@@hebaalghareeb703 That's one of the reasons she's alone...her ass is confused Is the issue 'they' are pressuring you to get married & have kids, because your 'eggs are old' like you CLAIMED was a problem Or Are you having problems, finding 'the' right mate for you? Those are two very DIFFERENT issues....if the issue was 'I' can't find somebody, then Steve offered help But if the issue, was what she ASKED about was help me get my nana/sister and them off my back...then Steve simply JOINED the bandwagon of folks seeking to get her hitched and knocked up
This girl is already doing the right thing by not giving into pressure from others, and also being careful not to fall for a man that doesn't really care about her. The proper advice for her would be to continue not to be in a rush. Parents sometimes put pressure on their kids because pressure was put on them to rush, and in a lot of cases, they gave into that pressure. So they subconsciously, and sometimes consciously put that same pressure on their children, which is not good.
I was gonna say this young lady looks so exotic when I saw you on here. Just do you hun and I am sure you will make a good choice cause your family has got you if he messes up.
I feel you sister! My mum and aunt has grown tired of asking me about marriage. So they now carry my photo on their phone and brings me up in every conversation they have. Making it clear to people that : “my daughter is single and ready for marriage”. 😅So here I am walking down my street the other day only to be stopped by a lady I don’t know asking me “are you the single daughter of.....? Would you want to date my son?”😅
Take ur time and live ur life. Don't be pressured into something u'll regret later. I wonder why? Every guy Steve knows is PERFECT. Just bcz Steve says he's perfect. Doesn't mean he's perfect for you. Ur a beautiful young lady. Take ur time. In God's timing he'll send ur soulmate.
I can so agree to this. I am all for advocating for people who are willing to wait on God... he knows us better than we do ourselves and the beauty about waiting patiently on our future husbands (speaking for myself) he's going to be everything we could ever dream of in a man, husband, and father... #dearfuturehusband #dearfuturehubby❤
@@melaniebrown1443 Take ur time babygirl. I have a daughter that's 30,a son that's 27. I'm sure ur a beautiful young lady. U can rush into something and regret it later. Guard ur heart and take ur time. Ur only 22, time is on ur side. I got married my first time at 18. I regret the timing. My heart goes out to you. I wouldn't want anything for you that I wouldn't want for my kids.
She needs to start telling these men who like saying, "I'm not ready for a relationship" but who like receiving "relationship and title benefits" that she's "just not ready to give out relationship and title benefits" for someone who who isn't ready for them.
I love this Mr Steve you be doing your thangy thang & helping the ladies out. I remember when I was in that particular situation & now that I am married I am sooooo happy that God Finally sent my King. God won’t send him until both of us are ready. I love you Mr Steve🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hold up hold up, that is his wife's daughter. He is her step father, so he can only say so much to her about that. Both of steve biological daughters are with respectful men their own age.
When she stated the type of men she had been running into, Steve looked surprised. Men wanting women to do everything for them without being married is the typical man out there. This is what women have been complaining about. Yet, Steve didn't seem to have any answers.
Listen ima just say this. Marriage and kids is an expense! Take your mf time! It’s your choice and your choice alone don’t let people pressure you into something that has nothing to do with them. Once you have kids your life changes forever.
Thank you, thank you,thank you!!!! For saying that people really have to understand the fairytale of marriage and kids really is story about COMMITMENT AND HARD WORK AND MUCH SACRIFICE!!. Yes there are great moments and rewarding times. But thats subjective and depends on your "story" and your expectations about both kids and marriage.... we rush people too much who usually arent ready
I would be so humbled in taking her out while get to know her spiritually, emotionally and mentally on a deeper level! I’m a medical student working towards multiple degrees. Family means everything to me which I keep near to my heart but most importantly a man of God. Who do I need to get in contact with?
SO TRUE....Cuz her statements are purely logical responses....WOMEN BASED THEIR DECISIONS ON EMOTIONS NOT LOGIC....So when the guy walks in that represents the compete opposite of what she says she wants, she’ll totally pursue that guy lol
Do what's best for you, it's not a race or competition to see when you'll get married or have kids.. Don't let society or family pressure you. It's your life at the end of the day
Look at this pretty girl right here!!! Get it Queen!!! Girl i feel you, Southern familes are a trip! My fam, is from Louisiana and they dnt play! Southern mammas and grandmammas dnt play So I get it the pressure is real, Jst give them the business and tell them 2 back all the way up! YOU have to be ready 4 that YOU! It will happen when its supposed to They arent living your life! Dnt trip girl, the right guy is on the way, but keep doing you he will show up right on time TRUST!
X x just to give you the data, in the U.S., the average height of guys is 5’10” with a standard deviation of 4 inches. That means over 30% of guys in the U.S. are 6’0” or taller
Loba K Just in case anyone thinks I’ve got a bias, I’ll be clear that I’m not 6’0” or taller, but I’m okay with that. There a many things of value in this world, the key is to understand your strengths and working around them (assuming the strength we’re talking about that can hold some value). This in turn allows you to be happy with who you’re and will give you the confidence to be successful. Denying the truth about a category of value, like height, because you’re not advantaged in it is a bad way to live your life.
If you're not picky with your life partner, I wonder if you'll ever be picky in life. All preferences are fine by me, even the people who don't wanna date certain races or ethnicities. It's better for those races/ethnicities to stay away from someone who dislike them as a whole.
Hmm, I don't know about that one. If you are a woman, the older you get the less time you have to have a family. A man gets financial stability and provides safety for a woman and men can do that at any age when they come into that money. For women, when you get past 35, its scraping the bottom of the barrel to find a good man to take you. The man you would want to be yours for the rest of your life, won't go for you because of one main thing, age. Also men don't tend to pick older single women since they assume you've been round the block many MANY times and thats a nono for many men. It may not sound nice to you but its how most men think. Anyway, only you can decide how to live your life but statistics find that married people live longer, are less depressed in general, lead happier lives and raise children much better.
