@@kitkat7871 neglect IS abuse though. You can get taken away or even arrested just as fast by neglecting your kids. I do agree that if he wasn't as affected by that, that's his own feelings or thoughts.
You “had a bad temper” because all the adults in your life had failed you, and you didn’t know how else to react. I’m glad that your journey led where it did.
As a parent who's children were in foster care, I was lucky. My kids were placed with an amazing family that we still have a relationship with today, 15 years later. My kids were in foster care for the longest 8 months of our lives, while I went into treatment for addiction. I'm sorry you went through so much. Your an amazing young man and deserve amazing thing.
Way to go, mom! As a former foster parent, this is exactly why so many of us did it!I love hearing about reunifications and of ongoing bonds with temporary caregivers! Such a blessing to have that support and it is so good for the kids to be able to maintain the bonds they formed with good foster parents so it wasn’t another loss experienced. It sounds like you placed your kids first after their removal and I really commend that!
CONGRATULATIONS on being clean AND having you babies home. I know you said 15 years ago but from a family with addicts and recovering addicts I know sometimes it can hit you for no reason out of nowhere. So in case anyone hasn't told you recently I'm proud of you
Congratulations, I know that was extremely hard and challenging. I grew up with a parent who had an addiction and I also was in foster care she got us back as well.
Sounds like you were going through a lot of trauma/PTSD as a young child, it wasnt you being naughty. Sounds like the first placement didnt understand that. 😔 Thank goodness for Crystal and Aaron coming into your life. ❤
@@KeKe_10_84 I don't think it was RAD. RAD can't be fully cured and Alex is just the sweetest soul you've ever seen now; I honestly just don't believe that he could have made such a dramatic transformation. Plus, the way they tell the story is that all Crystal had to do was just provide reassurance to him one time that she would always love him no matter how he acted and he never had another tantrum. RAD can't be treated that fast or easily; it takes years of intensive therapy. I think it was just a classic case of a really angry kid who reacted appropriately to abuse, and then when they got into a safe environment, tested boundaries so as to make sure their foster parents didn't just throw them out at every hurdle before they allowed themself to get attached.
It was different from your mum's version as she wasn't there to interject, obviously your mum needs to get her perspective across, but this was your life, in your words. What a gentleman, you should be proud of where you're at
Agreed. I think she is being a protective mom when she does that, but I find myself wishing she’d just let them talk when they try. This was very enlightening and emotional, but I wonder if it helped him to say it out loud with his voice?
It was not Crystals story to tell it was Alex story and he told us when he was ready. So much moving around as a young child how would you ever grow up trusting anything or anyone. I love the way he loves Hannah she is such a special young woman.
Imagine going through all you’ve been through, and becoming THIS person. People take life times, (sometimes it doesn’t even happen, )to find a kind, balanced, hardworking version of themselves , and you’re already there! That’s your hard work Alex, that got you there. I hope you’re super proud of yourself x
As an experienced foster Mum it's important to realise that neglect is a form of abuse. Thank you for sharing such a private and difficult part of your life.
It was interesting listening to some of the details I hadn’t heard before. Thanks for sharing, and I give you a lot of credit doing so on social media. It takes a lot of strength just to tell people in person, so that’s awesome!
Alex, The bond you share with Hannah is second to none. God brought your mom and dad into your life and he did it for a reason. Your mom and dad are angels among men. There aren't many foster kids that grow up with the things that all of you kids do. Never take that for granted. Not all kids get a beautiful mansion to live in, parents that buy you anything and everything you want or need. Parents that buy cars for their kids, rent apartments for their kids, pay all of the kids bills etc. It takes a special person to do those things and Crystal and Aaron do all of those things with nothing but love. Never forget that your mom and dad rescued you from a much sadder life and never lose the appreciation you have for them. You are one amazing young man and I wish you nothing but the best.
All ANY child needs is unconditional love, boundaries and support - sadly, you were let down so many times by the adults around you Alex. BUT God had a bigger plan and knew who needed YOU as much as you needed THEM. I knew your story, but hearing you tell it again now reminds me how blessed ALL of you are to have each other. God is good!!!!
I’m a 48 year old Mother and Grandma and I want you to know you inspire me. You’re such a remarkable young man. Thank for sharing what I know was difficult. One day you will be the BEST husband and father, just not for a few more years 😮 😉 ❤️
Thanks Alex. There is plenty that you left out of this story and I can understand why. I don't like you taking responsibility for the bad things happening because you were bad tempered. Each of those who rescued you along the way have proven that it wasn't your fault. You have blossomed now. Keep growing and Stay Safe! 😺
You were NOT a difficult child. That should have never defined you. You were PUT in difficult situations and had a difficult childhood and understandably, as a result, you had difficult behaviors. I am glad you are healing!
I’m sorry everything you went through. I’m so proud of how far you have come. I don’t understand how some adults expect kids to control their feelings when they cant control their own.
Exactly. Yet they then audacity to blame the child. I wish I could get hold of them, make them sleep on a cold floor with only a piece of toast to eat. I hope the authorities threw away the key!!
I came back here after watching your video with Jessica on your fams channel. And now im crying for the 2nd time. No kid should go through something like that. But im glad that you have your forever family that love's you no matter what.
