My Wife Accepts Me As A Man OR Woman | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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HIGH SCHOOL sweethearts Katie and Vince have been a couple for over 11 years and happily married for five. Nine years into their relationship; however, Vince dropped a bombshell: he - or they - were gender fluid. Identifying on some days as Natasha, a woman with long hair and bangs and an expert at makeup application, other days they revert back to the more traditionally male alter ego of Vince, the man that Katie fell in love with. A year ago Natasha went public and now Natasha and Vince enjoy shopping trips and coffee dates together - but it’s only Vince that Katie is physically attracted to.
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You can definitely tell it’s not something she signed up for and is trying her best to be accepting and loving towards her husband.
Absolutely true.
She can accept him for who he is but she doesnt have to be with him, i definitely wouldnt my exboyfriend of 4 yrs came out of the closet over 3 yrs ago and i coulnt see myself with a man like that anymore and it was the best decision i made in my life a yr later i met my fiance and im getting married this yr. my ex bf is now a transexual ive seen him on ig it it will be weird to see him in person i frefer to keep the momeries i have with him as a man.
How in love she is, shines. She wouldn't rather leave her love&that has to take more balls to understand then give up
Im 25 I'm looking older women then me 34 45 age i want marry any country.
Yeah- I got that too. I mean, we live in a society where women are almost taught/conditioned to accept their men no matter what.... like, could you just imagine if she wanted to dress like a man sometimes??? Would her husband stay with her and love him/her anyway???? Ehhhh....
I feel like their friendship is the only thing holding them together. I believe she is unsure about the marriage since Natasha coming out, but is staying in it because she doesn’t want to lose her best friend.
i felt that
Definitely, that and they've been together for several years beforehand as a straight couple. I don't think either of them really know how their lives would be if they separated.
100%
Completely agree 💯 %
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Girl, just leave. This isn’t what u signed up for and you’re not happy.
Erica Ervin I know!! I hope she leaves and finds a better man.
literally none of us know the first thing about their relationship. 😂 y'all saw a few clips of her making a face and have their lives figured out. congrats, Dr. Phil.
Better man , that's a strong comment.
@@bt-jz7ki lol 😆 2right
No ones gonna hate you if you leave. You can’t make yourself miserable just to make someone else happy
I feel bad for Katie. It's written all over her face that she knows her relationship with her husband is almost over. Hugs to you Katie
I also feel bad for the guy, cause his wife doesn't genuinely love him for him
@@declan_joseph if he was upfront about it at the beginning than ya I feel really bad for him, but he didn't give her the chance to even decide if that is what she wanted.. he is actually pretty lucky she is pushing her feelings aside for someone who was not honest in the first place.. so in reality she obviously does love him alot to not just walk away from him for liying about who he was in the first place. So ya she does love him for him ..
@@declan_joseph she does love HIM for HIM. Thats why they are still together. She just doesn't love NATASHA. That's it and thats all.
Exactly. He's just going to keep going deeper into this lifestyle that his wife never agreed to be a part of...
@@declan_joseph thats just it, HE is a man. She loves him for HIM, because hes a man. She doesn't love him for her, cause hes not a her, and shes not attracted to women
You can just see that the wife is unhappy and uncomfortable with this
Poor woman
Makayla Holcom what can say to people that worships thier whims and desires
She's in denial about it.
I couldn't imagine having my husband one day and then not having him the next, and having it keep going like that. It would be exhausting, like being married to 2 different people.
Yes it's obvious.
She seems so much more hurt than she’s letting on
Yea his wife is very uncomfortable with Natasha. She's not even attracted to him that way.
He seems very feminine even when he's not natasha.
I know right and it's not just about the clothes it's his or her whole way of moving and talking.
Rachel Carter 10000%
@@melancholic8566 if your husband would do something like this? Huh are you suspecting of this happening to you?
@@zimazima630 lol, I wanted to see another man's reaction, not suspicious of my husband. 😂
@S W sound pretty scary if u ask me
She doesn't seem to thrilled about Natasha lol
seems to be a recurring theme with these love don't judge videos
ALVA 89 it's so clear from the look on her face
No woman wants a weak man.
