Story Time: We Lost One Of The Girls | Update on Imz :)
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Story Time: We Lost One Of The Girls | Also An Update On Imz ♥️
I recently saw a video discussing one of Angelina Jolie's adoption. Zahara, her daughter, was adopted from Ethiopia. At the time, she was barely walking. She's now a young woman. The video was discussing how Zahara's family wants the child back.
It was interesting reading up the different opinions. The first thing that came to my mind was, "But why now?!"
It was more interesting because we were going through the same thing. We recently lost one of the girls to her other family. To say we were heartbroken is an underestimate.
But I wanted to have a proactive conversation. I often wonder what we could have done better to prepare ourselves and her. If you are someone raising a child that's not biologically yours, would you be prepared to give them up?
I have also included an update on Imz and why you haven't seen her lately ❤️
For the sake of the child I really think the situation could've been handled better, visitations would've been best scenario especially if you then think about separating her from her sisters. It's yet another loss for the child coz now she doesn't get to be with the "real family " she has which are her sisters. The best thing would really be starting the conversation so u can also monitor somehow of her wellbeing and to reunite her with her siblings
I absolutely agree with you. I just don't know what I can do next. Our emotions really took over. I wish we could have handled it better.
I agree, I also think the situation could have been handled better. At 12 years that's a huge decision to make especially since she doesn't know the other family whatsoever and umama is strict. It's when you are old that you realized that actually all those curfews, disciple etc. saved me from a lot sonke sikhuliswe ngelohlobo. At 12 you just want to play estratweni kude kube late, you don't want rules so it's a given she will go where she will feel like kumandi khona. I hope she's safe with the new family cause izinto zinintsi. Visitations could have worked out better, cause she had the right to know her paternal side if she wanted to. I think you guys shouldn't have given out ultimatums but I understand emotions were high. I do believe though that when she's older she will come back because you guys are the family she knows ans her sisters. God forbid but in future if a similar situation with the 2 girls left occurs, please handle it better.
I think my main problem is the aunties who fought for the child. I believe they're actually after the grant. Otherwise they could've been there even when the mom was still alive. Some people do this and not even fully care for the child. Some kids end up being abused under such peoples care. They must allow the child to visit her sisters. At least you guys will know if she's well taken care off.
@@lorrainemadure2837 I totally agree, sounds like the motive of the aunts was to redirect the grant to them, my fear too would be abuse , and also here is a father who was incarcerated and no one knows how his time in prison affected him, will he automatically be able to be a good and responsible father to this young girl who is actually coming of age😞
@@blinkym21 the way I am worried ngaye. May God cover umntana bethuna 🥺🥺🥺
It's the kitchen for me 😍😍😍 ... Been meaning to compliment it
❤️❤️❤️very informative conversation, I brought up my nephew from 2 months ,mind you ma sister is alive and is 31 years old. I am only 22 buh raised the kid because both parents didn't want him. Now his 8 , very intelligent at school and has alot of potential. After 8 long years nkosi yam the father appears out of no where and wants to claim him. I was so furious, the saddest part is that there was never even one phone call from them, and they both where aware that they have a kid. He knows me as his parent , and I'm currently battling that, and it's draining because lawfully they are his parents. So nje it hurts💔💔, I'm sorry but I'm never raising no one's kid again neeeveeer😭. It's too much
Strength to you ❤️
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💔💔I feel you💔💔
Askies hle Nozi💗❤️
Strength to you my sis, may God bless you for what you did for your nephew. You took over a parent's role when he was rejected. Your nephew will never forget you, he know you as a parent. No matter what happens, I pray God comfort you, and because of what u did for ur nephew, may your own future kids not lack anything in life.
