videos. Keep up the good work!
Most women in America prefer to marry up. A business woman, professional, educated, seek to marry someone who is in the same or higher position, economic position, than themselves. Rarely do you hear of a sucessful woman marrying beneath her position, regardless of race of the woman. People should realize there are Mexican women who are professionals: Businesswomen, Doctors, Lawyers Engineers, Scientists, etc. Strange these people would exclude Mexican women. A lack of education, understanding would explain such backward ideas and concepts. Nevertheless you have the right to marry whoever you like, just like any other woman.Remember: you are marrying for your happiness and the happiness of your partner not the happiness of others.
Never crossed my mind, either. But I really like how you take the bull by the horns and throw ideas and thoughts out in your videos. You have no fear and that is really cool!
I actually clicked on it just to see what you had to say. But, I'm also new to your channel so I had no idea you were married until I saw this video, I just found you from your "Why do some Mexicans look Asian?" video and after hearing your intro on this video, I was a bit perturbed and wanted to write this comment, but then as I listened to more of your story, it started to _hit close to home_ and actually reminded me a lot of my own past with my now ex-wife. By the end of your video, it helped me learn a lot about maybe how she thought regarding keeping up a social image as she was an immigrant who came to the US as a student and after we got married, she gained permanent resident status and was able to stay in the US. She would always explain how she didn't want to live in Japan, and so it made me feel like she only wanted to get married for a green card. And, on occasion, she would mention being upset when someone assumed that fact about her but it was rare. Now, in hindsight and after watching your video, maybe she dealt with it a lot more then she wanted to admit or that I realized and perhaps kept quiet out of fear for reminding me of this idea. But in any case, your video also helped me discover and recognize the differences between our (my former wife and I's) relationship formed so much differently than you and your husband's did, even though I feel like we endured a lot of the same hardships and struggles (especially financially speaking and needing to support one another) it would seem more simply as if yours grew out of love while maybe ours didn't. I won't get into all that now but just wanted to thank you for sharing your story. It was moving for me, so I just wanted to let you know I appreciate you for not only going through the trouble of making this video, but also for your willingness and courageousness in being open about your past life and sharing it with us on UA-cam. So, thank you. Wishing you all the best, A new subscriber
I understand the meaning from context but terms like native or indigenous are more ambiguous than many "indigenous" people think. Sort of like the "new guy" who has only been around for 20 years.
Hey guys! This video is a little bit different today but maybe some of you can relate or have some interesting stories. Thanks for watching the video and the channel! Hola a todos! Hoy hice un video un poco diferente pero espero que lo disfruten y tal vez se puedan identificar un poco!
I have always enjoyed your authenticity, now even more! I will be visiting Mexico sometime this year, of course depending on the covet situation. Your videos are fun and informative and our big reason that I'm headed your way. As I am sure you know, during the past year many of us have been living vicariously. Your videos have been an important part of my Covid survival plan. May God bless you and those you love and please keep up the good work. Abrasos y besos amiga! 🌞
Sometimes people do not understand that young foreigners are not rich, why? Because they don't see school is very expensive in the UK, USA, Canada, Australia, etc (all develop countries) that means that they either work and study, or have to get a loan, or their parents help them and they have to pay back but usually they take a loan. All young marriages will start from 0, at least in the common world. We all start from nothing and have nothing (or very very little). Beside women we will have disadvantages in Mexico, because they don't value us the same way as they do with men. We get pregnant, and that's very hard to cope with work. Other counties provide maternity and paternity leave. From your comment that he got another job offer in China and you had to quite your job in Mexico that's what is going to be hard for you each time as a woman. We women don't have that luxury as he does. 3:50 please explain what is a Godin. Another huge diffence is that in develop countries you can study another career no matter how old you are but in Mexico the race is going and a none stop. 4:36 Is this small town Mixquiahuala Hidalgo? As in your other video? I almost cried when I saw the words of that town, amazing childhood memories. 😭 6:50 those moments at the moments where a marriage faces hard times and how they overcome them. I'm sure that for him was either and eye opening to know he shared a responsibility in the relationship and not only being asked to do it all by himself. 7:45 I know you said he didn't have so much clothes but usually I have seen that some foreign guys who study hard and know the value of money they don't buy brand name clothing or focus on appearances. He seems a guy who would rather spend his money on traveling and learning about other cultures, study, than on material stuff. And I see why he chose you, becuase you are a woman that works hard and don't easily get down. 8:27 someone else hearing this might comment bad about him but I don't see the point of a ring. A ring to me means nothing and to be sincere I will be scared in Mexico wearing something valuable. My husband doesn't feel comfortable wearing things like necklace, bracelets or rings so I don't mind. At the end my 20 years of marriage back us up regardless of what people think or see.
hey bro thats only going to be more work, all those clothes are not going to fit in the washer, as opposed to taking a shower without taking your clothes off, if it was me I'l pick option number two, just saying
Anyone making negative comments are ppl who are un happy or have nothing better to say. Lonely bitter angry with themselves. God bless you both. Best of luck in everything you do.
I love hearing your thoughts and you have learned a lot and gained much wisdom in your short life! Keep doing what you are enjoying and are good at! I went to Mexico for the first time this summer (Puerto Vallarta) for two weeks and lived and worked in China for 5 years as a teacher at an international school in Guangzhou and traveled throughout Vietnam while living there. Opportunities open up where you least expect them. My daughter lives in Taiwan and is living with a man from the UK. You remind me a lot of her! Cheers
It's sad you have to explain this to people. You have every right to be different and in love. True, finances will make or break a relationship but from what you have described, you both made adjustments. Thanks for sharing and continue being wonderful to each other regardless of what other's think. Besides, you have your mother-in-law's blessing, that alone says a lot!
Thanks for sharing your very personal stories. You are real, authentic, honest, and intelligent and have found your niche. Congratulations! You will always succeed if you follow your hearts and not your egos.
