Homeschooling from a Dad's Point of View (Dad Chat with Homeschool On)
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- Опубліковано 25 лип 2024
- Meet Jonathan: my quirky, goofy, fun, husband. He doesn't usually make an appearance on my blog but I figured he could add a bit of drama and intrigue to my predictable little channel ;) We had SO much fun making this video, if you like it let us know in the comments and I may be able to convince him to pop on a little more often ;)
Lately people have been asking to hear from my husband so I decided to rope him into a video with me in between his night shifts... which made for an interesting "interview". Come take a peek inside our homeschool, see what role my husband plays in our homeschool, find out our "Why we homeschool" story and his journey to get on board with this whole thing and quite possibly have some laughs along the way...
If you've been considering homeschooling, or you need to have a laugh, or maybe your hubby isn't fully convinced... this one's for you! keep calm, and Homeschool On!
Rebecca
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Thanks for sharing. I’m a homeschool dad and was also a public school product. Glad to see you discussing here. We see discipleship as the most important thing and Dads role is the most influential. Thanks! You rock.
My husband teaches the outdoor life skills like farming, building, and fixing things.I teach the indoor life skills like baking and cleaning, along with basic academics. He wasn't always on board with homeschooling but after certain laws and other things started happening in our small "good" schools that didn't go along with our beliefs and morals, he was totally on board.
I feel like a lot of UA-cam videos that try to explain why they homeschool are always walking on egg shells and not wanting to say anything negative about public school When in reality a lot of times that is what drives people to homeschool, the trauma they themselves endured as childrenOr the hardships their children have gone through. Thank you for keeping it real. It’s a disservice to try to sugarcoat public schools in an effort to not step on toes.Especially for us new homeschool moms or Moms that are thinking about Homeschooling and maybe Questioning whether they are overreacting to some of the Bad feelings they had about public school, like I once did. This is a comment for not only this video but the one where you describe why you homeschool. Anyway thanks. I didn’t mean to make it this long, lol!
Thoroughly enjoyed this. My hubby's first reaction to the idea of homeschooling was why bother when there is a good school just down the road? But he was willing to give it a trial. The first year I was too scared to say anything to him when I was finding things tough, thinking he would then say put her in school. But he had already seen the benefits she was getting and how well she was doing. Now when we review each year it is him saying why would we want to send her to school? Its great when she goes on the farm with him and learn about animals and help him with his jobs. They build a good relationship and she learns practical skills, and I get a break.
How hilarious are you two together. You can see how much you love each other. Love seeing the other side of Homeschool On. Thank you for sharing. 💜
Thanks for sharing your perspective on homeschooling. It was nice to see dads supporting the mom in their homeschooling journey. It is hard work for mom and she needs all the support she can get especially from her spouse.
I had quite the gamut of educational experiences, private schools, public schools, homeschooling. Even in college, I went to a private university, a community college, a public university, and two online colleges. By husband only went to public schools, even in college, and then joined the military. So my husband was against homeschooling, but he was willing to keep the idea on the back burner for consideration. We ended up sending our kids to public school with the agreement that as long as the experience was predominantly positive over negative, we would continue. Everything went well until our oldest started middle school, and our youngest was diagnosed with ASD. Our oldest was picking up some really negative habits, attitudes, and ideologies, and we knew our youngest wouldn't be able to function adequately in a mainstream public middle school environment, without being exploited. We decided to let them stay in one more year, so our youngest could finish elementary school, and we could do more research and possibly sell our house. All I needed to have the confidence to homeschool was the feeling that my husband was behind me 100%. We have a little over two weeks until we finish our first year of homeschooling, and it has been fantastic!
I appreciate how real this was and your husbands perspective! Its wonderful how much he trusts you and how well you two obviously work together for your children! :-)
Awesome! He’s going to start taking over and making his own happy and thoughtful videos :)
Awww, this was so sweet. Your hubby seems like a really wonderful husband and father ❤
I enjoyed watching this! Great to hear a father's point of view! I appreciate you & your husband's well thought-out, educated answers... I'm new to homeschooling (and defending my reasons to family members), and appreciate all your posts! :)
Robert Van Gorder Hi Robert,. I just want to say that it's great that you are doing the defending and hopefully protecting your wife from dealing with it. My husband is super protective and it means so much to know he values me and homeschooling so much. It frees me to focus on homeschooling without the added stress of being questioned about our choices and it also shows me that he believes in me. Every now and then, when I've had a bad homeschool day and questioning my own abilities, my husband listens and tells me I'm doing an amazing job. He is also involved and helping. We're a team.
Thank you so much for your affirmation!