So sorry one of the girls had to go Nozi. Ohh we will miss Imz as well. My Mother raised my aunt's and uncle's kids. And all I can say is, I do not want to raise anyone's child. Experienced this at first hand. Thanks for sharing your story. 😘😘
I was raised by my stepmother from 18 months to 18 years old,when I was 18 in my Matric this lady rocked up at my house and when I asked my mom(stepmother)ba ngubani,she said,"she is your real mother" I was shocked and excited...following year I moved in with her and there was no explanation ba why she was not involved or whatsoever and I started having resentment towards her,eventually I moved out and I spent most of my life angry and in my head she was dead,only last year December I decided to go see her ...I am ok sometimes but I could use a good cry or two
And my Dad passed away last year March 💔😭and now I don't know how to really connect with my mom,I still prefer my stepmother
@@heathermbambeni529 talk to your Mom love..if it's hard write her a letter and share how you are feeling with her...your feelings are valid...most of our parents don't know how to start a conversation..they'll rather sweep things under the rug hoping they will disappear but that makes things worse...You were 18 when she came back surely at the back of her mind she knows you have questions....Iam sorry about your dad....life is too short indeed you don't want to have unanswered questions for the rest of your life when the person with all the answers is still alive....who knows she might also need this conversation just like you do...and it will create a better bond between you
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@@ntombiyenhlanhlakunene313 thank you for this comment and perspective 🙏🏽🙏🏽 blessings you you for always!
Please talk to your mom(stepmom),especially now she’s the only person you’d connect better and heal together after loosing your dad,she needs you🤞I can tell she treated you well like her own for you to only find out at 18 about your real mom♥️do have a relationship with your real mom thou,but if it was me I wasn’t gonna try to find out uba why she wasn’t in the picture,but it’s up to you Nana,healing power over your entire being Nana&peace that surpasses all understanding♥️💋♥️
”Untill God gives us our own” Likhona ithemba Uyeza u Ozayo.🤩🤩🤩
Amen to that was always praying for the coming one 🥰
From experience, I really think you made a good decision here. The visitations would have caused more heartache and quarrels which is very unhealthy for all parties involved!
Thanks for speaking English I really enjoyed this video.Raising other peoples children is not an easy task for sho
Yhooo Nozi😭😭its painful into yabantwana. MNA I'm raising a 3 months old baby ka cousin sister wam. Umntana was born with breathing difficulties, last she was admitted e Dora oko silapha she's in ICU. The mother doesnt care she doesnt know what is happenig with her child. But God is there, I know tomorrow or 5 yes to come she can come and take her child and there is nothing we can do as a family with that even though it will be painfull. Be strong sisi you and your family.❤
Mina I've learnt the hard way💔💔, leave people's kids alone ,love them from a distance don't get too attached ,especially if their biological parents are still alive base kabi abanye abazali
exactly
Even if the parents are no more, when the kids are older and finished varsity, you see other people coming closer and influencing the kids, my mum went through the most with people's kids but funny enough she's still helping others!!! 🤔💆
@@yozareason1803 Exactly what I am going through. The level of disrespect and ungratefulness I doubt I will ever help someone else's child.
@@nkonkobeap9692 I'm sorry to hear that, surely God will reward you, one day they'll remember what you've done for them, but please if you can, help those in need 🙏 remember you are not really doing it for them, people are so ungrateful don't expect anything from them, but continue to help them if you can
@@yozareason1803 I really like your Mom!! What a heart!! I want to be like her.
Nozi please when u go to PE, even if it's a Facebook live, we need Imz to just say molweni please. Thank you
In my opinion, the Social worker failed the child. Knowing the factors that influence a minor’s decision making, she should’ve at least opted for her to get to know the family first through visitations and so on. There is a whole reunification process that social workers have to follow before placing a child kwi family yakhe.
I understand nani beningafuni, but that is the least you all could’ve done for the child to transition better and adjust kwi family that she doesn’t know.
These situations are tricky, I know and I fear for the mental health yomntwana. I hope you are still communicating naye to make her aware that she’s welcome nanini na efuna ubuya.
