Jenn Tran | After the Final Rose, Red Flags, and Life After the Show

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  • Опубліковано 17 вер 2024
  • #770. Jenn Tran, this season’s Bachelorette, is answering all the burning questions! She opens up about the hardest part of After the Final Rose, what was really going through her mind when she had to watch the proposal, and how her engagement fell apart after the cameras stopped rolling. From missed red flags to revealing DM drama, Jenn gets real about her relationship with Devin and why she’s focusing on herself now. Plus, hear what life has been like since joining Dancing with the Stars-from rock bottom to sky-high in one wild night!
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    EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
    (5:30) - Jenn reflects on the moment she realized her relationship with Devin had really ended.
    (7:31) - She shares the red flags she ignored during their long-distance relationship.
    (12:08) - Jenn addresses the rumors about Devin DMing other girls and what she saw.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 192

  • @aglayapiano
    @aglayapiano 8 днів тому +191

    Jenn is a true queen, she totally dodged the bullet with Devin. She is going to meet a wonderful man and live her happily ever after. Stay strong and positive, girl ❤

  • @LilyBecca
    @LilyBecca 8 днів тому +86

    She has so much class. I love the way she won't trash him. She is just honest and real. She loved him, and she still wants the best for him. She could be filled with bitterness and anger, but instead she is making this experience as positive as it can be with such raw honesty and integrity. Someone is going to be very lucky to get to date and one day marry her.

    • @roseelley4470
      @roseelley4470 8 днів тому +3

      She has trashed him plenty - perhaps not here but nearly everywhere - did you not see her dancing on the bar, etc?

    • @Karma_243
      @Karma_243 8 днів тому +1

      ​@@roseelley4470problem came from family (her dad) .She will trash everyone around her😂

    • @chris-gx7rs
      @chris-gx7rs 7 днів тому +3

      ​@@roseelley4470well she will not find a man marry her cause she hates men and plus Devin even said he told her loved her she didn't say it back which means she will not love her future husband unconditionally

  • @Mariachristinac2
    @Mariachristinac2 6 днів тому +13

    I think the reason that this situation has hit Home with so many women is because so many of us have been love bombed and gaslighted by a man in a very confusing way. Most the time people hide the pain of this sort of situation behind their ego, but Jenn put it all out there in authentic real way! I think we are collectively pissed because it’s happened to so many of us kind hearted women. It’s a complete and utter mindfuck. Thank you, Jenn for discussing so openly and with heart this relationship theme. I’m surprised the word sociopath didn’t come up in this conversation but Jenn, you are a truly kind and wonderful person. You deserve that deep love! And I hope you do find it in a library!!! ❤

  • @eeg0415
    @eeg0415 8 днів тому +84

    Jenn is a sweetheart. So excited for her being on DWTS. Love that she's partnered w/ Sasha. She will grow leaps & bounds.

    • @FLo-jc7ig
      @FLo-jc7ig 8 днів тому +2

      She's gotta understand that they only knew each other for, "what", maybe 2 months??? WTH???

  • @Salty_ML
    @Salty_ML 8 днів тому +62

    Jenn is beautiful inside and out. Devin wanted 15 minutes of fame, and “to win.” He never came off sincere to me.

    • @LilyBecca
      @LilyBecca 8 днів тому +12

      I agree. He's the guy at the bar that love bombs you because he wants to "win" and go home with you. If you do go home with him, or if you don't, you'll never hear from him again.

    • @kathyk4737
      @kathyk4737 7 днів тому

      l agree

    • @dabu8701
      @dabu8701 5 днів тому +1

      they all want fame, so does she that why shes on DWTS

    • @ashleyw.6702
      @ashleyw.6702 4 дні тому

      @@dabu8701 She wanted love and fame. He wanted only fame, but decided to go on a show about finding love. 🤔🤔

  • @quyen8059
    @quyen8059 8 днів тому +58

    She’s glowed up so much since then. She’s so strong!!! ❤ I have so much love for Jenn!

    • @carver877
      @carver877 8 днів тому +2

      Huh she looks the same as she did on the show

    • @quyen8059
      @quyen8059 8 днів тому +4

      @@carver877I wasn’t talking looks wise, just overall in general like she looks a lot happier!

    • @carver877
      @carver877 8 днів тому +2

      @@quyen8059 gotcha yeah I agree with you

    • @d.l.n.7133
      @d.l.n.7133 6 днів тому +2

      @quyen8059
      Can you imagine how even more incredible Jen will be after Dancing With the Stars ? She will be even more amazing 🔥

  • @jessicalarue3205
    @jessicalarue3205 8 днів тому +49

    Great interview Kaitlyn!!! I was so blindsided and devastated by the alternate ending. I was on a high when she decided to propose to him. I was so excited for them. I also think the world of Jenn. She is such a class act and I adored her on Joey's season and was rooting so hard for her. Thanks for getting us all the answers. This interview was so perfect. The comrodary and respect between you and Jenn was so apparent. Much love and support to Jenn!

