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I also dropped out of school in 2020 because of my deteriorating mental health and financial issues. I always have panic attacks whenever I have online classes, the class hasn’t even started yet but I’m already crying and cannot breathe. I felt so isolated because everyone kept telling me that I won't have a future if I don't finish my studies. I'm just waiting for the pandemic to be over so I'll go to school again. Thanks so much for this video! It helped me a lot and made me realize that I'm not the only one struggling with this. Stay strong and keep safe always. Edit: Wow, I didn’t even expect so many likes for this. I’d love to hear your stories everyone, it’s nice knowing that I have someone to relate with. Thank you, it made me feel at ease. Take your time to chase your dreams. 🍀
taht must of been horrible i hope its going well although high school does bring many opportunities and benefits a well thought out plan will get you through life no matter what my mother didnt even go to high school she had to stop when she was around 10-12 and currently she is leading a happy life with multiple houses and a business as so as long as you have a plan and stay calm life will work out hope it goes well!
Take things at your pace, and don’t even care about what people say cause studies can wait but your mental health can’t, I have been home since 2020 without going to University and often hear that it’s time I take seriously but mental wellness comes first!! stay strong
I feel u girl my relatives and parents keep on saying that i won't have a future if i'll drop out . I took a break from school for one year bc of my mental health and now i'm pretty much better so i'll be attending school next year. Hope everything goes well with u too :)
dropping out of school is okay, because i’m sure you put a lot of thoughts into it. the world is so big and school is not the only important thing in the world. people who don’t hesitate when pursuing their dreams are really admirable. wishing arin all the best and good luck!
@@flora7447 they're really not. they're the exact same. you're dropping out of the formal education system to take education into your own hands. i dropped out of high school last year to pursue business, and im doing really great for myself rn. and i set aside 2 hours to read quality books about relationships and business every single day. education doesn't need to be formal.
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@@deltont they're pretty different. I mean, there is a reason why education is formal in the first place. if everyone just learned little stuff by themselves, then how would a company (for example) know the level of their employee-to be. they need to have a formal qualification to compare people. with that being said, education doesn't need to be formal, and you can still do well without high school, but most people can balance high school and their own education outside of school.
as a university student in East Asia I normally would advise others not to drop out of high-school because a lot of times my juniors tell me that they are just too bored for school however with people like you I think you made the brave and right choice. As you said, you're not dropping out to stop studying completely but to instead study what you actually want, and Id say go for it esp while you're still young. One thing I learned late was that I took a long time tolerating the act of studying something I didn't enjoy for years before I shifted and ended up with something that I actually like, but it wasn't until I had to go through burnouts and all before I actually changed my path. Which is why it's good that you have a clear vision of what you want to achieve and that you're excited to implement it, I think that's also why your friends and family are supportive of you because they also know you've been thinking long and hard for this, it's a life changing decision after all but I can definitely say you're on the right path for this, best of luck and I hope you'll soon achieve what you're look for :)
wait people do take drop years to stop studying? or like when they are bored of studies... its new to me dude i always heard and know to the point, peeps take drop year to study more- woah i was new to it
@@slxcidvaille lol it’s the opposite for me. I always heard of dropping out for people who didn’t want to study anymore etc. so seeing someone who wants to drop out to study more etc is new to men
자퇴가 지금은 괜찮을 지라도 나중에는 후회에 순간으로 찾아올 수 도 있어요. 그 나이 시절에만 가능한 경험이기 때문이에요. 하지만 그 후회의 순간이 생각 안나도록 아린이가 계획한거를 열심히 실행해서 나중에는 행복한 순간만 가득했으면 좋겠어요. 너무 꼰대 같았나요 ㅎㅎㅎ 항상 응원하고 자기가 원하던 삶을 살길 응원할게요!
다들 추억이 없는게 후회 될 수 있다하는데 그것보다 자칫하다가 인생 꼬일 수 있는게 더 무서워요 자유가 생각보다 무서운거더라구요 소속감이 없는게 양날의 검이 됩니다. 혹시 자퇴 고민하시는 분이 있다면 이 답글 보고 도움이 됐으면 좋겠는 마음에 쓰는 건데 저도 자퇴하고 정말 자유의 덫에서 허덕여왔습니다. 결론적으로 지금은 진짜 2년동안 질리게 허송세월하고 나태하게 살아와서 노는거에 질려서 더이상 비생산적인 삶을 살고 싶지 않아서 정신 차리고 있습니다. 자유는 진짜 무서운거에요 이렇게 말해줘도 자퇴 할 사람은 하더라구요 어떻게 보면 자퇴하고 후회 하는것도 배움의 일종이니까 도움이 돼요 근데 후회 하고 삶의 끈을 놓지 않았으면 좋겠어요
@@iilillililii 진짜 이게 맞음 .. 나를 잡아주는 선생님들이 있다는게 좋았던거임 작년에 수능 치고 대학에 잘 들어왔는데도 공부해라 말해주시고 야자때도 날 설득시켜서 공부시키는 선생님들의 중요성을 시험기간마다 느낌 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ … 자퇴하고 검정고시치고 혼자 열심히 하는 애들보면 진짜 존경스러움 10대때 학교다니는데는 다 이유가 있는듯 …
There is nothing wrong with dropping out of school. I wish more people could understand this. If you have a passion in life and you want to take it somewhere go for it. It might not always be the right move but do what you love and have no regrets. People usually like to judge others by how their life experiences were but I feel that nothing should be isolated to make a person seem less human from another. Hope everything goes well for you!
Ahh i just read this and i feel so glad that is still a lot of people who understand this kind of statement🥹, because i choose not to go to college because i know what my passion is and what the best for my future. And i always look up for it. Wish me luck and success in. Thanks for this you make my feel more confident and there is nothing wrong with dropping out of school or college. Love you for this! Have a wonderful day
I’m not trying to be rude or anything but I just wanted to put out there that although there is not necessarily any wrong with dropping out of school, dropping out can affect future job offers, chances for college and university, and etc. Now if they still manage to succeed in life then congrats, but this does not happen for most people and they regret it. In the end this is the persons choice so I won’t bother them about it but I just want to say it’s a risky move and you need to make sure it’s the right thing to do instead of doing it in the spur of the moment.
i can imagine how scary it must've been to make such a sudden announcement like this, the amount of support you got was so amazing even from those you didn't expect. i wish you the best in whatever you wish to do in life and that you won't regret it. i'm happy that everyone was able to support you through your choice though some people think that most people drop out because they aren't motivated but mostly because they want to fulfil something in their life and move on.
At first I could not wrap my mind around the idea of just dropping out of school when you have all the opportunities to continue going to school. From your vlogs, I can tell you came from a good family, and having the ability to pay for school or just have the financial stability is not a luxury a lot of people can afford, including me. That you even do studying at Starbucks, I have to admit made me envious because I remember my college days surrounded by rich classmates. So at first, I was shocked. I'm from a poor family so I had to study hard for full-ride scholarships ever since grade school. When I was young, what was ingrained to me was that my education will determine my future, my way out of poverty. However, after I graduated from a prestigious university, I started working a 9-5 job that pays really well but I feel empty. I had a dream when I was younger but it was not possible, or at least, very difficult given my family's financial standing. At that time, I just could not afford to delay my time. I'm very happy for you, that you have the courage and a supportive family and friends. I wish you success in your journey! Lastly, I hope you are thankful for what you have. Not everyone has this luxury. Thank you for sharing!
@ASMR Girlz agree it does sound a bit backhanded. if i was her i’d feel bad after reading this. i’m sure it’s not OP’s intention but it sounds like they are saying Arin is taking things for granted. kinda like how parents would sometimes dump emotional baggage and make you feel guilty for letting them raise you up. maybe different people different interpretation.
I totally agree with you. And to everyone that says it sounds backhanded growing up poor limits your options.I remember being bullied in high school but I had an attitude that "I will show these dudes one day with my hard work and persistence that I can survive".And to everyone here being bullied or whoever is struggling "KARMA IS REAL".You will be paid and rewarded for your efforts. I don't belive in God but there is a higher power up there for sure and those who put in the effort and do not give up are always rewarded.
I am a college graduate of a reputable university in USA, well - based on my experience - if you already found what you want to do at such a young age then by all means go ahead and pursue it. In the end , I went back and continued the family business - which didnt need a college degree at all. Most of the things you learn for the job is on the job- not exactly in college.
Translation of why she's dropping out: "There was a scene in the video where we talked about it, but to be more specific, the direction I am pursuing and the direction and system pushed by the school do not match well, so I chose to drop out in order to focus on the career I want to pursue and the work I want to do. ! I didn't stop studying because I dropped out, but I am preparing for the GED and studying what I wanted to do!" Best of luck Arin!!