Somewhere in my teens nam I wanted to go live with my father because I thought the grass was greener. I also have a strict mom (ufana nje noFezi), and I thought kuzoba better kwa tata. But my stepmom wayengandifuni so it was never gonna happen. Now I’m actually glad that wish never came true.
Oh marn I feel you Sisi, so.much has been taken away from you😌😌,I just hope that Shishi comes back next year.❤️❤️🌹
You have soooo much love to give hun. Sending tonnes and tonnes of baby dust to you. Love your honesty & content.
Listening to you is so liberating. There's something in you voice mahn....I think its God speaking through you 😇
Thanks for being so informative nozi ♥️♥️♥️🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Love and light sis. You are doing so well. Such an amazing pure heart. All that you’ve done has been so beautiful. Mistakes will always be there but the most beautiful part is that you are learning and honest to yourself about everything and open to learning. You are truly a reflection of Jesus🤍
Wow Nozi thank you for sharing sis, Mna ndifuna ukuthi don't be too hard on yourselves and don't dwell too much on the past and what you could have done better, we all learn from our mistakes and you guys did what you thought and believed was best for then girls. Forgive yourselves for God has forgiven you, however moving forward seek His guidance on what's best for the girls, akukho lula ukhulisa umntwana nditsho sele ingowakho and I speak from my own experience as a young single mom to 3 boys, 2 of which are are coming of age, the anger, and resentment of why are we not together as their parents is a lot sthandwa sam, oko ndingakhange ndiphelele kwi psychiatric hospital last year uThixo mkhulu I tell you. I pray that you heal sthandwa sam, uThixo akongezelele amandla to keep doing what you do. May you find comfort in the fact you did everything you knew and thought was best, and that maybe, just maybe things had to happen the way they did for a reason. I love you mama, keep shining my angel❤❤❤
Funny story when I first heard about this channel a friend recommended it to me, I thought she said your name is Noziqa(name) Mngana (Surname)😍😂😂- I love you sis Noz keep educating us, and continue doing the lord’s work ❤️
Noziqa 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm sure bakhona ooNoziqa phandl'apha 😅
😂🤣ohhh hayi igama elinjalo @Aviwe!
Thank you Nozi for always coming forward with these topics that we are so necessary yet very few are willing to bring them up.
Love you Nozi ❤️ your channel is so informative and entertaining. Really enjoy your videos
Thank you so so much 🙏
It's so sad to hear this Nozi. There is only so much one can do to prepare one's self for things like this.
Aaawee man 🥺 💔 don’t want to too much into that .. 😩
Mna I pray that this year May God blessed your womb with twins 🙏🏾👶🏽👶🏽
I think you guys, you did your best to raise them it up to them if they wanna continue living with you or not.
God will bless you.
I really understand where you Nozi and your mother were coming from in this situation.🤗🤗❤ But all things work together for the good . ❤❤
I feel so sorry for the child in all of this .. may God protect u and ur husband.
I’m sorry for what happened Nozi may God strengthen you and protect your golden heart
Great topic and very Informative discussions indeed! sharing your challenges and experiences will definitely help those on the same boat💞
I can relate to your story Nozi I'm currently raising my sister's child last year they visited my mom together with my two kids yhooo when she came back like you would find her crying which breaks my heart coz I love her with all my heart but deep down i know the will be a day where she wants to stay with my mom and her mom it's just so heart breaking to even think about it 💔
Eish this is so sad maan, I just wish nibuyele pha kula mzi nicele uxolo hard as it would but for the sake of that little one. She only chose them kuba efuna ubazi not that uthanda bona more than nina, and also to open that door yoba if she wants angabuya. I can only imagine how her sisters are feeling🥺. Imbi maan, ibuhlungu but all the best sisi
This is so sad. My family can relate to this and honestly it’s always a win or lose situation. And yes at the end of the day, the biological parent always has the last say nomatter how you would feel and no matter how many years you’ve raised their child without assistance.