I just saw two people in love: its fate ❤️Seeing that both parties have goals. You guys are the couple’s relationship i desire to have. Just to have each other back, does it for me 🤞🏼 just to observe ur situation i realize that real love exist xoxoxo ❣️
I'm loving all your videos and honesty. Thanks for being so open with everyone. I'd love to be a family friend and teach you the Bible. It has every answer for every person in every situation. Tell Dave, Great suit at the wedding!
You are amazing 👏❤💖💕💗. I love seeing your videos and am glad to see a happy marriage. I miss my Mexico sometimes. I recently learned I'm Portuguese and raised in Mexico. Regardless of my DNA, my heart ❤belongs to Mexico. (MICHOACAN) . My kids are all 🇺🇸US born citizens and sometimes I wish I could just pick up and retire in Mexico. 😆
The best thing is to be your true self. A marriage is a partnership and so glad you guys are appreciating and respecting earth other. I love your videos. Best wishes.
Really amiga soy tu fan 👏🏼👏🏼 me encanta la pareja que hacen y me encanta todo lo que has logrado. Ya sabes que sigan hablando sin saber como son las cosas. Solo tú sabes que show 🤍✨ sigue así que estás creciendo cañón. Pd. Luego me llevo a Dave de shopping 😂
1:58 - This is why I love your channel Karencita. You THINK. And you share your interesting thoughts and conclusions with the rest of us. I have learned a lot from you, despite having already lived in Mexico for 12 years.
Honestly, I think reducing the idea of support inside a relationship to finances alone devalues all the other types of meaningful support and value that one's partner might add to their life. Sending lots of love to you both.
Nice couple. What really impresses me is your English. How did you learn to speak it so well? Your English vocabulary is large. Yet, you never mentioned living in the US or England. There are Mexicans living here in the US for YEARS and they never learn to speak English as you do. In one video I heard you use the word "queue" for line of people. Even many English speaking US citizens rarely use that word. Do you read many English books?
A kept women or a gold digger? Wrong on both counts. “Arm candy” would be closer to the mark. You know I’m just kidding🙂. Just became a sub. Thanks for the content 🙏
just to say that I´ve watched a few of your videos because I immediately liked your honesty and kind spirit. Never had any impression that you were taking advantage of your husband, even though I know that is a stereotype.
Hahaha! I' watching ALL of your videos - so I did click on this one. Although I didn't have that specific preconception, I'm sure there are other prejudices that I have to work on. I think your journey is not too different from many other young people. warm regards Jennie
Thank you for sharing! I have had to deal with the same (inverse) situation. I was living in Dalat Vietnam dating a VN man 13 years younger than me--very rare view. We got a lot of mean comments about him being a golddigger too and just with the older woman to get citizenship in the US. I feel you. Thanks for your videos, lady. See you in Queretaro!
My family is mix including my wife is Japanese. We never even thought about her marry me for my money of vise versa. She makes more then me. Even now. lol love does not have color or race. This is what I believe and my family believe. Money management is very important. We have our family business shops here in Japan making Japanese tea.😊🍵 4 shops total. More to come. Keep your faith and your dreams alive. Prayers from Saga, Japan. My wedding was here in Japan as well. My wife never owns a diamond ring or fashion jewelry just to be happy. She rather spend that money on family trips. Love it😊🗾
¡Se ve tan bonita con su vestido amarillo! ¡Ese color es su color!🤗 En cuanto a la gente, no le haga caso. Usted no puede controlar lo que piensa de su relación. Disculpe mis errores. El español no es mi lengua materna.🤭
From what I have seen yall are a great couple and good people. That's all that matters. If people tell you differently then they are wrong or jealous. Keep up the great videos. 👍
I married Mexican women , 25 years ago now , when I retired we moved to her hometown of Jocotepec , Jalisco in 2010 , I'm retired , she works as a house keeper , I'll tell you I feel like a kept man , as my wife inherited the house here this year with the passing of her mom .so now she's the boss , as if she wasn't already. Enjoy your take on Mexico .
Karen, no debes explicaciones al mundo. La vida que has podido ser es tuya y de tú esposo! Saludos y Dios Los Bendiga! Keep your head and spirits up!!!
Somehow in this drama , my boyfriend is English too , and we are going to Brazil next year (im brazilian) just imagining people thinking . Ohhh he found a "gringo" Nobody knows that he works at Mc Donalds HAHAHAHAHAHAH and i have a better job than him in England.
Another interesting video thank you. I've been in an interracial marriage for 30+ years. We've worked and lived in many different countries. My wife who, when we were dating, often earned more than I did, became a housewife when I started my international career and we had our children. Looking back, I'd never swap "jobs" with her as she worked much harder than I did in her role as a mum and wife. I'm now retired and am so glad I have the best partner and friend by my side. I hope you get to be as happy as we are. Do remember the saying, "the harder I work, the luckier I get" applies. Inter-racial/international marriages or partnerships are becoming more common. Looking at my own good fortune I'm not at all surprised.
I never thought that about you, I am in the same position as you guys are in a way. I flew to Thailand to meat a girl and ended up never leaving. The first few months were very hard, she supported me and I finally got a job and could help support us. but now we are very comfortable and support each other.
I have been with my girlfriend for over a year, and it worries me that when she comes from Vietnam to live with me in the United States people will assume that she is taking advantage of me, or that she is using me for a green card for all those same reasons you were listing in your video. I know these things are not the case, but I also know some will see us from the outside and assume so. It's frustrating for me, so I can't imagine how it feels from the position of the person who people assume is the user. For the record, I never assumed that of you.
I just found your channel and have only watched two vides so far so know next to nothing about you and your husband. I would never have assumed that you don't work. Yes, I clicked on the video. Not sure why you think that means people have this bias. I clicked on this video as I just found your channel and am now learning about you guys and your life in Mexico.