We love you too, Alex. I'm thankful, you and Hannah, found your forever family.. I too, grew up in foster care. Each of you that found your way to the Pettits or, Wallace homes seem to be very blessed. Always remember and perhaps, you all will pay it forward.. Many never find their forever family, their peace and happiness.. You're definitely blessed. ❤️🙏❤️
I fully believe that healing starts by speaking about the harms done to you. I was too ashamed and embarrassed to let anyone know my past until my late 30’s, drunk one night, when every secret I held came pouring out, the floodgates had opened. At 61 I can now laugh at the absurdity of things done to me. I mean, who does that? I could relate to your sleeping on the floor and having to redo chores because I slept under my bed, and just didn’t know how to do some things. The blessing is that now we can know with certainty who we are NOT going to be like, and how we’re NOT going to treat people, and we can now see the fear or shame in others
I’m so glad you and Hannah found your forever home that is so full of love and joy! Thank you for sharing your story, Alex. I pray that someone out there who hears it will gain hope and encouragement in whatever tough situation they may be in, or maybe it inspires some parents to share their love and joy with a child who needs a loving family. Or even shed light on some parents who may not really know how to show love to their child, or have a child with needs they don’t know how to meet, and that they can reach out for help instead of continuing a dysfunctional, abusive path. We never know how our story can help and inspire others to a better life. There’s so much I’d love to say to you, as I grew up with an abusive stepdad and mom. I finally left home at 17, but for most of my childhood I just thought that was the way it was. I never felt safe to share what it was like at home, and my family was great at hiding the reality of our home life. I’m ancient now, at 49 😂, and have worked through the effects of those times. It makes my heart so full and happy hearing your story and seeing you grow over the years into the young man that you now are. You have such a sweet spirit about you, and are so loving and caring toward those around you. Be gentle with yourself, too, and don’t neglect caring for yourself as well…sometimes those of us who have been through tough stuff can forget this easily. I wish the very best for you, and for you and Savannah’s relationship and future together. Who knows, maybe someday you will find a way to use what you’ve learned to reach out to others and help them, like in a job (or maybe adoption) working with kids from similar situations. You are so good with your younger siblings, and I think you have the perfect personality and temperament to be awesome at something like that. 😊
You are a remarkable young man. All that you went through and look at you now. Thank you for sharing your story. You’re such a genuine person who has so much love to give. God Bless you, Alex.
I don’t think your Mom ever told the entire story. I remember her tearing up and saying it was your story to tell. You just needed parents that loved you unconditionally, that wouldn’t just send you away when they didn’t want to parent or things got a little tough . I’m so happy you found that kinda love with Aaron and Crystal. I love the bond you have with Hannah and your other siblings. 💕
It’s 100% normal for kids who have been separated from their parents (major trauma) to act out, throw tantrums. It would be abnormal if you had not done that. Neglect is abuse. You are so amazing to have survived all that. I’m so sorry you went through all that. I’m glad it all ended well, you seem pretty well adjusted now. Im sure there will all ways be residual crap you have to deal with but I’m so glad you found Crystal and Aaron who seemed to have made up for all the missing love and attention. Your family is amazing. You will make an amazing parent one day.
For all that you went through when you were younger your sure are an amazing young man!! Your mom and dad have done such an amazing job raising you and all of your brothers and sisters!! Your family is amazing and full of positivity. If I’m having a bad day I always watch one of your channels and it makes me feel so much better.
I was in and out of foster care my entire life Alex. I was adopted at 10 and back in the system at 14 til I aged out at 18. I empathize with you and how you started. I work in foster care now, helping kids just like me. Sending you big hugs and love. ❤
Thank you for sharing your story! As many have said, there are reasons all kids act out and it doesn't make someone a bad kid. You have to love them through it... and I am so thankful you found parents that were willing to do that with you in your forever family!
I have been following crazy pieces since 2018ish & this is the first time that I have heard your story in this much depth (Today is July 4, 2024). Seeing how close you are with Crystal & Aaron, I never would have guessed how horrible you were treated before you met them. To me, Alex has always been such a huge part of what makes the crazy pieces one of my favorite channels to follow. It wouldn't be what it is without you. You truly found your missing pieces in them, just like they found theirs with you. Watching your videos & theirs for as long as I have been watching them, I know that some things are scripted, but the love that shines through all of you guys for one another is authentic. You can fake a lot of things in life to make them look how you want them to look to other people. You have to have real chemistry & true love though to make it look like your family makes it look.
So sorry to hear all you went through as a kid Alex. I’m glad you are happy now. I don’t understand why people adopt if they don’t plan to love and care for children properly. I understand confiscation of say a teenagers laptop/phone/tablet for bad behaviour but confiscating a bed is just plain WRONG. Ok cutting out sugar if you are over eating sugar but cutting out food groups completely is again WRONG. Best of luck for the future and all it brings.
Thanks for sharing your story with us! It's terrible you had to go through all of that at such a young age! No child should even be aware of many of the things you were experiencing. However, your story really shows how true one of my favorite quotes is. I don't remember who said it, but it goes something like "Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end". I can imagine you and the other kids felt scared, alone, like the future were never gonna be okay, like no parent would ever treat you with nothing but love and respect... And look at where you're now!
So sorry you had a troubled younger years. But, you are an amazing young adult. Caring and loving . We had 6 foster children who grew up to be amazing teens. Love them very much. We lost our 22 year old son last year to a brain bleed. I am so grateful for those kids now. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage!
Imagine what kind of life you would've had if you made a different choice. Crystal knew what you needed and was there to love you into wholeness. What a blessing.
Temper tantrums are definitely nothing to be ashamed of and not you fault! We’ve all chucked them especially when things don’t feel right. I’m glad you found parents who knew how to parent!
💙💙💙Breaks my heart that children have to go through what you and Hannah went through before you found your forever family. So proud of you both for your accomplishments and the respectful, awesome young people you have become. God Bless you both in your future. 💙💙💙
I have seen the one done through your family page but this one was a little better. It was more in depth but that might be because you last did it at like 14 and you are 18 now. When you mentioned how "happy and full of joy" the kids were on the way to Legoland, that touched me, like how you knew thru the moment that these parents were different. Glad it worked out for you and Hannah!
Alex, I’m so sorry that you had to go through so much trauma growing up. That would make anyone rebel. I worked with special needs children & some of them were rebellious having gone through the foster system also. To feel like you are not wanted & loved has to be the hardest thing ever. You turned out to be a fine young man & are certainly in the best home ever & are greatly loved by your now family & so happy that you & Hannah are finally together.
Thanks for sharing your story 🙂 you definitely have been through a lot, I'm so happy you were placed and adopted by the crazy piece's family!! You deserve all the happiness and blessings life has to offer you!! Thanks for sharing again Alex, you're so brave to share your story with so many people.
Goodness Alex I only heard part of this on your mom's channel. Wow you have been through the wringer. Well done you are an inspiration and maybe if you change some people's perspectives on parenting you will leave a legacy. You can be extremely proud of well done, keep going. 👏 from Cape Town South Africa 🇿🇦
That was so brave of you Alex to face your journey head on and explain why or how you got to different places and different people in your life. You really did win first prize in the case of your adoption. To have the choice between your 4th grade teacher and your eventual placing with the Petit family must have really made you feel that you belonged.
