To all of you, to anyone who feels like they are ugly, or fat, or worthless, anyone who feels like they're not skinny enough, or pretty enough, or not 'this' or not 'that': You. Are. Perfect. You are beautiful and lovely and gorgeous and amazing and perfect. Never let anyone tell you otherwise, because they're liars. If you don't like what you see in the mirror, I'm so sorry, but rest assured, no matter what you look like, your weight, height, anything, you are absolutely beautiful. My goal is to have each one of you look in the mirror and smile because you love what you see. It doesn't matter if you have rolls (we ALL do), or scars or stretchmarks, or anything else. It all makes up your beauty. It's like someone hand-made you as your own unique sculpture and added those beautiful, flawless details before you could be perfect. You really are strong enough to fight this, I promise. You can learn to love yourself, and be happy. It may take a week, or a month, or a year, or even several years. You may relapse, you may cry, you may even feel worse, but I promise you can get through this, and take back your life and your body.
Thank you...I needed this. I looked in the mirror and cried at what I saw, then I smiled because I realized I was perfect in my own way... Thank you... :')
This song really touches my heart. My mother is a bulimic, and I've grown up around all the pain she goes through because of it. I know it's not my fault that she's like this, but I want her to get better. And all I can do is pray to God that she will find the answer. And I know I'm not the only one who feels like this. Anyone who is a bulimic, just know that you are beautiful the way you are, you don't need to change for others.
Im 5'1 and 115lbs and I feel wonderful :') I used to be so obsessed that I wouldn't even chew gum because it had calories! Its not worth obsessing over, trust me.
This song fits to my life so much... I'm a cutter, I might have a depression and I might have an eating disorder.. I'm fighting every single day... I've had a lot of suicide thoughts, but luckily I have a best friend who helps me make it through the day/night..
This song really gets me, I had an eating disorder when i was 16, I thought I had recover but now I'm 21 and I'm struggling again, i've lost 15 pounds and everyday feels like i need to loose a little more than yesterday, I don´t want it to consume my life again. This song makes me hopeful, It helps me get through the day
God put us on this earth in many shapes and sizes... Todays media give women a certain body type that makes most of us 'the wrong shape'. Most of us are gonna give birth at some point and if you're unhealthy thin that's gonna be a problem. Please be comfortable in your body, I'm not the prettiest, thinnest person and I went through a self conscious stage but now I focus on finding positives about myself instead of wishing to be like other girls, I hope you all can do the same because it's the best feeling in the world, being happy with yourself.
I stumbled across this song by accident, and I am very glad that I did. I've relapsed recently after I was doing really well for a long time, and this song really helped me to take a step back and take a look at myself. The song is surprisingly accurate, and I think a great one. It touches on a lot of fundamental things that fuels eating disorders (secrecy being a big one) and an inability to vocalize how it feels. This song has given me some ideas on how to approach the subject with loved ones.
I don't know if my best friend is reading this, but thank you your like my twin sister and you helped me through a tough time, where I fought just to eat, I told people I ate when secretly I threw it away, if anything you helped me you stopped me going back down that road of obsession against loosing the weight THANK YOU!!!!!
Truth is that nowadays no one cares about the others enough. If you see someone cry, you should go and try to make him smile. Same goes here: I never said enough to some friends of mine how they were precious, beautiful, perfect in their way. We can heal each other with so little effort... like a song, a song like this :)
For 2 years i would not eat, i couldnt sleep, i could hardly focus on anything, and it was all because of a little disease called leukemia, my little brother whom i practically raised had cancer. Thats all i could think of, and to this day it still gets to me, hes happy, hes alive, hes thriving, hes in remission yet there are days i will not eat, nights i cannot sleep because i worry so much that i make myself sick. I was twelve, 2 years ago i was only 12, i felt fat, ugly, i only had 2 friends, i brroke down but because of music and support, because of people ive come to know and live through the internet and throughout my freshmen year ive been bettering not only my life but ,y 3 year old brothers as well, i just wanted to share my story as proof that even when thigs are at thhere datkest theres a light, that light for me is my baby brother, he means the world to me, and if you can find one thing that means the world to you, you hold onto it, and you protect it with all you can
its great this is being talked about i had a friend when i was younger who died of anorexia she tried to tell her parents but never did if id realised earlier i could of saved her :'( this song reminds me of her.