  • @harrylederman1679
    @harrylederman1679 8 днів тому +66

    Love Jenn... millions of ppl all over the globe really want you to feel the love and positive energy we are all sending you

  • @saraha5070
    @saraha5070 8 днів тому +22

    Jenn, I’m sorry you had to go through this, but I’m glad you found out quickly, and didn’t waste years on this man! ❤ you are so beautiful and special!

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 8 днів тому +50

    I haven't watched the bachelor franchise shows in years but I actually decided to watch Jenn season and I like her and I feel sad for her. I wished she picked Johnathan hopefully they can rekindle.

  • @lilibethvilella
    @lilibethvilella 8 днів тому +51

    “Devin gives us the ICK!!!” the most factual statement of 2024

    • @BruceWayne-s1u
      @BruceWayne-s1u 8 днів тому

      Jenn is no prize herself!

    • @chris-gx7rs
      @chris-gx7rs 7 днів тому

      Well she didn't love him for real which means she will not love her husband unconditionally

  • @butterflyteom
    @butterflyteom 8 днів тому +34

    Such a great interview. Sad to hear Jonathon is prob still in the friend zone, but I’ll still be enjoying their TikToks and Reels. Loving the big sister vibes from KB. Hope this blossoms into a sweet friendship 🌹

    • @YJSBMMAMRA
      @YJSBMMAMRA 8 днів тому

      Unless she pulls a Katie Thurston and dates someone from her season later on.

    • @ashleyw.6702
      @ashleyw.6702 4 дні тому

      I didn't watch the season closely. But, it seems that she is attracted to men who are not attracted to her or actually want to be with her.

  • @laurasalva7256
    @laurasalva7256 8 днів тому +21

    Great interview! Thank you, Kaitlyn for being so kind, loving, and supportive toward Jenn. You have a beautiful heart, and that's why life has been good to you. Good things will happen to Jenn as well because of her beautiful heart. 💓

    • @carver877
      @carver877 8 днів тому +2

      Except for the bullying and racism she exhibited towards tayshia but go off

  • @KateRaye
    @KateRaye 8 днів тому +12

    I have to say… Jenn looks amazing against that pink backdrop! She looks beautiful in so many bright colors

  • @sierrafay
    @sierrafay 8 днів тому +13

    WE LOVE YOU JEN!!!! You deserve so much more

  • @joannehomar6409
    @joannehomar6409 8 днів тому +8

    Jenn is a beautiful soul. Love her patience and beauty, her person is out there. Hoping to see her in Paradise, at least there she'll be chosen. I hope the bachelor series learns from this to announce the person before the contestants apply. ❤

  • @maggierybacki3191
    @maggierybacki3191 8 днів тому +16

    I believe as cruel & as hard as this breakup was for Jenn, she truly dodged a bullet, to see the true side of Devin.

  • @user-uq6xz6lg1l
    @user-uq6xz6lg1l 8 днів тому +24

    this poor girl 😩 but good things are coming her way!!!

  • @LilyBecca
    @LilyBecca 8 днів тому +24

    He was fake from the beginning. I kept saying he didn't seem genuine. Then, towards the end when he was crying about how much he loved her and could not live without her I thought maybe I was wrong. Nope. I was not wrong.
    It really sucks that there are people out there that will say deep, loving, intimate things and not kean it at all. It's so gross. I'm glad I can usually apot it right away. Poor Jen. She needs to maybe let the people close to her help her out because her intuition is failing her.

    • @jessicaalbright7429
      @jessicaalbright7429 8 днів тому +2

      I actually respectfully disagree. Devin was very convincing. Quite the actor he was. Though some people caught on early… I think it was very easy not to catch on.

    • @keniavalentin
      @keniavalentin 6 днів тому +1

      I said the same thing to my daughter on the first episode lol I SAID , HES SO FAKE .. watch her pick him and him turn out to be shitty 😭🤣

  • @coachjbusone
    @coachjbusone 7 днів тому +4

    Best bachelorette one of the best people… appreciate this kid so much …she is a sweetheart and Kaitlyn did a fantastic job … bravo gang live your lives

  • @LovedByYou
    @LovedByYou 8 днів тому +28

    Kaitlyn ALWAYS asking the peoples questions. I haven’t watched the show in years but I followed along and honestly, it’s Devin’s loss. Jenn is such a catch. Will be so excited to root for her on this new season of Dancing With the Stars! 🌹🪩

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 8 днів тому +17

    Excited to see her on dwts

  • @louisetracz3924
    @louisetracz3924 8 днів тому +16

    Typical narcissist------love-bombing ----as soon as they win you over they find fault and
    emotionally disengage ---leave you confused. You fall in love with the masked character
    who reveals their true self as they ditch you. To have this happen on the world stage is
    the worst. BUT he is then obvious to the world as the fake he is.

