@McZidanne Looks like you didn't get what I was trying to say. My message was for people that chase women all the time, while their life is shit. I'm 21, single, and after many years of chasing women I realized that life is not all about getting a woman and getting married. I started to focus at finding myself and to start to learn new skills that will become useful in the near future.
@@viking7142 If ur talking about urself, im sorry for u. However, in my opinion, vitiligo if used correctly and with a good enough attitude can actually be perceived as hot these days cuz of all the change and weird stuff going on making everything normal or interesting
thoughty2: have extremely large breasts. me: well well well, time to *shine* Thoughty2: this one is definitely if ur female also me: *looks of disappointment*
The trick is to get on the stage and also make eye contact whilst playing something. I remember playing Hoochie Coochie man by Muddy Waters which has the the line ''I wanna mess with you.'' and when I got to that line I looked straight into her eyes. it worked.
Points Summarized: 1. Be Confident, but vulnerable. 2. Make eye contact. 3. On a first date, go somewhere warm and let yourself be embarrassed 4. Make small physical contact (e.g. forearm) 5. Don't act desperate. 6. Try to ask Arthur Aron's 36 Questions. 7. Try to be the best you Be funny; have a good social life; connect with your partner; be assertive; smile; be kind; have a nice living space; dress well; lose weight Males: have a dog; be a musician; have survivalist-like hobbies Females: Wear red 8. Understand your own insecurities
Mr Arron, You deserve a special prize from UA-cam for your truly uplifting and encouraging delivery about the most complex aspect of humanhood: the relationship. As quick contibute: some specialist psychological studies have proven that many cognitive functions, to be accomplished successfully, require the complementarity of two differently oriented minds, of a male/female attitude. Mostly because of the different thresholds in understanding of the pathways that, starting with needs, feelings, emotions - then translate into spoken words. The same phrase, listened by a male and a female, can give way to very different understanding, which a loving couple can fuse into a truly mirable comprension of underlying facts. BTW I don't know of any really good textbook about differential phsicology. Socrates famously stated "Gnosce te ipsum", know yourself - first. Incredibly, only a minority of people does it, because it is the most daunting task the human mind is called to exercise over itself. Other studies and some fiction (The Harvard Professor) shows that the most successful person have the ability of removing themself completely from their deliveries or observations, leading to most impressive results. A layperson is able to "cancel" themselves from their mental activities for a period of 5 to 12 milliseconds; a great orator, demagogue, minister, scientist or phylosopher can achieve a period of "Self - AWOL" above 5 full SECONDS; in that lapse of time, some fantastic and true images, situations, and convincing others became the pinnacle of human communication, typical of the most successful politicians, leaders, and groundbreaking science; I mention Copernicus, Maxwell, Newton, Dirac, Fermi, Einstein, Lise Meitner. To achieve their discoveries, the grade and the length of total mental abstraction has been somewhat un-natural, of a genius nested into another genius. I believe that the dynamics of relationship should be a matter of study starting in elementary schools. "Gnosce te ipsum" would give every person the knowledge of if they are a grain of sand, a pebble, a brick or a meteor, and how a person could act upon themselves to live in harmony. Thank you again for the inspiring video.
@@jessicaaprilshepherd5954 friends or online, how did you hear about this hobby? Through a friend or family member or perhaps you read an article online that said it would change your world...
I have to say, I can personally attest to the truth behind all this. Throughout my dating life I have practiced eye contact, confidence and openness to being vulnerable and it has repeatedly given me the power to attract almost any woman I desired (and quite a few I did not. LOL). That being said, after years of discovering that long term relationships come with many strings attached, I have chosen to simplify my life and back away from romance and I am now am very content being single and enjoying my cat and ice cream in my later years. :-).
Yes I’m sure all his content comes from him personally organically...and he has no team of people compiling interesting information, because that would make too much sense.
Yes and I'm sure that OP meant to minimize the efforts of tens of people...and he has no idea about the process of making a video for someone whose literal identity is Thoughty2, because only thanking the production crew makes far too much sense.
Travis lol I know when I get two replies that I really touched a nerve. 42(how he pronounces his name every video) is alright, but he’s propped up, and not terrible accurate. I enjoy his stories as much as your passionate reply to my low key call out of your naivety to how 42 operates.
Thoughty: Just invest in a dog and let him do the seducing for you Me, a person who is allergic to dogs and really wants a big cute doggo: What a great idea, why didn't I think of that?
You should get a type of schnauzer. They're my favorite dog breed and also happen to be hypoallergenic. There are mini schnauzers, standard schnauzers, and giant schnauzers.
Just to throw an exception into the statistics, my wife and I met in an AOL chat room in 1994, discovered we lived 160 miles apart, long-distance dated a while. Moved in together and got married. We moved from the US to Mexico a year ago to retire. We'll have our 26 year anniversary this October. Some things just work out despite the odds.
Hope you two are doing great! Congratulations to you both. That's a great story. I wonder how many people watching this have actually used an AOL chat room lol.
@ Mr Trump,id say that was beautiful odds.Like the previous commenters i do hope you’re both in grand shape and here’s to many more wonderful years my friend.🤍 Stay happy with life guys 🌹
I thought more of: no! you´re gonna marry your cousin Jaspreet... (arranged marriages, including distant relatives, are very common among Hindus and Muslims)
So much great detail in one video. Definitely worth watching every minute. However if you want to get back to something that was particularly interesting to you, here you go: Minute 11:53 A series of questions which helps develop intimacy starts here. Min 13:45 things you can do to make yourself more attractive.
Your style presentation is your strong suit, and this video is a perfect example. Keep doing what you do--this video was excellent despite the topic that has been addressed in countless other videos!