I can feel the pain in your voice Nozi. May all be well with you, at the right time, the Lord will do it. We love you ❤️
I pray you get everything you wish for Nozi! I really like your energy! I always watch your videos even if I don't relate! 🤣
Love you nozi ♥️♥️🌍 and thank you for the information 🔐♥️
Hi Sis Nozi i wanted to know if you and bhut Skhu could do a video about friendships when married. I.e. how to navigate friendships with the opposite sex for both male and female and navigating friendships with other married couples and friendships with other single women/men when married and the boundaries. Would love to hear your perspective on that.
Imz just has a mind of her own😅💕
The new baby sibling did not help matters
It's a hard one Nozzy, I think you and your mom were over protective which is understandable.I have a feeling she will come back, but if she doesn't it's fine. Once your emotions have come down,you and your mom need to find out if you can have access to her. I'm sure her sisters would also like to spend some time with her. I can assure you, she feels bad that she chose her other family.When you see her,please let her know that you understand & that you are not mad at her❤️.
This is sad Nozi yet very informative. Kids love freedom they can't handle. I fully agree with what you sad a child with 2 homes becomes unstable and gets away with a lot maybe you guys can arrange her coming for school holidays to be with her siblings. Trust you me she already miss your home, Aunt's and Dad will not take care of her like your mom did, they have their lives and kids you guys are old and leave on your own meaning your mom gives full attention to them.
Yeah this video was so vulnerable, thank you for sharing. But I think it's important for the other siblings that are with your mom to be in contact with their sibling. It is important that they also keep that bond because they will need it as they grow up and not feel astray from each other. I think the father should also be a parent to them to even if they don't live with them. It just makes things easier so they don't feel that void of not having both parents while other one does. And the one they took naye should be in contact with you guys still. I think both family's should help each other in raising all 3 children.
Jonga sis Nozie as painful as it is incede yanesigqibo esivakalayo zibekwa. Fezlele might be hurting for losing her child but her present heartache is nothing compared to what was she gonna go through should that girl chose to stay with her sekukho le family intsha "yaklotata wakhe" 🤞. I am an orphan I know how difficult it is to raise us. Yabona le yenzekileyo-nimbulele uThixo ngayo. I pray that she is not taken away from u ngenxa yeFoster care grant&that she won't find herself bein a nanny to her partenal cousins or even to her step mother's kids. I hope that family will protect&guide her bongeze kwiFoundation ka Fezie ukumenza umntu obhinqileyo ongcono ngomso.
Sending you guys soo much strength❤️uThixo ke akawadli amandla elungisa-mkhulu umvuzo wenu ngokubavulela nibanike ikhaya.🤞😊
I’m going to miss Imz❤️
your kitchen is beautiful..Love you
I can see the pain in your eyes sis😭💔
I have a12 yr old son and was thinking of adopting a baby girl as my son is pitting me underpressure of a lil sis.
Was honestly thinking of adoption as i.v lost faith in men.
But this video has now changed my thought
Askies Nozi💞
Kjoh I am so sorry Nozi 😭 I kinda feel with you. I'm not married but from a young age I always wanted to adopt children like Angelina Jolie 💖 but there are reality where the parents might want their child back etc. But God sees your work. He sees your heart. He sees your tears. And He sees you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I would have expected the social worker to do a thorough due diligence. It cannot be that a 12 year old is allowed to take such decisions. I really wish you can perhaps try reach out and at least maintain relationship between the child and the siblings.
Love you Nozi! So sad to hear that Imz is not coming back. She had the best time with her Dabs & Uncle Skhu ❤️❤️
Say that again again 💯
Notification gang gang💃💃💃
I've got mega love for you Nozi❤
The story of the girl really breaks my heart yazi bethuna💔💔💔. But all things happen as they should mntase, akhonto sinoyenza. Xolweni
Eish Nozi Sisi we are raising my biological sisters daughter, her mother passed away when she was 3 and her father did not bother himself by coming to the funeral and what happened to your home ndihlale ndiyicinga ba angathi gqi athi ufuna umntanakhe after 10 years of disappearance 😩 this is not easy yhoo I am hurting but kuzolunga. I even have a picture of this in my home whoaw life ha.aa
You can still open the door for the her sake and also for the sake of her siblings. Apologise if you have to, yes it won't be easy but its worth the try❤❤❤ All the best❤❤❤.