  • @petalrichards-chambers4694
    @petalrichards-chambers4694 8 днів тому +10

    devin got what he wanted from the experience and then made a u turn…. when he was crying to jesse i really thought he was genuine

  • @MissouriBirds
    @MissouriBirds День тому

    So excited for you to be on dancing with the stars Jenn! As a fellow PA with major stage fright and zero dancing experience…you rock for doing this & just know that the whole world is rooting for you! You can do it!!

  • @thewrongalfredofilms
    @thewrongalfredofilms 8 днів тому +2

    Well done Kaitlyn! You did ask the questions and we got a little more clarity. The clearest thing being that Jenn is a Divine Woman and is about the embark on her best chapter yet. Really rooting both of you on for all the good things life has to offer.

  • @jessicaalbright7429
    @jessicaalbright7429 8 днів тому +7

    Great interview!!

  • @selenaparsley1122
    @selenaparsley1122 8 днів тому +4

    During the show Jenn was the main source of his narcissistic supply. When he was off the show ~ he was able to fuel his fragile ego with other supply.
    She’s a light.

  • @nichellepeters5195
    @nichellepeters5195 6 днів тому +1

    Feel better Kaitlyn!! Love you!! Love your show/podcast. 🎉❤ Adore Jenn too !!! She went through hell. It's sooo public and I know she signed up for the show, but she did not deserve any of the negative things and pretending to be okay when it hurts. Glad it's over the season, and she can and will move on beautifully. 😊

  • @charlenecharchar
    @charlenecharchar 8 днів тому +21

    It was ALL a total lie from Devin. I didn't like him from the beginning. He was on the show for something else. Not for love. FULL 🛑. He doesn't deserve Jenn.

  • @chideraannugwu8570
    @chideraannugwu8570 8 днів тому +4

    Jennifer is a Queen 👑❤️❤️❤️. She deserves better. She will find her forever. She dogged a bullet with Devin .

  • @srfmulti4593
    @srfmulti4593 7 днів тому +2

    dwts with sasha is the perfectttt next step for her, she gets a built-in best friend and support system, not to mention a commitment and goal to work towards.

  • @Alykat736
    @Alykat736 8 днів тому +5

    I only watched the last episode of the season and what I noticed is that guy wouldn’t look at her family (or even Jen) When he talked much of the time.
    That told me somethings off , he’s hiding something , that he’s not being real , that he was lying for whatever reasons.

  • @Ilikeklee
    @Ilikeklee 8 днів тому +12

    We love Jenn ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @monikablue5068
    @monikablue5068 8 днів тому +8

    I am not watching another Bachelor/Bachelorette show. Devin and actors like him are taking over shows that are supposed to be about love. If I want to watch Fiction I will watch a sitcom or Movie. Good luck Jen.

  • @kristinaKayShorts
    @kristinaKayShorts 8 днів тому +5

    Devin is a goof for ever letting Jen go…Jen is intellectually and emotionally beyond her years. Devin can’t handle a real woman like her!!

  • @ninofromcanada4296
    @ninofromcanada4296 7 днів тому +2

    Jenn Landed Firmly On Her 👟👟👏🏼

  • @mariannenyangi6605
    @mariannenyangi6605 8 днів тому +11

    Fantastic interview. Kaitlyn is so full of love!

  • @אביגיללויץ
    @אביגיללויץ 8 днів тому +7

    What a nightmare... he seriously is love bombing and minipulitive
    Jenn really showed how mature she is through this .. sad she had to go through this

  • @marksmith-jp5gy
    @marksmith-jp5gy 6 днів тому +2

    New Subscriber. Im here for Kaitlyn.

  • @michaelgoedeker9697
    @michaelgoedeker9697 8 днів тому +8

    I am trying to read her. I am so interested to see what she says in two years, after she is off of the NDA. One spot, how would she not know any of the Marcus allegations. She wanted to marry the guy. How would she not have looked him up after she finished filming.

    • @janeryan2709
      @janeryan2709 8 днів тому +2

      To be honest, I think she was very preoccupied with Devin. I don't think she cared much about Marcus after he went home.

  • @rachelbrown2812
    @rachelbrown2812 8 днів тому +6

    we love you jenn!!!!

