Divorce Court: Arlene vs. Ray - All the Issues

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  • Опубліковано 18 січ 2025

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  • @chloetkach4751
    @chloetkach4751 Рік тому +55

    "But I believe that [cheating] is just something a couple has to get over." THE AUDACITY OF THIS FOOL! He was over right then and there, but him flat admitting how he uses her dislike of public confrontation against her is just disgusting. Run, girl, run!

    • @ebonyc3751
      @ebonyc3751 Рік тому +3

      Everything about this male cuz he’s not a man just screams manipulation and gaslighting. My god he makes a public scene so people can think she’s the crazy one when he antagonize her. He don’t deserve her.

  • @RTA6226
    @RTA6226 Рік тому +19

    "To get her actin' right!" What an ASS! He's horrible. I don't blame her. Girl, get out! Get out fast!!

    • @keylacmckemp1309
      @keylacmckemp1309 Рік тому +1

      I was appalled but she didn't help either when it was revealed she actually hits him.

  • @Tiange678
    @Tiange678 Рік тому +41

    She should just leave him

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому +3

      No it's the other way around he needs to leave her ‼️ He's not ready for a relationship I'm one minute into this video and I already fed up with this dude.... You blatantly say out loud that yes I'm staring at other women while I take my woman out to dinner... Not just a woman your wife!!! 😢 Like where did they do that at 😡

  • @thisismyinferno
    @thisismyinferno Рік тому +41

    This dude wants to dominate and has anger. I dont think he likes to be wrong or told anything.

  • @Cksunshine
    @Cksunshine Рік тому +8

    I agree with Judge Toler about how you control your reactions and there are “no buttons” but it can be really hard. I dated someone who constantly used things I confided in him against me. Thankfully I got away from him but I stayed cool and calm for a long time before I had to get angry and tell him he will not treat me like that

  • @n.b98
    @n.b98 Рік тому +10

    Mans got artificial intelligence tatted on him

    • @1972TJJ
      @1972TJJ Рік тому +1

      I thought that same thing!!😂😂😂

  • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
    @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому +21

    1 minute in after his first comment I'm already done with this dude!!!😢 You take your woman out to dinner and you're blatantly saying that yes I'm staring at other women ‼️🚩🚨🚩🚨🚩🚨🚩🚨🚩🚨🚩
    Why get into a relationship with this woman clearly you're not done playing the field😢😢 Lady💨👟

  • @debrastone2198
    @debrastone2198 Рік тому +16

    When walking somewhere with your significant other & someone of the opposite sex should look their way, instead of getting all angry over it & causing a scene, just hold their hand a little tighter (gently), & smile proudly at the other person as if to admit how lucky you feel that this person is yours. That's how you handle that!

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому

      He's too dense to understand how a relationship is supposed to work.... I don't know who raised this dude but his parents failed him miserably😅😅😅

    • @DrStephanie72
      @DrStephanie72 Рік тому +2

      Don’t be naive, and let’s be clear…flirting is a two way street. Nobody should be flirting when you are out together….because what happens when you are not there. Your squeezing their hand (gently or tightly) is how you treat a child. Really, is your man like a child who is acting up?

  • @yahookid1211
    @yahookid1211 Рік тому +26

    2m in and I can’t stand this dude

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому +2

      I have to agree with you man!!! 2 minutes then I'm already like yeah get rid of this dude.... Every man knows that is super disrespectful to stare at another woman while you're out to dinner with your woman!!!

    • @melaninandaura9713
      @melaninandaura9713 Рік тому +1

      How she deals with it is beyond me. I’m not seeing even one favorable trait yet!

  • @ElsyannIoanis
    @ElsyannIoanis Рік тому +5

    judge tober is full of wisdom. i like her advices all the time

  • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
    @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому +35

    I think I got it💡 I think this dude needs to spend about 2 years in state pen... Once he gets ran through a few times I think it will change his outlook on life!

  • @keishasmith379
    @keishasmith379 Рік тому +9

    It's so sad that ppl will take any part of a human being and be unhappy , instead of being alone and happy. This is an example of why everyone men or women should b careful of who u pick to have a child with. Now u will feel obligated to stay for them and it never works. It wastes a lot of ur life instead of enjoying life. U think it doesn't effect the kids but being unhappy and staying together for them doesn't help them. They know and it teaches the opposite of what u want to teach them.

  • @alexwatches
    @alexwatches 7 місяців тому +1

    typical person with toxic masculinity that thinks he has to scare everyone into submission and then wonders why no one likes him or wants to be near him. i really hope she gets herself and her kids away from him because he's 100% controlling abuser.

