I talked to my parents about how unfair I think it is that we aren't taught about gender identity and expression in school at dinner today, and explained the differences between sexuality and gender to them (because so many people simply don't know that there is a difference at all), and then we watched this video and we all teared up together. You're so beautiful Chella, thank you for sharing ♥️
this was beautiful, i started crying halfway. This is so real and beautiful and i wish my parents were the same way. You are so lucky to have such a fantastic mom, thank you for sharing.
As a closet non binary person knowing that there are mothers like yours that actually exist gives me so much hope. Thank you, to both you and her for sharing such powerful stories. I can't even put into words how powerful this video was for me. For the few minutes I was watching this, everything felt possible.
@@zjuriel7510 non-binary person/people (sorry im from the baguette contry english is hard) identifies as neither a boy or a girl or both or anything that is not completly girl/boy on the gender spectrum. I encourage you to do some research its verry interesting and its a subject that is not talked enought. Peoples assume tjat theres only girl and boys bot no some peoples are NB
@@keiyhval6872 OOOOOOOOOOH. Thank you for taking the time to answer my question and putting some light on this community for me and I assure you that I will study more about this community.
Her expression of everything really made me cry. Her expressing how she loves you in any way that you would come hit me like a ton of bricks and I started crying. By the end of this video I was in tears. I truly wish my mom would accept this from me. When I came out in 2014 she shrugged it off and didn’t take it seriously and ever since then I not once brought it up because I found it to be no use. I’m still trying to accept that myself, or at least be the person my mom wants me to be but also have the real side of myself as somewhere safe to be, even if she won’t accept it. I wish she would, and I wish she would have taken me seriously, because I haven’t changed from knowing that I’m indeed trans male. Videos like these give me some form of hope and emotional support that I don’t necessarily have. It’s sweet and touching.
What a beautiful video. What an amazing mother. What a wonderful blessing both of you are to this world. So many people can learn from the two of you! It is unfortunate that, as humans, we have allowed so much judgement and criticism to destroy our integrity and impede our ability to respect each other's individuality.
people like this make me happy to be alive. with hearts and minds so open. thank you for reminding me that the world is in fact not a cesspool of ignorance and evil.
Honestly, I don't even know you, I've only watched like two videos on this channel, but I feel really, really happy to know that you have a nice family to support you. You seem to be such a nice person. You really deserve it. 🌸
I'm, like, two years late but what an amazing mum. She seems to be so hard on herself at times during this video. I hope she realises how great of a parent she is
The fact that she beats her self up and wants to apologize for her “mistakes” makes me so sad. She went above and beyond to help and was a better parents than so many people dealing with this issue ❤️
WOW this was soo amazing and real. Very honest, loving it made me cry but i am glad you shared this about your wonderful caring mother. Thank you Love Nick
I am in awe as I was of my own Mum in her expression of the purest unconditional love for her child. If our world had more Mothers such as yourself & mine(of course when she was alive) this world would be so different in terms of understanding, compassion & respect for our singular differences if that is what they really are. I admire your courage to share such a soul baring moment of truth not only for "your clip on bear Chella" but for the world to view & possibly judge without understanding "you are what hero's, role models & mentors are made of!" Thank you Mrs. Mama Bear I need to go dry my teary eyes now...Eden
i dont usually watch emotional videos like this but i couldnt help it...your mother is beautiful inside and out and she is a gem and im so happy that she was there for you since not everyone has parents so accepting so thanks for this video chella. its opened my eyes more than imaginable.
I just tried searching up how to swear in sign language to my mum and now some how I got here and now all I wanna do is hug her. THIS IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IVE EVER SEEN 😭😭😭😭
I was ugly crying halfway through this. I felt this. She is amazing. She is so open to everything and willing to accept and love. Did not expect to feel this much over this video I stumbled online. Sending incredible amount of love.