Agreed
2:50 /r/watchpeopledieinside
She doesn’t seam too thrilled about Natasha, she seams like she doesn’t really even like her honestly, and that’s kinda sad.
She doesn't seam too thrilled about Natasha
Star Light and it seems Natasha doesn't care
That's what happened if you lied on relationship
Star Light When you put that many years into a relationship, it’s very difficult to walk away. Maybe the positives haven’t outweighed the negatives for her. Plus, many women are more open-minded the older they get. If she feels secure in her relationship, then great. If she isn’t getting her needs met or other significant problems, it’ll erode the marriage away eventually for her.
I wouldnt blame her,that guy is confused about his identity
Her facial expressions at 5:25 speak volumes!! She is NOT happy about this. She is settling. He's getting HIS needs meet. She's NOT!
Sharon V TRUE!!!!
She can leave him any time. Is not like they're bound together or smth. But Vince doesn't need to hide that side of himself. She either accepts it and can live with it or they'll split up sooner or later
@@willv42 It's not easy to just up and leave when you've been married to or in a relationship with someone for so long.
Kílisarcasm they are married. And he changed after they had been together for years and married for years. Kinda hard to just up and leave...
@@xxrhcpnirvanapjxx Y u do dat?
I feel sorry for the wife. She needs to divorce him ASAP sadly.
I wouldn’t be surprised if Katie commits suicide by another 10 years of this in their marriage.
@@CakesAnyone him
Agreed. He says he is not attracted to men but there is no way he is not cheating and taking it up the back
@@johncuervo3019 what part of gender is not equal to sexuality do you not understand?
Yeah totally not cool dumping it on her after marriage. You can tell its just not her thing and thats okay. We cant just change what we are attracted to like our socks.
Girl....go, find a man you love ...
@ that's not what that person said. The wife is clearly unhappy, and she doesn't need to stay with Natasha/Vince just bc it'll make N/V unhappy
@ yes her current partner deserves happiness... you happy? It shouldnt be at the cost of HER happiness though.
i mean she seems to really love him when hes male
She did
Seems like she did.
Nah, but he even dresses feminine now when he’s being a dude
Yeah I noticed this too, that top was way too tight to be a mans top lol
They tried to explain in the video that being genderfluid doesn't include only being strictly male or strictly female. Some days you're somewhere in between, and they're free to express that. It's not trans people's fault if y'all cishets get confused so easily lmao
C Fantini 🤣🤣 you are telling us we get confused easily yet this MAN doesn’t know he is a man🤣🤣🤣 yea okay fam
C Fantini You’re right, it IS confusing to people who can’t relate. Just like men and women don’t fully understand each other. Doesn’t mean people who don’t understand are bad or wrong. And people are also entitled to their own feelings.
@@Tara-id3rk there's a line between being confused and being straight up disrespectful. Many people in the comment section have crossed it.
If you're confused but keep an open mind, instead of going against what's different just because you can't relate, then I have nothing against you.
I feel like he's being selfish. You can see how much this is hurting his wife. I see divorce in their near future.
Me too or he's going to come out as wanting a man next. He's just testing the waters right now getting everyone on board with his soon to be new way of living.
Tray&marley vlogs how is he selfish? It’s not like he forced her to be in a relationship. If she can’t accept him then she has a choice to walk away from the marriage. Being gender fluid isn’t a crime. She’s the one who chose to stay with him he didn’t force her
It’s not an easy thing to come out with either so he wasn’t really being selfish.
To be yourself is not selfishness
I wouldn't necessarily say selfish because it's good he is able to be himself but if he knew prior to them getting together then it was definitely selfish to keep that secret from his girl.
“I’m not physically attracted in any way to Natasha, I’m attracted to men” that says it all doesn’t it?
But she with not beeing sexualy attracted to her and is inlove with the person and not the gender, so it doesn't say anyting. You don't nett sexual attraction for a relationship, becouse this is only about romantic attraction and love.
I feel sorry for her.. poor girl. She looks so unhappy.
All women hate weak progressive men.