I was a college dropout because of a very personal reason. It was not an easy decision and I think I chose it without thinking clearly. Though I have regrets, the years I stopped became a way for me to know myself and reassess myself again carefully. I am now back to school. So much have changed since then, but there is no end or age cut for learning. I learned so much and became better person with all those experiences. We are never late as long as we continue and move forward. Thanks for this video~
이 언니 영상들은 차분하고 나긋나긋한 분위기 그리고 엄청난 용안과 여리여리하고 고급스러운 분위기 때문에 자주 찾아오게 된다.. 첫사랑의 의인화같은.. 코미양 닮았다는 댓이 많아서 찾아봤는데 정말이네요 그리고 이 때도 예쁘시지만 지금이 훨씬 화장도 어울리게 잘 하시고 훨씬 예뻐지신 듯..하고 싶은 거 다 해요 운니
our at school starts at 6am, and ends at 7pm🤧i'm glad you dropout to do things that you really want. life is too short to care about what other people think, so enjoy it as much as you can! i really hope you'll achieve what you're looking for ♥
I wish you all the luck on your journey after this! The world is open to you and I feel like school makes up such a big part of our world at the time we are students, so your decision was very brave. I hope you find what you're looking for and achieve all that you want to achieve! Good luck!
i think it’s so adorable how every girl has the automatic urge to wave peace signs in front of the camera lol, love seeing the subtle habits of different cultures edit: and I LOVE how supportive everyone is 🥺🥺 it’s so heartwarming
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Watching this video reminded me of my highschool days, I was really unhappy then and things were so hard but I still graduated in 2020. Seeing this video made me wonder "why did I spend my highschool days so unhappy". At the end of day, if you find something that makes you happy, you should go for it! That's very brave of you and I wish you so much luck on your new path
I don't know why you're leaving school suddenly but I want you to know it's okay. You're not failing, you're just giving yourself a break and enough time to rest,think and feel until you heal. It's okay to leave school, you're just choosing to take a different path from the others and that's brave,so I respect you ! Take advantage of your free time to learn and improve yourself , you can always learn and educate yourself at home ♡ I support your decision and sincerely wish you a future full of joy , happiness and success :)
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She literally says it here 3:53 . There's surely more reasons behind that but she has every right to not announce her personal reasons be it financial, mental or anything. For now, let's just focus on that and support her
It was getting sad and she started crying on the start of the surprise,sat down,and then all of a sudden camera pans to one of her friend by saying she's crying too and that reaction,gave a smile on my face. Friends are the best.
you're so lucky to have such amazing friends honestly. when i dropped out of school no one even said goodbye, it really hurt but anyways. i'm happy for you, hope everything goes well!!
we live in a society where we are pressured to finish school and study from there on. people tend to forget that it's not always so easy to wake up everyday like that. its very brave of you to prove people wrong by dropping out and taking a break. people look up to you because you're choosing to follow your dreams💫 I hope you understand that there are people supporting you and, I wish you good luck Arin!💗💗💗
@@nisthagog7494 to pursue other careers that she is interested in. she said that the schooling she is receiving doesn’t align with the career she wants to pursue. lucky for her, she seems like an older high school student. so it’s okay for her to take time off now.
I'm a college graduate. I hated school but I miss those days. It seems life gets more dull as you progress. So appreciate every season of your life. Not every problem disappear just by leaving things behind.
저도 고등학교 생활을 한 학기도 다 마치기 전에 자퇴를 결정했는데 학교 다닐 때는 너무 벅차고 힘든 일상들이었는데 막상 하고나니 친구들도 너무 그립고 보고싶을때도 많더라고요 특히 마지막으로 반에서 나오고 친구들과 인사하고 나왔는데 아쉬워서 다시 들어가서 인사도 하고.. 지금은 저는 저의 목표대로 친구들보다 일찍 대학에 입학해서 제가 입시할 땐 친구들이 응원해주고 올해 제 친구들이 수능보고 열심히 입시할 땐 제가 응원을 많이 해주고 그랬는데 아린님도 친구분들과 오래오래 우정쌓아나가셨으면 좋겠어요! 자퇴라는 결정이 후회되는 선택이 되지 않기를 그리고 원하는 목표로 열심히 달려가기를 알고리즘으로 들어온 한 시청자가 응원합니다..
저도 고등학교 자퇴를 해봤던 사람으로서.. 처음엔 주변에서 "너 후회한다", "취직할 때 안좋은 이미지 보일걸?", "대학은?" 등등 따가운 시선을 많이 받았어요. 오히려 저는 그 시선을 더 많이 받기 싫어서 검정고시를 미친듯이 준비한 것 같아요. 그래서 대학도 지금 열심히 다니고 있답니당ㅎㅎ 고등학교 자퇴에 대한 후회라.. 음 저는 없었던 것 같아요. 오히려 혼자 공부하고 혼자 생활하는게 편했고, 친구들과 지내는 걸 많이 어려워했기에 후회는 없지만 굳이 하나 뽑아보자 하면 축제를 못 즐긴거가 될 것 같아요. 아마 아직도 이 사회가 '자퇴생' 이라고 하면 안좋은 시선으로 조금 더 보는 것 같긴 하지만 그런거 다 무시하고 검정고시 잘 치르셔서 하고싶은거 마음 껏 하시면 좋겠어요. 아 그리구 저는 검정고시 준비하면서 국비로 학원을 제돈이 들어가지 않게 다니며 자격증도 여러개 땄었어요! 코로나 때문에 지금은 어떻게 됬을지 모르지만 이것도 알아보시면 좋은 것 같아요:) 응원하겠습니당
@@user-sg3rw1md4k 저도 이 부분은 아는 부분입니다만..ㅎ 고등학교 자퇴 숙려기간 당시 귀가 아프게 들었습니다. 내 인생은 내가 만들고 써 내려가는겁니다. 고등학교를 잘 졸업했다해서 정말 좋은 취직자리 얻는 것도 아니고, 오히려 구하기 힘든경우도 대다수입니다. 저는 지금 이 댓글의 의미가 취직이 아닌거 아셨음해요:) 좋은 곳 취직, 이것도 물론 좋습니다. 하지만 나중에 되돌아보면 자신이 정말 좋아하는 걸 찾아서 그걸 하면서 살아가는 사람이 고등학교 무사히 졸업하고 좋은 학교를 나오는 사람보다 더 행복하고 값진 인생이 될 것 같네요ㅎㅎ
아림님영상을보다 문든 제가 자퇴했었던 그시절 마음이 떠오르네요. 참 무섭고 스스로 선택을 많이 의심했었는데 딱 십년이 되는 지금 전 대학원도가고 박사도 끝내 연구원으로 지내고있어요. 많은 사람들이 정해놓은 길을 가지않더라도 하고싶은것 마음껏 열심히 하면 언제나 잘 될거에요 조금일찍 사회로 나온 아린님을 환영하고 또 응원합니다 ♡
@@kiw0756 You are right, and since Korea is such a demanding country, I think it is very brave for them to leave their studies. In my country (Mexico) it is not taboo for someone to prefer working to studying. In any case, many Opportunities 💗
I’m also a high school dropout ! It’s been 2 years already and the reason why I took that decision was because of my mental illnesses. We’re in this together, we may be a little slower than the others but there’s nothing wrong with choosing a different path and having a different pace, life itself is not smooth but I’m sure better things and days will come 💗
Im also university drop out because my mental illness. But now i sign up for university again, because in my country its soo hard to get a job without degree.
Hi fellow dropout! I dropped out a couple months ago due to bullying and mental illness as well :( I’ve been studying and learning what I want, including new languages, etc. at my OWN pace. I hope it stays good :)
저도 자퇴생인데 되게 비슷한 분위기로 저도 자퇴를 했어서 그때 생각이 진짜 많이 나는 것 같아요 ㅠㅠ 😭 전 제가 예체능을 그만두면서 자퇴를 하게 된 거여서 당시 제 선택이 틀렸을까 이런 고민를 정말 많이 했는데 제 친구가 그당시 너는 최선의 선택을 한 거라고 말을 해줬는데 그 말이 정말 많이 위로가 되는 것 같아요 살면서 한 번씩은 꼭 과거 본인의 선택이 후회로 남고 그런 일이 꼭 있을 거라 생각하는데 그럴 때마다 앞으로를 생각하고 너무 깊게 생각하지 않으셨으면 해요 학교 다니느라 정말 수고 많으셨답니다!!!
After watching your video, I remembered my school life, I finished my school life and completed my college life, but today I remember the moments of my school life. Now I am thinking about school friends.
i respect u for taking that decision at this age, most of us can't even think of doing that. But u did because u had a perfect idea of what u were going to do. So thank you for inspiring me to work towards my goals too.