This song reminds me of my grandpa. He died of cancer 3 weeks ago. This song reminds me, 'cause a week before he died, he was so skinny. He wont eat, 'cause he couldn't taste anything. I still miss him, and I still cry sometims. He was only 70...
This song is so deep, it gets right to my heart. I feel that I could help people but they're so far out of reach I feel useless. I'm not having the best time, I just cut my hair really short and this song helped. It made me feel that I'm not ugly and that even though this song says the opposite I know that it was made for people who have had hard times. To escape the world, to feel better
Keep your head up! Eat healthy things and maybe do some sports. You have to eat! Food was never the bad thing and it never will be. You need it. If you need someone to talk i'll be there. I hope you're all doing fine!:) Stay strong.
One thing I have learned is that before you ever start thinking your overweight...look at a reputable website that has a chart or something to explain to you what is under, normal, and over weight. If your between the ages 10-14 it is normal to be a little over weight, because your body is going through many changes. It is KEY to not beat youself up ever!! The main thing is to be heathy. Don't let outer appearance define you.
Thanks! That comment was really inspiring. I have now dropped to an anorexics weight, Every mouthfull is a challenge and I only eat around family when we have sit down meals now. Which at most is twice a day. My mum worries about me so much so I always try so hard to finish the plate. I end up feeling to bad because of it.
Remember your body is beautiful . There are other alternatives of losing weight exercise eat heathy . I have struggled with bulimia for 5 years i wouldn’t say I’m fully recovered i haven’t in a year and i still struggle with my body but im much happier i surrounded my self with people who helped me .
be proud with the skin you're wearing, everyone is beautiful. => this song changed the way i feel about my body, im proud with what i have and who i am. (:
This song is pretty much my life. The worst thing is I see/hear so many people have anorexia, and all I think is "How can people do this to themself, can't they see how incredible beautiful they are?" I didn't understand how anyone could starve themselfs, but now, I do it myself. It's all in our heads. (Ugh, nevermind my english okokok)
For any of you girls who think you're not pretty because you got a little weight to you, Please don't hate yourself. Everyone is beautiful, no matter their size or shape. You may get bullied but let that become your strength. You're a great person, don't let people push you around because of your appearance. Stand up and be heard. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Don't let anyone tell you different!
ive been bulimic and recently been struggling with it again and i hate it! i have currently stopped eatting but have been hospitalise due to dehydration in the last month i told my best friend last week but she doesnt understand why.....these comments are really inspiring
Doesn't mean you can't try. It's hard, but with a decent amount of self motivation and a good support base, it is possible. Don't give up, no matter what. It always gets better eventually. Just keep it up, and you'll find yourself better before you know it
This song really speaks to me. I'm not anorexic as i'm not underweight.. yet. But my actions and food intake etc are symptoms of borderline anorexia. I also suffer from bulimia but i don't binge eat.
Starving yourself is not worth it. I'm miserable. And trying so hard to get out of it. I don't even know if I can. Please, anyone who wants to stop eating, don't. I don't care your reason. If you're truly overweight, talk to your doctor and loose weight healthily. If you want control, this isn't the way. You think you control it, but you don't. I'm controlled by my eating disorder. Please don't go down this destructive path. You are beautiful. You don't need to do this. You deserve so much more.
The thing is, you can have an eating disorder such as anorexia nervosa, and not be stick thin. Different cases. Some people get bloated and some get very thin. I'm 5'4 and I weigh 118 pounds, but I can regularly for for 45 hours with no food.
Love yourself, accept who you are, if you don't like anything you must know you're in control, change whatever you want but don't lose your mind or your faith, stay strong, love your body, eat healthy, exercise, enjoy life, beauty-love-god is in everything, you just have to open your heart to see it!
I've never been one for eating disorders, but self harm is no stranger to me, so I get where your coming from. It's a good thing. Even though sometimes to admit that I have to drag it past my own teeth, people trying to stop you from destroying yourself are doing the right. Whatever your worried about, weight or issues besides, just cry it out and work towards something. It's better than going backwards by starving yourself to death. Or ripping through your arms.
Everytime I listen to this song... I want to cry.. but then I look in the mirror & it's a reminder of why I do what I do.. 5'7 is my hieght, 102 pounds is my goal.. No one here even notices.. eating not even half of a sandwhich a day.. yeah that's how i go on in lifee... plenty of regrets, but i want to be beautifull..