Creepy actually love and romance should be natural. Not calculated and strategized... Anyone seriously watching this hoping to learn how to manipulate someone into loving them has problems.
@@heyokawanderer3185 Many things come with experience but some people, especially due to insecurities, never get to make enough experience. It's not less valid if you know the mechanisms behind trough reading instead of trial and error, it still has to be applied. This is not manipulation, you are not manipulating if you do things (say dress well, touch, look in the eyes, talk about deeper things) to appear more attractive, we all do it hopefully. There are manipulation techniques but this is not the case
you meant to say, "as a socially awkward and socially anxious person"? cause I, for one, am also an introvert and I see nothing in this video that wouldn't be doable
I think @no one was crystal clear. You either aren't an actual introvert or you just had to go ahead and make baseless criticism to make yourself superior. Socializing requires high energy for an introvert. It doesn't matter if one is confident, insecure, has social phobia or any of that stuff. Doing so requires stepping out of the comfort zone (their own mind). For lazy people getting up from couch to grab the remote is a nuisance, that's not to imply lazy people are insecure about getting up. They'd rather not do it, is all. That conclusion was so shallow.
Wait so hold, Romeo and Juliet was based upon the real life love affair of Cleopatra and Marc Anthony! 😯 Well I've definitely learned something from this video.
If you're open to the possibility, love will come to you. If you open up a little more, you'll love was always there, inside you. If you want love, and feel that your life is loveless, then you'll just keep getting no love. So, hold it within yourself first.
This is one of the few videos I see everyday that stick in my memory. Really I can’t stop watching. You are better than documentaries. You are better than nature shows.
I’m relieved that this video is making me feel better. I’m newly single. I’m definitely feeling awesome about my decision to invest in myself and rely on myself for the first time in years.
Straight up did half of this shit with my girlfriend when we first started dating. Spit sushi at her on our second date and basically embarrassed myself constantly. Plus tons of eye contact and confidence. More in love with her now than ever ❤❤❤
This man has to be my favorite youtuber for a few reasons One he makes incredibly informative videos Two he makes them hilarious and enjoyable to watch three we have the same name so that’s pretty cool And much more keep making great content 42!
Honestly the short game I’m fine, long game though is where I struggle. That’s why I used to stop dating a year in. You know the “you changed!” thing? I got the opposite issue. I’m the same person I was at the start. No one ever takes me seriously early on into dating but If the relationship goes on for a couple years they get it. The things they laughed at me for saying caused my relationship issues they finally get. I have looked the same since high school and I like how I look so I keep it up. I’m a goof ball who likes to make you smile and difficult things make me uncomfortable so I try to make light of it in order to elevate the mood. I’m so confident I can make you doubt yourself no matter how much I try to tell you you are amazing. My current girlfriend and I have lived together and been together for 4 years and only started having issues recently because I’m the same person she fell in love with. She still loves me and I’m still her best friend. Still together too. Loves our life and loving with me. No clue what to do lol so a video like this just tells me why I’m good at the first part and makes me think some people think if they get past that they are golden. I’m here to say I honestly think part 1 is easy. I think keeping them interested is what’s hard. So best of luck everyone. It’s not an easy road unless you settle
Its all in the eyes !! ... TRUTH ! I wrote this before he talked about it I should know ..been married three times ! I never ever worried about any man if I could or couldn't attract them ..I always knew that trick !!
Oddly enough I got to a point rather early in life where I didn't want to be in a relationship. I didn't want attention or to be "hit on". It yielded the opposite result.
@Pratyush Kishore Oh no I agree, it’s just sometimes I do it accidentally and it gets akward but I do like the fact that I can make others laugh, a little laugh does go a long way
I feel it comes down to how compatable we are with someone on all levels Like I know for a fact physical compatibility is easy and common but everything else comes down to knowing each other by going on dates
Or learn to communicate without a meme or jargon and maybe someone finds common ground to actually talk to you? Without you reverting to some 'pose' or other affected behavior type? If you even know how to do that I mean.
Society is far from collapse. And even if it did, people who know how to form IRL, not just online, relationships and relate to others, hold an actual in-person conversation, etc, are who would survive. So if that's your worry, put on your mask and find real people to hang out with in-person, just stay 6' apart. :D
@@AP-yx1mm A Simp is a man who lowers himself to be abused, disrespected and shamed by a woman in hopes he gets Liked. He also will often come to defend the shitty actions of said woman and become a yes man to her to try and 'impress her' and maybe get liked. Its basically a man with no self respect for himself or his gender.
Falling in love and staying in love are very diferent thought. The same things that make you fall in love, can later on be the reason to fall out of it. That feeling of love you feel at first is less the result of the person's actions, and more of your own craving for the sweet chemicals your brain releases during it, so you are prone to make yourself eager to develop that person's personality and traits in your mind, creating an image you will most certainly love, but will be diferent from what the person actually is like.
This comment makes zero sense.. If it's just a craving for chemicals won't we be able to direct it at anyone regardless of who they are? Obviously the chemicals are incited by that particular person for a reason? However, I think you get it the other way around. It's not that we develop thr person personality we fell in love with in our heads , it's that when we are newly attracted it feels si good we ignored the other person's faults. However, people usually don't act completely like themsleves when they are dating someone new than when they do have been years with someone, so that also is another factor why it's easy to overlook faults initially. .
@@farahjichi4617 maybe, but you can direct it at anyone at all. First, you look for the good things about them, then take whatever you don’t like, and justify it in your head until it either becomes a good thing, or a sad thing which you will pity until it becomes “the beauty behind an ugly thing”. The mind is impressively easy to trick, if you know how to. And yes, I tried that. I still understood that my feelings were fabricated, but the part responsible for chemicals was fooled. Then there is also the “you want what you can’t have” method when you find yourself desperately wanting someone for a reason you never gave yourself. But that is used by the other person.