아유 진짜 우리나라 사람들 남 일에 관심이 엄청나게 많구나… 자퇴한 것에 대해 부정적인 입장이면 혼자 생각하고 넘기면 되는 거를 굳이~ 정성들여 장문의 댓글을 달고 있어 ㅜㅜ 이미 자퇴한 사람한테 자퇴한 거 나중 되면 백퍼 후회한다 생각이 없다 이러고 있는 게 좋은 거 같냐구… 요즘 자퇴하는 고등학생들이 정말 많아졌고 그 이유도 가지각색인데 그냥 좀 응원 해주면 안되나..? 자퇴하면 무조건 인생 폭망인 것 처럼 부정적인 얘기들만 늘어놓는 분들은 무슨 심리인지 이해가 안 감 진짜로 ㅠ 이 분도 유튜브에 공개하지 않은 혼자만의 고충이 많았겠죠… 자퇴 결정이 하루만에 뚝딱 되는 것도 아니고 많이 고민하고 힘드셨을 텐데 그냥 몇분짜리 영상만 보고 상처되는 댓글 다는 게 너무 맘 아프다 ㅠㅠ 그냥 사람 사는 모습이 다 다른 거지 어떻게 다 똑같을 수 있겠어요~ 다수가 걷는 길을 가지 않는다고 해서 비난 받을 이유는 없다고 생각합니당… 다들 조금만 이해심을 가지고 살자구요 무조건 자기 생각, 자기 가치관만이 옳다는 편견도 제발 버리고!
Arin, I think you must have had a lot of concerns before making the decision to drop out. Leaving the school you were attending and becoming independent on your own is not an easy task, so it's really impressive that you made such a decision. I hope you're doing well even after leaving high school. I'm curious about what you plan to do after dropping out. I'm also interested in the process that led to your decision to drop out. I used to have negative thoughts about dropping out, but after watching this video, my perspective has changed.
댓글 안 적을려고 하다가 정말 화나고 치가 떨려서 코멘트 답니다. 틱톡에서 쿠킹영상 부터 계속 시청하던 팬이자 구독자인데요. 알고리즘을 타서 그런지 무례하고 기본 상식이 안 되어 있는 사람들이 많네요. 아직은 저도 학생이라서 뭐라고 정확히 말은 못 하지만 자퇴가 꼭 나쁜것만은 아니라고 생각해요. 아린님께서 생각 하고 수많은 고민 끝에 결정 하신 거겠죠. 사람들이 뭐라고 하던간에 선택은 아린님 몫이에요. 부디 잘 생각하여 좋은 길로 가서 성공하셨으면 좋겠습니다!! 응원해요. 이 영상 거의 출첵하듯이 일주일에 한번씩은 보는데 새로운 코멘트가 달릴때마다 남자같다, 기록용 삶이다... 라떼는~~ , 이게 고등학생이냐, 자퇴가 자랑이냐, 몇몇은 성희롱 댓글달고... 하 정말 사람 기분 나쁘게 지적하고 무례하며 제대로된 상식이 박혀있는 사람이 몇 없어보이네요. 충고로 위장해 악플 남기듯이 자퇴는 왜 했냐고 하고... 게다가 성인이 대부분이신것 같은데 자기 딸, 조카 뻘한테 이런 댓글 남기시고 가시면 속 편하신가요? 한국인 뿐만 아니라 영어권 댓글 읽어보니 인종차별하는 댓글이 조금씩 보이네요. 다 같은 사람입니다. 코멘트 남기시기 전에 작성자가 상처 받진 않을지, 꼭 작성자가 아니라도 다른사람들이 보기에 기분나쁘지는 않을지 생각 하시고 다시면 좋겠네요.
시간이 너무 많이 흘렀는데 아직도 이 말을 들어야 할지 모르겠어요하지만 난 당신을 지지해요우리 나라에서는 고등학교를 자퇴하는 것은 누구나 바라는 일이지만, 자퇴하면 미래가 망가지기 때문에 억지로 공부해야 한다.늘 꿈꿔오던 삶, 좋은 삶을 살았으면 좋겠습니다 영상이 너무 감동적이었습니다 이렇게 많은 분들이 아껴주셨으면 좋겠습니다 부럽습니다 항상 마음이 원하는 대로 따라가는 모습이 좋네요 ❤
It reminded me of when it was the last day of school for me. It felt surreal and the whole day I remember it feeling like an impossible feeling to experience. A lot of my friends still had school the next day but I didn't. It was such an odd day.
잠들기 전에 이 영상을 우연히 보게 되었는데 멋지고 저에게 깨달음을 주는 영상인거 같아요! 자퇴라는 것이 꼭 안좋은 시선으로만 바라볼게 아니라 어떻게 보면 어떤 것에서든 구애받지 않고 조금더 집중해서 무언가를 해낼 수있는 시간들이 많이 주어지는 것이 아닐까 꼭 고등학교를 다니며 대학교라는 꿈을 그려나가지도 않아도 되는것이 아닐까 많이 생각이 드는 영상이였어요! 비록 저도 대학교라는 목표는 아니지만 그림을 그려나가는 중이였는데 꼭 그게 정답이 아니라는걸 알게된거같아요🤍 앞으로의 미래와 무궁무진한 발전을 기대하고 용기에 박수를 보냅니다
I feel so emo especially at the end ksksksks making that decision isn’t easy and I’m amazed that you gathered all your courage to took that risk. Whatever you’re gonna pursue from now on, I hope that everything will went well and I hope you’ll be able to find the happiness and growth you’re aiming for. Take care and good luck!
This was very inspirational and i thought it was so cute how you and your friends stick together. I also am thinking about dropping out of school for a reason though, not because I'm bad in school but because of something else. I hope you could fullfil your dream and I'll do my best to fullfil mine...사랑해💕
All the choices we make in this life needs to be ponderate a lot in order to not make mistakes. I'll respect you for your choice and be cheering up for your future too. 아린, 화이팅!💖💖
I nearly dropped out of highschool a couple years ago, I am a gifted student and was recently diagnosed with ADHD (Inattentive variant) I don't know if it was ADHD manifesting in a malicious way, but to this day I cannot understand work rubrics and success criteria, I always end up guessing on how to do it and sorta make my own format, my own answer even if it doesn't answer what the teachers exactly want (which is another thing that is really common for me) I had 1 class that I loved with all my heart and respected so much because it was the only class I felt like I had a bit of understanding in, that being chemistry, I loved theory but the stuff I struggled with really shone through in the class, I had a 59% at the midterm. I slept on average 15 hours PER WEEK and drank ~5-7 energy drinks every day (no joke), I felt so numb yet so proud when I managed to raise my mark to a 68% at the end of the semester Going into the last semester of that year, I thought I could make it if I could see a way to learn and get better, but I had it stripped from me with math, just imagine having a stroke every day in virtually all of your classes, I stopped being able to understand english when it was spoken or written and I couldn't understand diagrams, tutors couldn't find out what was wrong with me and I felt so hopeless that I wasn't able to compete anymore, I really wanted to apply to University of Ottawa, with the aim of becoming a trauma surgeon or a biomedical material scientist and when I couldn't learn how to learn my subjects it took everything in me to not break down and cry I tried moving onto my last year (grade 12) with a self-paced, self-taught school as that was how I learned my hobbies and figured that having access to the core material would remove the teacher bias, I failed initially and had to take a year off, got diagnosed with a bunch of stuff and ended up just finishing high school a couple weeks ago That was close to *3 years* spent working through my stuff to finish grade 12 I was going to finish school so that I could go into the Canadian Military (CAF) but ended up changing my mind and now I'm training for the French Foreign Legion, where my education doesn't matter and I also have the opportunity to go to school for paramedicine or higher if I stay long enough Not to mention because they wipe your identity, all the work I put in finishing highschool would be for basically nothing, but that's okay. I pray that I don't have to see past the next 17 years when I get in anyways haha I'm happy you managed to take the time, think it through and follow through with your decision, I hope you the best and that you find stuff that will sustain you and will make you happy, hopefully you make more stuff on youtube too in your free time
헐 4:18 자리로 갈 때 박수쳐주고 아쉬워해주는 마음이 너무 이쁘고 다들 멋진 것 같아요!! 아린님을 오래보진 않았지만 오늘 아린님의 팬이 된 것 같아요!! 제가 본 아린님의 첫 영상 너무 좋아요!! 항상 아린님이 가고 싶은 길이나 하고 싶은 것들 다 하면서 행복하셨으면 좋겠어요!! ❤️🩹 사랑합니다 그리고 응원합니다❣️
I like how Korean school have such a unique school uniform , school in my country stick to the basics. funny how I don't pack my bags at all, although having to climb a three story building to reach my classroom. Glad her friends and family were really supportive , this made me cry a little thinking about my old schools that I have been to and the memories i had to let go.
Sou do Brasil, falo português do Brasil, e admiro a beleza da mulher asiática e toda essa delicadeza e educação delas, são belíssimas e nesse vídeo estou vendo uma moça muito linda mostrando sua rotina.
I'm proud of you! It always makes me happy to see other people making decisions that are right for themselves. Life's too short and too hard to listen to everything everyone thinks is right. I hope your path is filled with just as good memories moving forward.