Everyone, your beautiful inside and out! Believe it. No need to not eat. Remember stay strong -3 there's people that love you and couldn't stand to see you like this
it's not THIS society; it has always been about beauty, Always. And Never about the inside. It's human nature. That's why individuals sometimes can make some difference.
I am a performing arts student, and my class final major project is the play Hard To Swallow, about a girl who died from anorexia. This song could have been written about her, so moving.
I used to be a size zero....now I'm a healthy size 7 and I feel great! =) I see a lot of posts on here about girls who wished they were smaller. Are you saying that God's design isn't good enough? You forget humankind is made in His image. Be proud of how you look. And for those who stop eating and such because of someone telling you that you don't look good enough? Don't listen to them. What do they know? People who really love you will accept you for who you ARE.
I'm not anorexic, and I haven't been bulimic for over a year, and I'm proud. I may not be the skinniest person, but trust me, I am beautiful. And I'm not being big headed, I'm just saying, you don't need to be skinny to be amazing in every way. Just love yourself for being you, because nobody else is quite like you. :-)
Im 17 over weight, everyone things im a failure even my own dad,ive lost my bestfriend andy pride, but through all this im still happy, make everyday count and smile like its your last smile
don't head down that road.i've tried to and trust me it isn't a good thing.i had to pull myself out of it cause no1 noticed i was even in that stage.now i have alot of problems eatting.still i force myself to eat cause i don't want to become who i was.it doesn't take strength to not eat.it takes strength to eat when you don't want to.and to tell yourself your beautiful every time u wake up in the morning.no matter what people tell u.
Except for a couple of lines, I feel like this song could apply to a lot of mental illnesses, not just eating disorders. I struggle with an anxiety disorder and that chorus still resonates with me so hard, especially when I'm having bad days. I'm not through the night yet...but I'll be okay.
There are a lot of things that are bad in the world. But God will be there to help you.min the end everything will be better. It may take time but eventually it will get there. No one should fee
Reminds me of how I feel when people make me feel bad.I throw up and starve myself,and noone can see past a fake smile and laugh...When I see the reflection in the mirror,I see this girl who's just...Hurt and torn because of people,people she HATES..And she does this to her to make them like her...And knowing that what she's doing is dangerous doesn't stop her..No matter what part of her says she needs to stop...
listening to song, it reminds me all the situations i lived in the past, i dont want to get into this miserable world again...thats why i feel so scared :(
Girls and guys, your all beautiful. God doesn't make mistakes, your all perfect. You don't need starve yourselfs to feel pretty. Talk to someone who's close, tell them you don't know how to stop and that they need to understand how serious it is and they need to help you through it. If they say 'oh really? That sucks, you should eat!' and don't do anything, they're not real friends. Talk to someone you know will do something and help u get through it
it makes me so sad to see that a lot of these comments are coming from people under the age of 16. no one should have to hate themselves enough to become either anorexic OR bulimic. not everyone looks the way that they want-- not even supermodels. and 12 year olds shouldn't be doing this to themselves for the attention of ANY guy. i don't know any of you, but i wish you all would realise that you're beautiful.
All these people saying they arent anorexic or bulimic consider yourself lucky. its not fun eating barely anything and being so scared that that food may make you fatter that you throw it up as soon as possible :/ if you feel yourself going down that path please help yourself. cause once you get far enough down there its hard to find your way out. im still looking for my way out.
I know it's gotta be hard I know many people who have similar problems but when it is physically painful too eat you'll change your mind, when you have to have therapy, when you throw up at the smell of food, when your unable to stand always collapsing from being so weak, maybe then you'll realize the pain and the suffering of those with a eating disorder until then you can't judge either.
@Jersyshore23 Thank you so much for the offer but I'm learning to control it. Thank you so much that sounds like a really cool program! Keep it going! You'll make a huge impact on people's lives.
I'm soo sorry! Whatever you do, don't blame yourself, it's not your fault. He knew you loved him, but suicide was his decision. And make sure you look outside of yourself for help, and don't rely on ana or cutting or anything. Punishing yourself won't make him come back, but loving yourself as you are and can be will make you come back. God bless.
@xXmarryxmeXmusicXx It doesn't matter the age, height only matters. Therefore, we could actually 'calculate' if you are chubby or not. (Which you don't seem like it.)
