Why does this channel only have 16k? This ridiculous! With all this great information you are providing for us. Those who are younger like me can only benefit from being informed of the changes. These older women who are so obsessed with fighting wrinkles (which is fine if that's your thing) should be watching you and sending viewers your way. Thank you so much for educating us. I don't comment often but I just don't understand it. xo
You are so kind, Marie. The sad truth is that menopause is THE most neglected topic in every aspect of human society: medicine, family life, the workplace, ... even among women themselves. There's so much denial that most women just don't want to hear or talk about it. It's my dream for young women to get this education long before they need it. It would change the world for everyone in many positive ways. Keep watching. And get every woman you know to join you. One day, we'll all have menopower. I applaud you for being so proactive.
@@MenopauseTaylor You are to humble but also very wise ~ You are unique and authentic in your approach and that's sets you apart from the rest...... for that I salute you as you do lead the way....well you have for me at any rate. Going to your website now. At last!
Thank you, once again Dr. Barbie! I’m surrounded by friends that believe the worst thing about menopause is the hot flashes. Because of your educating us, I know better now! It’s sobering stuff. I’m glad you’re a stickler for the facts, that’s just one reason you’re so beloved by us. I love you!
Thank you, Cindy Keep telling your girlfriends that they need this education. At some point, you'll say something that sticks. I know it's an uphill battle, but I'm determined to give women what they deserve.
Excellent as always! You are so ahead of our times. I wish every woman alive got your information. Your thorough attention to every detail is not only amazing, it is highly appreciated. Can't wait for your next video!
I love you, Charlotte. And I love the fact that you are getting this education. It's my dream for every woman to get this education. It would make the world a much better place for everyone. I'll continue doing everything I can to make that happen.
Dr. Taylor you are one of a kind. Until I embarked on watching all your videos on Menopause, I never realized how grossly uninformed or ill -informed the majority of women are. It saddens me that our medical systems, Drs., etc. are in that same category. Dr. Barbie keep sending your "God-send" light so more and more women can see the truth and make the right decision for themselves. Thank you for recognizing the vast problem in the first place, for researching and sorting through with your knowledge without bias and offering this wealth of information for free on UA-cam. You are the greatest!!! You do make it happen... every time a woman watches one of your videos! Much love and gratitude.
I'm getting teary reading this. Thank you so much for your kind words, Charlotte. Making a positive difference in the lives of women is my greatest joy.
@@Sharon-pb7so Well, it's because menopause is THE most neglected topic on Earth. And it's the most unpopular, too! I knew this when I decided to start this endeavor, and I know I do it for the rest of my life. Don't be a bit surprised if 90% of the people you speak to about it shun both you and the topic of menopause. That's one of the things I'm trying to change. Thank you so much for your sincere support.
What a kind comment. Thank you, Donna. I'll do my best to give you the education you need to get whatever you want for managing your menopause. No one will ever take care of you as well as you will take care of yourself.
I feel like I am repeating myself when I write...Great Tutorial! 😃😍 I feel smarter and smarter and wish my family and friends would listen to you. Seems they want to bury their head in the sand.
My menopause was sudden, in my early 30's... probably due to autoimmune issues, but no cause was ever found. It was horrible and has barely gotten better in the past 20 years. I am grateful for someone who understands that it is hard on women's bodies, especially the younger we lose estrogen and progesterone... especially if we already have other health issues.
PLEASE, PLEASE schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME. You absolutely HAVE to understand the implications of your premature menopause on the rest of your life. I do all consultations online.
I had ovarian cancer at 45 ,then went into surgical menopause , Had 6 rounds of chemo therapy. Then fell and broke my shoulder . I just tell myself even though I have gained weight , suffer insomnia, have major hot flashes , ache all over etc etc I am still alive and it could be worse !!!!! I really enjoy your videos x thank you x
You are correct. But my goal is to make things as great for you as they possibly can be. You are never out of options. With a complete education and tailoring to YOUR situation, you can turn your negative into positives. Schedule a one-on-one consultation if you want me to help you do that.
Sister I salute you, Bringing out the truth about this taboo subject. You are a visionary in your mission to help other woman! Me included! Cannot believe in the 21st century it is still no addressed until now, you are so unique and a good soul........ we are going to talk very soon. Bless you for being there for me and many others in our times of need............
As always a very informative video. Trivia: scientists have found four animals that enter into menopause: Orca, Narwhal, Beluga and the Short Finned Pilot Whale.
Yes: Killer Whales (Orca), Pilot Whales. But the only reason these whales have a menopause is because the non-reproductive females perform a role that contributes to survival of their species that the reproductive females cannot perform. In other words, their menopause has a purpose. There is no purpose of menopause in other animals.
Your channel is absolutely fabulous! I stumbled onto it and have been binge watching. My family dr (male) convinced me to take hormones and said some of the things you have been saying about preventing bone loss, heart disease etc but still nervous of taking it. I am happy with 2 pumps estrogel and 100 mg prometrium so far and feel so much more relaxed now that I’m doing the right thing. Still waking at night for no reason but everything else is better. I’m 56 years young :) thanks for all the great info 👍
Oh, you are so welcome! I'm thrilled that you're here and that you're learning what you need to know to make wise choices for yourself. Peace of mind is everything. When you make decisions based on fact rather than on fear, you'll always be better off in the long term. I respond to these comments daily. So, I'm here if you need me.
Awesome as always 😀. So makes informative sense and understanding. Wish so many of my friends would takes this time and listen to your explanation- people are in busy and hectic lives, but as woman this is such an important part of life X. I visited my gynecologist this week in Cape Town and she will make contact with yourself too! She delivered my daughter 15 yeArs ago and has such a passion for what she does! We need to make woman understand this complex and diverse topic of menopause- look forward to the next 🤗🤗🤗
You've been following these tutorials since the very beginning, Terri. And I just love knowing that they are helping you so much. Keep working on your girlfriends. Tell them you love them and want to save their lives.
I had a total hysterectomy in ‘13. I had the option of getting my ovaries out as well, but the surgeon didn’t recommend it since I’d have instant menopause. He said it’s turning the light switch off in one fell swoop vs. a dimmer switch. I didn’t realize there were long-term ramifications from that as well, like you explained here. I’m so glad I went the route of keeping my ovaries ! The thing that gave me pause was the fact that I’d undergone 2 rounds of fertility treatments earlier in my life that I was (still kind of am) concerned could give me ovarian cancer someday. The gynecologist/surgeon said there’s no factual basis for that fear. I hope that’s true. I had no success from the fertility treatments, but I didn’t suffer from primary infertility so I had 1 pregnancy/birth in my 20’s.
@@MenopauseTaylor No, you’re right. I think in the end he was correct to suggest keeping them in for the shorter-term benefits (and perhaps longer term as well based on things you’ve said about risks being severely amplified for disease should one get their ovaries removed as well), but I felt dismissed about the ovarian cancer concern. At this point, I guess we wait and see.
Dr.Barbie Taylor ❤❤❤ Words are not enough to express my appreciation for educating us on this very vital but less discussed topic of meno!!! This was soo informative & I really wish I had learnt about you & had heard this 3 years ago.... I underwent a TAH/BSO @ the age of 52... had huge fibroids & surgery was the only way out for me...so Surgical Meno.... After watching this video it all makes sense why when I had a fall in 2018 Sept.. the damage was great ( fractured both my distal radius & fibula in one go) 😭😭 101% sudden onset of menopause is much worse & you've just made me realise I need to see my Dr.real quick & get on to HRT 🌺
Hassina, Please, please, have a consultation with me BEFORE seeing any physician ... especially if you have not already watched every single video in order. I will arm you with all the information you need, help you weigh your benefits and risks, and school you in how to navigate the medical system in order to get what you want. There are more pitfalls than you can possibly imagine. And, if you go to your doctor before having a consultation, you could burn your bridges without even knowing it. You do not need any labs before having a consultation with me. All you need to do for scheduling is go to MenopauseTaylor.ME. So many women do what you are about to do and get the door slammed in their faces. There's no way you know how to navigate the system after watching just a few videos.
I think you're amazing! I am 39 and having a hysterectomy soon due to endo and damage from 2 retained placentas. your channel is the most educational on youtube. thank you for your time!
Robyn, If you can, please schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME BEFORE your surgery. I will make sure you know absolutely everything so that you have peace of mind. So often, doctors in clinical practice don't take the time to make sure you understand things clearly. I will. I love helping you, and I can help you tailor everything specifically to YOU in a consultation. Thank you for your kind comment.
I wish I found you and your channel 2 months ago. At age 44 I had a complete hysterectomy both overies taken, my apendix and my Omentume 💔 I had no idea what was happening to me. 7 weeks later I finally have my first Estrogen patch. I’m still not feeling any better. It’s only been 2 days tho. I have osteogenesis imperfecta so osteoporosis is a given with or without estrogen.