This struct something deep within my being. A wad of emotion came barreling through the moment your mother expressed the missed oppression to open up to a dialogue about your identity to facilitate your sense of self and place in this world. I’m doing that now, for my own self, my mom recently passed and I can’t help but to feel her own regret for not being educated enough to assist my own sense of self to a degree that I felt comfortable in this world. This is incredibly healing for me to watch, to feel the resonance of your mother’s loving heart. All I can say is, thank you..for being you. 🌹
I plan to become a teacher someday, and this is something I want to teach to my future students. This is something the new kids of or generation need to understand and accept. We need to live in a society where when these conversations come up, it’ll be like talking about the weather. Where it’s comfortable and understandable for everyone. We need not only a smarter generation, but one that is kind and open-minded. Bless this mom, she rules!
You have such a wonderful and understanding mom. I'm so happy for you, I wish every trans ppl parents were as understanding and empathetic and loving to their child as yours. Thank you for sharing your experience, it teaches us all that it is possible to have parents like yours 💗
i watched this years ago when i discovered your channel, when i realize that i have been struggling with my sexuality. but chella, your mom and you, make me believe somehow that the world would be a better place for me. you are amazing. thankyou for sharing the most vulnerable version of you, thankyou for being you.
My mom never forgave herself for the things she said to me when I was outed as gay by my sister.. and she was literally the perfect mom up until 3 weeks ago when she died. I never thought about what she said, I only loved her for the love and support she gave me throughout my life. You're mom is awesome, hopefully she will forgive herself.
I just want to cry. I'm 17 now and only just being able to figure out who I am. My mom doesn't understand why I'm bi/pan. She got mad when I told her I had a girlfriend because she didn't expect me to like girls. I was 13. And for a long time after that I hid my sexuality from her because I thought she'd get mad again. Years later, she understands my sexuality better. Does she like it? No. she's even said she isn't happy with it, but she isn't against it. And I'm honestly more scared to figure myself out more as gender. She believes my friends in my old town who were able to figure out their identities changed me. She believes the LGBT community changed me and made me not what she used to know. And I thought so too. I thought, my friends, my trans friends made me question my entire life. And I blamed them, I was mean to them. I got mad at them....I told my mom I wanted to shop in the boys section and she got mad and asked "so you're trans now!?" I cried. When we go clothes shopping, I hate it. The clothes don't fit right. It's all crop tops and lots of holes that expose my skin. She finally let me buy one thing from the boys section and I cried because I bought a tee shirt and it felt so right. I wish my mom was more understanding and open to learn about the things I am part of. I want her to see a side of me, that I've hid away from her. But she doesn't want to. And it....it frustrates me. I want her to come to pride with me. She refuses. So I went with my best friend and his bf.
I'm so sorry your mother is like that. Talk to her seriously and explain what it hurts you. Show her this video. If this doesn't work, just try to meet people who are supportive and open minded and be with them. Just never hide who you are. Things get better, I promise❤️ and sorry for my bad english haha
@CrypticSprite R Hello my dear👋 I've just red what you have written 2 years ago. You were 17 back then. Now you are about 19 maybe 20 and I'm thinking about you. How are you doing since then? Are you ok? Are things a bit better between you and your mom? I hope you are doing well, have found your path with support of your family.... It breaks my heart to know that you had maybe still have hard times. I wish I could do more for you. I have this strong wish to hold you and tell you that everything is going to be ok.... Nobody should go through hard times alone. Especially kids. I'm a 48 years old Mom. My son turns 13 in September this year (2020). And when I'm thinking about him I can't imagine to leave him alone in such important times like the teenage years.... These times when you are still finding yourself....My son has me always in his back and I wish you could have your mom on your back. Don't give up. Try to speak to her. Again. Oh god, I wish every parents on earth had the strength to stand up for their kids. No matter what. Dear Cryptic, I want you to know, here is ME who CARES ABOUT YOU even I don't know you. I send you all my love, my best wishes and support. I send you my love, kisses and big Mom-hugs from 🇩🇪/ 🇹🇷 , BI