Oh Alex, now i know why u are so loveable.... my late grandma was born on the 24th of september. I was so so close to her and she was the only person i cried for after she passed.
You are such a strong and brave young man. You were not a bad or disruptive young boy, the people who had the honour of loving and caring for you were totally very cruel and made you live a disruptive and disfunctional life. You have grown into such a loving and caring young man who is loved and adored by your family. Your Mum and Dad can of course be credited by loving you, showing you a caring and a happy home. However the credit has to go to you by the way you have adapted to a loving home, adapted to how you, as a young person, deserved to be treated. You are a credit not only for yourself but to your family as well. You are also an inspiration to those unfortunate children who are struggling with their journey and that your story will give them a beacon of hope. You are the best big brother ever!! xxx
After the start in life you had, how you turned out to be so kind, caring & frankly adorable defies logic. Crystal & Aaron worked miracles with you & you have paid them back with being the best big brother anyone could wish for. May you continue to thrive as a Pettit. ❤️
I respect the respect you have for your previous guardians, I just want you and anyone watching to know that locking anyone in any closed space against their will and in an unsafe way is defined as abuse, neglect is when you do nothing to care for the child, but when you take malicious action against a person that is abuse, neglect would be they were drunk and forgot you in the garage, not locked in the garage because of fits
Alex I'm so happy for you! I love the relationship you have with Hannah, she is a very special person full of love and cares for everyone! I'm so glad you are in this Family, your parents are a blessing from God him self. I'm proud of the person you have become. ❤️
You were a kid that had to go thru a lot and that's why the tantrums .. I always believe that some kids do that trying to get attention because something was missing.. you are a great person. God placed you in the right home w the right people. Aaron and Crystal you are doing a great job
You are an awesome human Alex. You have overcome so much in your life. I never would’ve guessed you ever had a temper. I can totally understand why, but I’m so glad you outgrew that, your life could’ve been totally different. 🥰🥰🥰
For what you have gone through in your young life Alex, you are an amazing kind man. Your heart could not be an larger for you show it everyday with how you love your Mom and family! I am proud of you!!
this story hit home you have never went this deep on your family channel. Imagine that needing proper parenting and love over neglect changed your behavior. that's spot on teaching a child AND LOVING A CHILD IS WHAT HELPS THEM GROW AND DEVELOP I'm glad your parents chose you and Hannah and loved you like their own.
Temper tantrums is one thing but you were just so angry because you never had the love and support your so badly craved. I'm so very happy you found your family and you have so much love and joy in your life now.
Now, I am even more proud of you…I am sorry you went through all that-kids don’t come with instructions, but any reasonably good parent should know that kids need to feel unconditional love-they may get momentarily angry or disappointed with a child’s behavior…but a parents love doesn’t diminish from that and it is very important that children are told and taught this….and, if possible, I love your parent even more and I am sooooo very happy for you that they rescued you from that part of your life…..you are truly your parents son and I can see the love you have for them and the love they have for you. It doesn’t matter if they adopt another 20 children…the love they have for each of their children doesn’t change…time passage doesn’t change the love….it is eternal.
Alex.oh my... You are not and where not a difficult child you where in a difficult situation and didn't have the basic love and support you deserved. I am so happy you are apart of crazy pieces. You are an amazing person. I am certain you family is grateful for you and that you bless them everyday.
Omg as a mom of two hearing your story broke my heart 😢 you are such an amazing young man and I have watched your family channel for a while now and watching you grow into the young man you are today i don’t know you personally but im so proud of you Alex you are a strong soul keep it up
Exactly! you were literally crying out for someone to love you and I’m so happy you found your forever home …you found a beautiful girlfriend now by your side and show you nothing but love ❤️ Alex this really pulled at my heart strings ❤️ sad story and you still turned out to be an excellent human a real man. I’m so very proud of you .
From a rough road to happy endings. I'm you are in a good place now with parents who love you unco ditionally & siblings who love you! And a lovely girlfriend who loves you!
Thanks Alex for sharing such a wonderful story... I was never adopted or nothing but I remember when my step dad used to beat the crap out of me he used to make me been in my knees with rice on the floor and for some crazy stuff that he would do but I'm glad that you found a beautiful family that loves you and Hannah much 💕 to y'all
I'm so glad the Petit's rescued you and Hannah. You deserved to be happy and loved. They are wonderful people. I am also so happy you found a wonderful girlfriend in Arianna. She is amazing 👏. Hope all goes well when you meet her parents. Blessings to you 🙏, Barb from Anaheim, CA
You have been through so much! And have managed to stay so strong and positive! I’m so glad that you found your FOREVER family and home. May GOD give you nothing but love, blessings and a beautiful future.❤️
@Alex Pettit I’m so glad you told your story on this channel in your own words. I’ve seen it on your Mom’s channel, which I’ve followed for a long while. But it’s good to hear it, in more detail from you. I’ve always admired your tender heart, and how you’ve come to where you are in life now. Your parents are such giving, accepting, and loving people. It’s so incredibly wonderful that you and Hannah are Pettits, and have a secure and blessed life now and going into the future. I’m also so very happy for you and Savannah to have found each other. There’s nothing compared to true love and happiness in this world. Love you all so much. God bless you now and way into the future that you and Savannah have begun recently. Love from Queensland, Australia 🥰❤️❤️💍👏🙏🏻🇦🇺
You are such a beautiful human inside and out. I’m so glad your family found you and encouraged your light to shine. You were meant for big things, I just know it. Keep shining!
Alex, I've been watching your journey on Crazy Pieces and was lucky to see you turn into an AMAZING young man! I'm so happy for your future with Savannah!! I'll continue to pray for your family and for all the kids struggling out there in foster care. Sending love always ❤ 🥰
I’m so glad you and Hannah found your Mom and Dad! Really sorry about the rough road to get there. It’s a shame that adults do things like that! Super proud of you and the Man you have become Alex!
You have a special bond with Hannah which is very understandable. So sorry for all you went through but over the moon your parents have found you and Hannah and you have the love and parental guidance you needed. You are an amazing young man with a huge future in front of you. Keep smiling. 💯🤗💕🤗
Alex you should be proud of where you are! There was obviously reasons why you were acting the way as a child. I am so glad you told this story cause I didnt realize you and Hanna had been through so much together and I love you picked Crystal and Aaron to be with!
