@@DeadVoxelwhen I was 14, I would've absolutely took this kind of opportunity. But now that I'm older, I still think that way. So you're telling me who I can like or find attractive? What entitles you to that.
discord bans you if someone edits one of their own messages to make it look like you said you were under 13 too. (well, that was a problem at one point, I don't know if they fixed that)
That's how I actually lost my old account. It got automatically banned because I lazily input that I was born in like 2018 or something when it asked for age verification.
one of my friends got their main AND their alt permanently banned because SOMEONE ELSE made the joke that they were 8. absolutely ridiculous, considering they literally HAVE legal documents that state theyre 19
@@wrightcemberthis is what I'm scared of, i don't want my main acc to be banned. I got discord when I was 10 in 2019, before they were strict we actually revealed our real ages in this smaller more trusted server where everyone was friends. Bad idea but I was 10 so I was stupid. The server is deleted now, hopefully my acc doesn't magically poof out of existence one day
Anyone who’s been on discord long enough knows this video BARELY scratches the surface of the problem. It’s so much worse than this in so many servers that don’t appear top of the browser.
Frfr. It's especially concerning when a seemingly normal server have channels for 18+. The number of times I caught minors pretending to be adults to access those channels and then you have the dc mods who "thoroughly checked and questioned" them. I was so disgusted that I'm no longer in any servers other than my close friends'. Talk about a pedo ring
yeah i have a private google doc with a friend where we went all the down the discord iceberg and documented our experiences, from literal CP and grape videos to beheadings and necrophelia being livestreamed.... discord is the worst app to ever exist.
@@peachesbunny okay tbf in this instance it's the minors fault for sure, joining an 18+ service when you aren't is intentionally and knowingly deceptive
@@The.Truth.1337 it never can really be the minor’s fault, though. Making these things accessible to minors in the first place is wrong. A kid making a dumb choice that an adult made available to them isn’t nearly as much to blame as the adult is.
"discord has a minor fetish" "whats the minor fetish?" "No its a major fetish" "ok so what is the major fetish?" "no the major fetish is the minor fetish"---Class of 09 Edit: Jesus the replies are a warzone of people laughing and being clueless
To be fair, this has been a thing since Discord was created in 2015. Besides literal dating servers, I remember joining "Anime" servers that had plenty of 10-15 year olds "roleplaying" about NSFW stuff. Nothing was ever done about it.
@@Greatestswordsman69 the blue guy himself later on claimed he was a minor when the rage started spilling in the server they were at, I know because I went in there before it went down and I took a vid of it incase u wanna see
Yeah when I used to have discord when was 10 and I dodged so many bullets when I think about it now. There was this weird drunk person dming me and venting and trauma dumping me and I was so weirded out
theyre kinda stupid so it goes way more unnoticed, instead of groups for this (from personal knowledge) they just find a dumb non-threatning kid or a group of them, the usual undertale 12 year old. as theyre young they dont have to do much to make them think this behavior is normal
No it actually sounds like a horrible vigilante justice idea.. u can’t hunt murderers or gang bangers on ur own.. so why this either? Leave it to ppl whose job it actually is… bad idea..
@@MultiAsdag When the government fails to do its job and protect its citizens, the people need to take matters into their own hands. It's more or less the whole reason behind the 2nd amendment (with another reason geared towards the government itself...), when your government fails to protect its citizens and does not prosecute and stop criminals, you have the right to protect yourself, your family and your community. In this case, instead of using live rounds, you're just using a different kind of ammunition. This world would be a much better place if people started to protect each other and not ONLY rely off of a large organization to do their job.
The worst part is that it's not even kids vault. Who wasn't curious of everything at age of 14 or 15? The bad part is that everything is so easily reachable you can just type: "dating server" and that's it. The owners and admins are the worst since they are like: "why do you care? Focus on yourself and not others" that is the worst thing I've heard in recent times
@@Niepokonany0 yea and you got giga lucky that you werent catfished or kidnapped by a pedophile or both or end up with 40 year old grown men jerking off to an underage selfie of you. i hope you realize youre in the top 1% luckiest ones. others arent so lucky.
yeah but heres something worse i was casually on a server asking for new songs adding that im a minor and i didnt only found one pedophile but 2 pedos on a non dating server for furrys
crazy how half the owners/admins are under 18, that's why they didn't care about the 14 year old that could potentially talk to someone twice their age
That's actually such a good point, the vast majority of users are under 18 including those who make those servers. Shit I never looked at it like that.
A lot of Discord moderators are actually minors (except for like UA-camr servers), so they were probably hurt that an adult was telling them they shouldn't be dating online
@@ArianeM-gk2vp honestly,as a minor myself (17),hell naw man wtf i still gotta protect pepole from predators if i can,i don't know how these pepole got their mentality,but it's bad
@@nameamvs9332 who ask for protection? mind your own business pls, people like you are the reason everyone overreact when they hear minors its been a bad experience for me personally it feels like the adult act like they own the internet for themself i sometime had to pretend if im adul t
“Its that guys life, whoever he wants to talk to, you should focus on yourself.” Has the same energy as someone saying a kid should eat as much candy as they want cause is their life. But 100x times worse…
Random side note I used to be in "Lovebirds", mostly as a joke to make fun of people in their intro channel, start arguments on purpose, borderline rage baiting. I was known as Mars in the server. The owner has been CONSTANTLY swapped due to the owner selling their server to different owners, and the current owner "Meadow" the latest new owner of the server has been known to scam people. Just straight up scam people who are trying to buy the server, and is also known to groom people💀 So the comparison to Epstein is not far off
unrelated & weird coincidence but have you ever made a wattpad book? someone in this comment section has been falsely spam reported by a guy also named Mars and now he's 1 ban away from permanent account deletion for Child Self Endangerment (after making fun of their wattpad book)
12:18 “Minors are dating on websites full of predators and are in huge danger. And you know the worse part? DISCORD ISNT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT.” “Anywho, bye bye, I love you😊 mwah😊”
This stuff has gotten insane, I’ve been on like a random server not even related to age or dating and I’ll pop up in chat and it’s a mod(15) telling 13 year olds that becoming an e-kitten for money is harmless. Literally what has this world come to 😭
To be fair, there are servers that have 13-17 roles and if you pick them, you get yeeted instantly. :') Which also works surprisingly well against bots.
@@feltmacaroon389 It's so hilarious when you see people basically self-report themselves. Even after seeing it thousands of times, it still puts a smile on my face.
And what’s crazy is WTF is a 14 year old who dates boys gonna even do??? Walk around the mofo ice cream shop and hold hands like a geezer? I’ve seen 16 year olds break up because they realized the dopamine of having eachother ends right after they finish chasing and find out dating ain’t fun, I think that’s why kids are put into “edating” because u can talk about what you OBVIOUSLY KNOW u can’t do! Like sex, drugs, being a wh0re, you know.
its like saying "you murdered someone" and responding with "and" like saying and wont make you in the right, "you did this evil wrong thing" "and" and its wrong
@@thatguy5391 actually yes dissociative identity disorder, does exist. DSM5 literally has D.I.D listed as a disorder and is recognized by health professionals. The main thing is it’s developed before the age of 5 due to extreme trauma. It’s a survival mechanism for the brain. Please do your research before saying things like this because it is hurtful to those who do have it
hey! psychology major here! in 1:15 it mentions littles and age regression when someone how very traumatic experiences a lot of times people can mentally have pstd esque flashbacks to happier times before the event where they will act like they are still that age this is in of itself just a trauma response, but a lot of predators will target people with this since its basically dating someone much younger than they actually are ofc always keep a look out for people who are lying about having this trauma response since a lot of kids think that mental illness is cool for some reason
someone replied to me with ‘stfu pedophile’ and I just wanna say please inform yourself on DDLG and age regression, there’s a huge difference :) I totally understand blind rage, and of course I feel no harsh feelings just a little hurt!! :DD
The littles thing is SUPPOSED to be basically a trauma thing where someone reverts back to being childlike as a defense mechanism or coping/comfort mechanism and is supposed to be explicitly non sexual. However that being said I wouldn't trust anyone on discord in a dating server claiming to be a little at all that's absolutely a recipe for weirdos using it as a farce to talk to children
@@inkstock Honestly I can't blame him for not knowing. I ONLY know because I'm semi knowledgeable about the kink community and they are not big fans of people who treat littles as a kink thing, because its obviously a bad look to have something relating to being child like involved in kink/sex in any way shape or form.
It's called age regression and it's not always a kink or sexual thing, ageplay is a kink whereas age regression is usually involuntary. Age regression is a relatively common trauma response and it usually is just colouring, watching kids shows etc
True story, I one encountered a 15-year-old 'femboy' selling nudes to people on Discord (which to my limited knowledge may as well have been to pedophiles). Luckily, I manage to talk him out of continuing such acts. He really is a good kid and just wanted some money, yet he didn't know how. I provided him some advice and some insight as to why what he was doing was bad. Few hours of talking later, we are now friends, and he has since quit selling nudes. But yeah, this and minors e-dating is a HUGE problem on Discord. Edit/Update: His account I cannot access anymore because either Discord banned it or he deleted it himself. Either way, he is safe and I'm glad I managed to talk him out of these acts.
I think we have a huge parenting problem, too many parents are illiterate when it comes to the internet and it creates unsafe environments for these kids
I wouldn't say illiterate the internet is evolving, which means new things happen, for example, like gen z words. What im trying to say is that it will be harder for parents to understand the new words.
@texanarchy666 I don't use Discord because I'm underage and will never will, so kindly correct me if I am wrong, please. Have you ever heard of code words? Some of these groups may use code words...