Most females are very much in favor of marriage. Been there, done that, would never do it again! I treasure being alone. There is no reason to get married. 'Single works for me'!! =D
My advice to the young lady is don’t let anyone pressure you into getting married your mom, grandma, dad, sister, aunt no one!! In my personal experience most of the ppl in my family didn’t even get married because they love the person it was either to have a title or to move out of their parents house
As a 22 year old woman I feel so pressured to find the “right guy” before I turn 30. I hear a lot of dudes talking about “hitting the wall” when it comes to women and how most women hit the wall at 30 so it gets harder for them to date. It’s so much stress and frustration
@@ddh19454 Same. I'm 5'3" and I don't have a minimal 6 feet requirement. But if the lady is tall herself, I can understand that she don't want a short guy. Still, it was intereting that it was the first thing she mentionned...
@@jessicaj.358 am 5'1" lol So u can see my dilemma I would prefer if he's less than 6 ft Personally if asked this question I would like to verbally split up my requirements/ preferences into physical attributes and personality Because like you said, she mentioned height first.. after that it was something physical again and I was like biting my teeth hoping she would just name physical things because they would eat her alive in the comments for being "shallow" But we all have preferences✌
Women: The insides is all that matter i want to find love. So what are you looking for in a man? Women: he has to be tall... continues to list all physical/financial attributes
Olgales Suida ummm just like there’s a lot of good for nothin girls out there only after D or money or both ?? I know woman love to play victim and act like it’s only them though I get it 😂😂
You know I don’t understand parents and grandparents who pressure their kids into getting married. What do they think they are going to accomplish?? My parents did not ever put pressure on me. They don’t have a problem with me being unmarried and they simply expect me to be myself and live my life, marching to the beat of my own drum.
A lot of females share the same qualities as this young lady here. But the problem is, they are all looking for the same type of man! Don't you think that maybe that man you're looking for already has enough women barking up his tree already? Look, I'm saying is try to look for other characteristics in a man that may attract you. She said she wanted her man to be tall, ok nothing wrong with that. But how tall are we talking about here? Good job? Well ok. What kinda job do you want your man to have? Because the love your life could be a plumber, but because he's not a doctor you're going to reject him???
Hey, plumbers make good money, specially if they're unionized. I don't know any woman who'd say no to one. "He has to have a job" basically translates as he has to be able to provide for a family and not be lazy.
@@f.-j.j.5738 yes!! I feel that as long as a man has a job, it shouldn't matter what kind of job this man has. As long as he is able to provide for his family.
Omg I feel so much pressure to find the right guy before I turn 30. I’m a 22 year old woman that’s still a virgin (I’m saving myself till marriage), and when I tell most guys that, they run. I hear a lot of men say that for women, it’s best to find the one before I turn 30 because at 30 I’ll “hit a wall” and be undesirable to many men. I do want to get married and start a family, but I don’t want to just settle for anyone. I’m not even asking for the tallest dude or the dude with the most money, I just want a guy that I genuinely connect with and that loves me. But it’s so difficult to find that guy 😩
@@melaniebrown1443 have you tried to go after a guy yourself? I mean really really tried? Have you actually gone out of your way to say hi to a guy? Or to invite a guy a drink??? Ask him out on a date??? Have you even actually tried? Sometimes you have to be the one to let the guy know that you want his attention.
@@yaircelis1175 Yes sir, in college I had a crush on this boy, told my friend, somehow I ended up getting his number and I reached out and texted him, we exchanged a few texts but he didn’t respond. During this pandemic it’s been hard to go out and meet people, but I’ve been using dating apps and been trying to put myself out there. It’s like I’ll start talking to a dude that I like, but he’ll end up ghosting me when I’m not willing to smash on the first night or first couple of days. Or the dude will say things like “I wanna take you out”, but never follows through on his word. I’m very shy and introverted but I do try to put myself out there and I’ll definitely slide in a guy’s DMs or message him first on a dating app if I’m interested, but I’ve been having no luck so far.
Steve, she said God fearing! Not church guy! That's two separate people.. Lots of people go to church but don't know God or have a relationship with him.. So a church guy isn't going to fit the bill for her.. Steve you have to do better. I hope you do for her sake..
How do you have a relationship with God?? I don't know if praying would be enough. I mean you can't go out and do things with God and have fun together cause god ain't there just like that /... BTW im not saying I don't believe in god
XChino04... Some people go to church because it's just what the custom/tradition of the family or friends.. They show up and go home.They use it as a social club.. Etc.. A relationship on the other hand.. You have ask God's forgiveness, and believe that you are, you have faith that he has died for you, that he watches over you, you can call on him in prayer or worship and you feel his presence, you rely on him for guidance in all areas of your life, by the reading of his word which is the blueprint for a life with him, you asked him to open your spiritual eyes so you can see ways to serve him daily, the company you keep, [things] you did before you accepted him as Saviour, you will have a conviction in your spirit if you do them, when you pray it's a conversation with him, think about it as you are getting to know a friend, (how do you do that) you constantly talk and ask questions of them! Our Heavenly Father wants/love to hear from you, you cannot walk alone on this journey, you need to get to know him. The world is a mess but you will have a joy and peace within you that no matter what happens you know there is someone you loves you and cares for you.. There's so much more.. But i can only say so much, others will have many other ways to know how to be close to your creater.. Everyone's walk is different.. I pray you have something to go by in my answer.. Be Blessed..