Yeah... Relationship is an effort after all. I have my type, I think, but Good luck finding that type of woman. Especially if part of it is intelligence and I'm far from it.
What happens if you have all 4 attachment styles but it's dependent on the relationship? Like, you are secure in one and then in the next you are needy, in another you are dismissive, and in yet another you are avoidant and bug out?
i have had a few relationships but i dont feel anything at all for anything i have never feel happy, angry, sad,etc so most off you are lucy and know what anger or being happy feels like i dont and makes having a relationships very difficult i would give an arm and leg just to feel anything even for just 10 mins
Me : Why am I watching this I'm in a committed relationship... Also Me : aahhh...nevermind.. *I'm* *watching* *this* *18* *minutes* *later* Also me again : *deletes* *UA-cam* *watch* *history*
I am a very shy kind of Indian guy.... I never had any female friends (till 13 yo in school) boys were in a section and girls were in another section... we all hated each others section but me and my bois got transfered to girls section because of our good academics and is directly proportional to good student-teacher relationship... before we were like always yelling playing fighting with other factions in our previous section... after the transfer we were silent af and always sleepy... after a while we made many female friends because we were all sarcastic dudes with big brains... I was an introvert obviously... I started liking another girl, used to chat everyday, sit in back or front benches(not in the same bench coz Indian schools)(Fun fact: We in early days, were given punishment by teachers(mainly female) to sit beside girls) One night me and the bois went to home of several girls(they told us we were welcomed at anytime so) our playboy encouraged us to bring some copies...(we were 15yo) I only visited my crushes' home twice with a deep-breath(she had her result in my copy so to return back... it was awkward she was sleeping in the evening ) I told her online that I like her(which is equal to I love you in India) she also said the same to me... I was very much happy soon proposed her too and she accepted it... I didn't wanted this to out in public and told her to do so because of the embarrassment(only my two friends were in a relationship) that the class will give and teacher might punish us or call our guardians... she arrived but still she told her friends about me Their friends told 'I thought you were innocent boy and you don't like to be in a relationship so early, how do you propose her, give me some advice.. blah blah and soon whole class knew about us... they'd always scrutinize me and smile while nodding whenever I was talking to her... I felt embarrassed and awkward inside so I just started distancing myself asked her why did you tell your friend the whole class now know about it... then just small talks then in next year she went to a distant city... TLDR; (Context -Indian schools and *society* are trash... girl and guy could sit together ,no open relationships, classmates scrutinize couples and smile while nods like creeps, treats differently from others and tries to mock) I'm introvert shy I was in boy section, got transferred to girl' made female friends Proposed my crush she accepted it She promised not to tell anyone not even our friends... She broke it told her friends and soon everyone knew Classmates started mocking like dicks... I was embarrassed and felt awkward af She also wanted it to be open but I was a jackass(15years old me) so distant myself from her now small talks online She left the town next year, I felt sad and guilt for not continuing the relationship... ............................................................................................................X......................................................................................................... The society is dick here everybody acts like it's a sin to have a relationship... we always think what will the world or society think of me... Its a taboo to be in a relationship.. society will carefully scrutinize if a guy and girl is together in streets in India... because of this pressure I distant myself and closed my relationship with my ex... . . Now still single xD _ #sedsinglelyf _
I came here to make a girl fall in love with me but now I've become a historian. Thank you Thoughty2.
Ja ha
Same thoughts lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You're in luck! I love historians!
Did it work
Its quite simple:
Be a protagonist in a Netflix teen romcom, no matter how manipulative, sociopathic, plain or unsympathetic you are.
Yup, you'll bag everyone that way!
Twisted on ABC worked pretty good. Awesome show. With avan jogia. 😂
true
Don't do that...
Don't give me hope
Edit: thank you for 3k likes I love you all
Too real man, too real
"You cannot kill hope" To quote Varok Saurfang ;)
Just focus on yourself and stop chasing women. Simple as that.
I hope this is just a funny ironic comment, but you know context and the such.
@McZidanne Looks like you didn't get what I was trying to say. My message was for people that chase women all the time, while their life is shit. I'm 21, single, and after many years of chasing women I realized that life is not all about getting a woman and getting married. I started to focus at finding myself and to start to learn new skills that will become useful in the near future.
If embarrassing yourself makes you attractive then I am the most attractive guy in the world.
My new religion right there
It’s how you react to embarrassment that matters. If you’re truly, truly not ashamed, you look great.
Ladies ladies calm down one at a time
Tiny mushrooms are soooo cute!0)))
Me too
The worst combination is being scared of getting hurt AND lack of self confidence, because then you get nothing. Absolutely nothing.
No, the worst combination is having being abused as a child plus having the skin condition called vitiligo. Life on a hell mode ftw
Welp, that's me.
@@viking7142 Yeah, that's pretty bad, man.
Come on, stop being so negative... It all matters on the other person as well 😉.
@@viking7142 If ur talking about urself, im sorry for u. However, in my opinion, vitiligo if used correctly and with a good enough attitude can actually be perceived as hot these days cuz of all the change and weird stuff going on making everything normal or interesting
“purposefully embarrass yourself on the first date” trust me buddy i don’t have so do it on purpose
edit: my bols is hot
Lmao, true
lol Jamess. Me too.
Not liking so it can stay at 369*
So here are attractive guys.
The hard part is to STOP embarrassing myself😂
"Falling in love that is, not suicide"
'Puts the gun down'
I'm glad you cleared that up
😂😂😂😂😂😂LMAO
Crush: I don't know why but I've been thinking about you lately
Me lately:
Hahahaha good one!