The “muah” at the end of your videos automatically make me feel better. Not in a weird was at all but like after seeing the freakiest shit, I really makes it better 😭
Absolute worst time to be a minor. These servers have been around for a while now, I myself was groomed in 2019 (I was 14) by MULTIPLE men (the oldest groomer was past 60 years of age) on these servers. I was pressured into sending NSFW photos of myself and then later blackmailed with those photos. These men found where I lived, threatened and DID dox me. I was a troubled kid coming from a terrible upbringing, I had undiagnosed---at the time---PTSD, was isolated due to my sexuality and suicidal. These predators go after troubled and vulnerable children, and the only thing that can stop them is harsher enforcement of these rules and parents being more involved in their kid's life. Thank you No Text To Speech for looking out for vulnerable children. People like you who make even the tiniest of efforts to report this makes all the difference. EDIT: i've noticed a lot of people in the replies, and i acknowledge they're likely young trolls. however, you should refrain from making these comments BECAUSE making fun of this does not stop it---it merely encourages it.
the vulnerable children are just bored kids/teens who’s parents are always working/giving them 0 attention, who got freedom to play around w whatever they wanted and found a place full of bs advice from offenders fakin their age and building them up into a sex addicted life
This is why, as an 18 year old girl, I have never joined public discord servers, only servers that my friends control. IDC if it is a normal server, there are freaky people. Even in the servers that have NOTHING to do with dating.. I just do not feel safe talking to anyone that I don't know in real life. Like, I just want to make friends -- preferably other girls my age w/ the same interests... but I think most people my age use discord solely for dating. Maybe sounds corny to say as an 18 year old girl but it's so strange... like, wtf.
Nah you're doing the right thing. You should be cautious of other people because their intentions aren't always benevolent. 9 times out of 10 when someone random reaches out to me it's a scam or someone trying to get something out of me. (Usually money)
Ye i've literally only used discord to talk to my homies; i've primarily talked in small servers for the past 7 years. I'm in a few massive servers for games I play, but only for updates, so I don't talk there. I just check when I get a ping and then go back to what I was doing lol
@@thesaddestdude3575fr people don’t date well since 1 in 100 “girls” are actually females and 1 “actual girl” for every 300 coincidental 14-30 guys isn’t gonna mf work out unless u want to become jealous of who gets to text n talk to her the most
1:01 I wanna clarify that littles in AGE REGRESSION and littles in AGE PLAY are vastly different as one is for COPING and the other is for sexual intent They unfortunately most likely used the term "regressor" to hide the fact they actually mean age play, which sucks because people already confuse the two enough :(
1:06 Age reggresion isn't a k1nk/the same as age play. Age reggresion is a coping mechanism (mainly for people with childhood trauma), where someone regresses to a younger age. It not remotely sexual based, unlike age play.
I would like to point out, not all age play is sexual as well, some people use it like age reg as a way to just escape life for a while in a "simpler" state, and those who do sexualize age play, I dont know that's not my kink. I know OF people who do but I dont talk to them.
I knew a girl who regressed who I was with for a few months. She was legit, a bunch of bad trauma from teenhood... I agree - anyone who feels sexual or kinky about it are either faking it or are wanting it for the WRONG reasons. I never even got the intrusive thoughts when she was like that, how could I she was in such a vulnerable state the only instinct in my head was to keep her safe and happy.
@@Rico_Solos tbh i think the og commenter is over exaggerating cuz ive been using discord since i was not actually old enough to be on there (im 16 now), and you really only get creepy comments if u join servers like the one in this video..
If i had never randomly found your channel, i would had continued my life thinking discord is just a better skype to talk with your friends, and occasionally join some servers that contain arts and memes. Discord was so innocent in my eyes up until a couple months ago lol.
I knew from day one it was unhinged. You can just get away with shit on a small scale way to easy. Just goes to show how our bubbles can really make us blind to our surroundings
eh,honestly if you just make a server by yourslef and put your friends on there or just do vc then it's fine, as long as you don't join weird ass servers
I've been with multiple discord when I was a minor through discord, and all of em were minors as well If you're a little bit aware of these problems and know how to check that the person is really who they pretend they are, then it's fine
9:34 that photo is of a little girl that’s famous on TikTok, because her mom posts a lot of suggestive stuff of her. It’s pretty sad. Edited the name out, shouldn’t have put it there, my bad.
I would probably not mention the name of the kid and or TikTok page to avoid bringing more attention to the page, since there can be weirdos on UA-cam as well. Good message to raise awareness though, absolutely deplorable behavior from the mother.
its because they want to normalize the behavior because discord staff and administration are corrupted with the same perverted degenerate filth that they allow to run rampant in servers
Ok, but here's a question what's the issue with two minors dating? Are they supposed to be lonely, and have zero experience with dating until they're an adult?
@@infinitehexington its the fact that pedophiles can easily disguise themselves as minors online, as there isnt any phyiscal proof, and you know what happens from there on honestly tho, i have no issues with a couple being 17-18 or 17-19 or something close to that, but when that shit turns into a 15 year old and an adult e-dating, it becomes messed up
@@TheoSur Okay so I came back to this comment. You know one of those comments that change my whole life? Well this is it. Thanks to you, I touched grass and I've got a cute GF now who is neither imaginary not AI. (She's 5'10", one inch shorter than me and has green eyes help)
This video was very much needed. My heart goes to these kids which might have a hard time in life afterwards. I can only hope they don't meet big creeps, I just hope they have people around them. I just hope they can find a place to be safe. Being on discord as a minor isn't an issue in itself but it HAS to be monitored. And these stupid servers all need to be taken down asap. It"s terrifying to me. I'm going to share a bit of my story here, but it's pretty long, and pretty sad. It's been years actually. I got my first discord account at 12years old, in 2017. I used to talk to my cousin on skype, playing minecraft, but she moved to discord, so did I. My parents barely ever monitored my internet access, whom I was talking to, what I was doing. Few months gone by and I started understanding how discord worked, servers. I joined an anime community discord server, yeah it's a little different then what's talked about in the video, but the result was the same. I chatted a bit with some people. I ended up making friends with a 20years old. I wouldn't see an issue then, it was just friendly chatting. And then I ended up "dating" him. I was 13 years old at the time. Still, I wouldn't see an issue. I met up with him, at an anime con, I don't know if it was instinct, but I felt something was strange. I knew I wasn't supposed to be here, furthermore, I knew I was in danger. I ran as fast as my little legs could, hid, and called my dad whom picked me up only a few minutes later. I never explained my parents what happened, who I was with, but that surely traumatised me. I won't go into details onto what he's done to me prior to that, but it's ugly to think of. Maybe it was my fault for being on discord at such a young age. Or being careless as to talking to strangers. I mean, it wasn't exactly the server's fault, it didn't advocate for dating nor minors dating. But no one saw an issue in general chat seeing a 13years old befriending a 20years old. No one saw an issue seeing them "dating" (I can't not put this in quotation marks, It hurts too bad to refer to this as anything else but grooming, but that's what I thought it was back then.) And even if they did, they didn't say shit. No one said anything to me, no one warned me, no one told me to stop. And it goes the same to him, as far as I know. I hadn't seen anyone telling him he's a creep, a pedo. If anything, I probably wouldn't have listened if anyone had tried to warn me, I was a stupid little girl. But I'm pretty sure the grown ass men on the server could've given that guy a good beating. Especially since there were some of his own IRL friends there. But no, none of his friends said a word. None of the admins warned anyone, no one in this server EVER did anything even though we were both openly "together", and talking a bunch. I'm sure people thought it was weird but why had no one questioned it directly. Why had no one dmed me, or him. Why. I never pursued any charges, and I regret it cause I know he's done that to other minors afterwards, one of my friends actually, and two girls whom I don't know. Maybe even more to this day. These girls got it worse than I did, but it's not my place to talk about it. I wish I had told my dad everything and we'd pursued charges. I've felt guilt eversince, thinking If I did something and he got locked up, maybe I would've saved other girls.
@@Niepokonany0it is absolutely insane for you to comment that under my post and incredibly disrespectful, considering i was talking about my own traumatic experience of being groomed by an older man on a discord server. but i guess some people have absolutely no ounce of respect. if you met your significant other, good for you, but these discord servers that advocate minors dating are absolutely frightening. theres no age verification and you can talk to absolutely anyone. discord is not a dating app, there are some that require age verification, tinder, hinge. these apps are way more safe then discord for that, even though no app is perfect and you’re never sure as to who you are talking to, of course.
@@Red_hoodeditz Someone was talking about their trauma and you just comment "omg the yapping" Your account is either ragebait or you're too young to be here
Im so sorry to hear that,i also had similar experiences All these creeps are a big problem and i hate it when people are taking grooming experiences not seriously
regarding the "little" thing: while it is kink for some people (which is obviously gross) thats not actual age regression, its age play. age regression is entirely innocent. its when someone reverts back to a childlike state to cope with trauma and it is caused by trauma, it is most common to regress to the age that the most trauma occurred and for most it can be either voluntary or involuntary.
1:15 side note abt the "littles" discussion too, them saying "age-regressed" could also tie into age regression in general which is a thing traumatized people do for comfort - regressing mentally back to a younger age. it's not something sexual or kink related, however, i'm sure in that server it was referring to the fetish like ntts concluded! just pointing that out in case someone sees someone else on the internet and they talk about age regression. not always sexual, but watch out jic
@@almondthefurret6818 well most ppl i know who age regress are, so wasnt sure if it was just ND ppl or not :0 kinda like a more often than not thing. but as always neurodivergent/traumatized ppl =/= age regressers, and vice versa
1:00 this isn't just referring to age play as a kink I think. Some people genuinely age regress as a trauma response and coping mechanism, there's other reasons but I think that's one of the biggest things we have to think about
@@dangerous_tumor3those who regress as a coping mechanism often don't do it voluntarily. there are plenty of resources to learn about this with plenty of actual psychological studies.
@@squish_39Except most people aren't doing this as a response or recommendation from therapy. They've just normalized a fetish so they can identify as a child in public with others as an identity. I have no problem with it personally, but I do dislike people not being honest about their intentions behind the practice. I've met these people behind closed doors and have heard the quiet part out loud plenty of times.
SO UPDATE FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO DONT KNOW: they made a backup server after "fixing" all the issues in their server- like intros and so on ONLY TO MAKE ANOTHER ONE WITH THE SAME ISSUES. guys seriously be careful online- the mods DO NOT CARE and are horrible horrible people.
1:21 is said regression so that’s a coping mechanism. It’s literally going to the mindset of a child. Age play littles are the sexual ones. Both use the term little tho. But this one I assume is in relation to DID and age regression instead of ageplay
I just want to point out that, littles are NOT people pretending to be children, that would be ageplayers. and for them, it's a thing between consenting adults, not done of the purpose of trying to pretend to be a child so you can talk to another child. littles are agre regressors. they are poeple with a mental condition due to trauma that they have no control over. and for age players, it's usually a kink done among adults, the same way pet play is.