What the hell does being tall has to do with your happiness and finding the right guy. All across dating sites it’s a common thing with women, one first very thing thing they say, must be 6 ft tall. WTF! Most women aren’t even that tall across the board. But what does two different guys at different heights matter to how well he treats you, your happiness or how long the relationship can last. Just one the reason so many women can’t find a man. While many men are choosing to do their own thing these days.
That is the idiotic logic of some women; the first thing that she said was he has to be tall. While i understand her preference, it is limiting and a bit delusional. The men she wants will probably marry women who do not list their first requirements about a man's height.
Ardent Dfender ok that pretty tall and I'm only 5ft 00in. But we can still have preferences like men have preferences all the time. Most women just love tall men because there is a stereotype going on that men should be taller than women because the men looks more masculine.
People have a right to say who and what attracts them..WHY date someone shorter, when you know from jump street, it's going nowhere? I don't smoke.. ever have...l don't date smokers...doesn't matter how fine you are. Cigarette smoke on clothes, breath or hair are turnoffs..and l'm gonna waste my time KNOWING THIS? I don't think so, but you go right ahead...
Yo nothing wrong with her wanting a tall dude.... just like there is nothing wrong with guys wanting a woman with no kids and who is in shape... it's a preference
You are right but unfortunately "tall" I.e being 6ft plus is a minority group really limits the type guys available. Depending on how tall she prefers her options could be severely limited. But that's her perogative at the end of the day
@@jeffjefferson3364 oh man I totally agree! you are not wrong by any means. Im just saying when men have a preference of saying they want a woman that is healthy and in shape then women should keep that same energy and not call men shallow if that is what men want. Because height is written in stone and cannot be change.... but weight can be changed mostly depending on habits and routine. But I feel what you are saying though.
B B 😂😂😂 I’m an 18 a year old 5’4 guy, and I have no problems (none whatsoever) And I’ve met plenty of tall guys that openly talk about cheating on their girlfriends, and some of them are complete bums. Not all of them of course, but height doesn’t make anyone good or bad. But I’ll tell you, I’ve met a lot of Tall punks to say the least. It’s all about confidence and values. I care about people and I will always remain faithful to my future partner 💯 and when one woman won’t give you the time of day, there’s 3 more that will
And how Do you love that person when you found him. I know a guy Who is willing to Do everything for me and etc. But I feel like it's out of desparation to get married instead. It's really how it feels to me. Je even Say that all I love he loves it too, i find it supicious but i've let it slide. Anyway, i don't know what to Do. I just don't like him that way even when I tried. Is There something wrong with me?
No benifit in marriage at all....men are going there own way and women have today’s social climate to thank...women are ok with being single mothers, sleeping around with multiple men, and sliding in DMs.....no thank for me....lol that’s why I prefer casual dating and no strings attach....this woman in the video is upset because all these men that she dates are doing the same thing I’m doing with other women...hell no im not getting in any relationship...and women are mad as hell....women talk about “well he should not get the benefit of a wife if he is not going to marry me or be in a relationship with me”....LIKE WHO CARES...men don’t care about benefits...all we want is sex....and if u date multiple women somebody like the girl on the video will cook for u, because she is very attracted that particular man....if a women is ATTRACTED to u and ADMIRERS u as a man....SHE WILL DO ANYTHING for u trust me...No need to wife that up
Love her! I'm the same, except younger and I don't have the family pressure but I want these things for myself... Very few and far between men are like that 😞
Hey that's great and dont let any man or woman tell you otherwise. Most men and women dont think you because they are pressure by society on what they should date. But you actually found happiness and hope you enjoy!
Tall and god fearing? Maybe you should hangout with basketball or volleyball players who are church goers to find your ideal man. The thinking with his heart man can be found in novels I reckon.
There is no single day that passes without being asked when am l get married, when am l having kids...Its easy to judge someone when you not on their shoes. Who would like to grew-up alone with No partner nor kids...
when steves closing one eye like that, and how his beard changes his face completely, he reminds me of martin lawrence, who also does like a one eyed wink/squint. anyone else see that?
02:16 - Poor girl, Steve just crushed her soul with some harsh reality ! Looks like the girl's being watching too many "rom-coms" - real life isn't a movie little girl 😂
@Sherissa Blount : you absolutely GORGEOUS! Any man who don't want to commit to you, is not worthy of you. Those men don't think with their heart OR with their mind. They think with some other part, south of their tummy. That's not what you need! But you must not hang yourself up on superficial stuff, either. Tall man? Man who thinks with his heart, mostly? You ain't gon' find that, girl! Find a man who will put himself on the line for you, and marry that sucker! And tell your mama and grandmama that you be fine! They won't believe you, and they right - because you WILL make plenty mistakes -, but they will have to learn to live with that. They will always worry, and they will always project their own wishes onto you, but that because they love you. Accept that!
God fearing and very love his family or parents are very important. This girl has a high standard in a guy, not in materials but she looking for a nice guy
Steve I have to disagree with you, all the ideas that she have for a perfect man for her do exist. The ideas that Steve tells his audience and written in his book of what men are and are not are not always true. The nature of men that Steve describe are maybe American men. There are many men's characteristic outside America that contradicts Steve's idea of what men really are in real life.
I agree with a man being tall... I am 5.9’ tall and taller when wearing 👠 👠 .... My man is 6’4... Most women will tell you that most short men have a tall ego, something to proof attitude and SMS = Short Man Syndrome.
