They know the boyfriend, the FBI report states he came back without her after they had left. He probably materminded the theft and then got rid of her.
unfortunately, when you hear something like she left with her boyfriend and was never heard from again you can't help but to assume he most likely killed her
Yeah, this is tough.🥺 I'm glad her Dad didn't give up completely on her. His heart probably couldn't deal with it and is trying to find her. I'm praying he gets some answers.🙏🏼🌈🙏🏼🌈
*37 years and yes I thought she might be dead too but I don't want to assume like that. Calling someone dead when they might be alive. It's better to assume a person is alive than dead
and if she is around, id say pretty selfish for her to inflict so much suffering and pain on her family and not letting them even know if she is okay.they been worried sick for so long, why dont just give them little relief. i just dont think she is alive anymore.
Sounds to me like she stole money from her employer, then fled and laid low. Probably so much time passed, she started a new life, and just left the old behind I do hope shes still alive, and will let her family know she is ok
If she is alive & just hasn’t reached out that would be the worst torture she could possibly inflict upon her parents. Just a cruelty that is beyond belief. Praying for her & her family.🙏🏽
They know the boyfriend, his parents probably dead by now. Story does not say when was she actually reported missing. the FBI report states he came back without her after they had left. He probably materminded the theft and then got rid of her.
@@eternallove830yea, a few years is one thing. But 37 years is CRAZY! Idc if the police says it isn’t a missing person, idc if you think it’s a money situation, idc if it was her choice to leave with her bf. I’m filing a report and looking for her.
Wow...thirty years later is a crazy amount of time to feel worried, & suddenly do some investigation out of the blue. Had I been in the Father's shoes, & it was my Daughter I would go crazy with a day or two without some sort of contact.
The FBI told us the same thing the police told this poor dad. Our daughter left our home and moved out into her own apartment. She later moved in with a friend. They left our state. We don’t know if she is okay. We were told because she is a grown adult she is not missing. She left own her on accord. We were told there is nothing they can do for us.🥺
Aw I'm thinking she didn't make it long since she was good about keeping in touch at first. As a parent I know he just doesn't want to lose hope though.
This sounds just like a thriller novel I’m reading, Pretty Girls. A dad is looking for his daughter who left in the 1990s and was never seen again. But this is pretty sad.
They need too do DNA test. See if someone has her DNA I didn't mean to test everyone on earth's DNA, I meant to test her DNA if they have Her DNA maybe they could find her if they have a piece of her hair or something. I'm not an expert on That Stuff but I thought it was common knowledge that they do that to find People in the system who have the same DNA.
@@pdvision2194 even if, only if she's still alive, her DNA could still be on someone. This person must be a kid who's just saying random stuff thinking it makes sense.😂
She would have contacted her family by now, even if she committed a worse crime than theft and was afraid and ashamed at the time. Hoping for some kind of positive outcome.
Something like this happened in my family. A cousin of my mom's had no contact with the family for something like 30 years. Some of the relatives believed she was dead, while others believed she was just living life. By the time anyone looked into it, she had already passed away a few years before. By all accounts she just lived her life away from us.
I have so many questions. When was the last letter she sent? Why not have police contact her boyfriend? She clearly stated in the letter she will return home. No reason for her to suddenly stop writing letters unless foul play is involved.
Worst case scenario: she got killed or passed away and no body informed her family Best case: She is living with the shame and can't bring herself to come back. Or fears legal actions. I had a family member who left the country to start a new life with her two kids. She came on hard time and didn't return home due to the shame of leaving the family and "failing" at her dream. Fortunately she still keeps in contact with the family via social media and occasionally we go visit her overseas. In this case, it may be worst case scenario. 37 years and no contact, I doubt she has been alive for most of those years. If she is alive she should know the statue of limitations has passed and she can't be charged anymore.😔
She's either dead from doing drugs and hanging around the wrong people. Or she just doesn't want to be found. She sounds like trouble. Sounds like a screwed up family and that Father is highly suspect.