이 영상으로 아린님을 처음 뵙지만 한마음으로는 친구들과의 학교생활을 이제 져버리는 슬픔도 전해지고 했지만 한편으로는 후련하다는 힐링도 느끼고 되게 좋네요 아린님이 하고싶은 일이 있다는게 있어서 그것을 도전하기 위해 자퇴를하는거 정말 대단하고 존경스러워요 저도 아린님의 앞으로의 원하는 일을 하는것에 대해 응원할께요! 앞으로도 좋은 일만 있으세요!!
이렇게 이쁘고 학교에서의 마지막 추억 남기는 영상에서 몇 댓글들 정말 눈쌀 찌푸려져서 남기는데 요즘 세상에도 자퇴에 대한 인식이 정말 바닥이라는게 느껴지네요. 아린님이 어떤 진로를 꿈꾸고 열심히 노력하고 추후 계획은 어떻게 되는지 알지도 못하고 알 필요도 없는 주제에 굳이 말도 안되는 걸로 여기서 친히 욕지거리 해대는 당신네들 인생보다 아린님 인생이 훨씬 잘나보이는데 지들이 뭐라고 꼰대짓을 하세요. 아린님이 자퇴를 할 명분과 계획이 명확하시고 올바르시니까 주변 어른들도 이해하고 할 수 있도록 추진해주셨겠죠 안그래요? 응원만 하세요 굳이 남의 인생에 감놔라 배놔라 초치지 마세요
i also dropped out from my past collage. and i no regret bcs like you, no bcs lazy or the hard of school, it bcs we have the way, we have our own way. i love you arin
진짜 이 영상 분위기가 너무 좋아요.. 정말 몇 번을 본 지 모르겠어요 막 다른 브이로그 보다가도 생각나서 자주 찾아와요 진짜 아린님만의 차분한 분위기와 전체적인 무드, 교복, 얼굴 분위기 모든 게 맞물려서 구냥 레전드네요..🫶🏻🫧 혹시 아린님 평소 플레이리스트 소개하는 영상 올리실 계획 있으신가요..? 아린님 플리 너무 궁금해요
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I also dropped out of school in 2020 because of my deteriorating mental health and financial issues. I always have panic attacks whenever I have online classes, the class hasn’t even started yet but I’m already crying and cannot breathe. I felt so isolated because everyone kept telling me that I won't have a future if I don't finish my studies. I'm just waiting for the pandemic to be over so I'll go to school again. Thanks so much for this video! It helped me a lot and made me realize that I'm not the only one struggling with this. Stay strong and keep safe always.
Edit: Wow, I didn’t even expect so many likes for this. I’d love to hear your stories everyone, it’s nice knowing that I have someone to relate with. Thank you, it made me feel at ease. Take your time to chase your dreams. 🍀
taht must of been horrible i hope its going well although high school does bring many opportunities and benefits a well thought out plan will get you through life no matter what my mother didnt even go to high school she had to stop when she was around 10-12 and currently she is leading a happy life with multiple houses and a business as so as long as you have a plan and stay calm life will work out hope it goes well!
All the best~~
Take things at your pace, and don’t even care about what people say cause studies can wait but your mental health can’t, I have been home since 2020 without going to University and often hear that it’s time I take seriously but mental wellness comes first!! stay strong
I suggest you have a golden chance to follow your passion rather than fuckin school
I feel u girl my relatives and parents keep on saying that i won't have a future if i'll drop out . I took a break from school for one year bc of my mental health and now i'm pretty much better so i'll be attending school next year. Hope everything goes well with u too :)
dropping out of school is okay, because i’m sure you put a lot of thoughts into it. the world is so big and school is not the only important thing in the world. people who don’t hesitate when pursuing their dreams are really admirable. wishing arin all the best and good luck!
@@flora7447 absolutely
@@flora7447 they're really not. they're the exact same. you're dropping out of the formal education system to take education into your own hands. i dropped out of high school last year to pursue business, and im doing really great for myself rn. and i set aside 2 hours to read quality books about relationships and business every single day. education doesn't need to be formal.
@@deltont correct Everyone has right to fully learn what they need to learn
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@@deltont they're pretty different. I mean, there is a reason why education is formal in the first place. if everyone just learned little stuff by themselves, then how would a company (for example) know the level of their employee-to be. they need to have a formal qualification to compare people. with that being said, education doesn't need to be formal, and you can still do well without high school, but most people can balance high school and their own education outside of school.
최근의 감성도 좋지만,, 가끔은 이 영상같은 분위기가 그리워요 약간 퇴폐적인 느낌에 광고 없이 온전히 아린님만의 일상을 담은 잔잔한 영상ㅠㅠ
as a university student in East Asia I normally would advise others not to drop out of high-school because a lot of times my juniors tell me that they are just too bored for school however with people like you I think you made the brave and right choice. As you said, you're not dropping out to stop studying completely but to instead study what you actually want, and Id say go for it esp while you're still young. One thing I learned late was that I took a long time tolerating the act of studying something I didn't enjoy for years before I shifted and ended up with something that I actually like, but it wasn't until I had to go through burnouts and all before I actually changed my path. Which is why it's good that you have a clear vision of what you want to achieve and that you're excited to implement it, I think that's also why your friends and family are supportive of you because they also know you've been thinking long and hard for this, it's a life changing decision after all but I can definitely say you're on the right path for this, best of luck and I hope you'll soon achieve what you're look for :)
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This is such a nice comment!
wait people do take drop years to stop studying? or like when they are bored of studies... its new to me dude i always heard and know to the point, peeps take drop year to study more- woah i was new to it
@@slxcidvaille lol it’s the opposite for me. I always heard of dropping out for people who didn’t want to study anymore etc. so seeing someone who wants to drop out to study more etc is new to men
@@sparkyboomboomboi7051 lmao that's a no for us...are you asian?
자퇴가 지금은 괜찮을 지라도 나중에는 후회에 순간으로 찾아올 수 도 있어요. 그 나이 시절에만 가능한 경험이기 때문이에요. 하지만 그 후회의 순간이 생각 안나도록 아린이가 계획한거를 열심히 실행해서 나중에는 행복한 순간만 가득했으면 좋겠어요. 너무 꼰대 같았나요 ㅎㅎㅎ 항상 응원하고 자기가 원하던 삶을 살길 응원할게요!
꼰대라면 꼰대라고 생각할수도 있는 사람도 있겠지만..
진짜 꼭 필요한말인것같아요
모든 일에는 후회가 따르는 법이니깐요..이정도의 말은 도움되는 말이고 전혀 꼰대스럽지는 않은 것 같네요.모두가 소중한 밤이 되길 바랄게요
저도 몇개월전에 자퇴햇는데요 학교 갓다안갓다 해서 친하지도 않고 학교에서 뭐 할수도 없어서 그냥 비슷한거같애여 ㅋㅋㅋ
다들 추억이 없는게 후회 될 수 있다하는데 그것보다 자칫하다가 인생 꼬일 수 있는게 더 무서워요 자유가 생각보다 무서운거더라구요 소속감이 없는게 양날의 검이 됩니다. 혹시 자퇴 고민하시는 분이 있다면 이 답글 보고 도움이 됐으면 좋겠는 마음에 쓰는 건데 저도 자퇴하고 정말 자유의 덫에서 허덕여왔습니다. 결론적으로 지금은 진짜 2년동안 질리게 허송세월하고 나태하게 살아와서 노는거에 질려서 더이상 비생산적인 삶을 살고 싶지 않아서 정신 차리고 있습니다. 자유는 진짜 무서운거에요 이렇게 말해줘도 자퇴 할 사람은 하더라구요 어떻게 보면 자퇴하고 후회 하는것도 배움의 일종이니까 도움이 돼요 근데 후회 하고 삶의 끈을 놓지 않았으면 좋겠어요
@@iilillililii 진짜 이게 맞음 .. 나를 잡아주는 선생님들이 있다는게 좋았던거임 작년에 수능 치고 대학에 잘 들어왔는데도 공부해라 말해주시고 야자때도 날 설득시켜서 공부시키는 선생님들의 중요성을 시험기간마다 느낌 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ … 자퇴하고 검정고시치고 혼자 열심히 하는 애들보면 진짜 존경스러움 10대때 학교다니는데는 다 이유가 있는듯 …
There is nothing wrong with dropping out of school. I wish more people could understand this. If you have a passion in life and you want to take it somewhere go for it. It might not always be the right move but do what you love and have no regrets. People usually like to judge others by how their life experiences were but I feel that nothing should be isolated to make a person seem less human from another. Hope everything goes well for you!
Ahh i just read this and i feel so glad that is still a lot of people who understand this kind of statement🥹, because i choose not to go to college because i know what my passion is and what the best for my future. And i always look up for it. Wish me luck and success in. Thanks for this you make my feel more confident and there is nothing wrong with dropping out of school or college. Love you for this! Have a wonderful day
I’m not trying to be rude or anything but I just wanted to put out there that although there is not necessarily any wrong with dropping out of school, dropping out can affect future job offers, chances for college and university, and etc. Now if they still manage to succeed in life then congrats, but this does not happen for most people and they regret it. In the end this is the persons choice so I won’t bother them about it but I just want to say it’s a risky move and you need to make sure it’s the right thing to do instead of doing it in the spur of the moment.