I love you sis Nozi everyday 💓 💛
So sorry about your loss of the other daughter. I think perhaps meeting each other half way with the father and his family might have been better for both families. However, I understand the way your family reacted to the entire matter of sharing the child when she is now grown and your family has provided so much for her. I think in time the child will come back to your family, it always happens most of the time. I think right now it's just the excitement of something new to the child and I hope when she comes back you will welcome her.
In regards to Imz, that is also sad coz she learnt a lot from your home environment in Jozi in such a short space of time. However, I could see from her reaction on that video she had a surprise visit from her dad that she missed him a lot. So this one is not a surprise for me. I feel for you guys, it can't be nice. I also always think about taking in one of my nieces buy always think of what could happen in the long run when she wants go back to her parents or parents want her back after I have done so much and developed so much bond with her then I stop at that. I always try to guard my heart as much as I like helping but... ☝️
Ohh sis nozie I totally understand how you feel...you will get used to everything that you went through. Ekugqibeleni there is a reason why God allowed one of the girls and Imz to be taken away. God is teaching you something, and one day it will be revealed. Hang in there... We love you this side #Jeffreys Bay❤️❤️❤️
Ey Noz injalo dear kids we will always go back to their parents even if you provide everything for them 😁 make yours my love❤️
Nozi this topic heat home I took care of my cousin's daughter till she graduated and then things changed she began to know her mom and her mom' s sibblings and I became a bad person.Yes I am happy she acknowledges her mom but I never though we won't have a relationship.To tell the truth it hurts and I told myself I will never adopt no ones child.However I realised that its life and the reality when we do good to others lets trust God to do the rest.I am a strict person I admit but I am a loving and supportive as well.
God knows your mom's heart and your heart continue to do good.God will bless you with your child.
I personally think adopting a relative or family members children is the worst and would eventually put you through the most. Rather go for children who are up for adoption/ abandoned. By law the parents have been officially relinquished (or Forfeited) of their rights and responsibilities as parents. They are not allowed near those children, infact some would never show their faces cause they are hunted by law and need to go to Jail. You know moss ityala aliboli.
Your home is so beautiful ❤️❤️
All will be well, sorry Nozi
I love you, Nozzzz♥️💋
❤❤❤ thank Nozi
Yhooo I’m so early. First comment❤️❤️
Hi Sis'Nozi.
I was in this child's shoes 12 years ago. I just started a UA-cam channel and I have been thinking of content to shoot for my channel. I'll talk about my experience of not longing for a father. I hope to post this video two weeks from now.
Thank you so much for this video.
a part of me is happy that the child went to her father with the hope she's happy there. so many of us are broken because of absent fathers. Had she stayed with you'll without a relationship with her father she would have grown hate towards you'll from depriving her that relationship.
I do hope she comes back eventually
Ahhhhhh man Imz usishiya oluhlobo kule jhb sending you love Sisi 💕💕💕💕💕
In Imz side it’s tricky because her mom is alive, and her mom will always be her mom
Very true
Thanks for sharing this topic darling. I've learned to love other people's kids from a distance and I must say it wasn't easy BUT it was the best decision I have ever made since I don't have kids of my own. You are such a blessing and hey, I like your honesty and the manner you narrate your stories. I guess you take some time to deal with whatever you experienced and when you share its you make it easy for one to understand and make PEACE! MAY GOD BLESS & KEEP YOU AND YOUR LOVED ONES!
An sure you you guys miss her......you were the best parents ever....infact u nailed it🧡
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Umntana womntu yingxaki, I learnt from my mom's experience. Nathi we took others sisithi siyanceda.