Thanks to you I got pre certified for a brand name drug that I was paying cash for and now insurance will pay for it. I do have a 4000 deductible which is ridiculous but at least they will pay for something! I don't want to get into details in public but it was one of your more recent videos about insurance and drug companies that helped me out! Thank you!
You look beautiful as usual! I love the colorful necklace and dress! I had an easy puberty except for terrible periods but as one doctor put it menopause has been a disaster for me! I cant imagine having it suddenly! Thank you for this video!
Thank you I have learned so much from you about this. because I have had a hysterectomy and cancer treatment and the hot flash and very bad night sweats
I am so glad you are a student here at "Menopause University"! Please don't hesitate to schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME if you ever want me to tailor everything specifically to YOU. I do them all online.
Please consider scheduling a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME if you want to fully understand your situation and know all your options for managing it. I will take the time to teach you everything you need to know. I do all consultations via video conferencing. So it doesn't matter where you live.
May 11, 2020 around 1230pm was eviction date. Aunt Flo was evicted and the surgeons removed her home.... Since my system crash was sudden, hot flashes, insomnia, and night sweats followed soon after......estrogel, two days ago, to the rescue.... It irritates me when two friends tell me to tough it out...uhm, no, it's not how you went through. My dang girly girl bits were ripped out under protest from dear Aunt Flo...
I would love a video on managing the menopausal symptoms and health concerns related to tamoxifen treatment. I’m having a hard time finding info that is helpful.
Stacy, Please, please, have a consultation with me. You HAVE to learn everything you need to know in order to manage the entire rest of your menopausal life. This is precisely the kind of thing for which I do one-on-one consultations. You definitely need one. No two women are alike, and addressing your situation requires tailoring all the facts specifically to YOU. I'm in the business of educating you about everything you need to know and do in order to get exactly what you want for managing your menopause your way. So, here's how a consultation works: 1) You would schedule a one-on-one consultation at my website, MenopauseTaylor.ME, choosing a time that is convenient for you. I do consultations on Skype, FaceTime. Facebook Messenger, What’s App, and the phone. 2) I would send you an email to confirm that you are scheduled for the stated time, and invite you to send me as much information about yourself as you please. You can make it brimming with details and tell me about your reproductive life, any gynecologic problems you've had, your symptoms of peri-menopause, and your symptoms of post-menopause. You can include all your fears, concerns, and goals for your menopause management. You may also send me any labs, mammogram results, bone density results, etc. that you would like me to include in designing your protocol. For instance, if you want to adhere to a certain category of management options (herbs or diet & lifestyle, or whatever), you should tell me that. I will give you a deadline for sending all materials, and will not accept anything after that date. 3) I'll get busy creating a document that gives you all the education you need to understand absolutely everything, points out the pros and cons of each option, and tailors it all to YOU, using the information you have provided. The document will be loooooong. Most are over 30 pages. 4) I will send you the document by email 72 hours before your consultation. You will benefit greatly by reading it in advance. Light bulbs will go off like crazy, and if you're like most women, you'll feel that you've already gotten your money's worth. 5) During your consultation, we will review the document and address any issues you want in order to fine tune everything and determine your best options. I'll tell you exactly how to find the right kind of professional, how to have the conversation in order to get what you want, and the nuances of things like guidelines and insurance. I leave nothing unaddressed. 6) You will go to a professional of your choosing in order to get the actual hormones or whatever you choose to use. 7) After the first consultation, I'll hold your hand (forever if you want me to). In other words, you'll be able to schedule mini-consultations (15-minute or 30-minute, in addition to full consultations) whenever you need to. I'll keep records of your situation. Most women schedule mini-consultation whenever they go to the doctor and don't understand what he or she said, or why. I translate. I make sense of everything. Most schedule mini-consultation whenever they have a new test and they want me to explain the results. And all schedule mini-consultation whenever their situation changes and they need to re-weigh and re-balance their options. The time you spend with me will make everything about working with any other professional so easy. And they will love the fact that you have an actual education rather than a bunch of misconceptions that you got from the Internet. If your initial hormone regimen is not right, you'll want to consult with me before going to your doctor. I can prepare you for what to expect and what to request. So, that's my role. And nobody else on earth does this kind of thing but me. So, I hope you schedule a consultation and let me hold your hand (figuratively). I hope to meet you soon! Menopause Taylor
I went into surgical menopause 2 month ago and have only had hot flashes. No other symptoms. Taking HRT eliminates the future risks of disease and having no womb there's less risks of taking HRT.
Exactly. If you do not have your uterus, it makes taking HRT really easy, You can take estrogen all by itself, without all the yucky side effects of progesterone. You really should start at video 1 and watch all videos in order. The number after each title tells you the order. You NEED this education ... NOW. And, if you watch them in order, I can assure you that you'll understand everything. I'm here to help you any time. If you need my personal help, just schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
Thank you for all of your informative information I was wondering I use bioidentical estrogen cream in the morning but I don't use it at the same time everyday is that okay?
If a woman is post menopausal, can these tutorials help her? My husband asks me why I watch your videos? He says, "You are already through all that" You don't need that anymore""" I thought that menopause symptoms stay with you throughout your life unless you get some treatment for them
This is precisely the kind of thing that warrants a consultation. The word "safe" depends entirely on YOUR personal situation. So assessing all your options and the safety of each one requires tailoring. That's what I do in consultations. You can schedule one at MenopauseTaylor.ME. And I do them all online.
Hi I had 1of my right ovaries with a growth removed and tied my tubes what are some side effects of that and menopause plus Everytime for my period I get alot of pain on right side lower abdomen
Well, neither can the women who experience it. You know, I knew the balloon was going to pop suddenly, and yet that was my actual reaction. my videographer loved it.
wow! your videos are so informative. you are helping women so much...thank you!!! i wish i had found your YT channel sooner. i'm buying your book. I had a hysterectomy (and ovaries taken too) and wish i had known everything you are teaching us....my decisions would have been different. btw...i found you from another YT channel...Hot and Flashy.
Welcome aboard, my dear. I like to call this "Menopause University." If you start at video 1 and watch them all in order, you will understand absolutely everything and be shocked at how much you didn't know. My channel is designed for watching the videos in a precise order, just like any educational endeavor. I respond to comments here on UA-cam daily, So I can help you. But I'll be able to tell if you aren't watching the videos in order. (I'm like your mom: I have eyes in the back of my head!) I'm just so thrilled that you're getting the education you deserve.
Great content! I experienced balloon popping (lol) menopause when I was 40. The women’s health initiative was alive and well, and all of my health care providers were running scared from hrt . Unfortunately for me, by the time I learned all I needed to know, from you, my estrogen window of opportunity had slammed shut! Will you be advising people like me on how to make up for the damage caused by being in uninformed? Or, is it truly too late?
It's never too late. My education is "Your Menopause Your Way." And there are a lot of different ways for you to accomplish your goals. However, I do not think you're going to get the information you need from these videos alone simply because it will take too long. You need to consider (1) Buying my book or (2) Getting the entire education via DVD or Webinars, or (3) Scheduling a one-one-one consultation. You need to know all the facts, all your options, and have it all tailored to your particular needs. And the sooner you do that, the better. I give you options in every category (Diet, Exercise, Lifestyle, Vitamins, Minerals, Botanicals, Herbs, Acupuncture, Hypnosis, Hormonal Medication, and Non-Hormonal Medications) for accomplishing your goals and tell you the limitations, pros, and cons of each. So, keep watching the videos, but do at least one of the other things I listed so that you don't have to wait for the videos. It will take about five years of videos to get the full eduction on UA-cam.
@@MenopauseTaylor I've watched all of your videos in order, and truly believe I know more than my gynecologist. Thanks, I'll be sure and choose one of the suggested options.
You probably DO know more than your gynecologist! Most gynecologists are not particularly fond of menopause. They prefer delivering babies and taking care of younger women. That's why I educate you directly. It's best if you can work with a menopause specialist. If you live in North America, you might have a menopause specialist near you. Here's how you can find one: Go to www.menopause.org (North American Menopause Society). Click on the tab "For Women." Click on the drop-down menu item "Find a Menopause Practitioner." Put in your zip code. All the menopause specialists near you will pop up. See what you can find.
Dr. Barbie can I go into menopause if I had a partial hysterectomy with the removal of the Fallopian tubes combine... but my ovaries stayed? It’s been exactly 1 month today since I had the removal of the uterus and my Fallopian tubes only... and 1 week ago I starting feeling hot burning sensation in my cheeks only, and I’m Worry. Can it be posible that my blood vessels that supply blood to the ovaries are still recovering? And that’s why I feel this symptoms?but once I heal those symptoms will despair? I made the decision to have my Fallopian tubes taking out after my gyn explain me about the risk of ovarian cancer because of the Fallopian tubes... there was nothing wrong with my Fallopian tubes! Now I’m regretting taking them out because I think that’s the reason I’m having this hot sensation feelings. Please Dr. Barbie let me know if that’s correct or the Fallopian tubes being removed have nothing to do with my symptom right now? thank you!