Crevetta Shrek is love. Shrek is life
Go for the back rub. Shirt gets in the way, break out the oil, bra gets in the way....the rest is history. Works every time.
@@p_campbell no shit. really?
@@Tryckert except shrek the third. That movie doesn't exist
“Especially if your usual self is a sack of shit” I’m crying 😂
I would say that his comment hurt a lot of people, but those people tend to not be self aware.
This
hahahahaha...
girl: "let's have a staring contest!"
me: "it's show time"
girl: "AHHH MY EYES"
I win this, sleep with eyes open!🤣
Thoughty2: “however there are some benefits”
Person: *slowly turns to knife*
Thoughty2: “love not suicide!”
*Looks at noose longingly* perhaps next time old friend
*puts gun back in the closet*
Its the answer they say. *5 minutes pass* "Love, not suicide"
Lmfaooo
*takes shotgun out of mouth*
thoughty2: have extremely large breasts.
me: well well well, time to *shine*
Thoughty2: this one is definitely if ur female
also me: *looks of disappointment*
lmaoo I get it
manboobs
I felt the same when he suggested "smiling"...ha!
😂😂😂😂
Had us in the first half, not gonna lie
I got really excited when he said," and definitely have large breasts" . Then he said I have to be a woman 😢
🤣🤡
Ha ha
😂😂😂
Nah, I like A cup girls
He had us in the first half not gonna lie
"You want the closeness but too afraid of the vulnerability that comes with it"
Damn it
Meanwhile I am here like "nah... thats not it, I just like being lazy, and that shit is not attractive!" 🤣
"Become a musician"
Me playing piano and guitar for almost a 10 years ; 🤔
Can confirm that’s attractive, time to start reevaluating other avenues
The trick is to get on the stage and also make eye contact whilst playing something. I remember playing Hoochie Coochie man by Muddy Waters which has the the line ''I wanna mess with you.'' and when I got to that line I looked straight into her eyes. it worked.
This works
I hAvE bEeN pLaYiNg pIaNo AnD gUiTaR fOr TeN yEaRs...
Ariel Castro played the guitar but he got girls by abducting them.
ah yes 5 years later of searching "how to ask out my crush" we are back to this
Step one: ask out your crush
Step two: crying at the discotheque.
Ask
Be chill if she says no
Your true colors will show
If they choose you they're right for you
If not you weren't for each other
@@thijsjong ,Step Two is get rejected then starts to cry
Xeno Phon As the saying goes “If I had a dollar for every time I have been rejected, I wouldn’t be rejected”
Hugh mungus is the sexist man alive. He can seduce even the biggest of mammals!!!
Points Summarized:
1. Be Confident, but vulnerable.
2. Make eye contact.
3. On a first date, go somewhere warm and let yourself be embarrassed
4. Make small physical contact (e.g. forearm)
5. Don't act desperate.
6. Try to ask Arthur Aron's 36 Questions.
7. Try to be the best you
Be funny; have a good social life; connect with your partner; be assertive; smile; be kind; have a nice living space; dress well; lose weight
Males: have a dog; be a musician; have survivalist-like hobbies
Females: Wear red
8. Understand your own insecurities
bro with the prices of gas there are no warm places.
@@evilmemelord7535 😂
And if you're a woman have big breasts!😄
Don't forget have big boobs
All jokes aside, his mustache probably attracts a lot of women. He's got it well groomed and stuff.
By God, you and all your clones or whatever the crap are everywhere. I'll find everyone of your comments, I swear if it's the last thing I do.
*clears throat* THIS DUDE IS IN EVERY DAMN VIDEO I WATCH!!!
hi lol
Ahh the legend has spoken once more... this video is now blessed.!
Sounds like something a guy without a mustache would say.... oh.
"When your personality is sack of shit" "cats and ice cream" man... its all me 😃
keep ur cat away from my parrot.
Mr Arron,
You deserve a special prize from UA-cam for your truly uplifting and encouraging delivery about the most complex aspect of humanhood: the relationship.
As quick contibute: some specialist psychological studies have proven that many cognitive functions, to be accomplished successfully, require the complementarity of two differently oriented minds, of a male/female attitude. Mostly because of the different thresholds in understanding of the pathways that, starting with needs, feelings, emotions - then translate into spoken words. The same phrase, listened by a male and a female, can give way to very different understanding, which a loving couple can fuse into a truly mirable comprension of underlying facts. BTW I don't know of any really good textbook about differential phsicology.
Socrates famously stated "Gnosce te ipsum", know yourself - first. Incredibly, only a minority of people does it, because it is the most daunting task the human mind is called to exercise over itself. Other studies and some fiction (The Harvard Professor) shows that the most successful person have the ability of removing themself completely from their deliveries or observations, leading to most impressive results. A layperson is able to "cancel" themselves from their mental activities for a period of 5 to 12 milliseconds; a great orator, demagogue, minister, scientist or phylosopher can achieve a period of "Self - AWOL" above 5 full SECONDS; in that lapse of time, some fantastic and true images, situations, and convincing others became the pinnacle of human communication, typical of the most successful politicians, leaders, and groundbreaking science; I mention Copernicus, Maxwell, Newton, Dirac, Fermi, Einstein, Lise Meitner. To achieve their discoveries, the grade and the length of total mental abstraction has been somewhat un-natural, of a genius nested into another genius.
I believe that the dynamics of relationship should be a matter of study starting in elementary schools. "Gnosce te ipsum" would give every person the knowledge of if they are a grain of sand, a pebble, a brick or a meteor, and how a person could act upon themselves to live in harmony.
Thank you again for the inspiring video.
4:38
39% of lovers meet online
27% at bars
20% friends
11% at work
9% in education
and 7% in Alabama
r/HolUp
@@holo6883 r/ihavereddit
i met my husband in an improv/theater group. it's a hobby. In what category does that fit in?