Alex, your are now living your best life. You are a wise & strong young man with a huge heart. Keep reaching for the stars and you will touch them one day .
Alex, you are a survivor, as is Hannah and her sister. No child should have to live with such uncertainty and disrespect. I am so thankful that your parents were led to you and made the commitment to help you be secure and to know you are loved unconditionally. ❤❤
I am so happy for you that you came in your "real" family. Love is so important. Love heals all wounds they say. It certainly helped you. You can absulutely be proud of the man you became, I love your energy, I whish you all the best
Alex. Thank you for sharing your story. Abuse is not just sexual or physical. IT'S ALSO emotional, neglect and domestic. What you went through was abuse. I went through the main 4 types of abuse from 3 months old til I was 18 years old and still went through emotional abuse in my adulthood. I went into foster care at 7yrs old and aged out at 18. I wish I could've been adopted. You are a strong young man and have come such a long way.
God had bigger and better plans for you young man! Your parents are seriously THEE BEST! Like you said, you just needed to be loved and God knew that you needed them and they needed you! You are such a positive gentleman, and I’m so genuinely sorry for all of the things you had to endure. People (adults mostly) do not realize what that can do to a child that has an everlasting effect on them. So proud of you for being the best YOU! You are super handsome, the best big brother, a great great son, I know your parents are beyond proud of you!! Thanks for sharing Alex, makes me sad to think of the kind of people who could punish a child in such a horrific manner. That’s the past, and while you don’t have to ever forget, for yourself you can forgive, and that’s totally up to you anyway. It’s something I recently learned in therapy, and sounds so cliche to say, but it’s so true. You can forgive and never forget, you can love someone from a far and that doesn’t mean you have to have a seat at your dinner table for them, etc. Anyway, this made me so sad and sad beyond happy at the same time. Love ya kid!! ,
Thanks for sharing your story with us, its not always easy to be open about our past! You totally suit the name Alex. Sorry that you spent so long in foster care before you were adopted but very glad you found your amazing forever family. That is not the proper way to discipline a child! Family is important and so are the connections, I am sorry that you can't see your sister! Ugh, it hurts my heart that you were all subjected to that abuse in a place that was supposed to protect you-that abuse was and is not love! So glad that Sam spoke up and you were rescued! So glad you at least got reunited with Hannah after all you have been through. I can't imagine the anxiety after all you had been through, to hear that someone is coming to see you but I am glad you found your mom and dad! Glad Sam is doing well and is building her life! Thank you for sharing your story with us, I know how much courage that took! You are an amazing guy with a huge heart and your past does not define you!
If the opportunity ever comes your way it would be great for you to tell your story to perspective foster and adoptive parents. We had a young man come to the introductory meeting for adopting from foster care and hearing his story had an impact on those of us considering adopting from foster care.
Alex, all those terrible things that were deliberately done to you, they are ABUSE. They are NOT NEGLECT. Leaving you strapped in your car seat, in the dark and shutting the door, knowing you were in there..that is abuse. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. The foster system needs a huge intervention . There are too many stories of abuse.
Alex!! Many many hugs to you! All you were doing was crying out for help! You knew inside something was missing - being heard and understood and genuinely loved. But didn’t k on how to express that. Most people don’t get that. They will look at disruptive behavior like a violation of a law and punish you for it, rather than listening to what you’re really trying to say! And then loving you unconditionally! The Pettits DID!!!
Thank you for sharing your story Alex, I'm glad you finally found your Forever Home with such Amazing parents and a family that showed you how life should of been, I think you have turned into the strong Man you have become because of your strength and courage to be the person you really are. I'm sorry you had to go through life with people who didn't understand you and take the time to get to know you as you really are a Truly Awesome guy. And we can see how Proud your parents are of how you have matured. Your Family think the world of you. Onwards and upwards ❤.
you are a brave and strong human. It makes me sad that you experienced the neglect. Our world is better with you in it -- hopefully, you van help others like you. ❤️❤️
Alex … thank you so much for sharing this part of your life … I’m adopted too . So hearing other peoples story’s is really nice .. sending love and light your way ! Keep being the positive sweet young man you are !
Thank you thank you thank you for sharing your life. You are touching a lot of people. You're an incredible young man and I wish you all the best. I came upon this video while researching adoption in hopes of adopting in the future. I appreciate your words and experiences. You are very heard. ♡
Thank you for sharing . You don’t have to be blood to be family . It’s all about the love . Crystal , your mom is so kind and you just needed a Mom to love you ❤️ 💕 love 💗 . Your love as a big brother is wonderful.
Neglect is child abuse. Don't minimize what those jerks did to you.
This !
Exactly.
Don't tell someone who lived through trauma how they should feel about or describe that trauma.
@@kitkat7871 neglect IS abuse though. You can get taken away or even arrested just as fast by neglecting your kids. I do agree that if he wasn't as affected by that, that's his own feelings or thoughts.
You “had a bad temper” because all the adults in your life had failed you, and you didn’t know how else to react. I’m glad that your journey led where it did.
Righteous indignation! Kundalini syndrome let's you see behind the puppet show.
@@startwithurfeet230 ok weirdo.
Absolutely
As a parent who's children were in foster care, I was lucky. My kids were placed with an amazing family that we still have a relationship with today, 15 years later. My kids were in foster care for the longest 8 months of our lives, while I went into treatment for addiction. I'm sorry you went through so much. Your an amazing young man and deserve amazing thing.
Way to go, mom! As a former foster parent, this is exactly why so many of us did it!I love hearing about reunifications and of ongoing bonds with temporary caregivers! Such a blessing to have that support and it is so good for the kids to be able to maintain the bonds they formed with good foster parents so it wasn’t another loss experienced. It sounds like you placed your kids first after their removal and I really commend that!
CONGRATULATIONS on being clean AND having you babies home. I know you said 15 years ago but from a family with addicts and recovering addicts I know sometimes it can hit you for no reason out of nowhere. So in case anyone hasn't told you recently I'm proud of you
Congratulations, I know that was extremely hard and challenging. I grew up with a parent who had an addiction and I also was in foster care she got us back as well.
Sounds like you were going through a lot of trauma/PTSD as a young child, it wasnt you being naughty. Sounds like the first placement didnt understand that. 😔 Thank goodness for Crystal and Aaron coming into your life. ❤
I’m happy to see how far Alex has become to now.