This is something that warrants a consultation. I can help you with all of this so that you understand everything, but no t in a comment box. Please schedule a consultation at MenopauseTaylor.ME. You deserve complete information.
After all this upheaval, does it level out? Do we end up in a more peaceful place not having to deal with periods and the ups and downs of PMS or PMDD. I know the process of menopause has a ton of symptoms but after it's over does it feel more peaceful without hormonal fluctuations.
You're dreaming. Think of it like this: If you lost all your thyroid hormone, you'd have about 20 symptoms that made you feel horrible. Over time, they'd get worse, or maybe even settle down some. But, underneath those visible symptoms, your organs would be undergoing severe damage that would eventually kill you. the very same thing is true for diabetes, in which you lose your insulin. In fact, this is the case with ALL deficiencies of a substance that your body produces to stay in optimal health. Why would loss of estrogen be any different? How in the world would your body just say, "Oh, no problem. I didn't need it anyway." This entire education is to make sure you understand that there is SOOOOOO much more to menopause than a few symptoms that are at their worst early on. It's really about all the organ damage that occurs in the absence of estrogen. Your heart, bones, and brain depend on estrogen heavily for their sustenance. without it, they start aging, and your risk of heart attack, osteoporosis and Alzheimer's skyrocket. Please don't minimize the importance of what's really happening. All the symptoms of menopause are your body's attempt to get your attention so that you'll do something to compensate for the loss of estrogen.
Every situation is different. This is the kind of thing I could address with you in a one-on-one consultation. It's critical that you know all the facts. And it's critical that you find a way to meet your goals. If you want a consultation, go to MenopauseTaylor.ME to schedule one. I do them on Skype, FaceTime, and Facebook Messenger. You can include all the things you want to cover when you fill out the form, and then send me any labs or tests you've had. That way, I can incorporate everything into the session. I'll create a personalized document addressing all your concerns, and send it to you at least one day before our session. That way, you'll have time to read it in advance. It's usually over 12 pages long. It sets you up to make great headway during the consultation. You'll understand everything and have all the options tailored specifically to YOU. You'll understand you very own balancing act in terms of all the benefits and risks of various options.
Dr Taylor, could you please address the issue of what chemotherapy drugs like tamoxifen and aromotase inhibitors do in the body. I am particularly interested in this because my mother is on tamoxifen and having severe side effects like muscle cramps, such that she nearly passes out. She has breast cancer, age 75, menopausal at age 50, no HRT ever. Do you stop producing oestrogen completely at menopause? If so, what does tamoxifen do? Can you also comment on SERMS versus HRT? Your help and kindness is ever so much appreciated.
Laura, These are things that I can address in a one-on-one consultation. I will not be making a video on this. It's too individualistic. Snd that's why it's well-suited for a consultation. You can schedule at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
I have one ovary the other ovary and tube were surgically removed. I’ve been battling heavy heavy periods, polyps, mood swings, fatigue, forgetfulness. I feel like I’m always having to advocate for myself but I’m not getting help.
Please, please schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME. You do not have to suffer like this. I will make sure you know all your options for feeling your best.
I had a hysterectomy 2 years ago and have felt terrible since until getting on estrogen bhrt. My body doesn't like progesterone. Causes swollen joints. Do you think 1 mg transdermal cream is enough? I'm 49. Can't find a doctor that will listen so I'm doing this alone by listening to my body.
My dear, nobody can tell you what's right for you without tailoring the information specifically to YOU. Women are not robots. No two women are alike. Schedule a consultation at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
Would you say that it is sudden if I from out of nowere at the age of 44 from one week to the next got hotflashes 5-10 times a day? Dry skin all of a sudden, that looks like I’m 70 😱 and it is still Going on like this (8 weeks and counting) Also my period stopped completely during this time And could you have sudden MP if you didn’t go through those 3 causes? For other reasons?
Menopause can be sudden if you suddenly stop having periods for any reason. It sounds to me like you would benefit greatly fro a consultation, which you can schedule at MenopauseTaylor.ME. I can really help you that way.
Do you think that replacing the ovaries will be enough to stave off the health problems that women get from losing their estrogen? I am under the impression that replacements are not available, yet. But, I wouldn’t put it past the enterprising medical engineers/scientists to find a way to do just that.
Well, replacing organs is quite a bit different from replacing the hormones they produce. For instance, if your thyroid stops producing thyroid hormone, you don't get a thyroid gland replacement. You just take thyroid hormone replacement. The same is true if your pancreas stops producing insulin. So, I think the best thing available for the foreseeable future is to take hormone replacement.
I had an ablation in my thirties and was period free. At 47 It was recommended I do a hysterectomy because I had an abnormal pap and they couldn’t get enough tissue to test. At 48 into 49 I had all the symptoms of menopause and had all kinds of tests to rule out serious disease It was again recommended I have a hysterectomy so saw an oncologist gynecologist who removed everything both Fallopian tubes, both ovaries and my uterus and cervix. Is that still considered surgical menopause? I know I was peri- menopausal before the surgery. I’m going to be 50 this year.
Yes. You were peri-menopausal before the surgery, which means you were still in the transition phase. Had you not had your ovaries removed, you would have remained in the transition phase, possibly for only a short time. But, your ovaries would have stopped working gradually. Your surgery caused instant post-menopause. Now, because you were 49 at the time, it doesn't change your situation much. It's not like you are prematurely menopausal" (video 134 coming up next week). But it is still sudden menopause.
At 35 I had total hysterectomy and my two major issues are weight gain and hot flashes... I'm thinking of doing a vsg surgery.. Does anyone know if I lost weight through vsg whether the hot flashes will go down?
No, they will not. Please, please schedule a consultation with me. I can tell by your question that you do not have the information you deserve to manage your situation. I can make it so much easier. All you have to do is schedule a consultation at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
I'm 23 and have an fsh level of 8. I have heard this is the high end of normal for my age. Does this mean my fertility clock is running out of time? Or enter peri-menopause soon?
No. It means nothing. First of all, any lab test involving drawing your blood (as is the case with FSH) is but a snapshot in time. In reality, your FSH is fluctuating all month long. So, don't extrapolate. You are fine.
I have a large cyst in my left ovary which needs to be removed. My dr highly recommends that I remove both ovaries and my uterus as my chances of having another cyst are high. I am 53 and still having periods, although erratically. My daughter also had ovarian cancer in her 20s. Do you have a video on what to do when your menopause is sudden?
Definitely schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME. I will teach you everything you need to know, explain the consequences of each option, and help you tailor everything specifically to YOU. there is no way I can give you what you ned and deserve in a comment box. All consultations are via video conferencing, so it doesn't matter where you live.
Any sudden menopause is not gradual. They are mutually exclusive. It sounds like you would benefit greatly from a consultation with me. You can schedule one at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
Thank you so very much!! Wonderful video !! What about only one ovary removed? It's not a menopause, but is there a difference in the severity of the long term diseases associated with menopause?
Well I haven't had a cycle since July now the night sweats, fatigue and depression is happening but I changed my way of eating 2yrs before pretty sure its helped me.
How does having just one ovary effect perimenopause? I've only had one my entire life. Also, is there a video where you describe the different symptoms that happen during latter stages of perimenopause?
If you've always had only one ovary, it does the job of two and has no effect on your menopause. I explained symptoms of menopause waaaaaaay back at the beginning of this series in video 11. My videos are designed for watching them in order, beginning with the very first one. If you do that, there is NO WAY you won't understand absolutely everything. If you jump around, you're shooting yourself in the foot (or the head). The number after each title tells you the order. If you do watch them in order, starting with the very first one, you'll be absolutely shocked at how little you knew. I respond to these comments here on UA-cam daily. So, I'm here to help you ... but I will know if you're not watching them in order. (I'm like your mom. I have eyes in the back of my head.)
I'm missing my first period. My last period last month was extra heavy and extra long 10 days. Im 4 days late for my period and just nothing. Before this I was always right on schedule. Im not sure if I'm just late due to a very stressful month last month (death of close family member), but I'm shocked if it just stops like that with not much symptoms before that.
It rarely stops that suddenly without surgery chemotherapy, or radiation therapy. However, stress CAN and does cause some to skip periods, sometimes for a long time. (The females who fought in Desert Storm stopped having their periods.) You have been through a traumatic experience. And that causes your body to say, "Hey, let's put the reproductive tract on hold." If it continues, or you wan to discuss it in detail, schedule a one-on-one consultation with me. I'll help you. If you want a consultation, go to MenopauseTaylor.ME to schedule one. I do them on Skype, FaceTime, and Facebook Messenger. You can include all the things you want to cover when you fill out the form, and then send me any labs or tests you've had. That way, I can incorporate everything into the session. I'll create a personalized document addressing all your concerns, and send it to you at least one day before our session. That way, you'll have time to read it in advance. It's usually over 12 pages long.
