Asa. That is a beautiful explanation. Thank God these clarifications are being communicated more and more. Sabr does not mean tolerate injustice, another misinterpretation unfortunately. Masha Allah love and respect to you dear lady from England. ❤️
When u stand up for ur rights u r not supported . Without financial support physical emotional mental support moral support who can fight it out alone.
The meaning of patience is to hold Nafs from anything, from which the wisdom and Shari’ah require one to stop.and patience means when one has accepted that whatever is happening to him is the will of Allah paak and i have to go through this phase with sabr having faith that it will pass by and show no sign of distress is actual sabr.. and about abused woman every woman has right if she can not tolerat verbal abusive husband or abusive husband who beats her has right to have khula and those who have no option will gain their reward if they chose to make sabr.....hazrat asia radi Allaahu anhu was wife of firhaun she also was tortured and she made sabr and she had been given basharat that she will be in jannah... But its upto the person who can make sabr or who cant.... Sabr does not mean that someone is swearing at u and u swearing back but u do not swear and accept whatever is happening is will of Allah and he will take me out of this situation and that person accepts that situation...
@@farihashams3565 BarakAllahu feek stay blessed may Allah paak remove all hurdles from ur way u live a beautiful life with imaan and gain barakah in dunya and akhirat Allahumma aameen
My husband has left me, he denies it but i know he is having an affair. we have 3 children together. Im not financially independent to take a divorce and take care of my children on my own as of now. We are basically separated. He still comes to see the kids every day and helps me around the house. But he does not want to have any other relationship with me. Obviously it hurts to face rejection and betrayal. And deep down i have hope that one day Allah will soften his heart towards me m his kids. so I am focusing on myself and trying to become independent and close to Allah. There is no verbal or physical abuse. Obviously emotional abuse is there. But i can deal with that. i want to know is this sabr? I have accepted this as my fate, i pray to Allah that i dont have the courage to ask for divorce and i have no means of taking care of my children on my own, Allah please take me out of this situation. Then I wonder Allah will say that I wont take you out of your situation unless you yourself do something about it. As of now I am busy with children, we live a comfortable life. would it be wise to get a divorce and put my childrens life under stress. If someone can guide me. ill be greatful.
My husband has left me, he denies it but i know he is having an affair. we have 3 children together. Im not financially independent to take a divorce and take care of my children on my own as of now. We are basically separated. He still comes to see the kids every day and helps me around the house. But he does not want to have any other relationship with me. Obviously it hurts to face rejection and betrayal. And deep down i have hope that one day Allah will soften his heart towards me m his kids. so I am focusing on myself and trying to become independent and close to Allah. There is no verbal or physical abuse. Obviously emotional abuse is there. But i can deal with that. i want to know is this sabr? I have accepted this as my fate, i pray to Allah that i dont have the courage to ask for divorce and i have no means of taking care of my children on my own, Allah please take me out of this situation. Then I wonder Allah will say that I wont take you out of your situation unless you yourself do something about it. As of now I am busy with children, we live a comfortable life. would it be wise to get a divorce and put my childrens life under stress. He himself has refused to divorce for his own benefits. If someone can guide me. ill be greatful.
I'm no one special to answer you on your problem....but aap tuition kare ... school me teacher bann jaaye .... but kaise bhi pehle financially independent ho jaaye....apke bacche masoom h but Aisa mat samje k unko kuch pata nhi chalta ek bacche ko apne maa baap k rishta dikhta h aur agar vo terrific ho toh aage chal haunt karti h ...mere mom dad k relationship ekdam acche nhi thee aur unhone divorce nhi liya but usse humme acchi education mile Zahir h kyuki my mom isn't much educated like not even completed school...she was married at 13 but there relationship terrify me .... I have phobia to trust in a happy marriage or atleast any marriage ... anyways I will do pray for you.....
Mai jab se pregnant hui hun meri mother in law mujhe dhakka deti hai marti hai mentally torture krti hain meri gair mojoudgi mai mere jahaiz k saman ko andr se bahr nikal k apna saman rakh deti hai or jab un se poocho toy dhakka dene lagti hain. Kya ye sub thik hai ????? What should i do ???💔😢
I am so much inspired by your sayings through Islamic Point of view.
May Allah reward you.
Jazakallahu khairan Sr Eram
Wow she nailed it 🥰
I am so much in love with everything thing u explain , May Allah increase you in rank 🌟❤️
Aameen summa Aameen and Jazakillah khairan kaseera
Superb. Absolutely beautiful advice. Masha Allah. May Allah guide us all💕💕💕💕💕💕
Sabr is about not trying to control circumstances beyond your control. Otherwise, if you have the power to take a stand for yourself you must!