Find out who her boyfriend is and get the letters analyzed to see if the letters were truly written by her. Look at seeing if they could find out where the boyfriend frequented and his employment history around that time.
Well she’s known where her family was so she would have been able to contact them….and it doesn’t seem like she left because of a problem with her family…she seemed to have a good relationship with them based on the letter…she felt like she could tell them the truth….so I would guess that she’s probably not alive anymore or she would have sent them letters or called just to say she’s ok.
So sad, i guarantee he did something to her. Did they ever get the letters checked, to see is that her handwriting? Why not hire someone to find her? I'm confused. My oldest son is 28, if i don't hear from him for 48 hours, I'm calling the national guard..... I don't play about my children
This is the type of story that needs to go viral so the entire world can see it and maybe the daughter would see it. Prayers to find answers at the very least.
She "stole" the money then absonded and not "took" the money. Stop trying to garnish her evil act by using the word "take the money". She stole, she is a thief.
It's 37 years late but you need to file a police report. The boyfriend or someone could've killed her after he made her write a couple letters. The cop friend who said she's not actually missing is an idiot.
It’s going to be quite frankly impossible. It’s been too many years and the family didn’t report a single thing. It’s hard to start 37 years before on a investigation with no evidence or clues.
Man this is so sad to see 🥺 She can come back, before it’s too late to see her father again before he passes. Even if there was a charge for her stealing that small amt of money, the statute of limitations has far expired by now. She wouldn’t be charged for anything now. Hopefully she turns up!
That's simply not true and I think you're just saying it to be hurtful and cruel. The fact that you would say that comment is more about you than anything
Dad (and mom if she's alive) should take the top 3 DNA tests. The daughter could've had children and possibly grandchildren. What kind of "law enforcement" doesn't know this already? DUH.
I bet her deadbeat boyfriend pressured her to steal the money so they could run away. If she hasn't reached out to her family in all these years, it's because she's dead. Her dad needs to come to grips with it.
Find the identity of the boyfriend and contact anybody who may know him
They most probably split up a few months after the runaway. And the woman was killed by prostitution, drugs or other men.
Cheers Sherlock
Running away with someone is technically a missing person or a person in danger.
@@alexcholagh8330 Nope. It isn't.
They also tell you this info here.
They know the boyfriend, the FBI report states he came back without her after they had left. He probably materminded the theft and then got rid of her.
unfortunately, when you hear something like she left with her boyfriend and was never heard from again you can't help but to assume he most likely killed her
That’s what Ai was thinking. 😞
My assumption too. However, it was odd that “she” gave the money back. If that was really her, but I had a feeling it wasn’t.
Yeah, this is tough.🥺 I'm glad her Dad didn't give up completely on her. His heart probably couldn't deal with it and is trying to find her. I'm praying he gets some answers.🙏🏼🌈🙏🏼🌈
My heart hurts for this father! No parent deserves this pain and betrayal!
Absolutely true
Possible chance she could be dead since it’s been 30 years with no response back, but that is just what I think.
Agreed.
*37 years and yes I thought she might be dead too but I don't want to assume like that. Calling someone dead when they might be alive. It's better to assume a person is alive than dead
@@alexshazam5482 Keyword is "Might".
Yeah, I feel like she’s dead and has been for a long time, which’s very sad.
We got us a Sherlock here
The odds of her still being around is low but still not impossible.
and if she is around, id say pretty selfish for her to inflict so much suffering and pain on her family and not letting them even know if she is okay.they been worried sick for so long, why dont just give them little relief. i just dont think she is alive anymore.
@@deealex1402yeah I think she got clapped and the evidence is probably long gone to how 😢
Sounds to me like she stole money from her employer, then fled and laid low. Probably so much time passed, she started a new life, and just left the old behind
I do hope shes still alive, and will let her family know she is ok
Nope. She dead.
@@thehungrygoldfishthat's your theory is that confirmed yet
@@froogality Yes, it had been confirmed by the spirit of her ghost, and Beyonce.