@@MenopauseTaylor Thank you so much doc. I will definitely look into doing that if my period doesn't come in a couple of weeks. I've had stressful situations before when I was much younger, where severe stress (that time death of my mom) caused be to spot in between my periods. Had biopsy of uterus 2 times and everything was negative and we all determined it was stress related. I contributed my heavy period last month due to stress because of what happened again. Anyways, thank you so much for the reply and I will get in touch with you through your website if things stay the same. P.s. I'm going to forward a link to your page to all my menopausal aged friends.
@@MenopauseTaylor I came back to thank you doc. I did get my period, 9 days late, but with a vengeance lol. You said it was likely stress related and it was. One thing about this perimenopause stuff is my periods have been extra heavy during this time, and I was wondering if you can direct me to one of your videos, or comment any type of natural sources of help for me to hopefully regulate them a bit? They are so heavy that it interferes with my life, literally for at least 3 sometimes 4 days. I shared your channel btw. Love you content and adore your loving and caring manner. Xo
I'm so glad your period finally started. The irregular and heavy period of peri-menopause are something I have not yet addressed specifically. I will eventually give you a whole unit on that. In the meantime, I can help you a lot, but it will have to be with a one-on-one consultation. It would be better for you that way even if those videos were out because no two situations are the same. I expect that this will not be the only period that is late or heavy. So you'd do best to have some options laid out for you.
I had my right ovary removed at 29 (due to a cyst), and now I have to have my left ovary removed at 42 (due to a cyst) so if I understand correctly I will go through sudden menopause..?? I have already been experiencing symptoms of peri menopause.
You will. Please, please have a consultation with me as soon as you can. When your remaining ovary is removed, you will experience "premature menopause," and it is critical that you know NOW all that it entails. I will make sure you know everything. I will teach you how to make your menopause the best part of your life. And if you can consult with me BEFORE your surgery, do so, I will teach you all about the surgical procedures, too. You can schedule at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
God has really been very unkind to women. He takes away our hormone in the middle of our life, while he let males to have their testosetrone through out their life span. Not fair,.!!!
Well there you have it! What that really means is one of two things: (1) They weren't allowed to acknowledge it or talk about it. OR (2) If they went through menopause between 1960 and the late 1990s, they were given HRT as the standard of care at the time. Women who became menopausal during this time typically remember something called "Premarin." And they all took it. Their doctors simply said, "Take this." And they did. Most didn't even know what they were taking. But, there very reason they're all living well into their 90s now is because they took it! Our generation will probably not do as well.
@@MenopauseTaylor Neither had either experience you've listed. Still loving all your info! I'm not in menopause yet, but I'm getting a headstart with all your amazing info.
You are very smart to do so. My dream is for al women to get this education BEFORE they need it ... and they will all need it eventually. It's as inevitable as puberty and death.
So for words that don't make sense, how would you rename "menopause"? It's not like the meno part will ever start up again! Who's idea was it to call it "pause"....
Ya well once again I NEVER EVER NEVER received this information 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 an makes the hammer I’ve been hitting myself with for past 3 years seams CRAZY 😡😡😡😡😡 I have argued an read weep an hunt for a doctor that is really informative. 😡 I know have been told I have Hashimoto an Have this odd hard to breathe an choking feeling take comes an goes 😡🙄🙄🙄🙄 The doctor I’m working with just wants to give antidepressants an 0.05 patch an pat on head An that’s it ...😡 I do patch but am so very afraid of the Antidepressant... I swear I would of never Ever had Alll taken I feel at times like I’m imploding 🥺
Daisy, Why don't you schedule a one-on-one consultation with me. I can tell that you've endured frustration that is unwarranted. I can help you get what you need. Please consider it. I really want to help you. If you want a consultation, go to MenopauseTaylor.ME to schedule one. I do them on Skype, FaceTime, and Facebook Messenger. You can include all the things you want to cover when you fill out the form, and then send me any labs or tests you've had. That way, I can incorporate everything into the session. I'll create a personalized document addressing all your concerns, and send it to you at least one day before our session. That way, you'll have time to read it in advance. It's usually over 12 pages long. it will set you up to make great headway during the session. You'll understand everything and have all the options tailored specifically to YOU.
How about number 4: autoimmune diseases? I went through a very sudden menopause recently that I discovered, after research, that this was due to a flare-up of Chrons disease. I have spoken to numerous women with IBD who went through the same thing because the inflammation destroyed their once plentiful egg reseaves Has illness, as a cause of sudden menopause, this not been proven yet which is why you didn't mention it?
This is only true for certain autoimmune diseases, and there are many for which it has no relevance at all. That's why I didn't include it. In these videos, I stick to general facts. For personal situations, I do one-on-one consultations.
It happens more often than anyone wants to imagine. I talked about it in video 10 on the phases of menopause. Usually, the woman thinks she's going through menopause and we have to tell her, "No, it's not the change of life called 'menopause.' But it's going to change your life, alright!" I've delivered 4 babies to some in their 50s. One has daughter that was pregnant at the same time, and they had their babies on the same day!
I feel bad about this, but ever since my “sudden “ menopause I can’t tolerate the shockingly high pitched, screamy voice or the sing song cadence….bitchy sensory sensitivity.
You should definitely schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME to address your sudden menopause. It will affect the entire rest of your life isn ways you can't imagine.
@@MenopauseTaylor I have a lot of support with my vast friend group of therapists, life coaches and healers. I’m a researcher who understands my body and medical contexts ….but thank you! What really irks me is how no medical professional has ever sat any of us down before the surgery to explain what was about to happen….no single woman in my support group of over 500 women was given this basic respect. We were all infantilized and gaslit by the people whose job it is to provide the basics of informed consent. So many women had their ovaries removed UNNECESSARILY….with zero recourse. I get estrogen and progesterone tomorrow, testosterone after those are right. I am taking the supplements and eating correctly, I will continue to take my Surmeno as my own responsibility to manage because my obgyn is literally a useless pathological narcissist.
@@inkystarz Just know that I am here if you need me. A consultation will enable me to tailor everything to your personal situation. Keep watching these videos in order to get the menopause education you deserve.
Why does this channel only have 16k? This ridiculous! With all this great information you are providing for us. Those who are younger like me can only benefit from being informed of the changes. These older women who are so obsessed with fighting wrinkles (which is fine if that's your thing) should be watching you and sending viewers your way. Thank you so much for educating us. I don't comment often but I just don't understand it. xo
You are so kind, Marie.
The sad truth is that menopause is THE most neglected topic in every aspect of human society: medicine, family life, the workplace, ... even among women themselves. There's so much denial that most women just don't want to hear or talk about it.
It's my dream for young women to get this education long before they need it. It would change the world for everyone in many positive ways. Keep watching. And get every woman you know to join you. One day, we'll all have menopower.
I applaud you for being so proactive.
@@MenopauseTaylor Bravo! It's my dream for this to happen and remember you were the leader in this!
The leader down's matter. Women's lives are what matter. I'll spend the rest of mine doing as much as I can to start the wave.
@@MenopauseTaylor You are to humble but also very wise ~ You are unique and authentic in your approach and that's sets you apart from the rest...... for that I salute you as you do lead the way....well you have for me at any rate. Going to your website now. At last!
I look forward to our time together, and I think it will be very productive. Thank you, Jo.
Thank you, once again Dr. Barbie! I’m surrounded by friends that believe the worst thing about menopause is the hot flashes. Because of your educating us, I know better now! It’s sobering stuff. I’m glad you’re a stickler for the facts, that’s just one reason you’re so beloved by us. I love you!
Thank you, Cindy Keep telling your girlfriends that they need this education. At some point, you'll say something that sticks. I know it's an uphill battle, but I'm determined to give women what they deserve.
Excellent as always! You are so ahead of our times. I wish every woman alive got your information. Your thorough attention to every detail is not only amazing, it is highly appreciated. Can't wait for your next video!
I love you, Charlotte. And I love the fact that you are getting this education. It's my dream for every woman to get this education. It would make the world a much better place for everyone. I'll continue doing everything I can to make that happen.
Dr. Taylor you are one of a kind. Until I embarked on watching all your videos on Menopause, I never realized how grossly uninformed or ill -informed the majority of women are. It saddens me that our medical systems, Drs., etc. are in that same category. Dr. Barbie keep sending your "God-send" light so more and more women can see the truth and make the right decision for themselves. Thank you for recognizing the vast problem in the first place, for researching and sorting through with your knowledge without bias and offering this wealth of information for free on UA-cam. You are the greatest!!! You do make it happen... every time a woman watches one of your videos! Much love and gratitude.