I love this ❤️ honesty I am so happy for y’all…. Well I hope y’all still together:) I love this real and honest video…. And break down the stereotype people have about people from not well off country with someone from well off country….
You have a very honest and genuine approach to all your posts, and I am really enjoying and learning a lot from your content about myself and my relationships.
You brought up some excellent points about young professional workers wanting to display such things as expensive handbags, etc. I had this same problem in my 30s, by wearing expensive wrist watches, ties , and shirts. It does not matter the country. Young workers make the same mistakes everywhere.
Your story is similar to my parents. English father and mother from Mexico city. I was born and raised in Canada. I very much enjoy your videos, they are heartfelt and interesting. It appears that having a successful career is still difficult in Mexico. Have you considered relocating to Canada or USA?
That's weird that I came across this channel. These days, I've been considering teaching in either Vietnam or Mexico. You and your husband have been in both places. (My name's also Dave, and I look a hell of a lot like your husband.) I'll have to watch more videos before I can decide on a country.
I'm impressed with your English as it's your second language. First of all knowing the term "kept" and i think i heard you say opulent as well. Nice work!
Great video. An old Biblical saying: "Judge not less thou be judged". Yes your story surprised me, as I have been and am presently married (though separated 4 1/2 years) with 2 different Mexican women. One left me when I needed the most even though I brought her here illegally, and the 2nd used me (lied) just to get her residence, and once she got it left me and live miles away with both (unmarried) adult sons. So be it. YOU young lady have done well, and it is GREAT to hear how you also support your husband in ALL! You are a very rare precious jewel that is next to IMPOSSIBLE to find and treasure. DO NOT aloow even comments to affect you nor your marriage, you give it strength through your loving, understanding and as a team you will be stronger in the bad/hard times. May you and your husband be blessed daily
Ay, la vida de los ricos!✌🤑💰 🎶Con dinero y sin dinero...yo hago siempre lo que quiero🎵🎶 Aloha imua to your bright future ✨ y buena suerte in everything you and your husband do.🌟💫🌟
As a Mexican independent woman living in Guadalajara, I have never felt like I need to dress to impress. Often, my manager will ask me to dress up for important eventos to which I comply to avoid conflicts in the workplace.... I wear my clothes and shoes for years so I try to Buy good quality, durable ítems. People here struggle so much trying to keep up a wealth appearance, although they live from Paycheck to Paycheck, it's Paty of our culture, I wish It would change...because It is stressful and you come across as a shallow, materialistic person...
If you'd like to see real golddiggers, visit Miami Beach and have drinks/food at an upscale bar/restaurant: 70 year old men with young women in their 20s :) You and your husband look like super couple!
Haha. Not having to work? You're a UA-camr making great videos. That's HARD WORK! It's just not as obvious to other people because all we see is the finished product.
I appreciate all that you have told us and I have to say that (I love your videos!) that this particular video wasn't necessary. Some people always have to critique others, and I believe it is because they are jealous, are not watching all of your videos, or whatever. You do not owe them an explanation. Ever. You are very forthcoming when it comes to expenses and other things, you are allowed to keep some things to yourself and this is one of them. Let the trolls think what they want; you and Dave know the truth, and that is all that matters.
This sounds like a typical British imperialist point of view. Karen, you should not even contemplate such nonsense. He is lucky to have you. If not, you would do just fine with someone else. Viva Mexico.
That's right. It's a fact. If you buy something cheap and low quality, you ended up buying more of the same. I'm not saying I stopped buying high-quality stuff. It's just that I'm more conscious now.
Loving your videos. No need to feel bad about anything - you are a great person, we admire you a lot. We also did not succeed in our first entrepreneur business, but now doing well in a different one :). We will be moving to MX next year.
Let me just say that the life of a “kept woman” is NOT what it seems like. Most “kept” women are SAHM’s (which that on its own is like multiple full-time jobs 🙃) and the majority must adhere to a very limited household budget. I guess the media puts so much focus on the life of wealthy SAH wives that suddenly all of them must live a life of riches. So what if you didn’t work and had the means to travel? It’s YOUR life and the haters should get one. Btw yellow really suits you! Greetings from California 🇺🇸
The "kept woman" (or man) term stresses me out. It does not just convey the economic aspect, it also means that one of the individuals in the couple does not even want to as much as possible for the couple or the family. In my book, the one who is looking for a job, or in some way working for the benefit of the family, even if not earning money, is not "kept". But in our "machista" societies, we still see some women who live to be "trophy wives", and men who live to have one. And the opposite must happen a lot, but will only happen in secret.
Live your life the way you want! Do not worry about what others think you should or should not do. Do not worry about their approval. Because ultimately, it is your life & your happiness that matters the most! 💐
Karencita, you are very modest is saying that Tula is a little town. I love the people and the beautiful place that the ancient city of Tula is... :) love your videos too.
My mom is USA indigenous full blood and my dad is white, she says he treated her like a queen, he really loved our culture, as long as they respect our culture.
7:40 Hey, wtf? I wear the same clothes a lot too. When I chat with people on video i have been asked why I always have the same shirt on. It's not the same shirt. I just have a lot of black shirts. I had a hat like his too. Just to let you know.
Creo serìa muy interesante hicieras videos en nahiatl, porque serìa muy motivante para toda la gente de Mèxico que conserva su etnicidad pura como tu, ademàs genera màs simpatìa que escucharte en inglès. Puedo entender perfectamente el idioma, pero mi consejo es que hiceras en nahuatl o tambièn en castellano, al fin se relaciona el idioma a todo grupo etnico en Mèxico, por la influencia de España, no asì el inglès, que sin ànimo de criticar, puede percibirse pretencioso, màximo si los tìtulos mismos son en español.