Hydra actually no, you can’t use all and speak for everyone. That’s just narcissistic.
Yeah my heart breaks for her 😞
@@ShotoTodoroki-ev6wc I dont think you know what narcissism is.. lol. Talking in absolutes isnt narcissism...
Hydra Vince isn’t weak. And not all women. I don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I feel for her (not “Natasha”) she obviously doesn’t like what her marriage turned into seems like everything is about him
That's the first thing i noticed too, Vince seems really self absorbed.
This marriage is not working and he/she is living their life for the first time. You have to first be happy in your life to make a martiage work
I agree. Vince/Natasha dominated the joint interview sections and when he/she was talking Katie looked uncomfortable and not really happy about it. It seems like it’s all about Vince/Natasha and s/he isn’t even aware of that.
@@Amy75652 she wasnt comfortable and also it is not comfortable with natasha. She is putting up with it. That is not what a partner does.
Vincent Natasha has never lived as his her true self. Experiencing life for the first time is about to get to know yourself again. For me it was their dinamic talking
Bridget Garner yeah it’s sad :(
The wife is clearly miserable and the husband doesn’t give a damn.
He’s selfish get a damn divorce..
She isn’t selfish...? Since when is being yourself selfish??
@@slugmccoy8126 they were together 11 years and he waited that long to come out? That's selfish
@Hello Goodbye ok but 11 years? Really?
@@audreyhartman that could mean they were tryna be selfless tho~ like holding in who you are for years to try to keep you partner happy with what they have? That’d suck
@@slugmccoy8126 he's selfish because his wife is clearly in pain/uncomfortable with the situation and he is completely ignoring it
I feel bad for her. She signed up for a straight relationship. He lied to her and now she’s has to try to fall back in love.
Hannah Louise i agree with you completely, although being gender fluid is what he classifies as, she’s just wants a hetero dude. She should just leave the relationship now, i mean i would. She can still accept it and walk away.
martymakeupartist well yes, but if you’ve been with a somebody that long it’s easier said than done.
She doesn't have to, they could get a divorce. They don't have any children either. She agreed to stay in the marriage, she is not being forced to stay.
Yeah it’s messed up. I fully support trans people but this is deceptive.
No. He didn't lie to her, he finally figured out who he is. They both need to move on from each other and find someone who will love them both genuinely
I don't think they will last. He seems more inclined to be female and one day he might want sex reassignment and she doesn't seems very thrilled about it
Are you saying natascha is transgender in denial
@@bulk_manifesto3624 yes
@@bulk_manifesto3624 no, actually I didn't even think about that. He might be perfectly fine like that or he might change. Have you heard about Rodrigo Alves?
The vast majority of men who crossdress and feel it necessary to sometimes present and behave in what are stereotypical female ways, never transition. We're not women, don't think like women, don't communicate like women, and don't have female desires or see the world like women do. But I guess you can't accept it unless you've experienced it yourself.
I don't see him wanting to get surgery, but I see him probably taking on the Natasha persona more often, up to the point where it probably becomes more of a full-time thing, which is bad for his wife.
Let's see 10 years from now. Divorce.
It will probably happen less than 10 yrs
@@Nadiesca Perhaps. Would love to see a follow up video.
I'll give it less than a year
@ Great job of Justification.
Or less ((
It’s not fair to his wife. This is something she didn’t sign up for.
Next thing hes going to tell her is that hes transitioning into a women
This is worse than a complete transition.
Yup
They'll divorce and then he'll transition 😂😂😂
Did you not get what "genderfluid" means?
If he truly loves her, he won'tdo the transition part, since she is not physically attracted to his female personality.
Lol she is NOT happy
I will die with stress
fr you can literally feel her vibe. she doesn’t seem thrilled whatsoever.
Serena Rios I don’t think I’d call it selfish to be upset that your husband, your high school sweetheart, kept something so life altering from you that it could’ve affected whether you’d’ve married the person or not. I’m pretty sure it is Natasha/Vince who behaved selfishly.