"There is nothing wrong with making bad choices that im not involved in"
In my country you barely find work without a degree. It got very hard. Also school is mandatory were i live, so you can not just drop out like that.
Starbucks costs money.
자퇴브이로그중에 이게 탑임.. 그냥 계속 찾아보게됨.. 그냥 이언니가 예뻐서 그럼.. 당신유죄.. ㅜㅜㅜㅜ ❤️❤️❤️
i can imagine how scary it must've been to make such a sudden announcement like this, the amount of support you got was so amazing even from those you didn't expect. i wish you the best in whatever you wish to do in life and that you won't regret it. i'm happy that everyone was able to support you through your choice though some people think that most people drop out because they aren't motivated but mostly because they want to fulfil something in their life and move on.
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Omg you so cute and you hair so beautiful I need you hair😭🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
At first I could not wrap my mind around the idea of just dropping out of school when you have all the opportunities to continue going to school. From your vlogs, I can tell you came from a good family, and having the ability to pay for school or just have the financial stability is not a luxury a lot of people can afford, including me. That you even do studying at Starbucks, I have to admit made me envious because I remember my college days surrounded by rich classmates. So at first, I was shocked. I'm from a poor family so I had to study hard for full-ride scholarships ever since grade school. When I was young, what was ingrained to me was that my education will determine my future, my way out of poverty. However, after I graduated from a prestigious university, I started working a 9-5 job that pays really well but I feel empty. I had a dream when I was younger but it was not possible, or at least, very difficult given my family's financial standing. At that time, I just could not afford to delay my time. I'm very happy for you, that you have the courage and a supportive family and friends. I wish you success in your journey! Lastly, I hope you are thankful for what you have. Not everyone has this luxury. Thank you for sharing!
completely agree. i hope im fortunate as she is to have a cushion for when everything else doesnt go right for me
@@winter7550 *hugs with consent*
@ASMR Girlz agree it does sound a bit backhanded. if i was her i’d feel bad after reading this. i’m sure it’s not OP’s intention but it sounds like they are saying Arin is taking things for granted. kinda like how parents would sometimes dump emotional baggage and make you feel guilty for letting them raise you up. maybe different people different interpretation.
Same
I totally agree with you. And to everyone that says it sounds backhanded growing up poor limits your options.I remember being bullied in high school but I had an attitude that "I will show these dudes one day with my hard work and persistence that I can survive".And to everyone here being bullied or whoever is struggling "KARMA IS REAL".You will be paid and rewarded for your efforts. I don't belive in God but there is a higher power up there for sure and those who put in the effort and do not give up are always rewarded.
I am a college graduate of a reputable university in USA, well - based on my experience - if you already found what you want to do at such a young age then by all means go ahead and pursue it. In the end , I went back and continued the family business - which didnt need a college degree at all. Most of the things you learn for the job is on the job- not exactly in college.
알고리즘에 이끌려왔는데 머야머야 자고일어난 부스스까지
세상 자연스레 이쁜 이 아가씨는 도대체 ....
진짜 이쁘다😳😳😳😳
Translation of why she's dropping out:
"There was a scene in the video where we talked about it, but to be more specific, the direction I am pursuing and the direction and system pushed by the school do not match well, so I chose to drop out in order to focus on the career I want to pursue and the work I want to do. ! I didn't stop studying because I dropped out, but I am preparing for the GED and studying what I wanted to do!"
Best of luck Arin!!
I was a college dropout because of a very personal reason. It was not an easy decision and I think I chose it without thinking clearly. Though I have regrets, the years I stopped became a way for me to know myself and reassess myself again carefully. I am now back to school. So much have changed since then, but there is no end or age cut for learning. I learned so much and became better person with all those experiences. We are never late as long as we continue and move forward.
Thanks for this video~
why did she dropped out??
이 언니 영상들은 차분하고 나긋나긋한 분위기 그리고 엄청난 용안과 여리여리하고 고급스러운 분위기 때문에 자주 찾아오게 된다.. 첫사랑의 의인화같은.. 코미양 닮았다는 댓이 많아서 찾아봤는데 정말이네요 그리고 이 때도 예쁘시지만 지금이 훨씬 화장도 어울리게 잘 하시고 훨씬 예뻐지신 듯..하고 싶은 거 다 해요 운니
ㅜㅜㅜㅜㅜㅜ 너무 슬픈 이야기 같아요 친구들도 너무 착하시네용 ㅜㅜㅜㅜ 꼭 좋은곳 가셨으면 좋겟습니다.. ㅜㅜ 화이팅!! ㅎㅎ
친구들과의 추억을 배쓰밤을 풀면서 녹여내는 거 같아서 더 뭉클했어요.. 아린님의 발걸음을 응원하고 싶어요 나아가는 시간 속에서 부디 아픈 일이 없길 바라요 ☺️
당신은 놀랍습니다.혁신적인 kpop 그룹,트렌드지,귀하의 의견이 마음에 들었습니다.👍
자퇴가 나쁜게 아니라 자신의 길을 가고싶다면 좋은거야 자퇴는 돌이켜 생각해보면 아쉬울뿐이야 응원해 화이팅걸☺️
our at school starts at 6am, and ends at 7pm🤧i'm glad you dropout to do things that you really want. life is too short to care about what other people think, so enjoy it as much as you can! i really hope you'll achieve what you're looking for ♥
야자를 아는가😊?
I wish you all the luck on your journey after this! The world is open to you and I feel like school makes up such a big part of our world at the time we are students, so your decision was very brave. I hope you find what you're looking for and achieve all that you want to achieve! Good luck!
i think it’s so adorable how every girl has the automatic urge to wave peace signs in front of the camera lol, love seeing the subtle habits of different cultures
edit: and I LOVE how supportive everyone is 🥺🥺 it’s so heartwarming
U are man?
Bruh what
boi
@@roach9857 they're saying waving peace signs at a camera is a habit for asian people i'm assuming
Hello, this is a message from JYPE A&R Team. The evaluation on your application for the online audition has been completed.
I want to know whether I was accepted in the first stage or not?
아니 사람이 어떻게 이르케 이쁘고 잘생길 수 가 있지? 진짜 잘생쁨
Watching this video reminded me of my highschool days, I was really unhappy then and things were so hard but I still graduated in 2020. Seeing this video made me wonder "why did I spend my highschool days so unhappy". At the end of day, if you find something that makes you happy, you should go for it! That's very brave of you and I wish you so much luck on your new path
I graduated in 2020 too it was hard but we did it
I feel you! I graduated in 2020 as well
@@rinrin9138 We did it
@@greyzworld We did it
Same I hated high school I suffered so much but it's over now
I don't know why you're leaving school suddenly but I want you to know it's okay.
You're not failing, you're just giving yourself a break and enough time to rest,think and feel until you heal.
It's okay to leave school, you're just choosing to take a different path from the others and that's brave,so I respect you !
Take advantage of your free time to learn and improve yourself , you can always learn and educate yourself at home ♡
I support your decision and sincerely wish you a future full of joy , happiness and success :)
Hello, this is a message from JYPE A&R Team. The evaluation on your application for the online audition has been completed.
I want to know whether I was accepted in the first stage or not?
@@farahan2216 what has that got to do with arin? Btw it means you failed
@@rijgonzales9340 I don't think so lmfao
@@rijgonzales9340 maybe they're implying she dropped out to be an idol lol
She literally says it here 3:53 . There's surely more reasons behind that but she has every right to not announce her personal reasons be it financial, mental or anything. For now, let's just focus on that and support her
It was getting sad and she started crying on the start of the surprise,sat down,and then all of a sudden camera pans to one of her friend by saying she's crying too and that reaction,gave a smile on my face. Friends are the best.
입술 옆에 점 찍으니까 가을 닮으셨ㅅ네..
청소년시기에 가장 많은 고민거리가 연애 일것가ㅌ은데 사랑으로 주제를 잡으면 너무 좋잖아요ㅇ...💖💖
you're so lucky to have such amazing friends honestly. when i dropped out of school no one even said goodbye, it really hurt but anyways. i'm happy for you, hope everything goes well!!
we live in a society where we are pressured to finish school and study from there on. people tend to forget that it's not always so easy to wake up everyday like that. its very brave of you to prove people wrong by dropping out and taking a break. people look up to you because you're choosing to follow your dreams💫 I hope you understand that there are people supporting you and, I wish you good luck Arin!💗💗💗
ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
why did she dropped out??
@@nisthagog7494 to pursue other careers that she is interested in. she said that the schooling she is receiving doesn’t align with the career she wants to pursue. lucky for her, she seems like an older high school student. so it’s okay for her to take time off now.