I'm getting teary reading this. Thank you so much for your kind words, Charlotte. Making a positive difference in the lives of women is my greatest joy.
@@MenopauseTaylor I'm wondering why you don't have 3 million subs. I'm putting the word out that they need YOU in their life.
@@Sharon-pb7so Well, it's because menopause is THE most neglected topic on Earth. And it's the most unpopular, too! I knew this when I decided to start this endeavor, and I know I do it for the rest of my life.
Don't be a bit surprised if 90% of the people you speak to about it shun both you and the topic of menopause. That's one of the things I'm trying to change.
Thank you so much for your sincere support.
Ur tutorials should be included in all medical schools....
What a kind comment. Thank you, Donna. I'll do my best to give you the education you need to get whatever you want for managing your menopause. No one will ever take care of you as well as you will take care of yourself.
I always look forward to your weekly videos. I consider the Menopause University part of my continuing education of life.
That's exactly how I see it! You really get what this is all about, my dear.
I feel like I am repeating myself when I write...Great Tutorial! 😃😍
I feel smarter and smarter and wish my family and friends would listen to you. Seems they want to bury their head in the sand.
Most people DO bury their heads in the sand ... about this and many other things. It's a very odd thing about human beings. I love that you're here.
I had to reply with a ❤️ because I love that YOU are here!
My menopause was sudden, in my early 30's... probably due to autoimmune issues, but no cause was ever found.
It was horrible and has barely gotten better in the past 20 years. I am grateful for someone who understands that it is hard on women's bodies, especially the younger we lose estrogen and progesterone... especially if we already have other health issues.
PLEASE, PLEASE schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME. You absolutely HAVE to understand the implications of your premature menopause on the rest of your life. I do all consultations online.
I had ovarian cancer at 45 ,then went into surgical menopause , Had 6 rounds of chemo therapy. Then fell and broke my shoulder . I just tell myself even though I have gained weight , suffer insomnia, have major hot flashes , ache all over etc etc I am still alive and it could be worse !!!!! I really enjoy your videos x thank you x
You are correct. But my goal is to make things as great for you as they possibly can be. You are never out of options. With a complete education and tailoring to YOUR situation, you can turn your negative into positives. Schedule a one-on-one consultation if you want me to help you do that.
Sister I salute you, Bringing out the truth about this taboo subject. You are a visionary in your mission to help other woman! Me included! Cannot believe in the 21st century it is still no addressed until now, you are so unique and a good soul........ we are going to talk very soon. Bless you for being there for me and many others in our times of need............
Surgical menopause sucked!
Wish I had this education when it happened 5-1/2 years ago. Would have helped me immensely.
You see. This is why I want all women to get this education in their 20s & 30s! Failing to prepare is preparing to fail.
I am in shock.
And grateful that I found you via hotandflashy. Thank you and settling in to learn from you. My best to you! -L
My dear Lynnette,
I hope it's a shock of helpful information.
If you watch my videos in order, you will just have light bulbs blinking like crazy.
As always a very informative video. Trivia: scientists have found four animals that enter into menopause: Orca, Narwhal, Beluga and the Short Finned Pilot Whale.
Yes: Killer Whales (Orca), Pilot Whales. But the only reason these whales have a menopause is because the non-reproductive females perform a role that contributes to survival of their species that the reproductive females cannot perform. In other words, their menopause has a purpose. There is no purpose of menopause in other animals.
What about ovary removal because of estrogen dominant cancer? That person wouldn’t want to do HRT, right?
I would love an answer to this question as well.
I just LOVE your videos. The information is so understandable. The graphics are always fantastic. Thank you so much!
You make me smile ... almost cry. It's such an honor to do what I can to help you. Just know, I'm always here for you.
Your channel is absolutely fabulous! I stumbled onto it and have been binge watching. My family dr (male) convinced me to take hormones and said some of the things you have been saying about preventing bone loss, heart disease etc but still nervous of taking it. I am happy with 2 pumps estrogel and 100 mg prometrium so far and feel so much more relaxed now that I’m doing the right thing. Still waking at night for no reason but everything else is better. I’m 56 years young :) thanks for all the great info 👍
Oh, you are so welcome! I'm thrilled that you're here and that you're learning what you need to know to make wise choices for yourself. Peace of mind is everything. When you make decisions based on fact rather than on fear, you'll always be better off in the long term.
I respond to these comments daily. So, I'm here if you need me.
Awesome as always 😀. So makes informative sense and understanding. Wish so many of my friends would takes this time and listen to your explanation- people are in busy and hectic lives, but as woman this is such an important part of life X. I visited my gynecologist this week in Cape Town and she will make contact with yourself too! She delivered my daughter 15 yeArs ago and has such a passion for what she does! We need to make woman understand this complex and diverse topic of menopause- look forward to the next 🤗🤗🤗
You've been following these tutorials since the very beginning, Terri. And I just love knowing that they are helping you so much. Keep working on your girlfriends. Tell them you love them and want to save their lives.
I had a total hysterectomy in ‘13. I had the option of getting my ovaries out as well, but the surgeon didn’t recommend it since I’d have instant menopause. He said it’s turning the light switch off in one fell swoop vs. a dimmer switch. I didn’t realize there were long-term ramifications from that as well, like you explained here. I’m so glad I went the route of keeping my ovaries ! The thing that gave me pause was the fact that I’d undergone 2 rounds of fertility treatments earlier in my life that I was (still kind of am) concerned could give me ovarian cancer someday. The gynecologist/surgeon said there’s no factual basis for that fear. I hope that’s true. I had no success from the fertility treatments, but I didn’t suffer from primary infertility so I had 1 pregnancy/birth in my 20’s.
There are pros and cons both ways. It does not sound like you got both sides of the story before your surgery.
@@MenopauseTaylor No, you’re right. I think in the end he was correct to suggest keeping them in for the shorter-term benefits (and perhaps longer term as well based on things you’ve said about risks being severely amplified for disease should one get their ovaries removed as well), but I felt dismissed about the ovarian cancer concern. At this point, I guess we wait and see.
@@jeanneritchie7863 This is true.
Dr.Barbie Taylor ❤❤❤ Words are not enough to express my appreciation for educating us on this very vital but less discussed topic of meno!!!
This was soo informative & I really wish I had learnt about you & had heard this 3 years ago.... I underwent a TAH/BSO @ the age of 52... had huge fibroids & surgery was the only way out for me...so Surgical Meno....
After watching this video it all makes sense why when I had a fall in 2018 Sept.. the damage was great ( fractured both my distal radius & fibula in one go) 😭😭
101% sudden onset of menopause is much worse & you've just made me realise I need to see my Dr.real quick & get on to HRT 🌺
Hassina,
Please, please, have a consultation with me BEFORE seeing any physician ... especially if you have not already watched every single video in order. I will arm you with all the information you need, help you weigh your benefits and risks, and school you in how to navigate the medical system in order to get what you want. There are more pitfalls than you can possibly imagine. And, if you go to your doctor before having a consultation, you could burn your bridges without even knowing it. You do not need any labs before having a consultation with me. All you need to do for scheduling is go to MenopauseTaylor.ME.
So many women do what you are about to do and get the door slammed in their faces. There's no way you know how to navigate the system after watching just a few videos.
I think you're amazing! I am 39 and having a hysterectomy soon due to endo and damage from 2 retained placentas. your channel is the most educational on youtube. thank you for your time!
Robyn,
If you can, please schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME BEFORE your surgery. I will make sure you know absolutely everything so that you have peace of mind. So often, doctors in clinical practice don't take the time to make sure you understand things clearly. I will.
I love helping you, and I can help you tailor everything specifically to YOU in a consultation.
Thank you for your kind comment.
I wish I found you and your channel 2 months ago.
At age 44 I had a complete hysterectomy both overies taken, my apendix and my Omentume 💔
I had no idea what was happening to me.
7 weeks later I finally have my first Estrogen patch.
I’m still not feeling any better. It’s only been 2 days tho.
I have osteogenesis imperfecta so osteoporosis is a given with or without estrogen.
Speechless is ur way of teaching ... n speechless is the knowledge u provide ....thanks a lot for helping us ...so selflessly n efficiently🙏
You are so kind. I love teaching you, and I hope these tutorials help you to make your menopause wonderful.
Thanks to you I got pre certified for a brand name drug that I was paying cash for and now insurance will pay for it. I do have a 4000 deductible which is ridiculous but at least they will pay for something! I don't want to get into details in public but it was one of your more recent videos about insurance and drug companies that helped me out! Thank you!
You look beautiful as usual! I love the colorful necklace and dress! I had an easy puberty except for terrible periods but as one doctor put it menopause has been a disaster for me! I cant imagine having it suddenly! Thank you for this video!
You see, learning this stuff lets you know that you're situation isn't as bad as some others.
@@MenopauseTaylor Yes thank you!