It sounds like RAD, especially if he was tantruming like that at age one… then to go on and be abused and neglected further. Just awful!
@@KeKe_10_84 I don't think it was RAD. RAD can't be fully cured and Alex is just the sweetest soul you've ever seen now; I honestly just don't believe that he could have made such a dramatic transformation. Plus, the way they tell the story is that all Crystal had to do was just provide reassurance to him one time that she would always love him no matter how he acted and he never had another tantrum. RAD can't be treated that fast or easily; it takes years of intensive therapy. I think it was just a classic case of a really angry kid who reacted appropriately to abuse, and then when they got into a safe environment, tested boundaries so as to make sure their foster parents didn't just throw them out at every hurdle before they allowed themself to get attached.
I started welling up when Alex said " I don't know what Mom and Dad saw in us to wanna keep us" 😭😭😭
Yes 😭. Im crying over here watching this video.
It was different from your mum's version as she wasn't there to interject, obviously your mum needs to get her perspective across, but this was your life, in your words. What a gentleman, you should be proud of where you're at
Agreed. I think she is being a protective mom when she does that, but I find myself wishing she’d just let them talk when they try. This was very enlightening and emotional, but I wonder if it helped him to say it out loud with his voice?
I also think that they wanna uphold their brand of "family channel" and just have mostly fun up lifting vlogs.
I think that Crazy Pieces and Crazy Middles are awesome families
@@andyrathbone6365 I love all of the “Crazy” channels!
It was not Crystals story to tell it was Alex story and he told us when he was ready. So much moving around as a young child how would you ever grow up trusting anything or anyone. I love the way he loves Hannah she is such a special young woman.
Imagine going through all you’ve been through, and becoming THIS person. People take life times, (sometimes it doesn’t even happen, )to find a kind, balanced, hardworking version of themselves , and you’re already there! That’s your hard work Alex, that got you there. I hope you’re super proud of yourself x
As an experienced foster Mum it's important to realise that neglect is a form of abuse. Thank you for sharing such a private and difficult part of your life.
It was interesting listening to some of the details I hadn’t heard before. Thanks for sharing, and I give you a lot of credit doing so on social media. It takes a lot of strength just to tell people in person, so that’s awesome!
Alex, The bond you share with Hannah is second to none. God brought your mom and dad into your life and he did it for a reason. Your mom and dad are angels among men. There aren't many foster kids that grow up with the things that all of you kids do. Never take that for granted. Not all kids get a beautiful mansion to live in, parents that buy you anything and everything you want or need. Parents that buy cars for their kids, rent apartments for their kids, pay all of the kids bills etc. It takes a special person to do those things and Crystal and Aaron do all of those things with nothing but love. Never forget that your mom and dad rescued you from a much sadder life and never lose the appreciation you have for them. You are one amazing young man and I wish you nothing but the best.
All ANY child needs is unconditional love, boundaries and support - sadly, you were let down so many times by the adults around you Alex. BUT God had a bigger plan and knew who needed YOU as much as you needed THEM. I knew your story, but hearing you tell it again now reminds me how blessed ALL of you are to have each other. God is good!!!!
So proud of how far you came from all of what you went through. I was a foster kid too. My story isn't a good one
I’m a 48 year old Mother and Grandma and I want you to know you inspire me. You’re such a remarkable young man. Thank for sharing what I know was difficult. One day you will be the BEST husband and father, just not for a few more years 😮 😉 ❤️
Thanks Alex. There is plenty that you left out of this story and I can understand why. I don't like you taking responsibility for the bad things happening because you were bad tempered. Each of those who rescued you along the way have proven that it wasn't your fault. You have blossomed now. Keep growing and Stay Safe! 😺
You were NOT a difficult child. That should have never defined you. You were PUT in difficult situations and had a difficult childhood and understandably, as a result, you had difficult behaviors. I am glad you are healing!
I’m sorry everything you went through. I’m so proud of how far you have come. I don’t understand how some adults expect kids to control their feelings when they cant control their own.
Exactly. Yet they then audacity to blame the child. I wish I could get hold of them, make them sleep on a cold floor with only a piece of toast to eat. I hope the authorities threw away the key!!
I came back here after watching your video with Jessica on your fams channel. And now im crying for the 2nd time. No kid should go through something like that. But im glad that you have your forever family that love's you no matter what.
Neglect is a form of abuse :( so glad you eventually received the best family ever! Prayers for your siblings. 🙏
We love you too, Alex. I'm thankful, you and Hannah, found your forever family.. I too, grew up in foster care. Each of you that found your way to the Pettits or, Wallace homes seem to be very blessed. Always remember and perhaps, you all will pay it forward.. Many never find their forever family, their peace and happiness..
You're definitely blessed.
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I agree
I fully believe that healing starts by speaking about the harms done to you. I was too ashamed and embarrassed to let anyone know my past until my late 30’s, drunk one night, when every secret I held came pouring out, the floodgates had opened. At 61 I can now laugh at the absurdity of things done to me. I mean, who does that? I could relate to your sleeping on the floor and having to redo chores because I slept under my bed, and just didn’t know how to do some things. The blessing is that now we can know with certainty who we are NOT going to be like, and how we’re NOT going to treat people, and we can now see the fear or shame in others
You're such a strong person. After all you've been through, you still shine a positive light all around you ❤
I’m so glad you and Hannah found your forever home that is so full of love and joy! Thank you for sharing your story, Alex. I pray that someone out there who hears it will gain hope and encouragement in whatever tough situation they may be in, or maybe it inspires some parents to share their love and joy with a child who needs a loving family. Or even shed light on some parents who may not really know how to show love to their child, or have a child with needs they don’t know how to meet, and that they can reach out for help instead of continuing a dysfunctional, abusive path. We never know how our story can help and inspire others to a better life. There’s so much I’d love to say to you, as I grew up with an abusive stepdad and mom. I finally left home at 17, but for most of my childhood I just thought that was the way it was. I never felt safe to share what it was like at home, and my family was great at hiding the reality of our home life. I’m ancient now, at 49 😂, and have worked through the effects of those times. It makes my heart so full and happy hearing your story and seeing you grow over the years into the young man that you now are. You have such a sweet spirit about you, and are so loving and caring toward those around you. Be gentle with yourself, too, and don’t neglect caring for yourself as well…sometimes those of us who have been through tough stuff can forget this easily. I wish the very best for you, and for you and Savannah’s relationship and future together. Who knows, maybe someday you will find a way to use what you’ve learned to reach out to others and help them, like in a job (or maybe adoption) working with kids from similar situations. You are so good with your younger siblings, and I think you have the perfect personality and temperament to be awesome at something like that. 😊
You are a remarkable young man. All that you went through and look at you now. Thank you for sharing your story. You’re such a genuine person who has so much love to give. God Bless you, Alex.