Someone from the comments said "leave people's kids alone, love them from a distance" I felt that💔😢
In the situation yee girls that was not possible kodwa, Nozi said their father's families never offered to take them after their mother died😢.
Eish, I am nervous because we are about to adopt my sister’s child. She is single and the father of the child is totally not involved in the girl’s life. We are agreeing with my sister. My hubby is so excited and he never had a child and I could not give him a child. We just want to raise this girl and give her a better life in Sweden.
I felt that nomfundo too 💔🥰
What the social worker said is actually very simplistic. What the child wants is actually just a factor. What’s overall considered is the best interest of the child - and on that basis, the child has a better chance of being in a stable environment with you guys than the father.
Arg man Nozi you're such a great person Imz was such a great addition to your family. But i think you took the right decision she can visit if she wants but as long as her parents are alive it might be difficult to raise her. I wish you and Skhu all the best 😍❤️
Nozibele, you are a true gem. I love your self reflection and honesty. Life happens but I believe that through it all you will come out fine with scars to remind you of the journey. God bless and keep giving you strength in all your endeavors. ❤
Hay kodwa Nozi ndiya khalaza ngendlela social worker wenu enze ngayo maan, so sorry u had to go through all that 💕 yhuuu kasakhumbuleki Imz ka uncle Skhu eloxesha bethuna 💔😢
I am sorry Nozi, you will have your own ,its going to be fine
This topic gives me chills, but ke at the end of the day kids choose their parents and nothing we can do. I think if anyone plans to adopt, they should have expectations like these from the beginning so when it happens it's not like "huh".
Sorry Nozi people with good heart always get hurt 😔
Good evening Sis Nozi. Very touchy topic yet informative. I had an operation last year (Hysterectomy) because of multiFibroids on mywomb, I'm still on my healing journey. Meaning I won't have children but what you are saying I was thinking about it as I was talking to my husband about adoption but I'm scared of losing that child at the long run...but. these things should be really discussed ukuzilungiselela wena ufuna uAdopter....
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UThixo uzokupha abantwana abaninzi ngexesha lakhe elaziwa nguye....for now enjoy umtshato wakho sisi.
My sisters and I are being raised by our aunt (not blood related), it has been over decade since our parents have passed away. My aunt encouraged us to have the relationship with our families(both sides), we are old now and we would never leave my aunt for my blood family, well I know I won't. That woman raised us to her best ability, by herself without any help. Our situation is different from this one because our parents are no more,so atleast no one can really come and claim us.
Bless your heart and your moms❤
Nombuso well said sisi I really love your comment 💕
We are here😀💜💜
Don't be too hard on yourself after everything that has happened...You had good intentions...there is no manual for such matters....You and your Mom did the best you could when no one was willing to...ofcourse your response to them rocking up out of no where was going to come from an emotional state..you can't fix what has already happened...moving forward since you still have 2 more girls you are taking care of that's when you can consider doing things differently if history repeats itself....if I may add I think you Nozi particularly is going through a transformation....God is doing something behind the scenes with your life..first it was your job now Imi and one of the girls..trust me this is all Gods plan and only him knows the reasons behind all this loss....all I know is it's for your own good even if it doesn't look or feel like it at this moment...sometimes we fail to see Gods purpose because we are not him..we will always see things with our human eyes..especially because He does his thing without warning or assurance...but we just have to keep trusting him...His plan is always greater then our own....there will be a day when everything will be clear and you will see why things happened the way they are happening...now keep your head up high ...you are amazing ❤
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Well said. I think God does everything so we can testify about His Greatness and bring Him glory. The crushing is tough but it benefits us in one way or another 🌞❣️
Yhe Sana uyitye yonke yeva🤣🤞♥️Laqa!Youmake sooo much sense♥️
Dont worry babe u'll always be the best aunty ok. They'll always wanna come for holidays, thats more fun! Enjoy yr time without kids for now. ❤❤❤
Oooh bathong! I miss Imz so much😭
I hope she comes back when she gets older cos wow
Hope so too hle bathong
Raising another person's child it's the most difficult thing ever...It broke my heart when I raised my late cousin's them years later they told him I killed his mom..Thinking i had to stop my dreams and go look for a job so I can provide while his grandmother and dad were alive.I learnt to love people from a distance..I never understood why they told I killed his mom but I'm grateful honestly cause now Im pushing and ready to welcome my 2nd.I was so sad that I'm going to have another child and all that but something really happened for a reason😊Now I'll focus on me and my kids..I pray some day he sees how much I loved him as my own but I love him from a distance now and that's okay
It's terrible. My mom has a friend whose step daughter was fighting her for the right to bury her father after this woman did everything for her and took care of her from the time she was still a baby.