I was lucky, my husband was completely on board from the start, but we just started homeschooling in December 2017. Our then 2nd grader wasn't having a good school experience and we were both worried about him emotionally, so the discussion was easy for us to homeschool all three of the kids.
Love the way he talks about you and appreciate you. We have great supporting husbands. That is a blessing.
Loved this video! I really enjoy seeing and hearing from dads. You guys are cute!💗
Oh my gosh that was hilarious!! Idk how I just found this, but truly laughed! You two were so funny together, looks like you caught a good one! Or he robbed the right cradle, either way. LOL!! Thanks for making such a fun video. 😂
This was just awesome! I'm so happy I found your channel...im homeschooling in Canada too, with 5 kids!
I love the idea that time with Dad in any capacity, whether it’s just outside hanging out and chatting or changing a tire, is Dad’s contribution to schooling. Just Dad being available and home has a huge impact on the kids and it helps to reduce tension when we are not like “you need to do science with them!” and then they don’t and then there are fights etc. Like you said, your gifts are academic inside teaching and his gifts are outside, and that we each need to make things work for our personal gifts. Great video.
That was an awesome video! You both made me laugh so much, good perspective from Dad's view.
I took my then 9 year old out of school last year after a string of events that put it all over the edge. Things had been building up since pre-k and my ex didn't want me homeschooling her so my hands were tied. Then she got beat up by a 14 year old boy (school resource officers son at that) who had been picking on her since kindergarten, her teacher scratched her, the bus driver dropped her off in the wrong part of town and then Parkland school shooting happened followed by another school shooting that same week. It was just a doozy of a week. I also hated her principal who was very condescending and would always tell me what I needed to do with Emma, what time she needed to be in bed and chastising me for keeping her home sick and for visiting Maine when my Poppa was dying. I felt like my kid wasn't my own kid. Like I was borrowing her from this evil woman who only saw my child as a paycheck. I finally got the balls to tell my ex this is what we are doing, you've never been a part of our lives if you don't like it take me to court and she's been home since.
Its been a great thing. Daddy is home during the day during the winter and early spring and she isn't missing him by getting out of school an hour after he has to go back to work. Often times he will even come home super early after he drops off the big rig to pick her up and take her to deliver the smaller stuff in the car. She gets so much more "Daddy time" which has brought back the kid I had before I put her into public schooling. She was always a quick witted, silly child and in school she was never happy, always mopey and angry. Shed throw a fit and then fall asleep doing homework and have to be carried to bed. I always find myself apologizing to her for putting her through the public school experience. My husband was a U.S. Marine and a diver so he teaches her a lot of the more fun things like survival and he sails so they do knot tying and swimming. The biggest thing for her now that she doesn't go to public school is that she is taking a karate class with my husband. Of course my husband is teaching and nearing his black belt and she is a white belt, but he is Japanese on one side of his family and is able to pass that on to her. Our entire lives changed. Dads are so vital to a child's education and upbringing. I'm glad my husband took on that role for Emma from day one and never looked back. I am also glad he agreed and was on board for homeschooling from day one and was willing to put up the finances to defend our decision if need be. Kudos to your husband for supporting you because so many men don't support their wives and women get stuck with putting their kids in public school.
This was so funny! He was a good sport, and I enjoyed his input. Thanks!
You guys are so cute😊 your story is pretty similar to mine. I was homeschooled and my husband went to public school. And from the beginning I wanted to homeschool. We homeschooled our oldest for Kindergarten and put him in public for 1st. And because of that experience, we’ve decided to homeschool all of our kids! Keep up the good work!
This was the first video I've seen from you and it was very entertaining! 😊 My husband and I are actually the opposite of you guys as far as schooling backgrounds go. He was pretty adamant about wanting to homeschool our kids (I was pregnant with our first when we started talking about it), and I was dead set on public school 😬 I ended up changing my mind, thankfully, and we've been homeschooling ever since my oldest was in kindergarten (he's finishing up 6th grade)! We have five kids, with another one due in January, so I will definitely be checking out more of your videos!! 😃👍
Y'all are so cute together! 😄. My husband went to public school and I was homeschooled as well. I love how your husband talked about outdoor education and taking care of the things you own. I wish I could get my husband to come on my channel! 🙄😆 Thanks for sharing! 💖
You two are adorable! So wonderful to have a supportive Hubbs!! 🙌🎉
Oh I laughed so hard at the end. My husband is in charge of PE too, and I could not relate to this more! 😄
Hahaha! 😂 you two! Loved this! Thanks for sharing 😳
Oh my goodness, thank you for this! My hubby does the same. It gives me some time to gather my thoughts, haha!