I don’t think your Mom ever told the entire story. I remember her tearing up and saying it was your story to tell.
You just needed parents that loved you unconditionally, that wouldn’t just send you away when they didn’t want to parent or things got a little tough .
I’m so happy you found that kinda love with Aaron and Crystal. I love the bond you have with Hannah and your other siblings. 💕
It’s 100% normal for kids who have been separated from their parents (major trauma) to act out, throw tantrums. It would be abnormal if you had not done that. Neglect is abuse. You are so amazing to have survived all that. I’m so sorry you went through all that. I’m glad it all ended well, you seem pretty well adjusted now. Im sure there will all ways be residual crap you have to deal with but I’m so glad you found Crystal and Aaron who seemed to have made up for all the missing love and attention. Your family is amazing. You will make an amazing parent one day.
Your character development is so inspiring. Your so cool!
For all that you went through when you were younger your sure are an amazing young man!! Your mom and dad have done such an amazing job raising you and all of your brothers and sisters!! Your family is amazing and full of positivity. If I’m having a bad day I always watch one of your channels and it makes me feel so much better.
I agree
Alex, wow you turned out great after your past. I'm proud that you finally found a lovely parents. Love from Canada🥰🥰🥰
I agree
I was in and out of foster care my entire life Alex. I was adopted at 10 and back in the system at 14 til I aged out at 18. I empathize with you and how you started. I work in foster care now, helping kids just like me. Sending you big hugs and love. ❤
i am sorry
Good to see you telling all about your entire adoption and family lets go Alex keep risingup man love you loads bro
Thank you for sharing your story! As many have said, there are reasons all kids act out and it doesn't make someone a bad kid. You have to love them through it... and I am so thankful you found parents that were willing to do that with you in your forever family!
I have been following crazy pieces since 2018ish & this is the first time that I have heard your story in this much depth (Today is July 4, 2024). Seeing how close you are with Crystal & Aaron, I never would have guessed how horrible you were treated before you met them. To me, Alex has always been such a huge part of what makes the crazy pieces one of my favorite channels to follow. It wouldn't be what it is without you. You truly found your missing pieces in them, just like they found theirs with you. Watching your videos & theirs for as long as I have been watching them, I know that some things are scripted, but the love that shines through all of you guys for one another is authentic. You can fake a lot of things in life to make them look how you want them to look to other people. You have to have real chemistry & true love though to make it look like your family makes it look.
So sorry to hear all you went through as a kid Alex. I’m glad you are happy now. I don’t understand why people adopt if they don’t plan to love and care for children properly. I understand confiscation of say a teenagers laptop/phone/tablet for bad behaviour but confiscating a bed is just plain WRONG. Ok cutting out sugar if you are over eating sugar but cutting out food groups completely is again WRONG. Best of luck for the future and all it brings.
Thanks for sharing your story with us! It's terrible you had to go through all of that at such a young age! No child should even be aware of many of the things you were experiencing.
However, your story really shows how true one of my favorite quotes is. I don't remember who said it, but it goes something like "Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end".
I can imagine you and the other kids felt scared, alone, like the future were never gonna be okay, like no parent would ever treat you with nothing but love and respect... And look at where you're now!
So sorry you had a troubled younger years. But, you are an amazing young adult. Caring and loving . We had 6 foster children who grew up to be amazing teens. Love them very much. We lost our 22 year old son last year to a brain bleed. I am so grateful for those kids now. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage!
Proud of you Alex for all you have and will accomplish Looking forward to your future,I’m sure it will be great.
Imagine what kind of life you would've had if you made a different choice. Crystal knew what you needed and was there to love you into wholeness. What a blessing.
Temper tantrums are definitely nothing to be ashamed of and not you fault! We’ve all chucked them especially when things don’t feel right. I’m glad you found parents who knew how to parent!
Ugh breaks my heart .. I hate that kids are going through this right now . No one ever deserves mistreatment
💙💙💙Breaks my heart that children have to go through what you and Hannah went through before you found your forever family. So proud of you both for your accomplishments and the respectful, awesome young people you have become. God Bless you both in your future. 💙💙💙
I have seen the one done through your family page but this one was a little better. It was more in depth but that might be because you last did it at like 14 and you are 18 now. When you mentioned how "happy and full of joy" the kids were on the way to Legoland, that touched me, like how you knew thru the moment that these parents were different. Glad it worked out for you and Hannah!
Alex, I’m so sorry that you had to go through so much trauma growing up. That would make anyone rebel.
I worked with special needs children & some of them were rebellious having gone through the foster system also. To feel like you are not wanted & loved has to be the hardest thing ever.
You turned out to be a fine young man & are certainly in the best home ever & are greatly loved by your now family & so happy that you & Hannah are finally together.
Thanks for sharing your story 🙂 you definitely have been through a lot, I'm so happy you were placed and adopted by the crazy piece's family!! You deserve all the happiness and blessings life has to offer you!! Thanks for sharing again Alex, you're so brave to share your story with so many people.
I agree
Goodness Alex I only heard part of this on your mom's channel. Wow you have been through the wringer. Well done you are an inspiration and maybe if you change some people's perspectives on parenting you will leave a legacy. You can be extremely proud of well done, keep going. 👏 from Cape Town South Africa 🇿🇦
That was so brave of you Alex to face your journey head on and explain why or how you got to different places and different people in your life. You really did win first prize in the case of your adoption. To have the choice between your 4th grade teacher and your eventual placing with the Petit family must have really made you feel that you belonged.
Oh Alex, now i know why u are so loveable.... my late grandma was born on the 24th of september. I was so so close to her and she was the only person i cried for after she passed.