Life ain’t a movie lil bro
@@thehungrygoldfish ohhhh ok bet
If she is alive & just hasn’t reached out that would be the worst torture she could possibly inflict upon her parents. Just a cruelty that is beyond belief. Praying for her & her family.🙏🏽
I hope whatever happens this father gets some closure.
Sorry, Dad, she is most probably dead. Too many killers of women in the streets.
You forgot to ask the boyfriend’s parents.
They know the boyfriend, his parents probably dead by now. Story does not say when was she actually reported missing. the FBI report states he came back without her after they had left. He probably materminded the theft and then got rid of her.
Very sad that this petty crime kept her away from her family.
A lot of people wish they could find a way to avoid family forever.
@@mikemondano3624 The only ones who care about you after 30 years+
Whatever the case, I can't imagine how hard this must be for Cassandras's family.. The not knowing. Sorry for the pain they're going through.
Her boyfriend possibly killed her. So, she's dead
she could be alive but it’s a slim chance
That was my first thought, too. Certainly wouldn't be the first or last time that would have happened to a young woman.
Sadly, I think you’re right. It doesn’t make any sense. I’m sure she would reached out to her family.😢
The dad is holding onto hope but at the very least, i’m pretty sure he wants to find out what happened
He might have pressured and tried to isolate her from family in any form or fashion. If not, he should speak up about it unless he is dead to
this is so sad
This story is super vague and has ALL types of holes in it... 🤔
Wait... so she's been gone 37 years!! And no one's ever filed a report or bothered looking for her? Somethings not right!
Bingo!
You don’t listen or pay attention very well watch it again, all your questions have answers in what was said.
@@edunlap6594*Bingo wasted*
@@eternallove830yea, a few years is one thing. But 37 years is CRAZY! Idc if the police says it isn’t a missing person, idc if you think it’s a money situation, idc if it was her choice to leave with her bf. I’m filing a report and looking for her.
@@alexshazam5482😂
did the boyfriend do something to her
I think so since it’s been almost 4 decades. You wouldn’t think she’s kidnapped?
Wow...thirty years later is a crazy amount of time to feel worried, & suddenly do some investigation out of the blue. Had I been in the Father's shoes, & it was my Daughter I would go crazy with a day or two without some sort of contact.
Yes! I would have done whatever I could to see if she was okay!
It's about closure at this point.
He did do his part, he done searching himself but police failed him. Those times police fob you off so you have to keep going back to file a case.
@@aron2015 Also mostly because of the internet the search will be more wide? Like more possibilities and stuff
@@Misk-mj3luwell, to be fair, he does seem pretty old. I don't think he even knew you could use the Internet to help find a missing person
Hope for the best!!!
The FBI told us the same thing the police told this poor dad. Our daughter left our home and moved out into her own apartment. She later moved in with a friend. They left our state. We don’t know if she is okay. We were told because she is a grown adult she is not missing. She left own her on accord. We were told there is nothing they can do for us.🥺
Hire private investigators.
Aw I'm thinking she didn't make it long since she was good about keeping in touch at first. As a parent I know he just doesn't want to lose hope though.
She’s probably dead
I hope she sees this.
Yes. She might still be able to get away before the meddlers find her.
on the other side?
This sounds just like a thriller novel I’m reading, Pretty Girls. A dad is looking for his daughter who left in the 1990s and was never seen again. But this is pretty sad.
I read that book, turns out that man’s daughter was killed by a serial killer
@@bid84 You spoiled it for me, I’m not even on page 40…
@@JustaSamoyed I made it up 😅
well that happens all the time.
They need too do DNA test. See if someone has her DNA
I didn't mean to test everyone on earth's DNA, I meant to test her DNA if they have Her DNA maybe they could find her if they have a piece of her hair or something. I'm not an expert on That Stuff but I thought it was common knowledge that they do that to find People in the system who have the same DNA.
Yes, some Jane Doe body.