Thank you I have learned so much from you about this. because I have had a hysterectomy and cancer treatment and the hot flash and very bad night sweats
I am so glad you are a student here at "Menopause University"! Please don't hesitate to schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME if you ever want me to tailor everything specifically to YOU. I do them all online.
Wonderful content. I'm addicted to your videos.watch them.all day. Thank you v much doctor. Blessings.🙏
I am just so happy that you're here, getting the menopause education you deserve. Keep watching, my dear.
Thank you, I am now in surgical menopause and this video has been useful x
Please consider scheduling a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME if you want to fully understand your situation and know all your options for managing it. I will take the time to teach you everything you need to know.
I do all consultations via video conferencing. So it doesn't matter where you live.
May 11, 2020 around 1230pm was eviction date. Aunt Flo was evicted and the surgeons removed her home....
Since my system crash was sudden, hot flashes, insomnia, and night sweats followed soon after......estrogel, two days ago, to the rescue....
It irritates me when two friends tell me to tough it out...uhm, no, it's not how you went through. My dang girly girl bits were ripped out under protest from dear Aunt Flo...
I would love a video on managing the menopausal symptoms and health concerns related to tamoxifen treatment. I’m having a hard time finding info that is helpful.
At 37 they took my everything including ovaries! I'm looking forward to learning with you. My life feels like it's over a dIm only 43.
Stacy,
Please, please, have a consultation with me. You HAVE to learn everything you need to know in order to manage the entire rest of your menopausal life. This is precisely the kind of thing for which I do one-on-one consultations. You definitely need one. No two women are alike, and addressing your situation requires tailoring all the facts specifically to YOU.
I'm in the business of educating you about everything you need to know and do in order to get exactly what you want for managing your menopause your way. So, here's how a consultation works:
1) You would schedule a one-on-one consultation at my website, MenopauseTaylor.ME, choosing a time that is convenient for you. I do consultations on Skype, FaceTime. Facebook Messenger, What’s App, and the phone.
2) I would send you an email to confirm that you are scheduled for the stated time, and invite you to send me as much information about yourself as you please. You can make it brimming with details and tell me about your reproductive life, any gynecologic problems you've had, your symptoms of peri-menopause, and your symptoms of post-menopause. You can include all your fears, concerns, and goals for your menopause management. You may also send me any labs, mammogram results, bone density results, etc. that you would like me to include in designing your protocol. For instance, if you want to adhere to a certain category of management options (herbs or diet & lifestyle, or whatever), you should tell me that. I will give you a deadline for sending all materials, and will not accept anything after that date.
3) I'll get busy creating a document that gives you all the education you need to understand absolutely everything, points out the pros and cons of each option, and tailors it all to YOU, using the information you have provided. The document will be loooooong. Most are over 30 pages.
4) I will send you the document by email 72 hours before your consultation. You will benefit greatly by reading it in advance. Light bulbs will go off like crazy, and if you're like most women, you'll feel that you've already gotten your money's worth.
5) During your consultation, we will review the document and address any issues you want in order to fine tune everything and determine your best options. I'll tell you exactly how to find the right kind of professional, how to have the conversation in order to get what you want, and the nuances of things like guidelines and insurance. I leave nothing unaddressed.
6) You will go to a professional of your choosing in order to get the actual hormones or whatever you choose to use.
7) After the first consultation, I'll hold your hand (forever if you want me to). In other words, you'll be able to schedule mini-consultations (15-minute or 30-minute, in addition to full consultations) whenever you need to. I'll keep records of your situation. Most women schedule mini-consultation whenever they go to the doctor and don't understand what he or she said, or why. I translate. I make sense of everything. Most schedule mini-consultation whenever they have a new test and they want me to explain the results. And all schedule mini-consultation whenever their situation changes and they need to re-weigh and re-balance their options.
The time you spend with me will make everything about working with any other professional so easy. And they will love the fact that you have an actual education rather than a bunch of misconceptions that you got from the Internet. If your initial hormone regimen is not right, you'll want to consult with me before going to your doctor. I can prepare you for what to expect and what to request.
So, that's my role. And nobody else on earth does this kind of thing but me. So, I hope you schedule a consultation and let me hold your hand (figuratively).
I hope to meet you soon!
Menopause Taylor
Dr Barbie, Its been too long since our last consultation.
I will be setting up a session when you have an opening.
Schedule it. I'd love to catch up with you. The schedule is open.
@@MenopauseTaylor Great!!
I went into surgical menopause 2 month ago and have only had hot flashes. No other symptoms. Taking HRT eliminates the future risks of disease and having no womb there's less risks of taking HRT.
Exactly. If you do not have your uterus, it makes taking HRT really easy, You can take estrogen all by itself, without all the yucky side effects of progesterone.
You really should start at video 1 and watch all videos in order. The number after each title tells you the order. You NEED this education ... NOW. And, if you watch them in order, I can assure you that you'll understand everything.
I'm here to help you any time. If you need my personal help, just schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
Love your necklace and thanks for the great advise! 🙏❤️
Well, thank you, dear. And I love making these videos for you.
Thank you for all of your informative information I was wondering I use bioidentical estrogen cream in the morning but I don't use it at the same time everyday is that okay?
Thank you so much 🏝🌴🤗
You are so very welcome, my dear.
If a woman is post menopausal, can these tutorials help her? My husband asks me why I watch your videos? He says, "You are already through all that" You don't need that anymore""" I thought that menopause symptoms stay with you throughout your life unless you get some treatment for them
Love your videos! So grateful!! Do you think oral estrogen is safe? I am on cream now but pills are easier.
This is precisely the kind of thing that warrants a consultation. The word "safe" depends entirely on YOUR personal situation. So assessing all your options and the safety of each one requires tailoring. That's what I do in consultations. You can schedule one at MenopauseTaylor.ME. And I do them all online.
Hi I had 1of my right ovaries with a growth removed and tied my tubes what are some side effects of that and menopause plus Everytime for my period I get alot of pain on right side lower abdomen
Haha the balloon popping! Oh gosh I can’t imagine sudden menopause!
Well, neither can the women who experience it.
You know, I knew the balloon was going to pop suddenly, and yet that was my actual reaction. my videographer loved it.
wow! your videos are so informative. you are helping women so much...thank you!!! i wish i had found your YT channel sooner. i'm buying your book. I had a hysterectomy (and ovaries taken too) and wish i had known everything you are teaching us....my decisions would have been different. btw...i found you from another YT channel...Hot and Flashy.
Welcome aboard, my dear. I like to call this "Menopause University." If you start at video 1 and watch them all in order, you will understand absolutely everything and be shocked at how much you didn't know. My channel is designed for watching the videos in a precise order, just like any educational endeavor.
I respond to comments here on UA-cam daily, So I can help you. But I'll be able to tell if you aren't watching the videos in order. (I'm like your mom: I have eyes in the back of my head!)
I'm just so thrilled that you're getting the education you deserve.
Great content! I experienced balloon popping (lol) menopause when I was 40. The women’s health initiative was alive and well, and all of my health care providers were running scared from hrt . Unfortunately for me, by the time I learned all I needed to know, from you, my estrogen window of opportunity had slammed shut! Will you be advising people like me on how to make up for the damage caused by being in uninformed? Or, is it truly too late?
It's never too late. My education is "Your Menopause Your Way." And there are a lot of different ways for you to accomplish your goals.
However, I do not think you're going to get the information you need from these videos alone simply because it will take too long. You need to consider (1) Buying my book or (2) Getting the entire education via DVD or Webinars, or (3) Scheduling a one-one-one consultation.
You need to know all the facts, all your options, and have it all tailored to your particular needs. And the sooner you do that, the better. I give you options in every category (Diet, Exercise, Lifestyle, Vitamins, Minerals, Botanicals, Herbs, Acupuncture, Hypnosis, Hormonal Medication, and Non-Hormonal Medications) for accomplishing your goals and tell you the limitations, pros, and cons of each.
So, keep watching the videos, but do at least one of the other things I listed so that you don't have to wait for the videos. It will take about five years of videos to get the full eduction on UA-cam.
@@MenopauseTaylor I've watched all of your videos in order, and truly believe I know more than my gynecologist. Thanks, I'll be sure and choose one of the suggested options.
You probably DO know more than your gynecologist! Most gynecologists are not particularly fond of menopause. They prefer delivering babies and taking care of younger women. That's why I educate you directly.
It's best if you can work with a menopause specialist.
If you live in North America, you might have a menopause specialist near you. Here's how you can find one:
Go to www.menopause.org (North American Menopause Society).
Click on the tab "For Women."
Click on the drop-down menu item "Find a Menopause Practitioner."
Put in your zip code.
All the menopause specialists near you will pop up.
See what you can find.