@@jessicaaprilshepherd5954 probably friends or work.
@@jessicaaprilshepherd5954 friends or online, how did you hear about this hobby? Through a friend or family member or perhaps you read an article online that said it would change your world...
Can’t describe how much I rate the effort and time you put into every video you make, and how often you post👌
Here here
It truly is incredible.
It’s an art form
Nah he's already become a natural over the years. I don't think he put in much effort at all.
Stfu its his job
I usually dont buy into these kinda things but when it's my boy 42 I'll buy it.
I'm here to inform you I'm the 69th like on this comment.
@@SurprisinglyDynamicAnimeSideC Gureto desu yo
lol, my thoughts exactly
heyyy 42 here
See what you did there
I 40 it was fouseytube
Lol UA-cam be like: “You’re so bad at it that I need to recommend you a video demonstrating how to get someone to love you.”
*That was a great burn*
69 likes:)
Damn
I have to say, I can personally attest to the truth behind all this. Throughout my dating life I have practiced eye contact, confidence and openness to being vulnerable and it has repeatedly given me the power to attract almost any woman I desired (and quite a few I did not. LOL). That being said, after years of discovering that long term relationships come with many strings attached, I have chosen to simplify my life and back away from romance and I am now am very content being single and enjoying my cat and ice cream in my later years. :-).
Can we all take a moment to appreciate Thoughty2's constant flow of high quality videos?
He deserves much appreciation!
Yes I’m sure all his content comes from him personally organically...and he has no team of people compiling interesting information, because that would make too much sense.
Yes and I'm sure that OP meant to minimize the efforts of tens of people...and he has no idea about the process of making a video for someone whose literal identity is Thoughty2, because only thanking the production crew makes far too much sense.
@@iBMcFly Go away, and try not to trivialize any more kind comments, yeah?
The flow is constant alright, but the quality varies greatly.
Travis lol I know when I get two replies that I really touched a nerve. 42(how he pronounces his name every video) is alright, but he’s propped up, and not terrible accurate.
I enjoy his stories as much as your passionate reply to my low key call out of your naivety to how 42 operates.
People meet there partners by 7% through family
*Let me guess, Alabama*
cousins 2nd above. It's ok
Kentucky
their*
Hi oh yeah yeah guys
Geschichten ausm Saarland...
Especially if your usual self is a sack of $hit hahahahahha, I'm crying 6:50
Brutal,
*Reports video:*
‘I have been mentioned in this video, and I don’t like it’
I thought he was talking directly to me there. Thoughty really knows how to connect with his youtube audience
@@lukechandra6233 on god
Thoughty: Just invest in a dog and let him do the seducing for you
Me, a person who is allergic to dogs and really wants a big cute doggo: What a great idea, why didn't I think of that?
You should get a type of schnauzer. They're my favorite dog breed and also happen to be hypoallergenic. There are mini schnauzers, standard schnauzers, and giant schnauzers.
well,what avout a kitty?
@@loneneotank.5687 Sure, If he wants to get himself a crazy cat lady
"...You'll be resigned to a life of cats & ice cream."
I'm in.
Cats...check. BRB. Gotta run to the grocery store....
Just to throw an exception into the statistics, my wife and I met in an AOL chat room in 1994, discovered we lived 160 miles apart, long-distance dated a while. Moved in together and got married. We moved from the US to Mexico a year ago to retire. We'll have our 26 year anniversary this October. Some things just work out despite the odds.
What a nice story you can be very happy
I Hope you're doing well.
ThAts so sweet
Hope you two are doing great! Congratulations to you both. That's a great story. I wonder how many people watching this have actually used an AOL chat room lol.
@ Mr Trump,id say that was beautiful odds.Like the previous commenters i do hope you’re both in grand shape and here’s to many more wonderful years my friend.🤍
Stay happy with life guys 🌹
Of course Thoughty2 never needed to employ these techniques because his mustache does all the heavy lifting.
He hasn't had it for so long xd
He looks better without it to be honest.
The mustache is what got Miss current Thoughty 2
LosTacos get that man a beard
@@oilersridersbluejays splish splash your opinion is trash
Thoughty2 is my personal tinder advisor 😜
Eric J bro how did you comment an hour ago
Video was privated?
Anonymous 27 We are Members we get early access and other things.
Anonymous 27
Oh oh oh it’s magic...
Imagine searching for love in tinder lol.
This is honestly one of the most legit videos on relations and love that ive watched. Damn you're good thoughty2
"And 7% through family"
I've seen that one...
Sweet home Alabama
Read is good De waterkant Oh yeah
7% of love through family
*ALABAMA INTENSIFIES*
Roll tide
I thought more of: no! you´re gonna marry your cousin Jaspreet...
(arranged marriages, including distant relatives, are very common among Hindus and Muslims)
😂😂😂😭😭
Stolen comment
@Nikhil Pawar I know one Hindu and several Muslims where it happened and some have genetic defects because of it...
Girl: "Who do you go to for advice about love?"
Me, an intellectual: "Thoughty2, obviously."
Makes sense to me
@Ben Dover you must be fun at parties
Nah 42 is better, its the answer after all.
@J C What the hell is a ReichWing? It looks as if you are trying to say he is a very wealthy pig with wings.
Ben Dover he says 42 at the beginning of every video
9:57 "another sneaky brain trick is to purposely embarrass yourself on the first date"
oh don't worry, I wont have to do it on purpose
So much great detail in one video. Definitely worth watching every minute. However if you want to get back to something that was particularly interesting to you, here you go:
Minute 11:53 A series of questions which helps develop intimacy starts here.
Min 13:45 things you can do to make yourself more attractive.