  • @wishangel3
    @wishangel3 7 днів тому +2

    I found throughout the show that Devon showed hints that he wasn't fully invested. Like the part where he said he would leave if Jenn kept her ex in the house, or even at the end when he didn't get the I love you confession from Jenn that he was ready to just give up amd break up with her when meeting at her room until she actually did confess to him

    • @a.r.8954
      @a.r.8954 7 днів тому

      I totally agree. One thing women need to learn is a red flag is a show of jealousy before a strong connection is really formed. It indicates possessiveness from ego, and therefore can't be *true* jealousy stemming from attachment. He felt threatened by these other men long before he knew if he truly liked Jenn, which suggests an ego problem.

  • @karenlobb1762
    @karenlobb1762 8 днів тому +10

    Great interview Kaitlyn!

  • @misskayleebugs
    @misskayleebugs 8 днів тому +5

    IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD. As someone that was in a long-term long distance relationship. If a man wants you, he will make the effort and vise versa. I’m now married to the man that put the effort in and he continues to put in effort for us. Stop making excuses ladies!

  • @imscanon
    @imscanon 8 днів тому +5

    Curious of her thoughts about having two beloved people from BN on DWTS at the same time? Going to be tough to figure out who to vote for! She's not in the promo shots, so I knew it was last minute that she signed on. I hope they both do great! I haven't watched in years, but I'll watch this one.

    • @rosemaryjackson3679
      @rosemaryjackson3679 8 днів тому

      BN ??

    • @janeryan2709
      @janeryan2709 8 днів тому +2

      Honestly, I love Joey but I really want Jenn to win. I think she has what it takes and she deserves this moment honestly. And even objectively speaking, Jenn seems like a much better dancer than Joey so hopefully she makes it at least further than him.

    • @imscanon
      @imscanon 8 днів тому

      @@rosemaryjackson3679 Bachelor Nation...all the fans and former cast

  • @maolor1603
    @maolor1603 6 днів тому

    This interview is so well done❤❤❤ Thankyou for being so kind to her❤

  • @helenesan1836
    @helenesan1836 8 днів тому +5

    She fell in love with the person she thought he was, and the person he wanted her to think he was . its more than shameful what he did ,the guys tried to give her warnings and they were totally right about him, he so so not a real Man who would do that to a person who poured her heart out toooo. Karma does not like fake people ,who intentionally hurt others

  • @BrandNameVegan
    @BrandNameVegan 6 днів тому +6

    After seeing the texts that Devin posted, I feel Jenn is gaslighting everyone by acting like she was an angel and saying "I will fight for somebody that I love" and yet she tried to break up with him more than once via text and he was more mature and said let's take some time and talk about it and he was reinforcing the love. Jenn was very needy/clingy and yes we don't know the WHOLE story but the texts that he showed give a whole new perspective on the matter. There are 3 sides to every story - her side, his side, and the truth somewhere in the middle.

  • @RandomMeh-f8d
    @RandomMeh-f8d 4 дні тому

    Happy to see her doing fine

  • @larainememola4374
    @larainememola4374 8 днів тому +5

    love her so much!!!!! sooooo beautiful inside & out!!!!!

  • @lesleywiley4324
    @lesleywiley4324 8 днів тому +3

    Not sure I could love either of these ladies more

  • @monicatill4450
    @monicatill4450 8 днів тому +4

    Love you Jenn!!!

  • @janielabruyere8382
    @janielabruyere8382 8 днів тому +2

    Oh my I cried and hurt with her , she will find the one she is so deserving of that love as always I wish her the best

  • @valeriejohnson1043
    @valeriejohnson1043 8 днів тому +2

    Love you both. You are so beautiful and I wish you all the love in the world

  • @ijeomanwaigwe2863
    @ijeomanwaigwe2863 8 днів тому +2

    KB. You so adoring. Love you and your interview with Jenn. You are an awesome person. God bless.

  • @SueJimenez-q8j
    @SueJimenez-q8j 8 днів тому +6

    Go Jen 💕!

  • @selinabutler1164
    @selinabutler1164 6 днів тому

    Love you both! Jenn is so classy ❤ loved this episode!!

  • @Alexdame418
    @Alexdame418 8 днів тому +3

    Love u Jen! You got played, plain & simple! I'm sorry you had to go through this! He's going nowhere fast!

  • @gigachadyuumi
    @gigachadyuumi 6 днів тому

    Love you Jenn!! Great interview Kaitlyn ❤❤❤

  • @joshrafael5507
    @joshrafael5507 8 днів тому +2

    I live Jenn!!!❤❤❤

  • @ulemumpaso7175
    @ulemumpaso7175 7 днів тому

    YES JENN HEALING IS A PROCESS

  • @tracychiu9337
    @tracychiu9337 8 днів тому +2

    Go Jenn!