What? A joke, right?
Do we DNA test everyone on earth until we get match? That is the biggest needle in a haystack by far.
wtf? Do you even know what you're talking about??😅
@@pdvision2194 even if, only if she's still alive, her DNA could still be on someone. This person must be a kid who's just saying random stuff thinking it makes sense.😂
1987? That was a the decade of serial killers. She is probably dead.
doubt it was a serial killer. more likely her bf.
Must be illegal to be this early to an inside edition video
🙁
I watch Paw Patrol with my belt unbuckled
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@@imtyler99yearsago90Come again🧐
@@imtyler99yearsago90 wtf
The boyfriends name is Eric Buikema. He has been questioned. Google his name for more information.
the FBI report states he came back without her after they had left. He probably materminded the theft and then got rid of her.
@@simon-nak8403I would habe just hired a PI.. especially while she was still communicating.. it's all sad.
She would have contacted her family by now, even if she committed a worse crime than theft and was afraid and ashamed at the time.
Hoping for some kind of positive outcome.
Something like this happened in my family. A cousin of my mom's had no contact with the family for something like 30 years. Some of the relatives believed she was dead, while others believed she was just living life. By the time anyone looked into it, she had already passed away a few years before. By all accounts she just lived her life away from us.
I have so many questions. When was the last letter she sent? Why not have police contact her boyfriend? She clearly stated in the letter she will return home. No reason for her to suddenly stop writing letters unless foul play is involved.
Too bad they didn't show an age progression photo. I hope they find her.
Crazy story.
That would really hurt....
Unfortunately, statistics make it likely that the boyfriend killed her but who knows.
I hope she's found safe.
Contact the police so they can arrest her? Eh, no
Worst case scenario: she got killed or passed away and no body informed her family
Best case: She is living with the shame and can't bring herself to come back. Or fears legal actions.
I had a family member who left the country to start a new life with her two kids. She came on hard time and didn't return home due to the shame of leaving the family and "failing" at her dream. Fortunately she still keeps in contact with the family via social media and occasionally we go visit her overseas.
In this case, it may be worst case scenario. 37 years and no contact, I doubt she has been alive for most of those years. If she is alive she should know the statue of limitations has passed and she can't be charged anymore.😔
She's either dead from doing drugs and hanging around the wrong people. Or she just doesn't want to be found. She sounds like trouble. Sounds like a screwed up family and that Father is highly suspect.
Prayers the family get some kinda closure. God bless all who have to endure that pain in this life.
That's a very long time to finally check in to see if your daughter is alive.
Please do a follow up story if she contacts her father.
I highly doubt she'd go that long without contacting family.
Go after her boyfriend
They don't know who he is
Find out who her boyfriend is and get the letters analyzed to see if the letters were truly written by her. Look at seeing if they could find out where the boyfriend frequented and his employment history around that time.
Well she’s known where her family was so she would have been able to contact them….and it doesn’t seem like she left because of a problem with her family…she seemed to have a good relationship with them based on the letter…she felt like she could tell them the truth….so I would guess that she’s probably not alive anymore or she would have sent them letters or called just to say she’s ok.
How strange. I would have reported her missing!
So sad, i guarantee he did something to her. Did they ever get the letters checked, to see is that her handwriting? Why not hire someone to find her? I'm confused. My oldest son is 28, if i don't hear from him for 48 hours, I'm calling the national guard..... I don't play about my children
This is the type of story that needs to go viral so the entire world can see it and maybe the daughter would see it. Prayers to find answers at the very least.
This is kinda like the dad when he tries to comes back after getting the milk for a long time.
GO GET HER SHE’S WAITING FOR YOU ALL TO SHOW HER THAT SHE IS LOVED 😢😢😢😢FIND HER STOP BEING SELFISH 😢YALL SHOULD BE ASHAMED ASHAMED ASHAMED 😢😢😢😢😢
Hope u find her❤
She "stole" the money then absonded and not "took" the money. Stop trying to garnish her evil act by using the word "take the money". She stole, she is a thief.