She just wants to bitch out, how is that brave
Imagine If everyone not going to school lets go back to stone age
언니 컨텐츠 너무 좋아요 ㅠㅠ 볼때마다 마음이 차분해지고 편안해지네요 감사해요🙃🙃
I'm a college graduate. I hated school but I miss those days. It seems life gets more dull as you progress. So appreciate every season of your life. Not every problem disappear just by leaving things behind.
It seems she’s pursing something rather than running in my eyes. Every path has difficulties I agree with the sentiment.
저도 고등학교 생활을 한 학기도 다 마치기 전에 자퇴를 결정했는데 학교 다닐 때는 너무 벅차고 힘든 일상들이었는데 막상 하고나니 친구들도 너무 그립고 보고싶을때도 많더라고요 특히 마지막으로 반에서 나오고 친구들과 인사하고 나왔는데 아쉬워서 다시 들어가서 인사도 하고.. 지금은 저는 저의 목표대로 친구들보다 일찍 대학에 입학해서 제가 입시할 땐 친구들이 응원해주고 올해 제 친구들이 수능보고 열심히 입시할 땐 제가 응원을 많이 해주고 그랬는데 아린님도 친구분들과 오래오래 우정쌓아나가셨으면 좋겠어요! 자퇴라는 결정이 후회되는 선택이 되지 않기를 그리고 원하는 목표로 열심히 달려가기를 알고리즘으로 들어온 한 시청자가 응원합니다..
저도 고등학교 자퇴를 해봤던 사람으로서.. 처음엔 주변에서
"너 후회한다", "취직할 때 안좋은 이미지 보일걸?", "대학은?" 등등 따가운 시선을 많이 받았어요. 오히려 저는 그 시선을 더 많이 받기 싫어서 검정고시를 미친듯이 준비한 것 같아요. 그래서 대학도 지금 열심히 다니고 있답니당ㅎㅎ 고등학교 자퇴에 대한 후회라.. 음 저는 없었던 것 같아요. 오히려 혼자 공부하고 혼자 생활하는게 편했고, 친구들과 지내는 걸 많이 어려워했기에 후회는 없지만 굳이 하나 뽑아보자 하면 축제를 못 즐긴거가 될 것 같아요. 아마 아직도 이 사회가 '자퇴생' 이라고 하면 안좋은 시선으로 조금 더 보는 것 같긴 하지만 그런거 다 무시하고 검정고시 잘 치르셔서 하고싶은거 마음 껏 하시면 좋겠어요. 아 그리구 저는 검정고시 준비하면서 국비로 학원을 제돈이 들어가지 않게 다니며 자격증도 여러개 땄었어요! 코로나 때문에 지금은 어떻게 됬을지 모르지만 이것도 알아보시면 좋은 것 같아요:) 응원하겠습니당
자퇴하면 대학가기는 더 쉬운대 취업시장에서 불이익이 있는곳이 많습니다
@@user-sg3rw1md4k 저도 이 부분은 아는 부분입니다만..ㅎ 고등학교 자퇴 숙려기간 당시 귀가 아프게 들었습니다. 내 인생은 내가 만들고 써 내려가는겁니다. 고등학교를 잘 졸업했다해서 정말 좋은 취직자리 얻는 것도 아니고, 오히려 구하기 힘든경우도 대다수입니다. 저는 지금 이 댓글의 의미가 취직이 아닌거 아셨음해요:) 좋은 곳 취직, 이것도 물론 좋습니다. 하지만 나중에 되돌아보면 자신이 정말 좋아하는 걸 찾아서 그걸 하면서 살아가는 사람이 고등학교 무사히 졸업하고 좋은 학교를 나오는 사람보다 더 행복하고 값진 인생이 될 것 같네요ㅎㅎ
@@Myprince_Wonpil 긴 댓글 잘 읽었습니다 감사합니다. 화이팅 하시길 바랍니다! 옷 따뜻하게 입으시고요
후회는 하게 됩니다. 조금이라도
@@Solenoon33 네 맞아요~ 하지만 제 글에 적힌 그대로! 고등학교 그만둔지 몇년이 지난 지금도 저는 후회 안하고요 굳이 뽑자면 축제를 못 즐긴거라고 이야기 했습니다.
It’s the way she has her life together
이 영상 특유의 감성이 있어서 몇번이고 다시 찾아오게 되네요ㅎㅎ 교복입으신 모습 또 한번 보고시퍼요!!
아림님영상을보다 문든 제가 자퇴했었던 그시절 마음이 떠오르네요. 참 무섭고 스스로 선택을 많이 의심했었는데 딱 십년이 되는 지금 전 대학원도가고 박사도 끝내 연구원으로 지내고있어요. 많은 사람들이 정해놓은 길을 가지않더라도 하고싶은것 마음껏 열심히 하면 언제나 잘 될거에요 조금일찍 사회로 나온 아린님을 환영하고 또 응원합니다 ♡
동의합니다. 행운을 빕니다🤗💞
흔치 않은 결정, 남들과 다른 길을 가는 것에 대한 두려움에도 불구하고 자신이 하고자하는 바를 실천하기 위해 도전하고 새롭게 시작하는 모습이 멋져요. 진심으로 이런 부분이 존경스럽습니다. 후회없는 선택이 되도록 열심히 하세요! 항상 응원합니다 :)
근데 요즘에는 자퇴하는 사람들이 정말 많아진것같아요 굳이 눈치보면서 힘들게 다니는것보단 이분처럼 자신의 생각에 맞게 자유롭게 행동하시는분들이 많아져 좋아진듯 ㅋㅋ
@@kiw0756 굳이
@@user-up8dy8ou1f ㅇㅎ 고마워용
@@kiw0756 You are right, and since Korea is such a demanding country, I think it is very brave for them to leave their studies. In my country (Mexico) it is not taboo for someone to prefer working to studying. In any case, many Opportunities 💗
인생에 답은 없어요 선택만 있을 뿐.. 어차피 모두가 자기가 감당해야 할 몫이니까 뭐든 열심히 하세요.
Looking back at this makes me emotional and i can see how much you have achieved and i am so very proud of you 💕😢☹️ i love you so much
I’m also a high school dropout ! It’s been 2 years already and the reason why I took that decision was because of my mental illnesses. We’re in this together, we may be a little slower than the others but there’s nothing wrong with choosing a different path and having a different pace, life itself is not smooth but I’m sure better things and days will come 💗
Im also university drop out because my mental illness. But now i sign up for university again, because in my country its soo hard to get a job without degree.
I'm a University drop out too but I decided to enroll again,
Hi fellow dropout! I dropped out a couple months ago due to bullying and mental illness as well :( I’ve been studying and learning what I want, including new languages, etc. at my OWN pace. I hope it stays good :)
@@reelkev3612 how do you plan to make money in the future, just a question?
Yeah like unemployment up your a**
저도 자퇴생인데 되게 비슷한 분위기로 저도 자퇴를 했어서 그때 생각이 진짜 많이 나는 것 같아요 ㅠㅠ 😭 전 제가 예체능을 그만두면서 자퇴를 하게 된 거여서 당시 제 선택이 틀렸을까 이런 고민를 정말 많이 했는데 제 친구가 그당시 너는 최선의 선택을 한 거라고 말을 해줬는데 그 말이 정말 많이 위로가 되는 것 같아요 살면서 한 번씩은 꼭 과거 본인의 선택이 후회로 남고 그런 일이 꼭 있을 거라 생각하는데 그럴 때마다 앞으로를 생각하고 너무 깊게 생각하지 않으셨으면 해요 학교 다니느라 정말 수고 많으셨답니다!!!
자퇴하고 뭐하심?
@@user-vo8zw3qd4p 자퇴 고1 후반에 했고 지금은 검고랑 수능 치고 대학 입시 끝낸 19살입니다
@@user-ot2ds8hw2f 와우 무슨대학이심?
@@user-vo8zw3qd4p 아무리 대면성이 없는 온라인상이지만 예의는 지키면서 이야기하세요
@@Ihateoutoffassion 뭐 어쩌라는거임 ㅋㅋ 저분이 불편하다 한것도 아닌데 니가 뭔상관인데 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
she's one of the most beautiful girls i've ever seen,she's so pretty and sweet 🥺😿
After watching your video, I remembered my school life, I finished my school life and completed my college life, but today I remember the moments of my school life. Now I am thinking about school friends.
저렇게 예쁘게 편지 읽는거 보니까 친구를 너무 소중히 대하는게 느껴져서 제가 다 장문 편지 빽빽하게 채워서 주고싶은 마음이에요,,,, 🥺💗
아린님이 되게 진심어리고 선한분이라는게 느껴지네요,,
처음 봤는데 진짜 분위기 미쳤… 영상 많이 올려주세요!! 나보다 어린데도 되게 성숙한것 같아서 응원할게요!!
Is no one going to talk about how she look like Komi from the anime "Komi Can't Communicate"
i respect u for taking that decision at this age, most of us can't even think of doing that. But u did because u had a perfect idea of what u were going to do. So thank you for inspiring me to work towards my goals too.