Facts...the answer is she brings nothing to the table...this women is pursuing the top value man (nothing wrong with that) ...but then these women get upset when these top tier men refuse to settle....why would we...we have to many options of women....These women are all hypergamous....they’ll leave you for the bigger better deal so fast!!!! I’m all for casual dating or situationships... but never a relationship
Men don’t want commitments @Phenomenon anymore so we have devalued the modern women to objects of companionship that’s it...we men can cook ourselves or have one of our many options of women cook for us....remember a women will do anything for a man that she desires, admires, and deems high value
Striking beauty. Her Eyes ARE the Eyes of the Ancestral Queens long ago!. There are statutes errected All-Over-Afrika in honor or those Eyes...and all over Europe and American museums
I got on a date with a beautiful guy in his heart but he didn't like me. Sometimes you are not ready. I am really sad to not be ready for quality man, there were even 2
She said her family are trying to rush her into getting married and having kids so Steve introduces her to some men 😂😂
😂😂😂
It's because she didn't find the right one yet, not because she's against the whole idea of marriage,
So he would be helping her find one
Simple
Hhhhhh men are fixers so he fixes her problem.
He gets straight to the point
@@hebaalghareeb703
That's one of the reasons she's alone...her ass is confused
Is the issue 'they' are pressuring you to get married & have kids, because your 'eggs are old' like you CLAIMED was a problem
Or
Are you having problems, finding 'the' right mate for you?
Those are two very DIFFERENT issues....if the issue was 'I' can't find somebody, then Steve offered help
But if the issue, was what she ASKED about was help me get my nana/sister and them off my back...then Steve simply JOINED the bandwagon of folks seeking to get her hitched and knocked up
''Same man different clothes''
Steve : well why you keep opening the damn dowwwr ? 😂 😂 😂
Lol
Easy for Steve to say.wby did he keep cheating?
This girl is already doing the right thing by not giving into pressure from others, and also being careful not to fall for a man that doesn't really care about her. The proper advice for her would be to continue not to be in a rush. Parents sometimes put pressure on their kids because pressure was put on them to rush, and in a lot of cases, they gave into that pressure. So they subconsciously, and sometimes consciously put that same pressure on their children, which is not good.
Leo B I agree. But she also needs to figure out how to find the type of guy who is going to treat her right.
She wants a tall man that what all matters to her.
Aww thank y’all for being so kind! ☺️🥰
Your Gorgeous love, keep me updated on the relationship status cause I'll be on stand by in meantime lol
If you care to give me an update. I would love to hear how everything went fo you so far. Thanks!
I was gonna say this young lady looks so exotic when I saw you on here. Just do you hun and I am sure you will make a good choice cause your family has got you if he messes up.
@@Qoreay this dude lol
I feel you sister! My mum and aunt has grown tired of asking me about marriage. So they now carry my photo on their phone and brings me up in every conversation they have. Making it clear to people that : “my daughter is single and ready for marriage”.
😅So here I am walking down my street the other day only to be stopped by a lady I don’t know asking me “are you the single daughter of.....? Would you want to date my son?”😅
Girl why are you talking about me 😂😂😂😂
That’s embarrassing …
Lord😭 What did you say?
Djenabou Diallo 😂😂 you too?😅
Noura 11 😅I now walk around with sunglasses when am at my street. #noeyecontact
Take ur time and live ur life. Don't be pressured into something u'll regret later. I wonder why? Every guy Steve knows is PERFECT. Just bcz Steve says he's perfect. Doesn't mean he's perfect for you. Ur a beautiful young lady. Take ur time. In God's timing he'll send ur soulmate.
True words.
I can so agree to this. I am all for advocating for people who are willing to wait on God... he knows us better than we do ourselves and the beauty about waiting patiently on our future husbands (speaking for myself) he's going to be everything we could ever dream of in a man, husband, and father... #dearfuturehusband #dearfuturehubby❤
I’m a 22 year old female and I feel so pressured to find the “right one” before I turn 30 😩
@@melaniebrown1443 Take ur time babygirl. I have a daughter that's 30,a son that's 27. I'm sure ur a beautiful young lady. U can rush into something and regret it later. Guard ur heart and take ur time. Ur only 22, time is on ur side. I got married my first time at 18. I regret the timing. My heart goes out to you. I wouldn't want anything for you that I wouldn't want for my kids.
Amen!!
At this point we all just need to go on Steve’s show 😂😂
She needs to start telling these men who like saying, "I'm not ready for a relationship" but who like receiving "relationship and title benefits" that she's "just not ready to give out relationship and title benefits" for someone who who isn't ready for them.
Exactly ✅
Word
I've dated a lot of women....my friends are married.... I've never seen ONE loyal woman. Not a single one
I’d go on a date with her. She seems like a very nice person and family oriented
BenTamanaOfficial ok Mr Fedex
I love this Mr Steve you be doing your thangy thang & helping the ladies out. I remember when I was in that particular situation & now that I am married I am sooooo happy that God Finally sent my King. God won’t send him until both of us are ready. I love you Mr Steve🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Steve be hooking these women with great men only for his daughter to end up with Diddy. 😔
Hahahahahahaha....mi chicken drop out of my mouth. You just kill mem
Hold up hold up, that is his wife's daughter. He is her step father, so he can only say so much to her about that. Both of steve biological daughters are with respectful men their own age.
@@pmerancier true👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
His wife was a single mom. Thats HER biological daughter not steves.
And now future 😖🤦🏽♀️
What a gorgeous chocolate beauty. Something is so wrong out here when her caliber isn't receiving what she deserves.
What does she deserve?
When she stated the type of men she had been running into, Steve looked surprised. Men wanting women to do everything for them without being married is the typical man out there. This is what women have been complaining about. Yet, Steve didn't seem to have any answers.
She's so pretty
i know
Listen ima just say this. Marriage and kids is an expense! Take your mf time! It’s your choice and your choice alone don’t let people pressure you into something that has nothing to do with them. Once you have kids your life changes forever.