  • @Saure55
    @Saure55 8 днів тому +5

    The dude was seeing someone. If he couldn’t cancel the Mexico trip. That would have been a sign that you were not his number one. Someone on another show said a red flag still looks good with rose colored glasses.

    • @TiannaTuamoheloa
      @TiannaTuamoheloa 8 днів тому +2

      His cold energy at the reunion def gave “there’s another woman” vibes. Even his behavior and his lack of real explanations. He was sparing another person’s feeling just as much I feel.

    • @a.r.8954
      @a.r.8954 7 днів тому +2

      @@TiannaTuamoheloa I don't agree he was sparing another woman's feelings (I don't think he's a person who gives much thought to that) but totally agree that he was entertaining other women.

  • @devv_nicolee
    @devv_nicolee 6 днів тому

    ngl Bri you should definitely start a simple skincare brand & do a lot of on the go sets. Would fit your brand so well.

  • @sundayk875
    @sundayk875 4 дні тому

    You're a good conversationalist.

  • @angelapleffner4217
    @angelapleffner4217 8 днів тому +3

    I don’t think they will ask him if they do I’m done with the bachelor

  • @Alli_bossmama
    @Alli_bossmama 8 днів тому +1

    Why is Jenn so stuck on living in Miami?! I think she’d have just as much fun in L.A. I hope that while she’s on Dancing with the Stars, she opens up to exploring L.A. and imagining what life could be like there once she finishes her nursing degree and all that.

    • @TYD98
      @TYD98 7 днів тому

      She is in PA school not nursing school lol both extremely vigorous program.

  • @courtneywebb1658
    @courtneywebb1658 8 днів тому +2

    Jennifer you are the best and I love you!❤

  • @yoyooconnor
    @yoyooconnor 8 днів тому +3

    Kaitlyn and Jenn just skirted around the sa allegations.
    You know these two read eeeeeevery thing about what's being said about bachelor nation. A simple honest. I hope it's not true would have sufficed

  • @ijeomanwaigwe2863
    @ijeomanwaigwe2863 8 днів тому +4

    Jenn talk with Jonathan. He is a God fearing person. If you like him for friendship, you will equally tolerate him as a husband . It does not have to be immediate. Do not be ashamed because you eliminated him. God works wonders. That’s all I can say to you.

  • @sharonthorne6451
    @sharonthorne6451 8 днів тому +3

    Interested in understanding WHY devin did the complete 180. Had he seen the show and how she was with Marcus?

    • @evas1968
      @evas1968 8 днів тому +2

      There's two sides to every story I'm just pretty shocked on how everybody's taking her side because he left her. Me personally I think it was an act she put on stage. She got on a red I went to New York City and was the happiest person on Earth an hour later? 🙄

    • @doodahgurlie
      @doodahgurlie 8 днів тому +2

      @@evas1968 She has to fake it until she makes it. She was heart broken, but DWTS is a great opportunity regardless of recent heartbreak and it's just a lot of activity and very physical so it's a great distraction vs sitting at home going over and over what went wrong on The Bachelor.

    • @babomeimei
      @babomeimei 8 днів тому +3

      Well even if there is two sides to a story what if the other side is Devin had another girl waiting that he could get back to at home plus DMing other girls the audacity! 😅

    • @eellie4856
      @eellie4856 8 днів тому +1

      @@evas1968she has to cope with it, if that means taking on DWTS so be it right! And all the other opportunities coming her way. Why sit and mope about it. You can see how heart broken she was watching back

    • @a.r.8954
      @a.r.8954 7 днів тому +1

      He disengaged and broke it off before the show aired but he has come out since and claimed that he became colder with Jenn post-breakup after watching the aired footage. I suspect this is a rare instance of honesty from him and believe that he was angered by seeing Jenn's attachment to Marcus.

  • @sbkmarkel
    @sbkmarkel 3 дні тому

    Devin totally gives me the "ick"... From day one. You're better than me to be able to move on and say nothing, because I would be trashing him, lol! The person you loved didn't exist.

  • @BrookeMoss
    @BrookeMoss 8 днів тому +3

    I think he started seeing this ex gf or whoever the girl he’s been seen with but also him messaging other women I just don’t think he cared after the shows. He just wanted to win and once the show was over he lost interest. It’s unfortunate but glad Jenn dodged a bullet.

  • @lilibethvilella
    @lilibethvilella 8 днів тому +7

    Not confusing at all. Aaron Sam & every woman 50+ like me SAW THRU DEVIN FROM NIGHT 1. Love bomber, manipulative it was a GAME to him. Sam tried warning you. He wouldn’t be READY AT END 😢

    • @carver877
      @carver877 8 днів тому

      God humanity is screwed

    • @ashleyd9786
      @ashleyd9786 8 днів тому +5

      I personally fell for it! Lol. He seemed like such a nice/sweet guy. So I can understand how Jenn did too.