Situations like this will make us fear to sacrifice for people we love.
Congratulations on your second pregnancy. Everything is going to be alright❤️
@@omphilemoerane2569 Thank you ♥️
it life lessons and I'll never help anyone.
i think letting a child make such a big decision was a big mistake, please ensure you check up on her! to know how she is doing.
I am also raising three kids that are no mine,and ja I pray it would not go to the point that have to loose one because I would not survive it,when not here for holiday I can feel my house is empty
Well done to you and umothers for taking your nieces in after their mom’s passing. Mna I think I would do the same nam as your niece did. Ligazi kaloku even though you and your mom did a good job taking care of her.
As for Imz lol I don’t blame her naye though it’s hard for you guys to let go. Lelagazi kaloku.
So into ithi “ uOwam” is on the way.🤪 😂
Operation:”Owam”
God’s blessing to you and your family.
Watching you from New Jersey 🇺🇸
Originally from Westering,Gqebera
Born eBlawa-New Brighton, eFord.
I love watching you and your beautiful fun marriage especially when you talk Xhosa yase Blawa. Ndivele ndiphendule iscreen nam ngesaXhosa saseBlawa
Eg”Bhotorosha” 😂
I’m sure my hubby thinks I’m crazy sometimes when I talk to the screen in my mother tongue 😂
Love and peace ✌️ ❤️
Kids are very loyal to their blood parents. I learned this very quickly with my nephew. You can love them from here to the galaxy BUT when that parent steps in, ah I'm telling you, you will see dust. It is what it is. Love the kids well but know the truth.
Soo true
So true. They'll always want and love their biological parents more no matter how much love they receive from you and how much rejection they receive from their biological side. It's tricky.
God works in His own way. See the lesson here and act.
Nuff said.
May the Lord grant you your own children at His perfect time 🙏❤️
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Nozi. I commend you for wanting to step in to help raise the girls. My cousin is a children's court judge and when I was doing some research for a friend I asked her about a similar situation to yours. She basically said according to our laws biological parents will majority of the time win custody cases because they are the child's blood unless if some extremely rare circumstance causes the judge to rule otherwise. However what should have happened was mediation together with the social worker and and the child present to "slowly" introduce the idea to the child of getting to know her father and his family. Its a sad situation all around but my cousin says she always rules based off of what is best for the child. Don't feel bad for wanting to help when indeed help was needed...when the girls are older or is they see that the life they were living with you guys was more stable conversations will begin. Wishing you love and light!
First to be here ❤🎊💃
Oh Imz ncooo we are going to miss her so much
As a family, your heart is in the right place Nozi. UThixo, nguThixo wexesha lakhe. Even in this situation He can still turn things around ❤️. Oh man, I’m definitely going to miss Imz 😁. Please do feature her when possible.
Hlw Nozi. I am so so sorry. I know the feeling, I raised my husband cousin 'Son from when he was 2 years old. Went to his mom when he was 13. I was broken. Now he is 16.We love each other so much.
Already here 🥺
Notification gang❤️💃🔔
💔💔This is a painful situation 💔💔