This difference is one of the most important things to note. The regressed individual is actually mentally at the capacity of a younger age, while the age player is still in a fully right mindset and can function as an adult.
It is actually really messed up how badly discord (among most platforms probs) deals with these types of issues. only as I am now getting older I am realising how totally messed up it is - Coming from someone with unrestricted internet/social media access since basically forever - I totally regret having been on discord since 11, it genuinely sucks to think about everything that i have witnessed and learnt etc etc. Wish I could go back to my younger self and say this fr. on a side note, it is also scary how so much of this seriously unhealthy stuff was "normal" for me, totally yoinked my perspective on many things like grooming and generally predatory/depraved stuff. Would not wish this upon my worst enemy, this stuffs just awful. If I was a parent and came to know about this, i think it would totally shatter me. stay safe people!!!
If you were 11 when discord came out you're too young to have an informed opinion little bro. You don't even know what the internet was like pre social media.
My daughter uses discord, and she is 13. In fact, I was the one that introduced her to it so it was easier to ping eachother at distance or to pass information back and forward like images or code (because we both write code). I shed no detail in describing to her internet predators and the freaks she will run into online or what their intentions are. We don't really have problems with people online, and when we do, they get blocked. It's very simple. Use discord responsibly and don't go to places where you will be subjected to content or people you don't want to see.
@@vividvault9285 the issue with saying "just use Discord responsibly" is that most parents do not monitor what their kids do online and never taught them how to behave, how to detect predators and how to deal with them.
9:35 holy that's the little kid who's "popular" on tiktok bc ppl speculate that her mom takes advantage of her. It's a whole rabbit hole and it's so sad...
1:00 Oh actually, Littles, as I know is referring to people who age-regress, specifically when they are age regressing, or if there is a small kid alter, sometimes also referred to as littles but that's a little different and not what I think it’s referring to. Age regression I believe is a coping mechanism, it lets you think or act like a child with child behaviors, going into a child-like mindset, and from what I know it lets you not think about stressful complex ideas, and it is possible to do on purpose or is done subconsciously. Age play is completely different from that, roleplay with consenting adults, doesn't need to be sexual but I think is sexual, and I think the two shouldn't be grouped together at all Thanks for if you read all this, I just wanted to kinda educate a bit, I suggest looking into it more if you want to know more, I don't know everything about age reggression so there is probably some things I didn't talk about or say right. -yappatron 505
im both proud and not proud of this, but i used to raid servers that had to do with underage dating. we should bring that stuff back, these servers are predatory
1:15 Take everything i say with the grain of salt but usually "littles" and "age regression" are a coping mechanism to childhood trauma, usually people who cope this way when they feel safe they act and feel like a very young child, these people are 100% aware of their physical and mental age its just their way of coping with trauma. People who had to "mature too fast" often experience this when around older people and role models who make them feel safe. Anyways yes tho, some people do have a kink for this, and some other people took this coping mechanism to extreme where they wear pacifiers and diapers.
regarding the whole "edating" thing, something hilarious is that my parents met online and lived across the world from each other, theyve been married for like 20 years at this point and have been together for longer. yes, it is very nice to actually meet someone irl and get to actually see them and spend time with them, but online dating is also cool (just be careful out there guys)
Writing this without judgement, the "Little" thing is more like someone feeling to be a younger age and doing such activities, while the counterpart would be a caregiver, who is often but not always older/significantly older. So not really about someone pretending to be a teen to write with teens
@@CeliMe007 not necessarily. The term is also used for DID alters that are minors and for age regression used for coping with trauma (so not sexual at all)
The rule on “littles” isn’t that bad, it specifically is about people who age regress in a way that is usually a trauma response. I have DID and so a lot of communities I’m in have people that age regress or have littles as alters and it’s not pedo shit. Pedo shit is when an adult lies about being younger whereas age regressors are usually super up front as to make sure they don’t do pedo shit
_Pedo shit is when an adult lies about being younger_ No. It isn't... (GOD I'm wanna scream my lungs out) Because that implies that an adult dating a minor that KNOWS it's an adult it's not p*dophilic. But wait. It gets WORSE _whereas age regressors are usually super up front as to make sure they don’t do pedo shit_ Because an adult that's been through a traumatic episode that made them regress in age can totally date a minor... Without even questioning if that trauma actually even happened in the first place.
I dont believe that ddlg as a kink is gross, as long as actual minors arent involved, but yeah ddlg and agere are different. (This is a copy and paste reply)
This generation tries so hard to normalize these things and it's sad. You're opening up these unsafe space for minors to be groomed, traumatized, exploited, you name it. And if grown adults don't see the issue with that, then I think those people need background checks. Thank you for making these types of videos to spread awareness.
I’ll never forget a server I saw that had the “nudes” “dating” and “minor” tags. I can’t remember exactly what they all were but that’s the gist. I was shocked to see it
Little isn't always a kink thing. It's also a recognized coping mechanism for those who have experienced trauma at a young age. Regressions can look like going non verbal, child like speech patterns, and or partaking in childlike activities such as coloring in coloring books, watching childhood shows/cartons, ect.
Here’s another issue My account being 1 more strike away from being suspended for “Self Harm” because some one spam reported me and admitted it to me in a vc. Guess what Discord is doing with my appeals? “Oh sorry you violated the guidelines. Womp womp loser” Post edit (it was actually “Child Self-Endangerment” not “Self harm”)
@@BagelBagelBagelBa Actually it was Child Self Endangerment. This dude called “Mars” I will not put their full account name in, had reported me for the worst thing because I made fun of their Wattpad book. (Also sorry for the mislead. I was actually “Child Self Endangerment” not “Self harm”)
@@dhepo2 Cause you didn’t make fun of some one that can’t take shit when they’re petty enough to make you take shit from them, and they only get to make fun of you and not them
that "little" thing is actually age regression in general, which Can be safe for work and is also a coping mechanism for people. oftentimes there will be rules in place in communities where age regressors (people who mentally regress to younger ages) might flock to basically saying, this is our minimum age, do not chat here if you are regressed below this age (because no one wants to moderate someone who's mentally 10). all in all i think that rule was related to regression in general, NOT specifically ageplay
Lovecafe HAS gotten better since then, with intros only being for who are with the legal role, and any minors found in intros will get temp muted, and role changed. - your favorite lovecafe mod
When I was 14-16 I was active in a dating server called "Cherry Blossom". My job was to conduct investigations into any potential adults. I was extremely lonely and I was happy to be with the server's regulars. I got to meet a lot of people such as myself who were also in the lowest parts of the social hierarchy and it let me know how broken people think. I have no regrets about this period of my life besides the few times I had to see the absolute lowest of society. I highly recommend against engaging in communities like these as a teen. Even though it felt good to have a pdf file taken care of, as the one who sent the report to the authorities and investigated for myself, I am disgusted by what I had to see.
If Not the Servers like that then i would be lonely. Am Having Best Life Because of this server! I only needed Gf for Full Success and i got Best Gf In The World❤❤❤ Now We are having Best Life and Changing world to better. You just need be smart,like am gigantic am creating sooo many projects,i have company,am creating videos and muchh more!!
Just want to say that there is another definition to "Littles" I have heard of. It's not necessarily under the person's control because it can be related to D,I.D (Dissociative Identity Disorder) which is a disorder formed from severe trauma at a young age, which can cause the mind to have multiple personalities. In short, a "Little" can also fall into the same definition category because their mind can think they are a child. It's very complicated. Still weird it was even brought up in their server rules though. I have 0 idea if they are referring to the definition you said or the D.I.D definition.
Age regression and age play are two seperate things. Age regressors regress to actual child mindsets. Ageplay is a k!nk that plays on being intimate with children. Which is gross. Age regression is a coping mechanism and is a trauma response.
@@givikap120 or, take the word of someone who age regresses. Age regression is not a kink. It is a coping mechanism and a way to relieve stress. Ageplay is a kink. It is used for sexual reasons. I've been in the age regression community for years. I know what I'm talking about
@@Ocorydon-WCO I feel like the explaination of agereg is not what they're complaining about. if that was the case they'd tell you to google that rather then ageplay. they're probably complaining about ageplay being equated to being into actual kids, which... i'm not nearly deep enough into kink, or pedo, related stuff to make a judgement on myself.
Yeah nice to be a commentary youtuber until someone makes something up about you and it's now up to you to disprove it, rather than them proving you even did anything.
Okay just one point you made: Littles isnt actually the term people commonly use for the kink, but little is more commonly used for the coping mechanism used by some people who age regress, where they regress mentally as a form of comfort and to feel safe. I really wish people would use the terms for the later instead since it's the more important one imo and something I think more people should be aware of
I understand the term little is used for age regressors often. but isn't the bdsm subfetish literally called CGL "caregiver/little"? (or more commonly known as DDLG, but that's assuming gender roles) so the submissive role in this play is known as little too, right? i can't be that confused surely?
This has unfortunately been happening since forever :( as a lonely autistic person with compulsive issues I got involved in things somewhat similar to this mentally ill degeneracy on twitter 4 years ago during Covid. Thankfully I got out somewhat quickly. Thank you for publicising this absolute disgraceful situation. Mental illness and severe inaccessibility of therapy is THE biggest problem among young people since the 2010’s
littles actually isn't age play :| sadly, they get convoluted, Littles are people with trauma who age-regress because of said trauma, and typically, it's nonsexual. But there are perverts in every single community so littles aren't protected like they should be. littles are typically something that happens to someone with severe mental health disorders
@@dangerous_tumor3 well not every little has a choice unfortunately One of my friends got hit by a truck before and the brain damage from it left them in a permanent state of regression
@@dangerous_tumor3 A lot of people with it, have no choice but to use it. It's severe trauma, AKA sexual torture before the age of 5. I have age regression when things get too fucked up for me - and I have no choice over it. I was tortured as a child. It's something that happens due to extreme trauma. Littles = / = Age play. Age players are fetishists. Littles is something people can't help but drop into. You're lucky not to know what it's like to be tortured as an infant.