"Humans!" Haha your husband reminds me so much of mine. This was great 😃
I laughed so hard at that!!
what a great video! it's so funny. it made me laugh and i needed it :))
Love Dads view! Great video. WTG dad! 🤜🏼💥🤛🏼
Your husband is a hoot and you two are adorable together!
Loved this!
That was great to watch! Jonathan was hilarious.
I am a SAHD, that did 99% of the education, untill my wife decided to go back to school. I still do most but she is able to help little more . I try and leave her alone though, she now has "home-work" too (LoL)!
This has been a hard journey for me, being a "dad" that is doing this, I had to exclude my self from many function because I would have been the only dad. I would be very interested in learning about Canada's laws in regards to HSing!
Loved this, you guys are so cute together 😄
My husband and I have a similar dynamic. Love it.
Haha! Did you guys joke 'cradle robber' lol!!?? My husband and i have 5 years between us and i went to university too but decided not to go back so we could start our family. Hah. Love the cradle robber joke. How many years do you guys have between you?
I’m the same way! I don’t want to give up the control in teaching 🤣 but my husband is cool with that, he likes to do the science experiments and the outside play
Love this! Were you homeschooled all the way through, Rebecca? I was homeschooled, and my husband went to private school, and it was him who really wanted to homeschool our kids...of course I was happy to as well, but was more on the fence for a while. 😊
Your husband is killing me right now 😅🤣😂
Awesome thank you!
Is your husband Filipino? I’m Filipina and I’ve been homeschooling for 3 years now... and my family still asks about when the kids will start ‘regular’ school. They’re nice about it but are still skeptical that we’re serious about following through. For many Asians homeschooling may be a difficult thing to fathom.
How has your husband’s family dealt with the two of you choosing to homeschool?
ha! you guys are great!
I enjoyed 10:53 when he talked about what he likes to teach the kids :)
I love Jonathan. Both of you are so good looking. Did any kids make videos on homeschooling?
The makes reference to BC - is that British Columbia providence i n Canada?
Thanks!
Y’all are such a cute couple!
My husband loves homeschooling so that helped
You guys should do draw my life, how you met. He would crack us up.
My husband is really against it. We both went to public school though. He's a bit similar to your husband. I'm trying to convince him. I think it would be good for the kids. My husband works nights and weekends and the flexibility in schedules is a plus for us. But the atmosphere of public schools scare me with all the bullying and other issues. I have similar feelings to those expressed in the video. Side note, your husband is hilarious.
9:30
Her: (Did I put the clothes in the dryer?)
Him: (I hear myself talking, but I’m not sure I agree with what I’m saying)
Her: (Wait. What? I didn’t know he was placed into a “special class” when he went to grade school.)
Him: (Did I just say I was “cheap”?)
Her: (A “special class”? That’s it. He’s not teaching our kids anything anymore unless it’s P.E.)
Just like my husband! 😆
So my husband says, “sell me on it”. Idk what to say to sell him on homeschooling 🤷♀️ ... but I’m ready to do this.
Oh man! Did you say Fraser BC? Are you in British Columbia?
I’m not trying to be creepy! lol. My husband just grew up in BC and I’ve yet to find a homeschool blogger such as yourself so close to home.
We are! :) It's rare to find Canadian homeschoolers in the online world!
Homeschool On yay!! The terrain and weather looked familiar in some of your vlogs. He grew up in vanderhoof but we are now in Alberta. My husband has a handful of cousins that are RCMP officers in BC and Alberta so your family is even more relatable. So exciting to find you.
Btw, I have been so blessed by your blog, vlog and podcast lately as I’ve been trying to completely revamp our homeschool. My daughter is 10 and quite dyslexic. Wondering if AAR and AAS might be what we need. I implemented your morning basket ideas and want to try looping. Love the changes coming to our home because of it. Your podcast on kids falling behind has been a gift from the Lord. Blessings!
I’m having a hard time deciding. 😭 I want to but I’m afraid I won’t be able to help my kids that much. 😞 I need to decide in two months.
You don't have to stick with your choice. It's perfectly okay to defer your decision and send your kids to school for now, and then decide later on that homeschooling is a better fit. Or not, as the case may be.
'Humans ' hahhaha im dying right now.
Hi! Just curious, is your husband Filipino?😊
I was wondering the same thing..
Same question ✋✋😊
Lol.. his funny
what i think about home schoolin is that the parents are having major sepanx. whatever it is that they will learn in traditional school is what they need to know about the world. however we want to put our children in a bubble and keep them safe from the challenges of the outside world, is just not possible and not really a practical move. let them experience the obstacles, competition,and all the social learning they can get along the way. the outside world is tough. let them have the experience to learn how to tackle the scary world we have. after all, everyone grows up, and parents are not always gona be there for us.