Your style presentation is your strong suit, and this video is a perfect example. Keep doing what you do--this video was excellent despite the topic that has been addressed in countless other videos!
Them: "So.. where do you see yourself later tonight ;)?"
Me who knows nothing about flirting: *"hopefully with a large bowl of cereal! You?"*
Honesty *ding 1 point*
Who tf eats cereal at night
Ron Loc cereal tastes better at night
Ron Loc lots of people,you freak
honesty id find that responce kinda cute
I love how the girl at 5:12 answered to a "hey, are we still on for later?" with a heart.
Hey mom, can you buy some cereal?
Mom:🤪
It's sad that people have to deliberately use psychology to get a partner, with that being said... Time to watch!
Well ya know all animals do it, mating dances, also known as flexing by humans
Creepy actually love and romance should be natural. Not calculated and strategized... Anyone seriously watching this hoping to learn how to manipulate someone into loving them has problems.
42 likes lol
Omg 🤦🏼♂️😂
@@heyokawanderer3185 Many things come with experience but some people, especially due to insecurities, never get to make enough experience.
It's not less valid if you know the mechanisms behind trough reading instead of trial and error, it still has to be applied.
This is not manipulation, you are not manipulating if you do things (say dress well, touch, look in the eyes, talk about deeper things) to appear more attractive, we all do it hopefully.
There are manipulation techniques but this is not the case
As an introvert, that whole video sounds like a joke to me
you meant to say, "as a socially awkward and socially anxious person"? cause I, for one, am also an introvert and I see nothing in this video that wouldn't be doable
@@nannuky1128 I've never said it wasn't doable
@@noone-tq7cs what do you even mean then?
I think @no one was crystal clear. You either aren't an actual introvert or you just had to go ahead and make baseless criticism to make yourself superior.
Socializing requires high energy for an introvert. It doesn't matter if one is confident, insecure, has social phobia or any of that stuff. Doing so requires stepping out of the comfort zone (their own mind).
For lazy people getting up from couch to grab the remote is a nuisance, that's not to imply lazy people are insecure about getting up. They'd rather not do it, is all.
That conclusion was so shallow.
@@stonerawks9882 lmao, I didn't say it was easy, I said it was doable
Such a wholesome lad. I've appreciated this channel for a long time. Thanks for being here, bud.
„You killed me, and by killing me you made me stronger“
- Sephiroth
@@Ecktor You're out of luck, until you've gone duck.
-Howard.
If everything's a dream, don't wake me.
- cloud strife
"every 60 seconds in africa, a minute passes". random philosopher.
"Not interested"
- Cloud Strife
"I donut - ed jupiter" - sephiroth
Wait so hold, Romeo and Juliet was based upon the real life love affair of Cleopatra and Marc Anthony! 😯
Well I've definitely learned something from this video.
You know there was an extremelly well-known play by Shakespeare about Marc Anthony and Cleopatra, right?
impalaSS65 was it called Romeo and Juliet
@@shz603 Anthony and Cleopatra.
I thought the original story was about Pyramus and Thisbe
"to purposefully embarras yourself"
i don't even have to do this on purpose
"They're comfortable making themselves vulnerable..."
N O P E
Aight, am outta hereee
LOL, that will be most of us, too!
4:18 I'm glad he cleared that up for me
True love is when she stops trying to escape your basement
Relatable! :)
Well said
That's gold. The truth is sometimes not politically correct. Lol
Does this still count if she's dead? It does right?
Awww. Ain't stockholm just so romantic.
“Recommended for you”
*Me: try to make eye contact*
*She: screams.. Police! Police*
Plot twist: Your name is Police
@@nickname2324 idk man for some reason they mostly call me help or rape even tho my name is dave kinda strange
Thats just Dave but in another language.
NICKNAME 😂😂😂
sock 😂😂😂🤦🏻♀️
“Just be yourself. Terrible advice, I know. Especially if your regular self is a sack of shit.”
This. This is why I love this channel
Brave of you to assume i can make someone fall in love with me
Your hand will always love you
If you're open to the possibility, love will come to you. If you open up a little more, you'll love was always there, inside you. If you want love, and feel that your life is loveless, then you'll just keep getting no love. So, hold it within yourself first.
@@audreydoyle5268 so true
if you are a woman then its quite easy
@@Blox117 No, no it's not. And even when it happens, it's often not the person you want.
In a meeting,
Friends : Well, we invested in a multi million business project!How about you?
Me : I invested in a dog!
Benefits of suicide: Live longer
Oh, it's big brain time
Mr Cookie I think he meant the benefits of falling in love
@@natebit8130 naw mate, I think ur rong.
14:22
"And lastly, have incredibly large breasts" Kalm
"And this one's definitely if you're female" Panik
But what about butts?
Small and medium breast are fine too. You good fam
This is one of the few videos I see everyday that stick in my memory. Really I can’t stop watching. You are better than documentaries. You are better than nature shows.
I’m relieved that this video is making me feel better. I’m newly single. I’m definitely feeling awesome about my decision to invest in myself and rely on myself for the first time in years.
HAVE A MORE VIBRANT SOCIAL LIFE
*Shows isolated people standing with their phones*
Lol
Online Society be like.
Rule number 1: Be attractive.
Rule number 2: Don't be unattractive.
Rule 3: see rule 1
Instructions unclear, I’m now a dog
Damn
I'm a bot.
Rule #1 be attractive
Rule #2 have money
Rule #3 don't be unattractive ****
Honestly, the fact that physical proximity to someone is extremely important is something I long suspected living in the middle of nowhere.
bro thoughty2 i love your nonchalant comments man your funny keep it up
Straight up did half of this shit with my girlfriend when we first started dating. Spit sushi at her on our second date and basically embarrassed myself constantly. Plus tons of eye contact and confidence. More in love with her now than ever ❤❤❤
This man has to be my favorite youtuber for a few reasons
One he makes incredibly informative videos
Two he makes them hilarious and enjoyable to watch
three we have the same name so that’s pretty cool
And much more keep making great content 42!
