Danielle. I understand your feelings and your memories of Dan’s dad. Those are your thoughts, your memories and feelings and are valid. It’s not about the word narcissist. Dan is highly defensive when it comes to his Dad. Hmmmm We get it Danielle. Narcissist or not!❤❤Love you!🥰😘. You are being real! And have overcome a lot!!!❤💐
U said it right Dan, those are Danielle’s experiences. Maybe he wasn’t with you, but with her it was Narcissistic Tendencies and you can’t change that. Her life at home was different than your life at home! Just try to understand her side. The truth hurts, that’s why you’re getting so angry.😡
My dad was an alcoholic, missed the boat on alot of parental duties, BUT he was human. He loved in the best way he knew how. I was lucky to have him even though he made mistakes.
Why didn't ur mom leave if u guys were miserable an didn't benefit from being w ed..I feel badcuz nobody wants to hear someone talk about their parents. But yes it is awesome thst u care for ed now!
Yikes! I have a sister just like Danielle. Super big heart but it's ALL mucky muck with past unresolved resentments to the point that ONLY their experience with the SAME person counts. It's sad, because everyone experiences a parent differently and every parent child relationship is different. If they'd FOCUS on the positives of that person it'd go such a LONG way for family. The condescending, snarky comments are a defense mechanism and frankly at their age,they should have worked thru this. Accepted that people are human because as long as they stay focused on everyone else's transgressions they won't grow emotionally. And unfortunately, they will be judged as harshly. Have your experience, work thru it, learn from it and don't find release in airing EVERYONE else's dirty secrets.
Danielle your truths and experiences are yours to share, Dan sees his dad in a different light now than when he was a kid. If his dad left when Dan was 10 then Dan is making a relationship with ed that he missed out on And ed is different now with the dementia Hey my mom passed last fall at age 96 and had narcissistic tendencies no empathy no love had a mean streak oh boy she was nasty Anyways keep doing you love your videos
Take it from a shrink, there are different types of narcissism. You can possess traits … everyone does…. But it’s the severity of the characteristics that differentiate narcissists. You do not have to have all the criteria to be one. Just saying. But gaslighting is a big method of operation for them. I don’t know if he is or isn’t. But control are gaslighting and ESPECIALLY insecurity are narcissistic characteristics. Having NPD isn’t the same as acting narcissistic. She’s not saying he has the disorder.
Most importantly, with all these unresolved resentments, it's not ideal to be the primary caregiver. You too, are HUMAN, and that's a recipe for disaster. I think you could benefit from counseling and perhaps save your whole family from repeating what can be a vicious cycle. I'm sure you'd hate for your kids to share everything you've done to hurt their feelings when they are in their 50s.
Uhhh “sacrifice” can mean sacrificing ur time relaxing to go help your mom fix her coat rack. But taking care of a man who you had very hard times with most of you life and doing it well, with little to help from his blood. How is anyone but Danielle, Dan, and Mark sacrificing? Please enlighten us. Nit wit. sacrifice is NOT obligatory. People who do it are just better people than those who don’t. And I’m not even talking about others needing to sacrifice but a little help or phone calls to show u care is pretty bare minimum. Takes no time.
Narcissistic people love helping strangers while leaving family members without.….. Narcissistic people are not always Vain…… Danielle Love your honesty… Thank you for sharing your life experiences….. Why does Dan need to defend the history of your own life with Ed? Ed sounds mean-spirited by picking on the obvious flaws of others…. Narcissistic Personality Disorder, please, Dan, let Danielle have her own POV….. 🦋
Ed sounds like he was a jerk ...all about money and control......thats why he ask about his money all the time......,,how do the rest of ed kids feel about him....will they take him in..
You have my greatest admiration Danielle my Mother wasnt very nice to me and I still cant forgive her for it she passed away in 2011 and I still feel sad that she didnt love me the way I love my children love to you all ❤❤❤❤
I pray for you. The cussing is just the sign of a lazy mind. A lazy mind does nothing to heal, so that in turn, generational resentments can ever HEAL.
Exactly, here in NC if you’re a general practitioner u start out around 95-150,000. That’s why people go into specialist roles and we have a shortage of general doctors. But I digress. For what it costs to go to med school, it’s bullshit.
Looking at his questions to others they are very superficial and status directed. Ed has the same build up speech for every person he is speaking to. Now I can see how there is a disconnect on a personal level. It is kinda sad for his children I’m sure. No real gut connection. Perhaps that carries into his disbelief of even fathering six children. Everything was about the money and how could he keep the most in his pocket. Bare provider and wives that HAD to also work to really have any of the extras.
I just wonder how many daughter-in-laws would take on this difficult job.
Danielle. I understand your feelings and your memories of Dan’s dad. Those are your thoughts, your memories and feelings and are valid. It’s not about the word narcissist. Dan is highly defensive when it comes to his Dad. Hmmmm We get it Danielle. Narcissist or not!❤❤Love you!🥰😘. You are being real! And have overcome a lot!!!❤💐
Xoxo
Absolutely girl.Dan is very protective over his dad and I know Danielle is not coming on her talking shit😊
U said it right Dan, those are Danielle’s experiences. Maybe he wasn’t with you, but with her it was Narcissistic Tendencies and you can’t change that. Her life at home was different than your life at home! Just try to understand her side. The truth hurts, that’s why you’re getting so angry.😡
You lived it.. that’s what you went through these people don’t know.
My dad was an alcoholic, missed the boat on alot of parental duties, BUT he was human. He loved in the best way he knew how. I was lucky to have him even though he made mistakes.
Why didn't ur mom leave if u guys were miserable an didn't benefit from being w ed..I feel badcuz nobody wants to hear someone talk about their parents. But yes it is awesome thst u care for ed now!