Wow... I have such a similar experience. I'm 17 now, too, assigned female at birth, and only just starting to figure out my gender. I came out as bi/pan to my mom when I was 12, and we got into a huge fight because she also thought that my gay friends or the LGBT community had changed me. When I was around that age, she sat me down at a cafe and showed me a video about how trans people are delusional. Even though she now says she doesn't think there's anything wrong with being gay, she still thinks that it's a fad, and is still very transphobic. Fortunately, I'm lucky enough to have an accepting community of queer friends in NYC who helped me not internalize too much transphobia, but I still suppressed confusion towards my gender until now because part of me thought I was just fooling myself, or doing this for attention. That part is my mom's voice. You're 5 years ahead of me. I wonder where you're at, and I really hope you're happy. Maybe you've come out as GNC or even started hormones; maybe you've found that you're not gnc or that you don't like labels at all. Whatever it is, that's okay. Just be your own representation, as Chella Man says. Do give an update if you can. :))
This is beautiful!! You are so lucky to have an understanding and selfless, loving mum~ you and her inspire me to become a good mommy to my future children one day, as I have decided since childhood to be a mom that loves their kid no matter who they want to be. Thank you both ♡♡
It's so powerfull and mature, not many parents can climb down something so t's definetly been hard but yyou can see tthis in a video how much she care about you,and just want the best for you.
This was very touching. I follow your stuff on instagram and on youtube. You are so great! This touched me so much. I always watch this and I start the video from 5:52 until the end and I close my eyes and pretend it is my mother telling me these words. She doesn't accept me. She pretends she does. I like girls. I always liked girls since I knew what love meant. She can't accept it. She pretends it, only just because she thinks I might do something to my health. This makes me hope that one day my mother can accept and love me for me. Thank you for this Chella. Much love to you and your beautiful family. Keep doing what you do. I look up to you. xx
Nazrin Alimammadova hello I'm sorry to hear that. I hope in those 9 months something has changed but if it's not don't be afraid of communication with her tell her how you feel this will help you and your mom to express the feelings that you've been hiding from each other. I wish you the best and one day you can be 100% free .
Bless you for all the courage you’ve had. Thank you for sharing this. What a beautiful and informative video. I have mad respect for you. Love from London. Best wishes Hana xx
This was so raw. You are very lucky. Life has been great to you even through hardships. You always had the support and understanding that for someone with gender identity crisis would need. A lovely story. 💖
This video is so genuinely truthful that it made me cry omg like such an open parent willing to comprehend and really learn to accept their child for who they are, so many parents can be really ignorant about what they say to their kid when they dress in another’s gender clothing that they don’t know that their hurting their own kids feelings that could potentially make their kids close themselves off in the future. This video is so sweet and just so beautiful it’s an art it’s aesthetically pleasing to watch and to anyone that’s feeling lost and alone just know that it’s ok you don’t have to know who you are at the moment because the only thing that matter now is the present and the loving friends and family you have around you. Have a nice day if you read this all the way to the end (my bird also says hi)
Your mum is amazing.
Kovu is a unicorn Exactly
You're amazing ;')
Really-
I love you ♡
Kovuuuuuuuuuuu
Hii kovu i love your vids
damn kovu!!
I wish all people of trans experience had such a loving parent.
:,) just cried out the sheer beauty of this video but i mean i think we all did
gisell gonzalez nope.
MattSkylar no one cares
Liliane Castillo You cared enough to respond, Trigglypuff
MattSkylar lol, true😊
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Your mom is such a pure hearted person, bless her soul!
I talked to my parents about how unfair I think it is that we aren't taught about gender identity and expression in school at dinner today, and explained the differences between sexuality and gender to them (because so many people simply don't know that there is a difference at all), and then we watched this video and we all teared up together. You're so beautiful Chella, thank you for sharing ♥️
thank you for commenting THIS IS SO SWEET!! i'm honored you feel this way, and so so happy the video had this effect on you and your family
I live in Connecticut, and elementary and kindergarten teachers are actually taught now to teach kids about gender expression
holy fuck 666 likes
I was sobbing by the end. So pure
Emily Dean 🖐me too!