A small correction regarding littles: the term can also be used in a SFW way to describe someone who mentally regresses to a younger age, and when they regress isn’t necessarily within their control. I knew someone who was a little and she said that when she regressed, she felt like her body was smaller than it actually was (e.g., once, when she was little, she drew us standing next to each other, and she drew herself as being much shorter than me, even though I was shorter than her irl). She would also talk and act more like a child, and it wasn’t within her control or used for kink purposes.
@@wuppado no, no it's not. Age regression is due to the brain not being able to cope with the trauma and regressing to a point in time before the trauma. It is a trauma response and is NEVER sexualize. "Age play" is the kink version. It is sexual and is weird when not kept private/in general
@@pocketpheonix9573 it is a type of therapy. They are not pretending. If you want to be mad about something, be mad about Age play. Age play is the kink version used by people who haven't had trauma.
As someone who was groomed as a very vulnerable child (being autistic as well as having very inactive parents) from the ages of 12-17 by adults in discord servers, this stuff is the reason I can't trust people online or even us social media like discord without feeling scared. I only realized 2 years ago that what was happening was grooming and disgusting, and the fact ik some of these people worked together to find a minor like me who didnt understand what was happening was evil and when they either got blocked or no longer had interest or got what they wanted I should say they would pawn of victims to each other It makes me feel horrible knowing if the parents of today dont take further action in their childs internet life, it going to happen and is happening rn. These predators have seriously gotten good at making everything seem normal and ok, and now, with AI getting as good as it gets, it's truly only gonna get worse if we dont make some kind of stand against this. I hope everyone who is and has been affected by this age of predators this is able to give themselves peace knowing that you were only a child and how would you have know better if no one was truly helping you.
1:11 i just wanna Quickly point something out. That reddit post is confusing age play and age regression. A little is someome whos mind regresses to that of a younge child mostly due to trauma as a way to cope its not a sex thing its completely sfw and has nothing to do with dating
Btw for many people age-regression is a non-sexual coping mechanism. I’ve known a couple people with severe childhood trauma who regressed so they could basically redo their childhood in a safer way
"They're 14, not 13. They just prefer older women" a literal recipe for disaster
Common sense just isn't common for some..
hell is hot.
The "they just prefer older women" is wild as a whole
A person of that age SHOULDN'T prefer "older women", that's the problem
@@DeadVoxelwhen I was 14, I would've absolutely took this kind of opportunity. But now that I'm older, I still think that way. So you're telling me who I can like or find attractive? What entitles you to that.
@@nocommantarygameplay5516 i dont think thats what hes trying to do but you do you man
@@road2leaguehe literally said I shouldn't have been attracted to woman older than 18 when I was 14.
@@nocommantarygameplay5516 dude you're attracting pedos by saying that like how do you not see a problem with that
This gotta be the worst year to be a minor
so far
Drake reference?
@zntpisthylaw-v9x🤓
@MrBass-p5i🤓
@MrBass-p5ii never seen a bot spam THIS much
discord does nothing to prevent minors from dating but bans people who jokingly write that they're 2 years old
discord bans you if someone edits one of their own messages to make it look like you said you were under 13 too. (well, that was a problem at one point, I don't know if they fixed that)
That's how I actually lost my old account. It got automatically banned because I lazily input that I was born in like 2018 or something when it asked for age verification.
one of my friends got their main AND their alt permanently banned because SOMEONE ELSE made the joke that they were 8. absolutely ridiculous, considering they literally HAVE legal documents that state theyre 19
@@kzt396there's no way 😭 I made my account before you had to age verify when creating so I never put in a birthdate lmfao
@@wrightcemberthis is what I'm scared of, i don't want my main acc to be banned. I got discord when I was 10 in 2019, before they were strict we actually revealed our real ages in this smaller more trusted server where everyone was friends. Bad idea but I was 10 so I was stupid. The server is deleted now, hopefully my acc doesn't magically poof out of existence one day
Anyone who’s been on discord long enough knows this video BARELY scratches the surface of the problem. It’s so much worse than this in so many servers that don’t appear top of the browser.
Frfr. It's especially concerning when a seemingly normal server have channels for 18+. The number of times I caught minors pretending to be adults to access those channels and then you have the dc mods who "thoroughly checked and questioned" them. I was so disgusted that I'm no longer in any servers other than my close friends'. Talk about a pedo ring
yeah i have a private google doc with a friend where we went all the down the discord iceberg and documented our experiences, from literal CP and grape videos to beheadings and necrophelia being livestreamed.... discord is the worst app to ever exist.
@@The.Truth.1337Holy shoot dude im so sorry! that’s disgusting.
@@peachesbunny okay tbf in this instance it's the minors fault for sure, joining an 18+ service when you aren't is intentionally and knowingly deceptive
@@The.Truth.1337 it never can really be the minor’s fault, though. Making these things accessible to minors in the first place is wrong. A kid making a dumb choice that an adult made available to them isn’t nearly as much to blame as the adult is.
some edaters are a genuine danger to society
@MrBass-p5i🤓
@zntpisthylaw-v9x🤓
@zntpisthylaw-v9x oh the zntp not the uttp. uttp is better
@zntpisthylaw-v9xare you a real human typing that or just a bot
@@realmanfrfr there are so many bots wth
"here at discord, we care about minors a lot" - total bs
Maybe they care a little TOO much is some cases
some people at discord HAVE to care about minors, wink wink.
@@21bucks delete this
@@realKarlFranzhe ain’t wrong though
they do care about minors
just in the wrong way....
"discord has a minor fetish" "whats the minor fetish?" "No its a major fetish" "ok so what is the major fetish?" "no the major fetish is the minor fetish"---Class of 09
Edit: Jesus the replies are a warzone of people laughing and being clueless
Class of 09 is such a fun game because it features as many paedophiles as a Minecraft UA-camr discord server and most can be destroyed
I love Class of 09 so much 😂
it doesn't help that the 14 yo had a jecka pfp at the end of the vid
@@mewzerz I noticed that lol
class of 09 is so epic
To be fair, this has been a thing since Discord was created in 2015. Besides literal dating servers, I remember joining "Anime" servers that had plenty of 10-15 year olds "roleplaying" about NSFW stuff. Nothing was ever done about it.
With companies and entities being so anal about being safe and profitable discord reallying doesn't seem to give a fuck. People buy nitro ig? Sick
"they are 14, so there's not much I can do about that" sweet fucking christ someone without arms or legs can and would do more about the issue
the worst thing is that these "minors" arent minors theyre mostly like 30 yo people trying to lure in minors
@@Greatestswordsman69 the blue guy himself later on claimed he was a minor when the rage started spilling in the server they were at, I know because I went in there before it went down and I took a vid of it incase u wanna see
But ehh I have doubts they’re a kid and if they are then what is happening with society
@@Thebignobodydrop the video
@@Thebignobody i know the guy personally he is 17
You'd be surprised about the amount of minors under 13 as well, and they get taken advantage of too. It's extremely disturbing.
Duckkuss do a video about i love you server catfishing
Yeah when I used to have discord when was 10 and I dodged so many bullets when I think about it now. There was this weird drunk person dming me and venting and trauma dumping me and I was so weirded out
theyre kinda stupid so it goes way more unnoticed, instead of groups for this (from personal knowledge) they just find a dumb non-threatning kid or a group of them, the usual undertale 12 year old. as theyre young they dont have to do much to make them think this behavior is normal
Frfr
Yep
making a bot that catfishes for pedos then blackmails them for crypto or something, sounds like a solid job
scam the bad guys, sounds like a good idea
This actually seems like a great solution
Pdf files will stop doing it altogether out of fear
@@potatosalad3655 People actually makes 100s of thousands off this. Saw some dude on instagram bragging about it 😂
No it actually sounds like a horrible vigilante justice idea.. u can’t hunt murderers or gang bangers on ur own.. so why this either? Leave it to ppl whose job it actually is… bad idea..
@@MultiAsdag When the government fails to do its job and protect its citizens, the people need to take matters into their own hands. It's more or less the whole reason behind the 2nd amendment (with another reason geared towards the government itself...), when your government fails to protect its citizens and does not prosecute and stop criminals, you have the right to protect yourself, your family and your community. In this case, instead of using live rounds, you're just using a different kind of ammunition. This world would be a much better place if people started to protect each other and not ONLY rely off of a large organization to do their job.
The worst part is that it's not even kids vault. Who wasn't curious of everything at age of 14 or 15? The bad part is that everything is so easily reachable you can just type: "dating server" and that's it. The owners and admins are the worst since they are like: "why do you care? Focus on yourself and not others" that is the worst thing I've heard in recent times
@@Niepokonany0 yea and you got giga lucky that you werent catfished or kidnapped by a pedophile or both or end up with 40 year old grown men jerking off to an underage selfie of you. i hope you realize youre in the top 1% luckiest ones. others arent so lucky.
@niepokonany getting a gf is not the be all and all. You've got some growth to do. And I hope that it happens soon.
yeah but heres something worse i was casually on a server asking for new songs adding that im a minor and i didnt only found one pedophile but 2 pedos on a non dating server for furrys
the server is still up...discord never learns
Chances are the owners are minors themselves.
crazy how half the owners/admins are under 18, that's why they didn't care about the 14 year old that could potentially talk to someone twice their age
That's actually such a good point, the vast majority of users are under 18 including those who make those servers. Shit I never looked at it like that.
A lot of Discord moderators are actually minors (except for like UA-camr servers), so they were probably hurt that an adult was telling them they shouldn't be dating online
@@ArianeM-gk2vp honestly,as a minor myself (17),hell naw man wtf
i still gotta protect pepole from predators if i can,i don't know how these pepole got their mentality,but it's bad
@@nameamvs9332 its also none of your business. try and help them and itll make it worse
@@nameamvs9332 who ask for protection? mind your own business pls, people like you are the reason everyone overreact when they hear minors its been a bad experience for me personally it feels like the adult act like they own the internet for themself i sometime had to pretend if im adul t
“Its that guys life, whoever he wants to talk to, you should focus on yourself.”
Has the same energy as someone saying a kid should eat as much candy as they want cause is their life. But 100x times worse…
Every second of that video I felt my soul leaving my body 😭 wtf is wrong with discord moderation
Yes, they can eat whatever tf they want.