This song describes me.I hate myself. I wish I was stronger. I try to stay positive because where is sadness going to get me? I wish I was pretty and thin. I am a 16 year old girl that weighs 222. That caused me to get an illness Pseudotomuros Cebri. ( Not sure on the spelling) It wasn't pleasant, trust me. I need to still believe there is hope. I am working on my depression. I over eat when I am sad. I am me because of what I do. Thanks for uploading this song. :D There is hope, right?
my parents keep telling me that i need to lose weight and watch what i eat, but its hard because i'm never filled up on fruits on vegetables. i never loose weight from excercise, either. they keep telling me that i need to loos weight, and at this point, starving myself may be the only answer. ive been fighting the urge for a while, and these days, things like this song are the only things that stop me. to anyone else who is struggling, hold on, you can fight it, you're strong enough.
I can't decide whether giving thumbs up to these sad comments will mean i give support, or that I'm happy for their pain, because i wanna show my support 0.0
Just because people in other places have bigger problems than somebody who - for example - has an eating disorder, doesn't mean that this persons problem is less. That they are "pathetic" for hating themselves because they feel ugly. That's the kind of world we've come to live in. And you're going to have to face it. There will always be people who cut, who starve themselves and what not. And this is horrible, nobody deserves to think about themselves in that way. But there's nothing you can do.
Everyone on here who is struggling with depression, anorexia, bulimia, or anything else. I'm here. I'll listen. Just message me and I swear I'll do my best to help you. Trust me I've been through stuff like that and no one deserves to think that they are fat.
Yes. And it's not a "disease," it's a disorder. Disease : A disorder of structure or function in a human, animal, or plant, esp. one that produces specific signs or symptoms or that affects a specific location and is not simply a direct result of physical injury. Disorder : A disruption of normal physical or mental functions; a disease or abnormal condition : *eating* disorders | an improved understanding of mental disorder.
I am 11 years old, in 6th grade. My name is Coral. I used to be 150 pounds (Or something crazy like that..) I lost a bunch of weight over the summer from playing Softball and eatting right. I was so proud of myself. I managed to keep my weight at 135 (My current is 130) I noticed, I lost weight VERY rapidly now. I stopped eatting. I went from 3 meals per day with a couple snacks inbetween, to 2 meals (1 on weekend or when I don't have school) and no snacks. I know it's not that big of a deal,
Im 16 and I have emotional disorder, ADD, deslexia, and manny more, but I still happy 'cause that's how God made me.
To all of you, to anyone who feels like they are ugly, or fat, or worthless, anyone who feels like they're not skinny enough, or pretty enough, or not 'this' or not 'that': You. Are. Perfect. You are beautiful and lovely and gorgeous and amazing and perfect. Never let anyone tell you otherwise, because they're liars. If you don't like what you see in the mirror, I'm so sorry, but rest assured, no matter what you look like, your weight, height, anything, you are absolutely beautiful. My goal is to have each one of you look in the mirror and smile because you love what you see. It doesn't matter if you have rolls (we ALL do), or scars or stretchmarks, or anything else. It all makes up your beauty. It's like someone hand-made you as your own unique sculpture and added those beautiful, flawless details before you could be perfect. You really are strong enough to fight this, I promise. You can learn to love yourself, and be happy. It may take a week, or a month, or a year, or even several years. You may relapse, you may cry, you may even feel worse, but I promise you can get through this, and take back your life and your body.
thank you so much..
this made me cry. thank you I needed this
KriShauna Fisher You're welcome, honey. I'll always be here for you, darling. Just stay strong.
Thank you...I needed this. I looked in the mirror and cried at what I saw, then I smiled because I realized I was perfect in my own way... Thank you... :')
Venoms Poison :) You're very welcome, darling. And yes, you are perfect. Very.
This song really touches my heart. My mother is a bulimic, and I've grown up around all the pain she goes through because of it. I know it's not my fault that she's like this, but I want her to get better. And all I can do is pray to God that she will find the answer. And I know I'm not the only one who feels like this. Anyone who is a bulimic, just know that you are beautiful the way you are, you don't need to change for others.
Im 5'1 and 115lbs and I feel wonderful :') I used to be so obsessed that I wouldn't even chew gum because it had calories! Its not worth obsessing over, trust me.
Laura Trujillo im 5'5 and 101
I chew Care Free (zero calorie gum). You burn calories while chewing.
This song fits to my life so much...