Pero tendría que aprender Nahuatl primero y eso me llevará tiempo eh. 🤷🏽 Por lo que leo, no eres de México y comprendo que hay cosas que desconoces. Pero tienes que saber que hay mucha gente en México que no está mezclada y no significa que hablen Nahuatl. Muchos solo hablan castellano y muchos hablan alguno de los 67 idiomas indígenas que existen en México. Los títulos te aparecen en español porque mi esposo y yo trabajamos en traducir el video a español. ¿Por qué? Porque es mi idioma natal y vale la pena tomar más tiempo en traducir todo para que lo vea más gente. Siempre espero que les guste mucho a todos.
@@LaKarencitaMX Creo que si los vas a hacer en inglès con subtìtulos en español, lo màs adecuado serìa que los tìtulos de los videos estuvieran tambièn en inglès, es un doble discurso, es un mensaje ambiguo y confuso para el espectador. Si ves tìtulo en español esperas ver un video hablado en español, si ves un tìtulo en inglès esperas ver un video hablado en inglès, solo como una observaciòn constructiva. Saludos.
Love has no boarders. Love does not see race. You have your own work and your married. You are not a kept woman. Kept woman is a side chick that a man sets up in an apartment.
I think that's just the way women are on video. They are more animated and interesting with their faces and voices. Or maybe that's just the way it seems to me since I'm a guy...haha. He's clearly teaching her English because she is almost flawless in her English presentation. She has to be learning it somewhere.
There is a replusive joke in the Philippines everytime a group of desperados and desperadas see a Filipina with strong Malay traits accompanying a foreigner, especially white : "Isa na naman po nating kababayan ang umahon sa kahirapan", which means "we have another fellow countryman who got lifted from poverty". This remark needs to stop and people should just keep their lowbrow opinions to themselves. They jump into conclusions without knowing the couples. Yes there are Filipinas who marry for money and status and that should be none of anyone's business. The only thing I find bad is when a Filipina tricks the foreigner and grab all their savings, leaving them impoverished. But that is rare and most Filipinas who get to marry a foreign man are those who actually finished a degree, ended up working overseas and found a mate there. People should learn to know they are hurting some and they need to correct their faulty assumptions.
@La Karencita : Not working? How ironic! You are fluent in English are a content creator, and your content is very entertaining. Somehow I think there's work involved in that. P.S. -I'm not Mexican, lol, my Spanish is mix & match - So Cal Mexican and Colombian (Paisa). I wish I would have learned earlier in life because language unlocks a lot of doors that would otherwise never be opened. You do great work Karencita.
Oh Karen you do make me laugh out loud . David was a minimalist before it was popular! As his mom I’ve had the odd comment about how lucky you are to be living this lifestyle . All I can say is I saw first hand how you two fitted together when I first stayed with you. Both working stupid hours it was like a military operation each day and time spent together was little and precious. But it was , as you say, team work and like two sides of the same coin coming together. Fair to say my son has found his perfect match.
What an awesome comment. Kudos to you.
It's so nice to read this coming from you. I feel very lucky for having such a good husband and amazing mother-in-law.
I always spend a good time when I'm with you. Thank you.
@@LaKarencitaMX lucky you, persons like her come few and far between
Jill, it warms my heart to see such a comment from a MIL! My exMIL was the spawn of Satan!
Her attitude towards me really caught me off guard, because my past boyfriends had mom's who really liked me, and were so good to me. I guess I should've stuck with one of them! Lol!
@@LaKarencitaMX Hi my name is Peter, I just discovered Your channel. Is Your husband from Europe, I was born in Poland and live in USA for a long time.
Never let people outside your marriage, friends, family, acquaintances, colleagues, and so on, ever....ever...ever impact or infect your relationship with your spouse. Whatever you and your spouse decide a relationship or marriage will be is of concern only between you two.
My wife is from Mexico and I am from the US and we have had numerous people try to set expectations of our marriage, make assumptions of us, and other negative perspectives. Ignore those people and focus on what you two want your relationship to be.
Thank you Sean. I agree.
Expectations will always be there but focusing on our marriage is the only thing that should matter.
Actually that never crossed my mind. I just enjoyed the information that you share while traveling.
Thank you that's really nice of you! I'll continue making those videos
@@LaKarencitaMX some people are just ignorant. You are such a blessing to many others so continue to be who you are and allow those haters to hate and allow the rest of us tell you how great you are ❤️
Ay Karencita, que sabía eres! Un matrimonio siempre debe valer el uno para el otro, no? Y no importa de dónde vienes los novios. Me imagino que sí has crecido mucho y te felicito por tu sabiduría. Sigue con tus videos porque eres un aire fresco!! Saludos de Cuernavaca, Morelos!!
@@Cuernavacachica02 hola Josefina. Qué linda, eres muy amable
Have to agree! I just clicked out of curiosity. I never thought anything of it. You are Mexican; your husband is British. Ok, great! BTW, I love your videos. Keep up the good work!
Most women in America prefer to marry up. A business woman, professional, educated, seek to marry someone who is in the same or higher position, economic position, than themselves. Rarely do you hear of a sucessful woman marrying beneath her position, regardless of race of the woman. People should realize there are Mexican women who are professionals: Businesswomen, Doctors, Lawyers Engineers, Scientists, etc. Strange these people would exclude Mexican women. A lack of education, understanding would explain such backward ideas and concepts. Nevertheless you have the right to marry whoever you like, just like any other woman.Remember: you are marrying for your happiness and the happiness of your partner not the happiness of others.
Never crossed my mind, either. But I really like how you take the bull by the horns and throw ideas and thoughts out in your videos. You have no fear and that is really cool!
I actually clicked on it just to see what you had to say. But, I'm also new to your channel so I had no idea you were married until I saw this video, I just found you from your "Why do some Mexicans look Asian?" video and after hearing your intro on this video, I was a bit perturbed and wanted to write this comment, but then as I listened to more of your story, it started to _hit close to home_ and actually reminded me a lot of my own past with my now ex-wife. By the end of your video, it helped me learn a lot about maybe how she thought regarding keeping up a social image as she was an immigrant who came to the US as a student and after we got married, she gained permanent resident status and was able to stay in the US.