@@johnjack3578No
@@johnjack3578 Please don't have kids
@@SGHNTZ Why?
Random side note I used to be in "Lovebirds", mostly as a joke to make fun of people in their intro channel, start arguments on purpose, borderline rage baiting.
I was known as Mars in the server.
The owner has been CONSTANTLY swapped due to the owner selling their server to different owners, and the current owner "Meadow" the latest new owner of the server has been known to scam people. Just straight up scam people who are trying to buy the server, and is also known to groom people💀
So the comparison to Epstein is not far off
omg I was in "I love you" server
also in "love cafe"
and "e-life"
unrelated & weird coincidence but have you ever made a wattpad book? someone in this comment section has been falsely spam reported by a guy also named Mars and now he's 1 ban away from permanent account deletion for Child Self Endangerment (after making fun of their wattpad book)
@@alexloveskpop and do the servers work? any luck?
asking for a friend
12:18 “Minors are dating on websites full of predators and are in huge danger. And you know the worse part? DISCORD ISNT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT.” “Anywho, bye bye, I love you😊 mwah😊”
This stuff has gotten insane, I’ve been on like a random server not even related to age or dating and I’ll pop up in chat and it’s a mod(15) telling 13 year olds that becoming an e-kitten for money is harmless. Literally what has this world come to 😭
😢
It's been like this for over two decades. None of this is new, or related to discord.
@@Sammysapphira yup this is the sad reality of our species...
@@Sammysapphira an e-kitten im pretty sure is a thing *from* discord
This is fucking mild, look at the shit gen x and boomers did in their time
To be fair, there are servers that have 13-17 roles and if you pick them, you get yeeted instantly. :')
Which also works surprisingly well against bots.
I wish all servers could do this
@@feltmacaroon389 It's so hilarious when you see people basically self-report themselves.
Even after seeing it thousands of times, it still puts a smile on my face.
"This person is a minor and dating"
"It's fine"
"It is against Discord's Community Guidelines"
"And?"
absolute bs
And what’s crazy is WTF is a 14 year old who dates boys gonna even do??? Walk around the mofo ice cream shop and hold hands like a geezer? I’ve seen 16 year olds break up because they realized the dopamine of having eachother ends right after they finish chasing and find out dating ain’t fun, I think that’s why kids are put into “edating” because u can talk about what you OBVIOUSLY KNOW u can’t do! Like sex, drugs, being a wh0re, you know.
btw a minor can date someone the same age dont be foolish
Fucking despicable. My jaw dropped. I don't want that person within a 20 metre radius of any minor.
"Just let other people be, dude 🤓" fucking stupid
its like saying "you murdered someone" and responding with "and" like saying and wont make you in the right, "you did this evil wrong thing" "and" and its wrong
1:30 I think by littles, they may actually mean someone who age regresses (a trauma response), so I don't think they mean the kink kind of littles
"Littles" is also a term used to refer to altars that are children in people with D.I.D. the term is used for a lot of things
yeah!
yeah no they absolutely did
@@thatguy5391 actually yes dissociative identity disorder, does exist. DSM5 literally has D.I.D listed as a disorder and is recognized by health professionals. The main thing is it’s developed before the age of 5 due to extreme trauma. It’s a survival mechanism for the brain. Please do your research before saying things like this because it is hurtful to those who do have it
@@ashkim2628He's ragebaiting. No need to respond to him, he's a pathetic loser.
hey! psychology major here!
in 1:15 it mentions littles and age regression
when someone how very traumatic experiences a lot of times people can mentally have pstd esque flashbacks to happier times before the event where they will act like they are still that age
this is in of itself just a trauma response, but a lot of predators will target people with this since its basically dating someone much younger than they actually are
ofc always keep a look out for people who are lying about having this trauma response since a lot of kids think that mental illness is cool for some reason
thank you for explaining this so well as an agere!! :3
yes exactly. age regression is a real thing in psychology.
someone replied to me with ‘stfu pedophile’ and I just wanna say please inform yourself on DDLG and age regression, there’s a huge difference :) I totally understand blind rage, and of course I feel no harsh feelings just a little hurt!! :DD
Thank you I FLEW to the comments to clarify that Google did him bad
@@novatheenby8779 SAME LOL
The littles thing is SUPPOSED to be basically a trauma thing where someone reverts back to being childlike as a defense mechanism or coping/comfort mechanism and is supposed to be explicitly non sexual. However that being said I wouldn't trust anyone on discord in a dating server claiming to be a little at all that's absolutely a recipe for weirdos using it as a farce to talk to children
Oh that's DEFINITELY is an excuse used to groom children. The very fact that there is a tag associated with it ("Little") makes it even clearer.
@@BigMan7o0 THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING OUT TOO it's so frustrating seeing him not make the distinction!
@@inkstock Honestly I can't blame him for not knowing. I ONLY know because I'm semi knowledgeable about the kink community and they are not big fans of people who treat littles as a kink thing, because its obviously a bad look to have something relating to being child like involved in kink/sex in any way shape or form.
@@inkstockicl its still freaky stuff in the end
It's called age regression and it's not always a kink or sexual thing, ageplay is a kink whereas age regression is usually involuntary.
Age regression is a relatively common trauma response and it usually is just colouring, watching kids shows etc
True story, I one encountered a 15-year-old 'femboy' selling nudes to people on Discord (which to my limited knowledge may as well have been to pedophiles). Luckily, I manage to talk him out of continuing such acts. He really is a good kid and just wanted some money, yet he didn't know how. I provided him some advice and some insight as to why what he was doing was bad.
Few hours of talking later, we are now friends, and he has since quit selling nudes. But yeah, this and minors e-dating is a HUGE problem on Discord.
Edit/Update: His account I cannot access anymore because either Discord banned it or he deleted it himself. Either way, he is safe and I'm glad I managed to talk him out of these acts.
You're friends with a 15 year old? Little sus bro 🤨
(This is a joke)
@@thunblot78 haha, very funny
I’m a minor myself and I know this is wrong for someone younger than me to do this kinda stuff
@@thunblot78 what's the problem with having older friends? My friend is 25 and I'm almost 20, and we know each other for 10 years by now. 🤷♂️
He was saved 🙏
@@AnekoF90 there isn't one, I was trying to be funny and failed
Got permanently banned for being in a pedohunting server for "endangering children" and i couldnt stop laughing
🤣
I think we have a huge parenting problem, too many parents are illiterate when it comes to the internet and it creates unsafe environments for these kids
I wouldn't say illiterate the internet is evolving, which means new things happen, for example, like gen z words.
What im trying to say is that it will be harder for parents to understand the new words.
@@BambiRules289every parent should understand how to use context clues to figure out words they don’t know. they teach that from a very young age
That's their fault not the parents.
@texanarchy666 I don't use Discord because I'm underage and will never will, so kindly correct me if I am wrong, please. Have you ever heard of code words? Some of these groups may use code words...
If the kids stop being dumb as shit then we wouldn't have this problem lol.
The “muah” at the end of your videos automatically make me feel better. Not in a weird was at all but like after seeing the freakiest shit, I really makes it better 😭
Fr it just is a nice way to get reintroduced back to the world of actually normal people
@@thesysop4998 frfr
You see this youtuber knows its audience is all kids so as a pedo himself he kisses you all to groom you.
Absolute worst time to be a minor. These servers have been around for a while now, I myself was groomed in 2019 (I was 14) by MULTIPLE men (the oldest groomer was past 60 years of age) on these servers. I was pressured into sending NSFW photos of myself and then later blackmailed with those photos. These men found where I lived, threatened and DID dox me. I was a troubled kid coming from a terrible upbringing, I had undiagnosed---at the time---PTSD, was isolated due to my sexuality and suicidal. These predators go after troubled and vulnerable children, and the only thing that can stop them is harsher enforcement of these rules and parents being more involved in their kid's life.
Thank you No Text To Speech for looking out for vulnerable children. People like you who make even the tiniest of efforts to report this makes all the difference.
EDIT: i've noticed a lot of people in the replies, and i acknowledge they're likely young trolls. however, you should refrain from making these comments BECAUSE making fun of this does not stop it---it merely encourages it.
Hope you doing better now man
Wait how did they manage to dox you?
the vulnerable children are just bored kids/teens who’s parents are always working/giving them 0 attention, who got freedom to play around w whatever they wanted and found a place full of bs advice from offenders fakin their age and building them up into a sex addicted life
@@thesaddestdude3575probably thru social media
@@thesaddestdude3575probably said where they go to school. That’s a common one
This is why, as an 18 year old girl, I have never joined public discord servers, only servers that my friends control. IDC if it is a normal server, there are freaky people. Even in the servers that have NOTHING to do with dating.. I just do not feel safe talking to anyone that I don't know in real life. Like, I just want to make friends -- preferably other girls my age w/ the same interests... but I think most people my age use discord solely for dating. Maybe sounds corny to say as an 18 year old girl but it's so strange... like, wtf.
Nah you're doing the right thing. You should be cautious of other people because their intentions aren't always benevolent. 9 times out of 10 when someone random reaches out to me it's a scam or someone trying to get something out of me. (Usually money)
Ye i've literally only used discord to talk to my homies; i've primarily talked in small servers for the past 7 years. I'm in a few massive servers for games I play, but only for updates, so I don't talk there. I just check when I get a ping and then go back to what I was doing lol
MINOR issues are taking over discord
Tbf its normal for 16 year olds to date but its not good on DC
@@thesaddestdude3575fr people don’t date well since 1 in 100 “girls” are actually females and 1 “actual girl” for every 300 coincidental 14-30 guys isn’t gonna mf work out unless u want to become jealous of who gets to text n talk to her the most
@@thesaddestdude3575Yeah because there's predators
SONOFA
@@noella-2014 I'm 25, my partner is 14, what's the problem? :D
More than one dick in one woman = trash, waste, worthless.