Good Advice!!!
Thank you, thank you,thank you!!!! For saying that people really have to understand the fairytale of marriage and kids really is story about COMMITMENT AND HARD WORK AND MUCH SACRIFICE!!. Yes there are great moments and rewarding times. But thats subjective and depends on your "story" and your expectations about both kids and marriage.... we rush people too much who usually arent ready
women cant afford to take their time
zero they can afford more when they take their time. Giving birth isn’t the only way to have kids. You can adopt also which in some cases is better
@@camronjones-kennedy219 not everyone wants to adopt kids
Man don't think with no heart girl.🤣
Hyacinth Williams huh??
you dont know men then, men will sleep with a female but only commit to a female with a personality
@SARA type meaning be feminine and a fun person
I would be so humbled in taking her out while get to know her spiritually, emotionally and mentally on a deeper level! I’m a medical student working towards multiple degrees. Family means everything to me which I keep near to my heart but most importantly a man of God. Who do I need to get in contact with?
Stop looking for only tall dudes. You might pass up a good dude who isn't a damn statue
Nothing wrong with tall :)
@@smokeofspades2974 nothing wrong with shorter guys either 😁
Let the short ones date the short girls who also need some good men. 😉
@@ninagezellie4206 how? When the short girls want tall guys? 😂
Yes. Even the shorter girls want tall men. And men don't care about a woman's height that much...
He has to be god fearing, love his mom, have a job, think with his heart/feelings.
Hot bad boy walks by.
This Girl: gets infatuated. “He’s the one.”
SO TRUE....Cuz her statements are purely logical responses....WOMEN BASED THEIR DECISIONS ON EMOTIONS NOT LOGIC....So when the guy walks in that represents the compete opposite of what she says she wants, she’ll totally pursue that guy lol
@@cyes1156 but men are also not that logical, they are very easily manipulated by sex (and fall for the "bad girls" often)
Do what's best for you, it's not a race or competition to see when you'll get married or have kids.. Don't let society or family pressure you. It's your life at the end of the day
Look at this pretty girl right here!!! Get it Queen!!! Girl i feel you, Southern familes are a trip! My fam, is from Louisiana and they dnt play! Southern mammas and grandmammas dnt play So I get it the pressure is real, Jst give them the business and tell them 2 back all the way up! YOU have to be ready 4 that YOU! It will happen when its supposed to They arent living your life! Dnt trip girl, the right guy is on the way, but keep doing you he will show up right on time TRUST!
Women often say they want a man who's tall (at least 6 ft.). That eliminates 85% of the men and greatly decreases your chances of every finding a man.
X x just to give you the data, in the U.S., the average height of guys is 5’10” with a standard deviation of 4 inches. That means over 30% of guys in the U.S. are 6’0” or taller
X x i feel blessed since I’m around that height
Loba K Just in case anyone thinks I’ve got a bias, I’ll be clear that I’m not 6’0” or taller, but I’m okay with that. There a many things of value in this world, the key is to understand your strengths and working around them (assuming the strength we’re talking about that can hold some value). This in turn allows you to be happy with who you’re and will give you the confidence to be successful.
Denying the truth about a category of value, like height, because you’re not advantaged in it is a bad way to live your life.
If you're not picky with your life partner, I wonder if you'll ever be picky in life. All preferences are fine by me, even the people who don't wanna date certain races or ethnicities. It's better for those races/ethnicities to stay away from someone who dislike them as a whole.
I’m 5’8 and would like someone taller than me tbh
People should not be pressured by mothers and grandmothers. Not everyone needs to have kids!
Is it just me or does she look blasian?...loll...cute as hell!
Aww! Thank you! ☺️
Blalien
@@TheRideemedStudio Hey :). Did you get to meet the guys after all? You're very beautiful btw :D
Hey Oanna!!! Aww thank you so much! ☺️ Unfortunately no since his show was cancelled a few months ago. I’m sure it would have been fun!
@@TheRideemedStudio Oh I didn't know that 😔 . I really his show ,that's too bad. Oh well,thanks for the reply 😊
im in absolutely no hurry to get married. im still single at 32
Single works!!!!
Hmm, I don't know about that one. If you are a woman, the older you get the less time you have to have a family. A man gets financial stability and provides safety for a woman and men can do that at any age when they come into that money. For women, when you get past 35, its scraping the bottom of the barrel to find a good man to take you.
The man you would want to be yours for the rest of your life, won't go for you because of one main thing, age. Also men don't tend to pick older single women since they assume you've been round the block many MANY times and thats a nono for many men. It may not sound nice to you but its how most men think.
Anyway, only you can decide how to live your life but statistics find that married people live longer, are less depressed in general, lead happier lives and raise children much better.
Most females are very much in favor of marriage. Been there, done that, would never do it again! I treasure being alone. There is no reason to get married. 'Single works for me'!! =D
@@ancaira3595 The lies... 🤣😂
@@ancaira3595 sounds like you're on something
My advice to the young lady is don’t let anyone pressure you into getting married your mom, grandma, dad, sister, aunt no one!! In my personal experience most of the ppl in my family didn’t even get married because they love the person it was either to have a title or to move out of their parents house
As a 22 year old woman I feel so pressured to find the “right guy” before I turn 30. I hear a lot of dudes talking about “hitting the wall” when it comes to women and how most women hit the wall at 30 so it gets harder for them to date. It’s so much stress and frustration
@@melaniebrown1443 same but I don't want to at this moment and my parents keep on pressuring me and making me feel bad.
''What kind of man are you looking for?''
Every girl ever: ''So, he has to be 𝓉𝒶𝓁𝓁..''