She would always explain how she didn't want to live in Japan, and so it made me feel like she only wanted to get married for a green card. And, on occasion, she would mention being upset when someone assumed that fact about her but it was rare. Now, in hindsight and after watching your video, maybe she dealt with it a lot more then she wanted to admit or that I realized and perhaps kept quiet out of fear for reminding me of this idea.
But in any case, your video also helped me discover and recognize the differences between our (my former wife and I's) relationship formed so much differently than you and your husband's did, even though I feel like we endured a lot of the same hardships and struggles (especially financially speaking and needing to support one another) it would seem more simply as if yours grew out of love while maybe ours didn't. I won't get into all that now but just wanted to thank you for sharing your story. It was moving for me, so I just wanted to let you know I appreciate you for not only going through the trouble of making this video, but also for your willingness and courageousness in being open about your past life and sharing it with us on UA-cam. So, thank you.
Wishing you all the best,
A new subscriber
A lot of people move to Mexico so they can live within their means
If you ask me, he's the one that married up!
I couldn't agree more.
@@statingtheobviousify
Thanks!
I'm glad you took that the right way
As an indigenous Mexican woman engaged to a white French guy, I can relate to your story. People assume he is the bread winner
I imagine! You must have some interesting stories
What is an indigenous Mexican woman? I would think that the indigenous people are the natives
@@derekcasanares4785 I'm not sure what you are asking? Come again?
@@derekcasanares4785 yes, the indigenous people would have some connection to the land prior to colonialism, not sure what you are confused about
I understand the meaning from context but terms like native or indigenous are more ambiguous than many "indigenous" people think. Sort of like the "new guy" who has only been around for 20 years.
Hey guys! This video is a little bit different today but maybe some of you can relate or have some interesting stories. Thanks for watching the video and the channel!
Hola a todos! Hoy hice un video un poco diferente pero espero que lo disfruten y tal vez se puedan identificar un poco!
I have always enjoyed your authenticity, now even more! I will be visiting Mexico sometime this year, of course depending on the covet situation. Your videos are fun and informative and our big reason that I'm headed your way.
As I am sure you know, during the past year many of us have been living vicariously. Your videos have been an important part of my Covid survival plan. May God bless you and those you love and please keep up the good work. Abrasos y besos amiga! 🌞
Sometimes people do not understand that young foreigners are not rich, why? Because they don't see school is very expensive in the UK, USA, Canada, Australia, etc (all develop countries) that means that they either work and study, or have to get a loan, or their parents help them and they have to pay back but usually they take a loan.
All young marriages will start from 0, at least in the common world. We all start from nothing and have nothing (or very very little).
Beside women we will have disadvantages in Mexico, because they don't value us the same way as they do with men. We get pregnant, and that's very hard to cope with work. Other counties provide maternity and paternity leave. From your comment that he got another job offer in China and you had to quite your job in Mexico that's what is going to be hard for you each time as a woman. We women don't have that luxury as he does.
3:50 please explain what is a Godin.
Another huge diffence is that in develop countries you can study another career no matter how old you are but in Mexico the race is going and a none stop.
4:36 Is this small town Mixquiahuala Hidalgo? As in your other video? I almost cried when I saw the words of that town, amazing childhood memories. 😭
6:50 those moments at the moments where a marriage faces hard times and how they overcome them. I'm sure that for him was either and eye opening to know he shared a responsibility in the relationship and not only being asked to do it all by himself.
7:45 I know you said he didn't have so much clothes but usually I have seen that some foreign guys who study hard and know the value of money they don't buy brand name clothing or focus on appearances. He seems a guy who would rather spend his money on traveling and learning about other cultures, study, than on material stuff. And I see why he chose you, becuase you are a woman that works hard and don't easily get down.
8:27 someone else hearing this might comment bad about him but I don't see the point of a ring. A ring to me means nothing and to be sincere I will be scared in Mexico wearing something valuable. My husband doesn't feel comfortable wearing things like necklace, bracelets or rings so I don't mind. At the end my 20 years of marriage back us up regardless of what people think or see.
I've enjoyed your blogs since Vietnam, keep up the good work!
As you said, working as a team is the essence of a good relationship. Great video; very honest and introspective.
Where can I contribute to the Dave Clothing Fund?
You would need to send the clothes directly to our house because he's super lazy and doesn't like going to shops. :S
hey bro thats only going to be more work, all those clothes are not going to fit in the washer, as opposed to taking a shower without taking your clothes off, if it was me I'l pick option number two, just saying
Anyone making negative comments are ppl who are un happy or have nothing better to say. Lonely bitter angry with themselves. God bless you both. Best of luck in everything you do.
Yours is an amazing story of perseverance. I really enjoyed this video, very personal.
I love hearing your thoughts and you have learned a lot and gained much wisdom in your short life! Keep doing what you are enjoying and are good at! I went to Mexico for the first time this summer (Puerto Vallarta) for two weeks and lived and worked in China for 5 years as a teacher at an international school in Guangzhou and traveled throughout Vietnam while living there. Opportunities open up where you least expect them. My daughter lives in Taiwan and is living with a man from the UK. You remind me a lot of her! Cheers
It's sad you have to explain this to people. You have every right to be different and in love. True, finances will make or break a relationship but from what you have described, you both made adjustments. Thanks for sharing and continue being wonderful to each other regardless of what other's think. Besides, you have your mother-in-law's blessing, that alone says a lot!
Thanks for sharing your very personal stories. You are real, authentic, honest, and intelligent and have found your niche. Congratulations! You will always succeed if you follow your hearts and not your egos.