    • @evas1968
      @evas1968 8 днів тому +1

      I'm well over 50... There's two sides to every story.. I think he realized what he was getting himself involved in all the way around, and ran in the opposite direction

    • @doodahgurlie
      @doodahgurlie 8 днів тому +2

      Yeah, but coming from Sam who can barely string 2 words together and who is also a liar (remember his "I love you" followed shortly by calling her dull?)...you cannot believe everything he says either.

    • @TiannaTuamoheloa
      @TiannaTuamoheloa 8 днів тому

      It was a ego thing for him. He wanted to FEEL like the man and was competitive

  • @NatashaFitnessYogaPilates
    @NatashaFitnessYogaPilates 8 днів тому +1

    I just assumed Sasha was gay. My bad. This is a great interview and love her. I totally fell for Devin and believed he was a sweet, lover boy. He was my pick too so I hope she knows some people did get it! ❤❤❤

  • @LaurnaWong
    @LaurnaWong 8 днів тому +5

    Devin is manipulator. I am happy you are able l to grow from this. When people show you who they are, believe them.

  • @WSN-o9i
    @WSN-o9i 3 дні тому

    Devin does give us all the ICK 😂. I love it.

  • @davidgavney6711
    @davidgavney6711 8 днів тому +3

    Take longer than two months next time, and no cameras, lol. The entire Bachelor franchise is a lot of pressure to get engaged in two months, which is ridiculous.

  • @PatriciaClark-y7t
    @PatriciaClark-y7t 8 днів тому +2

    I never trusted Devin. Just the things he said before he could ever really know Jenn. It was only a win for him.

  • @vanessasweeney8651
    @vanessasweeney8651 6 днів тому

    Love U Jenn 💓

  • @trueleo4103
    @trueleo4103 8 днів тому

    Are we Canadians able to vote for Jenn? DWTS

  • @Tracy_555
    @Tracy_555 8 днів тому +3

    He wanted to be bachelor.

  • @Wingstopranchsuper
    @Wingstopranchsuper 4 дні тому

    Sadly there are people who are on Devin’s side and hate Jenn

  • @cherryonasundae
    @cherryonasundae 3 дні тому

    in my opinion it all went downhill once he found out that she also loved marcus.. he even said in his insta video that he was her second choice (first choice being marcus).. so his ego was really damaged after he must have heard that from her. Im guessing it was a convo they had after the engagement
    it would explain why he was so cold on ATFR

  • @MissouriBirds
    @MissouriBirds День тому

    Ugh this poor girl. I believe she will meet her person one day. Devin was so far from it, it’s unbelievable that he was the one that she picked. He said all the right things, did all the right things…and she trusted in that. It says a lot that she’s taking a break from dating while he was trying to date everyone from bachelor nation pretty much the next day. Absolutely pathetic.

  • @carlychamberlain4237
    @carlychamberlain4237 8 днів тому +2

    Marcus has multiple DV and SA allegations.