Fanny Mae i agree 100%
No wife in this situation ever is
If my husband who was my high school sweetheart as well, suddenly started doing this, I would also still love him but like the wife in this video, I wouldn't be sexually attracted to him anymore. I'm not attracted to women and even when he was dressed as a guy, I wouldn't be able to switch back and forth like that. She needs to leave the marriage and hopefully, they can stay friends?
Bloody weird why start a relationship when they no how they are I have nothing against people who want to be who they are but feel bad for this girl
I’m getting “The Danish Girl” vibes. Girl, you loved him, love him and will always love him. You’re selling yourself short. You deserve to be with someone who is 100% the gender you’re attracted to. You’re not a lesbian. You never will be. YOU are the ONE making huge sacrifices so your husband can be who HE needs to be DESPITE WHAT YOU NEED. You can support him as a best friend. You need a man who’s just a man. Natasha might need to find someone else to fulfill her needs, too, one day.
I think that's a fair take. I agree.
If she is okay with it then there is no problem.
Great film btw
Just as an aside, the "Danish girl" movie was historically inaccurate, the wife in reality was a lesbian, and the relationship ended because it was illegal, not because she wasn't attracted any more.
Yeah I couldn't cope with this
Good thing you don't have to :)
Maddy Moore they’re allowed to comment this though without your judgement . This is youtube
@@Candicedickinsonllc They can, but it's okay to also let other people live their lives too. I appreciate they can't live this way, so it's great that it isn't their life. This is UA-cam, so people can share their thought, an this was mine. Hope you have a nice day!
@@Candicedickinsonllc No judgement on this person at all for not being able to cope! But it does come off as a big dismissive, so I hope everyone can be open-minded, respectful, and loving towards people who are different than them :)
Maddy Moore toughen up . the world has opinions whether you like it or not
I’m sorry but if my husband started to do this...and especially kept it hidden or closeted for this long I wouldn’t stay. I really hope the wife can be okay long term but she obviously is attracted to her HUSBAND.
I would send my husband to therapy at that point.
@ I think it is sad that they thought putting this out there for the public to see was a good idea.
Exactly! No relationship founded on lies is going to work. If my bf said Day 1 he was gender fluid, I could work with that although I’m not thrilled about the personality light switch... I feel like Natasha and Vince should be the same person just different presentations. But still I could probably be ok with that. But finding out 5 years into dating? Oh hell no. I would be gone.
I'm in transition to become female
He seems like someone who requires 90% of the attention in that relationship that would be really hard.
I‘m pansexual, I would have no problem with this, I‘d think it‘s cool and I‘m the most open minded person I know, - with that being said I feel like (judging by this limited information) that she‘s unhappy in the way her marriage turned out and they seems to be so thrilled to finally be out that they overlooks her emotional pain and wounds that need attending. The minute they came out, they put the weight they carried on their wifes shoulders, without realizing it, or if they did, they are so horrified by the thought of loosing her that they turn a blind eye. I think they need couples counseling asap! whatever they do then is their thing but they desperately need therapy!!
You know it's gonna be a controversial video when the like/dislike ratio is hidden.
But contradicting by enable comment section lol
they have been hiding the dislike like bar for a while now
Well-said ...
This relationship is doomed,. She is not thrilled.
Honestly, she looks very unhappy in the situation. I think she’s holding on because she loves Vince and they’ve shared so much of their growing up lives together but inside she’s not happy with the situation
Since the relationship changed fairly recently, I think Katie is still processing everything. She may decide that she can't handle it anymore and she may stay for the long haul. I just hope whatever they decide they can stay friends. Good luck to all three of you! Be who you are, because who you are is perfect!
If my boyfriend came out as transgender I would break up with him immediately. I'm sorry but I'm attracted to masculine men and I will not stay in an unhappy relationship just to please the other person. Their happiness is not more important than MY happiness. Plus we can always be just friends
We are talking about gender fluid not transitioning from m t f permanently
You are right, cause at the end of the day you may both get hurt.
Good for you. Screw SJWs.
@@asiagrosso2125
It doesnt matter. No woman wants a weak man.