Minimalist before it was cool. My idol
I just saw two people in love: its fate ❤️Seeing that both parties have goals. You guys are the couple’s relationship i desire to have. Just to have each other back, does it for me 🤞🏼 just to observe ur situation i realize that real love exist xoxoxo ❣️
Thank you for another great video. Wishing you and Dave all the best. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm loving all your videos and honesty. Thanks for being so open with everyone. I'd love to be a family friend and teach you the Bible. It has every answer for every person in every situation. Tell Dave, Great suit at the wedding!
I loved the thumbnail for this video haha! As a Brit living with my Mexican gf I know its actually the other way round 😉 I'm a kept man
You are amazing 👏❤💖💕💗. I love seeing your videos and am glad to see a happy marriage. I miss my Mexico sometimes. I recently learned I'm Portuguese and raised in Mexico. Regardless of my DNA, my heart ❤belongs to Mexico. (MICHOACAN) . My kids are all 🇺🇸US born citizens and sometimes I wish I could just pick up and retire in Mexico. 😆
The best thing is to be your true self. A marriage is a partnership and so glad you guys are appreciating and respecting earth other. I love your videos. Best wishes.
Really amiga soy tu fan 👏🏼👏🏼 me encanta la pareja que hacen y me encanta todo lo que has logrado. Ya sabes que sigan hablando sin saber como son las cosas. Solo tú sabes que show 🤍✨ sigue así que estás creciendo cañón. Pd. Luego me llevo a Dave de shopping 😂
1:58 - This is why I love your channel Karencita. You THINK. And you share your interesting thoughts and conclusions with the rest of us. I have learned a lot from you, despite having already lived in Mexico for 12 years.
Honestly, I think reducing the idea of support inside a relationship to finances alone devalues all the other types of meaningful support and value that one's partner might add to their life. Sending lots of love to you both.
Nice couple. What really impresses me is your English. How did you learn to speak it so well? Your English vocabulary is large. Yet, you never mentioned living in the US or England. There are Mexicans living here in the US for YEARS and they never learn to speak English as you do. In one video I heard you use the word "queue" for line of people. Even many English speaking US citizens rarely use that word. Do you read many English books?
A kept women or a gold digger? Wrong on both counts. “Arm candy” would be closer to the mark. You know I’m just kidding🙂. Just became a sub. Thanks for the content 🙏
Well actually we were doubting a lot (my husband and I) on what title we should put
No No karen, anyone thinking this way are just jealous
just to say that I´ve watched a few of your videos because I immediately liked your honesty and kind spirit. Never had any impression that you were taking advantage of your husband, even though I know that is a stereotype.
Hahaha! I' watching ALL of your videos - so I did click on this one. Although I didn't have that specific preconception, I'm sure there are other prejudices that I have to work on.
I think your journey is not too different from many other young people.
warm regards
Jennie
♥️🤗 love you're openess and able to share such matters...#keeping-it-real! ..
I'm binge watching La Karencita channel this afternoon, lol
Recién veo tu canal, me encantó su historia de vida!! Que sean muy felices juntos, besos desde Uruguay!
Thank you for sharing! I have had to deal with the same (inverse) situation. I was living in Dalat Vietnam dating a VN man 13 years younger than me--very rare view. We got a lot of mean comments about him being a golddigger too and just with the older woman to get citizenship in the US. I feel you. Thanks for your videos, lady. See you in Queretaro!
If they could only see the love and zest of being a happy human being they would be better people, too. Happy you live on your terms!
My family is mix including my wife is Japanese. We never even thought about her marry me for my money of vise versa. She makes more then me. Even now. lol love does not have color or race. This is what I believe and my family believe. Money management is very important. We have our family business shops here in Japan making Japanese tea.😊🍵 4 shops total. More to come. Keep your faith and your dreams alive. Prayers from Saga, Japan. My wedding was here in Japan as well. My wife never owns a diamond ring or fashion jewelry just to be happy. She rather spend that money on family trips. Love it😊🗾
This is so cool.
I agree with this: Experiences are way better than a diamond ring.
No one has a “perfect”‘relationship. Period.
¡Se ve tan bonita con su vestido amarillo! ¡Ese color es su color!🤗 En cuanto a la gente, no le haga caso. Usted no puede controlar lo que piensa de su relación. Disculpe mis errores. El español no es mi lengua materna.🤭
From what I have seen yall are a great couple and good people. That's all that matters. If people tell you differently then they are wrong or jealous. Keep up the great videos. 👍
Wow I love you and your channel 🙌🏾
You're so nice. Thanks for enjoying the channel
You make a lot of good points, hope your Chanel grows more 👍
I married Mexican women , 25 years ago now , when I retired we moved to her hometown of Jocotepec , Jalisco in 2010 , I'm retired , she works as a house keeper , I'll tell you I feel like a kept man , as my wife inherited the house here this year with the passing of her mom .so now she's the boss , as if she wasn't already. Enjoy your take on Mexico .
Karen, no debes explicaciones al mundo. La vida que has podido ser es tuya y de tú esposo! Saludos y Dios Los Bendiga! Keep your head and spirits up!!!
Somehow in this drama , my boyfriend is English too , and we are going to Brazil next year (im brazilian) just imagining people thinking . Ohhh he found a "gringo" Nobody knows that he works at Mc Donalds HAHAHAHAHAHAH and i have a better job than him in England.
Haha. This is so fun.
Another interesting video thank you. I've been in an interracial marriage for 30+ years. We've worked and lived in many different countries. My wife who, when we were dating, often earned more than I did, became a housewife when I started my international career and we had our children. Looking back, I'd never swap "jobs" with her as she worked much harder than I did in her role as a mum and wife. I'm now retired and am so glad I have the best partner and friend by my side. I hope you get to be as happy as we are. Do remember the saying, "the harder I work, the luckier I get" applies. Inter-racial/international marriages or partnerships are becoming more common. Looking at my own good fortune I'm not at all surprised.