I'm a cutter, I might have a depression and I might have an eating disorder.. I'm fighting every single day... I've had a lot of suicide thoughts, but luckily I have a best friend who helps me make it through the day/night..
This song really gets me, I had an eating disorder when i was 16, I thought I had recover but now I'm 21 and I'm struggling again, i've lost 15 pounds and everyday feels like i need to loose a little more than yesterday, I don´t want it to consume my life again.
This song makes me hopeful, It helps me get through the day
God put us on this earth in many shapes and sizes... Todays media give women a certain body type that makes most of us 'the wrong shape'. Most of us are gonna give birth at some point and if you're unhealthy thin that's gonna be a problem. Please be comfortable in your body, I'm not the prettiest, thinnest person and I went through a self conscious stage but now I focus on finding positives about myself instead of wishing to be like other girls, I hope you all can do the same because it's the best feeling in the world, being happy with yourself.
i keep searching this up because it relatesto my brother):(
This song got me through so much. Thank you superchick. If it wasn't for these people, I wouldn't be who I was now.
I'm slowly losing waight thank god. These songs help me stay on track.
han!nah At the disco me too
I stumbled across this song by accident, and I am very glad that I did. I've relapsed recently after I was doing really well for a long time, and this song really helped me to take a step back and take a look at myself. The song is surprisingly accurate, and I think a great one. It touches on a lot of fundamental things that fuels eating disorders (secrecy being a big one) and an inability to vocalize how it feels. This song has given me some ideas on how to approach the subject with loved ones.
There aren't enough words to describe how beautiful this is.
I don't know if my best friend is reading this, but thank you your like my twin sister and you helped me through a tough time, where I fought just to eat, I told people I ate when secretly I threw it away, if anything you helped me you stopped me going back down that road of obsession against loosing the weight THANK YOU!!!!!
Truth is that nowadays no one cares about the others enough. If you see someone cry, you should go and try to make him smile. Same goes here: I never said enough to some friends of mine how they were precious, beautiful, perfect in their way.
We can heal each other with so little effort... like a song, a song like this :)
I’ve been bulimic since I was 15. I’m 31 now. Eating disorders will grip you and never let go. Keep fighting. I am.
I was bulimic in the past, but recently relapsed again. Its so hard, a daily battle. I pray for God to end this daily struggle
For 2 years i would not eat, i couldnt sleep, i could hardly focus on anything, and it was all because of a little disease called leukemia, my little brother whom i practically raised had cancer. Thats all i could think of, and to this day it still gets to me, hes happy, hes alive, hes thriving, hes in remission yet there are days i will not eat, nights i cannot sleep because i worry so much that i make myself sick. I was twelve, 2 years ago i was only 12, i felt fat, ugly, i only had 2 friends, i brroke down but because of music and support, because of people ive come to know and live through the internet and throughout my freshmen year ive been bettering not only my life but ,y 3 year old brothers as well, i just wanted to share my story as proof that even when thigs are at thhere datkest theres a light, that light for me is my baby brother, he means the world to me, and if you can find one thing that means the world to you, you hold onto it, and you protect it with all you can
its great this is being talked about i had a friend when i was younger who died of anorexia she tried to tell her parents but never did if id realised earlier i could of saved her :'(
this song reminds me of her.
This song reminds me of my grandpa. He died of cancer 3 weeks ago. This song reminds me, 'cause a week before he died, he was so skinny. He wont eat, 'cause he couldn't taste anything. I still miss him, and I still cry sometims. He was only 70...
YOU ARE YOUR OWN KIND OF BEAUTIFUL. never let anyone bring you down:) everyone is beautiful in their own way and never try to be someone else
This song is so deep, it gets right to my heart. I feel that I could help people but they're so far out of reach I feel useless. I'm not having the best time, I just cut my hair really short and this song helped. It made me feel that I'm not ugly and that even though this song says the opposite I know that it was made for people who have had hard times. To escape the world, to feel better
I use this song not to eat.
please eat you don't want to have an eating disorder even if you think you do STAY HEALTHY...
Whyntir I wish I knew what anorexia looks like
Beautiful Song no one should be Alone nor doing bad things to Themselves.
They wouldn't deserve it.
Keep your head up! Eat healthy things and maybe do some sports. You have to eat! Food was never the bad thing and it never will be. You need it. If you need someone to talk i'll be there. I hope you're all doing fine!:) Stay strong.