Other people don't have your experience. They don't need to get on your case for expressing yours! Don't let them get you down Danielle.
Love this 🩷
Hurt people will continue to hurt people until they get the counseling to break the chain and have better relationships.
I like your personality.....you are a strong women...stay that way........
Your mother must be so proud of you. I am
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Awwwww someone pissed her off She feels attacked 😂
Who said that? U? Hahaha
Yikes! I have a sister just like Danielle. Super big heart but it's ALL mucky muck with past unresolved resentments to the point that ONLY their experience with the SAME person counts. It's sad, because everyone experiences a parent differently and every parent child relationship is different. If they'd FOCUS on the positives of that person it'd go such a LONG way for family. The condescending, snarky comments are a defense mechanism and frankly at their age,they should have worked thru this. Accepted that people are human because as long as they stay focused on everyone else's transgressions they won't grow emotionally. And unfortunately, they will be judged as harshly. Have your experience, work thru it, learn from it and don't find release in airing EVERYONE else's dirty secrets.
❤SAB Sunday luv hugz and positive energy my friend!!!❤
Xoxo v
I liked you from the beginning! We have very similar personalities ❤🤗
Xoxo
They are looking for money!
Danielle your truths and experiences are yours to share, Dan sees his dad in a different light now than when he was a kid. If his dad left when Dan was 10 then Dan is making a relationship with ed that he missed out on
And ed is different now with the dementia
Hey my mom passed last fall at age 96 and had narcissistic tendencies no empathy no love had a mean streak oh boy she was nasty
Anyways keep doing you love your videos
Dan be quiet. That is Danielle’s truth about Ed. It’s her feelings and they should valid.
The internet gets messed up in the heat because the lines aren't buried deep enough
I'm getting to look like jellyroll
I like that move it or loses it.
Caught up this evening, stay SAB girl lok
Xoxo
How long are you guys going to take care of ed in your home...he seems like he getting worse....
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Yes. And I cannot figure out how to report it!
Take it from a shrink, there are different types of narcissism. You can possess traits … everyone does…. But it’s the severity of the characteristics that differentiate narcissists. You do not have to have all the criteria to be one. Just saying. But gaslighting is a big method of operation for them. I don’t know if he is or isn’t. But control are gaslighting and ESPECIALLY insecurity are narcissistic characteristics. Having NPD isn’t the same as acting narcissistic. She’s not saying he has the disorder.
I wish I could. Waiting for health to return
Most importantly, with all these unresolved resentments, it's not ideal to be the primary caregiver. You too, are HUMAN, and that's a recipe for disaster. I think you could benefit from counseling and perhaps save your whole family from repeating what can be a vicious cycle. I'm sure you'd hate for your kids to share everything you've done to hurt their feelings when they are in their 50s.
So, I saw something on FB, I couldn't report it? Weird...
Hope you’re not near any of the fires in California!
Not yet.
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Everyone sacrifices for family......at one point or another. No one owes you for that..
Uhhh “sacrifice” can mean sacrificing ur time relaxing to go help your mom fix her coat rack. But taking care of a man who you had very hard times with most of you life and doing it well, with little to help from his blood. How is anyone but Danielle, Dan, and Mark sacrificing? Please enlighten us. Nit wit. sacrifice is NOT obligatory. People who do it are just better people than those who don’t. And I’m not even talking about others needing to sacrifice but a little help or phone calls to show u care is pretty bare minimum. Takes no time.
@@pennyroyalbleach I think if you took a survey you'd hear differently.
Narcissistic people love helping strangers while leaving family members without.….. Narcissistic people are not always Vain…… Danielle Love your honesty… Thank you for sharing your life experiences….. Why does Dan need to defend the history of your own life with Ed? Ed sounds mean-spirited by picking on the obvious flaws of others…. Narcissistic Personality Disorder, please, Dan, let Danielle have her own POV….. 🦋
Thanks jen
@@mrsdsalnorcal Absolutely 🦋
Exactly my dear, wish I could report it
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Ed seems really controlling.........
Hi Daniel happy Sunday to you ❤
Hello 👋
Ed sounds like he was a jerk ...all about money and control......thats why he ask about his money all the time......,,how do the rest of ed kids feel about him....will they take him in..
You have my greatest admiration Danielle my Mother wasnt very nice to me and I still cant forgive her for it she passed away in 2011 and I still feel sad that she didnt love me the way I love my children love to you all ❤❤❤❤
Awe friend I’m so sorry. It’s so fricken hard!
@@Judy_Rhi Judy thank you hugs to you too ❤❤❤❤❤
I pray for you. The cussing is just the sign of a lazy mind. A lazy mind does nothing to heal, so that in turn, generational resentments can ever HEAL.
😂 is that what that is? Would love to see the science behind your assertions (opinions). Go ahead and cite some research below and enlighten us.
Dan your dad is a control freek........and his not very nice.....
Lol, no difference
Salute to you Danielle for being so fucking real 🫡👍
Thanks
You are ridiculous..
Ty and that makes u…?
Yes ed is a narcissist. My mother was a narcissist until she got dementia. I have not got narcissism. I have traits of aspergers. E x
People are clueless. My nephew is an attorney and makes more than some doctors.
Exactly, here in NC if you’re a general practitioner u start out around 95-150,000. That’s why people go into specialist roles and we have a shortage of general doctors. But I digress. For what it costs to go to med school, it’s bullshit.
Looking at his questions to others they are very superficial and status directed. Ed has the same build up speech for every person he is speaking to. Now I can see how there is a disconnect on a personal level. It is kinda sad for his children I’m sure. No real gut connection. Perhaps that carries into his disbelief of even fathering six children. Everything was about the money and how could he keep the most in his pocket. Bare provider and wives that HAD to also work to really have any of the extras.
The old generation of men