Actually, I thought he was a kept man! :) (I see how hard you work on this channel.)
Thank you Steven! I can tell you enjoy the channel and I'm really glad
No Llores me harás llorar 😢😭 gracias por compartir.
I never thought that about you, I am in the same position as you guys are in a way. I flew to Thailand to meat a girl and ended up never leaving. The first few months were very hard, she supported me and I finally got a job and could help support us. but now we are very comfortable and support each other.
You look like a genuinely loving couple and so does not matter who works more etc
I enjoy watching your videos I’m 69 years old you have so much to say about the people please keep doing what you’re doing 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
You don't owe anyone any answers about your relationship. Live your life. Be happy.
I have been with my girlfriend for over a year, and it worries me that when she comes from Vietnam to live with me in the United States people will assume that she is taking advantage of me, or that she is using me for a green card for all those same reasons you were listing in your video. I know these things are not the case, but I also know some will see us from the outside and assume so. It's frustrating for me, so I can't imagine how it feels from the position of the person who people assume is the user. For the record, I never assumed that of you.
@Belltown Daisy Right!
Get Vietnamese citizenship too
@@lauras627 I've considered that. Haven't looked into the process yet.
Most important is to guard your hearts.
I just found your channel and have only watched two vides so far so know next to nothing about you and your husband. I would never have assumed that you don't work. Yes, I clicked on the video. Not sure why you think that means people have this bias. I clicked on this video as I just found your channel and am now learning about you guys and your life in Mexico.
you two are a great team.
I love this ❤️ honesty I am so happy for y’all…. Well I hope y’all still together:) I love this real and honest video…. And break down the stereotype people have about people from not well off country with someone from well off country….
Easter greetings from San Diego, Ca to you both, always remember "you are a TEAM!" Cuidate!
You have a very honest and genuine approach to all your posts, and I am really enjoying and learning a lot from your content about myself and my relationships.
You brought up some excellent points about young professional workers wanting to display such things as expensive handbags, etc. I had this same problem in my 30s, by wearing expensive wrist watches, ties , and shirts. It does not matter the country. Young workers make the same mistakes everywhere.
Your story is similar to my parents. English father and mother from Mexico city. I was born and raised in Canada. I very much enjoy your videos, they are heartfelt and interesting. It appears that having a successful career is still difficult in Mexico. Have you considered relocating to Canada or USA?
You guys look great in those photos! You both make a very handsome couple! 👍
That's weird that I came across this channel. These days, I've been considering teaching in either Vietnam or Mexico. You and your husband have been in both places. (My name's also Dave, and I look a hell of a lot like your husband.) I'll have to watch more videos before I can decide on a country.
Now I'm curious about what you look like. 😂
Surely you already know this but if you are looking to earn good money, go to Vietnam.
China is also a good option.
Hola! Veo todos tus videos
Podrás decir en que escuela estudiaste para dar clases de Español? Te agradezco gracias!
Yes, Gold Digger 👍👏👏🥂
I'm impressed with your English as it's your second language. First of all knowing the term "kept" and i think i heard you say opulent as well. Nice work!
Great video. An old Biblical saying: "Judge not less thou be judged". Yes your story surprised me, as I have been and am presently married (though separated 4 1/2 years) with 2 different Mexican women. One left me when I needed the most even though I brought her here illegally, and the 2nd used me (lied) just to get her residence, and once she got it left me and live miles away with both (unmarried) adult sons. So be it. YOU young lady have done well, and it is GREAT to hear how you also support your husband in ALL! You are a very rare precious jewel that is next to IMPOSSIBLE to find and treasure. DO NOT aloow even comments to affect you nor your marriage, you give it strength through your loving, understanding and as a team you will be stronger in the bad/hard times. May you and your husband be blessed daily
Ay, la vida de los ricos!✌🤑💰
🎶Con dinero y sin dinero...yo hago siempre lo que quiero🎵🎶
Aloha imua to your bright future ✨ y buena suerte in everything you and your husband do.🌟💫🌟
As a Mexican independent woman living in Guadalajara, I have never felt like I need to dress to impress. Often, my manager will ask me to dress up for important eventos to which I comply to avoid conflicts in the workplace.... I wear my clothes and shoes for years so I try to Buy good quality, durable ítems. People here struggle so much trying to keep up a wealth appearance, although they live from Paycheck to Paycheck, it's Paty of our culture, I wish It would change...because It is stressful and you come across as a shallow, materialistic person...
Great testimony, I enjoyed it!
I'm glad you enjoyed it!
If you'd like to see real golddiggers, visit Miami Beach and have drinks/food at an upscale bar/restaurant: 70 year old men with young women in their 20s :)
You and your husband look like super couple!
Haha. Not having to work? You're a UA-camr making great videos. That's HARD WORK! It's just not as obvious to other people because all we see is the finished product.
I appreciate all that you have told us and I have to say that (I love your videos!) that this particular video wasn't necessary. Some people always have to critique others, and I believe it is because they are jealous, are not watching all of your videos, or whatever. You do not owe them an explanation. Ever. You are very forthcoming when it comes to expenses and other things, you are allowed to keep some things to yourself and this is one of them. Let the trolls think what they want; you and Dave know the truth, and that is all that matters.
This sounds like a typical British imperialist point of view. Karen, you should not even contemplate such nonsense. He is lucky to have you. If not, you would do just fine with someone else. Viva Mexico.
bro! you missed the point. he is not the one saying all those things
@@fazequeso1247 you sure about that? You can see his influence on her if you look. It's a typical scenario...
I prefer to have fewer things; however, what I have is top notch quality, best in class or at least best value for performance/quality.
That's right. It's a fact.
If you buy something cheap and low quality, you ended up buying more of the same.
I'm not saying I stopped buying high-quality stuff. It's just that I'm more conscious now.