  • @klazziksammieonome9987
    @klazziksammieonome9987 Рік тому +4

    This is one of the coldest case i ever watched. This dude is something else, and she aint any better. They both have weird definition of crazy and stonecold hearted perceptions of wants and acceptance. They should just stick to each other, i pitied who enters either of their circle.

  • @yogib8
    @yogib8 Рік тому +2

    They need to leave each other alone!

  • @mayasilliman1465
    @mayasilliman1465 Рік тому +3

    Judge wrong on this one. He's a bully to entire family. She should leave ASAP!

  • @thejato
    @thejato Рік тому +16

    Why do they stay in such obviously terrible relationships? Why do we continue to watch idiots like him on a daily basis? The judge is the ONLY reason I watch this. At least reddit stories are funny

  • @annaprice7276
    @annaprice7276 5 місяців тому

    4:19 in and I'm done ...are they making Narcissists in a factory somewhere and cranking them out by the thousands? Yuck

  • @MSKTLIZ
    @MSKTLIZ Рік тому +2

    Child that AI stands for artificial intelligence, because that intelligence is artificial.

  • @hateisforlosers6116
    @hateisforlosers6116 Рік тому +3

    But he can cheat 😂 but ready to kill somebody if she cheats....smh this guy!!! Why do you feel the need to look back,just because someone else is looking??? Divorce him!!

  • @RTA6226
    @RTA6226 Рік тому +2

    I bet he has other social media accounts with different names.

  • @JamesCraigWhoop
    @JamesCraigWhoop Рік тому +1

    Dictionary
    vo·cif·er·ous·ly - in a loud and forceful manner
    You're welcome

  • @madmemadhouseme4885
    @madmemadhouseme4885 Рік тому +2

    She's beautiful. Anyone woman looking at him is wondering "WTF".

  • @malenkadivine
    @malenkadivine Рік тому +1

    These two folks need to walk away from this relationshit .

  • @laymanlogic
    @laymanlogic Рік тому +3

    Why say it is not who are; no that is who you are. You are what you do. If it is not in you it won’t matter what someone else does you wouldn’t do it.

  • @donniee.2238
    @donniee.2238 Рік тому

    I didn't get if it's her trying to hold on to him or him trying to hold on to her. She needs to go.

  • @ZumbaZINJPanda
    @ZumbaZINJPanda 6 місяців тому

    4:24 ma'am I hope you left him.

  • @meghanwilliams4295
    @meghanwilliams4295 Рік тому

    They hate each other....👀

  • @user-iv1yi6cz7o
    @user-iv1yi6cz7o Рік тому

    THEY BOTH NEED HELP .CHILD ABUSE..POOR CHILDREN

  • @user-iv1yi6cz7o
    @user-iv1yi6cz7o Рік тому

    COUPLES TODAY GET VIOLENT..POOR CHILDREN 😢

  • @RakuenKakashi
    @RakuenKakashi Рік тому

    This man is digusting. A total narcissist who only cares about himself and he clearly want to be the dominating one and controlling everything she does and their kids does. He is violent and abusive. She need to take the kids and run.

  • @mikaelpepke273
    @mikaelpepke273 Рік тому +1

    Hej😊

  • @estherrodriguez3782
    @estherrodriguez3782 Рік тому

    This guy is a complete jerk, She is beautiful and can do so much better. I think she should leave him

  • @09tlong
    @09tlong Рік тому +1

    Dont spank the kids but hit the husband 😮 ok then

  • @KingBoxingandFitness
    @KingBoxingandFitness Рік тому

    lol ifn😢p

  • @Tony29103
    @Tony29103 Рік тому +6

    Never hit a kid. Judge Toler is old school unfortunately in this case she wrong. You have no right to hit a kid period.

    • @SarahPody
      @SarahPody Рік тому +3

      That's right especially in public I don't care if you're big tall or short don't you dare lay your hands on any child especially not in front of me I will not hold back my rage

    • @Tony29103
      @Tony29103 Рік тому

      @@SarahPody Bwahaha exactly.

    • @keylacmckemp1309
      @keylacmckemp1309 Рік тому +3

      You're entitled to your belief and stance.

    • @ashh641
      @ashh641 Рік тому

      Your all so soft. As someone with a lot of siblings, when a kid cusses out my mom and calls her a bitch, yeah. They deserve to get they’re but wooped. Over little things it’s wrong.