Not mee!!
Am short
I dont want someone short
But I don't want them to tall either
That's just weird to me
Am not looking to be half your size
@@ddh19454 Same. I'm 5'3" and I don't have a minimal 6 feet requirement. But if the lady is tall herself, I can understand that she don't want a short guy. Still, it was intereting that it was the first thing she mentionned...
@@jessicaj.358 am 5'1" lol
So u can see my dilemma
I would prefer if he's less than 6 ft
Personally if asked this question I would like to verbally split up my requirements/ preferences into physical attributes and personality
Because like you said, she mentioned height first.. after that it was something physical again and I was like biting my teeth hoping she would just name physical things because they would eat her alive in the comments for being "shallow"
But we all have preferences✌
Women: The insides is all that matter i want to find love.
So what are you looking for in a man?
Women: he has to be tall... continues to list all physical/financial attributes
@@deficator750 right they don't want quality they want everything else
She’s so sweet - I love it
She looks like a sweet girl but you sense from her voice that she has been taken advantage of because of it. Wish her all the best
Pesi Belau but.....every girl claims “they’ve been taken advantage of” 🙄🙄😂
Yeah, that's the effect of having overbearing women in her life
Olgales Suida then you should get better at picking instead of blaming the guys, take some accountability instead of crying ‘he took advantage of me’
Olgales Suida ummm just like there’s a lot of good for nothin girls out there only after D or money or both ?? I know woman love to play victim and act like it’s only them though I get it 😂😂
She's tired but all those bad apples and ok apples is how you find the one for you.
You know I don’t understand parents and grandparents who pressure their kids into getting married. What do they think they are going to accomplish?? My parents did not ever put pressure on me. They don’t have a problem with me being unmarried and they simply expect me to be myself and live my life, marching to the beat of my own drum.
Another Cynthia Bailey and Mike Hill LOADING 👏🏽💯😂😂😂❤❤❤💞💞💞❤❤
COS SHE SEEMS REALLY SWEET .
She stunning
I had that problem. I used to say, "Same SH*T, Different FACE!!".
A lot of females share the same qualities as this young lady here. But the problem is, they are all looking for the same type of man! Don't you think that maybe that man you're looking for already has enough women barking up his tree already? Look, I'm saying is try to look for other characteristics in a man that may attract you. She said she wanted her man to be tall, ok nothing wrong with that. But how tall are we talking about here? Good job? Well ok. What kinda job do you want your man to have? Because the love your life could be a plumber, but because he's not a doctor you're going to reject him???
Hey, plumbers make good money, specially if they're unionized. I don't know any woman who'd say no to one. "He has to have a job" basically translates as he has to be able to provide for a family and not be lazy.
@@f.-j.j.5738 yes!! I feel that as long as a man has a job, it shouldn't matter what kind of job this man has. As long as he is able to provide for his family.
Omg I feel so much pressure to find the right guy before I turn 30. I’m a 22 year old woman that’s still a virgin (I’m saving myself till marriage), and when I tell most guys that, they run. I hear a lot of men say that for women, it’s best to find the one before I turn 30 because at 30 I’ll “hit a wall” and be undesirable to many men. I do want to get married and start a family, but I don’t want to just settle for anyone. I’m not even asking for the tallest dude or the dude with the most money, I just want a guy that I genuinely connect with and that loves me. But it’s so difficult to find that guy 😩
@@melaniebrown1443 have you tried to go after a guy yourself? I mean really really tried? Have you actually gone out of your way to say hi to a guy? Or to invite a guy a drink??? Ask him out on a date??? Have you even actually tried? Sometimes you have to be the one to let the guy know that you want his attention.
@@yaircelis1175 Yes sir, in college I had a crush on this boy, told my friend, somehow I ended up getting his number and I reached out and texted him, we exchanged a few texts but he didn’t respond. During this pandemic it’s been hard to go out and meet people, but I’ve been using dating apps and been trying to put myself out there. It’s like I’ll start talking to a dude that I like, but he’ll end up ghosting me when I’m not willing to smash on the first night or first couple of days. Or the dude will say things like “I wanna take you out”, but never follows through on his word. I’m very shy and introverted but I do try to put myself out there and I’ll definitely slide in a guy’s DMs or message him first on a dating app if I’m interested, but I’ve been having no luck so far.
I can’t deal with Steve. He so real. He don’t care lol
Wowww. Such a gorgeous-looking woman!
Girl: How do I not get pressured into having a baby?
Steve: imma introduce you to some guys.
Lmao
She reminds of Serayah McNeill who plays Tiana on Empire.
Steve, she said God fearing! Not church guy! That's two separate people.. Lots of people go to church but don't know God or have a relationship with him.. So a church guy isn't going to fit the bill for her.. Steve you have to do better. I hope you do for her sake..
Good point!
I've found no difference between the two.
@@Xx-po1fu Trust, there's a difference
How do you have a relationship with God?? I don't know if praying would be enough. I mean you can't go out and do things with God and have fun together cause god ain't there just like that /... BTW im not saying I don't believe in god
XChino04... Some people go to church because it's just what the custom/tradition of the family or friends.. They show up and go home.They use it as a social club.. Etc..
A relationship on the other hand.. You have ask God's forgiveness, and believe that you are, you have faith that he has died for you, that he watches over you, you can call on him in prayer or worship and you feel his presence, you rely on him for guidance in all areas of your life, by the reading of his word which is the blueprint for a life with him, you asked him to open your spiritual eyes so you can see ways to serve him daily, the company you keep, [things] you did before you accepted him as Saviour, you will have a conviction in your spirit if you do them, when you pray it's a conversation with him, think about it as you are getting to know a friend, (how do you do that) you constantly talk and ask questions of them! Our Heavenly Father wants/love to hear from you, you cannot walk alone on this journey, you need to get to know him. The world is a mess but you will have a joy and peace within you that no matter what happens you know there is someone you loves you and cares for you.. There's so much more.. But i can only say so much, others will have many other ways to know how to be close to your creater.. Everyone's walk is different.. I pray you have something to go by in my answer.. Be Blessed..