아유 진짜 우리나라 사람들 남 일에 관심이 엄청나게 많구나… 자퇴한 것에 대해 부정적인 입장이면 혼자 생각하고 넘기면 되는 거를 굳이~ 정성들여 장문의 댓글을 달고 있어 ㅜㅜ 이미 자퇴한 사람한테 자퇴한 거 나중 되면 백퍼 후회한다 생각이 없다 이러고 있는 게 좋은 거 같냐구… 요즘 자퇴하는 고등학생들이 정말 많아졌고 그 이유도 가지각색인데 그냥 좀 응원 해주면 안되나..? 자퇴하면 무조건 인생 폭망인 것 처럼 부정적인 얘기들만 늘어놓는 분들은 무슨 심리인지 이해가 안 감 진짜로 ㅠ 이 분도 유튜브에 공개하지 않은 혼자만의 고충이 많았겠죠… 자퇴 결정이 하루만에 뚝딱 되는 것도 아니고 많이 고민하고 힘드셨을 텐데 그냥 몇분짜리 영상만 보고 상처되는 댓글 다는 게 너무 맘 아프다 ㅠㅠ 그냥 사람 사는 모습이 다 다른 거지 어떻게 다 똑같을 수 있겠어요~ 다수가 걷는 길을 가지 않는다고 해서 비난 받을 이유는 없다고 생각합니당… 다들 조금만 이해심을 가지고 살자구요 무조건 자기 생각, 자기 가치관만이 옳다는 편견도 제발 버리고!
aww her friends truly loves her and are so supportive ˘︹˘
방글라데시의 이 사랑이 정말 좋아요
Arin, I think you must have had a lot of concerns before making the decision to drop out. Leaving the school you were attending and becoming independent on your own is not an easy task, so it's really impressive that you made such a decision. I hope you're doing well even after leaving high school. I'm curious about what you plan to do after dropping out. I'm also interested in the process that led to your decision to drop out. I used to have negative thoughts about dropping out, but after watching this video, my perspective has changed.
댓글 안 적을려고 하다가 정말 화나고 치가 떨려서 코멘트 답니다.
틱톡에서 쿠킹영상 부터 계속 시청하던 팬이자 구독자인데요.
알고리즘을 타서 그런지 무례하고 기본 상식이 안 되어 있는 사람들이 많네요.
아직은 저도 학생이라서 뭐라고 정확히 말은 못 하지만 자퇴가 꼭 나쁜것만은 아니라고 생각해요. 아린님께서 생각 하고 수많은 고민 끝에 결정 하신 거겠죠. 사람들이 뭐라고 하던간에 선택은 아린님 몫이에요. 부디 잘 생각하여 좋은 길로 가서 성공하셨으면 좋겠습니다!! 응원해요.
이 영상 거의 출첵하듯이 일주일에 한번씩은 보는데 새로운 코멘트가 달릴때마다 남자같다, 기록용 삶이다... 라떼는~~ , 이게 고등학생이냐, 자퇴가 자랑이냐, 몇몇은 성희롱 댓글달고... 하 정말 사람 기분 나쁘게 지적하고 무례하며 제대로된 상식이 박혀있는 사람이 몇 없어보이네요.
충고로 위장해 악플 남기듯이 자퇴는 왜 했냐고 하고...
게다가 성인이 대부분이신것 같은데 자기 딸, 조카 뻘한테 이런 댓글 남기시고 가시면 속 편하신가요? 한국인 뿐만 아니라 영어권 댓글 읽어보니 인종차별하는 댓글이 조금씩 보이네요. 다 같은 사람입니다.
코멘트 남기시기 전에 작성자가 상처 받진 않을지, 꼭 작성자가 아니라도 다른사람들이 보기에 기분나쁘지는 않을지 생각 하시고 다시면 좋겠네요.
이 영상을 보면서 만약 자퇴하는 사람이 나였다면 저런 위로를 받고 격려를 해주며 응원을 해줬을까?생각하면서 인간관계에대해 다시한번 생각하는 시간을 가진 거 같다…
자퇴하는 순간을 영상으로 남기고 많은 사람들과 함께 공유할 수 있는 말로 형용할 수 없는 큰 행복감일 거 같아요 !
그 아름다움과 사랑에 빠지지 않을 사람 ❤.......
친구들 나올때 왜 나까지 울컥하는건지,, ㅠ.ㅠ 늘 보고있고 언니가 무슨 선택을하던 항상 응원해요!! 앞으로 더 행복한 일들만 있길 👏🏻👏🏻
Guys this doesn’t look like regular school, it looks like she’s the main character from kdramas
시간이 너무 많이 흘렀는데 아직도 이 말을 들어야 할지 모르겠어요하지만 난 당신을 지지해요우리 나라에서는 고등학교를 자퇴하는 것은 누구나 바라는 일이지만, 자퇴하면 미래가 망가지기 때문에 억지로 공부해야 한다.늘 꿈꿔오던 삶, 좋은 삶을 살았으면 좋겠습니다 영상이 너무 감동적이었습니다 이렇게 많은 분들이 아껴주셨으면 좋겠습니다 부럽습니다 항상 마음이 원하는 대로 따라가는 모습이 좋네요 ❤
It reminded me of when it was the last day of school for me. It felt surreal and the whole day I remember it feeling like an impossible feeling to experience. A lot of my friends still had school the next day but I didn't. It was such an odd day.
잠들기 전에 이 영상을 우연히 보게 되었는데 멋지고 저에게 깨달음을 주는 영상인거 같아요! 자퇴라는 것이 꼭 안좋은 시선으로만 바라볼게 아니라 어떻게 보면 어떤 것에서든 구애받지 않고 조금더 집중해서 무언가를 해낼 수있는 시간들이 많이 주어지는 것이 아닐까 꼭 고등학교를 다니며 대학교라는 꿈을 그려나가지도 않아도 되는것이 아닐까 많이 생각이 드는 영상이였어요! 비록 저도 대학교라는 목표는 아니지만 그림을 그려나가는 중이였는데 꼭 그게 정답이 아니라는걸 알게된거같아요🤍 앞으로의 미래와 무궁무진한 발전을 기대하고 용기에 박수를 보냅니다
I feel so emo especially at the end ksksksks making that decision isn’t easy and I’m amazed that you gathered all your courage to took that risk. Whatever you’re gonna pursue from now on, I hope that everything will went well and I hope you’ll be able to find the happiness and growth you’re aiming for. Take care and good luck!
Emo?
closet cat emotional hehe
emo???
psyblack psyblack yes, i meant emotional
@@namsinsaeng but isn't emo a music genre
This makes me feel so nostalgic for those times.
세상에 너 말 그대로 너무 예뻐❤😊
저도 7월쯤 고등학교자퇴해서 검정고시준비하면서 하고싶은거하고사는데 주변 인식은 아직 자퇴에대해 좋게보지만은 않더라구요 아린님은 주변 신경쓰지말고 꼭하고싶은거 하시며 사실수있길~^^
이건 자퇴 존나 희망편이다. 내주변은 응원받긴했지만 거의 신경안쓰고 보내주는분위기. 근데 너무부럽다
This was very inspirational and i thought it was so cute how you and your friends stick together. I also am thinking about dropping out of school for a reason though, not because I'm bad in school but because of something else. I hope you could fullfil your dream and I'll do my best to fullfil mine...사랑해💕
I love the part where she put on some makeup and wested_arin looks like she came straight out of a webtoon series and she was the popular pretty mc
어떤 길로 가던 아린님이 행복하고 이쁜길만 걷길, 가는 길이 무섭지 않길 기도할게요 맑은 진주같은 아린님🍀🤍
All the choices we make in this life needs to be ponderate a lot in order to not make mistakes.
I'll respect you for your choice and be cheering up for your future too.