1:01 I wanna clarify that littles in AGE REGRESSION and littles in AGE PLAY are vastly different as one is for COPING and the other is for sexual intent
They unfortunately most likely used the term "regressor" to hide the fact they actually mean age play, which sucks because people already confuse the two enough :(
wish this couldv been pinned, thank u🙏🏾
@@slendermmnsame
exactly , i was looking for a comment that points this out , ily for syaing this 🙏🙏🙏🙏
both are weird
I was about to write a comment like this until I saw yours. Thanks for spreading the correct information! ^_^
Minor dating problem:😃''Minor'' dating problem:💀
I don't even like skull emoji but it was most suitable out of all..
SKUUULLL EEEEMOOJIIII
my honest realisation was that bro 💀 "minor" 😭
@@cauazion1551Matt Rose
Go back to youtube shorts.
This isn't a discord problem, it's a generational curse
The cycle of abuse repeats
1:06 Age reggresion isn't a k1nk/the same as age play. Age reggresion is a coping mechanism (mainly for people with childhood trauma), where someone regresses to a younger age. It not remotely sexual based, unlike age play.
Someone already addressed the issue
@@angel_animefriends7320The more people who address it the better, what pops up on one user’s device is not guaranteed to pop up on another’s
they're not pinned so people will just continue to explain it until everyone knows. @@angel_animefriends7320
I would like to point out, not all age play is sexual as well, some people use it like age reg as a way to just escape life for a while in a "simpler" state, and those who do sexualize age play, I dont know that's not my kink. I know OF people who do but I dont talk to them.
I knew a girl who regressed who I was with for a few months. She was legit, a bunch of bad trauma from teenhood...
I agree - anyone who feels sexual or kinky about it are either faking it or are wanting it for the WRONG reasons. I never even got the intrusive thoughts when she was like that, how could I she was in such a vulnerable state the only instinct in my head was to keep her safe and happy.
As a minor that utilizes discord, the messages you get are actually pretty scary ngl
Why are you using it?
@@S3alTheTrooper discord is 13+ and is primarily used by gamers..?? ofc minors are going to be on there
@@zhuzhi-lang but if ur scared dont use it common sense
i dunno how tf i put up w using dc when i was like 11-13 cuz wtf....
i fucking hate it, im now a normal person that touches grass and im 15
@@Rico_Solos tbh i think the og commenter is over exaggerating cuz ive been using discord since i was not actually old enough to be on there (im 16 now), and you really only get creepy comments if u join servers like the one in this video..
If i had never randomly found your channel, i would had continued my life thinking discord is just a better skype to talk with your friends, and occasionally join some servers that contain arts and memes. Discord was so innocent in my eyes up until a couple months ago lol.
I knew from day one it was unhinged. You can just get away with shit on a small scale way to easy. Just goes to show how our bubbles can really make us blind to our surroundings
eh,honestly if you just make a server by yourslef and put your friends on there or just do vc then it's fine,
as long as you don't join weird ass servers
4:42 is no one gonna comment on the "extra"??? HELP?? as a minor you dint need to be saying that and exposing yourself to predators holy 😭😭😭
""Minor" dating" A.K.A.: most of the time one person is a predator and the other person may be either an actual minor or is trying to catch a predator
You forgot option C: An another predator (if we consider both sides claim to be a minor)
I've been with multiple discord when I was a minor through discord, and all of em were minors as well
If you're a little bit aware of these problems and know how to check that the person is really who they pretend they are, then it's fine
>never been on disc
@@NotmayonezYou missed option D: Both of them are trying to catch predators
@@gwepo Oh right, my bad
whats wrong with liking miners? they do a lot of hard work and we wouldnt have any coal without them
Exactly. Justice for miners!
The children yearn for the mines.
Justice for racists too, my favourite racist is fernando alonso, he races in formula 1
Thats exactly why! They support carbon emissions 😠
@@Alguien644I would say the one about rappers but UA-cam won’t allow me to lol
9:34 that photo is of a little girl that’s famous on TikTok, because her mom posts a lot of suggestive stuff of her. It’s pretty sad.
Edited the name out, shouldn’t have put it there, my bad.
Yikes. The context somehow makes this even worse!
I would probably not mention the name of the kid and or TikTok page to avoid bringing more attention to the page, since there can be weirdos on UA-cam as well. Good message to raise awareness though, absolutely deplorable behavior from the mother.
i would not spill the name, edit that out
@@tacodyr youre right, i deleted it
@@Servalsno1fan youre right, i deleted it
If you send a picture to someone, the whole internet gets it. Think before you do something that could possibly maybe even ruin your life.
Discord treats underage dating as just a very minor issue
its because they want to normalize the behavior because discord staff and administration are corrupted with the same perverted degenerate filth that they allow to run rampant in servers
Ok, but here's a question what's the issue with two minors dating? Are they supposed to be lonely, and have zero experience with dating until they're an adult?
@@infinitehexingtonthat’s not the point bro
@@infinitehexington its the fact that pedophiles can easily disguise themselves as minors online, as there isnt any phyiscal proof, and you know what happens from there on
honestly tho, i have no issues with a couple being 17-18 or 17-19 or something close to that, but when that shit turns into a 15 year old and an adult e-dating, it becomes messed up
@@PlayNudgeminors can also disguise themselves as grown
a MINOR issue
@MrBass-p5i👍
@@AUTTP_PERSON-r6qalready?
@@AUTTP_PERSON-r6qWowie
The amount of bots here is crazy
@MrBass-p5i shut up bot
Whenever i feel bad about myself, i just tell myself "atleast im not an edater" and i instantly perk up
Exactly! Thats why I have an AI gf instead!
@@beejayxl9018 💀
@@beejayxl9018 still edating though...
@@beejayxl9018 sir i can smell you throug h the screen
@@TheoSur Okay so I came back to this comment. You know one of those comments that change my whole life? Well this is it. Thanks to you, I touched grass and I've got a cute GF now who is neither imaginary not AI. (She's 5'10", one inch shorter than me and has green eyes help)
This video was very much needed.
My heart goes to these kids which might have a hard time in life afterwards. I can only hope they don't meet big creeps, I just hope they have people around them. I just hope they can find a place to be safe. Being on discord as a minor isn't an issue in itself but it HAS to be monitored. And these stupid servers all need to be taken down asap. It"s terrifying to me.
I'm going to share a bit of my story here, but it's pretty long, and pretty sad.
It's been years actually. I got my first discord account at 12years old, in 2017. I used to talk to my cousin on skype, playing minecraft, but she moved to discord, so did I. My parents barely ever monitored my internet access, whom I was talking to, what I was doing.
Few months gone by and I started understanding how discord worked, servers.
I joined an anime community discord server, yeah it's a little different then what's talked about in the video, but the result was the same. I chatted a bit with some people. I ended up making friends with a 20years old. I wouldn't see an issue then, it was just friendly chatting. And then I ended up "dating" him. I was 13 years old at the time. Still, I wouldn't see an issue. I met up with him, at an anime con, I don't know if it was instinct, but I felt something was strange. I knew I wasn't supposed to be here, furthermore, I knew I was in danger. I ran as fast as my little legs could, hid, and called my dad whom picked me up only a few minutes later. I never explained my parents what happened, who I was with, but that surely traumatised me. I won't go into details onto what he's done to me prior to that, but it's ugly to think of.
Maybe it was my fault for being on discord at such a young age.
Or being careless as to talking to strangers.
I mean, it wasn't exactly the server's fault, it didn't advocate for dating nor minors dating. But no one saw an issue in general chat seeing a 13years old befriending a 20years old. No one saw an issue seeing them "dating" (I can't not put this in quotation marks, It hurts too bad to refer to this as anything else but grooming, but that's what I thought it was back then.) And even if they did, they didn't say shit. No one said anything to me, no one warned me, no one told me to stop. And it goes the same to him, as far as I know. I hadn't seen anyone telling him he's a creep, a pedo.
If anything, I probably wouldn't have listened if anyone had tried to warn me, I was a stupid little girl. But I'm pretty sure the grown ass men on the server could've given that guy a good beating. Especially since there were some of his own IRL friends there. But no, none of his friends said a word. None of the admins warned anyone, no one in this server EVER did anything even though we were both openly "together", and talking a bunch. I'm sure people thought it was weird but why had no one questioned it directly. Why had no one dmed me, or him. Why.
I never pursued any charges, and I regret it cause I know he's done that to other minors afterwards, one of my friends actually, and two girls whom I don't know. Maybe even more to this day. These girls got it worse than I did, but it's not my place to talk about it. I wish I had told my dad everything and we'd pursued charges. I've felt guilt eversince, thinking If I did something and he got locked up, maybe I would've saved other girls.
@@Niepokonany0it is absolutely insane for you to comment that under my post and incredibly disrespectful, considering i was talking about my own traumatic experience of being groomed by an older man on a discord server. but i guess some people have absolutely no ounce of respect. if you met your significant other, good for you, but these discord servers that advocate minors dating are absolutely frightening. theres no age verification and you can talk to absolutely anyone. discord is not a dating app, there are some that require age verification, tinder, hinge. these apps are way more safe then discord for that, even though no app is perfect and you’re never sure as to who you are talking to, of course.
OMG THE YAPPING
@@Red_hoodeditz Someone was talking about their trauma and you just comment "omg the yapping"
Your account is either ragebait or you're too young to be here
Im so sorry to hear that,i also had similar experiences
All these creeps are a big problem and i hate it when people are taking grooming experiences not seriously
@@cats_x did I ask????
regarding the "little" thing: while it is kink for some people (which is obviously gross) thats not actual age regression, its age play. age regression is entirely innocent. its when someone reverts back to a childlike state to cope with trauma and it is caused by trauma, it is most common to regress to the age that the most trauma occurred and for most it can be either voluntary or involuntary.