You are such a strong and brave young man. You were not a bad or disruptive young boy, the people who had the honour of loving and caring for you were totally very cruel and made you live a disruptive and disfunctional life.
You have grown into such a loving and caring young man who is loved and adored by your family. Your Mum and Dad can of course be credited by loving you, showing you a caring and a happy home. However the credit has to go to you by the way you have adapted to a loving home, adapted to how you, as a young person, deserved to be treated. You are a credit not only for yourself but to your family as well. You are also an inspiration to those unfortunate children who are struggling with their journey and that your story will give them a beacon of hope.
You are the best big brother ever!! xxx
After the start in life you had, how you turned out to be so kind, caring & frankly adorable defies logic. Crystal & Aaron worked miracles with you & you have paid them back with being the best big brother anyone could wish for. May you continue to thrive as a Pettit. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. So glad you & Hannah, were able to finally ended up in a loving home. God bless you both.
I respect the respect you have for your previous guardians, I just want you and anyone watching to know that locking anyone in any closed space against their will and in an unsafe way is defined as abuse, neglect is when you do nothing to care for the child, but when you take malicious action against a person that is abuse, neglect would be they were drunk and forgot you in the garage, not locked in the garage because of fits
Alex I'm so happy for you! I love the relationship you have with Hannah, she is a very special person full of love and cares for everyone! I'm so glad you are in this Family, your parents are a blessing from God him self. I'm proud of the person you have become. ❤️
You were a kid that had to go thru a lot and that's why the tantrums .. I always believe that some kids do that trying to get attention because something was missing.. you are a great person. God placed you in the right home w the right people. Aaron and Crystal you are doing a great job
You are an awesome human Alex. You have overcome so much in your life. I never would’ve guessed you ever had a temper. I can totally understand why, but I’m so glad you outgrew that, your life could’ve been totally different. 🥰🥰🥰
i’m so proud of you alex and how far you’ve come and finally getting into an amazing family
I feel like somewhere there is a kid in a similar situation and is going to see this and be so inspired by you Alex
For what you have gone through in your young life Alex, you are an amazing kind man. Your heart could not be an larger for you show it everyday with how you love your Mom and family! I am proud of you!!
You're an amazing person and I'm so glad life got better for you. No one deserves to go through that
this story hit home you have never went this deep on your family channel. Imagine that needing proper parenting and love over neglect changed your behavior. that's spot on teaching a child AND LOVING A CHILD IS WHAT HELPS THEM GROW AND DEVELOP I'm glad your parents chose you and Hannah and loved you like their own.
Temper tantrums is one thing but you were just so angry because you never had the love and support your so badly craved. I'm so very happy you found your family and you have so much love and joy in your life now.
Alex you've come a long ways . So glad the Mom & Dad found you and Hannah. Thanks for sharing your story. I'm very proud of ya .
Now, I am even more proud of you…I am sorry you went through all that-kids don’t come with instructions, but any reasonably good parent should know that kids need to feel unconditional love-they may get momentarily angry or disappointed with a child’s behavior…but a parents love doesn’t diminish from that and it is very important that children are told and taught this….and, if possible, I love your parent even more and I am sooooo very happy for you that they rescued you from that part of your life…..you are truly your parents son and I can see the love you have for them and the love they have for you. It doesn’t matter if they adopt another 20 children…the love they have for each of their children doesn’t change…time passage doesn’t change the love….it is eternal.
Alex.oh my... You are not and where not a difficult child you where in a difficult situation and didn't have the basic love and support you deserved. I am so happy you are apart of crazy pieces. You are an amazing person. I am certain you family is grateful for you and that you bless them everyday.
Omg as a mom of two hearing your story broke my heart 😢 you are such an amazing young man and I have watched your family channel for a while now and watching you grow into the young man you are today i don’t know you personally but im so proud of you Alex you are a strong soul keep it up
You brought tears to my eyes…you are a wonderful caring man and deserve all the love you are getting.
Exactly! you were literally crying out for someone to love you and I’m so happy you found your forever home …you found a beautiful girlfriend now by your side and show you nothing but love ❤️
Alex this really pulled at my heart strings ❤️
sad story and you still turned out to be an excellent human a real man.
I’m so very proud of you .
From a rough road to happy endings. I'm you are in a good place now with parents who love you unco ditionally & siblings who love you! And a lovely girlfriend who loves you!
So proud of you. You're an amazing young man despite living through such hardships in your life. Amazing
Thanks Alex for sharing such a wonderful story... I was never adopted or nothing but I remember when my step dad used to beat the crap out of me he used to make me been in my knees with rice on the floor and for some crazy stuff that he would do but I'm glad that you found a beautiful family that loves you and Hannah much 💕 to y'all
I'm so glad the Petit's rescued you and Hannah. You deserved to be happy and loved. They are wonderful people. I am also so happy you found a wonderful girlfriend in Arianna. She is amazing 👏. Hope all goes well when you meet her parents. Blessings to you 🙏, Barb from Anaheim, CA
You mean Savannah. ☺️
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Whoops....Yes, I meant Savannah.
You have been through so much! And have managed to stay so strong and positive! I’m so glad that you found your FOREVER family and home. May GOD give you nothing but love, blessings and a beautiful future.❤️
@Alex Pettit I’m so glad you told your story on this channel in your own words. I’ve seen it on your Mom’s channel, which I’ve followed for a long while. But it’s good to hear it, in more detail from you.
I’ve always admired your tender heart, and how you’ve come to where you are in life now.
Your parents are such giving, accepting, and loving people. It’s so incredibly wonderful that you and Hannah are Pettits, and have a secure and blessed life now and going into the future.
I’m also so very happy for you and Savannah to have found each other. There’s nothing compared to true love and happiness in this world. Love you all so much.
God bless you now and way into the future that you and Savannah have begun recently.
Love from Queensland, Australia 🥰❤️❤️💍👏🙏🏻🇦🇺
You are such a beautiful human inside and out. I’m so glad your family found you and encouraged your light to shine. You were meant for big things, I just know it. Keep shining!
Alex, I've been watching your journey on Crazy Pieces and was lucky to see you turn into an AMAZING young man! I'm so happy for your future with Savannah!! I'll continue to pray for your family and for all the kids struggling out there in foster care. Sending love always ❤ 🥰
I’m so glad you and Hannah found your Mom and Dad! Really sorry about the rough road to get there. It’s a shame that adults do things like that! Super proud of you and the Man you have become Alex!
