Cultivates Trust and Safety: ICF Core Competency #4
Вставка
- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Today we'll discuss what ICF Core Competency #4, Cultivates Trust and Safety means and how to grow within this competency. Join me!
Thank you for watching, and please subscribe, like, and share.
Learn more about Mentor Coaching with me! lyssadehart.co...
And, check out lyssadehart.com/ for information and my store link lyssadehart.po... for more free resources.
I am a collaborative truth-teller and thought partner, who forms deep relationships that support my clients to grow past their limiting narratives so that they can excel at life and craft a story worth living. With 25+ years of experience, I am here to support you. Lyssa deHart, MSW, LICSW, MCC
Leadership Confidence and Whole Life Coaching | ICF Mentor Coach |
Author | Founder of the LinkedIn Group-Coaching Mindset
From the ICF Core Competency Model.
Definition: Partners with the client to create a safe, supportive environment that allows the client to share freely. Maintains a relationship of mutual respect and trust.
1. Seeks to understand the client within their context, which may include their identity, environment,
experiences, values, and beliefs
2. Demonstrates respect for the client’s identity, perceptions, style, and language and adapts one's
coaching to the client
3. Acknowledges and respects the client's unique talents, insights, and work in the coaching process
4. Shows support, empathy and concern for the client
5. Acknowledges and supports the client’s expression of feelings, perceptions, concerns, beliefs, and
suggestions
6. Demonstrates openness and transparency as a way to display vulnerability and build trust with
the client
Join my Free Monthly Coaching Q&As here: bit.ly/MonthlyQAsforCoaches
Each Month we will discuss a Coaching Topic that will support your growth. Get access to the past recordings as well and get your free 1 Resource Development CCE for each month! Woot! 💖
LOVE the visual of viewing oneself as blind and having a light hand on clients' shoulder, allowing us to deepen into our intuitive feelings as well. TY!
I am so happy that the idea worked for you :) Thank you for the comment!
I love the metaphor of a client walking you through their internal landscape! Good nugget right there! 😊
I truly love how metaphors are linked to the clients brain and tell coaches something important. :) Thank you for the comment!
Your blind wisdom illuminates every step I take forward as a coach.Thank you 🤗
I’m so glad you liked it. It definitely requires that we trust the client and believe that they are whole, capable, resourceful, and creative. Trusting them to lead us. Thank you for your comment. 😀
I love the “desire to be curious about the client”. It is absolutely how to demonstrate trust but I had not thought of it that way before. Thank you 🙏
I think it goes back to the idea of presence. How are we showing up with people. 😀 thank you Tracey for highlighting this element.
Just watched this for the third time via your Self-Paced ICF Exam prep. I love this video. I think🥰 it is one of your best!
Wow, thank you! I really appreciate the feedback and of course I am thrilled you liked it :)
Great insight provided and excellent metaphors, thank you!
Well, I do love metaphors! :)
Insightful, instructrive, clear and purposeful. Thank you! ❤
Glad you enjoyed it and I hope it supports your partnership with your clients :)
Thank you Lyssa, this is really helpful, you've given me insights in moving from laiser focus and the "low hanging fruits", to be curious and client centred
Wonderful to hear. I do think there is a place for both, sometimes the shift is to being laser focused in our listening and hearing what is bubbling below the surface. Let me know how it goes as you play with this idea. :)
Incredible that you don't have thousands of likes on your UA-cam content! It's very helpful to me. On my way to my ICF exam atm!!!
Woot! Good luck on the exam and share my videos :) Thank you so much for the comment and I wish you every success on the exam!!!
As I listen to this video again, I wanted to share my aha moment around not having to tell the client that it’s a safe space because you demonstrate it’s a safe space. That is a little different from some guidance that I’ve training where they said to be explicit about some things, I see now that that’s actually not so helpful.😊
Brilliant! Yes, trust and safety are better demonstrated than told. :)
great explanation 👏👏
I’m so happy to hear it resonates 😀