@Funny Dojyaaan I'll let you know theres no such thing as genderfluidity in the latest version of the DSM
hes a coward for not telling her upfront before they got married. you can tell she doesnt like it when he dresses like a woman, she doesnt want to leave because shes been with him for so long
EXACTLY
I'm sad for her....she has been deceived.
Maybe he didn't even know when they first got married. They said they were high school sweethearts, so they were young when they got together and likely got married right out of high school. Maybe he never thought about it until later on. I know if I had gotten married right out of high school, I would have ended up divorcing around age 21/22 because that was when I finally came to terms with my sexuality and realized that I am a lesbian. Some people don't know things right away and it takes time for you to discover who you really are.
@@tracywilliams4294 I dont understand why people (mainly cishets) struggle so hard to comprehend the fact that it takes time to come to terms with your gender/sexuality. I don't think they lied either, they just realised it recently.
The sad thing is when he decides that he 100% comfortable with himself he’ll dump her, she needs to realise that and stop hanging onto a relationship that is doomed to fail
She doesn’t seem so thrilled. He’s cute when he’s a dude 🤣
@Mr. Dig Bick Jesus Christ.
He is such an attractive dude.
If they end (I hope they don't) I hope they still remain great friends. And maybe Vince/Natasha find himself a good bi partner, or a partner whos attracted to cross-dressing.
@Serena Rios Being toxic? On a scale of 1 - 10, how dumb are you? It just to had to be a female making this dumb an argument, emotions before logic.
@Serena Rios uh no Katie could do way better than him
Serena Rios
How is Katie being toxic when she’s doing what she can to keep her husband? She’s going above and beyond, according to what we just saw and the words that came out of his mouth. Do you know them personally and have insight we don’t?
Let her go. She can live her life and you can be Natasha.
This is not gender fluidity. This is split personality..
Lmao 😂
To be diagnosed with dissociative identity disorder (split personality, how you called it) you have to have 2 or more different and disconnected identity states devided by amnesiac barriers.
So nope, they're actually genderfluid.
And you're disrespectful to them and to those with DID
@@cfantini1913 genderfluid is a new fake concept lol
@@Nootlest who are you to claim that? Do you have some kind of authority in those type of matters? Have you been studying the brain or gender identity in the past years?
@@cfantini1913 actually, I have
Why is this on my recommendation
Because it is time for you to live as the true you.
@@davideassis87 i-😔 my full potential is to be YoUrLoCalCrAcKhEaD
@@davideassis87 😆
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I feel like she thinks if she no longer want to be married to Vince, that it means she’s a bad person. It does not.
It’s great that Vince/Natasha is living her best life...
but Katie is not. She deserves to as well.
The relationship is more of a comfort zone high school sweetheart. Katie walk away now..
Thank u! 👏
Honestly he should have told her when they started dating.It feels like betrayal when your lover keeps something like that from you.
It does, but at the same time, the individual has to come to terms with who they are before they can share that with others. Maybe Vince needed that time to figure out who they are and what they want within themselves before bringing it to the light.
oge Eneje it’s obviously not something that’s easy to discuss??? especially in a society where being anything but a set gender is looked at as taboo
Hard to know where the line is, right?
oge Eneje I agree with you but, maybe Vince did not think of Natasha or becoming gender fluid or anything like that
Autogynephiles trap their longstanding female partners. They never tell the wife until much later in.
i see a divorce in the future...
Richierich Palmer Yea and they don’t have kids yet. I bet more issues will come up when she wants to get pregnant.
Not being physically attracted to your partner is the death of a relationship. She wants to say "I love him for what's on the inside" but you need both for it to work. Divorce
Not really.
@@nimue2059 it's different if you're not physically attracted to someone because of aging or because they got in an accident or something like that but if it's them changing their whole identity it matters to most people
Guess you have never heard of a romantic yet non-sexual relationship before. Some people arent that into sex.
Im a trans woman and genderfluid is slightly confusing to even me....cause it just sounds like cross dressing
"It's changed for the better"?.... how when she appears so unhappy.. and she even said she wished it was like it was before... he will next be wanting to be with men or full blown female.. I see it coming.. to each their own... just wouldn't be me. I would feel cheated and if my husband is gone.