Me too😔
me too :(
She’s so well spoken
You have such an amazing mother. So kind and so beautiful. This made me tear up.
oh man that was really nicely done, and wow. you really did win the family lottery
The amount of unconditional love she has for her child is so pure :')
this was beautiful, i started crying halfway. This is so real and beautiful and i wish my parents were the same way. You are so lucky to have such a fantastic mom, thank you for sharing.
sahco unrelated but I love ur art
As a closet non binary person knowing that there are mothers like yours that actually exist gives me so much hope. Thank you, to both you and her for sharing such powerful stories. I can't even put into words how powerful this video was for me. For the few minutes I was watching this, everything felt possible.
This is amazing and exactly how I wanted this video to come across. Thank you for sharing
What's a non binary person??
@@zjuriel7510 non-binary person/people (sorry im from the baguette contry english is hard) identifies as neither a boy or a girl or both or anything that is not completly girl/boy on the gender spectrum. I encourage you to do some research its verry interesting and its a subject that is not talked enought. Peoples assume tjat theres only girl and boys bot no some peoples are NB
@@keiyhval6872 OOOOOOOOOOH. Thank you for taking the time to answer my question and putting some light on this community for me and I assure you that I will study more about this community.
@@zjuriel7510 you waited one year for that i had to tell you lol
Such a lovely lovely mom XOXO you are so loving and so empathetic you are truly a gift from God XOXO
Wow Chella, that was really beautiful.
this is such a great video why is it not going viral
Your mum is an angel!!!!!!!!!!
Wow, what a blessing to have her as a mother.
What beautiful human beings. My gosh. Amazing.
I MIGHT SHOW THIS TO MY PARENTS TO COME OUT. Your mum is amazing.
just out of curiosity, did you ? i wish you the best.
anna lena I did :))
Jude congratulations, i'm so proud of you!
Jude did it go okay??
Congratulations, I'm so proud of you, you are so strong! 😊
😭😭 very beautiful and enlighting, thank you very much for sharing
the fact that your mom speaks on this subject so openly and kindly feels so rare and mindblowing. extremely touching video
Her expression of everything really made me cry. Her expressing how she loves you in any way that you would come hit me like a ton of bricks and I started crying. By the end of this video I was in tears. I truly wish my mom would accept this from me. When I came out in 2014 she shrugged it off and didn’t take it seriously and ever since then I not once brought it up because I found it to be no use. I’m still trying to accept that myself, or at least be the person my mom wants me to be but also have the real side of myself as somewhere safe to be, even if she won’t accept it. I wish she would, and I wish she would have taken me seriously, because I haven’t changed from knowing that I’m indeed trans male.
Videos like these give me some form of hope and emotional support that I don’t necessarily have. It’s sweet and touching.
What a beautiful video. What an amazing mother. What a wonderful blessing both of you are to this world. So many people can learn from the two of you! It is unfortunate that, as humans, we have allowed so much judgement and criticism to destroy our integrity and impede our ability to respect each other's individuality.
You can actually feel the love throughout this whole video. I'm not ashamed to say I'm crying out of love I feel for the both of you
people like this make me happy to be alive. with hearts and minds so open. thank you for reminding me that the world is in fact not a cesspool of ignorance and evil.
That's one hell of an amazing mother
Honestly, I don't even know you, I've only watched like two videos on this channel, but I feel really, really happy to know that you have a nice family to support you. You seem to be such a nice person. You really deserve it. 🌸
I'm, like, two years late but what an amazing mum. She seems to be so hard on herself at times during this video. I hope she realises how great of a parent she is
this is literally flawless from start to finish...especially the ending haha fabulous touch. your mother seems wonderful
I love this!
I love your mum!
This made me so happy and so sad at the same time. I love my mom but she will never be like this.
Your mom is absolutely amazing, you’re so lucky.