Dr. Barbie can I go into menopause if I had a partial hysterectomy with the removal of the Fallopian tubes combine... but my ovaries stayed? It’s been exactly 1 month today since I had the removal of the uterus and my Fallopian tubes only... and 1 week ago I starting feeling hot burning sensation in my cheeks only, and I’m Worry. Can it be posible that my blood vessels that supply blood to the ovaries are still recovering? And that’s why I feel this symptoms?but once I heal those symptoms will despair? I made the decision to have my Fallopian tubes taking out after my gyn explain me about the risk of ovarian cancer because of the Fallopian tubes... there was nothing wrong with my Fallopian tubes! Now I’m regretting taking them out because I think that’s the reason I’m having this hot sensation feelings. Please Dr. Barbie let me know if that’s correct or the Fallopian tubes being removed have nothing to do with my symptom right now? thank you!
This is something that warrants a consultation. I can help you with all of this so that you understand everything, but no t in a comment box. Please schedule a consultation at MenopauseTaylor.ME. You deserve complete information.
After all this upheaval, does it level out? Do we end up in a more peaceful place not having to deal with periods and the ups and downs of PMS or PMDD. I know the process of menopause has a ton of symptoms but after it's over does it feel more peaceful without hormonal fluctuations.
You're dreaming. Think of it like this: If you lost all your thyroid hormone, you'd have about 20 symptoms that made you feel horrible. Over time, they'd get worse, or maybe even settle down some. But, underneath those visible symptoms, your organs would be undergoing severe damage that would eventually kill you. the very same thing is true for diabetes, in which you lose your insulin.
In fact, this is the case with ALL deficiencies of a substance that your body produces to stay in optimal health.
Why would loss of estrogen be any different? How in the world would your body just say, "Oh, no problem. I didn't need it anyway."
This entire education is to make sure you understand that there is SOOOOOO much more to menopause than a few symptoms that are at their worst early on. It's really about all the organ damage that occurs in the absence of estrogen. Your heart, bones, and brain depend on estrogen heavily for their sustenance. without it, they start aging, and your risk of heart attack, osteoporosis and Alzheimer's skyrocket.
Please don't minimize the importance of what's really happening. All the symptoms of menopause are your body's attempt to get your attention so that you'll do something to compensate for the loss of estrogen.
Excelente explanation 🤗what about removing two ovaries and BRCA 2 positive still can I take hormones replaced??? Thanks
Every situation is different. This is the kind of thing I could address with you in a one-on-one consultation. It's critical that you know all the facts. And it's critical that you find a way to meet your goals.
If you want a consultation, go to MenopauseTaylor.ME to schedule one. I do them on Skype, FaceTime, and Facebook Messenger.
You can include all the things you want to cover when you fill out the form, and then send me any labs or tests you've had. That way, I can incorporate everything into the session. I'll create a personalized document addressing all your concerns, and send it to you at least one day before our session. That way, you'll have time to read it in advance. It's usually over 12 pages long. It sets you up to make great headway during the consultation. You'll understand everything and have all the options tailored specifically to YOU.
You'll understand you very own balancing act in terms of all the benefits and risks of various options.
Dr Taylor, could you please address the issue of what chemotherapy drugs like tamoxifen and aromotase inhibitors do in the body. I am particularly interested in this because my mother is on tamoxifen and having severe side effects like muscle cramps, such that she nearly passes out. She has breast cancer, age 75, menopausal at age 50, no HRT ever. Do you stop producing oestrogen completely at menopause? If so, what does tamoxifen do? Can you also comment on SERMS versus HRT? Your help and kindness is ever so much appreciated.
Laura,
These are things that I can address in a one-on-one consultation. I will not be making a video on this. It's too individualistic. Snd that's why it's well-suited for a consultation. You can schedule at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
I had a hysterectomy. They also took both ovaries. The dr called it a tot ssdd l hysterectomy. Whats the correct term
I have one ovary the other ovary and tube were surgically removed. I’ve been battling heavy heavy periods, polyps, mood swings, fatigue, forgetfulness. I feel like I’m always having to advocate for myself but I’m not getting help.
Please, please schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME. You do not have to suffer like this. I will make sure you know all your options for feeling your best.
I had a hysterectomy 2 years ago and have felt terrible since until getting on estrogen bhrt. My body doesn't like progesterone. Causes swollen joints. Do you think 1 mg transdermal cream is enough? I'm 49. Can't find a doctor that will listen so I'm doing this alone by listening to my body.
My dear, nobody can tell you what's right for you without tailoring the information specifically to YOU. Women are not robots. No two women are alike. Schedule a consultation at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
Would you say that it is sudden if I from out of nowere at the age of 44 from one week to the next got hotflashes 5-10 times a day? Dry skin all of a sudden, that looks like I’m 70 😱 and it is still Going on like this (8 weeks and counting)
Also my period stopped completely during this time
And could you have sudden MP if you didn’t go through those 3 causes? For other reasons?
Menopause can be sudden if you suddenly stop having periods for any reason.
It sounds to me like you would benefit greatly fro a consultation, which you can schedule at MenopauseTaylor.ME. I can really help you that way.
Do you think that replacing the ovaries will be enough to stave off the health problems that women get from losing their estrogen? I am under the impression that replacements are not available, yet. But, I wouldn’t put it past the enterprising medical engineers/scientists to find a way to do just that.
Well, replacing organs is quite a bit different from replacing the hormones they produce. For instance, if your thyroid stops producing thyroid hormone, you don't get a thyroid gland replacement. You just take thyroid hormone replacement. The same is true if your pancreas stops producing insulin. So, I think the best thing available for the foreseeable future is to take hormone replacement.
I had an ablation in my thirties and was period free. At 47
It was recommended I do a
hysterectomy because I had an abnormal pap and they couldn’t get enough tissue to test. At 48 into 49 I had all the symptoms of menopause and had all kinds of tests to rule out serious disease It was again recommended I have a hysterectomy so saw an oncologist gynecologist who removed everything both Fallopian tubes, both ovaries and my uterus and cervix. Is that still considered surgical menopause? I know I was peri- menopausal before the surgery. I’m going to be 50 this year.
Yes. You were peri-menopausal before the surgery, which means you were still in the transition phase.
Had you not had your ovaries removed, you would have remained in the transition phase, possibly for only a short time. But, your ovaries would have stopped working gradually.
Your surgery caused instant post-menopause.
Now, because you were 49 at the time, it doesn't change your situation much. It's not like you are prematurely menopausal" (video 134 coming up next week). But it is still sudden menopause.
At 35 I had total hysterectomy and my two major issues are weight gain and hot flashes... I'm thinking of doing a vsg surgery.. Does anyone know if I lost weight through vsg whether the hot flashes will go down?
No, they will not.
Please, please schedule a consultation with me. I can tell by your question that you do not have the information you deserve to manage your situation. I can make it so much easier.
All you have to do is schedule a consultation at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
I'm 23 and have an fsh level of 8. I have heard this is the high end of normal for my age. Does this mean my fertility clock is running out of time? Or enter peri-menopause soon?
No. It means nothing. First of all, any lab test involving drawing your blood (as is the case with FSH) is but a snapshot in time. In reality, your FSH is fluctuating all month long. So, don't extrapolate. You are fine.
I have a large cyst in my left ovary which needs to be removed. My dr highly recommends that I remove both ovaries and my uterus as my chances of having another cyst are high. I am 53 and still having periods, although erratically. My daughter also had ovarian cancer in her 20s. Do you have a video on what to do when your menopause is sudden?
Definitely schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME. I will teach you everything you need to know, explain the consequences of each option, and help you tailor everything specifically to YOU. there is no way I can give you what you ned and deserve in a comment box. All consultations are via video conferencing, so it doesn't matter where you live.
How gradually is considered gradual? How about a premature menopause (non surgical) which happened suddenly ?
Any sudden menopause is not gradual. They are mutually exclusive.
It sounds like you would benefit greatly from a consultation with me. You can schedule one at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
Thank you so very much!! Wonderful video !! What about only one ovary removed? It's not a menopause, but is there a difference in the severity of the long term diseases associated with menopause?
No, one ovary can do the job of two. (It's like one kidney being able to do the job of both kidneys.)
@@MenopauseTaylor thank you!!!
@@Marsolan It's my pleasure.
So would perimenopause be considered gradual menopause? 😊🌹🌺🌻🌼 Thank you so much for your videos 🤗😊
Yes. For some women, it lasts 10 years! For most, it's about 2 years long.
Well I haven't had a cycle since July now the night sweats, fatigue and depression is happening but I changed my way of eating 2yrs before pretty sure its helped me.
Good for you. This whole eduction is all about finding what works FOR YOU.
I need to get a consultation
I look forward to meeting you and helping you.
How does having just one ovary effect perimenopause? I've only had one my entire life.
Also, is there a video where you describe the different symptoms that happen during latter stages of perimenopause?
If you've always had only one ovary, it does the job of two and has no effect on your menopause.