아린, 화이팅!💖💖
I nearly dropped out of highschool a couple years ago, I am a gifted student and was recently diagnosed with ADHD (Inattentive variant)
I don't know if it was ADHD manifesting in a malicious way, but to this day I cannot understand work rubrics and success criteria, I always end up guessing on how to do it and sorta make my own format, my own answer even if it doesn't answer what the teachers exactly want (which is another thing that is really common for me)
I had 1 class that I loved with all my heart and respected so much because it was the only class I felt like I had a bit of understanding in, that being chemistry, I loved theory but the stuff I struggled with really shone through in the class, I had a 59% at the midterm. I slept on average 15 hours PER WEEK and drank ~5-7 energy drinks every day (no joke), I felt so numb yet so proud when I managed to raise my mark to a 68% at the end of the semester
Going into the last semester of that year, I thought I could make it if I could see a way to learn and get better, but I had it stripped from me with math, just imagine having a stroke every day in virtually all of your classes, I stopped being able to understand english when it was spoken or written and I couldn't understand diagrams, tutors couldn't find out what was wrong with me and I felt so hopeless that I wasn't able to compete anymore, I really wanted to apply to University of Ottawa, with the aim of becoming a trauma surgeon or a biomedical material scientist and when I couldn't learn how to learn my subjects it took everything in me to not break down and cry
I tried moving onto my last year (grade 12) with a self-paced, self-taught school as that was how I learned my hobbies and figured that having access to the core material would remove the teacher bias, I failed initially and had to take a year off, got diagnosed with a bunch of stuff and ended up just finishing high school a couple weeks ago
That was close to *3 years* spent working through my stuff to finish grade 12
I was going to finish school so that I could go into the Canadian Military (CAF) but ended up changing my mind and now I'm training for the French Foreign Legion, where my education doesn't matter and I also have the opportunity to go to school for paramedicine or higher if I stay long enough
Not to mention because they wipe your identity, all the work I put in finishing highschool would be for basically nothing, but that's okay. I pray that I don't have to see past the next 17 years when I get in anyways haha
I'm happy you managed to take the time, think it through and follow through with your decision, I hope you the best and that you find stuff that will sustain you and will make you happy, hopefully you make more stuff on youtube too in your free time
너무 슬퍼요ㅜㅜ 하고싶은거 다 이루면서 사시길 바라겠습니다
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헐 4:18 자리로 갈 때 박수쳐주고 아쉬워해주는 마음이 너무 이쁘고 다들 멋진 것 같아요!! 아린님을 오래보진 않았지만 오늘 아린님의 팬이 된 것 같아요!! 제가 본 아린님의 첫 영상 너무 좋아요!! 항상 아린님이 가고 싶은 길이나 하고 싶은 것들 다 하면서 행복하셨으면 좋겠어요!! ❤️🩹 사랑합니다 그리고 응원합니다❣️
당신....정말 분위기 미쳐버리자나...얼음 공쥬 아린,,, 어려운 결정ㅠ 좋아하는 일을 위한 과감한 선택 멋있어요🤍
아린님의 일주년이 지난지 얼마 되진 않았지만 영상을 처음부터 다시 보고 있어요!
역시 힐링되고 너무 좋은 점심입니다😊❤
아린님보고있으면 뭔가 정말 마음이 따듯해진달까요,,
앞으로도 계속 머릴 빡빡치며
아린님의 화사창창한 앞날을 응원할게요-!-!!🤍💜
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시간이 지나고 네가 변한데도 언제나 여기있을게•••🤍
분명 동갑인데 배울점이 너무많다 정말 너무 멋져진짜!
I like how Korean school have such a unique school uniform , school in my country stick to the basics. funny how I don't pack my bags at all, although having to climb a three story building to reach my classroom. Glad her friends and family were really supportive , this made me cry a little thinking about my old schools that I have been to and the memories i had to let go.
Sou do Brasil, falo português do Brasil, e admiro a beleza da mulher asiática e toda essa delicadeza e educação delas, são belíssimas e nesse vídeo estou vendo uma moça muito linda mostrando sua rotina.
ㅠㅠ deve ter sido uma escolha muito dificil como uma estudante do ensino médio
omg it is actually so heart breaking and sweet and the same time!!
친구분들의 편지와 선물이 아린님이 학교 생활을 얼마나 열심히 하셨는지 보여주는 것 같아요 저한테까지 감동이 전달 되는 느낌🥺 흑흑
와 이분은 인생전체를 진짜 분위기 있게 사시는구나.. 진짜 너무 부러움..
I saw u for the first time and HOW CAN SOMEONE BE SOOO PRETTY AND BEAUTIFUL ✨✨✨
자고 일어났더니 화장이 깔끔하게 되어있는 모습 참 곱네요
I'm proud of you! It always makes me happy to see other people making decisions that are right for themselves. Life's too short and too hard to listen to everything everyone thinks is right. I hope your path is filled with just as good memories moving forward.
❤️💜💚
ive listened to others my entire life and it got me nowhere and ruined my life
@@ercushkakulmetov7458 i hope you're ok now
이 영상으로 아린님을 처음 뵙지만 한마음으로는 친구들과의 학교생활을 이제 져버리는 슬픔도 전해지고 했지만 한편으로는 후련하다는 힐링도 느끼고 되게 좋네요 아린님이 하고싶은 일이 있다는게 있어서 그것을 도전하기 위해 자퇴를하는거 정말 대단하고 존경스러워요 저도 아린님의 앞으로의 원하는 일을 하는것에 대해 응원할께요! 앞으로도 좋은 일만 있으세요!!
살이 찐 것 때문에 고민되신다면
"해인감비환"을 챙겨 드셔 보세요.
식욕 조절이 되니까 야식도
멀리 하게 되고 뱃살도 들어가는 것이 보여서
몸매 라인이 살아나더라고요.
분위기가 너무 좋다
나도 눈물이 나네... ㅜ 아린님 꽃길만 걸어요 ! 아직 너무너무 젊고 한창이니까 여유롭게 자신을 돌아보면서 하고 싶고 해내고 싶은 일 이루면서 살아가면 되니까요 :D
우연히 알고리즘 떠서 봤는데 와.. 감성 대박이에요ㅠㅠ 앞으로도 하는일 다 잘되셨으면 좋겠어요 응원할께요 👊
7:16 이거 배쓰밤이 아니고 버블바라 물 다 받아놓고 넣으면 안녹아요 ㅠㅠ 물 틀면서 갖다대고 뿌시면서 녹여야함
You are so pretty, school days are the best days we live... enjoy all your friends, you will miss them
예전에는 학교폭력을 당해서 불가피하게, 또는 반대로 학교를 다니기 싫어서 반항심에 자퇴를 하는 경우가 많았던 것 같은데 요즘에는 자기의 꿈을위해 큰 결심을 하는 어린 친구들도 많아진 것 같아요~ 어떤 꿈을 위해 어려운 결정을 한지 모르겠지만 응원해요 아린님^^
This person dropped out of college because he simply couldn't get into college😊
이렇게 이쁘고 학교에서의 마지막 추억 남기는 영상에서 몇 댓글들 정말 눈쌀 찌푸려져서 남기는데 요즘 세상에도 자퇴에 대한 인식이 정말 바닥이라는게 느껴지네요. 아린님이 어떤 진로를 꿈꾸고 열심히 노력하고 추후 계획은 어떻게 되는지 알지도 못하고 알 필요도 없는 주제에 굳이 말도 안되는 걸로 여기서 친히 욕지거리 해대는 당신네들 인생보다 아린님 인생이 훨씬 잘나보이는데 지들이 뭐라고 꼰대짓을 하세요. 아린님이 자퇴를 할 명분과 계획이 명확하시고 올바르시니까 주변 어른들도 이해하고 할 수 있도록 추진해주셨겠죠 안그래요? 응원만 하세요 굳이 남의 인생에 감놔라 배놔라 초치지 마세요
😅😅😅Someone who can't even go to college. You told me she had a great life? Are you kidding? Then don't go to college either😊
@@user-wn5zz4st3e WTF Stop talking nonsense and get the hell out😊
@@user-wn5zz4st3e 넎눊 병싢읺닪^^
You'll be okay. 😊
Just trust in the process.
制服可愛すぎない、、、？？お顔が可愛いから似合うし。通信とかのなんちゃって制服みたい
공주가 분명해 ㅠㅠ 하고자 하는 꿈을 향해 달려가는 거 정말 멋져요
0:50 - 평범한 사회인의 아침st
2:30 - 연예인st 패션
3:14 - 흔한 직장인의 출근길st
5:10 - 평범하고 귀여운 고등학생들
6:12 - 잘 꾸미고 노는 학생들
6:25 - 평범헌 고등학생들의 수다 + 영상편지
7:15 - 갑분 풀빌라st
8:12 - 똑띠하고 성숙한 학생의 깔끔한 마무리
멋져용!😁
머리는 별처럼 빛나고 아름다워 🌌✨
i also dropped out from my past collage. and i no regret bcs like you, no bcs lazy or the hard of school, it bcs we have the way, we have our own way. i love you arin
진짜 이 영상 분위기가 너무 좋아요.. 정말 몇 번을 본 지 모르겠어요 막 다른 브이로그 보다가도 생각나서 자주 찾아와요 진짜 아린님만의 차분한 분위기와 전체적인 무드, 교복, 얼굴 분위기 모든 게 맞물려서 구냥 레전드네요..🫶🏻🫧
혹시 아린님 평소 플레이리스트 소개하는 영상 올리실 계획 있으신가요..? 아린님 플리 너무 궁금해요
헐퀴 교복이 익숙해서 보니까 제 동네쪽。。! 보다가 넘 싱기해서 댓글 달아요..💗자퇴라는 결심을 하기까지 얼마나 큰 용기가 필요했을지 상상이 안가요🥺 넘 멋지고 응원합니다!!🍀
라틴 유튜버들조차 이 기술이 한국에서 온 걸 왜 몰랐을까 🇰🇷✨