I've been sobbing through all this. This is so beautiful and so important
she seems so nice
The fact that she beats her self up and wants to apologize for her “mistakes” makes me so sad. She went above and beyond to help and was a better parents than so many people dealing with this issue ❤️
best mom award
WOW this was soo amazing and real. Very honest, loving it made me cry but i am glad you shared this about your wonderful caring mother. Thank you Love Nick
i feel this mothers pain and happiness at the same time. Chella, you are forever in everyone’s hearts
Wow, this is amazing...wish my parents were like your mother, she is so good and have a really pure soul, you are really so lucky.
I see why you are the soft spoken young adult today. You and your siblings are so fortunate to be raised by this mother.
I am in awe as I was of my own Mum in her expression of the purest unconditional love for her child. If our world had more Mothers such as yourself & mine(of course when she was alive) this world would be so different in terms of understanding, compassion & respect for our singular differences if that is what they really are. I admire your courage to share such a soul baring moment of truth not only for "your clip on bear Chella" but for the world to view & possibly judge without understanding "you are what hero's, role models & mentors are made of!" Thank you Mrs. Mama Bear I need to go dry my teary eyes now...Eden
I am at a loss of words because this is just so beautiful. Your mother is amazing, truly amazing.
i wish my mom could accept and understand me just like how your mom accepted and understood you completely with open arms.
The most moving video I have ever watched. Thank you, mumma Chella, for opening your heart for us to see. This is so, so beautiful. Thank you.
i dont usually watch emotional videos like this but i couldnt help it...your mother is beautiful inside and out and she is a gem and im so happy that she was there for you since not everyone has parents so accepting so thanks for this video chella. its opened my eyes more than imaginable.
This is absolutely beautiful. You are so lucky to have a mom who loves you that much. I am that lucky too.
You are blessed with your mom and your mom is blessed for the beautiful baby that she had
I just tried searching up how to swear in sign language to my mum and now some how I got here and now all I wanna do is hug her. THIS IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IVE EVER SEEN 😭😭😭😭
I was ugly crying halfway through this. I felt this. She is amazing. She is so open to everything and willing to accept and love. Did not expect to feel this much over this video I stumbled online. Sending incredible amount of love.
Wow this is so touching. I tear up a bit. Your mum is so precious.
I had the chills and cried and respect your mother so much and I love and thank you so much for this.
I got choked up, your mom is an amazing and inspiring person. I only wish my own could be this accepting.
I love this
Wow your mom is amazing. I wish I had such a loving parent
This struct something deep within my being. A wad of emotion came barreling through the moment your mother expressed the missed oppression to open up to a dialogue about your identity to facilitate your sense of self and place in this world. I’m doing that now, for my own self, my mom recently passed and I can’t help but to feel her own regret for not being educated enough to assist my own sense of self to a degree that I felt comfortable in this world. This is incredibly healing for me to watch, to feel the resonance of your mother’s loving heart. All I can say is, thank you..for being you. 🌹
Your mom is a beautiful person! I can not describe in words how precious this video is. Thank you for sharing.
I plan to become a teacher someday, and this is something I want to teach to my future students. This is something the new kids of or generation need to understand and accept. We need to live in a society where when these conversations come up, it’ll be like talking about the weather. Where it’s comfortable and understandable for everyone. We need not only a smarter generation, but one that is kind and open-minded. Bless this mom, she rules!
your mother is so supportive and kind and im so happy you have sweet people like her in your life :') 💖
this made me cry, your mum is an amazing human x
I'm actually crying it's so beautiful and refreshing to hear this honest love from a parent
This is so raw and beautiful. You two are so lucky to have each other.
your mom is a true angel ✨🖤
You have such a wonderful and understanding mom. I'm so happy for you, I wish every trans ppl parents were as understanding and empathetic and loving to their child as yours. Thank you for sharing your experience, it teaches us all that it is possible to have parents like yours 💗
i can't stop crying now.. this is so beautiful, i wish every mom was like yours! this is so important. thank you. love from Brazil!
She is preciously understanding and open minded oh my gosh Chella she is amazing
Oh my god. I love this. I wanna cry.