Transsexuals are still attracted to the gender they were attracted to before the transition. They don't change in that aspect.
God, so much misunderstanding of transgenderism in your comment 😱
@@cfantini1913 omg, stop replaying for every comment. i can understand that you want to fight for trans people but that's not a place for it...damn
Vince is gonna come out as bisexual soon.
I THINK HOMOSEXUAL
Termitater 2.0 yeah, Vince is def not straight.
no. he's a thing called AGP - autogynephilia. A man who is sexually aroused at the thought of him being a woman - notice how he kisses himself in the mirror and always dresses very feminine? it's a sexual kink that he's living
@@Alecto44811 true
Your wife is desperate. Someone who accepts everything isn't accepting, they're desperate to have anything at all no matter what it is.
Also, there is no way Vince is 100% straight. He’s gonna leave her for a guy one day. She seems very unhappy too :(
You are right 👍🏼
No, he’s just in love with himself as a woman.
The wife seems so incredibly unhappy. It's actually quite heartbreaking to watch. I can't help but to feel he is being very selfish. Seems like it's all about him and his happiness, & screw anyone else...including his wife. Just the impression I got. She deserves to be happy just as much as him and she can accept him and Natasha all she wants, but at the end of the day she was lied to & that's completely unfair.
I know. I feel so sad for her. I can't imagine if one day my husband started behaving like he was a woman. It would just be like you were with some person you didn't even know really. I would be completely heartbroken.
I 100% disagree. As individuals they should both be doing what makes them happiest. He is happy as Natasha. It's a birthright to do what makes ourselves happy and most fulfilled. I believe they should separate so that they both can be happy. He has not harmed his wife, he simply is being himself. It's the wife's responsibility to end it when she's ready. You can tell she knows deep in her heart that's coming. They both deserve to be themselves.
@@jesussaves6625 Imagine how heartbroken they would feel for feeling like they lived in a world unsafe enough to come out as gender fluid, or even trans. I bet it's even more heartbreaking for the person living it.
Lol puting a wig and make up on does not make you a woman, just a guy with a wig and a make up on
This seems more of an identity crisis than a gender thing. Their family member hit it on the nose - “two different personalities.” I see so much sadness and uncomfortableness from Katie. Her body is literally crawling out of her skin during their interview as Natasha is speaking. It’s hard getting out of a relationship especially if you basically grew up with them (hs sweethearts) but don’t waste your life being trapped in something just because you have history together.
After watching, what the hell ‘My Wife accepting me as a Man or Woman’. No....she is not, she is just sticking by the love she had for HIM. I hope the wife move on and find her happiness
"Love doesnt judge"......but he judges those that dont agree with him....
.....so in order to love someone, u have to agree with everything they do? And if u dont, u dont love them?
exactly
@HAMMER don't tell them that, they'll start to have a panic attack
Exactly 👏👏👏
Well said
Don't be surprised if she leaves you for a real man. Its not fair for you too do that to her.
She's trying so hard to please him it's painful to watch... He's so selfish.
Lol she is not happy; don’t even try to tell me she’s happy.
This is going to give me trust issue
Mick James, I still have trust issues to this very day. In 1988 I was engaged to a great guy, turns out he wore women's clothes too. He's now a woman.
Same..i think id feel a little betrayed hurt and insecure. Perhaps thats just me with my own insecurities
Just watching Vince for a few minutes based on his words and actions it's clear vince is a seriously narcissistic self absorbed control freak.
His wife already appears to be pretty checked out emotionally she's just going through the motions trying to sort out all this new weirdness. She will leave him in a year or less.
Lmao the fact that you're "diagnosing" someone just after watching a 9 minute edited video of them already tells me that you're not a professional
C Fantini Lol he spent the whole video talking about himself and his happiness yet is in denial about his relationship with his wife, the woman who he claims to love but doesn’t care how deeply unhappy she is
@@piratesfan123 Piratesfan123 again, you only watched a 9 minute, specifically edited video. You can't really believe you know everything about them and their relationship, can you?