I was waiting for this comment, I really hope this gets more recognition.
commenting just to make it more popular
^ this
THANK U 🙏BOOOSTT
i was waiting for this replt
1:15 side note abt the "littles" discussion too, them saying "age-regressed" could also tie into age regression in general which is a thing traumatized people do for comfort - regressing mentally back to a younger age. it's not something sexual or kink related, however, i'm sure in that server it was referring to the fetish like ntts concluded!
just pointing that out in case someone sees someone else on the internet and they talk about age regression. not always sexual, but watch out jic
You don’t neeed trauma to age regress
@@almondthefurret6818 well most ppl i know who age regress are, so wasnt sure if it was just ND ppl or not :0 kinda like a more often than not thing. but as always neurodivergent/traumatized ppl =/= age regressers, and vice versa
weird either way
🥱don’t care your fetish is weird and gross
Wtf is this normalization o the weirdest sht ever "regression" go to therapy take your meds Jesus christ
1:00 this isn't just referring to age play as a kink I think. Some people genuinely age regress as a trauma response and coping mechanism, there's other reasons but I think that's one of the biggest things we have to think about
either way it's horrible as a kink or coping mechanism
@@dangerous_tumor3according to who? Therapists recommend it stop getting your info fresh out of your @nal glands
@@dangerous_tumor3As a coping method it’s not. Therapists recommend it.
@@dangerous_tumor3those who regress as a coping mechanism often don't do it voluntarily. there are plenty of resources to learn about this with plenty of actual psychological studies.
@@squish_39Except most people aren't doing this as a response or recommendation from therapy. They've just normalized a fetish so they can identify as a child in public with others as an identity. I have no problem with it personally, but I do dislike people not being honest about their intentions behind the practice. I've met these people behind closed doors and have heard the quiet part out loud plenty of times.
SO UPDATE FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO DONT KNOW: they made a backup server after "fixing" all the issues in their server- like intros and so on ONLY TO MAKE ANOTHER ONE WITH THE SAME ISSUES. guys seriously be careful online- the mods DO NOT CARE and are horrible horrible people.
who?
1:21 is said regression so that’s a coping mechanism. It’s literally going to the mindset of a child. Age play littles are the sexual ones. Both use the term little tho. But this one I assume is in relation to DID and age regression instead of ageplay
Hopefully, because if not the server got their vocab wrong
I just want to point out that, littles are NOT people pretending to be children, that would be ageplayers. and for them, it's a thing between consenting adults, not done of the purpose of trying to pretend to be a child so you can talk to another child. littles are agre regressors. they are poeple with a mental condition due to trauma that they have no control over. and for age players, it's usually a kink done among adults, the same way pet play is.
This difference is one of the most important things to note. The regressed individual is actually mentally at the capacity of a younger age, while the age player is still in a fully right mindset and can function as an adult.
Spider-Man pointing at Spider-Man .gif and Pam from The Office “They’re the same thing”.gif It’s all degenerate nonsense for would be pedos.
no not really. i dated someone in gr 10 while i was in gr 8
It is actually really messed up how badly discord (among most platforms probs) deals with these types of issues. only as I am now getting older I am realising how totally messed up it is - Coming from someone with unrestricted internet/social media access since basically forever - I totally regret having been on discord since 11, it genuinely sucks to think about everything that i have witnessed and learnt etc etc. Wish I could go back to my younger self and say this fr.
on a side note, it is also scary how so much of this seriously unhealthy stuff was "normal" for me, totally yoinked my perspective on many things like grooming and generally predatory/depraved stuff. Would not wish this upon my worst enemy, this stuffs just awful. If I was a parent and came to know about this, i think it would totally shatter me. stay safe people!!!
If you were 11 when discord came out you're too young to have an informed opinion little bro. You don't even know what the internet was like pre social media.
@@Sammysapphira Dawg if you were 11 in 2015 you'd be 20 today. wtf are you talking about.
@@Sammysapphira keep yapping, i stand by my words. just because I am not 30 years old right now does NOT mean that i am uninformed on the subject.
My daughter uses discord, and she is 13. In fact, I was the one that introduced her to it so it was easier to ping eachother at distance or to pass information back and forward like images or code (because we both write code).
I shed no detail in describing to her internet predators and the freaks she will run into online or what their intentions are. We don't really have problems with people online, and when we do, they get blocked.
It's very simple. Use discord responsibly and don't go to places where you will be subjected to content or people you don't want to see.
@@vividvault9285 the issue with saying "just use Discord responsibly" is that most parents do not monitor what their kids do online and never taught them how to behave, how to detect predators and how to deal with them.
9:35 holy that's the little kid who's "popular" on tiktok bc ppl speculate that her mom takes advantage of her. It's a whole rabbit hole and it's so sad...
1:00
Oh actually, Littles, as I know is referring to people who age-regress, specifically when they are age regressing, or if there is a small kid alter, sometimes also referred to as littles but that's a little different and not what I think it’s referring to.
Age regression I believe is a coping mechanism, it lets you think or act like a child with child behaviors, going into a child-like mindset, and from what I know it lets you not think about stressful complex ideas, and it is possible to do on purpose or is done subconsciously.
Age play is completely different from that, roleplay with consenting adults, doesn't need to be sexual but I think is sexual, and I think the two shouldn't be grouped together at all
Thanks for if you read all this, I just wanted to kinda educate a bit, I suggest looking into it more if you want to know more, I don't know everything about age reggression so there is probably some things I didn't talk about or say right.
-yappatron 505
This is very well put! Thankfully there’s a good handful of explanations here too
Thank you for saying this! I just made a comment in the same vein because I hate when terms get messed up,like that it’s just, Ew.
im both proud and not proud of this, but i used to raid servers that had to do with underage dating. we should bring that stuff back, these servers are predatory
Maybe instead of raiding, you can try and convince victims to leave it
But what you did was really good. Thank you man.
@@xxlink_novaxx4611 You can't really easily convince victims that they are victims unless you know them personally
@@xxlink_novaxx4611 Treat the cause, not the symptom
@@xxlink_novaxx4611 The problem is that groomed kids don't see themselves as victims until therapy.
1:15 Take everything i say with the grain of salt but usually "littles" and "age regression" are a coping mechanism to childhood trauma, usually people who cope this way when they feel safe they act and feel like a very young child, these people are 100% aware of their physical and mental age its just their way of coping with trauma. People who had to "mature too fast" often experience this when around older people and role models who make them feel safe.
Anyways yes tho, some people do have a kink for this, and some other people took this coping mechanism to extreme where they wear pacifiers and diapers.
regarding the whole "edating" thing, something hilarious is that my parents met online and lived across the world from each other, theyve been married for like 20 years at this point and have been together for longer. yes, it is very nice to actually meet someone irl and get to actually see them and spend time with them, but online dating is also cool (just be careful out there guys)
tryna strike a cord and its prolly a minoorrrrrrrrrr
@@realmanfrfr you literally just did what the AUTTP told you NOT to do
chord*
@@CKAandC it's a play on "discord"
@@ChubbyChicken645can't resist 😔
Get out of my head Get out of my head Get out of my head Get out of my head Get out of my head Get out of my head Get out of my head
guys he just kissed 70k ppl without consent at 12:15 he should go to jail!11
141k* !!!
195k* !!!1!1!1!!
162K* !!!!1!!1!!!1!!!!!!!!1
I just called 911
@@isaacphilpott621LOL ITS NOT THAT WE ARE SERIOUS😂😂
Writing this without judgement, the "Little" thing is more like someone feeling to be a younger age and doing such activities, while the counterpart would be a caregiver, who is often but not always older/significantly older. So not really about someone pretending to be a teen to write with teens
It's still always a sexually thing, my dude.
@@CeliMe007it’s not. Age regression is a coping mechanism, age play is sexual and pedophilia.
Ty for info
@@CeliMe007 not necessarily. The term is also used for DID alters that are minors and for age regression used for coping with trauma (so not sexual at all)
@@CeliMe007No it’s not.
The bwc and the the doc edit had me absolutely dying LMAO. Thank you so much for that
The rule on “littles” isn’t that bad, it specifically is about people who age regress in a way that is usually a trauma response. I have DID and so a lot of communities I’m in have people that age regress or have littles as alters and it’s not pedo shit. Pedo shit is when an adult lies about being younger whereas age regressors are usually super up front as to make sure they don’t do pedo shit
THIS!!
+1
yup this exactly.
_Pedo shit is when an adult lies about being younger_
No. It isn't... (GOD I'm wanna scream my lungs out)
Because that implies that an adult dating a minor that KNOWS it's an adult it's not p*dophilic.
But wait. It gets WORSE
_whereas age regressors are usually super up front as to make sure they don’t do pedo shit_
Because an adult that's been through a traumatic episode that made them regress in age can totally date a minor...
Without even questioning if that trauma actually even happened in the first place.
I dont believe that ddlg as a kink is gross, as long as actual minors arent involved, but yeah ddlg and agere are different. (This is a copy and paste reply)
"Let teens express themselves freely" OH their expressing SOMETHING all right
Do you understand that teens are already doing that in real life
and they've done this since like always
This generation tries so hard to normalize these things and it's sad. You're opening up these unsafe space for minors to be groomed, traumatized, exploited, you name it. And if grown adults don't see the issue with that, then I think those people need background checks. Thank you for making these types of videos to spread awareness.
I’ll never forget a server I saw that had the “nudes” “dating” and “minor” tags. I can’t remember exactly what they all were but that’s the gist. I was shocked to see it
Discord's Moderation is just retired Roblox Admins
I would like to mention that littles can also be a thing within systems or used as a coping mechanism for people with traumatic pasts or childhoods.
Age regression itself is different from the kink age play even, “what is age regression” would’ve been the better search term to use
99% of the time its mr epstein tryna rp as a cupcake
You can also see a therapist rather than enabling pedophiles surely
I need to make a correction, its all the
nah man
Little isn't always a kink thing. It's also a recognized coping mechanism for those who have experienced trauma at a young age. Regressions can look like going non verbal, child like speech patterns, and or partaking in childlike activities such as coloring in coloring books, watching childhood shows/cartons, ect.
thats what im saying and someone said "no you dont age regress" LIKE DO YOU FUCKING KNOW ME? NO BITCH SO STOP THINKING IM DEFENDING PREDATORS
CARTOONS ARENT AGE REGRES
@@WhatIsTheHeat stop being ignorant they said those are signs others are age regressing
@@WhatIsTheHeat YEs. Not what I was saying. I'm defining what LITTLES are. Further some reddit degenerate.
what the flip chat
Met my fiance on vrchat and discord we now live together and are happily engaged. Love the video !!!
UA-cam is now "Whose the groomer of the month"
Discord is now "Whose the Groomer of the day?"
@@orynx2835Nah who is the groomer of the minute?
@@likeadino8580 Who is the groomer of the second?