You have a special bond with Hannah which is very understandable. So sorry for all you went through but over the moon your parents have found you and Hannah and you have the love and parental guidance you needed. You are an amazing young man with a huge future in front of you. Keep smiling. 💯🤗💕🤗
You're an amazing young man Alex. One day you'll be a great dad and husband. Thanks for sharing your full story. You've been through alot.
Alex you should be proud of where you are! There was obviously reasons why you were acting the way as a child. I am so glad you told this story cause I didnt realize you and Hanna had been through so much together and I love you picked Crystal and Aaron to be with!
Alex, your are now living your best life. You are a wise & strong young man with a huge heart. Keep reaching for the stars and you will touch them one day .
We have to give credit where credit is due, it is amazing that the crazy families do their best to keep families/siblings together
I’m bawling my eyes out man. I can’t imagine going through all of that, you weren’t naughty, you were a little kid dealing with trauma!
Alex, you are a survivor, as is Hannah and her sister. No child should have to live with such uncertainty and disrespect. I am so thankful that your parents were led to you and made the commitment to help you be secure and to know you are loved unconditionally. ❤❤
I am so happy for you that you came in your "real" family. Love is so important. Love heals all wounds they say. It certainly helped you. You can absulutely be proud of the man you became, I love your energy, I whish you all the best
Alex nothing you did as a child is an Excuse for the way the adults failed you. You are an amazing young man and have so much to be proud of!
Alex. Thank you for sharing your story. Abuse is not just sexual or physical. IT'S ALSO emotional, neglect and domestic. What you went through was abuse.
I went through the main 4 types of abuse from 3 months old til I was 18 years old and still went through emotional abuse in my adulthood. I went into foster care at 7yrs old and aged out at 18. I wish I could've been adopted.
You are a strong young man and have come such a long way.
God had bigger and better plans for you young man! Your parents are seriously THEE BEST! Like you said, you just needed to be loved and God knew that you needed them and they needed you! You are such a positive gentleman, and I’m so genuinely sorry for all of the things you had to endure. People (adults mostly) do not realize what that can do to a child that has an everlasting effect on them. So proud of you for being the best YOU! You are super handsome, the best big brother, a great great son, I know your parents are beyond proud of you!! Thanks for sharing Alex, makes me sad to think of the kind of people who could punish a child in such a horrific manner. That’s the past, and while you don’t have to ever forget, for yourself you can forgive, and that’s totally up to you anyway. It’s something I recently learned in therapy, and sounds so cliche to say, but it’s so true. You can forgive and never forget, you can love someone from a far and that doesn’t mean you have to have a seat at your dinner table for them, etc. Anyway, this made me so sad and sad beyond happy at the same time. Love ya kid!! ,
You are so strong Alex
Thanks for sharing your story with us, its not always easy to be open about our past! You totally suit the name Alex. Sorry that you spent so long in foster care before you were adopted but very glad you found your amazing forever family. That is not the proper way to discipline a child! Family is important and so are the connections, I am sorry that you can't see your sister! Ugh, it hurts my heart that you were all subjected to that abuse in a place that was supposed to protect you-that abuse was and is not love! So glad that Sam spoke up and you were rescued! So glad you at least got reunited with Hannah after all you have been through. I can't imagine the anxiety after all you had been through, to hear that someone is coming to see you but I am glad you found your mom and dad! Glad Sam is doing well and is building her life! Thank you for sharing your story with us, I know how much courage that took! You are an amazing guy with a huge heart and your past does not define you!
If the opportunity ever comes your way it would be great for you to tell your story to perspective foster and adoptive parents. We had a young man come to the introductory meeting for adopting from foster care and hearing his story had an impact on those of us considering adopting from foster care.
@Joy G, what a wonderful thought/idea! I deeply hope this happens.
God bless you, and keep you close always.
The Pettit's are the best. The more I hear the clearer it becomes. So happy for you.
So sorry you went through all of that. But so glad you had Hannah, Sam, and now your forever family. 🥰💙💜
Alex, all those terrible things that were deliberately done to you, they are ABUSE. They are NOT NEGLECT. Leaving you strapped in your car seat, in the dark and shutting the door, knowing you were in there..that is abuse. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. The foster system needs a huge intervention . There are too many stories of abuse.
Alex!! Many many hugs to you!
All you were doing was crying out for help! You knew inside something was missing - being heard and understood and genuinely loved. But didn’t k on how to express that.
Most people don’t get that. They will look at disruptive behavior like a violation of a law and punish you for it, rather than listening to what you’re really trying to say! And then loving you unconditionally! The Pettits DID!!!
Thank you for sharing your story Alex, I'm glad you finally found your Forever Home with such Amazing parents and a family that showed you how life should of been, I think you have turned into the strong Man you have become because of your strength and courage to be the person you really are. I'm sorry you had to go through life with people who didn't understand you and take the time to get to know you as you really are a Truly Awesome guy. And we can see how Proud your parents are of how you have matured. Your Family think the world of you. Onwards and upwards ❤.
you are a brave and strong human. It makes me sad that you experienced the neglect. Our world is better with you in it -- hopefully, you van help others like you. ❤️❤️
This about broke my heart I wanted to hug you so tight. Alex you are so wonderfully special with the biggest heart & dont ever forget that.
So proud of you! You telling your story will impact so many who have or are going thru similar things. Keep up the good work!
Alex … thank you so much for sharing this part of your life … I’m adopted too . So hearing other peoples story’s is really nice .. sending love and light your way ! Keep being the positive sweet young man you are !
I want to give u a hug. I am same age as you. You inspired me to adopt when I get married one day. Love you. Glad you got your happily ever after.
Thank you thank you thank you for sharing your life. You are touching a lot of people. You're an incredible young man and I wish you all the best.
I came upon this video while researching adoption in hopes of adopting in the future. I appreciate your words and experiences. You are very heard. ♡
Thank you for sharing . You don’t have to be blood to be family . It’s all about the love . Crystal , your mom is so kind and you just needed a Mom to love you ❤️ 💕 love 💗 . Your love as a big brother is wonderful.
Hope you are doing well and love living on your own! Wishing nothing but the best!