Asa. That is a beautiful explanation. Thank God these clarifications are being communicated more and more. Sabr does not mean tolerate injustice, another misinterpretation unfortunately. Masha Allah love and respect to you dear lady from England. ❤️
Well said and explained 👍
What's up pay kisi nay apka status lagya tha self love ka shaid topic tha ion say pocha inka koi youtube chaneel ha ionhon nay apka naam bataya
When u stand up for ur rights u r not supported . Without financial support physical emotional mental support moral support who can fight it out alone.
Rights yani women rights?
Kaash sb ye samjh jaae, qk aj kl har dusri aurat in sbse guzar rhi h... or hum b unme se ek hai..😞
Ajkal we lack tolerance and our society is messed up
khaas ke hum samaj gay😢
Define Zalim ... who does zulm ... and zulm is doing things NOT in a way Allah would like u 2 ...
Anyways i like ur zulm 😉
The meaning of patience is to hold Nafs from anything, from which the wisdom and Shari’ah require one to stop.and patience means when one has accepted that whatever is happening to him is the will of Allah paak and i have to go through this phase with sabr having faith that it will pass by and show no sign of distress is actual sabr.. and about abused woman every woman has right if she can not tolerat verbal abusive husband or abusive husband who beats her has right to have khula and those who have no option will gain their reward if they chose to make sabr.....hazrat asia radi Allaahu anhu was wife of firhaun she also was tortured and she made sabr and she had been given basharat that she will be in jannah... But its upto the person who can make sabr or who cant.... Sabr does not mean that someone is swearing at u and u swearing back but u do not swear and accept whatever is happening is will of Allah and he will take me out of this situation and that person accepts that situation...
I got answers from you. JazakAllah.
@@farihashams3565 BarakAllahu feek stay blessed may Allah paak remove all hurdles from ur way u live a beautiful life with imaan and gain barakah in dunya and akhirat Allahumma aameen
My husband has left me, he denies it but i know he is having an affair. we have 3 children together. Im not financially independent to take a divorce and take care of my children on my own as of now. We are basically separated. He still comes to see the kids every day and helps me around the house. But he does not want to have any other relationship with me. Obviously it hurts to face rejection and betrayal. And deep down i have hope that one day Allah will soften his heart towards me m his kids. so I am focusing on myself and trying to become independent and close to Allah. There is no verbal or physical abuse. Obviously emotional abuse is there. But i can deal with that. i want to know is this sabr? I have accepted this as my fate, i pray to Allah that i dont have the courage to ask for divorce and i have no means of taking care of my children on my own, Allah please take me out of this situation. Then I wonder Allah will say that I wont take you out of your situation unless you yourself do something about it. As of now I am busy with children, we live a comfortable life. would it be wise to get a divorce and put my childrens life under stress. If someone can guide me. ill be greatful.
My husband has left me, he denies it but i know he is having an affair. we have 3 children together. Im not financially independent to take a divorce and take care of my children on my own as of now. We are basically separated. He still comes to see the kids every day and helps me around the house. But he does not want to have any other relationship with me. Obviously it hurts to face rejection and betrayal. And deep down i have hope that one day Allah will soften his heart towards me m his kids. so I am focusing on myself and trying to become independent and close to Allah. There is no verbal or physical abuse. Obviously emotional abuse is there. But i can deal with that. i want to know is this sabr? I have accepted this as my fate, i pray to Allah that i dont have the courage to ask for divorce and i have no means of taking care of my children on my own, Allah please take me out of this situation. Then I wonder Allah will say that I wont take you out of your situation unless you yourself do something about it. As of now I am busy with children, we live a comfortable life. would it be wise to get a divorce and put my childrens life under stress. He himself has refused to divorce for his own benefits. If someone can guide me. ill be greatful.
I'm no one special to answer you on your problem....but aap tuition kare ... school me teacher bann jaaye .... but kaise bhi pehle financially independent ho jaaye....apke bacche masoom h but Aisa mat samje k unko kuch pata nhi chalta ek bacche ko apne maa baap k rishta dikhta h aur agar vo terrific ho toh aage chal haunt karti h ...mere mom dad k relationship ekdam acche nhi thee aur unhone divorce nhi liya but usse humme acchi education mile Zahir h kyuki my mom isn't much educated like not even completed school...she was married at 13 but there relationship terrify me .... I have phobia to trust in a happy marriage or atleast any marriage ... anyways I will do pray for you.....
LoVe Pakistan & language,
(I do not understand) more English would spread the Wisdoms 😇⛲️🙏
Mai jab se pregnant hui hun meri mother in law mujhe dhakka deti hai marti hai mentally torture krti hain meri gair mojoudgi mai mere jahaiz k saman ko andr se bahr nikal k apna saman rakh deti hai or jab un se poocho toy dhakka dene lagti hain.
Kya ye sub thik hai ????? What should i do ???💔😢
Apne husband se baat Karen, apni father se yan koi imaam.
Kind of zulm bhi bataye. Aap kehti hain k chor k chale jao bardasht na karo. Jane k baad bacho ka Kia karain ye bhi bataye.
Get financially stable nd be so able that u can give ur children a way better life that no one would have ever imagined