DON'T WATCH THIS BEFORE YOU GO TO SLEEP!!! You will have a lot of thinking to do after that and won't be able to sleep.
Well I just finished it lmao
Happens every night so I'm gonna just keep trying to find the funny comments
To late bud
Oops...
I see you speak from experience 🥜
Honestly the short game I’m fine, long game though is where I struggle. That’s why I used to stop dating a year in. You know the “you changed!” thing? I got the opposite issue. I’m the same person I was at the start. No one ever takes me seriously early on into dating but If the relationship goes on for a couple years they get it. The things they laughed at me for saying caused my relationship issues they finally get. I have looked the same since high school and I like how I look so I keep it up. I’m a goof ball who likes to make you smile and difficult things make me uncomfortable so I try to make light of it in order to elevate the mood. I’m so confident I can make you doubt yourself no matter how much I try to tell you you are amazing. My current girlfriend and I have lived together and been together for 4 years and only started having issues recently because I’m the same person she fell in love with. She still loves me and I’m still her best friend. Still together too. Loves our life and loving with me. No clue what to do lol so a video like this just tells me why I’m good at the first part and makes me think some people think if they get past that they are golden. I’m here to say I honestly think part 1 is easy. I think keeping them interested is what’s hard. So best of luck everyone. It’s not an easy road unless you settle
Its all in the eyes !! ... TRUTH !
I wrote this before he talked about it
I should know ..been married three times ! I never ever worried about any man if I could or couldn't attract them ..I always knew that trick !!
Oddly enough I got to a point rather early in life where I didn't want to be in a relationship. I didn't want attention or to be "hit on". It yielded the opposite result.
When he listed things that makes people more likely to like you, I realized I have almost nothing lol
@Pratyush Kishore I do that a lot unintentionally at times😂
@Pratyush Kishore Oh no I agree, it’s just sometimes I do it accidentally and it gets akward but I do like the fact that I can make others laugh, a little laugh does go a long way
I feel it comes down to how compatable we are with someone on all levels
Like I know for a fact physical compatibility is easy and common but everything else comes down to knowing each other by going on dates
I get it you make them simp for you so you aren't a simp,this is revolutionary. You are truly a master of the craft
Or learn to communicate without a meme or jargon and maybe someone finds common ground to actually talk to you? Without you reverting to some 'pose' or other affected behavior type? If you even know how to do that I mean.
@@j.d.v2.09 you need to learn to take a joke
World : "society is on the brink of collapse
Thoty2 : "how to make someone fall in love with you"
It'll be useful in the apocalypse
Only thoughty2
we need someone to be with just before everything collapse
Society is far from collapse. And even if it did, people who know how to form IRL, not just online, relationships and relate to others, hold an actual in-person conversation, etc, are who would survive. So if that's your worry, put on your mask and find real people to hang out with in-person, just stay 6' apart. :D
*Thoty2*
*My Crush:* "He must be a playboy."
*Me:*
i mean its still better than ur crush NOT NOTICING YOU!
This is one of the most important and valuable videos I have ever seen on UA-cam.
Tom Sisson
Me:I want to fall in love
Thoughty2:Ah yes here's how you do it
Me:Without going outside the house
Thoughty2:...........
"How to make someone fall in love with you"
100k people: *interesting...*
As a simp this was an instaclick
not something to be proud of my man🤨
What's that?
@@AP-yx1mm A Simp is a man who lowers himself to be abused, disrespected and shamed by a woman in hopes he gets Liked. He also will often come to defend the shitty actions of said woman and become a yes man to her to try and 'impress her' and maybe get liked. Its basically a man with no self respect for himself or his gender.
Don't be one. Better to opt out of love and relationships than be a simp. Learn to be a Stoic instead.
Also watch Einzelganger.
Question: Is there a female equivalent for a SIMP?
Falling in love and staying in love are very diferent thought. The same things that make you fall in love, can later on be the reason to fall out of it. That feeling of love you feel at first is less the result of the person's actions, and more of your own craving for the sweet chemicals your brain releases during it, so you are prone to make yourself eager to develop that person's personality and traits in your mind, creating an image you will most certainly love, but will be diferent from what the person actually is like.
This comment makes zero sense.. If it's just a craving for chemicals won't we be able to direct it at anyone regardless of who they are? Obviously the chemicals are incited by that particular person for a reason? However, I think you get it the other way around. It's not that we develop thr person personality we fell in love with in our heads , it's that when we are newly attracted it feels si good we ignored the other person's faults. However, people usually don't act completely like themsleves when they are dating someone new than when they do have been years with someone, so that also is another factor why it's easy to overlook faults initially. .
@@farahjichi4617 maybe, but you can direct it at anyone at all. First, you look for the good things about them, then take whatever you don’t like, and justify it in your head until it either becomes a good thing, or a sad thing which you will pity until it becomes “the beauty behind an ugly thing”. The mind is impressively easy to trick, if you know how to. And yes, I tried that. I still understood that my feelings were fabricated, but the part responsible for chemicals was fooled. Then there is also the “you want what you can’t have” method when you find yourself desperately wanting someone for a reason you never gave yourself. But that is used by the other person.
Well, watching Arran's vids did the trick. He doesn't need to do anything else. The stash, blue eyes, humor and wit got me hooked.😍😅
How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You?
Answer: Heyyy Thoughty2 here.