'Together we can make it through another day'
Believe it. Together, we can do anything
One thing I have learned is that before you ever start thinking your overweight...look at a reputable website that has a chart or something to explain to you what is under, normal, and over weight.
If your between the ages 10-14 it is normal to be a little over weight, because your body is going through many changes.
It is KEY to not beat youself up ever!! The main thing is to be heathy. Don't let outer appearance define you.
Thanks! That comment was really inspiring. I have now dropped to an anorexics weight, Every mouthfull is a challenge and I only eat around family when we have sit down meals now. Which at most is twice a day. My mum worries about me so much so I always try so hard to finish the plate. I end up feeling to bad because of it.
This so relates to me so well! Too well...
Remember your body is beautiful . There are other alternatives of losing weight exercise eat heathy . I have struggled with bulimia for 5 years i wouldn’t say I’m fully recovered i haven’t in a year and i still struggle with my body but im much happier i surrounded my self with people who helped me .
be proud with the skin you're wearing, everyone is beautiful.
=> this song changed the way i feel about my body, im proud with what i have and who i am. (:
"I know I should know better" I do. I really do. I use logic in every thing. I do everything rational. I don't know why then.... why I do this.
This song is pretty much my life. The worst thing is I see/hear so many people have anorexia, and all I think is "How can people do this to themself, can't they see how incredible beautiful they are?" I didn't understand how anyone could starve themselfs, but now, I do it myself.
It's all in our heads.
(Ugh, nevermind my english okokok)
For any of you girls who think you're not pretty because you got a little weight to you, Please don't hate yourself. Everyone is beautiful, no matter their size or shape. You may get bullied but let that become your strength. You're a great person, don't let people push you around because of your appearance. Stand up and be heard. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Don't let anyone tell you different!
when i lost a lot of weight people say "YOU LOOK GOOD" and i just fell like screaming in there face saying "WHAT I LOOK FAT BEFORE!"
I don't think a song has ever made me cry so much.
ive been bulimic and recently been struggling with it again and i hate it! i have currently stopped eatting but have been hospitalise due to dehydration in the last month i told my best friend last week but she doesnt understand why.....these comments are really inspiring
Doesn't mean you can't try. It's hard, but with a decent amount of self motivation and a good support base, it is possible. Don't give up, no matter what. It always gets better eventually. Just keep it up, and you'll find yourself better before you know it
Im 5'7 and 115 pounds. This song helps me so much
This song really speaks to me. I'm not anorexic as i'm not underweight.. yet. But my actions and food intake etc are symptoms of borderline anorexia. I also suffer from bulimia but i don't binge eat.
Starving yourself is not worth it. I'm miserable. And trying so hard to get out of it. I don't even know if I can. Please, anyone who wants to stop eating, don't. I don't care your reason. If you're truly overweight, talk to your doctor and loose weight healthily. If you want control, this isn't the way. You think you control it, but you don't. I'm controlled by my eating disorder. Please don't go down this destructive path. You are beautiful. You don't need to do this. You deserve so much more.
The thing is, you can have an eating disorder such as anorexia nervosa, and not be stick thin. Different cases. Some people get bloated and some get very thin. I'm 5'4 and I weigh 118 pounds, but I can regularly for for 45 hours with no food.
Love yourself, accept who you are, if you don't like anything you must know you're in control, change whatever you want but don't lose your mind or your faith, stay strong, love your body, eat healthy, exercise, enjoy life, beauty-love-god is in everything, you just have to open your heart to see it!
i cant stand to listen to this song or beuty from pain without crying i love the songs
describes my life!
For a moment,
For a Moment...
I'm Happy
The best part is that my friends know I strave myself, and they don't tell.
uhhh am i the 1 that has no suggestions? @linlizsugarboots I'm so glad you made it through!! Well Done! xx
im 15 and 294 pounds. I felt alone but now i know i have someone
KriShauna Fisher im 13 5'8 and 97 pounds
@@jonathanhall6365 shush
You’re so pretty. I hope you’re doing ok.
I've never been one for eating disorders, but self harm is no stranger to me, so I get where your coming from.