  • @imscanon
    @imscanon 8 днів тому +11

    I try to look at both sides and try to find the logic in things. Granted, I wasn't a Devin fan, but this guy was all in. His biggest fear though was that she'd say she loved someone else when she wasn't saying it to him, and she did, to two people. He was her backup guy, her sure thing, but not really the one she pined for. After the show, as he's bros with the final 4, you know they talked. I've no doubt he was told that she'd said ily to others and didn't say it to him until he freaked and pressed her (like she did to Marcus). He felt like 3rd choice and as he was cheated on before, that affected him, understandably. He was probably told all about fantasy suites too. So he struggles and can't sort it out in himself and he loses what he had for her. Then, she's being kinda clingy, chasing, wanting more contact, with her own fear of abandonment, not fully trusting, and the self-sabotage begins. There's no way to get back on track after all those things from a distance. I can see how this broke down so quickly. We saw her chase Sam and Marcus, determined to get them to be what she wanted, and failed. We saw Devin get in his head about not being top choice and not hearing ily back. It was rather inevitable they'd both get in their own way and sabotage it. After talking to his bros, he knew his fear had come true and after he stepped back to process, her fear came true. They both could use some therapy as those issues run deep, and they'll have to overcome them before they're ready for a commitment to anyone. This is also why the lead should NEVER say ily to any of them until the last rose. She said it trying to get them to say it, but then when Marcus did, it was under duress really so she couldn't trust it. Devin required no chase, no convincing, no 'please love me' and that's what she equates with love because that's what she always had to do. If she's 'fighting' for it, it must be real, right? Not her fault, just her experience. There was no passion with Devin because it was too easy so she didn't know how to work with that. His only dealbreaker was needing to be first choice and her not telling anyone else she loved them, esp before she told him, and she did that. Saying she always leads with love and empathy, well, we didn't see that here on ATFR.
    The thing I noticed on the ATFR was he took the high road and wouldn't disrespect her while she had her finger in his face accusing him of many things as though she had no culpability and didn't really let him speak without getting in his face. That said a lot to me. He took the hit so she didn't have to. I admire that. I've no doubt he didn't tell her all the reasons for his distant behavior or what the bros told him really went down so she was confused and didn't understand and was nagging him incessantly about calling her and keeping in contact and seeing her, etc., when he was just trying to heal his heart and decide if he could get past it all. Their confrontation styles are clearly very different and the more she came at him, the further he retreated and rather than explain, just said, tellingly, "I couldn't be what you expected" and "I couldn't be what you needed". Yet she was tossing out every slight against him. Oh no, he followed Maria after they broke up. She sounded pretty harpy really. Much like she did with Sam when she realized he just wanted to sleep with her and didn't actually care about her for herself or Marcus when she couldn't get him to mold into what she wanted when she wanted it because he was afraid he had nothing to offer her of value so he was afraid to love her and disappoint her, and he was right. He was not the one. I can see her harping at Devin the same way, as she 'chose' him, albeit by default, so he should snap to and be the man she expected, but he knew he wasn't her first choice and didn't know how to get past that. Whether he told her that or not, who knows, but there's nowhere to really go from all that. They both deserved better really. But until some therapy happens, they're not likely to get it. I don't mean to be harsh on Jenn, I adore her, but she's not blameless here and needs to see her own actions in the mix of that breakup. He was very clear about the one thing that would make him walk, and that's the one thing she did, whether she understands that or not. So maybe don't hate on Devin so much for his own insecurities about abandonment and wanting to be top choice to someone he wasn't top choice to. There was no reason for her to shred him like that and make the world hate him just because he was never the right choice for her, or her first choice. A graceful exit is always the best. I fully expected this ending, but I was disappointed in how she handled it. It was self-serving and unkind and rather clueless to his side of that story. He was never for her and that's ok.
    Truly a big part of the problem this season is the quality of guys they picked for her. Only a couple were even handsome, and they were idiots. There was no scenario wherein she could come out of this happy with this lot of men. I blame casting for that. They did her dirty and she made the best of what she had to work with going in. None of them were ready for a healthy relationship.

    • @f0repl4y
      @f0repl4y 8 днів тому +2

      What if there isn't really one? So many men are like Devin which is why her harping on him was so satisfying to watch. It represents all of us girls who have experienced this. A lot of men are emotionally aloof, which is why they're always dangling an engagement ring over our heads if we're good enough to be CHOSEN. Storytime, my ex dumped me out of nowhere with no explanation. We had such an amazing relationship, barely any fights or arguments and always was happy; at least I thought. I was blindsided! He didn't give me a reason, but after seeing how his life played out on social media, he just wanted to have fun and mess around. And that's the sad truth that men do not want to admit to us that they think they can do better physically with another woman. And yes, it makes them out to be the bad guy when they openly admit it. I had to grapple with the truth that I was never gonna be good enough for him, and I understand why he didn't want to tell me, because it hurts. I think this is how Devin feels. Jenn is not his type. He prefers Maria or Daisy. And his exes are usually white women. Imagine telling Jenn and bachelorette nation that...

    • @SonyaStarsSoul
      @SonyaStarsSoul 8 днів тому +2

      This is a very interesting perspective🤔
      I also suspected something along these lines. However I'm a bit more forgiving about Jenn. One could argue that we witnessed a condensed version of Jenn's relationship evolution.
      She moved from the thick hot guy to the unavailable & finally woke up and arrived at the healthy choice and being VALUED.
      The Bachelorette is supposed to be a journey.
      I do think the top 4 talked even before the season aired and Devon lost respect for her and felt played.
      However, he should have handled everything with more grace. He knows what he signed up for and he knew his abrupt withdrawal would be painful and humiliating.
      Plus it's not fair to expect a 26 year old to achieve the kind of personal growth in 8 weeks, that it takes a lifetime for most women with absent Fathers to achieve.
      Neverless I think your comment is brilliantly insightful.
      So spot on that I may have to quote you.
      If I make a video I'll post it here beneath your comment.
      Thanks