Correct
Right
42
They won't be able to resist that godly noise
Thoughty2 is my favorite wing man.
winnie has spoken
you're the president of china do you even need a wing man?
Me: Dont do this
42: Do what?
Me: *..give me hope*
“Falling in love that is.. not suicide” got me off 🤣🤣
Moral of this Story: If you want a long, health relationship: Don't Piss off Octavian
Even the subtitles think you’re saying ”hey 42 here”
He is saying 42...., He mentioned it in his 100000 sub q and a video..
My lazy ass don't even leave house and wants someone to fall in love with me
Yeah... Relationship is an effort after all. I have my type, I think, but Good luck finding that type of woman. Especially if part of it is intelligence and I'm far from it.
Same lol
Yeah, might want to stay inside for just a little longer...
Lol
My lazy ass don't even leave house and wants *a gorgeous thin & cute 25 yo chick* to fall in love with me /fixed
Just grow that Thoughty mustache😂
Isn't it called a thoughtystache?
NO!!! IT'S A PEDO STACHE!!!!
It’s 3 things: confidence, understanding social cues and hygene . That’s all there is too it
To it.
What happens if you have all 4 attachment styles but it's dependent on the relationship? Like, you are secure in one and then in the next you are needy, in another you are dismissive, and in yet another you are avoidant and bug out?
How to make someone fall in love with you:
Be good looking.
Being good looking can only take you so far. A good, funny and genuine personality is probably more attractive to 90% of women anyway
@@immigratoclandestino6259 And yet we see so many wonderful people get into abusive relationships and stick with those people.
Actually Cleopatra wasn’t as pretty as people make her out to be, it was her personality that drew people to her. :)
@@PlaceholderDoe123 all those Kodak Instamatic photos got out?
@@thomasblock1164 You don't need a photo. Her image was on the coinage, which still exists. Her profile was truly awful.
I’m going to use everything I learned here to make Thoughty2 fall in love with me lol.
If you didn't succeed I'll give it shot as well 😅.
Seems like you have competition 🤣
Warning - This does not work if you are ugly af , I'm the living example
😢
Nobody's ugly everybody is attractive in their own way.
E X I L E D wrong. Trust me. I’ve been told to my face.
Just found this channel. Very interesting...Nice vid. New subbie!
i have had a few relationships but i dont feel anything at all for anything i have never feel happy, angry, sad,etc so most off you are lucy and know what anger or being happy feels like i dont and makes having a relationships very difficult i would give an arm and leg just to feel anything even for just 10 mins
Mario: MWHAHAHAHAH PEACH IS FINALLY MINEEEEE
Luigi walks in
Peach:swoons
Crimson wolf 😔
I’m sorry, the princess is in another castle.
Me : Why am I watching this I'm in a committed relationship...
Also Me : aahhh...nevermind.. *I'm* *watching* *this*
*18* *minutes* *later*
Also me again : *deletes* *UA-cam* *watch* *history*
Women way back then:puts up an entire circus to get a man
Men now: puts up entire life savings to acsess onlyfans
Simp
@@Kanal7Indonesia not willing to simp = 30 years old virgin
@@blublade6999 bruh a hooker costs ~$10
They have the tax man to steal our money directly now so they don't need us.
@@Kanal7Indonesia added 400$ for treatment of STIs
I am a very shy kind of Indian guy.... I never had any female friends (till 13 yo in school) boys were in a section and girls were in another section... we all hated each others section but me and my bois got transfered to girls section because of our good academics and is directly proportional to good student-teacher relationship... before we were like always yelling playing fighting with other factions in our previous section... after the transfer we were silent af and always sleepy... after a while we made many female friends because we were all sarcastic dudes with big brains... I was an introvert obviously...
I started liking another girl, used to chat everyday, sit in back or front benches(not in the same bench coz Indian schools)(Fun fact: We in early days, were given punishment by teachers(mainly female) to sit beside girls)
One night me and the bois went to home of several girls(they told us we were welcomed at anytime so) our playboy encouraged us to bring some copies...(we were 15yo)
I only visited my crushes' home twice with a deep-breath(she had her result in my copy so to return back... it was awkward she was sleeping in the evening )
I told her online that I like her(which is equal to I love you in India) she also said the same to me... I was very much happy soon proposed her too and she accepted it...
I didn't wanted this to out in public and told her to do so because of the embarrassment(only my two friends were in a relationship) that the class will give and teacher might punish us or call our guardians... she arrived but still she told her friends about me
Their friends told 'I thought you were innocent boy and you don't like to be in a relationship so early, how do you propose her, give me some advice.. blah blah and soon whole class knew about us... they'd always scrutinize me and smile while nodding whenever I was talking to her... I felt embarrassed and awkward inside so I just started distancing myself asked her why did you tell your friend the whole class now know about it... then just small talks then in next year she went to a distant city...
TLDR;
(Context -Indian schools and *society* are trash... girl and guy could sit together ,no open relationships, classmates scrutinize couples and smile while nods like creeps, treats differently from others and tries to mock)
I'm introvert shy
I was in boy section, got transferred to girl'
made female friends
Proposed my crush she accepted it
She promised not to tell anyone not even our friends...
She broke it told her friends and soon everyone knew
Classmates started mocking like dicks... I was embarrassed and felt awkward af
She also wanted it to be open but I was a jackass(15years old me) so distant myself from her now small talks online
She left the town next year, I felt sad and guilt for not continuing the relationship...
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The society is dick here everybody acts like it's a sin to have a relationship... we always think what will the world or society think of me... Its a taboo to be in a relationship.. society will carefully scrutinize if a guy and girl is together in streets in India... because of this pressure I distant myself and closed my relationship with my ex...
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Now still single xD _ #sedsinglelyf _
I don't need anybody in my life, I want somebody.