I love his responses 😂
Bro that is cool I’ve never seen a black girl mixed with Asian
Really? There's a lof of blasians celebs. Karrueche, Cassie,Apryl Jones,...
Rosa Mystica lol who?😂😂😂😂😂
Amerie?
@@tmmedia9600 Yes, but Amerie looked totally different before the nose job
@@camronjones-kennedy219 can u not read?
Did she ever come back on the show to find a date ?
What the hell does being tall has to do with your happiness and finding the right guy. All across dating sites it’s a common thing with women, one first very thing thing they say, must be 6 ft tall. WTF! Most women aren’t even that tall across the board. But what does two different guys at different heights matter to how well he treats you, your happiness or how long the relationship can last. Just one the reason so many women can’t find a man. While many men are choosing to do their own thing these days.
That is the idiotic logic of some women; the first thing that she said was he has to be tall. While i understand her preference, it is limiting and a bit delusional.
The men she wants will probably marry women who do not list their first requirements about a man's height.
Ardent Dfender can we not have a preference?? You must be short
Doll Lillian I’m 5” 9.
Ardent Dfender ok that pretty tall and I'm only 5ft 00in. But we can still have preferences like men have preferences all the time. Most women just love tall men because there is a stereotype going on that men should be taller than women because the men looks more masculine.
People have a right to say who and what attracts them..WHY date someone shorter, when you know from jump street, it's going nowhere?
I don't smoke.. ever have...l don't date smokers...doesn't matter how fine you are. Cigarette smoke on clothes, breath or hair are turnoffs..and l'm gonna waste my time KNOWING THIS? I don't think so, but you go right ahead...
That’s beautiful! My family including parents had kids before marriage
Please don't succumb to that marriage pressure.
They think with there "head" alright!!😏
Chinese with dark skin. She is strikingly beautiful 😍
She got gorgeous eyes
Yo nothing wrong with her wanting a tall dude.... just like there is nothing wrong with guys wanting a woman with no kids and who is in shape... it's a preference
You are right but unfortunately "tall" I.e being 6ft plus is a minority group really limits the type guys available. Depending on how tall she prefers her options could be severely limited. But that's her perogative at the end of the day
@@jeffjefferson3364 oh man I totally agree! you are not wrong by any means. Im just saying when men have a preference of saying they want a woman that is healthy and in shape then women should keep that same energy and not call men shallow if that is what men want. Because height is written in stone and cannot be change.... but weight can be changed mostly depending on habits and routine. But I feel what you are saying though.
_She’s so beautiful 😭🧡_
She's not, too much makeup and fake stuff on her
Why is it that women always want tall men? We need nice good men that are kind, generous, hardworking, etc etc. Who cares if someone is tall or short?
Preach honey my husband is short 5"4 but I'm a lil bit shorter 5"1 but he is a good man and a great provider couldn't ask for anything more.
Lavenderfields nobody wants a short ass man. The same way men don’t want an ugly or fat woman. Height in a man is sexy and masculine
@@BB-qk8on tall ones could be bad too. That won't cut the mustard anyway.
B B 😂😂😂 I’m an 18 a year old 5’4 guy, and I have no problems (none whatsoever) And I’ve met plenty of tall guys that openly talk about cheating on their girlfriends, and some of them are complete bums. Not all of them of course, but height doesn’t make anyone good or bad. But I’ll tell you, I’ve met a lot of Tall punks to say the least. It’s all about confidence and values. I care about people and I will always remain faithful to my future partner 💯 and when one woman won’t give you the time of day, there’s 3 more that will
Same reason why men only want light skinned women with long straight real hair
Find me one too Stevee!! 😂
Find a man who will love you more than anything, who will always put you FIRST. Thats all, nothing else, and everything will work out :-)
And how Do you love that person when you found him. I know a guy Who is willing to Do everything for me and etc. But I feel like it's out of desparation to get married instead. It's really how it feels to me. Je even Say that all I love he loves it too, i find it supicious but i've let it slide. Anyway, i don't know what to Do. I just don't like him that way even when I tried. Is There something wrong with me?
i dont see the benefits of getting married anymore, all these divorce court bs, getting screwed over etc.
There's hardly any benefits to it it's just a myth that most older people believe in.
Dividing up 401k’s, properties, alimony, ect. just cause a couples been sleeping with each other for a few years....
You forgot women have changed as well.
No benifit in marriage at all....men are going there own way and women have today’s social climate to thank...women are ok with being single mothers, sleeping around with multiple men, and sliding in DMs.....no thank for me....lol that’s why I prefer casual dating and no strings attach....this woman in the video is upset because all these men that she dates are doing the same thing I’m doing with other women...hell no im not getting in any relationship...and women are mad as hell....women talk about “well he should not get the benefit of a wife if he is not going to marry me or be in a relationship with me”....LIKE WHO CARES...men don’t care about benefits...all we want is sex....and if u date multiple women somebody like the girl on the video will cook for u, because she is very attracted that particular man....if a women is ATTRACTED to u and ADMIRERS u as a man....SHE WILL DO ANYTHING for u trust me...No need to wife that up
Love her! I'm the same, except younger and I don't have the family pressure but I want these things for myself... Very few and far between men are like that 😞
Steve: men think with their head
Me: which head?