Here’s another issue
My account being 1 more strike away from being suspended for “Self Harm” because some one spam reported me and admitted it to me in a vc. Guess what Discord is doing with my appeals? “Oh sorry you violated the guidelines. Womp womp loser”
Post edit (it was actually “Child Self-Endangerment” not “Self harm”)
"so you hurt yourself due to circumstances? oh lemme just make the circumstances slightly worse"
- discord
@@BagelBagelBagelBa Actually it was Child Self Endangerment. This dude called “Mars” I will not put their full account name in, had reported me for the worst thing because I made fun of their Wattpad book. (Also sorry for the mislead. I was actually “Child Self Endangerment” not “Self harm”)
Theres strikes in discord now?? Dang im glad I dont have any
@@dhepo2 Cause you didn’t make fun of some one that can’t take shit when they’re petty enough to make you take shit from them, and they only get to make fun of you and not them
@@deceptionmyguy8305 ah, it's fine
that "little" thing is actually age regression in general, which Can be safe for work and is also a coping mechanism for people. oftentimes there will be rules in place in communities where age regressors (people who mentally regress to younger ages) might flock to basically saying, this is our minimum age, do not chat here if you are regressed below this age (because no one wants to moderate someone who's mentally 10).
all in all i think that rule was related to regression in general, NOT specifically ageplay
bumping dis
@@reaver5196 THANK YOU!! thank god I'm not the only one talking about this! the distinction between age regression and age play are so important!!
Age regression??? This ain’t no fountain of youth
@@mr_pigman1013It's a trauma response where one involuntarily acts child-like depending on some stimuli (hence regressing)
@@megabytesofrem that shit is so weird and unnecessary.. i don't see how anyone could seriously think that's acceptable
Lovecafe HAS gotten better since then, with intros only being for who are with the legal role, and any minors found in intros will get temp muted, and role changed.
- your favorite lovecafe mod
the situation is CRAZY
2:51 bro the top message💀💀
its funny lol
@@Treybey13 Master Oogway?
Bro the fact that I sometimes think that discord is a dating app now-
ur 9
fr-
who knows if you really need a basement in your house-
@@Debt00how do you know???🤨
@@Debt00 bro can detect little kids
When I was 14-16 I was active in a dating server called "Cherry Blossom". My job was to conduct investigations into any potential adults. I was extremely lonely and I was happy to be with the server's regulars. I got to meet a lot of people such as myself who were also in the lowest parts of the social hierarchy and it let me know how broken people think.
I have no regrets about this period of my life besides the few times I had to see the absolute lowest of society. I highly recommend against engaging in communities like these as a teen. Even though it felt good to have a pdf file taken care of, as the one who sent the report to the authorities and investigated for myself, I am disgusted by what I had to see.
7:20 “I dont do NON-serious fwb” bro that still means they’re okay with serious fwb..😭
damn a lot of people are disrespecting the age of consent
@MrBass-p5i🤓
@@realmanfrfr 🤓
I think we all have when we were teens. I mean think about it, all you have to do is click a button. Also a lot of those minors could be adult males.
*Dr disrespecting the age of consent
@@KylieRos3 Sounds like a you thing
2:38 beautiful image
Yes
I agree
I agree
The number one rule in the Internet is to NEVER reveal your age if you're under 18!
the problem isn't minors dating other minors its them thinking it's a good idea to online date in the first place
If Not the Servers like that then i would be lonely.
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Just want to say that there is another definition to "Littles" I have heard of. It's not necessarily under the person's control because it can be related to D,I.D (Dissociative Identity Disorder) which is a disorder formed from severe trauma at a young age, which can cause the mind to have multiple personalities. In short, a "Little" can also fall into the same definition category because their mind can think they are a child. It's very complicated. Still weird it was even brought up in their server rules though.
I have 0 idea if they are referring to the definition you said or the D.I.D definition.
5:15 "rate off the bat" nice
Age regression and age play are two seperate things. Age regressors regress to actual child mindsets. Ageplay is a k!nk that plays on being intimate with children.
Which is gross.
Age regression is a coping mechanism and is a trauma response.
What? Just google "ageplay" lol
oooof
@@givikap120 or, take the word of someone who age regresses.
Age regression is not a kink. It is a coping mechanism and a way to relieve stress.
Ageplay is a kink. It is used for sexual reasons.
I've been in the age regression community for years. I know what I'm talking about
@@Ocorydon-WCO I feel like the explaination of agereg is not what they're complaining about. if that was the case they'd tell you to google that rather then ageplay.
they're probably complaining about ageplay being equated to being into actual kids, which... i'm not nearly deep enough into kink, or pedo, related stuff to make a judgement on myself.
4:46 what is that extra bro
I was just gonna say that
💀💀💀
like wtf..?
bad year to be an influencer, horrible year to be a minor 😭
(amazing year to be commentary youtuber)
Yeah nice to be a commentary youtuber until someone makes something up about you and it's now up to you to disprove it, rather than them proving you even did anything.
Okay just one point you made: Littles isnt actually the term people commonly use for the kink, but little is more commonly used for the coping mechanism used by some people who age regress, where they regress mentally as a form of comfort and to feel safe. I really wish people would use the terms for the later instead since it's the more important one imo and something I think more people should be aware of
+1
👏This! Say it louder for the people in the back!
I understand the term little is used for age regressors often.
but isn't the bdsm subfetish literally called CGL "caregiver/little"? (or more commonly known as DDLG, but that's assuming gender roles)
so the submissive role in this play is known as little too, right? i can't be that confused surely?
@younev3rkn0w you sound just as confused as me, gotta be honest
This has unfortunately been happening since forever :( as a lonely autistic person with compulsive issues I got involved in things somewhat similar to this mentally ill degeneracy on twitter 4 years ago during Covid. Thankfully I got out somewhat quickly.
Thank you for publicising this absolute disgraceful situation. Mental illness and severe inaccessibility of therapy is THE biggest problem among young people since the 2010’s
littles actually isn't age play :| sadly, they get convoluted, Littles are people with trauma who age-regress because of said trauma, and typically, it's nonsexual. But there are perverts in every single community so littles aren't protected like they should be. littles are typically something that happens to someone with severe mental health disorders
either way being a little is weird asf. terrible as a kink and just as bad as a coping mechanism.
@@dangerous_tumor3 well not every little has a choice unfortunately
One of my friends got hit by a truck before and the brain damage from it left them in a permanent state of regression
@@dangerous_tumor3 A lot of people with it, have no choice but to use it. It's severe trauma, AKA sexual torture before the age of 5. I have age regression when things get too fucked up for me - and I have no choice over it. I was tortured as a child. It's something that happens due to extreme trauma. Littles = / = Age play. Age players are fetishists. Littles is something people can't help but drop into. You're lucky not to know what it's like to be tortured as an infant.
@@GamerKittyEuphoriceven the word little is weird asf
Just say you sometimes get stuck in the age you got brutally quickscoped by a schlong
@@GamerKittyEuphorichope you’re doing better now
to add: "little" can also be used to refer to identities that are mentally younger in people with DID
ty also agere
A small correction regarding littles: the term can also be used in a SFW way to describe someone who mentally regresses to a younger age, and when they regress isn’t necessarily within their control. I knew someone who was a little and she said that when she regressed, she felt like her body was smaller than it actually was (e.g., once, when she was little, she drew us standing next to each other, and she drew herself as being much shorter than me, even though I was shorter than her irl). She would also talk and act more like a child, and it wasn’t within her control or used for kink purposes.
Age regresing, is NOT supposed to be for kink. It is for people who have trauma to be in a safe place where their mind can cope with everything.
Yeah I think it was just the search terms he used, I see a lot of other people saying this too which is a huge breath of relief ❤
It's still extremely werid.
@@wuppado no, no it's not. Age regression is due to the brain not being able to cope with the trauma and regressing to a point in time before the trauma. It is a trauma response and is NEVER sexualize.
"Age play" is the kink version. It is sexual and is weird when not kept private/in general
@@Cupid_thekittyTherapy would be a good start, instead of pretending you're 13
@@pocketpheonix9573 it is a type of therapy. They are not pretending. If you want to be mad about something, be mad about Age play.
Age play is the kink version used by people who haven't had trauma.
9:06 I figured it out. It means biological weapons convention
It actually means big white 🐓
It means "Big White Cock". don't be scared to say it. :-)
10:42 The fact that some adults think it’s ok if they’re over 13
As someone who was groomed as a very vulnerable child (being autistic as well as having very inactive parents) from the ages of 12-17 by adults in discord servers, this stuff is the reason I can't trust people online or even us social media like discord without feeling scared. I only realized 2 years ago that what was happening was grooming and disgusting, and the fact ik some of these people worked together to find a minor like me who didnt understand what was happening was evil and when they either got blocked or no longer had interest or got what they wanted I should say they would pawn of victims to each other It makes me feel horrible knowing if the parents of today dont take further action in their childs internet life, it going to happen and is happening rn. These predators have seriously gotten good at making everything seem normal and ok, and now, with AI getting as good as it gets, it's truly only gonna get worse if we dont make some kind of stand against this. I hope everyone who is and has been affected by this age of predators this is able to give themselves peace knowing that you were only a child and how would you have know better if no one was truly helping you.
1:11 i just wanna Quickly point something out. That reddit post is confusing age play and age regression. A little is someome whos mind regresses to that of a younge child mostly due to trauma as a way to cope its not a sex thing its completely sfw and has nothing to do with dating
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Good luck trying to find people who actually do that. Literally 95% of them are just epsteins
Yeah no literally 90% of the people that do this are doing it for reasons other than trauma
@@oiltycoonbillionaire please do your research you are thinking of age play. Little space and age play are too VRRY DIFFERENT things
Btw for many people age-regression is a non-sexual coping mechanism. I’ve known a couple people with severe childhood trauma who regressed so they could basically redo their childhood in a safer way
thank you for this comment
Littles also have 3 meanings btw one being age regression thats a trauma response and is involentery, DID alter and then theres age play
what concerns me even more is how comfortable these kids are to share things like their age, face and personal info to strangers online.
I mean discord had to be told by the US fed directly to crack down on CSAM (drawn) so this doesn't surprise me one bit.