The end made me cry😭 This is so beautiful and amazing I wish more parents were like this💗
All I did was cry. It was beautiful and intimate just like a mother's love for her child. Thank you for sharing with us.
I have no words... This was si beautiful. I've allready cried today, so I honestly didn't have any tears to shed. It was just so captivating
I cried so hard. That was really beautiful and raw. Thank you for sharing something so personal.
Watched and commenting in September 2018. This video deserves to be shared on TIFF (Toronto International Film Festival)!
i watched this years ago when i discovered your channel, when i realize that i have been struggling with my sexuality. but chella, your mom and you, make me believe somehow that the world would be a better place for me.
you are amazing. thankyou for sharing the most vulnerable version of you, thankyou for being you.
You are so blessed to have such a loving and understanding mother. She is great and so are you Chella
I'm not easily brought to tears. But in this I found myself crying...
Your life, your progress, your mom, your dad, your family, MaryV🌹 = art
I wish there were more parents that open minded, accepting and supportive.
From the bottom of my heart,thank you so very much for sharing.. A mom's thoughts..
My mom never forgave herself for the things she said to me when I was outed as gay by my sister.. and she was literally the perfect mom up until 3 weeks ago when she died. I never thought about what she said, I only loved her for the love and support she gave me throughout my life. You're mom is awesome, hopefully she will forgive herself.
I just want to cry. I'm 17 now and only just being able to figure out who I am. My mom doesn't understand why I'm bi/pan. She got mad when I told her I had a girlfriend because she didn't expect me to like girls. I was 13. And for a long time after that I hid my sexuality from her because I thought she'd get mad again. Years later, she understands my sexuality better. Does she like it? No. she's even said she isn't happy with it, but she isn't against it. And I'm honestly more scared to figure myself out more as gender. She believes my friends in my old town who were able to figure out their identities changed me. She believes the LGBT community changed me and made me not what she used to know. And I thought so too. I thought, my friends, my trans friends made me question my entire life. And I blamed them, I was mean to them. I got mad at them....I told my mom I wanted to shop in the boys section and she got mad and asked "so you're trans now!?" I cried. When we go clothes shopping, I hate it. The clothes don't fit right. It's all crop tops and lots of holes that expose my skin. She finally let me buy one thing from the boys section and I cried because I bought a tee shirt and it felt so right. I wish my mom was more understanding and open to learn about the things I am part of. I want her to see a side of me, that I've hid away from her. But she doesn't want to. And it....it frustrates me. I want her to come to pride with me. She refuses. So I went with my best friend and his bf.
CrypticSprite R I hope u are doing all right.
i hope you're alright
I'm so sorry your mother is like that. Talk to her seriously and explain what it hurts you. Show her this video. If this doesn't work, just try to meet people who are supportive and open minded and be with them. Just never hide who you are. Things get better, I promise❤️ and sorry for my bad english haha
@CrypticSprite R
Hello my dear👋
I've just red what you have written 2 years ago. You were 17 back then. Now you are about 19 maybe 20 and I'm thinking about you. How are you doing since then? Are you ok? Are things a bit better between you and your mom? I hope you are doing well, have found your path with support of your family....
It breaks my heart to know that you had maybe still have hard times.
I wish I could do more for you. I have this strong wish to hold you and tell you that everything is going to be ok....
Nobody should go through hard times alone. Especially kids.
I'm a 48 years old Mom. My son turns 13 in September this year (2020). And when I'm thinking about him I can't imagine to leave him alone in such important times like the teenage years.... These times when you are still finding yourself....My son has me always in his back and I wish you could have your mom on your back. Don't give up. Try to speak to her. Again.
Oh god, I wish every parents on earth had the strength to stand up for their kids. No matter what.