She’s beautiful
Ain't no man fina do that 😂😂😂😂😂
She's beautiful.
lol the lady behind her is dying of laughter
She is so pretty. I hope she finds the man she wants.
I was hung up on the tall thing now my bf is like two inches shorter than me and we’re happy 🤷🏾♀️
Tired of searching?
Hey that's great and dont let any man or woman tell you otherwise. Most men and women dont think you because they are pressure by society on what they should date. But you actually found happiness and hope you enjoy!
@@calebhenderson6507 that’s so sweet ☺️
Shes beautiful. I'd give her the title in a heartbeat, she looks like an exotic model.
Wait till she takes away all that make up😅
@@ninagezellie4206
I'm an artist, I can tell she pretty without it
@@criticalweiner8256 good for you!!!
@@ninagezellie4206 I know it is good for me😎👍
Tall and god fearing?
Maybe you should hangout with basketball or volleyball players who are church goers to find your ideal man.
The thinking with his heart man can be found in novels I reckon.
There is no single day that passes without being asked when am l get married, when am l having kids...Its easy to judge someone when you not on their shoes. Who would like to grew-up alone with No partner nor kids...
This girl has so Chinese Eyes...That even Chinese People go , ``God Damn !`` :D
No racism !
Uncle Steve, help me too! 🙋🏾♀️☺️
when steves closing one eye like that, and how his beard changes his face completely, he reminds me of martin lawrence, who also does like a one eyed wink/squint. anyone else see that?
Steve would say let me find you a nice guy and that guy turns out to be of the same colour... please, mix it up... spice is the flavour of life
Why not mix spice with more spice 🤷🏾♀️
Even Vanilla is black 👀
She is gorgeous 😍
She look like God was whistling while making her
DAMN 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤
02:16 - Poor girl, Steve just crushed her soul with some harsh reality !
Looks like the girl's being watching too many "rom-coms" - real life isn't a movie little girl 😂
@Sherissa Blount : you absolutely GORGEOUS! Any man who don't want to commit to you, is not worthy of you. Those men don't think with their heart OR with their mind. They think with some other part, south of their tummy. That's not what you need!
But you must not hang yourself up on superficial stuff, either. Tall man? Man who thinks with his heart, mostly? You ain't gon' find that, girl! Find a man who will put himself on the line for you, and marry that sucker!
And tell your mama and grandmama that you be fine! They won't believe you, and they right - because you WILL make plenty mistakes -, but they will have to learn to live with that. They will always worry, and they will always project their own wishes onto you, but that because they love you. Accept that!
Pshhhhh!! I need to find my way onto this show man! Uncle Steve!!!! we need to talk sir!!
God fearing and very love his family or parents are very important. This girl has a high standard in a guy, not in materials but she looking for a nice guy
To be honest Steve the reason I've been hurt so much is because I think with my heart
She pretty & beautiful & classy & sexy and she smart.
Looks like she got a husband from the comments😂
🤣
I like her voice
We in the same boat sis!!!!
Hard boiled and cracking 😂🤣 what a horrid thing fo say to your daughter/grandaughter. I was very distracted by her hairline....
She wants Pookie and Ray Ray to be her fixer upper
I ain't never seen a black Asian before
Are you planning to see one? So start searching because you still haven't seen one yet I notice. 🙄
Steve I have to disagree with you, all the ideas that she have for a perfect man for her do exist. The ideas that Steve tells his audience and written in his book of what men are and are not are not always true. The nature of men that Steve describe are maybe American men. There are many men's characteristic outside America that contradicts Steve's idea of what men really are in real life.
I want the follow up on this... I want ti see the type of guy she picks lol she's beautiful and smart. I wish I was living in LA though.
hahahaahha no no no
I love you broo
👋From Bosnia
she adorable!
asking for marriage advise from a man who divorced before....let that make sense
I agree with a man being tall... I am 5.9’ tall and taller when wearing 👠 👠 .... My man is 6’4... Most women will tell you that most short men have a tall ego, something to proof attitude and SMS = Short Man Syndrome.
Ridiculous laundry list of demands but what does she bring to the table? Smh
Oh yeah good question you asked
Like most women
Facts...the answer is she brings nothing to the table...this women is pursuing the top value man (nothing wrong with that) ...but then these women get upset when these top tier men refuse to settle....why would we...we have to many options of women....These women are all hypergamous....they’ll leave you for the bigger better deal so fast!!!! I’m all for casual dating or situationships... but never a relationship
@@cyes1156 how do you know she brings nothing to the table or has nothing to offer???
Men don’t want commitments @Phenomenon anymore so we have devalued the modern women to objects of companionship that’s it...we men can cook ourselves or have one of our many options of women cook for us....remember a women will do anything for a man that she desires, admires, and deems high value
Striking beauty. Her Eyes ARE the Eyes of the Ancestral Queens long ago!. There are statutes errected All-Over-Afrika in honor or those Eyes...and all over Europe and American museums
He is arranging a guy for her.... But some ppl will call arrange marriage a forced marriage... Guys learn the difference 😌
OMG Steve has no clue on marige, but the tv show is about him giving marige advice.Two divorses, and he is giving advice.Nooo
0:11 That octo-dome
Her make up is stunning
😂 I swear, Steve has a house full of men waiting on him to call them for the show!
Aint no man finna do that 😂 see my tattoo. Lolol wait ohh
Men think with their little heads.
🤣🤣Omg steve is impossible
I got on a date with a beautiful guy in his heart but he didn't like me. Sometimes you are not ready. I am really sad to not be ready for quality man, there were even 2
Stop running from marriage sweetie. IVF is waaaaaaaay to expensive to be playing all these games.