You don't have enough information to assume whether they love and care for their wife or not, just like you can't believe you know everything that's going on in the wife's head.
Clearly, the center of this video is Vince/Natasha, so the producers asked questions mainly about them, rather than the wife.
If someone is interviewing you and asking you about yourself, you are going to speak about yourself, your happiness etc. Or do you think that's weird? I mean, you don't have to be a narcissist to do that.
Or maybe they did speak more of the wife, but then the producers cut it out, since they need to make a short video and it's more likely that Vince/Natasha's story will get people to watch and engage in the comment section.
What I'm trying to convey is that it's presumptious to think that you already know everything about their relationship dynamics just by watching this video.
@ people think they're smart when they're actually oblivious 😳
I don’t think he’s being selfish for being himself, everyone deserves to be happy. Which is why I think it would be best for them to separate. You can tell his wife is unhappy and that’s not fair to her, just because you’ve been together for a long time doesn’t mean you have to stay together.
Yeah, I agree.
Codependency at its best 🤦🏻♀️ she needs therapy, and a divorce. Living unhappy day to day is like dying slowly. Girl move on ✌🏻
Edit: Codependency creates stress and leads to painful emotions. Shame and low self-esteem create anxiety and fear about being judged, rejected or abandoned; making mistakes; being a failure; feeling trapped by being close or being alone.
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Bruh... Nope! I'll definitely fall out of love if my husband ends up like this. Yikes
He should have mentioned this to her before they got married. This is something major that he shouldn't have kept secret. She's clearly struggling with accepting this. I feel so bad for them.
Her Face when he said "You Gotta Look Flawless" Says it all....
Sigh
1) he DEFINITELY likes men too 🙄. That’s his next big reveal to his wife, guaranteed .
2) she need to move on out of this relationship. You can tell she just doesn’t want to lose her best friend. That would be so scary to be in that life situation, so I don’t blame her. You can tell she’s uncomfortable with this. Also, as a straight woman this HAS to be affecting her sex life....how could you still get the same level of turned on by your husband ? 🤔 I’d be drier than the Sahara
I AGREE
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I agree with you about the sex life.. that will feel so weird...
I know. But , I am dating one too but it's so tough. I keep doubting my self worth ! I think it's hard
Good luck to them. Hopefully when she has something that she needs backup with he will be there for her. Its often a thing that one side of a relationship is more the limelight type. Good for them aslong as while the camera is off they are happy. I watched a doco about a couple into swinging. What i got out of this was a wife that went along with her husbands clearly cheating heart. He was involved and she dealt with the introductions and being a good host. Far from a couple genuinely into swinging.
You can literally see it in the wife's face shes not happy with it. She deserves to be happy in my opinion
Natasha *being extremely flamboyant* "My wife is totally fine with this."
Wife: *😒yeah, this is great*
If my husband decided he wanted to dress and act like a woman I would have to let him go so he can get what he really wants...another man.
Gender has nothing to do with sexuality. You're confusing the two because often transmen will date women & transwomen will date men but not always.
hahHahahHhaa TRUTH 💯💯
This breaks my heart. She’s devastated. She loves her husband but so obviously hates Natasha.
If “Truly” was truly a non bias channel they would document videos of de-transitioners as well, I feel like their voices need to be heard too, there’s a tremendous amount of negative backlash and judgement from a certain community for those people who do not necessarily want to say anything negative about transitioning but simply want to encourage proper evaluation. But Truly will never go against its own agenda.
1 % of this people will detrans and without operations and hormons there is no problem doing it.
You know what's really bizarre about this? That they've been together for YEARS, and he doesn't already know if she likes chili paste in her ramen?! HOW?
He didn’t ask if she liked it he asked if she wanted it... I like hot sauce on my chicken but that doesn’t mean I want hot sauce on my chicken everytime I eat it
cause he is focus only for himself, she is just a background
I'm a man but also a male. I hope someone, someday will accept me despite my duality.
Davi de Assis oh shut up
As long as you are not also a dude or a guy I can overlook these revelations.
@@ripabigfatoneforme Get out of here with your hombrephobia!