Loving your videos. No need to feel bad about anything - you are a great person, we admire you a lot. We also did not succeed in our first entrepreneur business, but now doing well in a different one :). We will be moving to MX next year.
My wife is Mexican and I'm South African 🙂
Absolutely nobody’s business. Do what works for you guys.
Let me just say that the life of a “kept woman” is NOT what it seems like. Most “kept” women are SAHM’s (which that on its own is like multiple full-time jobs 🙃) and the majority must adhere to a very limited household budget. I guess the media puts so much focus on the life of wealthy SAH wives that suddenly all of them must live a life of riches. So what if you didn’t work and had the means to travel? It’s YOUR life and the haters should get one.
Btw yellow really suits you! Greetings from California 🇺🇸
The "kept woman" (or man) term stresses me out. It does not just convey the economic aspect, it also means that one of the individuals in the couple does not even want to as much as possible for the couple or the family. In my book, the one who is looking for a job, or in some way working for the benefit of the family, even if not earning money, is not "kept". But in our "machista" societies, we still see some women who live to be "trophy wives", and men who live to have one. And the opposite must happen a lot, but will only happen in secret.
Live your life exactly how you want and pay no attention to social media...
Partners, a team, supporting eachother...i think it is beautiful what you two have found..very lucky indeed! Best wishes to you both:)
Live your life the way you want! Do not worry about what others think you should or should not do. Do not worry about their approval. Because ultimately, it is your life & your happiness that matters the most! 💐
He speaks the "QUEEN'S" English ... and you speak "AMERICAN" English! I like that. :)
Karencita, you are very modest is saying that Tula is a little town. I love the people and the beautiful place that the ancient city of Tula is... :) love your videos too.
My mom is USA indigenous full blood and my dad is white, she says he treated her like a queen, he really loved our culture, as long as they respect our culture.
Marriage is a partnership. Looks like you and Dave have done good together.
7:40 Hey, wtf? I wear the same clothes a lot too. When I chat with people on video i have been asked why I always have the same shirt on. It's not the same shirt. I just have a lot of black shirts. I had a hat like his too. Just to let you know.
Creo serìa muy interesante hicieras videos en nahiatl, porque serìa muy motivante para toda la gente de Mèxico que conserva su etnicidad pura como tu, ademàs genera màs simpatìa que escucharte en inglès. Puedo entender perfectamente el idioma, pero mi consejo es que hiceras en nahuatl o tambièn en castellano, al fin se relaciona el idioma a todo grupo etnico en Mèxico, por la influencia de España, no asì el inglès, que sin ànimo de criticar, puede percibirse pretencioso, màximo si los tìtulos mismos son en español.
Pero tendría que aprender Nahuatl primero y eso me llevará tiempo eh. 🤷🏽
Por lo que leo, no eres de México y comprendo que hay cosas que desconoces. Pero tienes que saber que hay mucha gente en México que no está mezclada y no significa que hablen Nahuatl.
Muchos solo hablan castellano y muchos hablan alguno de los 67 idiomas indígenas que existen en México.
Los títulos te aparecen en español porque mi esposo y yo trabajamos en traducir el video a español. ¿Por qué? Porque es mi idioma natal y vale la pena tomar más tiempo en traducir todo para que lo vea más gente. Siempre espero que les guste mucho a todos.
@@LaKarencitaMX Creo que si los vas a hacer en inglès con subtìtulos en español, lo màs adecuado serìa que los tìtulos de los videos estuvieran tambièn en inglès, es un doble discurso, es un mensaje ambiguo y confuso para el espectador. Si ves tìtulo en español esperas ver un video hablado en español, si ves un tìtulo en inglès esperas ver un video hablado en inglès, solo como una observaciòn constructiva. Saludos.
Love has no boarders.
Love does not see race.
You have your own work and your married.
You are not a kept woman. Kept woman is a side chick that a man sets up in an apartment.
It's impressive that you're trying to be honest, Karen. Your videos are very warm.
Even though we didn't have much they were really happy days. Looks like you have a great future together.
I must have missed this video before.
I thought you and your husband were in love. Good Luck.
So, since you are already married.. Do you have a sister? Is she single? Is she beautiful like you?
I thought you were the bread winner, not him he looks like he's not all there.
He actually works a lot in his own job and also with the channel. I wouldn't be able to keep the channel going without him.
I think that's just the way women are on video. They are more animated and interesting with their faces and voices. Or maybe that's just the way it seems to me since I'm a guy...haha. He's clearly teaching her English because she is almost flawless in her English presentation. She has to be learning it somewhere.
There is a replusive joke in the Philippines everytime a group of desperados and desperadas see a Filipina with strong Malay traits accompanying a foreigner, especially white : "Isa na naman po nating kababayan ang umahon sa kahirapan", which means "we have another fellow countryman who got lifted from poverty". This remark needs to stop and people should just keep their lowbrow opinions to themselves. They jump into conclusions without knowing the couples. Yes there are Filipinas who marry for money and status and that should be none of anyone's business. The only thing I find bad is when a Filipina tricks the foreigner and grab all their savings, leaving them impoverished. But that is rare and most Filipinas who get to marry a foreign man are those who actually finished a degree, ended up working overseas and found a mate there. People should learn to know they are hurting some and they need to correct their faulty assumptions.
Such a beauty! Sounds like real life, to me! I love your stories ♥️ You are genuine and lovely ~
All I know is this, you're lovely and your husband is a very lucky man! ⚘💋🤗
I only thought you two were really cute. It's sad people are so ignorant. Keep up the great work!
@La Karencita : Not working? How ironic! You are fluent in English are a content creator, and your content is very entertaining. Somehow I think there's work involved in that. P.S. -I'm not Mexican, lol, my Spanish is mix & match - So Cal Mexican and Colombian (Paisa). I wish I would have learned earlier in life because language unlocks a lot of doors that would otherwise never be opened. You do great work Karencita.