Dear Cryptic, I want you to know, here is ME who CARES ABOUT YOU even I don't know you. I send you all my love, my best wishes and support. I send you my love, kisses and big Mom-hugs from 🇩🇪/ 🇹🇷 ,
BI
Wow... I have such a similar experience. I'm 17 now, too, assigned female at birth, and only just starting to figure out my gender. I came out as bi/pan to my mom when I was 12, and we got into a huge fight because she also thought that my gay friends or the LGBT community had changed me. When I was around that age, she sat me down at a cafe and showed me a video about how trans people are delusional. Even though she now says she doesn't think there's anything wrong with being gay, she still thinks that it's a fad, and is still very transphobic. Fortunately, I'm lucky enough to have an accepting community of queer friends in NYC who helped me not internalize too much transphobia, but I still suppressed confusion towards my gender until now because part of me thought I was just fooling myself, or doing this for attention. That part is my mom's voice.
You're 5 years ahead of me. I wonder where you're at, and I really hope you're happy. Maybe you've come out as GNC or even started hormones; maybe you've found that you're not gnc or that you don't like labels at all. Whatever it is, that's okay. Just be your own representation, as Chella Man says. Do give an update if you can. :))
This is beautiful!! You are so lucky to have an understanding and selfless, loving mum~ you and her inspire me to become a good mommy to my future children one day, as I have decided since childhood to be a mom that loves their kid no matter who they want to be. Thank you both ♡♡
you’re so lucky to have someone who understands you.
It's so powerfull and mature, not many parents can climb down something so t's definetly been hard but yyou can see tthis in a video how much she care about you,and just want the best for you.
This was tooo cute!!! ❤️ I wish I could give your mom a hug! You’re lucky to have such an amazing mother! 😊
i wish my mom cared enough. this is beautiful, bless her
this is still one of the most inspiring and important videos out there to me.. everyone needs to see this
This was very touching. I follow your stuff on instagram and on youtube. You are so great! This touched me so much. I always watch this and I start the video from 5:52 until the end and I close my eyes and pretend it is my mother telling me these words. She doesn't accept me. She pretends she does. I like girls. I always liked girls since I knew what love meant. She can't accept it. She pretends it, only just because she thinks I might do something to my health. This makes me hope that one day my mother can accept and love me for me. Thank you for this Chella. Much love to you and your beautiful family. Keep doing what you do. I look up to you. xx
Nazrin Alimammadova hello I'm sorry to hear that. I hope in those 9 months something has changed but if it's not don't be afraid of communication with her tell her how you feel this will help you and your mom to express the feelings that you've been hiding from each other. I wish you the best and one day you can be 100% free .
Bless you for all the courage you’ve had. Thank you for sharing this. What a beautiful and informative video. I have mad respect for you. Love from London.
Best wishes
Hana xx
I didn't expect that I'd cry watching this. But it is gut wrenching for me. Thanks to you, I know it's ok to feel lost..
What a wonderful mum!!!
Wow, this made me tear up. Truly beautiful.
I cried, I wish my mom is more like your mom.
This was so raw. You are very lucky. Life has been great to you even through hardships. You always had the support and understanding that for someone with gender identity crisis would need. A lovely story. 💖
Chella man im not kidding i literally teared up at the end😢😢😭😭😭
this was so beautiful 💞 thank u for sharing this with us
i wish i had this but it makes me happy your mom is here for you.
ok crying i love this i hope your mom and you stay happy forever
God I would give everything and anything to have such parents.
This video is so genuinely truthful that it made me cry omg like such an open parent willing to comprehend and really learn to accept their child for who they are, so many parents can be really ignorant about what they say to their kid when they dress in another’s gender clothing that they don’t know that their hurting their own kids feelings that could potentially make their kids close themselves off in the future. This video is so sweet and just so beautiful it’s an art it’s aesthetically pleasing to watch and to anyone that’s feeling lost and alone just know that it’s ok you don’t have to know who you are at the moment because the only thing that matter now is the present and the loving friends and family you have around you. Have a nice day if you read this all the way to the end (my bird also says hi)
this made me cry, your mom is amazing. i'm so glad she accepted you. i wish i'd found this video sooner
This was perfect. Thank you (and your mom) so so much ❤️✨
I adore her 😍