I explained symptoms of menopause waaaaaaay back at the beginning of this series in video 11. My videos are designed for watching them in order, beginning with the very first one. If you do that, there is NO WAY you won't understand absolutely everything. If you jump around, you're shooting yourself in the foot (or the head).
The number after each title tells you the order. If you do watch them in order, starting with the very first one, you'll be absolutely shocked at how little you knew.
I respond to these comments here on UA-cam daily. So, I'm here to help you ... but I will know if you're not watching them in order. (I'm like your mom. I have eyes in the back of my head.)
@@MenopauseTaylor lol. Thank You!
I'm missing my first period. My last period last month was extra heavy and extra long 10 days. Im 4 days late for my period and just nothing. Before this I was always right on schedule. Im not sure if I'm just late due to a very stressful month last month (death of close family member), but I'm shocked if it just stops like that with not much symptoms before that.
It rarely stops that suddenly without surgery chemotherapy, or radiation therapy.
However, stress CAN and does cause some to skip periods, sometimes for a long time. (The females who fought in Desert Storm stopped having their periods.) You have been through a traumatic experience. And that causes your body to say, "Hey, let's put the reproductive tract on hold."
If it continues, or you wan to discuss it in detail, schedule a one-on-one consultation with me. I'll help you.
If you want a consultation, go to MenopauseTaylor.ME to schedule one. I do them on Skype, FaceTime, and Facebook Messenger.
You can include all the things you want to cover when you fill out the form, and then send me any labs or tests you've had. That way, I can incorporate everything into the session. I'll create a personalized document addressing all your concerns, and send it to you at least one day before our session. That way, you'll have time to read it in advance. It's usually over 12 pages long.
@@MenopauseTaylor Thank you so much doc. I will definitely look into doing that if my period doesn't come in a couple of weeks. I've had stressful situations before when I was much younger, where severe stress (that time death of my mom) caused be to spot in between my periods. Had biopsy of uterus 2 times and everything was negative and we all determined it was stress related. I contributed my heavy period last month due to stress because of what happened again. Anyways, thank you so much for the reply and I will get in touch with you through your website if things stay the same. P.s. I'm going to forward a link to your page to all my menopausal aged friends.
I'm always here for you. And sharing this education with your girlfriends is the most loving thing you could possibly do for them.
@@MenopauseTaylor I came back to thank you doc. I did get my period, 9 days late, but with a vengeance lol. You said it was likely stress related and it was. One thing about this perimenopause stuff is my periods have been extra heavy during this time, and I was wondering if you can direct me to one of your videos, or comment any type of natural sources of help for me to hopefully regulate them a bit? They are so heavy that it interferes with my life, literally for at least 3 sometimes 4 days. I shared your channel btw. Love you content and adore your loving and caring manner. Xo
I'm so glad your period finally started. The irregular and heavy period of peri-menopause are something I have not yet addressed specifically. I will eventually give you a whole unit on that. In the meantime, I can help you a lot, but it will have to be with a one-on-one consultation. It would be better for you that way even if those videos were out because no two situations are the same.
I expect that this will not be the only period that is late or heavy. So you'd do best to have some options laid out for you.
I had my right ovary removed at 29 (due to a cyst), and now I have to have my left ovary removed at 42 (due to a cyst) so if I understand correctly I will go through sudden menopause..?? I have already been experiencing symptoms of peri menopause.
You will.
Please, please have a consultation with me as soon as you can. When your remaining ovary is removed, you will experience "premature menopause," and it is critical that you know NOW all that it entails. I will make sure you know everything. I will teach you how to make your menopause the best part of your life.
And if you can consult with me BEFORE your surgery, do so, I will teach you all about the surgical procedures, too.
You can schedule at MenopauseTaylor.ME.
Menopause Taylor thank you for your response.
@@yolliecurt You are so welcome, my dear.
Please explain the term post menopause?
After menopause ends.
Slow gradual and fast gradual menopause which one better
The earlier and the more sudden your menopause, the higher your risk for the diseases of estrogen deficiency.
Thank you mam, love from India
@@meghamillo1387 You are so welcome, my dear. Love back to you.
God has really been very unkind to women. He takes away our hormone in the middle of our life, while he let males to have their testosetrone through out their life span. Not fair,.!!!
My grandmas both said they never had menopause.
Well there you have it! What that really means is one of two things:
(1) They weren't allowed to acknowledge it or talk about it.
OR
(2) If they went through menopause between 1960 and the late 1990s, they were given HRT as the standard of care at the time. Women who became menopausal during this time typically remember something called "Premarin." And they all took it. Their doctors simply said, "Take this." And they did. Most didn't even know what they were taking. But, there very reason they're all living well into their 90s now is because they took it!
Our generation will probably not do as well.
@@MenopauseTaylor Neither had either experience you've listed.
Still loving all your info! I'm not in menopause yet, but I'm getting a headstart with all your amazing info.
You are very smart to do so. My dream is for al women to get this education BEFORE they need it ... and they will all need it eventually. It's as inevitable as puberty and death.
So for words that don't make sense, how would you rename "menopause"? It's not like the meno part will ever start up again! Who's idea was it to call it "pause"....
I agree! It should be "meno-stop," or "meno-end." I'm a word-dissector, too.
@@MenopauseTaylor Meno-end... that sounds perfect! I'll be telling people that I'm in "peri-meno-end" from now on!
@@eleanorl237 Let's make it official!
Ya well once again I NEVER EVER NEVER received this information 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 an makes the hammer I’ve been hitting myself with for past 3 years seams CRAZY 😡😡😡😡😡 I have argued an read weep an hunt for a doctor that is really informative. 😡 I know have been told I have Hashimoto an Have this odd hard to breathe an choking feeling take comes an goes 😡🙄🙄🙄🙄 The doctor I’m working with just wants to give antidepressants an 0.05 patch an pat on head An that’s it ...😡 I do patch but am so very afraid of the Antidepressant... I swear I would of never Ever had Alll taken I feel at times like I’m imploding 🥺
Daisy,
Why don't you schedule a one-on-one consultation with me. I can tell that you've endured frustration that is unwarranted. I can help you get what you need. Please consider it. I really want to help you.
If you want a consultation, go to MenopauseTaylor.ME to schedule one. I do them on Skype, FaceTime, and Facebook Messenger.
You can include all the things you want to cover when you fill out the form, and then send me any labs or tests you've had. That way, I can incorporate everything into the session. I'll create a personalized document addressing all your concerns, and send it to you at least one day before our session. That way, you'll have time to read it in advance. It's usually over 12 pages long. it will set you up to make great headway during the session. You'll understand everything and have all the options tailored specifically to YOU.
How about number 4: autoimmune diseases? I went through a very sudden menopause recently that I discovered, after research, that this was due to a flare-up of Chrons disease. I have spoken to numerous women with IBD who went through the same thing because the inflammation destroyed their once plentiful egg reseaves Has illness, as a cause of sudden menopause, this not been proven yet which is why you didn't mention it?
This is only true for certain autoimmune diseases, and there are many for which it has no relevance at all. That's why I didn't include it. In these videos, I stick to general facts. For personal situations, I do one-on-one consultations.
@@MenopauseTaylor Right ok, as I thought then, thanks.
You're welcome.
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Thank you, my dear.
Dr Barbie how likely is it for a woman to get pregnant in her mid-50’s?
It happens more often than anyone wants to imagine. I talked about it in video 10 on the phases of menopause.
Usually, the woman thinks she's going through menopause and we have to tell her, "No, it's not the change of life called 'menopause.' But it's going to change your life, alright!"
I've delivered 4 babies to some in their 50s. One has daughter that was pregnant at the same time, and they had their babies on the same day!
That’s what happened when I came off hormones .... a nitemare
Of course. It's what would happen if you stopped taking any kind of hormone replacement for a hormone deficiency.
I feel bad about this, but ever since my “sudden “ menopause I can’t tolerate the shockingly high pitched, screamy voice or the sing song cadence….bitchy sensory sensitivity.
You should definitely schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME to address your sudden menopause. It will affect the entire rest of your life isn ways you can't imagine.
@@MenopauseTaylor I have a lot of support with my vast friend group of therapists, life coaches and healers. I’m a researcher who understands my body and medical contexts ….but thank you!
What really irks me is how no medical professional has ever sat any of us down before the surgery to explain what was about to happen….no single woman in my support group of over 500 women was given this basic respect. We were all infantilized and gaslit by the people whose job it is to provide the basics of informed consent. So many women had their ovaries removed UNNECESSARILY….with zero recourse.
I get estrogen and progesterone tomorrow, testosterone after those are right. I am taking the supplements and eating correctly, I will continue to take my Surmeno as my own responsibility to manage because my obgyn is literally a useless pathological narcissist.
@@inkystarz Just know that I am here if you need me. A consultation will enable me to tailor everything to your personal situation. Keep watching these videos in order to get the menopause education you deserve.