@@boldfaith765 I'm a man, a male, a guy, a dude and a hombre... with a penis!
Yeah, that's right! Take it or leave it! Ç_Ç
I accept you
Perfect example of mental issues. Delusional. Not completely there. Idk i just don’t think its okay.
I am so happy for him that he could accept and love himself on his journey but I do feel really bad for his wife as he clearly that she is not happy at all , if he truly loves her he needs to let her go; she is trying her best to be supportive of her husband but she is sacrificing her own happiness .
Must be uncomfortable when "Natasha" is looking down at Katie with "sexy Vince eyes" on the couch while dressed as a woman and Katie doesn't want a woman, she wants a man, her husband. Bless your strength. Sending positive vibes!
So he's a cross dresser/New Age Name as Gender Fluid. Yay okay!
I see you didn't get it huh 🤔
She married a man not a in between person !!! I would divorce him !!! If he wants to live that life style let him 🙄🙄🙄
This is very relatable to my life. My dad came out as transgender 3 years and my parents are still married after 25 plus years. Its been difficult to handle and in all honesty I have never really told anyone about it because I still am having a difficult time with it.
Can we go back to 2010 when times were simpler
Yeah Vince would just be a cross dresser & his poor wife wouldn't get pushed to accept him doing it all the time, or staying in an unfulfilling unhappy relationship.
No
Amen
Everybody shaming him for not coming out right and telling her in the beginning... They've been dating since high school. this is kind of one example of many reasons why people who are so young should not be in such committed relationships. You change so much from the time you are a teenager young adult to your 30s I can't even express how much you change it's insane. Nonetheless.... I don't think this is a relationship that will last. You can read it on her face that this is not what she signed up. I don't think he maliciously planned for his life to take this turn but it's quite clear this most likely will not last forever.
This is just dumb. What women would want to be with a weak guy she said it herself she’s not attracted to “her”
being feminine doesn't make you weak .
Seems like more of a split personality kinda thing.
“Hmmm. No” when he was asked about liking dudes....girlllll he needs to live his true life and you need to live your true life. The fact that she looks unhappy it’s just terrifying.
My first serious relationship, I was tricked into believing it was a heterosexual relationship when he was secretly cross dressing the entire time, among other things... It really broke my heart and still hurts when I reflect on it. Please be honest with your partners because this type of deception is devastating...
This happened to my mum my dad is now transisioned. (it's not an issue to my mum or me she just wishes that my dad told her beforehand since she is straight)
8:43 "I'm out here living my best life" Yeah but honey in an ugly dress and tights?! Really?! Get some taste.
you haven’t seen their other outfits. i know them in real life and their outfits are amazing.
This is kinda abusive. It’s okay to get a divorce on grounds such as this. I hope she knows it’s ok leave
When people say he’s being horrible to her, he shrugs and deletes - it’s a non-issue to him, and that makes me very sad for his wife.
She should have had the option to leave. How selfish the husband is...
I never mind about all of this, i'm an ally to LGBT, but when i see this, is this like 2 split personalities ? I mean, is that categorized as disorder ?
I hope they gonna be okay and love each other... But keep it for precaution...
He’s just in the closet
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It's called love don't judge, but all we do in the comment section is judge haha
45 secs in and the wife said she is not attracted to the dude who plays dress up.... Being a clickbait title, saying she accepts it. SMH clearly not... Trying to make this mental illness mainstream.... This guy needs help.
Vince needs to wear a shirt with a collar. Gift that lippy one to Natasha 😁
Bold Faith 😂😂
Only valid comment on that shirt lol
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This is my exact same thoughts about that shirt. 😆
This poor girl, she feel in love with her cute boyfriend with his frat boy looks and then he drops that on her after their married. She def did not sign up for this, their relationship is all about his 100% happiness and her 50% happiness (at best) . She deserves to be fully totally happy too relationship are about compromise so why is she the only one doing the compromising …
I feel so sorry for his wife . Everyone’s allowed to be who ever they are but being with someone for all those years and not telling them sooner when you trust them and all is just heartbreaking.