It's a good thing. Even though sometimes to admit that I have to drag it past my own teeth, people trying to stop you from destroying yourself are doing the right. Whatever your worried about, weight or issues besides, just cry it out and work towards something. It's better than going backwards by starving yourself to death. Or ripping through your arms.
chills.....
beautiful
same here. Stay Strong my friend! :)
Everytime I listen to this song... I want to cry.. but then I look in the mirror & it's a reminder of why I do what I do.. 5'7 is my hieght, 102 pounds is my goal.. No one here even notices.. eating not even half of a sandwhich a day.. yeah that's how i go on in lifee... plenty of regrets, but i want to be beautifull..
this descibes how i live like all of it :(
i love superchick! i totally love this song!!!!
Everyone, your beautiful inside and out! Believe it. No need to not eat. Remember stay strong -3 there's people that love you and couldn't stand to see you like this
it's not THIS society; it has always been about beauty, Always. And Never about the inside. It's human nature. That's why individuals sometimes can make some difference.
I am a performing arts student, and my class final major project is the play Hard To Swallow, about a girl who died from anorexia. This song could have been written about her, so moving.
I used to be a size zero....now I'm a healthy size 7 and I feel great! =) I see a lot of posts on here about girls who wished they were smaller. Are you saying that God's design isn't good enough? You forget humankind is made in His image. Be proud of how you look. And for those who stop eating and such because of someone telling you that you don't look good enough? Don't listen to them. What do they know? People who really love you will accept you for who you ARE.
I am to. Its gonna be okay. You can get through it! I have felt exactly how you have and I know its hard, but you'll be fine. Just pray
It will get better. In the end it's always okay. If it's not okay, it's not the end.
(P.s. I love your username)
I'm not anorexic, and I haven't been bulimic for over a year, and I'm proud. I may not be the skinniest person, but trust me, I am beautiful. And I'm not being big headed, I'm just saying, you don't need to be skinny to be amazing in every way. Just love yourself for being you, because nobody else is quite like you. :-)
Im 17 over weight, everyone things im a failure even my own dad,ive lost my bestfriend andy pride, but through all this im still happy, make everyday count and smile like its your last smile
don't head down that road.i've tried to and trust me it isn't a good thing.i had to pull myself out of it cause no1 noticed i was even in that stage.now i have alot of problems eatting.still i force myself to eat cause i don't want to become who i was.it doesn't take strength to not eat.it takes strength to eat when you don't want to.and to tell yourself your beautiful every time u wake up in the morning.no matter what people tell u.
Where has Superchic[k] been all my life? >.> Perhaps every song on Beauty From Pain 1.1 just explains my whole dang life.
Good job on the lyrics!
When its the solo i cry because the song reminds me of my mom because she got cancer twice and died and im only nine. Miss you mommy....
Except for a couple of lines, I feel like this song could apply to a lot of mental illnesses, not just eating disorders. I struggle with an anxiety disorder and that chorus still resonates with me so hard, especially when I'm having bad days. I'm not through the night yet...but I'll be okay.
There are a lot of things that are bad in the world. But God will be there to help you.min the end everything will be better. It may take time but eventually it will get there. No one should fee
Reminds me of how I feel when people make me feel bad.I throw up and starve myself,and noone can see past a fake smile and laugh...When I see the reflection in the mirror,I see this girl who's just...Hurt and torn because of people,people she HATES..And she does this to her to make them like her...And knowing that what she's doing is dangerous doesn't stop her..No matter what part of her says she needs to stop...
I feel like this song was written for me thats how I can relate to it :'( idk if I need help or not bcuz right now I feel like purging..
listening to song, it reminds me all the situations i lived in the past, i dont want to get into this miserable world again...thats why i feel so scared :(
Beautiful song.
@silverrosekitsune Thank you. Good luck to you, too. God bless you
Girls and guys, your all beautiful. God doesn't make mistakes, your all perfect. You don't need starve yourselfs to feel pretty. Talk to someone who's close, tell them you don't know how to stop and that they need to understand how serious it is and they need to help you through it. If they say 'oh really? That sucks, you should eat!' and don't do anything, they're not real friends. Talk to someone you know will do something and help u get through it
it makes me so sad to see that a lot of these comments are coming from people under the age of 16. no one should have to hate themselves enough to become either anorexic OR bulimic. not everyone looks the way that they want-- not even supermodels. and 12 year olds shouldn't be doing this to themselves for the attention of ANY guy. i don't know any of you, but i wish you all would realise that you're beautiful.
this song......just hits that spot every time i hear it =[
All these people saying they arent anorexic or bulimic consider yourself lucky. its not fun eating barely anything and being so scared that that food may make you fatter that you throw it up as soon as possible :/ if you feel yourself going down that path please help yourself. cause once you get far enough down there its hard to find your way out. im still looking for my way out.