I do wonder if the boyfriend was influencing her.
i think her bf pressured her heavily to steal it.
Hope shes ok.
Had to be foul play. It is unlikely she just stayed away
Praying for this situation ❤❤❤
Edit: every ending of these videos: “ I’m mara mantelvano”
He took his time to start looking for her, isn't it?
They should do a genealogical DNA search online.
This doesn’t make any sense: where’s the boyfriend?
There is no way she’s been held captive all this time. She’s either dead or she wants nothing to do with her family and changed her identity.
She was on that stuff, boyfriend did it
NEVER GIVE UP HOPE PLEASE 🙏
when i just think about this the pain is unimaginable. i dont have kids but im so sorry. cant imagine my child disappearing..
37 years ago. The same age as me! 😢
I hope she contacts her father so that he can get some closure. What a terrible burden for him to carry for so many years.
Give it up dude, you ain't gonna find her....
i hope you can find her
It's 37 years late but you need to file a police report. The boyfriend or someone could've killed her after he made her write a couple letters. The cop friend who said she's not actually missing is an idiot.
It’s going to be quite frankly impossible. It’s been too many years and the family didn’t report a single thing. It’s hard to start 37 years before on a investigation with no evidence or clues.
Cassandra lives in Lexington, KY.
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@@mausi28 It said it on US Phone Book. It didn't show her current address, but it said that she is 56 years old and now lives in Lexington, KY.
i live n Lansing Michigan but I hope she is ok
How sad.😢
💔💔💔
If she said she was going for cigarettes, she doesn't want to come back. Maybe she is just doing a sleepover at a friend's.
Is he just realizing now that she's gone? She probably goes by John now
Man this is so sad to see 🥺 She can come back, before it’s too late to see her father again before he passes. Even if there was a charge for her stealing that small amt of money, the statute of limitations has far expired by now. She wouldn’t be charged for anything now. Hopefully she turns up!
dead or drugs... im so sorry to the family
She wouldn’t left if she had good parents!
You don't know that for sure.
That's a very idiotic take
That's simply not true and I think you're just saying it to be hurtful and cruel. The fact that you would say that comment is more about you than anything
Yet she contacted them again after leaving? Yeah your sped. Maybe if your parents didn’t drop you so many times you would think normally
God's grace is always sufficient 🙏
As much as I hate to say this, she could be dead.
i hope she isnt
she is dead.
She's gone
Does the family know or anyone from her school her boyfriends first and last name? where is the boyfriend?
So u waited 35 YEARS To look for her??)
Maybe the fact she took the money and maybe was able to pay some back. But stayed away because she doesn't want to go to prison.
Dad (and mom if she's alive) should take the top 3 DNA tests. The daughter could've had children and possibly grandchildren. What kind of "law enforcement" doesn't know this already? DUH.
Sorry 😞 about this or for being negative about it But my condolences to her family.
Everybody back then who knew her knew she was hanging around with shady people, im not surprised she is gone.
Damn, I was born in 87' 😢.
It's been 37 years, she is probably dead
Sounds like the plot of Psycho
She’s probably dead. Sorry man.
Statue of limitation‘s been ran out she could’ve been back home makes noooo sense I Hope She Finally Goes Home 💔😢
Sad.shes deceased... probably
If anyone knows her whereabouts. Dad still wants to deliver the whoopin😅
I live in Sweden
This is a gabby petito case and why wait 30yrs
I bet her deadbeat boyfriend pressured her to steal the money so they could run away. If she hasn't reached out to her family in all these years, it's because she's dead. Her dad needs to come to grips with it.
Deadbeat??? He BOUGHT A CAR when hers broke down. Why comment if you DON'T LISTEN???
@@user-gj1me4mf5c Yeah, with the boss's money.
I'm sad for you.
Her boyfriend is responsible.
Who the boyfriend?
Maybe the boyfriend persuaded her to steal the money.
A criminal on the run.