    • @doodahgurlie
      @doodahgurlie 8 днів тому +3

      The thing is that the premise of the show is to date multiple guys at the same time. Unless you're extremely lucky and find "The One" on the first night, then the relationships are going to progress similar to real life where the one guy you are initially attracted to turns out to be merely physical (Sam M) and another guy you cannot crack emotionally (Marcus), etc. As she eliminated the guys, she realized Devin was giving her what she thought she wanted as he was saying all the words she wanted to hear. Unfortunately, Devin came off as a master manipulator and con man. Now, can it be said his ego couldn't take what he watched? Yes, big possibility. But pretty much every season, there's always an F1 and an F2 and people are always questioning the two remaining options and wondering why the lead chose who they did and how they could so after all the audience saw went down. It's pretty formulaic for this franchise. Assuming it was ego, it's how he responded to it all that shows his emotional immaturity - did he even discuss those feelings with her before reacting the way he did by doing a 180? And I totally agree with your last paragraph. I saw the line up of men for the season before it began and was like, "These men are the worst looking ever casted!"...then they opened their mouths and sealed the deal on how unattractive they are on the inside as well.

    • @rosemaryjackson3679
      @rosemaryjackson3679 8 днів тому +1

      Thank you for saying everything I was “thinking and feeling” so eloquently. Also .. Didn’t her brother make reference or say
      to her “she had a habit of picking men that were emotionally unavailable.” It felt like (to me) she almost thrived on “rejection?” I am in my 70’s .. sometimes my thinking is way off base. I loved reading your comment. I’m now your “Fan.” Where can I find your Book !! 📕 lol

    • @ShaunaTeach
      @ShaunaTeach 8 днів тому +3

      he broke up with her before any of the Marcus lore aired, further proving that he was just in it to win and not for her

  • @JonathonsWifeForever
    @JonathonsWifeForever 8 днів тому +2

    Omg WHAT IS THE TYPING in the background? So unprofessional

  • @jking-
    @jking- 7 днів тому

    Jenn tran annoyed all the RED FLAGS

  • @niasteadley
    @niasteadley 8 днів тому +20

    A little disappointed that Jenn completely dismissed the Marcus allegations because it wasn’t “her” experience with him. She didn’t have to act like she believed the allegations, but that was an opportunity to address that abuse of any kind is not ok regardless of if it’s true or not.

    • @evas1968
      @evas1968 8 днів тому +5

      There's something about her. It seems if it doesn't go her way.. she's going to go after you. I think it was a little bit of an act on stage I think she's a little immature I have never cried alone in front of one person then all those people... There's two sides to every story..

    • @doodahgurlie
      @doodahgurlie 8 днів тому +6

      Probably difficult for her to say that if she had a great and positive experience with him. Until she sees his true colors, she can only judge based upon her personal experience with him. That doesn't mean he wasn't a great person towards her while being someone else totally different towards other women.

    • @user-uq6xz6lg1l
      @user-uq6xz6lg1l 8 днів тому +4

      She literally didnt even deny them or dismiss anyone elses experience. At the end of the day she can only speak about HER experience. Plus this isnt even something she should have to speak on.. it should be on producers and or Marcus himself..

    • @janeryan2709
      @janeryan2709 8 днів тому +2

      @@evas1968 Devin had the opportunity to tell his side and he blew his chance. No one cares about his side anymore.

    • @Mollycrimey
      @Mollycrimey 8 днів тому +1

      @@user-uq6xz6lg1l she was very dismissive and invalidating to the victims with her response and she didn't even have a good experience with marcus herself..he was emotionally unavailable to her, not a kind man

  • @savannahjohnson4079
    @savannahjohnson4079 5 днів тому

    where does she talk about jonathon?

  • @JasonFoo1653
    @JasonFoo1653 7 днів тому

    If I ever meet Devin in real life I hope he is more aware of what promises he gives out because it was used against him and the Devin we saw all season along is dead to us once we saw the Devin at the ATFR

  • @jvixtor
    @jvixtor 5 днів тому

    The right spelling of his name is Devil not Devin.

  • @AmyNgo-i5y
    @AmyNgo-i5y 6 днів тому

    it really bothers me that ppl are criticizing Jenn for her choices in men. as if that makes her less of a person. it’s her life, leave her alone

  • @Theniteowl_
    @Theniteowl_ 8 днів тому +4

    He’s a player. lol plain and simple

  • @briannar8199
    @briannar8199 6 днів тому

    How many of you guys think they intentionally hired random guys to be there for the wrong reasons???

  • @lindsayg5391
    @lindsayg5391 8 днів тому +1

    I think he started getting more female attention after the show and then it went to his head. Not cool.

  • @greasergirrl
    @greasergirrl День тому

    She's never cried in front of anyone before?

  • @bunnyyykins
    @bunnyyykins 26 хвилин тому

    Devin dug his own grave.