I'm scared how my life will change. I'm at the earlier stage of anorexia too. I'm scared to tell people but I really don't want it.
I know it's gotta be hard I know many people who have similar problems but when it is physically painful too eat you'll change your mind, when you have to have therapy, when you throw up at the smell of food, when your unable to stand always collapsing from being so weak, maybe then you'll realize the pain and the suffering of those with a eating disorder until then you can't judge either.
@Jersyshore23 Thank you so much for the offer but I'm learning to control it. Thank you so much that sounds like a really cool program! Keep it going! You'll make a huge impact on people's lives.
Do not stop eating its unhealthy we need to stop this....
Btw: good lyrics video :3
@FireworkPower stay strong cause once you start to starve or throw up its hard to get out of that habit and it sucks
I'm soo sorry! Whatever you do, don't blame yourself, it's not your fault. He knew you loved him, but suicide was his decision. And make sure you look outside of yourself for help, and don't rely on ana or cutting or anything. Punishing yourself won't make him come back, but loving yourself as you are and can be will make you come back. God bless.
@xXmarryxmeXmusicXx It doesn't matter the age, height only matters. Therefore, we could actually 'calculate' if you are chubby or not. (Which you don't seem like it.)
This song describes me.I hate myself. I wish I was stronger. I try to stay positive because where is sadness going to get me? I wish I was pretty and thin. I am a 16 year old girl that weighs 222. That caused me to get an illness Pseudotomuros Cebri. ( Not sure on the spelling) It wasn't pleasant, trust me. I need to still believe there is hope. I am working on my depression. I over eat when I am sad. I am me because of what I do. Thanks for uploading this song. :D There is hope, right?
Depending on other people isn't bad, you just have to pick the right people, and that's the hard part
my parents keep telling me that i need to lose weight and watch what i eat, but its hard because i'm never filled up on fruits on vegetables. i never loose weight from excercise, either. they keep telling me that i need to loos weight, and at this point, starving myself may be the only answer. ive been fighting the urge for a while, and these days, things like this song are the only things that stop me. to anyone else who is struggling, hold on, you can fight it, you're strong enough.
@KiwiFrutie i know that, it just helps too talk to people sometimeseven if u dont know them.dosent it?
I can't decide whether giving thumbs up to these sad comments will mean i give support, or that I'm happy for their pain, because i wanna show my support 0.0
this song helped me alot
im crying , and crying and my life is slipping away so fast .
"I ate before I came"
@Kirby420Blaze1 thank you a lot =( i've been sad those days.
Just because people in other places have bigger problems than somebody who - for example - has an eating disorder, doesn't mean that this persons problem is less. That they are "pathetic" for hating themselves because they feel ugly. That's the kind of world we've come to live in. And you're going to have to face it. There will always be people who cut, who starve themselves and what not. And this is horrible, nobody deserves to think about themselves in that way. But there's nothing you can do.
Everyone on here who is struggling with depression, anorexia, bulimia, or anything else. I'm here. I'll listen. Just message me and I swear I'll do my best to help you. Trust me I've been through stuff like that and no one deserves to think that they are fat.
Being Beautiful is Being you !!! No judging.... Just accept yourself, and who care's what other's think !!!! Live, Laugh and Enjoy... =)
Yes. And it's not a "disease," it's a disorder.
Disease : A disorder of structure or function in a human, animal, or plant, esp. one that produces specific signs or symptoms or that affects a specific location and is not simply a direct result of physical injury.
Disorder : A disruption of normal physical or mental functions; a disease or abnormal condition : *eating* disorders | an improved understanding of mental disorder.
ana consumes my mind. even my dreams.
I have an eating problem (purging), but I dont know to tell those around me (including parents), any suggestions?
I am 11 years old, in 6th grade. My name is Coral. I used to be 150 pounds (Or something crazy like that..) I lost a bunch of weight over the summer from playing Softball and eatting right. I was so proud of myself. I managed to keep my weight at 135 (My current is 130) I noticed, I lost weight VERY rapidly now. I stopped eatting. I went from 3 meals per day with a couple snacks inbetween, to 2 meals (1 on weekend or when I don't have school) and no snacks. I know it's not that big of a deal,